Anyone else due in June "06

[qbanmom5]

Hi all!

Andrea R you are so sweet to think of me. We went away this weekend and I am just beat. I have to take the kids to school and then I want to do nothing but sleep. Some of DH's friends want to have a shower for me up here (vs. the one at my dads which is 60 miles away. I offered to help with the invitations and other stuff, but that was really nice of them to think of it.

Well, just wanted you all to know I am doing well and still cooking. Keep up the good work ladies, the end is in sight!

Love you all, Ters

[teresa67]

Mindy,

Thank you so much for your words of encouragment. I am totally mad at those women at Target. I wish I'd been with you. Up until now I've been polite to rude people, but when you hit a certain point where your pretty much miserable 24/7, your just not going to take it anymore. I would have turned around and said....I'M PREGNANT, NOT DEAF....if someone had been with me I'd probably would have added colorful language I'd have to ask God forgiveness for later lol. Don't let it get to you too much, pretty soon you'll have 2 beautiful babies to push into Target and everyone will want to look at them.

[vthompson]

Ters - That is nice that they want to give you a shower. Very sweet!

Andrea R - I also think back to when I thought I was pg and it does seem like a century ago! That is what keeps me going when I feel my worst! Exhaustion - CHECK!! Which seems crazy to me, considering I am not bed rest now, why should I be so tired, I barely do anything all day. It sounds like you had a nice dinner. It is good to get out. I cannot believe the girls in tank tops! I feel old when I see things like that, too because I just don't understand how someone could be dressed like that in cold weather!

Mindy - I am glad that you had such a nice shower and got so much stuff! I could never imagine going 41 weeks...that is absolutely insane! Hopefully, your doctor feels differently! I was laughing out loud about your human to cow comment!

Allison - To only be 80 years old...I was laughing when I read your post!

Steph - Sounds like you are hanging in there with the in laws. Keep it up! It will be over soon! I have also began to feel actual movements, not just kicks. And yes, it is very uncomfortable at times, it just feels like so much pressure.

Lisa - I am glad that you called off today. Keep resting and hopefully, you will feel better.

Daniele - I loved your pics!! You look great!

Felisha - I can't imagine how scary things must have been for you. I am so glad that everyone is doing well and that you had a good shower! I can't wait to see a picture of the nursery.

Sherry - A MILE! THAT IS INSANE!! I cannot imagine walking that much. You better take it easy! Is there anyone else that can pick the boys up?

When DH and I went shopping on Sunday, I bought 2 nursing bras and pjs for the hospital. Motherhood Maternity was having sales on their winter pjs. I figured the hospital will be air conditioned so long sleeves should be ok. Well, I measured in a cup size of E!!! I couldn't believe it! The sales lady told me to buy a cup size up for after the babies are born so I bought F's!!! I still cannot believe it. That is insane!!! I bought the ones without underwire. I am actually wearing one now, it is much more comfortable then underwire, but not as much support, obviously. No underwire won't cause saggy breasts will it?

Check in later!

Valerie

[Tiny Blessings]

Hi everyone. Just wanted to check in. Glad to hear everyone is doing okay, relatively speaking. Baby Blues: I wish I had a good suggestion to help. I wonder if it would help to have something to look forward to every few days....make DH bring home a surprise twice a week? I don't know....I know the days can be long when we approach the end and we need SOMETHING to help our minds and bodies survive this final stretch (no pun intended).

wish I had more time to post, but I've gotta run.....just gulped down my glucose drink and have to get to the dr's office for my appointment. Talk to everyone soon!

Tina

[mommyof4at26]

hi everyone, well so far today it has been interesting,i got my blood checked this morning for antibodies,i get a rhogam shot tomorrow and my doctors appt on friday,today my youngest daughter got her 5yr shots for school. and now i am home back in bed,i have a question, what does it mean when your cervixi is soft? does it mean i will start going into labor soon,or dilate? someone help,im scared its to soon.

[wildkandi]

:throb: hi everyone my name is kandi im 12 weeks due oct 22
with twins my only child is 13 years old can anyone tell me what to expect in the comming months:throb: :kiss: :kiss:

[AndreaR]

GOOD LUCK TINA!

Can I vent about my DH for a minute? I know he is wonderful. He really, really is. He's done EVERYTHING since I got pregnant, well since week 7 when the all-day morning sickness kicked in. He has taken over the food shopping, the laundry, the cleaning (we have someone come in every other week, but he does the every day stuff). He makes sure I'm eating, and he is always looking out to make sure I'm getting enough rest. But........ and I feel so guilty for saying this, but I can't help it..... He's not affectionate enough. And every day, I just want to be held, have my back/feet/anything rubbed. As these days wear on, and I'm feeling more and more uncomfortable, I just want to be pampered and loved. I know he loves me in his own way, but he's not the mushy type. He never has been, and until now, I've been able to accept it. In the past I have mentioned it many times, but now that I'm pregnant, I just don't have it in me to beg. That's what it feels like - I have to beg for affection from my own husband. The worst part is, he is SO affectionate toward our dog!! I know it sounds silly, but when DH comes home from work, he LITERALLY makes out with the dog for a good three minutes. I get a "Hi Honey" from across the room. He doesn't even kiss me good night. Am I wrong to feel this way? I know I should be lucky to have a man that is such a good provider, and I am grateful. I guess I'm asking too much???

sorry for the venting, but it's been on my mind all weekend. thanks.

[AndreaR]

hi everyone, well so far today it has been interesting,i got my blood checked this morning for antibodies,i get a rhogam shot tomorrow and my doctors appt on friday,today my youngest daughter got her 5yr shots for school. and now i am home back in bed,i have a question, what does it mean when your cervixi is soft? does it mean i will start going into labor soon,or dilate? someone help,im scared its to soon.


I googled soft cervix, and this is the first thing that came up:

http://parenting.ivillage.com/pregnancy/plabor/0,,45s6,00.html

I wouldn't worry too much, if your doctor didn't give you any other info. It sounds like you could stay that way for many weeks. In the meantime, make sure you are getting plenty of rest!!

AndreaR

[wildkandi]

hi anyone who reading this the last couple of days i think i felt my babies move but not to sure is it to soon?

[AndreaR]

hi kandi,

congratulations on your twins. that is very exciting. i am not sure if it is too soon to feel the babies move. for me, it was at about week 19. they say that second time moms feel them earlier, so maybe you are feeling them. there are plenty of other mothers on this website who may be able to give you more info.

good luck!
AndreaR

[vthompson]

Kandi - Congrats on your twins!! As for movement, I felt movement around 19-20 weeks. But, I have also heard that 2nd time moms can feel it much earlier then 1st time moms. As for what to expect, I am not going to lie...it has been pretty hard for most us, especially now that we are reaching the finish line. The aches, pains, and exhaustion can really get to you some days. However, it is the absolute best thing that has ever happened to me. I cannot imagine my life without these 2 angels. All I can say is that you really need to listen to your body now more then ever. Get plenty of rest and drink lots of water. Let other people do for you as far as household chores are concerned. Good Luck!

Andrea R - I do not think you are asking too much at all! I completely understand how you feel. We all need some extra loving and attention right now. I guess the only advice I have is to just tell your DH how you feel. I know that you said you just don't have the energy. However, he probably does not really know you feel this way right now. Maybe you could actually set up something where each night he rubs your feet, back, etc. after dinner. Maybe that would be a good start for him. I agree that you shouldn't have to beg, but like I said, he may not even realize your feelings at this point. Make sure if you do talk to him about it, let him know how much you appreciate everything he has been doing...this may help soften him a bit :) I hope this helps, I wish I had more advice for you...

Tina - good luck at your test today!

Check back later...

Valerie

[TMoT]

Hi, All! So good to hear from everyone after what seems like such a long, dry spell (=weekend?)...!

Daniele - LOVE your chubby babies!!!! :-D You look super in your 25-week pic. Can't wait to see the "progress" when you post the new one!!!! (And hope you made it to your appt... ;-))

Lisa, sorry you're in such pain. :-S I feel like I'm cheating being only at 28 weeks and technically not due till July, so I can only imagine your pain and I really, truly feel for you... :aww:

Felisha - Congrats on 30 weeks and surviving all the tornadoes! Sorry about your uti. We are so incredibly sensitive to this stuff now -- it's unbelievable! Great about your shower too and your parents helping out with the nursery. I have been thinking about you all weekend and carrying/raising twins as a single mom... You are a treasure and have all the support/admiration I can send "virtually." I did it with a newborn and a 21-month-old, but (as we already know) this is another thing. :'-) I am with you in spirit, courageous and strong woman. :throb:

Teresa - Checked out the May thread... WHEW! I don't know if it's encouraging or frightening!!!! (!?) YOU just keep those two in there as long as you can, okay? Everything's going to be F-I-N-E. You are so resilient and inspiring. :-D :throb:

Heather - What week is it?! You're right. I numbered all the weeks in my digital calendar so I won't forget. I noticed this with my other pgs -- I can never keep it straight otherwise. :crazy:

Steph, your "thought remarks" to your MIL are hysterical!!!!! You are so right about REALITY. HELLO, Grandma! Of course, that's the beauty of being/becoming grandparents: All the good stuff and NONE of the difficult stuff!!!! Well, WE feel you, Steph! Don't dismay!! :-) ...Moving Babies: I have that already. Whew. Makes so much pressure it almost feels like contractions... Takes my breath away. It usually goes away/they stop the gymnastics when I lay down though... (?)

Val - E-cup. WOW. Impressive!!!! 8-O ...Ya. I'm kinda relieved that we didn't have to do the move this weekend. I just gave up on the idea and was able to relax ultimately. Whew. What are we getting at IKEA?? HA! What we are NOT getting would be easier to say! Lemme see.. Two sofas (one love seat), three desks, six (!!) bookshelves, coffee table, end table, BIG tv/audio-visual, lighting, and all kinds of other "small" stuff too... Needless to say: Major investment. And that doesn't even start on stuff specifically for Babies...!! 8-S

Mindy, I know you're eager to get this pg over with, but your midwife/doc is really right about not inducing... Just my humble opinion... A visit to the May thread will give you the confidence/patience to keep those babies in there as long as possible, I hope. Even 36-week babies seem to be ending up in nicu for at least some time. At this stage, each DAY (not to mention WEEK) in the womb for Babies gives them MORE of what they need, development-wise, to really thrive (and not just "get by" -- or worse, suffer!) when they come out... Again, just my humble opinion, and a lot of this we don't have control over ultimately, anyway. But, if your babies actually stay in there till 41 weeks, you can bet they'll be healthy little/big butter-balls! ...Ask me again in four weeks how I feel about this topic though... ;-) ...Oh, and congrats on cleaning up at your shower! Ya-hoo!!!

Rachel, "soft" cervix means it's starting to get ready for labor, normally. To keep 'em in there, we want "long, hard and closed"... But, even if your cervix is softening, it's still anyone's guess about when the babies will actually come. Guess your docs will keep you posted/monitored. Please ask them about any questions/fears you have -- just to keep your self-confidence up, Sweet Thing. :throb:

Tina: For baby blues, I say "jewelry"!!! LOL Tried the b/f rings thing out on dh and he just laughed with real "finality" - like that was the end of that question. So, I tried a "how 'bout one ring with two stones, then?" which got a more positive/hopeful "grrmmmph".... ;-) ...Hope the gd test went okay...!

Allison, so glad to hear you're doing better. You made me laugh about the tummy-length-from-the-table scenario. Hang in there with the c-section plans. (Same thoughts as I wrote for Mindy...?!?) You just get to play it by ear for a bit longer too, but it's all going to be fine, as you know! xx

Ters, great about the shower by dh's friends! That's SO SWEET!!! Go take your nap, you, rest up and check in with us later. xx

AndreaR, so TRUE about feeling old and fat! (?!) Wah. I do try to "hang" when we go to these music events (you won't catch me standing outside in a tube-top for an hour though LOL!), but I'm feeling more and more ridiculous about it -- depending on the crowd, of course. LOL

...And, AndreaR, about your dh, you won't believe it (I MEAN IT!), but I had a breakdown with my own dh about EXACTLY THIS SUBJECT (=me needing affection) just _yesterday_!!!!!! I swear I could have written your last post myself (and I read it with my jaw hanging open!), except I would have said "since week 8" instead of "7" -- seriously!! ...I know you don't want to "beg" (and that's really the part that hurts most almost, isn't it? -- Can't he just be MORE SENSITIVE TO _YOUR_ PERSONAL NEEDS RIGHT NOW?!?!?!), but it's SO HARD to communicate these feelings because they're so deep and personal. You don't want to hurt him, but you need to be honest -- for your own sake... I understand so totally, I feel your pain. :'-( ...If you'll indulge me for a moment, I'll explain "our" situation to see if it might help you in anyway... Well, when dh and I get in an argument these days, his position is always "I do SO MUCH for you, and you're still complaining" (essentially); or "I try so hard, and you're still not happy"; anyway, something in this vein. He is right about this, so I feel like a real INGRATE when I have additional "quibbles" about him. But, the bottom line is that doing the dishes is NOT the same as giving a foot-rub or a kiss good-night or some kind of AFFECTION... And, I've had this conversation with dh a hundred times now too, but you can't shake the feeling, so, I'm afraid, you also can't avoid having the conversation ONCE AGAIN, right now, to get beyond this period of hurting so much. DON'T BE AFRAID about talking to him, as HARD as it is; and don't feel like, by doing so, that you're not being thankful enough for everything he does (maybe you even need to preface what you say by telling that him that you ARE grateful; however)... My dh tends to fall into the trap of doing what HE thinks I want him to do for me, as opposed to doing what I actually want him to do for me... Then, he spends a lot of time doing LOTS of things, but I'm still left with that sad, empty feeling anyway... :-( Not very "efficient," is it??!? ...Then, though, it's our obligation to be forth-coming about what we want/need from our dh, just so they know and can better focus their energy. ;-) I truly think your dh WANTS to please you. Sometimes, we just have to go out of our way to communicate (even though we don't want to have to do this -- we actually want men to have ESP, don't we?!) just what exactly they can do which will please us MOST.... *sigh* Don't know if this helps at all, but I think, unfortunately (!), that _communicating_ is essential. Even the most sensitive men (and I would put my dh in that category, and yours probably too?), can be real block-heads sometimes, as I've said. They really mean well, though. They just need some good "input" from us... So, chin up, Sweet Thing! Take that Big Step to somehow broach this subject with him (you NEED to for yourself!), and don't worry about it causing you to "break down" emotionally either. You might just need that and/or find it "cleansing" for you and for dh. No matter what, good luck; and remember we're thinking aobut you!!! xx

Kandi, CONGRATS SO MUCH on your twins and feel free to ask anything you're curious about!!!!! It was a bit later when I started feeling the little ones, but don't panic, either way. The moving will definitely come soon at this point!! ;-)

As for me, today I spent almost the WHOLE day in BED! :-D The cleaning lady came and spic-n-spanned the whole place! I'm in LOVE!!! The house hasn't been this clean in WEEKS!!!!! I spent a lot of time playing internet poker (again- I recommend it for entertainment in bed ;-)), and i found the most awesome internet radio station: "living in the past radio" on www.klipradio.com... It's "bad" (to most people) 80s pop music, which really, to me, is "happy" music. Makes it easier to suffer the gas/bloating, aching ribs/crotch, acid-reflux, etc., etc., etc.... ;-)

And about that "mile" business... I was doing it up until now, but don't know how it'll be in a week's time. Getting rather intimidated about the idea, frankly. We'll see if dh and I can work out a plan for it though.... (?!)

Well, nice to hear from everyone, again. Sorry about the LONG post, as usual! Much love to everyone!!!!

[LucasMom]

Sherry-
It's not really about getting it over with...it's about pain and being "normal" again. I have 4 herniated discs in my lower back that I was to get surgery on prior to this pregnancy, and never did.(don't like medicine, doctors,think I can cure myself, etc.:) ). Pregnancy is very painful for me because of this and the fact that I seem to grow very large babies. My first son was induced at 39w 4 d, and he was almost 10 lbs, I only gained 20. Most of that stress was right on my lower back. I don't mean to whine, and I certainly only wish for the biggest, healthiest babies, but we all know that we were not intended to house two children in this body, and so the quicker they get big and healthy. the better! I have an ultrasound this Thursday and the doc is estimating them at over 5 lbs each already, and again, I have only gained 22 lbs right now. Between that, a full time active job a three year old and three flights of steps, I am beat up and tired, and you guys are the only ones I complain to, so sorry for the vent, but 41 weeks sounds like an ETERNITY! I send good hopes and wishes to every mommy who has to endure NICU time, and it makes me thinnkthree times before I wish this was over, trust me, but the sooner I get to 36 weeks, the happier everyone will be! And I just wish Doctors would agree on things every once in a while, instead of all having different stories and opinions. Read around on the boards, and you'll see a host of "truths", ok to go after 34 weeks, induce at 36, 37, 38, 39 weeks, if you are uncomfortable, we'll do it, all kinds of things! What is right? Who knows? I want them to be healthy and come home with me. Each day, week passing makes me prouder and happier, but also more tired and in pain, so catch 22, right!

Enough venting from me!

Mindy

[teresa67]

Mindy,

Your only a few days behind me. I've gained close to 60 pounds so far and I'm to a point I can barely walk. I do sympathize with you. I can't imagine having a hurt back on top of this. Did your dr say he'd let you go to 41 weeks? That's crazy, 37 is considered term for twins, if you have no complications most dr's will let you go 38 weeks, but after that there is concern about your placenta getting old and stress on the twins. I am high risk for several reasons, including my age, the diabetes and the girls being identical with one placenta, I'm having my c section when I turn 36 weeks.
I'm hoping to make it to that goal, but my dr thinks I may go into labor sooner. Just remember were almost there, feel free to vent anytime you want, I have a very understanding ear.

[mommyof4at26]

thank you all so much for the info ,i dont know what id do with out ya luv ya:grouphugg :5pound:

[JacobsMom]

Hi All!

I am so exhausted. My neice was a slavedriver!!! But my house is looking so much better. My front bathroom and kitchen are spotless, and my bedroom is mostly clutter free. We even managed to get one cradle in there before she left Sunday night. We have thrown out about 15 bags of trash - mostly papers, and collected about 12 bags full of clothing for my garage sale. I have a pile of laundry bigger than my dining room table and nearly as high as my head to get busy washing. This is junk that was piled up between my bed and two dressers that line my bedroom wall!! I was able to walk around my bed and lie down like a normal person for the first time in about 4 years. I have been crawling on and off the bed from the foot all this time! I wish I had thought to take before and after photos! I actually have CLOTHES in my two dressers that I can get to now!! I had 15 drawers full of papers and other junk! Well, a couple of small ones actually had socks and old underwear and bras that I don't wear anymore! I am so pathetic!! But at least I'm making progress. I still have one area in the room to sort through, and my hubby has to declutter HIS corner, but it will get done soon. I'm thinking we will have to rearrange the furniture to fit two cradles in there.

On the plus side, we found some maternity and nursing tops that I had bought on clearance over the years in the hopes that I would get pregnant again. All but 1 of them I can wear now!!! :yippee: The other one is long sleeve and it's getting HOT here in Houston! I had even bought a swimsuit on clearance at Motherhood Maternity. Our neighborhood pool opens in May, so hopefully I will be able to swim for a month before the babies come. And best of all, she found a $50 Old Navy gift card that we had gotten for Christmas about 4 years ago and misplaced. I had been just sick over having lost that card, and figured that like a lot of those cards, if you don't use it within a certain time frame, they start charging a fee every month until it zeroes out. Well, I figured that by now, there wasn't anything left on the card, but when we called to check the balance, the entire $50 was still there!!! :woo: I will definately be hitting the end of season clearance sales to stock up for next year!

I went for my third Level II Sonogram last Thursday. I was exactly 29 weeks on that day. My boys were measuring 31 + weeks and weighing in at 3.8 and 3.7 lbs!!!! :eek: That is up from 2.1 and 2.5 just three weeks before! The peri kept calling them "Jumbos". LOL! I'm thinking that if I do go almost full term, I may not be needing any of the Preemie outfits I bought them! They are both positioned head down already, and both were facing away so we didn't get any good face shots. That was a bummer cause I had changed my appt. so my neice could go with me, and then they wouldn't show their cute little faces! Someone told me that babies are supposed to gain about 1/2 lb a week the last trimester. If so, I am on track to deliver 7 1/2 pounders at 37 weeks!!! My son was only 7 lb, 5 oz. at 39 weeks + 1 day!!

I still haven't called my hubby's cousin about doing portraits yet. Just been too busy this last week. But in that massive pile of laundry we sorted, I found a few items that will be perfect to wear for belly shots. One is a short black tank top with a built in bra that I can wear with black slacks with my belly sticking out between. I also found a white sports bra and flowy white long sleeve blouse that I can use. I bought my son a l/s white dress shirt last week and my hubby has one as well. I'd love to get B&W family portraits of us dressed alike. I also have an old fashioned white cotton gown that I would like to get some pregnant pictures of me wearing, and then after the babies are born, do "mommy and me" portraits with the twins and Jacob.

Well, it looks like my shower is going to take place. My friend finally got the invitations done today. They are really cute. She is so creative. The shower is going to be Sunday, April 23. Here is the wording she came up with:

We wished for a girl
but 'twas not what grew...
"a boy" they said,
"well, actually ... TWO!!"

She cracks me up! This is the same girl who I was helping with the flowers who thought my water had broke on her kitchen floor!!

Take care everybody!!

Stacey

[TMoT]

Poor Mindy! :'( I forgot about your back...! So sorry. You must be truly miserable. But I'm sure your docs (and your BODY itself!) won't make you "go" any further than you need to... Luckily. Everything will be fine, poor thing. We're all rooting for you, you know! You're INCREDIBLE! Hang in there!!!! :throb:

Stacey -- REST now!!! SUPER job on the house!!!! Pics would have been cool, but your description is pretty thorough! I can imagine the progress. WOW! And all those "perks"! :yippee: ...Also, INCREDIBLE weights for your babes! You get LOTS of MEDALS for this weekend. Now, just take it easy, please? xx

Lisa, the nursery looks wonderful! You're so ready, it's almost scary isn't it?! :clap: Now just a bit more baking... ;-)

Back to baking for me too. xox

[megzmom]

Okay yes I am a teacher but my brain is hurting this morning. When does the 8th month start? I looked in all my books and magazines because someone asked what month I was in. I get so confused with this 40wk=9mths crap :) just kidding but can someone humor me...

Thanks.

I will post later..

[newmomx2]

Wow everyone has been busy - not sure I can cover everyone...

Felisha - I am so glad you are safe from the weather and that your trip to the hospital ended good...

Mindy - be sure to take good care of yourself especially with that back...

Stacey - All I can say is WOW, I have been cleaning the house but what you did sounds more like a marathon of cleaning, it must feel so good to see the progress. All your picture ideas are awesome (I don't have any belly shots...DH just hasn't taken any...)


Tina - How did the test go?


Well I had a busy weekend and now I am pooped (I even logged off my laptop yesterday when I didn't have meetings and took a cat nap :) a perk of being at home !). Saturday I had my Breastfeeding class - I went alone since DH was working - it was overwhelming but good tips were given...then in the evening a friend of mine had his soon to be ex bring the kids over so he could see them - very messy divorce and court orders are he can't see the kids unless I am present what a mess !! Sunday my in-laws, DHs aunt/uncle, brother in law and sister in law all came for the day (DH was at work), they helped organize the babies room including washing clothes - cleaned behind our bed - did the ceiling fans, hung shelves etc...Phew so much was done the room is actually ready and I have everything but the second crib - it is ordered (not critical since I am going to put them together to start)...looking forward to next weeked with NOTHING to do...I plan on spending Easter home alone (DH is working ...)

Well guess I better get to work and get breakfast - I have a meeting with my boss in 5 minutes.

Crotch pain - check
sciatic nerve pinched and couldn't walk - check
hands getting numb for no reason (this is new for me) - check
Sweating - check
anxious/excited/nervous - check/check/check

[swineland]

Morning everyone...
Just wanted to peek in and let you all know I am alive and well! Busy with the in-laws and prolly won't post as much as usual, but I still check on you all everyday!

As soon as I shower and get ready, MIL and I are going to BRU to get the mattresses for the cribs. Be nice to cross that off the list!

I'll try to check in later but I'm glad to see you all are still cooking and hanging in there!

Steph

[swineland]

LISA! OMG...this is so funny. I had a dream last night about you. DH and I were watching football on TV and you were the quarterback for one of the teams. They showed you on the sidelines drinking some gatorade and DH was like, "who is THAT?". I said, "duh, that's Lisa Umbenhaur...she's my friend". :rotflmbo: haha He's all, how do you know her? I said, from the Twins Board...she's due around the same time as me. And I couldn't believe that you were actually out there playing football while you were preggers with the twins! Anyway, funny dream. And you know what? The very last thing I did before going to bed was check out your shutterfly photos, so that's why you were in my dream. Funny how the mind works!

Have a good one :)

[EBTwinz]

Steph: That is too funny about your dream. LOL!!! I can't see myself playing football right now. :rotflmbo: I have had dreams about some of the people on here, too. I had a dream that I met Valerie at the outlet malls near my parent's house and she told me that she didn't want to be friends w/ me. : ( Also had a dream that I met Monica. It's funny how the mind works.

I will check in later. I am at work (unfortunately) and have a lot of work. BTW, if you are getting a mattress, go for the Simmons. It's the most expensive at BRU (I think around $120) but the one side is firm for the infant stage and the other side is softer, for the toddler stage.

~Lisa

[vthompson]

Good Morning everyone!!

Steph - I was laughing out loud about your Lisa dream. That is too funny!! :rotflmbo:

Lisa - The nursery looks great! Did you get your cribs at Baby Depot? I think we may have the same ones. We do not have ours yet, but the ones in the picture look just like the ones that we ordered.

Stacey - It sounds like you got a lot accomplished this weekend!! Make sure you get some rest in now. I love the shower invite poem. It is really cute!

Missy - That is so great that you had so much help this weekend. It sounds like everything is close to being done!!

Heather - I looked it up on the Internet and it said that the 8th month starts at week 32. I looked it up on two sites. However, a book I have saids it starts at week 29. Anyone else know?

Sherry - It sounds like you guys are getting a whole new house! That is fun!! I am glad that you are trying to make other arrangements for the boys to get home from school.

Not much going on here today. I didn't sleep well last night, as usual, so I slept in a little once I fell back to sleep. I think it is supposed to be 70 degrees today so I may go sit outside and read a book.

Valerie

[vthompson]

Lisa - I was laughing at your dream!! Don't worry, we will always be friends! :D I can't give up anyone on this board. I need all of you too much!

Valerie

[megzmom]

Valerie-thanks for looking it up. I have seen the same conflicts in weeks/months. I thought, me turning 29 this week, I would also begin the 8th month but when you multiply 4x8 its 32! I am so confused.... someone help.

[EBTwinz]

Valerie: Yes, we purchased the cribs from Baby Depot. We took the old cribs back and it just so happened that they got these cribs in that day as a new shipment. I love them! They are so cute!! That's funny that we got the same cribs. And thanks for saying you will always be my friend! :) I dreamt that we met at the Grove City Outlet malls (do you know where that is?) and we planned on meeting each other, but then you told me that you didn't want to stay in contact with me. I was so sad... LOL! Good thing it's not true!

[vthompson]

Heather - I think I am going with what the book saids...29 weeks is 8 months. I am also 29 weeks. I think it makes me feel like time is going faster then waiting until 32 weeks! Not very scientific of me...:crazy:

Valerie

[Jillmami]

Babies are doing well. We continue to be blessed with their progress. Noah is now up to 2.10 pounds and TJ is up to 2.6. They are now being clothed and swaddled which they absolutely LOVE! Plus, they can't pull on each other's feeding tubes. They are able to maintain their body temps also which is a big plus. We are going on day 4 with no breathing or heart rate issues which is such a relief. They can still pop up but hopefully the babies are past them. They have begun condensing their feedings so that we can progress to nipple feedings. Little Noah has a hernia which is common with preemies. *As with so many other things. That will be fixed before they go home so that's cool. It looks so painful however you can push it back up where it belongs and he doesn't really move. I have the new pics of them in their little outfits under week 5 of our photo gallery if anybody wants to check them out in their 'free time.' ;)

We are off to the hospital to give them a bath. Our first for them but they are pros now. The nurses continue to tell us how well they are doing for so young and for being born so early. However, as parents, we will not feel comfortable until they have graduated high school! :crazy:

Take care, get your water and your rest and enjoy your pregnancy!

[Tiny Blessings]

Hello everyone. Busy days today and yesterday....Let's see if I can get caught up...

Jill, thanks so much for keeping us all posted. I LOVE looking at your pictures and now even my husband will ask if you posted new pics of the babies! LOL...he likes them, too! Glad to hear things are going well with both babies!

Heather...a man must have created this 9 month thing, becasue it is really ten months when you are pregnant for 40 weeks. Anyway, I consulted my pregnancy bible (What to expect.....) and it says month 8 is weeks 32 - 35. Who knows for sure, though. If it makes you feel better, then say you are in your eighth month...who cares!? We certainly look like we are well into the 8th of not the 9th, righght!? LOL

Lisa: your nursery is sooooo adorable. Great job! I really like the cribs and the comforter colors. And yo have so many clothes for these babies already! Wow!

Steph: take it easy with in in laws...don't overdue it! :) And have fun at BRU...what a great place to be now, eh????

Stacey: WOW....what great weights on those babies! I can only hope for my boys to be gaining that kind of weight....great job!

Kandi..welcome to the wonderful world of twin pregnancy. It is an exilerating roller coaster ride with ups and downs, but as someone already said, well worth it! I felt the babies pretty early, but don't remember exactly what week. I think it was around 12 for me..just tiny little flutters. Remember that week 12 for a twn pregnancy is more like 16 weeks in a singlton, so it could really be babies you are feeling now as feeling movement is typical around week 17 or so generally. :clap:

C section differences: I asked my doc yesterday about this as it hasn't been mentioned by them at all and many of you have dates already. She said if I go beyond 38 weeks they would consider it but would prefer to have it happen naturally (me, too). I have told them that I want a vaginal delivery and not a c sect if at all possible, so I figured that might be why they hadn't mentined anything. I also asked what week I would have to make it to to have the babies here in my local hospital.....35 weeks minimum!!! (because we don't have a NICU) WOW..that is cutting it close. the next nearest hospital is an hours drive away. My DH hates that hospital and he states he will keep driving until he reaches the good one that is another 30 minutes beyond that. (I agree, too, as that is where the best NICU inthe state is located). So, another thing to worry about is the where and when for the great event...great. Oh well.....it will all work out fine, but sure wish I knew what was in store so I could be better prepared for it, know what I mean?

don't have the results of the g/d test back yet...supposed to hear today. No news might be good news! :)

Time for a nap....talk to you soon.

Tina

[Daniele'sTwins]

I just wanted to check in, I am reading all the posts I just wanted to let you know that I did got to my doc appointment yesterday and I was having contractions when I got there. He hooked me up to the monitor and they eventually stopped. I think I may have had more last night and this morning but the good thing is I am not dialating.

Let me read the posts and I will get back to you.

[megzmom]

Tina- I agree, it doesn't matter about the months and I sure do look like 8/9 months. I have been "registering" 7 weeks ahead on my fundus measurements

Hospital-I am almost in the same boat as you with the cutting in close which hospital. Luckily we have an awesome NICU in Orlando but it is almost an hr drive at night and who knows during the day!

Delivery-I have a very calm and nuturing reg ob, which has been such a blessing. He said that is recommends trying a natural delivery since A-Zach has been head down for so long. B-Ben is still transverse/breech. He said he can easily turn him.
Now for the needed advice. Everyday I go back and forth to what I want (barring any need for emer. csection). I had a horrible delivery with dd eventhough my recovery was immediate. I walked within 1/2 hour becasue epideral ran out for the 3 time.
I want to try a vaginal becasue these are my dh's first children and I would love a good delivery but I am so scared.
Even scarier is a csection (for the unknown). I am so concerned about the recovery time-healing with a csection. I know everyone is different but I can't imagine not being able to bend and pick up the babies because of stitches.
Any advice to calm my fears.

Jill-I LOVE your babies. I showed them (I'm at school) to my dd. She said wow mom all your friends are having 2 babies too. She thought they looked like angels. So do I! Thanks for always the encouragement you give us!

[Daniele'sTwins]

ok, Hi everyone!

AndreaR..the wedge pillow is great> It was only about $15 and it helps hold your belly up. I think it is worth the money. As for you DH ....AGHHH I fought with mine last ngiht because my back was hurting so bad and he wouldn't rub my back and fell right to sleep. However my DH does NOTHING around the house! I mean NOTHING! He does work amillion hours a week so I always let him get away with doing anything but I am really getting sick of all the lightbulbs out, the garbage piling up after I ask him daily to take it out and his clothes all over the place! I just wrote out a to-do list for when we get back from the class tonight. The good thing is I think they will mention how the mom will really need help etc. As for you communication is key! I think someone already mentioned it. Why don't you give him a card and tell him how much you appreciate all he does for you and then after dinner ask him to rub your back. He definately will then tell him how much that meant to you and ask him if he can make it a habit. Just a thougt. Guys love to feel appreciated by their women.

Mindy... I TOTALLY agree with you on docs needing to be on the same page! This is crazy isn't it! I also thought I read somewhere that it is dangerous for twins to be born after 38 weeks. My doc wants me to wait until week 39. I don't want to.

Stacey...I loved reading your post! I LOVE throwing things out and straightening up! I felt so good about your house...lol Don't you feel like a whole new person now! You should send your niece a gift card or something to say thanks!

JIll...I love your babies! I have to say they really are soooo cute! A lot of times NICU babies look sick and yours don't at all! I think they are soooo perfect!

NOW LISA... Love the nursery, My cribs are very similar. Ia m going to take some pics of mine tonihgt I think and I will post too. I did look at your other pics too, I hope you don't think I am a stalker...lol But it looks like we have the same china too...lol Is it called Pearl Innocence? Mine is the Opal innocence (the white one) I thought that was funny and the little girl is adorable! Stella was one of the names I liked if I was having a girl.

Well, now my back is hurting from me just sitting here for so long. I have a class tonight at the hospital on taking care of the infant. I hope they talk a little about twins too!

[vthompson]

Heather - Unfortunately, I do not have any other children to compare delivery notes on. However, I am terrified for a c-section. My body does not heal very well and I ALWAYS develop an allergic reaction at the site of any wound, from a skinned knee to a mole removal. No doctor can figure out why or what causes it but the area develops water blisters all over it and itches like you would never imagine. The area is so swollen that it takes 3 times the time to even scab up (sorry TMI). Anyways, they have tried everything to not make this happen and nothing has worked. I cannot imagine having an incision from a c-section and dealing with this. I tripped last year and skinned my knee like a child. It did not grow a scab until almost 1 1/2 months later! The bottom line is I am very scared for a c-section!!

Daniele - I am so glad that the contractions stopped. Did the doctor tell you what to do at this point? Is he going to give you meds, bed rest, etc.?

Tina - I hope that you can make it to the hospital you are most comfortable at. I know what you mean about the unknown and how frustrating that can be. Make sure you post with your results.

Jill - I love looking at your pictures! I love to see how much the babies are growing and how cute they are. The outfits were adorable and your comments under the pictures always make me laugh!!

Check back in later...

Valerie

[mypinkbiz]

hello, all.....i am very new to all this twin stuff. i am 21 wks and feel like i have so many weeks to go. i'm still in shock. and will probably stay in shock for a long time. but more than that i am HAPPY. I just wanted to reach out to anyone willing to listen. i have always that of my self as a know all, but lets face it i WANT advice on anything and everything.....cuz i really dont know it all!!!:crazy:

[Daniele'sTwins]

Heather...luckily since I got pregnant I have know I was having a section so I just focused on all the benefits of that as opposed to the vaginal delivery. My friend Missy just had a section on wednesday and left a day early from the hospital and took herself off the meds early too. I do hear that everyone is different too though.

My theory on a section is almost all celebrities want sections....why? I think a section is less trauma for the babies too. I could go on and on but I don't want to knock vaginal birth because that has many pluses to it too.

[megzmom]

mypinkbiz- welcome to an awesome site full of friends who are more than will to give/take advice. Congratulation on your shocking blessing! When are you officially due and what are you having? Oh did I mention we are very nosy too :)

Valerie-I am so sorry about your healing. Not to add to your worry but I would freak too. What does your ob say about it? I am not diagnosing anything but does antibiotics work? Maybe he can start you NOW...hehehe so you can get a head start. Sorry I had to add something light to this. Thanks for the encourgement though!

talk to you all tomorrow.

[megzmom]

ooops forgot to add...

Tina-I never noticed (or don't remember I did) that we are due on the same date and are both 28.5. I look forward to every Thursday...

[qbanmom5]

Hi

I still haven't been feeling too hot, and at my non stress test my braxton hicks contractions showed up. The nurse told me to lie down and drink lots of water but if I continued to have more than 4 an hour to go to the E.R. She also gave me a handout on preterm labor and said if I have any of those symptoms, to go the ER. The sx are: dull lower backache (check), abdominal cramping (check- keep feeling like I have to poo but I don't), and just not feeling right (check). I am lying down and drinking water almost non-stop, but I don't feel any better. If it doesn't go away by the time DH comes home this evening I am gonna have to go to ER. I have no idea if I am dilating cause they did not check.

I just wanted to let you all know so you can pray. Your prayers worked with Blossom, so I am sure they will work again. I will update you guys ASAP. I just turned 29 weeks today... :spitwater

Ters

[vthompson]

Ters - Make sure you update us!! I will pray for you. Do not hesitate to go to the ER if you are having all the signs. I am worried about you!

Valerie

[EBTwinz]

Ters: I am praying for you too! Please keep us updated. I will be thinking of you tonight.

:throb: ~Lisa

[Daniele'sTwins]

Ters....I am praying for you here too! Please keep us posted.

[TMoT]

Ters, I didn't post yesterday but I was thinking about you the WHOLE time, I don't know why! ...Well, I guess, NOW I DO! :-( I am/we are praying for you, sweet woman with the big heart! :throb: Please drop us a line when you feel well enough. Much, much, much love and prayers for you and babies!!!!!!!

...Jill, those pictures are all so adorable, I can't decide which one I liked the best! I think Noah with his hands in front of his face, maybe, but the other one's with TJ's eyes open so wide (isn't she a beauty?!) are beautiful too... :'-) You are all doing so incredibly. I'm so happy for you and can't wait to show the pics to my dh either/too...!!!!

Heather, no kidding! This 40wks=9mos crap really is for the birds!!! Why don't you just divide your weeks of gestation by four and say that's the number of months "along" you are? (That is what you're doing, I think, right?) Nobody but pg bodies ;-) understand or appreciate measuring by weeks, so I always just round off to the nearest month-mark. And, you're right, by the size of our bellies, we could just go around telling everyone "I'm 9 months and have 2 (3?) more months to go," and it would be the TRUTH anyway!!!! :rotflmbo:

Speaking of which, I measured my own fundal height yesterday (for the kick!) and ended up with 42 centimeters! :eek: A site I read said to consider one centimeter for each week of gestation, so I'm "officially" 42 WEEKS PREGNANT in size!!!! :rotflmbo: Well, I would REALLY like to know what you ladies are measuring just to make sure/compare (i.e. in centimeters), and know your comments because, let's face it, this is pretty outrageous!!! Although -- hmm -- I am going on 50lbs of weight-gain, so maybe it's all just fat!??!?!? LOL

*WARNING: Rant following!!!!! Read further at your own risk! ;-)*
Tina, there's no argument in the world that could convince me that surgery to take perfectly healthy babies out of a perfectly healthy mom is the "best" thing for anyone involved! I think your misgivings about c-sections are well-founded, and no matter how convenient, "easy" or popular (sorry Daniele) a "section" is, it is NOT natural. Period. We're talking about cutting open a perfectly healthy human being -- unless there are extenuating circumstances, of course -- for no medically justifiable reason. Phew. I'm with you! The natural birth process has it's own reasons for existence: not least of which is smoothing the transition from "in the womb" to "in the world" for Baby. It is also one of the most beautiful, organic and natural things a woman can do/experience in her life. I would not trade that experience (now having had it twice) for the world!

Why do celebrities chose a c-section? I guess for the same reason anyone on this thread would: Certainty of the birth date (=you and the doctor know the scheduling for Babies' arrival, give or take), the FEAR/"pain" factor in natural birth is eliminated/replaced with other "manageable" pain (!?), and there's no "risk" of vaginal-delivery complications (eg. "bad" positioning of Baby -- which can mean lots of things, perineal "tearing," stretching of the perineum muscles, etc.). Otoh, you can end up with a bad wound (after all, this is what a cut in your stomach skin/muscles is!), infection, scarring, etc. Most of all, I worry that my stomach muscles would/will be permanently damaged (they're being cut _through_ for goodness' sake with a c-section!), and not able to stretch back to their original condition... And, what about that "magical" birth process??!??!?!

Well. We may not have a choice, in the end. And, for some women/babies a c-section is medically-expedient (I mean, there are circumstances which make a cesarean medically necessary for mom and/or baby/ies). For the rest, I opt for delivering these babies the way our bodies are intended to -- and they way they are naturally posed to "bounce-back" from!! -- if at all possible. Whew. We will see though....

Sorry about the rant, but this subject (obviously) hits extremely close to home for me. There's also a (Mommy) part of me that wants all you June-thread 1st-time mommies to experience/"try" natural childbirth for itself _before_ you have "elective" cesareans. It's an experience you can't trade for the world, and I feel some personal regret that some of you may never have that experience for yourselves. But, of course, I'm getting too personal here, and this is a choice for each individual woman to make _herself_.....

Otherwise *whew again* any GD test results, Tina??? If it's no-news-is-good-news, then I'm definitely hoping that you haven't heard anything back!! ...Sorry about the hospital uncertainty. I ended up having to travel an hour for ds#2's birth (when we planned to have him at home!), and everything went fine in the end. Best advice I can give is to get prepared for anything (fill in the paperwork _everywhere_, pack the appropriate bags, etc.) and then don't think about it anymore until The Moment comes... Best just not to worry. What else can you do?! ;-)

Daniele, what's happening with your contractions now???? :throb: Are you lying down and guzzling water???? ;-) You've been SO busy with this pg. I hope you are taking the opportunity to do some real resting these days. And please keep us posted, okay?? xx

Very funny dreams, ladies! Wonder what it all means...!!!

Hang in there with the ILs, Steph!

Las thing: Tiny "zits" on my old stretch marks which ITCH like 7734: CHECK. Does anyone else have this? It's driving me nuts!!! ...Been waiting for the day when I can say "girl, I got stretch marks ON my stretch marks" (!) and, I'm afraid, it's fast-approaching!!! :-[

Keep baking ladies, and sorry for spewing (once again) here!!! xox

[vthompson]

Very annoying night with sleeping!!! Couldn't fall asleep last night...hotter then heck, headache, nauseated, leg cramps...then I finally did fall asleep and woke around 5am! I am just getting so annoyed with this lack of sleep! Well anyways, I figured I would check the board, eat breakfast and try and fall back to sleep!

Sherry - How do you measure your fundal height? I realize this sounds like a stupid questions but I want to make sure I am doing it correctly.

Ters - Very anxious to hear how you are doing. I was thinking of you last night.

I was watching TV this morning and there was this commercial for Veet, I think that is what it is called. It is foam that you put on your legs and then you use a plastic razor like thing to "shave off" the foam. However, there is not razor and the foam takes the hair off. Do you think it is ok to use something like this during pregnancy? I am terrified to let anyone shave my legs, like DH, but I thought I could let him do this.

Valerie

[LucasMom]

Good morning everyone! Well, I took off from work yesterday, because the pain was just too crazy and I needed some rest. Lucas-my 3 year old had a school show yesterday,very cute, and then I just vegged the rest of the day until DH came home anwe did some more work on the nursery.

I have a doc appt. today, with the RNP Midwife in the practice, so I'll get more info on the babies (she tells me stuff the docs don't, like fundal height, and heart rates) but more poo about how having two babies is the same as having one, just with two. It's a catch 22, the docs are more clinical, and don't like to hand out alot of info, but the Midwife is a little too "earthmommy" for my east coast tastes. Does this make sense? Anyway, she'll also do an internal, and I am interested to see if I have begun dialating, feeling alot of pain, pressure and changes going on.

Tomorrow morning, I have an ultrasound, so I am taking bets. I think the boys are 5 lbs each already! I love to see them onscreen, so even though it means layingon my back for two hours or so, it's totally worth it! Can't wait to meet them for real!

I'll report back later, after the doc appt. Hope you all have a great day.

Mindy

PS have you checked out the May board? Alot of mommies having babies over there! That's going to be us soon!:clap: Keep Cooking!

[teresa67]

Sherry......I went to the dr yesterday, I have a fundal height of 50, yes my stomach is huge.

Valerie....I don't know if veet would be alright to use or not, I wouldn't though. I always used nair, it's the same thing basically, it's got such a strong chemical smell, and I believe your skin does absorb chemicals very easily, look at all the medicines they are making into patches. Even though it's probably not very much, and wouldn't hurt you or I, the babies are so little it might affect them, you could ask your dr, it may be alright to use. I still shave my legs everyday as big as I am in the shower every morning.

Mindy......has that midwife had twins? I think not if she is making that statement.
I've carried big babies, my girl was 9 pounds, my boy 10 pounds 14 1/2 pounds......and they were a piece of cake with ice cream compared to this pregnancy........having twins is totally different. Only a woman that's never had twins would say its the same as having one with just another baby in there.

[newmomx2]

Missy - Check

A few quick responses....I plan to try natural delivey ... I want to avoid having a surgical recovery on top of everything else...

In terms of fundal height - at my 31 week appointment I was 38 cm, and I had gained 35 pounds. I will be 32 weeks tomorrow YEAH - my pediatrician told me that is a big milestone:yippee:

I can say that my stretchmarks have stretch marks and I broke down and cried for the first time in 2 months - I just feel really overwhelmed with 6 more weeks and all the increasing aches and pains that have cropped up in the last 2-3 days.. I did sleep better last night so that was good - but I might be having BH contractions again today -so water intake is up again (I usually drink over 100oz) and I am taking many breaks from work to lay down...for as much pain I am in I do not want these boys to come for at least another 4 weeks.

Hope Ters is okay...

[LucasMom]

Teresa

Thats what I am saying! I will never comment ever again on any womans pregnancy, although I was never a big commenting person to begin with...you just don't know. All I can say is god bless women who do this with three, four or five babies! How do they do it? My midwife delivered my last son, who was 9 6.5, and that was with 28 hours of labor and three failed epidurals. I thought labor was amazing, and have no regrets about it. They had no idea he was that size, and so when the labor went on after 15 hours the docs were saying cut, and she was the only one saying, Mindy do you want to keep going, which despite the pain, I did want to. But I am terrified of having 2 almost 10 pound babies in here, and I was seeing the midwife in the beginning. She kind of annoyed me though, because of her "twins are no different attitude". I have never seen a peri, had a level 2, none of those things, and after reading all these posts, I finally called last week and what like "ok, why do I feel like my TWIN pregnancy care is being taken so lightly?" I have gotten 2 FFN tests, both negative, and after tomorrows u/s, I will recieve a BPP for next ultrasound. Her answer to me was, "Even if there were a difference or problem, we still wouldn't do anything about it before 32 weeks anyway, so why bother?" Ugh, so frustrating. I suppose I should feel thankful that my pregnancy has been relatively uneventful, but it would still be nice to know a little more info. Even when I asked her at 18 week apt, can you tell if they are identical or fraternal, she said "that shouldn't matter to you, it doesn't make a difference" Hello, of course it does!

SORRY AGAIN LADIES FOR THE RANT!!! I LIVE IN THE 5th LARGEST CITY IN THE COUNTRY, AND I AM GETTING CARE SOMETIMES LIKE I LIVE IN A REMOTE AREA OF A 4TH WORLD COUNTRY!

Ok, I am totally shutting up now.

BTW, on the subject of csection vs. vbirth, if you have the opportunity, have the vbirth. I only say this because it was the most wonderful, amazing empowering experience ever to me, and I still cry thinking about it. If you have to have a csection, it DOES NOT make you any less amazing, empowered etc. at all. You did you job as a mom to get these guys into the world! But the vbirth is unbelievable, hard and painful, but amazing.

Enough from me! Blah, blah!

Mindy:)

[vthompson]

You have to check out this article
http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20060412/ap_on_re_us/sextuplets_hoax
This couple is crazy!!

Missy - I am so glad to hear that you are listening to your body and taking breaks from work as needed. I also have stretch marks and they just look so ugly to me. I definitely feel for you. The worst is that since the bed rest, I try not to go upstairs which is where our full length mirror is. Well, I really needed a shirt out of my closet and no one was home so I carefully went up there and looked in the mirror. I was embarrassed! I had no idea how they had spread because they are mainly below my belly button and I can't see them. I was just mortified.

Teresa - How do you still shave your legs? I am amazed and jealous by this!!

Mindy - It sounds like you had a very restful day yesterday! That is great! I know what you mean about the midwife. I cannot believe she thinks having twins is the same as having 1 baby...she clearly does not understand!

Ters - Where are you today? We are all worried.

Valerie

[bateacher]

Rocks! Natural childbirth is so amazing! I tell anyone who asks about it, some of them think I am crazy, but I hope I am making a small positive influence on some women. I am preparing myself in case a section is necessary, but I am trying hard for a vaginal.

About the month/week gestation thing. The recommendation to divide the weeks by 4 is usually what I do. I know I am twenty weeks right now, so I say 5 months, when I am twenty two weeks I will say 5 and half months. Most people think I am seven or eight months, so it really throws them off. ;) Rant follows** just a little one though: Someone said to me this past weekend: " How are you going to do it, I just don't see how blah blah blah," since I am a very non-confrontational person, I just continued on my way out the door. I heard my mother defending me while I was in the other room. I should have said, "You're lookin at it! I'm doing it right now as we speak." I am ready next time!

[Tiny Blessings]

Hi everyone. Well, no news or call from the doctor's office so I guess that means I cleared the GD test. Phew...after all I heard from you ladies about the three hour test, I was pretty sure I didn't want that experience! LOL

Fundal measurement: at my appt on Monday I measured 37 1/2 weeks. All along I have measured about 8 weeks ahead of where I really am week wise. I have also repeatedly told my DH and doc that it has felt lwith this pregnancy like I am about 2 months further along than I really am, so I guess that makes sense.

I am getting so slow to get around now...I feel like people sure can't miss me coming, but by early afternoon you have to sight by a stationary object to see me move. LOL...

Leg shaving: need to, but who the hell cares right now? Only I will want to have them shaved for the delivery I guess...maybe in the tub is a better option than the shower...I'lll have to try.

Doc differences: Yup...they all have their own opinions. I see one of 4 ob's each time I go to the doc (they rotate) and even they give different opinions and recommendations. Geez... this one I just saw on Monday is the only woman and she is always more understanding and less clinical than the thee male docs. By the way, I am being seem weekly now...anyone else? I go in for Level II's every other week and go to labor and delivery for my appointments the opposite weeks now for NST's and cervical checks. they didn't do that with my son...wonder if it's a twin thing.

Oh my... where is Ters? I hope she and the babies are doing okay!!!! Please post soon, Ters!

Lisa, Since someone else did, I feel that I have to confess, too...I looked at your other pics, too! I hope you don't mind....I wasn't stalking you but love getting a glimpse of who the people are on this board. HeeHee

TaTa for now ladies...

Tina

[newmomx2]

You gals are right there sure are a lot of opinions - my dad always tells me that opinions are like a**holes - everyone has one and they all stink:rotflmbo:

I to get different feedback from the different docs in the same practice ! I am being seen every other week until week 35 then weekly (this every other week just started) I still have been seeing the level II doc monthly - next appt in a week YEAH - and I think they are doing my first BPP - then I think I go every other week or weekly not sure which yet..

I drank 50 oz already today and started to feel better - now I am going to go eat lunch..

Where is Jason? Hope Ters is okay..

[vthompson]

Tina - I start the once a week appts next week. Actually, since the bed rest, I have been going once a week for about 3 weeks and doing the NST's. The doctor gave me the week off this week!

Lisa - Since other people have confessed, I must also. I looked at your other pictures. Your wedding pictures are beautiful!!

Valerie

[teresa67]

Mindy......what does she mean "nothing you can do before 32 weeks"......you see on here all the time women deliverying earlier than that due to complications etc. She does sound too earthy motherly to me too. I changed drs when I was 28 weeks because of poor care, it's unbelievable the kind of care and monitoring I am getting now compared to what I had before. A vaginal birth is definitely the way to go if you have the option, I had a child natural no meds and it hurt, because she was my first and big size, the dr said I should have had a c-section because I almost died, 2nd child I had an eqidural and to me that's the way to go, they woke me when it was time for him to be born.....I felt no pain at all......with these babies I'm having a c-section......I don't know what to expect, but I guess I'll find out.

[AndreaR]

Can I just start by saying how wonderful you all are? I have been without Internet access since yesterday morning *GASP!* and I just caught up on all the posts. It's so nice to see everyone taking care of eachother. :throb:

okay..here are my responses...sorry if i missed anyone.

Lisa - Your nursery looks great. I love the cribs. Those boys will be stylin'.

Stacey - I can't believe how much cleaning you accomplished and that you are still here to talk about it! Good for you! Your niece sounds very, very special. Oh, and I loved the little poem for the shower invitation.

Missy - Good for you, too, for getting the babies' room ready. It must have been nice to have everyone helping you so you didn't have to do it alone. That's what's great about family. AND I WAS LAUGHING SO HARD about your dad's saying about opinions. SO TRUE!! :rotflmbo:

Jill - I'm so happy when you give us an update, especially when we get to hear how wonderful TJ and Noah are doing. I haven't checked out the newest pictures yet, but I am sure they are gorgeous. Can't wait to see them. Thanks for taking the time to share with us. I know you must be so busy going back & forth to the hospital.

Daniele - Thanks for the DH advice. Things are better. I did talk to him a little. I really like your idea of giving him a card. Thanks.

Valerie - I'm so sorry about your healing issues. I would be scared, too, if I were in the same position. What does your doctor say? I will pray for a vaginal delivery for you! And for everyone else who can have one....more later...

Ters - HOPE YOU ARE OKAY. BIG PRAYERS FOR YOU AND YOUR BABIES!! :throb: :throb:

Sherry - You crack me up. I am picturing you with the measuring tape over your belly... I never even thought of that! But my OB measures my fundal height every time I see him. Last week I measured 38 weeks (and I was really 29.5). Did you do it laying down? That's the way my OB does it. He always takes a minute to make sure he's found the proper starting/stopping points. He measures from my pubic bone to the top of my uterus (which I suppose he can feel, but I sure can't).

Mindy - Is there any way that you could find a different doctor/practice? I am not sure where you live, but if it is a large city, then you should be able to find someone that agrees that twin pregnancies ARE different and require special attention. I am sure that you are doing great, but I think it would be better to have more peace of mind.

Shaving - I still am able to shave my legs (very precariously) a few times a week. I definitely do it for my doctor appointments. Last night, in bed, I put my leg over DH's and he said, "oh! you still shave your legs?" Which I thought was pretty funny. I told him that I couldn't shave my bikini area anymore, and that maybe I'd need him to help. He didn't respond. I'm not sure what that means. hee hee hee

Veet/Depilatory - I did use a depilitory once since I've been pregnant, but I do agree (with Teresa, I think?) that the fumes are pretty bad, and we should probably avoid the chemicals if possible.

Vaginal vs C-Section - I just typed up a huge response (like a thesis!) about this, and I decided not to post it. My bottom line: vaginal is better, but everyone's situation is different. You have to feel comfortable with whatever your plan is. Somethings are in our control; somethings aren't. Just know that you are doing what is best for you.

I have my first NST tomorrow. I'm a little nervous, because you all say how unpleasant it is... I've begged DH to come with me. So far, he says he can get out of work. Let's hope he doesn't change his mind at the last minute.

JASON....where are you? Hope everything is okay with you and your wife.

Also, I don't think we've heard from Sheriba in a while (or maybe I missed it?). I pray every day for her and her babies. Does anyone know how they are doing?

Sorry for the long post - but I was away for a whole two days!!

AndreaR

[vthompson]

Andrea R - I was wondering the same thing about Sheriba. We have not heard from her in awhile, unless I missed it, too. Also, Jason has not posted lately. Don't be worried about the NST's. They are just really time consuming and slightly unnerving because you are constantly watching the monitors and driving yourself crazy. After the first one, it does not seem nearly has bad, though because you know what to expect.

Mindy - I agree with the other ladies here, maybe you should seek out another doctor for the rest of the pg. It does not seem as though they are understanding the difference between a twins pg and a single pg.

Missy - I was also laughing out loud at your Dad's comment! That is a good way to look at it!

I feel like such a stalker because I post so many times a day! But, being on bed rest, I constantly check it to pass the day. I really am not crazy though ladies!! I swear! Well, maybe the bed rest is making me slightly crazy (lol) :crazy:

Valerie

[qbanmom5]

Hi All!

Well, we had a long night in the E.R. When I got there I was having contractions 2 minutes apart, very scary. Glad to report that my cervix was CLOSED!!! The dr. ordered that I get 2 brethrine shots (ouch) and a pill while they monitored me. The contractions slowly went to every 5 minutes then every 10. I was released and told to call the Dr. in the morning so that he could call in a prescription for the brethrine pills which I guess I will be on for a while? Anyway i started calling the Dr's office at 8:30 am. By 9:00 I started contracting again. I called the Dr. again and again and again. First he wasn't there, then he was with a patient, then he was reviewing the file, then they got frustrated I guess and said they would call me when they had news. I was livid and went off on the lady even going as far as to say that they shouldn't bother to call me back because I was going to find a new dr. Within minutes, they called me back that my prescription was sent to the pharmacy and I could pick it up soon. It has been a nightmare, but we are just very glad that its under control and the babies are staying put. The L & D nurse also commented that their heartrates were perfect and she couldn't wait to see them becuase she liked DH and I so much and were were "cute". She was very sweet and spent lots of time with us last night. More than what I can say about the Dr.!

I am going to look up that brethrine (if I am even spelling it right) and read up a bit on it. Hopefully it will buy us more time so I can keep cooking these cuties. Thank you all for your prayers and your love. Hope you didn't worry too much. I will definitely keep you updated on any new info. And yes, I have been drinking my water. Between yesterday and today I could have drained a pool!

Love, Ters

[EBTwinz]

Hi everyone!!

You all are so funny about my pictures. At first, I was like, "what pictures?". Then I went back and looked at my site and realized I had pics on there from a long time ago. My wedding was a year and a half ago (8/28/04). But, thanks for all the comments! :) It was a very simple wedding. I guess I like things simple. As for the little girl, that is my niece Stella. She is now 3 years old. She is the one that I said was opening all my presents at my baby shower. She is too cute. I hope my boys have big blue eyes like she does. ANd, yes, Daniele, those plates are the opal innocence by Lenox. I LOVE them! My dh doesn't understand why we had to register for china, but I think they are beautiful and it can be passed down to grandchildren someday.

I am hoping Ters is okay. I hope we hear from her soon....

Shaving: Not sure if you should use the Veet, Valerie. I agree w/ Teresa, there are chemicals that could be absorbed into your body and may affect the little ones. I only shave my legs when I have an OB appt, just in case I get an internal. Same w/ bikini line. But, is anyone else extra itchy when the hair grows back?

Vag birth vs. C-sec: I hope to have a vag birth, only because the thought of being sliced open scares me to death! But on the flip side, the thought of having incontinence for the rest of my life doesn't sound too pleasing, either. I don't really have an opinion on which is better for you/baby. I guess vag births are more natural but there are cetain circumstances that prevent you from having a vag birth, i.e. medical problems. It's safer for the mom to have a section if the mom is in danger. So, I am up for both. To each their own....

Mindy: Sounds like your mid-wife is behind on the times. If you aren't comfortable w/ her, then don't feel bad just sticking w/ an OB. Twin pregnancies are different and it's time that she realized it! Good luck at your u/s and keep us posted!

Stretch marks: Check! But so far, only on my boobs and hips. My tummy is still stretch mark free... (knock on wood)

Valerie: I read that article, too. Crazy, huh? How can you fake a sextuplet pregnancy?

Tina: Congrats on passing the GD test! :clap: As for fundal height, my doc forgot to measure me last visit. I am guessing I am at least 40 weeks. A month ago I was 35 weeks.

AndreaR: Thanks for the comments on the nursery. :) And keep us posted w/ your appt tomorrow.

Jill: Those little babies are sooooo cute!!!!!! I love looking at their pictures. Please keep us updated.

Monica: Hope you and the babies are okay. I am thinking about you.

Well, not much is new w/ me. Just having a lot of discomfort. I actually slept pretty well last night. I decided to not sleep w/ my gigantic body pillow and just put a wedge between my legs. I think I slept for 4 hours straight, at one point. Usually I am up every hour. I am also getting a lot of BH. I have to drink more water. Oh, did you all know that it's a full moon tomorrow? Old wives tale that women go into labor w/ a full moon. Let's hope we can wait until next full moon!!!

Talk to you all soon!!
Lisa

[EBTwinz]

Ters: We must have been posting at the same time. Thank goodness your cervix is closed. :yippee: Get some rest! And keep us posted.

Lisa

[qbanmom5]

Hi, I am just now reading the last 2 days of posts, and want to quickly respond to Valerie: Sorry to hear about your skin/healing situation. I have found that aloe vera (straight from the plant) applied a couple of times a day works really well for healing and drying up wounds. Also, have you heard of melaleuca oil? I think it is the same as tea tree oil and that works really well too. whenever my kids get a scrape or cut I put some of that on (smells good too) and it dries it up and heals quick. Hopefully you won't have to have a c-section though... Love, Ters

[qbanmom5]

Is there really a full moon? I am a Cancer and have always had wierd emotional ties with the moon. I hope it doesn't mean anything and that I can catch the next one....

I would encourage everyone to have at least one vaginal birth in their life... At the beginning of the preg when I found out it was twins, I was sure i wanted a c-section. I felt like pushing out twins would be more traumatic for all parties and since I want a tummy tuck in the future anyway I didn't care about the scarring....A lot has changed, and as soon as I found out my dr. favors sections even when both are head down, I changed my mind. I don't want a section anymore. I only have DH and my kids, I can't afford to lay in bed recovering for a week or more, and I have heard your abdomen stays floppy. Now, every time I go in and see they are head down, I pray that they stay that way and that the dr. will let me do it vaginally. I don't want to risk their lives at all though, and if it were a danger sit. I want a c-section but if its just because the dr. wants it that way, I am not happy.... I am not happy with him now anyway.

Enough of that, gotta go lie down, Love, TErs

[Daniele'sTwins]

Hi Guys...I have spent the whole day in my PJ's today. I did laundry, cleaned up my house and paid bills and did some bookeeping for my dh.

Ters...I am so glad you are not dialating. I have never heard of those pills you are taking but I am glad they are working and you are keeping those babies cooking.

Sherry...Vaginal delivery is definately the most natural but unfortunately I do not have the choice. I was just thinking of some positives for the c-section so that people(like myself) that have no choice aren't too scared. I try not to be scared because I know it is the best thing for myself and the babies. If I dwell on how it is major surgery and that there is nothing natural about it I will get extremely nervous and not feel like a good mom.

Mindy...good luck on the u/s tomorrow, let us know what happens. Also, I was always told that all twin pregnancies should be treated as high risk.

Tina...I am seeing my doc weekly now too

As for shaving legs...this may soud weird but I have not grown hair on my legs for like 2 months!! I am growing hair in other places though. It is just my legs. I do remember my grandmother telling me that she never grew hair back on her legs after she had a baby. Is that weird or what? I will let you know if it changes...lol

Also, I still do not have stretch marks, (KNOCK ON WOOD). A few nights ago my very sweet DH pointed out where they thought they were coming but that isn't there anymore. Very weird isn't it.

Oh yeah...my belly button has not popped yet either...lol. You guys must think I am nuts! I really am pregnant with twins. I am NOT like that sextuplet mom I swear...lol

[vthompson]

Ters - I was so relieved when I checked this evening and you had posted. I am sorry you had such an ordeal with the doctor today, but at least your cervix is closed and they stopped the contractions. I do not know anything about that medication either. Are you on bed rest now?

Felisha - I am sorry that so many people are making those comments to you. They are saying them because they do not think they are strong enough to be in your situation. However, you are strong enough and you will do great! You seem like a very strong and confident woman with a lot of support. Tell those people to pi** off!!

Daniele - I can't believe your legs stopped growing hair! I am jealous!!

Lisa - I actually attempted to shave my legs today. It was not easy, but I got the job done! I do not think I am going to use the Veet. I was just curious what others thought. I am so glad that you slept better yesterday! How is the part time work hours going? Do they make you move from desk to desk?

Valerie

[TMoT]

Ters, now hang up and go to bed!!! ;-) Man did you have me worried!!! SO GLAD to hear everything is okay now. Please DRINK, DRINK, DRINK or I'll come over there and supervise you myself!! And, of course, take it easy. We :throb: you!!

I've been thinking about Sherri -- and Monica -- too. Must be a LOT of stress. Ladies, hope you are all handling everything okay! Please give us a post when you have a chance! xox

Felisha, you ARE going to do GREAT, I'm just sure of it! Not everyone gets to have the miracle of TWINS in their lives...! You (we all) have been chosen for a REASON! God just Knows we can do it -- even when our own confidence doesn't "stretch" that far...! ;-) I, for one, am in awe of you, F, and I send you all my love, positive "vibes," strength and support! :throb:

AndreaR, yes. I laid down on the bed and had dh help me with the measuring tape!! It WAS pretty funny, but the results were the big shock! I'm going to ask my doc about it next time I see her. She already thinks I'm a nut though probably...! :crazy:

Sorry, Daniele, if I hurt your feelings about my vag/c-section rant. :-(( Of course, if you have to have a c-section, all the rest of the issues fall by the wayside. Then the health of Mommy and Babies takes priority, no question. You're going to do just SUPER with it all, though, I'm sure! Most important thing is that those babies come out fighting and Mommy is okay, which is definitely going to be the case for you!!! :throb: xx

Lisa, the KEGEL EXERCISES (remember those, ladies?! "50x per day for the rest of our lives"??!) are for fighting (post-partum) incontinence too. Hope you're all still doing them....?!? I honestly forget for days and then do LOTS of reps when I remember. You can really tell the difference "down there" though. And it's great for healing/tightening everything back up after a vaginal birth (hence "for the rest of our lives"!!). (Better to be safe than sorry, right?! ;-))

...Tomorrow I have my GD test. I'll let you all know how it goes. Till then, keep cookin' gals! xx

[AndreaR]

Ters - so glad to hear from you and that you are still cookin'.

Sherry - thanks for mentioning Kegel exercises. I was pretty good about doing them in the beginning of the pg, but now, when I do them, I feel like it causes some weird contractions in my vagina or my cervix. It just doesn't feel right. Does anyone else know what I mean? I know I should ask my OB, but I keep forgetting.

Felisha - people say the stupidest things. I never realized until I got pregnant. You are a great mom and you will continue to be when the twins arrive.

I, too, am horrified by that couple in Missouri. It is truly unbelievable.

Well, I've had my bed-time ice cream, so I'm off to sleep. Actually, I'm going to watch "Lost" in bed. I am totally hooked on that show.

Good night, all. Keep up the great work!!

AndreaR

[Dad of twins]

Hello ladies!
I told you ladies before that I don't get much time to write anymore! I am glad that you are all still doing ok. Thank god no more trips to the hospital. She has her second three hour glucose test Fri. The first one she failed on test by like 4 points. I don't know why they are doing it again this close to the end?
She has been shaving her legs by herself but the bikni area I have to touch up. The area where her legs meet her belly is really hard to get to:crazy: .

Ters glad everthing is ok
Thanks for you girls wondering if things are ok! I would love to hug you all!! I have long arms!!

Till next time
Jason, Sondra, Sydnie and the BOYS!!

[TMoT]

Hi (again) All! Well, we managed to make the IKEA trip this morning -- instead of my GD test!! :eek: I'll have to go in for that tomorrow, I guess...!

Only managed to get about HALF of what we need, and I'm BUSHED! *whew* So, I'm going to take a nap now.

Hope everyone is doing okay and I'll try to check in again later. xox

[AndreaR]

Lisa - just this morning I had my first little panic attack. I, too, have not done any of this before, and I haven't taken any classes (but I am trying to schedule). I have been really calm about it thinking that I have plenty of time to prepare. But I awoke early this morning thinking, "what if they come early??" We haven't finished their room, we don't have the car seats, I haven't packed a bag for the hospital. YIKES! I am going to the doctor today, and I'm hoping that he will tell me what he always tells me, that everything looks good and there is no concern that I will go any time soon. But when they do come, WHAT THE HECK AM I GOING TO DO!?

You (we) are not crazy. You (we) are preparing to be a mother of TWO babies. The fact that you are thinking about it and preparing yourself mentally and emotionally proves that you will be a great mom.

And, if you don't take classes, I think that's okay. I know plenty of moms who didn't. They do teach you a lot while you are in the hospital (so I hear).

YOU WILL BE GREAT! YOU ALREADY ARE!!!

AndreaR

[swineland]

Lisa,

I can totally identify with what you are feeling, i.e., unprepared, unknowledgable, scared and overwhelmed. And I DID take the classes. So, it just goes to show you that no matter how "prepared" you might think you are, you wouldn't be human if you weren't a little freaked out by all of this. Last night, I laid down next to DH and started to cry, mostly b/c of my being physically uncomfortable, but a lot of it had to do with my feeling like "oh my god....how the HE!! are we going to do this?" Of course, DH is the same as most of our "men" and thinks it will all work itself out and just not to worry. Easier said than done. I think about, like you said, the babies could be here in just 5-6 weeks! It's an overwhelming thought. BUT, it is normal and it is okay that we feel this way. Especially for us first-time moms, who have never experienced ANY aspect of this, it seems expected that we would feel some level of apprehension. As far as the classes go, don't worry about not haven taken them. The breastfeeding one I can tell you was the least helpful, b/c the class was mostly geared towards all those gals with one baby. The baby care class was just diaper changing and how to bathe, etc....ALL of which you can read about in any baby book. The prepared childbirth class was nice, but to be honest, I left there a little more freaked out than "prepared". The bottom line is, there is no plan. You just have to go with the attitude of "I have no idea what MY specific labor is going to be like, what MY pain threshold will be, HOW my babies will be positioned, etc." That way, you will be ready for any intervention that may arise, whether it's an epidural or an emerg. c-section. Be open to the fact that just b/c you don't feel like you've got a "plan" for your delivery, things change at the last minute anyway. And no matter what is going on, your delivery nurse will be explaining (or SHOULD be, anyway) everything that is happening. Most hospitals have a lactation consultant that will be all up in your face pretty soon after delivery. They will tell you ANYTHING you need to know....their job is to help you and your babies get comfortable and learn the art of breastfeeding. It is learned, you have never done it before and your baby has never done it before, so be patient and know that, again, no amount of "classtime" is going to make a difference. Also, bring your breast pump with you when you deliver and they will show you exactly how to use it. So, don't worry about that either. Bottom line is, nobody is going to "leave you hangin". SO many people are going to be available to answer your questions and help you, including us! Now take a deep breath and tell yourself "It will all be OK....It will all be OK". :aok:

I gotta run for now, but I'll write more later....

Steph

[EBTwinz]

Thanks, Steph and Andrea. You made me feel better! :) I don't know what I would do w/out you wonderful ladies! We are all in this together!!! I just wish we lived closer to each other so we can go out for lunch and just talk about how we are feeling. But, this board is so helpful.

I will check in later.

Love you gals!!!
Lisa

[vthompson]

Lisa - I can also completely relate to how you are feeling. I have had several nervous breakdowns about what is to come. I agree with Steph and AndreaR, no matter how many classes or books you read, the reality is we are having 2 babies and really have no idea what to expect. When I feel overwhelmed, I try to tell myself that it will all come with time. As for the baby care, I also think that they have many resources available in the hospital, including lactation consultants. I told DH to make sure he brings the breast pump to the hospital so that someone can teach me how to use it. I know my hospital also offers an infant bathing class while you are staying there, I am sure most do. I have not taken any classes either, if it makes you feel any better. As for the pushing, I have not experienced this yet. Maybe you should ask your doctor at your next appt to ease your mind.

Jason - We are so glad that you checked in and that your wife is still cooking babies!! Even when you tell us you will not be able to post in awhile, we will still worry! That is our job (lol).

Sherry - It sounds like you had a good trip to Ikea...at least it is a start! I am glad to hear that you are resting now!

I will check in later!

Valerie

[megzmom]

Lisa,

I did have a daughter 7 yrs ago and I am totally panicking now. I am so amazed that I am finally preg then I say oh my gosh with 2!!!!!! You are not alone. I agree that no matter how many classes you have/don't you will never be really prepared.

I haven't had any yet (1st child for my husband) but I do know that YES there is a lactation consultant to help you. They are not shy either. She grabbed my br**** and stuck it right into my daughters mouth. Then she showed me how to use the hand pump (didn't know anything to buy an automatic until carpal tunnel set in).

I am defiantely seeking her advice when I get in the hosptial. I "think" I am going to try for 1-3 days to just nurse one at a time using the football hold. Just so they are pros at latching on, then I will try it under FULL supervision with two.

I wouldn't be worried about babies room so much yet (sorry easier said than done). I just packed my hospital bag 1/2 way this weekend. I used a sheet from BRU about what to pack. I haven't packed the babies bag yet.

We have the carseats but I can't remember how to put them in so I am jsut taking them to the police/fire dept and have them put it in safely.

Just remember...we are probably all panicking in one way or the other. I think that will make us better moms. I think my middle name is worry-wart since I became a mom.

Hope things go better for you.

Rest of you pray for me. I am working at school with about 30 min sleep all last night. Boys kicked so much and I had horrible heartburn that tums didn't fix. Took a hot shower at 3am just to relax. Finally fell asleep and 20 min later the alarm woke me up! I am a walking zombie Luckily I ahve a 4 day weekend with the Easter holiday to recoop.

Jason-glad to see you are back. We all thank you for the big hug.

[LucasMom]

Hi all! Sounds like everyone has lots on their minds! I think if we were totally calm about it, that would be less normal. I feel overwhelmed everyday, but the further I get, the more excited I get. I am scared of losing the bond I have wit Lucas, and all kinds of stuff but knowing that we are all having the same fears makes it a little easier to handle.

Now for the good stuff--at the doc appt. last night, babies were still head down, great heartbeats, I am up to 22 lbs. gained (1 lb in the last two weeks) and my cervix is still closed, but soft.

At U/S this morning, baby a Logan is 4 lb 11 oz, and baby b Dylan is 4 lb 6 oz. They are measuring 33 weeks 6 days and 32 weeks 6 days, with a little room for error. But, they FLIPPED OVER SINCE LAST NIGHT! They are both currently head up, so off to that website I go to try and figure out how to flip them again! I also have a strong feeling I may be oing sooner than later, since they have been measuring about 2 weeks ahead of my EDD through all u/S's consistently. I am also measuring at 39 weeks!

I am on weekly bio profiles and NST's starting next week.

We are in the homestretch ladies!! Stay positive. Think about how far we have come. Each day really is a help to our kiddies, and each week is a milestone at this point. I am glad to have you all here. Sending hugs!:throb:

Anyone have info on a "soft cervix". I forget, does this mean I am effacing?

[newmomx2]

Since late yesterday the boys don't seem to be moving as much and it is getting hard to tell who is who...I did count 10 kicks like my paper said but it is just a lot less than before...Should I be worried? Should I call the doctor??

[LucasMom]

Also, can someone, I thinkit was Sherry?, repost that info on the website to spin around babies?

Thanks,

Mindy

[vthompson]

Missy - I have days like that, too, where the babies move less then usual. I always panic! Then, within another day, they seem to go crazy with movement again. As long as you counted your 10 kicks, I would try and not worry about it too much, easier said then done, I know!

Mindy - It sounds as though your babies are at great weights! That is fantastic! I am not sure what the soft cervix means. I hope someone else has info. What are bio profiles? Are those the level II u/s?

Lisa - I am very glad to hear that they did not take your office away! That is also great that you still get paid for a full day's work! It sounds like the new hours are working out.

Heather - I am so sorry that you had such a terrible night of sleep. I cannot imagine how you are getting through your day right now. I send you lots of hugs!!

Valerie

[teresa67]

Mindy....... www.spinningbabies.com

[teresa67]

Bio Physical Profile (BBP): A detailed ultrasound to observe your baby's body movements, muscle tone (flexing of the arms and legs), breathing movements (the baby's ability to move his chest muscles), and the amount of amniotic fluid surrounding him.

Combined with a non-stress test to assess whether your baby's heart rate changes when he's moving.

What do the results mean?
Each of the five components — body movements, muscle tone, breathing movements, amniotic fluid, and heartbeat — is assigned a score of either 0 (abnormal) or 2 (normal). These scores are added up for a total score ranging from 0 to 10. In general, a total score of 8 or 10 is normal, 6 is considered borderline, and below 6 is worrisome. If all the ultrasound scores are normal, your practitioner may forgo the heart-rate evaluation. But if the amount of amniotic fluid scores a 0, then your baby will need more testing and you may need to deliver right away (particularly if you're near 37 weeks) — even if the other components seem fine.

[mommyof4at26]

hey it means when your cervix is soft it willstart tothin out and dilate,i was soft last week and a half, so tomorrow i have another ob appt,so i am curious to see if i have thinned or dilated.:spitwater :spitwater :spitwater

[LucasMom]

Thanks always helpful ladies!

Teresa- I think you and I are in for some big babies!:crazy:

[TMoT]

Hi, Gals!

Heather, I'm so upset to hear what a rough night you had last night. I'm praying for you. Please be careful and take it as easy as you can. :'-)

Mindy/mommyof4, soft cervix means "impending" labor -- but "impending" can mean anything (days or weeks)! So, just get yourself as "ready" as you can, and of course, :spitwater ;-) xox

*sigh* About worries and anxiety (Valerie, Steph, Lisa, Andrea, ALL OF US!!!)... So sorry that there's no magical answer here. :-( It's true that we can't help the stress, but just please try not to get too panicked about everything (easier said than done, right?!). Stress is the negative side of excitement, right? So, maybe just try to use that stress "energy" to do some positive things -- make some calls to your local moms of multiples or other twin moms you know to get pointers, read up on the internet, books, etc., talk to your mom, sister, cousin.... You get what I mean...?! For me too, now going on birth #3, I'm still worried, of course!! It's true that we wouldn't be good moms -- we wouldn't be MOMS at all!! -- if we didn't worry. That's why, although I've done it on my own, I always say dads are "there": They help us to strike a balance... Sometimes they are TOO MUCH on the opposite end of the scale (they don't worry about ANYTHING! And they're so laissez-faire!!)... But, somewhere, there is a good middle-ground in a parenting "pair." Try to think about that and take what your dh/partner/confidant tells you, sincerely, to heart. :throb:

***The Womanly Art of Breastfeeding, published by La Leche League*** b/f book: I know you'll think this is "just another book," but it has been my b/f bible since the beginning (and I made my mom bring me another copy when I found out I was pg again this time!!). It has only one chapter on twin b/f, but it's still one of the absolute BEST b/f resources (plus MORE) out there. PLEASE go pick up a copy (or order one online)!!!! It is SO USEFUL for the entire "cycle" of b/f = from the moment you begin (even with _twins_), till the moment you wean (sometimes a year or more later)! Plus, it "guides you" through pumping, b/f and work, b/f-ing preemies, b/f-ing a sick child, etc., etc. It's is really a SUPER book!!!!!

La Leche League b/f global support: La Leche League is itself a FABULOUS support group for b/f (and more -- again!), which I recommend you all to check out!! The Lacatation Consultant will be an EXCELLENT resource you MUST take advantage of in the hospital, but after that, you don't want to end up with the feeling that you're "totally on your own," so... LLL has meetings/volunteers all over the country (world!) who will get on the phone with you and "talk you through" different challenges with b/f. My mom was a LLL leader for many years, and I LOVED to hear her on the phone with new b/f moms giving them pointers about this and that in such a caring, loving, even "maternal" way... AND there is almost ALWAYS someone (who knows someone who knows someone) who's breastfed multiples! So, I'm sure they can help you. To find a group near you:

http://www.lalecheleague.org/WebUS.html

One caveat: Some of the LLL women are quite militant about b/f (my mom included!). Otoh, they have arguably done more for b/f moms, issues and support than any other group in the whole world! So, what you have to do is go through/listen to all the varied and extremely _valuable_ advice and resources they have for you; take what you "need"/want/find useful for _you_; and leave the rest... Know what I mean? Either way, you may just find that these women (and the multiples of moms groups) will be your saviors for going down the b/f "road"... They're truly super. I mean it. :throb:

Mothers of Multiples: Please MAKE CONTACT with those Mothers of Multiples groups in your neighborhood too. If you can find just ONE mom of twins who is willing to be your helper and mentor through this whole process, you may find a LOT of peace of mind in confiding in/getting advice and support from HER. Luckily, I have a very dear friend here who had twins two years ago -- when I lost my first twin pg :'-( -- who is already that for me, although of course she's really busy too! She is still ALWAYS ready to listen and give good advice -- as best she can. And that is _such_ a saving grace... :'-))

Also: Please don't forget that there's still THIS SITE, and lots of wonderful resources and interest groups online for twin moms AFTER they deliver those twins!!! ;-)) AND, as for me, I don't know about you all, but I don't plan to be going too far after my little ones are born! I sure hope THIS GANG will still be a great source of support, love and advice when our little ones are here! It'll be more difficult (time constraints, etc.), but I see that these threads don't just "end" when the babies are =here=! In fact, that is a true Beginning of another kind, isn't it??! ;-)

Well, all this to say, dear, sweet Mommies-to-be: Please don't panic!!! If you don't feel comfortable about all these big changes, that's totally NORMAL. To take a more "dh" kind of perspective: Fact is, we ARE going to "do this." We HAVE TO do it (we don't actually have a choice, do we?!!)!!! ;-) So, best approach (so it all doesn't seem so daunting/overwhelming!) is to just take a deep breath, keep your head as calm as you can, and tackle things one *baby step* at a time!! ...It's all going to be F-I-N-E, I _promise_. :throb: :throb:

Mindy, INCREDIBLE WEIGHTS!!! :'-) You must be overjoyed!!! I get the feeling that you're "on your way" sometime soon too! Well, please check that site (like brilliant Teresa said: www.spinningbabies.com) and see what you can manage with the positions (little buggers! I can't believe they flipped over night!!!!). Take a deep breath (like I said ;-)), and slowly start getting everything ready to go. I'm so excited for you!!!!!

mommyof4, you TOO!! (?!) We don't know for sure, of course, but you'll probably have more info after your doc visit.... It'll be hard to be truly "ready" EVER -- won't it?! -- but you can do your best to be as prepared as you can. And the rest... well, the rest is in you-know-Who's hands!!! ;-) xx

Missy, they're getting kinda SQUISHED in there, so I really think towards the end of term, they're not going to move as much as earlier. No reason to panic unless they go for days and days with no movement at all. Try to concentrate and "feel for" slow, "rolling" kinds of movements, instead of hard "kicks," know what I mean? Just so you know they're still active. Of course, if you're really uneasy though, call your doc!! xx

Jason, glad you're back too! And so happy dw is hanging in there! A big hug (back) to both of you for hanging in there and all you're going through now!!!!!

As for me, I had another FIVE HOUR NAP today! I hope I'll still be able to sleep tonight! (!?!) Will go -- I swear! -- for the GD test tomorrow, and pray all will be okay.

My love and warm hugs to all of you!!!
xox

PS Teresa, I'm so glad to see you're still posting so much! It makes me so impressed by you, and confident that things are going okay for you and Babies, each time you check in!! xxxxx

PPS Ters? Daniele??? Andrea????

[AndreaR]

Hello ladies...

I'm back from my doctors' appointments. I had a bio and NST. Everything is good. Both girls scored 8's on the bio, but the doctor (not my peri, but a resident) told me the highest score was an 8??? I'll have to ask my peri next week. I didn't get measurements, I guess we'll get those every other week. From now on, I am going to see both my peri and OB weekly. Baby A is breech, which is new. She's been head down since day 1. I knew something felt different. My cervix is still long (5cm) and I didn't have any contractions while I was on the monitor. I've only had a few Bh here and there so far.

I am having a hard time feeling regular movement (I think I'm not patient enough), so that's why they started me on weekly NSTs. Today was my first. It wasn't too bad. At least I got to sit up. Laying down for the U/S is the worst. Thankfully DH was there to help keep me laughing. He would say the funniest things every time the doctor or nurse walked out of the room.

I saw my OB, too. He measured my fundal height. 40 WEEKS! No wonder I'm miserable. He started talking about "what ifs" for the first time, too. Like, if I start to feel contractions, if my water breaks, etc. I guess we're getting down to the wire. He was pretty funny, though. He said to my belly, "we need to make it to 32 weeks, though!"

Also, I gained 5 pounds in one week!! YIKES! He said not to worry, it was probably just water. I need to drink more, I know, I know!! Although, for the record, none of my doctors/nurses/PAs has ever mentioned drinking water. I've only heard it from you all.

Heather - sorry about your rough night. Heartburn is the worst. Tums don't work for me either. I switched to Maalox and it is better for me. My OB suggested a liquid over the Tums. You might want to try? I hope you are able to catch up on your sleep over your long weekend.

Well, I am pooped from the trip to the doctors, so I'm off for my afternoon nap. I'll try to check in with you later. Enjoy the afternoon.

AndreaR

[teresa67]

Yep big babies here, dr said they are measuring bigger than a singleton would at this gestation.

Sherry......I'm barely getting around, I never thought it would be like this. I have to wake my husband up to help me out of bed to go to the bathroom, but I felt bad doing that every 30 minutes since he has to work, so I put a chair besides the bed, but what works better is sleeping close to the edge and then using my top leg to help pull myself off the bed. I can't stand more than a few minutes without leaning on something. The reason I'm still on here is because what else am I going to do? LOL There's a comfortable chair here in front of the computer, and this gives me something to do. I'm still washing clothes and dishes, though it's getting difficult to do that, I still cook a little bit. I definitely feel like I'm getting close.

[TMoT]

:'-(( Teresa, my heart bleeds for you, literally. :'-(( I can still move without support and get around okay, but for REALLY short distances. I spent HALF the time in IKEA today looking for somewhere to sit down! :-( I felt like such a loser. I was totally useless. I admire you for even doing the dishes and such. It must exhaust you. Thing is I can so totally see the same thing in my not-very-distant future. All the more reason to empathize with you so strongly. *sigh* Feels like the babies have grown a LOT in the last week, and I'm feeling more and more "unmanageable" in my body...! Today, I was thinking my complaint list looks something like this:

I'm uncomfortable because I need to eat
I'm uncomfortable because I just ate
(standing up) I'm uncomfortable because I need to sit down
(sitting down) I'm uncomfortable because I need to lay down
(laying down) I'm uncomfortable because I can't breathe; I think I need to sit up, turn over, etc.
Etc.
;)

Well, your stamina is admirable. You are still my biggest inspiration. :throb: Please keep taking good care of yourself!
Love, love, love,

[teresa67]

Sherry,

Your post made me laugh and smile. I will always feel that NO ONE understands what we are going through except another twin mom.
We may have those that greatly sympathize with us, but how we
actually feel? I don't think so. I have 19 days left, PRAISE GOD, until
I have my little girls, yes I'm counting days, and hours, on May 1st at
12 noon I won't be pregnant anymore...YEAAAAAAAA:yippee:
Sherry, just take things in stride, and know that when you start to slow
down that only means your getting closer. Thank you sooooo much for
the support you give me. You take it easy......love ya:throb: Teresa

[AndreaR]

I'm uncomfortable because I need to eat
I'm uncomfortable because I just ate
(standing up) I'm uncomfortable because I need to sit down
(sitting down) I'm uncomfortable because I need to lay down
(laying down) I'm uncomfortable because I can't breathe; I think I need to sit up, turn over, etc.



AMEN, SISTER!!

[TMoT]

LOL It IS great to be understood, isn't it??!! :throb: I'm counting your days too, Teresa! :) Then, after that, I only have oooooh TWO MONTHS MORE to go!!!!! :rotflmbo: :eek:

How will I do it??!!?

*Hugs*
PS Isn't it time to update the signature pic?! I look so SVELTE in that one!!! *rofl*

PPS AndreaR, your post has me nervous/excited for you too!!! Don't worry so much about the movement -- it probably IS because you're impatient!! And you're so lucky dh et al. were making you laugh at your appt. What else can we do here, right?!?! Water... Hmmm. I don't understand that your med "team" never mentioned this...!! Are you having contractions? Do you feel thirsty?! It's just standard pg "best practice" to keep your body and those growing babies (amniotic sacs, etc.) well lubricated (and doubly so for us!)...! You can read about it anywhere, but if nothing else, just do it for me so I won't worry about you, okay??! ;-) Whew. 32 weeks?! That's quick!!!!! YIKES!!

[qbanmom5]

Hi!

Red itchy bumps on my belly...check! They are driving me nuts especially right under my belly button. I just want to rip my skin off. I can't possibly apply more cream.

Went in today for u/s. Both are still head down (have been forever which is good even though my stupid dr. will end up sectioning me I am sure). My little Scarlett weighs 2 lbs 12 oz (which I though was small but I guess its average for 29 weeks according to that website I think Valerie posted). Her nameless brother (poor kid) weighs 3lb 5 oz. His cheeks look chubby but maybe thats just me wishing. Everything looks good.

Turns out the meds I am taking is Terbuteline. I had heard of that from Birth Day or Babies Special Delivery. I still feel some contractions, but not as many and not as frequently. It does give me bad gas (tmi warning). I discovered a pretty good solution: I sit up on the bed for like 2 minutes then I get on my hands and knees and lay the top of my uterus on 2 pillows (most of my weight is supported by my elbows which are in front of the pillows) with my butt in the air and let em rip. I sit back up for 2 minutes then do it again. Ido it like 8-10 times until no more comes out. I know it sounds gross but maybe some of you are having gas problems and since it works for me....

Sherry: I had to laugh at your post about when you are standing, sitting, laying, etc. It is the same for me. Also, does anyone else get out of breath just walking around the house? When I am on the phone I have a habit of pacing around the house and within 5 minutes I can't catch my breath. Especially if it is a really juicy conversation.

Checked the registry and my cousin and wife bought me the 2 car seats and someone bought me the glider w/ ottoman. I think that may have been my dad. So I registered for another cause DH says he needs one too (think he is planning to b/f also-not sure).

Girls, it is soo normal to be fearful and nervous. What Steph said is perfectly true, lots of times too much planning creates more anxiety and your plans end up going out the window. Flexibility is key, and try to have confidence in your natural instincts. They will kick in, trust me. Otoh, some things do need to be learned, but I have given birth in 3 different hospitals and have always found them to be extremely helpful and educative (is that a word)? Bombard them with questions, that is what they are there for. Also, with my first born I was a total mess. I had never even held a baby much less fed, bathed or changed one. By the time I left the hospital, I had a good sense of what I needed to do (bathing was always scary for me though, so be prepared to just sponge them down with minimal water in a separate container). My pediatricians office had a 24 hr. nurse advice line. That was a lifesaver and boy did I use it. They talked me through taking her temperature (rectally-first time for me), constipation, burping and gas, even whether her stool looked normal. I called them all the time and asked them everything and not once were they short or upset. Find out if your pediatrician or insurance has this. It is a real god-send. Lastly, take advantage of the help you will have around you but don't let them stress you out or tell you anything contrary to what you have read/heard. I know the first night my first baby came home, she kept crying. My mother in law insisted that she was starving and I wasn't feeding her enough. She ended up overstuffing her stomach with formula (like 8 oz or something for God's sake!) and I ended up not breastfeeding and feeling like a failure. I still regret letting her get involved to this day. Listen to your gut, read now before they come, and if you plan to b/f read the book Sherry mentioned. Your body was made to give them what they need when they need it. Don't let people tell you otherwise. Call a lactation consultant, they will come to your house. That is all for now. Sorry so long. I am going to lie down now.

Love you all, Ters

[AndreaR]

Just about midnight, can't sleep, hungry....

Sherry - Thanks for the post. I haven't had any contractions at all, and my amnio fluid levels have always been very good. I feel like I have been very lucky during this pg (despite the horrid morning sickness and now the discomfort) that there have been absolutely no complications. Maybe no one has mentioned the water, because they think I'm drinking enough?? Not sure. I know myself that I definitely drank more water when I wasn't pregnant. But I just can't drink that much now. But I try!! I really do! Don't worry too much about me. Like I said, I think I've had a *RELATIVELY* easy twin pregnancy. Maybe uneventful is a better word than easy. LOL

Ters - good to hear from you. Sounds like you are hanging in there. My girls were about the same size as your babies at 29 weeks (which was last week for me). Baby A was 3 lbs 3 oz, and Baby B was 2 lbs 13 oz. My peri showed me their weights compared to a singleton growth curve, and Baby A was just a smidge over the average, and Baby B was just a smidge under. When I read your post and you used the name Scarlett, I quickly scanned down to see what you had decided on for the boy's name. I see you are still up in the air there. I know how it feels. We're still undecided. I've decided to stop thinking about it for a few days and see what comes up. Sorry about your gas problems, tho I was giggling a little at your nightly ritual. But I really think it's great that you found something that works to give you some relief! Also, when I get first get in bed, I crawl up on my hands and knees with pillows under my chest, like you said. It seems to take some relief off my back for a few minutes. I imagine the girls laying in a hammock (aka my belly!).

Out of breath walking around the house - CHECK!

Teresa - I can't believe you only have 19 days left. You are doing so great! Just think, at any other time in our life 19 days would be nothing! Some people go on vacation for a longer period of time. You have been such a great resource on this board, like you are our leader on an exciting expedition - since you are the furthest ahead, you experience everything first and then you help us through it when it's our turn. Thank you!!

Well, I think I'll try to go back to sleep for a while. I have lots to do tomorrow, and I really should get as much sleep as possible.

AndreaR

[KKMOTO]

I'm from the aug. group, you might ask your dr. about triamsinalone cream. I have PUPPS and that and baking soda have made my life happy again. Minus the sore back and peeing all night.:crazy: Hope you don't mind that I chimed in on your group.

[Daniele'sTwins]

From my blog...I will write more later.

Yesterday was supposed to be a realxing day. I did have plans to go to lunch with my friend Jill and then to return some shoes at Filenes, but I kept having more and more cramping. Monday my doctor told me I was having contractions from monitoring me buit they went away and I think I was having them every morning actually but yesterday they weren't going away just getting worse and worse. Then the back pain started setting in as well so I called the doctor and he sent me to Women and Infants. They took me in right away and hooked me up to the monitors and sure enough I was having some major contractions. They gave me some IV fluids and they started to go away after about an hour. Jill stayed with me the whole time and when I was leaving my mom was there.

This morning I am feeling the cramping again so I am just going to sit on the couch and DRINK a lot of water and see if it gets better.

[newmomx2]

Danielle -

Saw your post - I have noticed in the last week that I have more BH contractions in the am...I find I need to get up and drink like a camel right away - even before I shower - the more I drink the better my chances of feeling good (okay better) by noon...

I am feeling the babies more this morning so that is making me feel better to.

[teresa67]

Andrea,

That's so sweet of you to say that. It means alot to me. I've never in my life been counting the days down like I'm counting them down now.

[TMoT]

Daniele, I hope you're okay. :-( ...D/Missy, I have the same thing too. No bh, but swelling in my hands/feet and an overall "icky" feeling in the morning -- till I guzzle about half a gallon of water. I really feel like it's hard to keep up! Plus, my kidneys have been hurting lately (aching in my back just below my ribcage), and I have a history of kidney stones. :-( Today, I found trace leucocytes (white blood cells) in my urine again too. I think I see another doc/hospital visit in my near-future. :'-(( Wah.

So glad you're feeling the babies more now too, Missy.

KKMOTO, thanks for the post about the cream. I have the same thing as Ters and I'll ask the doc about it. Seems to come and go (for the moment, everything is "stable"), but when I do have it, it's like Ters described: Unbearable till I almost scratch my skin off! :eek: Ick.

Teresa: 18 days! :throb:

Everybody: It all seems to be getting tougher and tougher, but let's try to help each other to not get discouraged, okay, gals??? ...This is _literally_ like pushing a big boulder up a hill, and the boulder keeps getting bigger, while the hill keeps getting steeper... :-( Somewhere up there is the top, though! Might be hard to see right now, but that's because it's up past the clouds, in the sunshine, real close to Heaven. :'-)

...Hang in there big-bellied mountain climbers!!! :throb: xox

[vthompson]

Sherry - What does the white blood cells indicate? UTI? Make sure you go to the hosp/doc if you think you need to and keep us posted.

Missy - I am very glad that the babies are moving more today. That will definitely put your mind at ease!

Daniele - I am very glad to hear that the contractions did stop yesterday. However, I am worried about you. Make sure you drink lots of water and get some rest and keep us posted. Sending hugs your way! :throb:

AndreaR - I am very happy for you that you have had an uneventful pg so far. However, don't take this for granted. Make sure you still listen to your body for any signs of "events". Congrats on your "test scores". It sounds like the babies are doing great!

Ters - Those are great weights!! I also get out of breath from just about anything anymore. Getting dressed, walking to the bathroom, etc. I cannot imagine how out of shape I am right now! I was given that medicine, Terbutaline when I was in the hospital. It made me so shaky! I was laughing at the description of how you get the gas to go away. I was imagining you in that position. I am glad that you found something that works to give you relief.

Teresa - I can't believe you are so close! I am so excited for you. You truly have been a huge help to us on the board. Your knowledge and experience has eased my mind MANY times!! Hang in there...you are so close to the end!

I will check in later.

Valerie

[qbanmom5]

KKMOTO: Thanks, I will ask the dr. about the cream. I actually just called the office this morning and left a message because I was reading the handout that came with the terbutaline and it says if I get a rash I should call the dr. Since it started right after I started the meds, I thought I would check out the possibility that it is an allergic reaction?

Valerie: Yes, shaky. That is how I feel all the time. Even typing right now my hands are hard to control!


Danielly: I am worried about you!! Drink your water but don't hesitate to go the hospital, I am serious. The nurse even told me she would rather check me 500 times and have it be nothing than for me to not get checked and I am dilating or something. Lie on your left side and keep checking the time. If you have more than 4 an hour I would run to the ER. Even if they dont hurt! O.k.? Good.

Sherri: Glad you are drinking your water. Make sure you also get yourself checked out if you feel something is not right. You are so busy taking care of all of us, that you don't focus on yourself. It is time to be selfish now, please?

Funny story: Yesterday the kids had painted some easter eggs at school and were playing with them in the kitchen. Well, some had cracked and they were playing with the yokes and you all know how eggs smell. Well, the windows were closed cause I was cold, and I went to my bedroom to do my gas ritual and relieve myself when I hear DH come through the door. The first thing out of his mouth was "why does it smell like farts in here?" I was cracking up (and still am) cause I thought there is no way he can smell them from the living room! But I think it was the eggs, or maybe a combination. :rotflmbo:

New ticker coming soon. I just don't feel like getting gussied up for a picture, nor do i want my red, spotted, striped belly zoomed in on. I have a NST later and maybe I will have Raquel take a picture of me if I choose to look decent.

Love you all, Ters

[mommyof4at26]

so the good new still havent dilated but i am 30%effaced am only 29 weeks, my cervix is measuring now at 2and a half cm long,not good i have been having cramping and bhs i had a nst they said things arelooking good, now i have nst,ob,and and ultrasound every week,because the boys share the same placenta,he also said right now unless i start dilating,i have a 40% chance of delivering june 15th, so also i was put on strict bedrest.so i will be talking to ya guys alot more.

[qbanmom5]

We're praying for you mommy of 4.

I am on my way to the nst. Hope they don't see contractions (even though I feel some) :spitwater :spitwater :spitwater .

I got Raquel to take a new picture. I think I am bigger in person.

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[vthompson]

Ters - You look great in your ticker picture!! I was laughing at your story about farts and DH! That is too funny!

Mommyof4 - Hang in there! I know firsthand what it is like to be on bedrest. You will find that some days are better then others. Some days go by fast and others just drag. I check in ALL the time on the board since I was put on bedrest. It really helps to pass the day! Just think, June 15th will be here before you know it! Going to the doctors once a week will really help, too since you can get out of the house.

Talk to you soon. It has been pretty quiet today. Where is everyone?

Valerie

[TMoT]

mommyof4, whatever it takes to keep 'em in there, right??!! So glad the nst looks okay, but remember what Jill said (she had a negative one too and then went into labor :eek:)... Just be prepared for anything now! You are in my prayers!! ...Take good, good care of yourselves and looking forward to hearing more from you!! :-) xx

Ters, you look FAB!!! (Trying not to imagine the farting ritual while looking at your lovely pic! :rotflmbo: ) You're a scream! Let us know about the nst, okay?

Welp, we went to the ER to find out about the back-pain and leucocytes/white bloodcells, and of course... they found NOTHING!! :-( So, I still have the pain and I truly suspect something (uti, yes), but we couldn't confirm it, so I just have to wait and see... Kinda feel like all that water I drink "masked" the urine sample -- know what I mean...?? Why does that always happen, though??! You feel/see something and then go all the way to the doc and it "disappears"...!! *Grmph* DH asked me if I'm not just a hypocondriac (!!). He was joking, but it didn't make me feel better. Well, doc suggested some medicines to take to make sure the pain isn't muscular, so I'm definitely going to try that to see if we can rule out 'other possibilities.' I hope it'll work, but I'm afraid that's not exactly what's up. Anyway, gonna give it a try... ;-) *sigh*

Have a very nice Easter Weekend, everyone! Keep those eggies warm and check in as soon as you can!! xox

PS ER u/s showed Baby A is now breech too. :-( Wah.

[teresa67]

Ters......your crazy LOL That is so funny. My Mom and I were talking today. She said when she was first married she wouldn't fart in front of my father, she would run out of the room. I told her, well times have changed, if I have to fart when my husband is in the room, he's the one that runs out.

Sherry.......ahh yes 18 days today:throb:

Valerie.....thank you, being on bedrest is a bummer and I'm a real talker in person, I enjoy seeing how each of you are doing, you really aren't that far behind me. It seems like the ladies of the april board just had their babies and now may board is having theirs, this board won't be far behind, most of you will come a few weeks early than your due dates.

[qbanmom5]

Hi!

NST was good. The dr's office finally called back about the itchy belly and said that it is probably not an allergy to the meds since its only on my belly. The girls at the peri's office told me I could be allergic to the gel they put on the monitoring equip. Last week I started going 2 times a week for those tests and this week I was there Tues., at ER tues night (more gel) U/S Thurs. (more gel) and today (even more gel). The monitoring at the ER was the worst because those monitors (covered with gel) were on my abdomen for like 2 hours) and coincidentally it was after that that I started to itch like mad. Anyway they said next time to ask for no gel on the monitoring equip. I think they need it for the u/s though but at least that is relatively quick.

Teresa: That is hilarious. Its the same here...DH is usually the one running.

Valerie: I was wondering how come you got the terb shot and no pills to take at home. I keep having contractions after about 4 hrs of taking the pill (supposed to wait 6 hours for the next one). Yours probably got under control with just the shot.

Sherry: Glad you went to the dr. With all the water you are drinking I am sure your urine is all water. Is it even a little yellow? Don't mean to tease you, I really need to follow your lead especially with my contracting uterus. I have a feeling you are going to outlast us all. I have been wondering if maybe I have a uti and thats why my uterus is contracting. I don't feel any sx of one though, but they haven't checked for it either....

Hope you all have a great weekend. I probably wont post until Sunday or maybe Monday. Don't worry, If anything happens with me I will let you know right away. Just assume that no news is good news....

Love, Ters
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[AndreaR]

Rachel - Sorry to hear about the bedrest. Keep those babies cooking. We are all here for you and will try to help you pass the time quickly.

Sherry - Sorry to hear about your trip to the hospital. I think you know your own body better than anyone. It must be a little frustrating not to figure out what's wrong. I hope you are feeling better soon.

Farting DH right out of the room - CHECK! And I can't wait for Jason to pipe in on this one.

Okay, two things.... one is funny, one is NOT funny:

First, I have joked here before about how big and saggy my boobs are (down to my belly button). Well, I just noticed that now that my belly is so big, my boobs sit on top of my belly and without a bra, I am almost perky!! HA HA. It's the only benefit to a gigantic belly. But I'll take it.

Second, and this has me really bummed out... Today, DH and I went into the city and to get some things done and then we went out to lunch. It was a beautiful day here today, sunny & 70 degrees. We sat outside. We had really been enjoying the day. Then, out of the corner of my eye, I notice a friend of mine sitting nearby with her friend Lorraine. So I call out to her, and she comes over to say hello. Now, mind you, this is a woman that I have known fairly closely for over 15 years... After she asks me how I'm feeling/doing (and I proceed to let her know that I'm feeling gigantic and depressed because I can only wear sneakers), she says, "You know, I was just about to say to Lorraine, Wow, that woman over there is really big! - I didn't realize it was you!" And I asked her if she meant pregnancy big, and SHE SAID NO!!! This, the day after my OB appointment where I found out that I have gained almost 70 pounds so far. In the OB office, where I'm surrounded by pg women who are so skinny everywhere but their cute little poochy bellies. And I waddle by......

Girls, I am so bummed out about the weight. I look so horrible. People tell me I look great, but I know they're just trying to make me feel better. I can't wear anything cute/stylish. I am basically in sweats and sneakers all the time. I have no idea what I'm going to wear on Easter, never mind my shower which is in two more weeks. God knows how much weight I'll gain in between. I don't feel like myself; I feel like a giant blob. I love these babies sooo much. I really do. We tried for five & a half years to get pregnant, and I feel so blessed to be having twins. And if this is what it takes for me to carry them healthily, then I accept it. But it's so difficult. I think I've reached my breaking point. And I have seven more weeks... HELP!!

Thanks for listening....

AndreaR

[teresa67]

Andrea,

(((((hug)))))) I know how you feel. I've gained about the same amount you have, and people tell me all the time, your sooo huge. I love my mother dearly, but sometimes she says things and doesn't realize she is hurting my feelings. She told me yesterday that I've really gained weight in my face and I don't even look like the same person I was 9 months ago. I thought to myself does she not think I look in the mirror everyday? I really don't need someone to tell me this. If it's any consolation, I hear after the babies are born we will be so busy and too tired to eat the weight will just fall off of us.:D

[qbanmom5]

AndreaR: I can't believe that wench told you that! How darn rude! You are going to have healthy chubby beautiful babies so don't worry. The weight is just temporary and like Teresa said will melt right off from all the running around we will be doing. The last time I saw my dad I was like 19 weeks pregnant and instead of commenting on my belly he just blurted out "you've gotten fat". Now I am dreading seeing him at the shower when I will be 32 weeks and a lot of pounds heavier. But I don't want to focus on him and his negative opinions. Just the fact that the babies are gaining too and in order for them to gain we have to gain. Big hugs to you, and look on the bright side: At least you have perky boobs! Love, ters

[teresa67]

Andrea.....I had to come back to tell you I think it was incredibly insensitve of your friend to tell you that, esp the part about you looking big not due to being pregnant.......just remember things that go around come around and her day will come.

[JacobsMom]

Had my OB check last Wednesday. I am seeing my Peri for sonograms every two weeks, and my OB every two weeks now, but they are not in the same week. In a way this is good, because I have someone checking on the boys every week, but it is about a 30-40 mile round trip to the Medical Center for each appointment, and with gasoline being almost $3.00 a gallon, it's starting to hurt a little! But then again, it's a small price to pay for my peace of mind.

Anyhow my BP is still great. I gained 4 lbs in 6 days and was thrilled to hear it. The nurse laughs when I am so happy to gain weight! I am still 1 lb. lighter than I was one week prior to conception. My OB did a cervix check and I am still long and closed. YIPPEE!! I told her I was concerned about not feeling as much movement out of Baby B - who is on my right side so she had them do a sonogram in the office to make sure he was ok. I couldn't believe that little booger had done a complete 180 in my belly and I never felt it. 6 Days earlier, they were both head down facing my back. Now Baby A is still head down, but has flipped over and is facing the left side of my belly. Baby B is head up facing his brother. The reason I'm not feeling him move as much is because his spine is toward my belly and he is kicking and punching his brother in the side. I guess that's why Baby A is more active. He punches ME when his brother punches him! She was able to get a really sweet face shot of Baby B, and a profile of Baby A. That was great, cause we only got back of the head shots the week before.

ANDREA: My boobs are sitting on my belly too. It's pretty comical. I have one particular bra that I have to wear with one of my maternity tops that has gathers under the breast. It is the only one that gives me enough support to separate the boobs from the belly! LOL! What is really annoying is how sweaty they get underneath. I finally decided to try some of that Monistat Soothing Care Chaffing Relief Powder-Gel. It is WONDERFUL!!! I think it cost about $6 a tube at Target/Wal-Mart, but is worth every penny. It only takes a little bit (about the size of a pea) to cover under each breast, and it dries immediately to a satiny powder feel. It then provides a waterproof barrier to help prevent sweating and chaffing. I was running late the other morning and didn't use it and I could really tell the difference! You can also use it around the bikini area to prevent chafing there too. It is so much better than baby powder. BTW, I was talking to my neighbor yesterday and she told me she had gained 65 lbs with her SINGLE baby. She said she had lost almost all of it by the time he was 6 weeks old! I have been overweight pretty much my entire life, so I know how it can hurt to have people remark about your size. Right now I'm thankful that I am a plus size woman, cause that means my babies have that much more room to grow in. I am excited to put on weight cause that means my babies are getting bigger and bigger with each pound. Just remember that it is all for them.

JILL: I loved seeing your photos of NOAH and TJ. They are so adorable and the captions you put on the pictures were hilarious. Thanks for sharing them with us.

Well I need to go. Gotta finish up some laundry before bed and it's after 11:30 already. My son was out of school today so we spent a lazy day at home. I slept until almost 10am and took 2 naps today. I feel almost normal!

Take care everybody. HOpe you have a blessed Easter weekend

Stacey

[LucasMom]

Andrea- I am sorry you feel so yucky about the weight. It is the hardest part for me to deal with pregnant also. I am sensitive (ok, obsessive!) about how bad I look not pregnant, so when pregnant, it becomes even worse. One thing to know is that it DOES have and end. When you give birth, and your body has a little time to relax and heal, you control your weight loss after that. IT is not easy, but it can be done. You can tell those sucky people who dare to say things about how you look that " I'm pregnant, so mine will only last 9 months, but you are always going to look that way!" :)
At least thats what I say in my head when comment are made. Family are the worst too, because they think it's ok, because they are your family. You should give them a very serious face and tone of voice and say "please stop. It's really rude and hurtful when you make those comments." When they see you are not joking with them, that may make them think twice.

I know it doesn't really make you feel any better to hear this stuff, but try to remember, in a few weeks it will be over, and you can begin the new part of your life with two beautiful children, and a nice long summer to take walks with them and turn yourself into a hot mommy!

I hope I said something right here! Just know we all know how you feel.

:throb: Mindy

[vthompson]

Mindy - I was laughing out loud at your comment about what to say to people about the weight issue. That was a good one!

Stacey - It sounds like the babies and the pg are doing great! Thanks for the idea on the cream. I am definitely going to get some. Under my boobs is so uncomfortable lately.

Ters - I think that is terrible that your dad said that. It is amazing how insensitive people can be. Have you said anything to him? Or maybe could your mom say something to him? When my dad saids/does something stupid, I tell on him sometimes to my mom (lol)

Teresa - I am so sorry for you, too that your mom is making you feel that way. You seem like you have a really good attitude about things, though. Keep that up!!

Andrea R - My boobs are also resting on my belly! It is really funny. You cannot really tell them apart anymore, the boobs and the belly! I really cannot believe that woman, who you have known so long, said those things! I would have probably started to cry right then and there. You seem much stronger then me! She is a bi***! A BIG one! I don't remember who said it, but I agree, what goes around comes around! You are going to have beautiful big babies at the end of this, and she won't! When she does, she will understand how hurtful comments like that are! Hang in there!

Ters - That is crazy about the gel. I never even thought about it causing an allergic reaction. Can you try and take benadryl? It is on my sheet for "safe" meds during pg. When I was in l/d, they gave me the shot and the contractions stopped. I thought when I went to see my doctor the next day, she would have given me a prescription. However, she did not because the contractions did stop. Also, she said that it can raise your blood sugar and since I have problems with that, they did not want to give them to me unless I continued to have contractions that would not go away. If your sugars are in good working order, then you have nothing to worry about. Congrats on the good appt!

Sherry - Although I am sure you were aggravated to go to the ER and nothing was wrong, I am very glad that you and the babies are ok!! And don't even think for a minute that you were overreacting. We keep telling each other to listen to our bodies. It is better to be safe then sorry! Maybe it is just muscular. I think the test that Jill had was an FFN, not an NST. The FFN is the one that is supposed to predict if you will deliver in the next 2 weeks. The NST monitors the babies to see if they are under any stress or if you are contracting.

Nothing new here. Terrible sleep again, but I think I am just getting used to it! DH is gone most of today so I feel pretty lonely. Since I am here all week by myself on bed rest, if he is not home on the weekends or evenings, it seems so much worse, not that he is gone very much besides work. Well, I am sure I will check back later!

Valerie

[Mommyhas4]

Hey guys - just visiting from the May board and checking in on you guys. Someone was asking about preemie clothes in case you have your babies early, so I thought I would share this website with you all as well.
You guys may not know, but I have been a NICU Mom with all my kids (3 times in the last 3 years). My water breaks at 29 weeks every time, so my babies have been 4 lbs, 3lbs and the twins were 2lbs each. So here is my opinion on preemie clothes.

Go to http://www.preemie.com/default.asp?&sc=looksmart&k=home and buy whatever you need. They have micropreemies and small preemies and large preemies clothes so they have something that will fit your needs. They also have NICU clothes that snap and have openings for all the leads and iv cords.

You can buy whatever you want, they have cute "coming home" outfits for premies even if they come home under 5lbs as all mine did.

It's run by a mom and her premie (now 28 years old) and they understand that you may buy things and not need them later (if you have 7lb babies for instance) and you can return whatever you don't use and get a full refund. So don't be afraid to get a few outfits just in case.

It's a WAY better selection than BRUS and they are better made, don't cost a fortune and are cute. This is our coming home outfit :http://www.preemie.com/get_item_oss350-bunny.htm

-Jeanette

[swineland]

Hey everyone! Just checking in to say that I am alive and well.....it's been a few days since I've posted, but you all know I've got DH's parents in town and we've been busy.

They are leaving on Monday morning, so only a day and a half left till I get my house back. Of course, they are helping us a lot by finishing up projects and odd-jobs around the house, but I'm still getting ultra-frustrated at having company in the house for this long. I get 3 days to myself and then MIL flies BACK down for our baby shower next weekend. Originally, my FIL asked if she could just stay here next week and not go through the hassle of going back to Maryland only to fly back 3 days later....but I said no. :crazy: What drives me nuts the most is how they sort of bicker back and forth...like Ray's parents on Everybody Loves Raymond..... It's SO SO annoying.

Feeling pretty okay these days....I have an OB appt on Monday and my next Level II on the 27th. The boys are moving around like crazy in there and we are having such fun feeling them and talking to them. We are finally finished with all of our classes and I feel like the countdown has really begun. I started to pack my hospital bag, too. I went to Kohls and bought some really comfy socks with skid resistance "dots" on the bottom (so I don't bust my a$$ on the way to the bathroom in the hospital!) I just want to get a couple really cheap nightgowns that I can wear instead of the hospital gowns (after delivery of course). I know they may get ruined or stained, but I want to wear something comfy and new.

Hey, Daniele, did the coupon arrive there yet??

Hope you all are well.....looking forward to more/longer posts in the coming days!! :yippee:

Steph

[TMoT]

Valerie, thanks for the correction! You're right. All these crazy abbreviations! My bad. :eek: Sorry mommyof4!!

Thanks to everyone for your support about my hospital visit (again)!! I'm still very uncomfortable (in all senses of the word) about all this, but I'm trying to put a brave face on the situation, and happy everything is okay with the babies, at least! Thing is that stuff with kidneys can get really bad really fast, and (not to be dramatic, but) that can have serious, sudden implications for me and the babies if we're not careful. That's what I'm most concerned about, of course. :'-( So, I'm going to just see how I/we manage the next few days, and if I continue to feel bad, I'll just march right back over to the hospital and fight with those people to take care of me/us, if I have to!!!!!

Stacey, so nice to hear the babies are doing well and moving around so much in there! NICE that your cervix is still in good shape, too! Keep taking care of yourselves!!!! xx

AndreaR, your post brought tears to my eyes. I've been feeling SO ugly and large (=gigantic!) these days too, that really hit a sore spot. :-( I can't believe people are so cruel! Otoh, my circle of contacts these days is just getting smaller and smaller, and dh (especially) is so nice to me about everything (I think he's lying too, but what the hay!), I haven't yet really been confronted by others about my size... Besides, well, I wouldn't imagine they'd DARE to say mean things about me to my face!! How shocking! Belgians are quite civilized and modest people, though, so maybe I'm just lucky. Remember what I said about "rond en gezond" (Dutch="round and healthy")? I can only hope that sums up their attitude about pg women. ...The only comment I've gotten so far (but maybe they're coming henceforth?!) was from a mid-40s-looking mom who has a 2-year-old and said I looked like I was due "soon." That wasn't so bad when I cleared it up by saying "it's twins" and "not for 2-3 months yet"! The other thing is (as I keep saying) that I almost ALWAYS wear BLACK!!!! (Shower and Easter clothing tip! ;-)) I do usually, anyway, but when I bought a bunch of 2nd-hand maternity clothes, they ended up all being black too, so there ya go... In a crowd, (I swear!) some people don't even notice my belly! HARD to believe!!! ...All right. I've figured it out now. I'll put this in the words of my five-year-old (something he came up with the other day when a bratty kid wouldn't let us share the soccer court): Some people are just "empty" inside. They have "no brains and no hearts"...! ....So what do we expect??!?!?

...Besides all the SIZE (and huge, heavy, but still HANGING boobs: CHECK!), I also see those wrinkles in the mirror, and my gray hairs peeking out along my roots, etc. Some of this I KNOW will "go away" with the babies coming (esp the weight!), but a lot of it in my case, comes from the plain ol' fact that I'll be 39 when they're here, and the wear and tear on this old bod is frightening me. People are always kind enough (Valerie, Lisa, are you listening?! ;-)) to tell me I look really young for my age, too, but maybe they're also lying...?!? ;-) Just getting a bit intimidated that, at my age, the list of stuff on my bod that is going to "bounce back" after this pg is getting shorter and shorter. Plus, I KNOW what tax/toll raising little ones can take on a woman -- no matter what age! So, even though I suppose I'll eventually have my "30-something" body back :rotflmbo:, it'll probably take that much longer than before, and how old will I be then??! And how old will my body look then?!??! :eek:

...Teresa, it also freaks me out that I can SEE in the mirror what a DRAMATIC change has gone on with my body since the beginning of this pg! And that -- plus the fact that we KNOW this has to have serious health consequences too -- is very disconcerting. Goodness. Adding a whole THIRD-HALF+ of extra body-weight in 6+ months' time certainly CAN'T be good for a person!!! I guess that's why all those kidney, sugar, etc., "issues" kick in... Our poor bodies are being seriously pushed to the limit now. Maybe we all just need to get in a big "hug circle" and have a serious crying/pity party for our poor, abused bodies...? :grouphugg (these guys should be crying though ;-)) *sigh*

Of course, if what Ters wrote about 6-pounders needing their mommies to put on 60-70lbs (or was it 80lbs?) to come out that size, I'll just keep putting on the weight and "grinning and bearing it" (while cussing the @#$%s off behind their backs if they dare pipe up)...!! ...I KNOW drinking water helps though... I just figure it's the best way I can "help" my bod to process/cushion all these dramatic changes and give it a fighting chance to weather this pg. (And NO, Ters, my pee isn't clear!!!!! 8-P I wish!!) Then, if the weight is still going on, I know it's _supposed to_ be there, and so be it.... *sigh*

My little sister, who had twins two years ago, put on 62lbs during her pg too. She was induced at 38 weeks and walked out of the hospital with her little girls _the next day_!!!!! So, there ya have it. Even though we're getting B-I-G (and, maybe even _because of it_!), if we can dodge the sugar, pre-eclampsia, etc. "bullets," we have really good prospects for having big, healthy babies. And isn't that what this is all about anyway?!! Andrea, Teresa, EVERYONE: People are "empty," as my Xan says. So just try to ignore them! We KNOW what we're doing here. We have two beautiful, new little lives growing in our bellies. _We're_ not empty! And, luckily, we're all here for each other too...! :'-)))

Okay. Spewed enough -- again! Just love you gals! xoxox

[AndreaR]

Hi Gals -

Thanks for listening and for you kind words. I'm so happy that I found all of you!

I found my first belly stretchmarks. Bummer. Not that I thought it wasn't going to happen, but I thought maybe?? hee hee. There are two small marks very low. I wonder if they're all going to break out now. Are our bikini days over?? HA HA HA HA HA

Well, I'm off to see if I can find shoes to wear to Easter and to my shower. I'll check in w/ y'all later.

AndreaR

[vthompson]

Sherry - People are not lying to you. When I saw your ticker picture, I was amazed that you were going to be 39. You do not look it at all!!! You are a vibrant and energetic woman! Don't forget that!

Valerie

[Tiny Blessings]

Hi all..

Just checking in....can't sleep and figured I would get caught up on the lives of all of you at 3am....what a goof ball, eh?

Just a few comments: the nervousness is absolutely normal about how close we are getting and the big changes that we are about to undergo in our lives. this is normal for a singlton birth, and especially pronounced for a multiple birth. My son is 21 months, and I am feeling many of the same things I did first time around becasue this time it is TWO! The other ladies already gave great advice that does not need repeating. Just know that there are resources out there to help and you will feel better once you have them in your arms and somehow things just fall into place either naturally, by trial and error, or by you reaching out for help in some way. Funny thing is, we will all be asking each other questions in a few months (weeks!) about this or that and each one of us will be an expert on what works best for our babies...trust me...It will all come together and you will be terrific at caring for every aspect of your babies needs because of the love that you already have and will continue to develop for them. :throb:

Comments: don't these people realize how close we are to exploding emotionally? I feel like I should wear a warning pin or sign sometimes. I say let them have it right back....there is no excuse for making comments as insentistive as that. Imagine the stunned look on that wench's face if you were to say something like, "I may look big now, but in a month I will have two beautiful babies to hold, rock, love and cherish for the rest of my life. That sounds better to me than you having to live with that hideous nose forever!" Maybe a comment like that will put it in perspective as to how awfully rude it is to point out something that is so personal to us right now. (See...I should have warned you just then about my emotinal fragility so you knew some awful thought in my mind was about to be articulated!) LOL

This is my spring vacation week and I had been hoping for 2months that my mom would come up to visit and help me "get ready", but she isn't. I was bummed as I really wanted to get the house in order and "nest" but can't do it alone anymore and mentioned so on Thursday night to DH...so he arranged as a surprise to have my grandmother come up on Friday afternoon and even went down and drove 5 hours to get her here for me! Hooray! What a sweet guy...he deserves a medal for all he has put up with during this pregnancy. And I am excited to have help doing things like washing curtains, etc. She even insisted I take a nap today while she cleaned my windows. What an angel from heaven she is! :clap:

Okay...need to get back to bed and try to get some sleep. I just realized that half the eggs the Easter Bunny set out for Ethan have been batted around by my freakin' cat, so gotta make sure they are in place again before I head back to sleep. Happy Easter everyone...

Tina

[vthompson]

Just wanted to check in. I hope everyone had a fantastic easter!!!

Valerie

[LucasMom]

Does anyone feel like this is going to happen really soon? My stomach has been so upset the last few days and I just feel like it may happen soon. Maybe just wishful thinking? I have a BPP and NSt on wednesday, so I guess I will know more then. I think I am further along than we originally thought, maybe about 34.5 weeks right now according to all the ultrasounds. I feel cooked, done! Want to take the boys home though, so willing to wait it out of course, it's just that each day comes so slow. I originally thought April 23rd would be my day, but now I am trying to hold out for April 31st or so, because if I've made it this far, I can make it just a little further and get them nice and healthy. Just wishing for some kind of news...like you want someone to say, you a re going to go into labor in 12 days. Wouldn't that be nice if someone could do that.

Do I sound crazy, or just really pregnant with two babies?
:)

[EBTwinz]

Hello everyone. I have been MIA for a couple days. I was still checking in but just didn't post. I am just really tired all the time. Sounds like we are all hanging in there but feeling pretty miserable, huh? I can't believe I am 32 weeks! Just a few more weeks and I will be holding some babies in my arms. Scary!! There are days where I am just ready for it to be over with, but then I know it's better to hold off just a little bit longer. The babies are very active, I get kicked all day. I really don't think they sleep. I can feel body parts, too, which is weird. I felt an elbow or a knee the other day and one time I felt a foot. It's like they are just pressing on my stomach, trying to get out. LOL! My back is killing me and the groin pain is sometimes unbearable! I am also getting nauseous, too. I feel like I am going to throw up a lot. Not sure why... Maybe it's acid refulx or third trimester morning sickness, but whatever the cause, it sucks!

I know some of you posted about people making remarks about our size. I completely sympathize with you! I am so tired of people staring at me when I am in public. I dread going out to eat b/c I have to explain that I am having twins and not just overdue. When people stare at me, I am starting to glare at them or make comments like, "haven't you ever seen a pregnant lady?!!". Then, my dh yells at me. I guess my hormones are getting the best of me. I am just plain b*tchy all the time. Oh, I have the ultimate comment about my size... My own dh told me that I look like Grimmace, the purple guy from McDonalds! It was actually kinda funny.

I am getting overwhelmed, too. I think it's pretty normal. I just can't believe that it's almost here! We have waited for so long, and have been miserable for so long, and within a month, some of us may have our babies.

Well, I have to get back to work. I have been slacking today. I will check in later. Hope you all had a nice weekend and are feeling okay today. Please keep us all updated w/ the appts. I have my next level II on Thursday. I am curious to see how much they weigh. I am guessing 4 lbs, each. My babies usually measure a week ahead of my gest age, too. So, technically they are 33 weeks.

Talk to you all soon,
Lisa

[newmomx2]

Missy - Check.

Lisa I agree with everything you wrote - it is just in the last week that I have really started to struggle with all the extra weight...I have had a few days where I have such severe lower back pain (like a knife) that I literally can not walk ! I had to crawl to the bathroom yesterday till the pain eased. Standing makes it worse, sitting causes it to start and laying down doesn't help - perhaps I need to go into a pool of water... I am also frustrated cause DH is literally working 6 days a week from 5am till 7:30pm and he is so tired of working and I am getting lonely !

Okay all that griping aside these boys are not allowed to come out till May ...I will just have to find a way to muddle through...I have my next Level II on Wed and they should be over 4lbs each - no wonder I hurt !!

Lucasmom- I hate to tell you but if you are waiting till April 31st you will be waiting awhile only 30 days in april HAHAHA - you may want to aim for May 1 or you could be pregnant forever !!

- I will check back later hope everyone is well, boad is slow this morning

[vthompson]

Missy, Lisa, and Mindy - I feel the same way as all of you! It just seems that as each day passes, I get more and more uncomfortable, and I am only 30 weeks! I think most of you are a little farther then I am so I cannot imagine how you all must feel if I feel this bad! I hate not knowing, too. I wish there was some magical way for the doctors to give you an exact date of when labor will begin. Otherwise, I just feel like it is a LONG waiting game. However, I have to wait it out because it is still too early for these little ones to come. I am hoping to hold out still until 37 weeks, which would be the beginning of June. Am I crazy???

Valerie

[LucasMom]

Great, now all of the fat is going to my head!!! OK, no April 31st!
How about April 30? How about we just skip the next 3 weeks and like magic, we are in the "safe zone" and all simultaneously have fat, healthy babies we can take home? Is that too much to ask? Oh, and while we are at it, take the stretch marks and loose belly skin and get rid of that too, so I can go home in a ...BIKINI!!

Now I really am delirious!

:yippee: I am doing jumping jacks in my office...

Just kidding, I couldn't jump if I tried!

[swineland]

Steph...check!

On my way to lay down for a couple hours, but wanted to say hello!

The in-laws are gone and all-in-all it wasn't TOO bad. I had my moments of annoyance and would just go in my room and shut the door. Anyway, they got a lot done around here and that certainly makes it easier for DH and I going forward with countdown: babies!

I had my 31 week OB checkup today. All is well, :throb: 's sounded great, measuring 36 weeks. He did another FFN test, which I am sure will come out negative. (Not that it matters, as we all know)

I cannot tell you how incredibly ITCHY my belly is. It is unreal. I keep putting the Eucerin Calming Cream on it (afraid to use hydrocortisone as I read it can absorb into the blood and through to the placenta), but it only briefly takes away the itch. It's mainly over the area of ALL my stretch marks, which are popping up by the day seems like. The whole area under my belly button to my pubic bone is covered with them. :woa: Anyway, under my boobs itches a lot too....right where the bra hits. I have been putting baby powder under there after the showers, helps a TAD.

Our baby shower is this coming weekend and we have people coming in from several places, leaving no vacancy at our house and a few folks in hotels. As much as I'm looking forward to seeing everyone and enjoying the day, I gotta say that I'll also be happy when this is all over with. I'm SO looking forward to May, where the calendar is clear and all I have left to do is wait, nest and keep cooking!

Well, I can't keep my eyes open any longer.......
Hope you all had a great holiday weekend and an even better Monday morning!

Steph

[AndreaR]

Hi everyone!

It sounds like we are all in the same boat - big and uncomfortable. I agree with everything Lisa, Valerie, Missy & Mindy have just said.

Mindy - I especially like what you said about skipping the next three weeks. I was just looking for the "fast forward" button on my belly.

Steph - glad you survived the in-laws. And I am getting the same stretchmarks under my belly button. My mother in law said they'll go away. Is that true??? I thought they didn't go away on their own... Glad to hear about your great appointment! Everything sounds good.

Lisa - I know I say this all the time, but I can't believe you are working. God bless you. I wonder if it helps make time go by any faster? Ever since I stopped working a few weeks ago, it seems like time has stood still.

I have my next appointment Thursday, and they'll measure the girls. I'm hoping for about 4 pounds. They were just under/over 3 pounds at the last appointment. I think my OB said they grew about 1/2 pound per week. Or it was one of you gals. I can't remember.

I'm off to take a nap, too. I'll check in later.

AndreaR

[mommyof4at26]

hey alljust checking in, i had a us today, my docter was wrong,the tach said my cervix is still at 5cm and closed even though i am 30% effaced,both are head down,baby a isaac weighs 3lbs7ounces,baby b isaiah weighs 3lbs4ounces so as long as theyu arent too distant than they are ok, i have a nst friday, and another ob and us next monday,saturday is my baby shower i am so excited, :yippee: :yippee: :yippee: i hope everyone had a reat easter

[qbanmom5]

I am here. I had a really long post but my bird stepped on something and deleted it all! I am pissed, I will write back later. I have a bird to strangle....

Ters

[mmzill]

Hey Everyone -

I just thought I'd say "Hi" I"m so glad that many of you are past the 30 week mark! That is wonderful! I know you are all so uncomfortable, but hang in there! At this point I can't say I know how you feel, but I know that I was so uncomfortable before the boys were born!

An update:
Our little guys are doing really well. They are 32 1/2 wks gestationally now. Anthony is up to 3 lbs 14 oz (although alot of that is fluid, which isn't a great thing, but they are working on getting that taken care of) Nathan is 2 lbs 11 oz.

Last weekend they both got infections and were put on antibiotics. Anthony actually had to be put on the ventilator for a day, but he is off it now and off the CPAP too! They haven't had any breathing or heart beat lapses in 3 or 4 days! Nathan is eating 24 cc (about an ounce) of milk every 3 hrs and Anthony should be up to 18 cc's by this evening.

The doctor said that they may be able to transfer them to our local hospital as early as this weekend!!!:clap: It's amazing how well they are doing. I"m so so grateful! They put them in the same bed on Sunday! They are so cute together. You can check out some pics if you like. http://photos.yahoo.com/mmzill

I hope all of you can manage the uncomfortableness! I think about you daily and try to read your posts often. I wish I could complain about being uncomfortable too! Hope you all had a Happy Easter!
~Monica

[newmomx2]

Monica - glad to hear the boys are doing so well - even with the current difference in size I think they really look so much alike !!

I talked to my Doctor and have been referred to a physical therapist to help with the pinched sciatic nerve issue - she said they can help me with some exercise to relieve the pressure. she also confirmed that my numb hands are a result of pregnancy induced carpal tunnel...due to fluid retention - even though I don't have swelling anywhere she said I am still retaining fluid !

Well gotta run the hands are killing me from typing for work all day !

- later

[LucasMom]

Monica-

The babies are beautiful and look great. You are right, we have no room to complain. I can't imagine how difficult it must be to wait for them to come home, but you look like you are doing a great job with them. When they are moved to a closer hospital, will they be in a step down unit, or still NICU? Do they have an idea of when they will be homeward bound or does it go day to day? Sorry for the questions, just wondering, because you and I were due around the same time.

Everyone else-
Working for me does make the time go faster, but not fast enough. I am getting bigger by the minute I think!

[TMoT]

Monica, so awesome to hear from you and to get all the good news about Nathan and Anthony! How wonderful it'll be for them to be closer -- to eachother and to home -- now. I am so happy for you all! Looking at their pictures is so touching, it brings tears to my eyes. :'-) Me and mine still have a long way to go to be that big, so your comment about "wishing you could complain" was also really touching. In the face of what you've been through (and are still going through!), though, I am so humbled, it's hard for me to even find a gripe worth muttering...! xx

Steph, so glad everything with the ILs is done and just that shower "milestone" is left until calm, snuggling and nesting time for you... :throb: ENJOY your shower -- even though it'll be hectic! -- and please be sure to post on all the big stories afterwards...!

Stacey, congrats on the "fast-forward"! See, gals, it IS possible! Stacey found her FF button, AndreaR!! Wow. ...I figure I'm just going to start counting backwards on my weeks of gestation, then when the babies come (at "18" weeks!) I'll be pleasantly shocked!!! :crazy:

mommyof4, GREAT news about the doctor's mess-up (I guess, right?!)!!! Still try to stay as calm as possible and let us know about how the appts and shower (!!) go!!! :-)

Missy, my dh has been working 6 days a week lately, too, and with the kids at their father's this past week, the loneliness finally caught up with me... :( Well, everybody is "back" today, so we're returning to the usual frenetic circus, but I find that welcome for the moment. Ask me again in a couple days...!!!

*sigh*

Well, we had a very nice Easter weekend (and today, Monday, was a holiday too -- so dh actually had two days off in a row!), so we did a lot of nice things. Saturday, we went out to a concert, which I dreaded beforehand (crying, tired fit -- you know what I'm talking about), but which ended up being really NICE. I was on my feet for two hours, probably, and really enjoyed almost every moment of it! Conked out afterwards, but that figures, right?!!

On Easter, we visited dh's grandparents and saw lots of his family, including my mil whom I adore! :-) We also visited his cousin who's wife gave birth to a four-pound (!!) baby girl about a month ago... She was adorable and fit/strong as a little pitbull (but far cuter and sweeter, of course), which I found amazing!!! I'm bigger now than her mom was when she gave birth though! Go figure -- again! ;-)

We also managed to take in Chi-chi's (YES there is one in Brussels! We tried it on a lark, and it ended up being quite good, surprisingly!) and a movie, Sunday night, too!!!!! ("Inside Man," Spike Lee -- EXCELLENT!) ;-) Only downer of the day was some snickering at a table in the Chi-chi's when I went to use the potty, which I got really miffed about! It was a FIRST for me (but I suppose I need to get used to it!) and reminded me of a song from the concert Saturday night... The guy sang:

"Walk a mile in my shoes.
Walk a mile in my shoes.
Before you hurt and abuse,
criticize and accuse,
walk a mile in my shoes..."

I thought, if that ain't a good reparte for (ignorant) @#$%s who have nothing to do but make pg mommies feel bad, I don't know what is!!!!! And, btw, I think the confrontation and button are both good ideas, but I'd almost rather a t-shirt that says everything in really big, bold print:

Front:
Stop staring!
IT's TWINS!!!

Back:
WARNING:
Contents under pressure.
Agitating could prove extremely hazardous to your health.

Or, for the dummies, just a big number "2" on the t-shirt front!!! Duh. (?!) :cool:

...Today, dh and I slept in REALLY late and went for brunch until 3:30 in the afternoon! Afterwards, we got started on our nesting -- finally!! He commenced emptying out our basement (Phase One of the Big Reorganization), and I put screening over our four front/basement windows to keep street trash from falling down onto our outside sills. Had some nice chats with the neighbors in the process and enjoyed the good weather, so that was a real boon. Cleaning woman also came and I helped with some more "substantial" stuff which needed to be done... Gah! I just realized that the Nesting and Spring Cleaning bugs are both biting at the same time, so this is a bit crazy! Good thing that dh seems to (finally) have been "bitten" now too, though, so that helps move things along more smoothly. Whew.

Now, of course, I'm exhausted though. So, I'm going to close here. Big hugs to all! xoxox

[AndreaR]

Sherry - I LOVE THE T-SHIRT IDEA!!! I would totally wear one. Every day!!

Monica - Thanks so much for checking in with us. I'm thrilled to hear that Anthony and Nathan might be able to come closer to home so soon. That must be a relief for you and Victor. They are so gorgeous. I love seeing them together in the isolette, all snuggly together. They look so content, and like "together, we can do anything!" :throb: It's so nice that you keep us updated. I'm not sure about the other women, but hearing from you always makes it easier to accept the difficulties. You are our light at the end of the tunnel.

Swollen Hands.........check. They are not numb, but they hurt a lot. I can't close my fists without it hurting, and it's getting more and more difficult to use them (like to open a bottle). Oh well, it's not going to last forever, right?!

Have a good night,
Andrea R

[mmzill]

I just want you guys to know - I'm not trying to make you feel bad for complaining. I hope you all know that! I'd be complaining too, if I were still prego......in fact, I'm still complaining about this cut in my belly! It hurts like crazy.

Last week sometime you were all talking about C-section vs. vaginal birth. Now after going through both, I would never ever elect to have a c-section!!! It is way way worse than a vaginal delivery! After my vag birth I was up and walking around the next day. This c-section had me limping around for over a week, and it still hurts. Maybe you are afraid of the pain of vag delivery......don't be, you can get an epidural if you need to. But with a section you have no choice but to deal with the pain well after the delivery. Ok, that's my two cents worth.

Have a good evening!:)
~Monica

[AndreaR]

Teresa - I just went looking for you on the May board, since we hadn't heard from you in a little while. Good luck tomorrow! Keep us posted.

AndreaR

[vthompson]

Monica - Do not apologize!! Seeing your pictures and reading your updates actually makes us all feel better about our own pg ailments. For me, it makes me realize how important it is to stay cooking, despite how I feel physically and emotionally. You bring perspective to all of our issues. The boys look so good! I love looking at your pictures. It makes my own babies seem so real!

Sherry - It is definitely the time for nesting and spring cleaning. I have also been feeling the urge, except I am not allowed to do those things. Luckily, DH has been in the mood so he has been doing a lot of organizing/cleaning lately. Thank goodness for him! I cannot believe you stood for 2 hours! You better watch it!

Missy - I hope the physical therapist helps you feel better!

Ters - I know how aggravated you must be that you lost your post. However, I was laughing out loud at the thought of you "punishing" the bird!

Mommyof4 - It sounds like you got better news at the doc. That is good. I am sure you are more relieved then the last visit.

Steph - We are having the same type of stretch marks. Very itchy! I am glad that the inlaw visit wasn't that bad. At least they helped you guys a lot!

Swollen/Hurting hands - Check
Itchy belly, especially where the stretch marks are - Check, Check!!

Good night everyone! Keep cooking!

Valerie

[teresa67]

Thanks Andrea for checking up on me, I haven't felt too good the last 2 days.


I can really tell a decrease in posting on the may board, not only due to mom's having their babies, but to those few of us that are left we are just so uncomfortable. Like I told my dr, it seems each week takes you to a new level of uncomfortableness, but don't worry about it too much, you will be able to go through it and deal with it as it comes. It really helps to have friends on here you can really just vent too without apologizing. I've had some drops in my blood sugars the last week and I'm going in tomorrow to get an u/s to check if my placenta is still working and not getting old.

I know it's getting harder ladies, but you are getting so close.

[Jillmami]

Monica - So glad that the boys are doing so well and that they are in the same bed. Ours absolutely LOVE it! (And so do daddy and I.)

TJ is now 2 pounds 10 ounces (she started at 1.12!) Our son is 2 pounds 15 ounces! (Started at 2.3) They are being gavage fed (little tube through mouth to stomach.) So far so good. That means they have no tubes any more! Yippee! Can't wait to take pics with just the cute little faces! Other than that, they are doing well and just need to continue gaining weight. I have done "recreational breast time" with Noah and he LOVES it. He is going to be quite the boob man - dad is so proud. I don't see how it's possible as tiny as he seems but, he makes it work. :D

Take care and enjoy your pains and aches because in the long run, they are so worth it. NICU time is one thing but long term disabilities because of being preemies is another.

I have new pics on the site under 6 weeks.

[JacobsMom]

Hi Everyone,

Jacob was out of school today for the Easter holiday and we drove out to Brenham, TX to try to find some Bluebonnets, the Texas state flower. It's really late in the season, so I wasn't sure if we would find any at all worth taking photos of. We started out going to Washington on the Brazos State Park. I talked him into putting on his Davy Crockett costume that he wore for a "Historical Wax Museum" at his school a couple of weeks ago. The photos turned out so cute!! We had pretty much given up on finding any bluebonnets and were headed back to the highway to return to Houston. I just happened to glance on top of a hill on the side of the road and found a nice field that was not fenced in. I took some photos of him and he took a few of me. The ones of him turned out much better than mine! I really need to teach that boy how to aim a camera better. And NOT to shoot from the angle of near the ground up toward the person. So needless to say these were NOT the pregnant belly photos I was hoping for, but he is only 8! LOL!

http://www.kodakgallery.com/Slideshow.jsp?mode=fromshare&Uc=1064bdej.28v7spon&Uy=-9is6x8&Ux=0

I have not been feeling very well today. My abdomen is feeling really tight and it's very uncomfortable to walk. I'm ok as long as I'm sitting or lying down. As far as I know I'm not having any contractions. I was told it should feel like a fist tightening. Well, anytime I feel one of the babies move down low, that's what it feels like. But I'm pretty sure it is only the baby moving I am feeling. I guess I will ask me peri on Wed. if she can tell if I'm having any or not. I have also had a hard time catching my breath today. I'm hoping it's just that the babies have shifted around some since yesterday. And I hope they move back before tomorrow. I have a lot to do to get ready for my inlaws to come in on Friday. Tomorrow is pretty much the only full day I have to get cleaning. I have my sonogram on Wed, that will take up the entire morning. The appt is for 9:15 but I know I won't get out of there before noon! Then Thursday is Jacob's field trip that I am hoping to be feeling well enough to go on. They are going to the Houston Zoo and I figure I will be ok as long as I don't overdo it. And if I have any problems, the zoo is literally 2 blocks from the hospital I will be delivering at so I feel pretty safe there. Man wouldn't that be a story for the second graders to tell! Jacob's Mom went into labor at the ZOO!!!! :rotflmbo: Just as long as I don't have them there! LOL!

Well, I need to get to bed. I need my rest if I'm going to get anything done tomorrow!

Take care, and keep cooking!

Stacey

p.s. Edited to try to fix link to photos.

[Daniele'sTwins]

Hi everyone...I am doing fine I'm just really tired. I will try to get back later today.

[megzmom]

Hi yall. Can't keep up on all the posts I missed in 4 days. Seems like everyone is normally miserable lately and still encouraging everyone. I am so happy to see/hear updates about the "June" babies.

I am still having a horrible time sleeping. I am still trying to work for the next 3 weeks. I am rested today with out 4 day weekend but without taking Wed off I might be totally exhausted Th/Fri. Thursday is our school's field day and its been 88-90 degrees. I already told coach I may not be out with my class.

Good news is my mother in law sold her house and is moving from S. Fl to near us so she can take care of the boys while I work!!!!!!! Not only did I not want the boys in daycare being preemies but I couldn't afford the prices.

Someone posted about the ob and peri's appt being so far to travel. Mine are the same 30-1hr depending on traffic which is definately killer on the pocket book lately.

Movement-I was so confident my boys wouldnt turn much anymore and now I think they have. I go to peri today and reg ob on Thurs. Hoping to see good weights and no issues with Zach's kidneys. I am still not tooo worried but dh is. He won't feel better until after the birth he said, which I totally understand.

Take care...

[TMoT]

Daniele, glad you checked in. I've been thinking about you... Actually, when we were perusing the drink menu at chi-chi's the other night, I even looked and NO Brazilian Panty Droppers! :-( boo hoo! Not like I could have had one, but the thought had crossed my mind anyway... ;-) Had a virgin pina-colada instead. Nice, but just not quite the thing... No virgin margaritas either, which is what I REALLY could have gone for. *sigh*

Stacey, you're on my mind too with all that activity. ;-) Hope the zoo trip is uneventful, but it's nice that the hospital will be so close by, just in case. You're right, WHAT a story that would be! "Went into labor at the zoo...!!" Unfortunately, I couldn't get the picture link to work (prompted me for a password, so...)... :-(

Heather, nice to hear from you too. And great news about MIL moving to be close-by! That's so super!!!! I'm guessing you have a good relationship with your MIL (?); and, either way, it is just awesome for the boys!!! Btw, my little ones are still moving quite a bit. It's surprising! But they're probably not even at 2.5lbs each for the moment... U/s at my ER visit, the doc said "they're still small enough to have the right to move around," so I hope that means they'll move OUT of breech still, little buggers!

Jill, so great about TJ and Noah getting so big! And Noah being a boobie-baby already! :-))) Can't wait to see the recent pics! Take care of all of you!!! xx

Teresa, sorry to hear you've been tired these days. What else can we expect, right? I'm sure your placenta is fine, but it's a natural worry now of course. Sorry about the low blood-sugar too. I hope you're being able to eat enough/regularly and manage the ups and downs, but I know how hard it is. For me, the bad refux is just starting to kick in, and I'm having trouble getting food (and even water!) in on a regular basis. Then I burp (sorry tmi!) for HOURS afterwards, get pooped out quickly, etc., etc.... You're right. It's great to be able to complain, at least! ;-) Well, my sweet, hang in there, okay? I'm thinking about you too and waiting on the appt outcome. xox

Val, you're right. I'm paying the price for the ambitious weekend today! :-( Had to take about FIVE rests on the trip to pick up the boys from school! :-( again Doesn't look like I'm going to be able to keep this up. Good thing is that it's a short week (no school Monday and Friday) -- whew! I might be able to make it through the week, but then we'll think about what we need to do starting next week. *BIG sigh*

Monica, great to hear from you too!!! Sorry about the c-section pain, though. I hope that goes away soon. Imagine how Jill had a vaginal AND c-section birth with the same delivery! You're both truly amazing!! :throb:

Well, think I'm gonna go lay down again. Wish dh would come home soon and find something to make for dinner. Poor dh! :throb: Ta-ta, Ladies!

[vthompson]

Sherry - I am glad that you are listening to your body today and taking rests. I do agree that it may be time to find other transportation for the boys. At least this is a short week for school!

Heather - That is great news about your MIL! I am sure that takes a load off you knowing that the babies will be well taken care of. I can't believe it has been so warm there. On field day, will you at least be able to rest in your classroom since you are not going out with the class? That should also help you get through the week. Good luck at your upcoming appts. I am sure everything will go great!

Daniele - I am so glad that you checked in. I was beginning to worry about you.

Stacey - I tried to view your pictures. However, when I put my password in, it said that the album I was trying to view was no longer available. Make sure you take it easy with the cleaning and the zoo trip, especially if you are having some tightness. Good luck at your appt. Can't wait for an update.

Jill - I love getting updates and new pictures from you and Monica. I love to see how much your babies are growing. It is truly amazing! We appreciate you updating with everything you have going on. I was laughing about the boob man comment! That sounds like something my DH would be proud of, too!! Men! :)

So, I think one of the babies might have changed position. Now, it is hard to tell if I can feel both babies moving or not. Does anyone have a hard time with this?

Valerie

[JacobsMom]

Stacey - I tried to view your pictures. However, when I put my password in, it said that the album I was trying to view was no longer available.

I don't know why it is not letting people in. I set it up to NOT require people to sign in to view the pictures. I logged in from a different computer at my house and it went straight to the first picture in the slide show. Good grief, why do they make things so difficult! :crazy:

[EBTwinz]

I don't know why it is not letting people in. I set it up to NOT require people to sign in to view the pictures. I logged in from a different computer at my house and it went straight to the first picture in the slide show. Good grief, why do they make things so difficult! :crazy:

Stacey: You have to choose the option to share photos on the website. Then email it to yourself. Post the website after it's emailed to you and that will allow us to see the pics. At least I think that is what you have to do. Steph helped me w/ my pics.

Hope it works! CAn't wait to see your little guy in his Davey Crockett hat!

[qbanmom5]

Hi! Just checking in. Had my nst and all went really well. Everyone is doing what they should. My boy has these really chubby cheeks! It is really cute to see on u/s. Scarlett has very strong bony features it seems. Don't know what that's all about if they shared a placenta I would think he was hogging it all up. All my other kids looked pretty skeletal on u/s too so its kind of cute to see his fat little face.

Contractions continue but the meds are keeping them at bay. It is kind of scary that those darn pills may be the only things keeping me out of L&D but if it works, that is great. I am guzzling lots of water too, Sherry would be proud. Not doing that great on food, though. I am eating 3 meals, but nothing compared to how I was eating at the beginning (4 meals, 4 snacks, etc). I think there is just not enough room for all that food in my stomach. I am trying to make sure that the meals I do eat are good calories and not junky.

I didn't really strangle the bird. I had a long rant though and he just made it go away. I felt better afterward anyway so I guess just the writing it out was cathartic.

Thanks Jill and Monica for keeping us updated. Your babies are sooooo beautiful. I am glad they are doing so well.

Teresa-hope your placenta is not old... Let us know.

Ters
P.S. is 30 weeks a milestone or just 32?..

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[AndreaR]

Hi girls... having a tough one today. Not mentally, but physically. I just don't feel right. I don't think I'm having contractions, but I keep having these little pains here and there - all over my belly and down toward my vagina. I may have over done it on activity today, but I kind of felt crappy when I woke up this morning, so I'm not sure if it's related to my activity. In any event, I took a nap and I'm trying to drink a lot of water. I go to the peri on Thursday morning, so we'll see if there's anything going on.

Jill - I checked out your six week pictures. They are great. I can't believe they are already six weeks old! And your captions always make me laugh out loud. I bet TJ and Noah will get a kick out of reading them, too when they are older. Make sure you keep them! I'm so happy for you that things are going well. Thanks for sharing with us; it is so moving.

Stacey - good luck at the zoo. Be careful!

Heather - I know I say this to you and Lisa all the time, but I just can't believe you are still working. How did it go at the peri?


Sherry - I am also having trouble eating/drinking and getting reflux. It's incredible how I can be so hungry and then full after two bites of something. Please take it easy walking the boys to school. I'm worried about you! A mile is too long!

Valerie - I am also having a hard time telling the movements apart. It used to be very easy for me, but I think they're starting to get squished now.

Lisa - I am drooling so much now, too! When I sleep at least. hee hee. What is that? And yes, my hands hurt the most when I wake up. And my feet, too. I moved my wedding band to my pinky a few weeks ago, and this week I moved it to a chain around my neck. : ( I hate not wearing my rings. Don't worry, the swelling will go down eventually, but I heard it isn't right away. And I feel the exact same way about getting bigger by the day. It doesn't seem possible to grow this fast, but it is! And my whole body itches, too. My belly actually itches the least...isn't that weird?

Ters - glad things went well at the doctor today. I'm also relieved to hear the contractions have subsided a little. Keep cooking those kids! Regarding your milestone question, I think EVERY week is a milestone! But, my OB did mention to me last week (when I was 30 weeks) that we had to make it to 32. He didn't seem overly excited that I had made it to 30. Glad to hear you didn't strangle your bird. I did have some funny pictures in my head of you chasing him around your house.

Teresa - I hope you are okay. I've been thinking about you all day.

Danielle - Thanks for checking in! I was starting to get worried.


AndreaR

[TMoT]

Swelling: AndreaR/Lisa, are you going to absolutely KILL me for writing this??!? (It's probably the 10th time I do, but...) If your body doesn't get enough water, it tends to retain it -- especially in your hands and feet... Bottom Line: mmphf rmpfh rmmph-hmpf.... :crazy: :spitwater

Okay. No more nagging today.

Ooops. I did mean to say "great about the nst!" for Ters, too -- Ters! And so proud of you for mmphfing your rmmph-hmpf! ;-) ...Btw, PLEEEEASE don't go into labor yet!!! You and me are siamese birthing buddies for 27 June, remember?!? 40 weeks would probably be a real stretchhhh for you (literally!), but I'm still gunning for that date (Val's bday? or was it Heather's? Sorry gals!)! Would love you to make it to 38 weeks too, of course, so pleeeease hang in there! xox

...Dh is in the basement now nursing his wounds because I didn't give him enough praise for the work he managed to do tonight on our "Big Reorganization"... :-( Poor thing. I'm just stressed that the weekend will come (and go) again, and NO ONE will be here to help us move the very BIG stuff (piano, HEAVY sofa -- which has to go up narrow stairs, etc.) around, and we will be STUCK again! Right now, he's working on the "rec room" -- go figure! What about, hmm, maybe, I don't know... the NURSERY?!?!?!?!?!?

Didn't I say "no more nagging today" though?! ;-)

Take care all!!
xox :-)

[vthompson]

Andrea R - I am sorry you are not feeling well today. Try and take it easy this evening and tomorrow. I am glad that you also have trouble distinguishing the movements. I get overly paranoid about it so I feel better that someone else also has the same problem. Plus, it seems like the boy has stronger, more forceful movements then the girl. Does that seem normal to anyone...

Ters - I am glad that your appt went well today. I know it is probably scary, but at least the meds are working. My doctor also said that getting to 32 weeks is very important. However, at this point, I felt like I reached a milestone at 30 weeks. My next milestone is 32 and then 34. It helps me to pass the time.

Lisa - I can no longer wear my wedding ring either. I stopped wearing it at night because in the morning, my fingers seemed swollen when I first woke up. Then I stopped wearing it unless we went somewhere. On Easter, I had to take it off because it was just too tight. I drink a TON of water, to the point where my urine is clear (TMI). So, I wonder if some of the swelling is just natural from the weight gain. I don't know though...I think someone else said it, but I also cannot believe you are still working, along with Heather. I do not enjoy being on bed rest, but I really do not think I could be working at this point. I give you ladies A LOT of credit!!

Valerie

[teresa67]

Just wanted to let you know I'm having my babies tomorrow. My amino fluid is low and one baby is not moving around much and the dr wants to go ahead and do the c section tomorrow.

[mmzill]

Good luck Teresa! Being that you are 34 wks, I'm sure the babies will do wonderfully! Glad they are keeping an eye on them. I'll be praying for you!

As far as the milestone - I just know that at 30 wks, the survival rate with no life long complications gets alot better.

[allyf8903]

not in much mod to talk ladies. i just want to let u know that i had my identical twin girls and on friday. one was still born and the other one is in NICU.

Gianna Catherine NICU
Giavonna Grace (OUR ANGEL FROM HEAVEN)

i will email in a couple of days just got home today. just wanted to say hello. I know i didnt post much but i really appreciate all the help u guys provided. talk soon.

Allison
Adrianna 8-9-03
Gianna Catherine 4-14-06
Giavonna Grace 4-14-06 (angel from heaven)

[vthompson]

Allison - I am not really sure what to say except how sorry we all are. Please know that you and your family are in all of our prayers. I cannot even begin to imagine what you are going through. Again, I am so sorry and we are sending our love your way. :throb: :throb: :throb: Please post when you feel up to it. We are here for you.

Valerie

[vthompson]

Teresa - Good luck tomorrow! We will be anxiously waiting!! Can't wait to see pictures.

Valerie

[AndreaR]

Allison - I am so, so sorry. Like Valerie said, I can't even imagine what you must be feeling. We are praying for you and your family. :throb: AndreaR

[qbanmom5]

Alison:

I am sooo sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers. Please keep in touch when you feel up to it. We are all here for you.

Big hugs,

Ters

[swineland]

Allison,

My heart goes out to you and your family. I can't imagine what you must be going through. We are all praying for you and sending thoughts of love and support. I am so so sorry. :throb:

Steph

[davoswoman]

Allison, I am so sorry. I will be praying for you and your baby in the NICU. I am so sorry for your loss, sweetie.

Teresa, hope all goes well.

Everyone else, hope all is well. I am finally home again. Olivia's fluid came back up to almost normal! I am on home bed rest and not supposed to be sitting at the computer all the time so still won't be on much. Just wanted you all to know the babies and I are doing okay for now.

[LucasMom]

Allison,
Sending you our biggest hugs and prayers for your little one. So very sorry that we don't know what to say. We are all here if you need to talk.:throb: :throb: :throb:

Mindy

[Jillmami]

Allison - Heartfelt wishes and prayers to you and your family. Stay strong for Gianna and know that her guardian angel is looking over her.

[TMoT]

Dear, sweet Allison, I hope you are managing okay. :throb: Congratulations on your daughters, and I am so sorry that God chose to take Giavonna Grace back up to Heaven so soon! :'-( Gianna is going to bring you double the joy now, though, I am sure of it! Please take good care of yourselves and let us know how you're doing when you can.

Much, much love,

[mommyof4at26]

i am so sorry for you and your family,i cant even imagine.take care of yourself,and know she is in good hands

[AndreaR]

Hi everyone - I hope you are all doing okay today.

After learning about what Allison is going through, it just doesn't seem right to complain about being uncomfortable.

Candy - I'm glad you checked in and that everything is okay with you. I was beginning to worry.

Teresa - Good luck today. Just a couple more hours and your babies will be out! Please give us an update whenever you are able. I am thinking about you all day today.

AndreaR

[swineland]

Steph, check.

I agree whole heartedly with Andrea....it just doesn't seem right to log on and complain today.

Teresa, thinking of you today as you welcome your babies..keep us posted!

I have an afternoon appt. with a pediatrician group to "get acquainted". I originally thought I would go with DH and I's primary care doctor, who also does pediatrics, but the thought of bringing my kids into a waiting room full of sick adults kind of made me change my mind. Plus, I want a doctor who does nothing but see babies/kids all day.

Please stay well everyone and take it easy.

Steph

[EBTwinz]

Allison: I am so sorry for what you are going through. You are in my thoughts and prayers. I hope you find comfort in your family and friends to help you through this difficult time in your life. Please know that we are all here for you, to listen and lend support.

:throb: ~Lisa

[vthompson]

I agree with everyone, it is not the day to complain. Today just feels differently with what has happened.

Steph - Good luck at your meeting of the peditrician. I was also going to go with my family physician, but changed my mind and decided on a peditrician for at least the first few years.

Candy - I was getting worried about you. I am so glad that you are at home and the fluid levels are back up.

Teresa - I am thinking about you today!

Valerie

[newmomx2]

Allison I am so sorry for you what you must be going through - my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, we are all here if you need to talk to a very unbiased supportive bunch of ladies (and Jason).:throb:

You are all right - not a day for complaints.

I will give my u/s bpp update from this morning: Both babies are head down in fact face to face. weights are 4lbs 9oz and 4lbs 14oz. Both scored 8/8 on the BPP. Next BPP 1 week from today


Teresa - I am thinking of you today - hope all is going well !!

Not sure who asked but I was told by my pediatrician that 32 weeks is a big milestone and that she would be even happier with anything past 34.

- Take care everyone

[Daniele'sTwins]

Allison...I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I will be praying for you and your family. My best friend Lisa was a twin and her twin sister died shortly after birth, she has always felt like she has a guardian angel with her always. Big Hug and strong prayers!

[megzmom]

Alison- You and your family are truly in my prayers. I will pray for your peace and comfort. Just want to restate that we are all hear for you to talk with. Hopefully you will find help with others that have also lost a child.

Teresa-I am so excited for you! I pray that everything went smoothly.

I had my peri appt yesterday and was shocked to find out that both boys are 3.5 and 3.4 lbs. I was expecting a little smaller. I couldn't figure out exactly where they were though. Zack is still head down and Ben (funny) is bending. His head is in my right side ribs and his nose is touching his knee! He is now my bendable Ben. There is more fluid in Zack's kidneys this time and we will still wait and see. I am a little more nervous because it went up instead of going down or staying the same. Luckily there is very little chance of TTS. We started at 17%, then 12% last month and now we are down to 1%!!!!!!!!!!!!!! yeah.

[mmzill]

Alison~ I pray that you can be strong for your little Gianna. I can't imagine the emotional roller-coaster ride you must be on. You and your family are in my prayers!

~Monica

[LucasMom]

Everyone is right, no complaints today. Allison and family are in our thoughts today and all days forward.

Had first BPP and NSt this morning-Baby A is head down again, and weighing in at 5'15! Baby B is transverse and at 5'5! They scored a 8/8 each and are measuring at almost 35 weeks, which again is consistent with about 2 weeks ahead of date. She thinks i'll go in the next three weeks.

I wish I could say I am so happy, but all my thoughts have been with Allison and her family in the last 18 hours or so. Happy for Gianna, and sad we can't hug you...and absorb some of your emotions for you.

Teresa-Hopefully you have babies, and we will hear from you soon! Luck and hugs, mommy!

Mindy

[JacobsMom]

Allison - Hon, I am so sorry about the loss of your precious baby girl. My prayers are with your family and especially with Gianna Catherine, that she will grow stonger and healthier every day and you will be able to take her home soon.

Theresa - I have been praying for you since last night to have an uneventful delivery today and that your girls will both be strong and healthy. I wish you a speedy recovery.

Quick update on my appointment today. I had my 31 week sonogram this morning. I am going in every 2 weeks now. The boys are huge! They are 4lb8oz and 4lb7oz now. They have gained a pound each in the last 13 days. And Baby B is now the bigger one. Talk about sibling rivalry! My peri said they are the most closely matched Monochorionic twins she has seen in a very long time. No signs of TTTS at all. We are right on schedule to deliver two 7 1/2 pounders in 6 weeks! I can't imagine being able to walk with 15 pounds :scale: of baby inside! Part of me can't wait for the next 6 weeks to go by so I can get this over with and get these babies home, but I know in reality, those six weeks are going to literally fly by and I'm not sure I'm ready for it at all.

Is it just me, or is anyone else obscessed with all the baby shows on TLC and Discovery Health Channel? The two natural births I watched today on TLC made me soooo glad I'm having a c-section. I know that can be a very controversial subject, but I was induced with Jacob and ended up not dialating AT ALL and we had to go to surgery because he was in distress. I breezed through my recovery. I was up walking in less than 12 hours, was released from the hospital in 2 days, and made a 400 mile trip to visit my family 6 days later. I am one of the biggest babies when it comes to any kind of pain, especially abdominal, (I have been known to sit on the toilet and cry with an upset stomach!) but the c-section was NOTHING compared to my labor on Pitocin!!! You couldn't pay me enough to take that drug again. And the whole idea of natural childbirth with no pain meds...I truly admire the women who can do that, but I ain't that much of a woman!! Every woman is different and will have a different birth experience, and will recover differently whether they deliver vaginally or via c-section. I'm praying that my surgery to deliver the twins will be just as easy as it was with Jacob. I know that being 9 years older, I probably won't recover quite as quickly as before. I am also with a different doctor now, my old one retired Dec. 31, so that is a little bit of a concern, but I trust her, and know that this is the best decision for me and my family. Well anyhow, that is my personal testimony on a POSITIVE c-section experience.

[TMoT]

Stacey, Heather and Mindy, I can't believe how big all your babies are!!! This is such awesome, incredible and inspiring news! You must all be so excited and PROUD -- and deservedly so! :5pound: I am so happy for each of you, and especially the news about no ttts risk, etc.! :) *phew!* S-U-P-E-R!!!!! ...Stacey, your news on the positive c-section experience is also a great comfort for those who know they will be experiencing it, and for us who may end up in the same situation ultimately too. Thank you so much for sharing!!!

...I had a really GREAT day (-after- going back to bed this morning)! :-) No complaints here, honest! I was feeling SO MUCH BETTER than yesterday, that not only did I manage the 1-mile walk to get the boys, but we went out to eat, and went to the newly-opened "skate-board park" in the neighborhood and the two of them got FREE skateboarding lessons! I got to sit out in the sunshine all afternoon, and I even made a trip home/back to the park with changes of clothes, snacks, etc. ...We also christened the new "family theater" tonight with a viewing of the new Willy Wonka flick! Just getting the kids off to bed, then a warm bath, and beddie-bye for this Big Mama.

Allison and Teresa, you have both been in my thoughts ALL DAY LONG! An "emotional roller-coaster," as Monica said. So glad we can all be here for each other. :throb: :throb: You all are awesome!

Till tomorrow then. Take care everyone!
xox

[vthompson]

WOW, we are having some VERY large babies on this board!! That is fantastic! I am so glad to hear that everyone's appts went well, too.

Sherry - I am glad that you are feeling better. It is so nice to get outside, I always feel like a new woman after sitting outside for a little while! I realize that there is a time change where you are, but sometimes I forget. When I read your post and you said you were going to bed, I looked at the time and thought, wow, it is not even 5pm!! Then, I realized that it is much later where you are!!

Stacey - Thank you for sharing your c section experience. I think we all need to think of positive things right now and focus our attention on all the good experiences. Congrats on no signs of TTS!! I will be 31 weeks this weekend and I have my u/s on Friday. I am so anxious to get the weights. I hope they are as big as everyone else's!

Mindy - 3 weeks is going to fly by!!! That is so exciting!!

Heather - Great news on the TTS! Try not to worry about the fluid levels. The doctors are monitoring you closely so that is good. I was laughing at bendable Ben!! That is too funny!

Allison and Teresa - I have been thinking of both of you all day, too. Sending hugs your way! :grouphugg

No news here. My brother is on spring break, he is a senior in high school. My parents had some late life babies, I also have a brother in 8th grade. Anyways, my brother stopped over to visit today and we sat and talked for almost 2 hours. It was really nice! We don't get to that much since he is soo busy with his social life!! :)

Valerie

[Daniele'sTwins]

Writing my thank you cards and sitting here thinking of Allison. Please know my heart is with you right now. I can't get you and your family off my mind.

Also thinking of you Teresa, I can't wait to here about your babies.
:grouphugg

[qbanmom5]

Hi- Just checking in to let you all know that I am o.k.
Thanks for the positive info. on the c-section. I was really worried after reading about Monica's experience and scared that I wouldn't be able to do anything for weeks. I am pretty good with pain (you wouldn't know it from all the complaining I do) so I think all should be alright if that is what needs to happen. I have been praying a lot for not only my delivery but for all of us (especially Allison and her family). I have faith that all will be well.

I will check in again tomorrow.

What do you guys think of Scarlett and William? or Scarlett and Will?

Ta-ta, Ters
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[JacobsMom]

What do you guys think of Scarlett and William? or Scarlett and Will?

Hi Ters,

It makes me think of Will Scarlett in Robin Hood! But that is better than Gone with the Wind! LOL! I love the name William - that was my Daddy's name. There is a little boy in my son's class named William who is a little terror though so that has ruled it out for one of my primary names, but I would like to use it for one of the boy's middle names. I have always liked the nickname Will. But there is a boy in Jacob's class that goes by Will too. My dad went by Bill.

Speaking of names, everybody keeps asking me if we have picked out names yet, and I have names I am particularly fond of, even though my hubby won't agree to anything yet. I'm thinking of Mark William for Baby A, and Tate Daniel or Tate Benjamin for Baby B. Tate is my maiden name and I had originally wanted to name one William Tate Pendergrast, but want to call him Tate and have decided it will be easier in the long run to make that his first name. Besides we would prefer that both of the boys have a Biblical name, so I thought if I used William as a middle name for the other child, they could BOTH be named after my Daddy. Jacob is Jacob Samuel so he got the double Biblical moniker!

I had a fun time tonight. One of my hobbies is collecting Hallmark Christmas ornaments and I belong to a local club here for ornament collectors. (BTW one of the girls had printed the new Dreambook from the internet and they have some really cute "Baby's First Christmas" ornaments for this year.) Well anyhow, tonight was our monthly meeting and they threw me a surprise shower. That was so sweet of them! One of the ladies made me a pieced flannel blanket. It is adorable. I will have to try to get a picture of it to show. I don't mean to sound greedy, but I REALLY wish she had made two! I think this is going to be a favorite of mine to use. I got a cute twins photo frame that say's Double the Fun, Double the Love. I also got a Peter Rabbit blanket gift set, with a picture frame and "Shh...baby sleeping" sign. My friend Sheila gave me a ceramic WISHING JAR bank that is baby blue with little footprints on it. That will be so cute in their room and has lots of room to stuff full of money! The lady who gave me the frame fussed at her for not putting any "starter money" in it and gave me a dollar to put in for each of the boys. Another lady gave me a cute baby blue leather keepsake box that also displays 4 photos. And the last one gave me 2 sports themed Carter Onesies and 2 Rompers. I had no idea they were going to do anything like that for us, so I was really touched.

Well I need to get to bed. I promised myself I wasn't going to stay up late tonight and it's already after 10:30. I have pretty much talked myself out of the field trip to the zoo. They do NOT have the motorized scooters, and I think it would be better for me to not be out walking in that heat. Jacob was really disappointed when I told him. This is probably the first of many times to come when I will have to decide to put the babies' needs ahead of his. I don't know if it's going to be harder on him or me tomorrow! LOL!

I was hoping to hear some news about Teresa, but I guess they are a little busy. I pray everything went well and she is loving on her baby girls tonight. I can't wait to hear all about them.

Goodnight Ladies.

Stacey

[megzmom]

Didn't sleep well last night at all. I was so worried about Allison. then of course it came selfishly back to me. I check old posts and I didn't see anything out of the norm for Allison. I usually handle this is stride but I am really shooken up right now. Is anyone else feeling the same way?

I have my reg ob appt (1st cervix check in months) so I am going to ask him some direct questions.

Allison and Teresa I am really praying for both of you. Take care of yourselves!

[AndreaR]

Good morning, all. I'm getting ready to go to my peri for u/s and NST. DH is out of town, so my parents are coming with me. They are so excited about seeing the u/s.

Ters - I really like the names Scarlett and William/Will together. I didn't realize that Will Scarlett was a character in Robin Hood.

Stacey - That was so nice of your friends to surprise you with a shower. It sounds like they gave you some really nice things. And I'm SO GLAD that you decided against the zoo. With the heat and everything, it is too risky, even in a chair/scooter. Jacob might be disappointed now, but once he gets to the zoo, he'll have a blast.

Sherry - good to hear that you had a great day!

So, as I mentioned, DH is out of town (his last trip before the girls arrive, he promises), so I had the bed to myself last night. I had a great night's sleep, just like the last time he was gone. I slept almost straight through from 11:30 to 5:00; I just got up once to pee at 3:00. The dog woke me at 5:00, or I would have probably slept later. We have a king-size bed, and I don't feel like DH is in my way or that he keeps me up, but I sure do sleep better when he's not in the bed. Should I ask him to move to the guest room? That's where the dog sleeps (yes, our spoiled dog has his own room with his own queen-size bed). But he's going to get kicked out of the room when the babies come, because that's where my parents and anyone who comes to help will sleep. I'm thinking it would be better if he got kicked out before the girls arrive, so he doesn't associate it with them.

Oh, and watching TLC/DHC - yes, I do find myself watching the baby shows an awful lot. DH and I watched a triplet c-section the other day. I asked him if he was up for it, and he didn't really answer. I'm sure he will be fine in the room with me, but I don't see him peeking over the curtain at all. He definitely isn't one of those dads who takes pictures of EVERYTHING, which might be a good thing - I don't want any grusome photos of my little girls (or me!)

Have a good day everyone. Take it easy. Lots of water. Feet up!

AndreaR

[AndreaR]

Heather - we posted at the same time. I feel the same way about as you, and I'm going to ask my peri about it today, too. I think it's only natural for our brains to think like this, but try not to worry too much. Good luck at the o/b.

[EBTwinz]

Heather: I did the same thing, I went back and read all of her posts to see if there is a reason this happened. I have been thinking about her, non-stop, and it also has brought up new fears for myself. I think we are all a little scared, right now. ANd I think all of us are thinking about her and praying for her to get through this difficult time in her life. But, I think it is safe to say that it would be abnormal for us not to wonder if it could happen to us, too.

I have a Level II this morning and then meet w/ my OB. I will post my results, later. SOunds like we do have some big babies on this board. Keep us the great work, everyone!!!

Talk to you soon,
Lisa

[mommyof4at26]

i hope you all have a good day:spitwater :spitwater

[Tiny Blessings]

Hi all...

First and most importantly, Allison...I have't been able to stop thinking about you and your family since your post. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are certainly with you. God bless....

It's been a few days since the last post. My grandmother is here helping me get things cleaned up and in order and that has kept us busy. Has the trip in to the Level II (85 miles one way+2 hours drive...ick!) and it went great. It was the first time grandmother saw any untrasound, never mind 3-d and 4-d realtime videos! She was amazed. :) The boys both look good....Baby A weighs in at 4 lbs even and Baby B at 3lbs 11oz. :clap: They are pretty big...in the 95th and 88th percentile for their gestational ages. Baby B flipped upwards last week and remains there after being head down for weeks, that little stinker. Both boys scored 8/8 on the BPP. We were happy with the results and the tech joked that at this rate we could be loooking at some very large babies by the end. (Yikes...did I say I wanted a vaginal birth????) haha...

Glad to hear from MOnica and Jill...they are amazing and I love the updates and photos.

Please keep cooking ladies....I know things are uncomfortable, but this will all be over soon and we will have babies to hold and love!

vacation is over in a few days...back to work on Monday. YUCK!

Take care everyone....

Tina

[Daniele'sTwins]

Good Morning everyone...I am too still thinking about Allison and her family. I hope she will come back to the board and talk to us when she is feeling up to it. She is still a twin mommy.

I am having an u/s tomorrow and I am very much looking forward to it seeing that everyone has these enormous babies! I hope my babies are big too. I am going to be going every Friday now and every Monday have a belly check with my doc.

I have a lot to do today to prepare myself for a very busy weekend! Saturday I have a housewarming party, and a neighborhood party after that and Sunday I have a bridal shower.

Oh yeah and tonight is another Marvolous Multiples class at the hospital (love that class).

[Starry_Eyes]

Hello all, I am new here and wish that I would have found this site much earlier. You guys seem like a great support group. First of all, my sympathy goes to Allison. Be strong and be there to support the surviving twin. To everyone else, congratulations!!! Having twins is a great experience. I currently have 15 year old boy/boy twins and am expecting boy/girl twins on June 15th!!! Tomorrow will be u/s #3 and I am keeping my fingers crossed that all is well. I am beginning to become a nervous wreck!!!

[LucasMom]

I am glad you guys said it, because I was feeling it too. I pulled all of Allisons posts, and I guess you just don't ever know. I guess they call it the miracle of life for a reason...

The May mommies are dropping like crazy, and I guess we are next! I can't wait to hear from Teresa! I hope she is doing well. Good luck to everyone today on your tests. Please post results, and let me know how all of our babies are doing!

Allison, we are all here for you.

Mindy

[megzmom]

You are all so my family!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I felt so selfish writing about my fears. I am sad you all feel the same way but relieved that I wasn't alone.

Thank you all for reassuring me.

I love the name Scarlett/William(Will).

Take care ladies (Jason)

[twinsmakethree]

Hello everyone here is a blast from the past huh:)

First my condolences for Allison, May God show mercy on you and your family and bless the precious gem you have and take care of the one with Him!!!


I am still on bedrest! But i have been mighty busy! I have officially finished my degree:yippee: I wont be able to graduate with everyone else but ive been there done that before so its ok. I guess it would look cutewalking across being big and fat, but its ok!!

I am also officially 33 weeks and everything is becoming surreal for me. I am not having real complaints besides the crucial pressure I feel soetimes I need help just to lift my leg to get into bed, but I find it is mostly when i sit for a period of time. Sunday I will be 32 yrs old :yippee: no plans though.

Iam glad to hear everyone is doingwell including monica and Jill (keep up the goodwork!!)
my peri appt is tomorrow i have to get my cervix check i really think i might be close but i hope not i want to go to 36 or 37 weeks

ok girls keep cooking!!

Andrea

[vthompson]

Heather - I am so glad that you brought up this topic because ever since I read Allison's post, I can't stop thinking about her and her family and all the what ifs. When I told my DH what happened, I actually started crying. I also looked at all her posts to see if something ever came up and everything seemed normal and healthy. My worst fear since I got pg has been loosing one of the babies. I just cannot even imagine how you begin to deal with that. We have all become so close, I think it is normal for all these fears. We feel what the others feel now, just like you do with family and friends.

Andrea - I am so glad that you decided to post! Congrats on the degree!! I am so impressed that you were able to finish school while being pg and on bed rest!! :clap: Also glad to hear that the babies are doing well!

Starry Eyes - Welcome to the board! We hope you stay on! Congrats on the boy/girl twins. Since this is your 2nd set, you can help us out!!

Daniele - You do have a jam packed weekend. Make sure you take it easy!!

Tina - That is so sweet that your grandmother was able to go to the u/s with you! It sounds like she is helping you a lot! Great news on the babies and their weights. Keep em cookin!

Lisa - Can't wait for an update on your appt today!

Andrea R - Addicted to TLC - CHECK!!!

Stacey - I am very glad that you decided not to go to the zoo. That would have been way too much on you! I really like your names, especially Tate Benjamin.

Ters - I really like your names, too. Will is cute!!

Felisha - Good to hear from you. Hope your appt goes well!

I will check in later!

Valerie

[JacobsMom]

Allison has been constantly on my mind too. I can't imagine the emotional rollercoaster she and her family must be on right now. I have been praying for her.

I'm also very anxious to hear some word on Teresa. It made me realize that I need to make sure my hubby knows how to log on here so he can let everybody know when the boys come. Hint - Hint. I think EVERYBODY needs to make sure their hubbies or some other family member/friend knows how to log on here to keep the rest of us updated! LOL! I don't know if I will have internet access at my hospital or not! My DH was actually working for the hospital when Jacob was born, so he just went to his office if he needed to email somebody.

I made the right decision staying home from the field trip today. I woke up very nauseous and with a really bad headache. I haven't had a headache in over a month. I'm trying to get some housework done, but standing is very uncomfortable for me today. I'm just feeling really BLEAH for some reason. All I want to do is sleep. My DH works from home on Thursday and Friday, but he just left a while ago for a dental appointment, so I'm taking advantage of having the computer free to catch up with y'all. This office chair is very comfortable to sit in. It doesn't bother me at all to sit here at the computer, or veg out on the couch watching TLC or Discovery Health. LOL!

We finally bought a second mattress for Jacob's bunkbed yesterday, so that is taken care of. I was stressing about having to clean out the guest room before my inlaws come tomorrow for the shower this weekend, but my FIL is not feeling up to making the trip so my MIL is going to fly in instead. She can sleep in Jacob's new bunkbed with him, so I'm not going to worry about the guest room for now. If she wants to help me tackle it after she gets here, that'll be fine. I'm trying to finish up the kitchen that my neice and I worked so hard on, since I had bragged to my MIL how clean it was. I need to get the dining room table cleared off so we can actually sit down and eat. And I need to finish up my bedroom and get the bassinet in there with the cradle so I can show her that I have a place to put the babies when they come home. And all of that by 11:30 am tomorrow before I have to drive to the airport to pick her up. Well at least the kitchen and dining room for sure. My room may have to be a weekend project.

Well, I'm off to attempt the dishes again, and try to get a load of laundry in the washer. I do need clean sheets for my MIL to sleep on. Then if I accomplish those two tasks, I may reward myself with a little nap. Yeah, that sounds good!

Attempt to link to a photo:
http://i53.photobucket.com/albums/g62/JacobsMom97/100_1488.jpg

I am wearing a tank top and bike shorts today, and boy do I look huge. I don't look as big wearing loose pants and a maternity top! I finally called and left a message with our cousin about doing my belly photos. I figure we need to do them SOON before it's too big to fit in the viewfinder! :rotflmbo: I already think he may have to use the wide angle lens! I can't imagine what it's going to look like in 6 weeks with 6 more pounds of babies inside!

Later,
Stacey

[qbanmom5]

Hi all!

I too am totally hooked on TLC and Discovery Health. I pretty much watch it all day and get really upset when its a repeat. Because Raquel doesn't go in to school until 12:00 she watches some with me. DH and I laugh because if for some reason we were alone and I went into labor I think she would know what to do! And she is only 6!

I have been praying for Alison too and my heart aches for her. All I can say is that the nurse at L&D told me 3-4 times to make sure I am checking for movement throughout the day and not to wait if I don't feel one or the other. I didnt' realize why she was stressing it so much but I think with twins we really have to pay attention that both sides are moving. She said to drink ice water and wait 20-30 minutes if I don't feel movement, to just go in to the ER. I know its hard to tell where the movement is coming from, but lately I just keep poking them and waking them up to make sure I feel movement on both sides. DH told me to leave them alone last night because I was freaking out that Scarlett wasn't moving. He said they were going to be born with bags under their eyes if I kept it up. I am probably now being overly cautious, but like you all said, it is scary.

TMI and another one of my wierd ailments. I have a Bartholin cyst. Don't feel bad if you don't know what it is, the nurse I saw today didn't know either. Only reason I know is because I had it with DD #1. It is a clogged duct on the outer labia (on my right side) and as you can imagine it hurts like heck to sit, walk, stand, etc. It started yesterday and I soaked in hot water like 10 times to see if it would drain but nothing. THe nurse is having me return tomorrow so the doctor can see it (hope he knows what it is). The last time I had it, it became absessed and the Dr. had to cut it open (with just a spray anesthetic that didn't work) and drain it. After a few days it filled again and he had to do it again. It was torture so I really hope that doesn't happen again. In light of my varicose veins and now this I think I would rather have the c-section than have the poor twins try to maneuver around the obstacle course I have down there.

I am kind of concerned that I (they) are not growing enough. I have only gained 2 lbs in the last month! (vs 9 pounds the month before and 6 the month before that). How are they supposed to grow if I am not gaining weight? Also, I am only measuring 34 cm and think I should be bigger by now. The nurse was not concerned, but she is not the dr. and since I never see him, how do I know whether I should worry or not? I knew my appetite wasn't the same, but should I force myself to eat more?

I did not know that Will Scarlett was a character. Was he a good character?

Cant wait to hear from Allison and Teresa. I told DH that when I go to the hospital he needs to get on here and let you all know. He said he is not but I think he was kidding. I always get him to do what i want in the end anyway.


I will post later,

Love, Ters

[Daniele'sTwins]

hi everyone, I just got ack from the mall and I ma sooo tired. My friend Lisa came with me and she couldn't stop laughing because she said everyone was staring at me with their mouths wide open. Some people were even saying "Oh My God"! ... Yes, I am big!

I am going to lay down for a while before I go to the hospital for the class.

[vthompson]

Ters - I cannot imagine how uncomfortable that must be. I was actually cringing a the thought of someone cutting anything open down there. I will pray that you do not have to go through that again. Since you are seeing the doctor tomorrow, make sure you write down all your questions to discuss with him. I am sure that everything is fine with the weights. She would tell you if they weren't. I am the same way with the movement. I was freaking out a few days ago because I didn't think I felt Kayley move much. I actually had my DH a little worried, too. It is just so hard for me to determine who is who moving. Well, my DH spent some time that night rubbing my tummy and all of sudden, there was movement all over. It was kind of cute actually. I can't wait for my u/s tomorrow so I can find out where they both are exactly.

Lisa - I am so glad that your appt went well. I am also happier that you FINALLY get to stop working!! YEAH!!!!!!!!!! :clap:

Stacey - I am feeling the exact same way today, pretty blah with a headache and nausea. My allergies are really bad, too. Make sure you are listening to your body. If you are feeling this way, try not to do so much even though your MIL is coming. She will understand and I am sure she would be willing to help you with some of it when she gets there. I tried to look at your pictures again, but it said the album could not be found. I agree that we all need to make sure that someone knows how to post so we can send updates when babies arrive. I am anxious to hear from Teresa and Allison.

Talk to everyone later.

Valerie

p.s. It is so nice here in Cleveland today, 77 degrees! That is a perfect temp!

[vthompson]

I checked out the May board and someone posted saying that they talked to Teresa's daughter and both girls were born and everyone is doing well. Just thought you would like the update. It is amazing when you check out that thread because so many moms are having babies now and most seem to have good sized babies. It was nice to hear!

Valerie

[qbanmom5]

Great minds think alike... Just read the May board looking for news on Teresa and was about to post the same thing you did Val. Glad everything went fine and I can't wait for more details.

Love, Ters

[AndreaR]

Hi all

Andrea! So glad you posted. We were getting worried about you.

Valerie - thanks for sharing the good news about Teresa. That is wonderful to hear.

Lisa - Sounds like you had a good appointment today, even though it was hard on you. I get the same way when I'm laying down for the u/s and NST. I get really hot and can't breathe. I think it's so cool that they could see the baby's hair! That's incredible. And I'm soooo happy to hear that your doctor is getting you to quit work. You will feel so much better.

Danielle - Good to hear from you. You've been so quiet lately. Enjoy your weekend - it sounds very busy, though! I don't think I could keep up with you (or Sherry, or Lisa, or Stacey, or anyone!!).

StarryEyes - welcome to the board! Two sets of twins! That is so cool.

Stacey - I'm sorry you are feeling yucky. I had two really bad days this week, I felt just like you do today. I was afraid that it was going to be like that until the end, but today I feel much better. Back to "normal" whatever that is these days. Just rest, rest, rest as much as you can. I think one of the reasons I feel so good today is because I had such a great night's sleep. I just might have to tell DH he has to sleep w/ the dog.

Ters - I'm sorry to hear about the cyst. It sounds very painful. I hope that the doctor is able to get you some relief. Good luck tomorrow.

I went to see my peri today, and everything is good, good, good. I am so relieved. Baby A weighs 4 lbs 14 oz! and Baby B weighs 4 lbs 4 oz. He said Baby B might be off a little, because she was not very cooperative. My cervix is 5.9cm! Even though I have had a few contractions this week, it doesn't seem to have any effect on my cervix, so that is good. I had an NST, too, and everything was fine there. My parents came with me today, and they were so excited about it. Unfortunately, neither baby would show her face. They both are facing my back. He even tried to get a shot from my side/back, but it didn't work. Baby A is still breech, and Baby B is still transverse. They are definitely more squished together, but the dr says there is still plenty of room for them to grow. He guesses that they'll be about 6 1/2 pounds when they are born.

Poking the babies all night long to make sure they are moving - check.

Sorry for the long post - I don't know what got into me!

AndreaR

[TMoT]

Sherry: Check!

Lisa, sorry to hear about the u/s but SO GLAD you get to stop working now -- finally! Yippee!!

Daniele, sorry (too) but I laughed about your trip to the mall. ;-) I am starting to feel it coming for me too, and I think I'll just become a HERMIT for the next 10 weeks!!!!! ...You sure have a busy schedule coming up. Please don't overdo it and have us all sweating about you again! ;-) ...And good luck with your appt and keep us posted! xx

Ters, your post CRACKED ME UP! ...Especially the line about the "obstacle course"!! LOL ...I LOVE Scarlett and Will too! WHEW. Beautiful! ...Weight-gain: The early weight-gain was kind of a plan to manage just this kind of risk (i.e. that you'd slow down now towards the end). Biggest concern is, of course, that S&W ;-) are still growing, even though you're slowing down. Try to take in those protein bars and stuff, and be efficient about eating (eg. dairy prods), if you really don't feel you can stuff anything more in there. You need to worry about the babies, but you also need to worry about you getting enough nutrition for you too (or else I'll have to keep doing it - worrying, I mean)! ;-) xox

Tina - TINY Blessings?!? What are BIG Blessings then?!?!? WHOA!!! :crazy: :clap:

Andrea, great to hear from you! Congrats on your degree -- like carrying twins to full-term isn't enough, you over-achiever you! ;-):5pound:

Stacey, I loved your pic! You are absolutely "blooming" -- ar ar! Sorry you didn't make the zoo trip and that you were feeling so bad, but I so understand... :-( Hope things are going better now...

AndreaR and Lisa, LOVED the details of your appt visits too. Hurray for head-locks and big babies!!!!!

Heather and Val, I thought about the same thing with poor Allison. So incomprehensible. :( Mindy's thoughts about Life being a Miracle are so wise and appropriate. :'-) Thank you, Mindy!

Allison, I hope you are coping okay. You know we are all thinking about you and sending endless love and support to you!!!!!

Valerie, thanks for posting about Teresa. I am SO THRILLED about the good news so far and sure she'll write when she's up to it. Till then: CONGRATULATIONS, Teresa! We all love you and are excited to get all the details about your beautiful new baby goils!!! :throb:

Starry_Eyes, welcome to the June thread and congrats on your second set of twins! Wow! And 15 years apart?! No wonder you're nervous! Not to be too personal, but how old are you (I'm 39 and these are #3 and #4 for me too)? They say odds that you will have twins go up with age, so there ya go! ..Well, you can definitely find support here! ...NEAT ticker too! :-)

For me, I FINALLY went and took my GD test today!!!!! Did other administrative running around this morning too, and BOY was I exhausted when I got home around 1pm! Took a quick nap, but then had to face that trip to go pick up the boys. Whew. Everything went okay though, and now they don't have school for three days so I get to try to figure out something for Monday's pick-up. I tell ya. I never thought such a small thing would turn into such a big burden. Guess that sums up twin pg in a nutshell though! Har, har. Still happy to be getting bigger and bigger every day anyway! Just hope the gd test went okay.

I'll keep you all posted, and YOU ALL keep cooking!!

Love,

[JacobsMom]

Ok, I finally have given up on the Kodak website. I uploaded a few pics to Photobucket, so hopefully they will work.

Me in the Bluebonnets - Monday, April 17: 30 wks/4 days:

http://i53.photobucket.com/albums/g62/JacobsMom97/100_1488.jpg


My 8 year old, Jacob in the Bluebonnets:

http://i53.photobucket.com/albums/g62/JacobsMom97/100_1502.jpg


Davy...Davy Crockett...King of the Wild Frontier!

http://i53.photobucket.com/albums/g62/JacobsMom97/100_1474.jpg

There ya go. If these don't work, I just plain give up.

I've been sleeping most of the afternoon. We let Jacob go to late room after school today cause I didn't feel like getting up and driving to pick him up. Hubby left about 4:15 to get him and take him to baseball practice. I still have my headache, even after breaking down and taking a Vicodin and sleeping for another hour. I might have to take a second one. My body would shut down on me today of all days when I have the most to do!! I did get the dishes done at least.

Ters - I wouldn't worry about not gaining much weight yourself as long as the babies are getting bigger and you are eating healthy amounts of food. I originally dropped 8 1/2 lbs between September and January. I wasn't sick, I just started eating healthier foods and the weight came off. I have gradually gained 7 1/2 of it back, a pound here, 2 pounds there, drop 1 1/2, gain 1/2, etc. The most I have gained at one time was 4 lbs between April 6-April 12! Then no change between April 12-April 19. The babies gained 1 pound each between April 6-April 19. They are 4 1/2 pounds each, so I've got 9 lbs of baby + the weight of the amniotic fluid and placenta, and I'm still 1 lb lighter than my start weight in September. I am definately NOT dieting, this just seems to be how my body handles pregnancy. With Jacob, I weighed less after I delivered him then I did when I got pregnant. I'll be interested to see what I weigh after I have the twins. And if I am able to nurse them both, I could end up slimmer than I have been in 15 years!!

Well, I've been on the phone with my friend for over an hour and a half while I was composing this post. Good news is, myheadache is mostly gone. Yeah. My hubby is on his way home from baseball practice and is picking up dinner. Double Yeah!

After reading the posts about Teresa, I hopped over to the May board to read it. WOW!! 5lb 15 oz at 34 weeks! How awesome! I can't wait to hear all the details!

I told my hubby James about what I'd posted about making sure he knew how to log in here to update y'all after the boys come. He told me to write it on an index card, and he'd do it. What a great guy!

Well the guys are home. I'm off to eat. Maybe I can get some work done after dinner since I'm feeling better now.

Take care ladies.

Stacey

[qbanmom5]

Stacey, I love the pics of you and your son in the blue bonnets. Where do you live? It looks beautiful.

The dr's office never called me back. I didn't want to be a nuisance but when I finally called them they were gone and i got the exchange. They told me to call in the morning. I am sooo fed up I am calling the insurance tomorrow and complaining. Then, I am looking for a new dr. I know this is not the time, but as long as I find an ob who works with the peri I am seeing I don't think it should be a problem. Anyway, I don't care. I am doing it and that is that. He sucks and I refuse to continue to fatten his pockets. Just think what will happen when it is time to deliver. He probably won't even show up! That is probably why he pushes c-sections on everyone (I know 2 other women with single pregnancies who had c-sections at his prompting). That way he can schedule them and not have to be caught off guard. One girl I know had him and switched at 31 weeks because she never saw him. She had only seen him once at the very beginning. I don't know if that is a new thing or what but with my other 3 kids I saw the doctor every month. Not a nurse, the doctor. This is horse manure! I might even find a dr. who will let me deliver vaginally since both are still head down (if they stay that way but they have been since like 24 weeks).

Anyway, enough of that. Thanks for listening. You guys are the best friends ever! Love, Ters

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[mommyof4at26]

is it normal or ok to have 7 bowel movements in a 9 hr period? not diareah just really soft? i didnt sleep last night i hadsome cramping going on and it kinda hurt, in a couple hours i have a nst so well see.sorr tmi

[TMoT]

Ters, GO FOR IT!! This guy sounds like an irresponsible moron. You don't need that for delivering twins in a month or two! Go find someone else and give yourself peace of mind! AND...ask about the vaginal birth too! You're right: You've had two already and both babies now are head-down, so there's really no reason to not do it naturally...!! :)

mommyof4, nothing's really tmi here, is it?! ;-) I would say that's a lot of bms, but maybe you were constipated before this?? Otoh, when your body prepares for labor, it goes through a kind of "expelling" stage -- where _everything_ comes out (babies last!) -- and that can include bms (soft and/or diarrhea), and vomiting too... I had it very violently with my first ds -- EVERYTHING _out_ in about an hour or so, quickly followed by ds!!! Kinda like the stomach flu I had recently which had me so worried... :-( So, TAKE IT EASY. Given your bedrest situation, I would probably even call my doc, if I were you. ...Since it's now morning, maybe you should just make that call??? And, of course, let us know how you're doing. :throb:

Quiet day at home with the boys. They're not really letting me sleep, but I still get to stay in bed and "rest." They're so awesome! :yippee: :throb:

I'll check in on everyone again later. xox

PS Still no more news from Teresa! :-((

[megzmom]

Ters-I would absolutely change now too even though its frightning. I wish I would have with my dd and was so disappointed with the delivery. This times its night and day. Just ask some girlfriends in your area or if you have a pediatrician already ask them who they go to :) Good Luck. I am so glad you are taking charge!

I am so happy about Theresa. I am going to teach my mom how to post this weekend.

Went to reg ob and he said no need for NST no signs. He check my cervix and baby A is way up so he said okay to sex. Yeah but now I am scared. Not sure if we actually will but glad to know we could. No US since just did one at peri on Tues.

Poooped out. I had field day with the kids in the afternoon and it was 91 degrees and no shade. Kids are so cute. The pushed me in my office chair that has wheels. They are so protective of me.

Take care...

[vthompson]

I had my level II today and one of those other tests, BPP, I think. A couple of you have had them. Well, both babies looked good. Kayley weighed 3lbs 9oz and Corey weighed 3lbs 8oz. I am 31 weeks this weekend and I thought those weights were really good. Then, before we were leaving, the doctor said that the weights may be a little off after they punch in all the numbers, whatever that means and that the babies were a little on the small side. I knew the numbers could fluctuate because they are an estimate, but I thought their sizes were normal. Of course he saids that but tells me not to worry about anything and that he will see me in 3 weeks. And then he asked me if I am having NST's yet, which I am. Of course I start thinking why, do you think the babies are under stress because of their small weights? I go to see my regular ob next week so I am going to ask her about all this. Part of me wonders if the diet I have to follow for the stupid blood sugars is not giving me enough fat. I don't know why I am aggravated but this peri is very well known and intelligent in what he does, but doesn't have much of a bedside manner. On top of all that, our appt was at 7:30am and we did not leave until close to 10:30am. The tech always does a complete u/s then you have to wait for the doctor who comes in and does his own u/s. We had to wait over an hour for him today. Ok, enough venting. . .

Oh, BTW, both babies are head down!!! I hope that means they will stay that way and I can deliver vaginally!!

Felisha - I am glad that you are going for an u/s. It will help to ease your mind.

Heather - I am jealous that you can have sex! It has been so long. Like you said, you may not but at least you have the option!

Rachel - I would definitely call the doctor about the bm's just to be on the safe side.

Ters - I would DEFINITELY find a new doctor if I were in your situation. Good for you! It may be scary, but I think you will be happier in the end! I still cannot believe that the doctor doesn't actually see patients, but all you see is the nurse. That is ridiculous!

Stacey - I loved your pictures! Those flowers are beautiful and your son is adorable!

Sherry - Glad to hear that you went for your GD test. One more thing out of the way! When do you get your results?

Andrea R - It sounds like your appt went really well. That is so nice that your parents got to go! Too bad the babies didn't cooperate with turning their faces. They want to keep their grandparents in suspense!

Valerie

[twinsmakethree]

Hi Everyone!!

Ters- I wanted t o say that if you do not feel your obis giving you thetreatment youshould get then change,definately. My girlfriend felt the same about her dr but didnt change now shes suing her for malpractice. Her dr. allowed how to go for 41 weeks with gd and her baby weighed so much she couldnt push him out the doctor ended up on top of her stomatch forcing him down he has damaged nerves and has to go through multiple surgies to fix his arm which has no movement. Her lawyer said it could have been prevented if she was thorough during her prenatal visits! Every time she asked the dr. his measurements she said she will do it the next appt. She never even measured her to assure she had enough space! And she kept feeling the dr wasnt doing enough but didnt want to change!

Lisa- lately I have been getting shortness of breath as well. Sometimes I feel like Im about to pass out or like the room is closing in on me! When that happens I try to drink plenty of water open the windows wide and place the fan right on me I think its from this excess weight!!The dr. ran test for me but everything was normal:)

Felicia- Dont worry I am going crazy with the samething I think its better to be overreacting then not to react. Today I went to the dr and we saw movement even though all of it i didnt feel, she said it was do to the small room they now have they will move less but if the movement gets really low to go straight to the er regardless of any signs so i rather go to the er 100 times and be sure then to feel awful because i didnt want to seem like a fanatic. Im sureeverything is fine for you and thebabies so dont worry!;)

mommy of 4- I go alot too (TMI) sometimes I get sick of eating because I know im headed for the bathroom right after! Just watch out for hemroids(sp?). Call your dr. if it seems to serious call the dr.

Sherry- thank you unfortunately I have become a professional student. First I wanted to teach so I got a degree in early childhood, which i used for a minute but then i stopped teaching to teach my daughter, now shes in highschool next year so I think I will cut the strings. Next my husband begin a business so i got a degree in business management, next ill be starting for english so i can write children books. I think im crazy:crazy:

AndreA- Wow congrats on your big babies keep up the good work!

Ok finally my ob appointment went well both babies scored 8 out of 8 and I am measuring at 38 weeks! We watched the babies practicing their breathing which was cool! And i gained 4 pounds so I actually might see 200 pounds!! I go for my level 2 next week to get their measurements but their heart rates were 160 and 140. Nusaybah(baby A) has head way down there we couldnt even see her face both babies are head down :yippee: My dr. said she believes I will be going in probably during 3 or 37 weeks. :yippee: :yippee: And if i go in now she will try to stop it even though the babies would probably do well just to give their lungs more time. Well Im off I think I have a taste for an ensure. Hope everyone is enjoying their day


Andrea

[vthompson]

Andrea - Wow, that is a lot of degrees. I also have a degree in early childhood. Did you just get your degree in English or is that the next one you are going to pursue? Great to hear the babies are doing well!!

Valerie

[twinsmakethree]

Valerie we must have been posting at the sametime. At 31 weeks my babies weighed the same and I was told that was well within the range even on the website that was sent on here( I forgot who sent it) but it says taht is the normal weight as well. Dont worry yourself about it. Keep up the good work:yippee:

Andrea

[mommyof4at26]

so i am half a cm dilated,they gave me a shot in my arm,but sent me home whatever they gave me stopped some contraction i am suppose to go back monday for ob and ultrasound.:spitwater :spitwater

[JacobsMom]

Stacey, I love the pics of you and your son in the blue bonnets. Where do you live? It looks beautiful.

Hi Ters,

We live in Houston, Tx. The bluebonnet photos were taken about 50 miles NW of here at Chappel Hill, Tx, which is near Brenham - where they make Bluebell Icecream! YUMMMMM! The Davy Crockett one was at Washington on the Brazos [River] State Park which is about 10-15 miles north of Chappel Hill.

I am feeling much better today. I still woke up pretty nauseous but it passed within an hour. We had a big storm front come in about 5:30 this morning. Lots of thunder and lightning and rain. Luckily it blew over pretty quickly and we were really relieved not to have lost power. It was headed East and I was worried about my MIL having to fly through the storm on her way here from Mississippi, but the pilot was able to go around most of it and it only delayed her flight about 20 minutes. I was 15 minutes late getting to the airport to pick her up so that worked out perfectly! LOL!

Well, I think we are getting ready to go out to eat, so I need to scat.

Later,
Stacey

[twinsmakethree]

Felicia- im glad everything went well its always great to be able to calm your fears. Nice weights for the babies.

Valerie- I have plans to do the english one next, Im hoping when things calm down I will still have the energy to do so, (calm down ?? am i dreaming or what)

Andrea

[qbanmom5]

Hi,

There are only a couple (2) of doctors I can switch to. One said that I needed to have my medical records faxed and the doctor will decide whether he would take me or not. The other wont take transfers after 28 weeks especially with multiples. I don't want to have to ask for the medical records to be sent to a new dr. only to have the dr. reject me (almost 31 weeks, 35 yo with twins-the girl on the phone said that he probably wouldn't see me).

I called the office again and they said they would call me back after talking to the dr. Finally at 4:30 I called them and they said they were just about to call me. The dr. says we should just "watch it" until the end of the pregnancy cause there is nothing we can do right now. How are "we" supposed to watch it if he hasn't even seen it. IF it gets worse I should go to the hospital! I am just sooo irritated and I feel like my hands are tied. What a &*%%$$#&.I'd like to see him pregnant with twins with a cyst on his vagina! I am sure he wouldn't like it one bit!


Anyway, I am gonna go soak again. Valerie: those weights sound great. Don't worry what the dr. says, I was watching Runway moms today and they told her that her baby was small (under the 50th percentile) throughout the pregnancy. When the baby was born she weighed 8lb 8 oz. They make mistakes, trust me.

Felisha, I have also felt that my more active one was less active for a few days but I still felt movement throughout the day just not as much. If you don't feel movement, try a cold drink and if no resullts I would go to the ER. It is probably nothing, but its best to make sure.

Talk to you later, Ters

[vthompson]

Ters - I am so sorry that all this doctor stuff is so frustrating! You do not need this stress at this point of the pg. Have you tried telling the nurse that you are very uncomfortable with not seeing the doctor? I have no idea what this will do for you but maybe they will get the point that you are not happy. I really do not understand why a doctor wouldn't take you on, no matter what point of the pg. If they have the records, what does it matter! I am very frustrated for you.

Felisha - I am so glad that you saw the doctor. Now you can rest easy! And, it sounds like you had a very nice day! You deserved it!

Stacey - We are getting similar weather here in Cleveland. I am glad that your MIL was still able to come in. Isn't your shower tomorrow? If it is, good luck!

Rachel - I am glad that the contractions stopped. Make sure you listen to your body this weekend and don't hesitate to go to the hospital if things don't feel right.

Ters and Andrea - Thanks for the pep talk!! I was actually the one that posted that website and I checked it as soon as I got home and the babies were right on target with average twins' rates. I guess I got worried, too, because a lot of people have been posting some large weights. That got me thinking that maybe the babies need to be bigger. But, I am eating as much as I can so I am not really sure what else to do. I am just not going to worry about it until I talk to my regular ob. She is much better at explaining things and putting things in perspective then the peri.

Valerie

[Tadpoles' Mum]

I don't know if you've been checking the May board but if you have you will know that she is doing really well. In fact, I don't think the doctors quite know what to do with her now. She was allowed to start moving a little at 32 weeks and was warned that the movement would more than likely trigger labour, and that the babies would arrive very quickly. The cerclage is still in place, but would be removed as soon as labour started.

Well, here she is at 34 weeks, moving a lot now, going for walks around the hospital corridors, and has even been out into the gardens - and no babies yet! She says she feels very close with both babies very low and creating pressure but no contractions and her water is holding! They daren't send her home because she lives an hour away from the hospital and if the babies try to come quickly with the cerclage in it will be a big problem, but at the same time they don't want to remove the cerclage and trigger labour when the babies are quite happy cooking for a bit longer!

She's having an u/s next Wednesday if nothing has happened by then, and the doctor says decisions will then be made. He is convinced that as soon as the cerclage is removed the babies will literally just arrive, she was 6 cm dilated when they put the cerclage in so it will just open up again.

She's looking really good though now, babies seem to be doing fine, they are a little on the small side apparently but no-one is concerned about that. India, George's little girl is very petite, over 2 now but can still wear clothes for 18 month olds.

Will let you know as soon as we have news - loads happening on the May board now, babies arriving left, right and centre!

Rae

[TMoT]

Rachel, sorry about your dilation!!! :-( Well, keep guzzling (as you know! You make me laugh with your signature :spitwater smileys all the time now!), and try to stay as calm as possible. What are I&I's weight's now? They need to stay in there a bit longer still, right?! ;-) I'm thinking/praying about you...

Valerie, I'm no expert, but I think your babies' weights sound super! Might just be that you'll carry them that much longer :eek:, but what the hey?! As long as they're healthy and continuing to grow, right?! Please don't worry. :-) ...Btw, thanks for the asking about the gd test! Yes, I'm GLAD it's over, mostly because it was such a logistical nightmare! :( Sure hope I won't have to do the long test (but with my age, family history and twins, I wouldn't be surprised! :-( )...! I have an ob appt next Thursday, and if I don't get the results before then, I suppose she'll tell me. Just forgetting about it (and indulging in orange-juice "popsicles" and fire-balls!) in the meantime...! ;-)

Felisha, glad you checked everything out. No harm there, imho. And, to make 'em move, wasn't it Monica (or Steph?) who was drinking fruitjuice before her u/s to make babies active? I always find after I eat/drink something sweet :eek: that they start to move lots. Just an idea....

Stacey, happy your MIL made it in safely and that you're all okay. I feel pretty yucky (=borderline nausea) sometimes too. Water makes the feeling go away, but then I start to have icky reflux stuff. I notice the reflux is worse at night though. *sigh* It's a real Chinese puzzle to eat/drink these days. Geez!

Rae, I've been checking the May site regularly and it IS raining babies over there! I guess Georgina's right in the thick of things now too -- and AMEN! for how super she's done with those babies!!!! She's looking fantastic and you've all been so incredible! Please tell her she has my love and admiration, and best of luck with the rest of the pg and delivery of her two new babies!!!!! :clap:

Ters, I'm sorry you are in such a nasty predicament. Honestly, though, how much do you have to lose by signaling your doc (=requesting a copy of your file) that you're unhappy with him at this point? Don't ask them to fax the file over, just ask for a copy of it for yourself. That should be subtle and efficient in it's own way, no?? ....Also, the other ob has to realize how tough it must be for you to be going to such extremes at this point to change doctors, so maybe he will be sympathetic. Is there any way you can get him on the phone to explain the situation directly (pg going fine/no complications, your 3rd pg and no previous complications, haven't seen doc hardly AT ALL for entire pg, not getting necessary attention for current "ailment", don't agree on delivery approach, etc.) and try to "make your case" perhaps even before sending the file over?? Maybe you just need to get past the secretary and talk to the doc yourself? ...I still think there are things you CAN do, so please don't despair! And, if I were you, I'd do both of these things (request a copy of your file -- and have dh go pick it up; and call doc#2 and ask to speak to the doctor directly yourself) RIGHT AWAY! You really don't have to tolerate such a @#$%-y situation right now. It's inexcusable! ]-( ...Well, either way, I hope you can see we're all 150% behind you -- so please do what you can and know we're rooting for you!!! xoxox

Heather, HOORAY for sex...?!??! Dh and I haven't had any concerns as far as that goes for a while, but I imposed my own restraints on "penetration" for the next four weeks. We're on an Austerity Plan until week 32 (34?), when I'll feel more comfortable about it again. ;-)

Andrea, I've been doing the same thing (alternating studying/working/raising kiddies) for a long time now, too. I enjoy it a lot and tend to get bored from too much of one or the other (except for child-rearing, but even then, we need a "brain break" on occasion too, right?!)... That's so awesome that you want to write children's books! Plenty of super inspirations out there -- which you probably learned all about in your Early Childhood years?? My twin has an Early Childhood degree and just finished a master's (in Education?), so she's a great source of good kiddy literature for us! :-)) ...My ex-h also always encouraged me to write children's books myself, but, by the time ds#1 got older, it lost the "appeal" for me. Still think I would like to write a book sometime though (have a bit of journalism in that patchwork past of mine too!) just seem more deeply involved in other things for the moment...! ;-) Well, BEST OF LUCK, no matter what! Can't wait to hear how it goes -- in the short- AND long-run!!! ;-)

Steph, where ya been? I think you said you'd be MIA for a while, but still thinking about you, just so you know... x

Daniele, ditto. x

Well, I'm off to help start packing up papers and stuff in the office. DH is on an IKEA building-spree and the Helpers will be here tomorrow for the Big Move, so I guess (reluctantly) I need to do "my" part...! That just means that I'll observe things and be bossy, of course! ;-) Well, wish us luck!!!

Enjoy your weekend, Ladies, and keep 'em cooking -- especially YOU, Rachel!!!
xox

[LucasMom]

Hello! Another fun night! Where is everyone? I hope everyone is ok, and will check in soon.

Yesterday at about 4 pm, I started having contractions while driving home from work. They continued every 10 minutes or so until I finally called the doc at about 9 pm (can you say procrastination! I hate those hospital visits when you leave and still have no babies!) So they of course told me to come in.

Hooked up to monitor and babies were fine, I was having contractions still although they slowed a little after being in the hospital for about two hours. Did an internal, and I am 1 cm dialated, 60 % effaced and baby a is at a -1 station. Got a steroid shot in the tush, and a FFN test (negative, but we all know how much stock to put into those). Doc wanted to keep me, but finally let me go home at around 2:30 in the morning. Have to come back tonight at around 8 pm for second round of steroids for baby lungs. Still contracting, but nothing serious.

Thats our fun from last night. Hope everyone is ok. Haven't seen a few people in a few days. Can I demand a roll Call??:) Check in, you guys!!

Have a fun rainy weekend!

Mindy

[twinsmakethree]

Good morning Beautiful ones!!

A couple of issues came to me recently just would like your thoughts on them here they are

1. Epidural, I didnt want one but I am afraid that the pain may b too much, secondly I want to feel when I should push, but maybe since I can feel the pain I might get tired out faster( does that make since?) Has anyone who had a baby gone without the epidural and if so do you have a high tolerance for pain. I think my tolerance is medium but I cant imagine the pain of pushing out two! with my dd i was suckered into getting the epidural even though i wasnt in pain.


2. I read an article about potty training at 6 months!!! I thought that was the craziest thing not to mention time consuming trying to figure out the facial expressions of your baby(ies),but women are doing it and it suppose to be catching on with some women doing it younger than that. Has any one thought about this?

3. last i may have asked this earlier, but my friend asked if I was going to immunize the babies and of course i never considered not to,but she doesnt and her children have been healthy. Has anyone thought about not immunizing?

Just some thoughts I had I thought I share

Hope everyone have a successful Day its rainy here in New jersey so no doubt Ill be eating and sleeping alot oh and drinking:spitwater

Andrea

[twinsmakethree]

Mindy! Wow that was a very eventful night, maybe to eventful. I hope everything goes well. Please keep us posted. The dr. didnt want to stop the contractions or because of the postion of baby a they cant, youll be in my thoughts

Andrea

[vthompson]

Andrea -
Epidural - I have absolutely no tolerance for pain so I am opting for an epidural. Maybe you could go in with the thought that you are not going to have one and just see how it goes. If the pain becomes intolerable, then at least you know you have the option. I have never had any other children so I do not have any other experiences to go off of.

Potty Training - I did hear about the potty training, and actually, I heard of people doing it from birth. Personally, it is not for me. I would prefer to potty train the old fashioned way. However, if it will work for you, then go for it!

Immunizations - I have not given much thought to this, nor have I done much research on it. I hope some of you have better insight and can offer some more info.

Mindy - WOW, the was one eventful night! Make sure you try and check in now each day otherwise, we are going to be very worried about you. I am glad that things seem to be calm for now and that you are getting the steroid shot. Keep us updated!

Sherry - I am so happy that all your Ikea stuff is getting delivered this weekend. I know you have been feeling overwhelmed about getting the house ready. You will have to try and post some pictures of all your new stuff!

Rae - That is so awesome about Georgina! She has come so far and we are all proud of her, especially with how hard it has been on her and your family. Thanks for the update. We can't wait to hear when the babies come!!

Living in Cleveland, my DH and I are huge Cavs fans. They made it to the playoffs and today is the first game. We are having some friends over this afternoon to watch the game. I am so excited to have some company!! Being on bed rest can be lonely so you get overly excited to see humans. I feel kind of like my dog (lol). It is weird, though, because I cannot do anything to get ready. DH had to clean and go to the grocery store. I just cannot believe how much he does and he never complains. Well, enough about that. Talk to everyone later.

Valerie

[qbanmom5]

Hi all!

Sherry: Thank you so much for the suggestions. I think I will do it. I am definitely going to call monday morning to ask for the first available appt. to see the Dr and explain that the cyst is absessed and not just a random cyst. The nurse may not have told him it is red and painful. Once there, I will request my medical file and see how that goes. Even if the other dr. doesn't take me, it will help if (God forbid) I need to take his a$$ to court.

Andrea: I have mentioned earlier that I have a pretty high pain threshold. Not like superwoman or anything, but I have withstood cuts and burns and not even felt them till later. Labor is a whole other story. I had 2 deliveries with epidural and 1 without and I will never ever opt to go without again. The contractions hurt like hell, you can get no relief or comfort from the pain. I hate to scare anyone, but those were my experiences. With the epidural, they will tell you (by looking at the monitor) when you are contracting and when you need to push. For me, they didn't have to tell me, I just knew to push when I got the sensation that I had to poo. With my last baby, there was no time (or so they said) for the epidural so I had to go without. Not only were the contractions hell, but the pushing was horrible and I could actually feel the burning and tearing as she made her way out. Sorry, but never again.
I think you get enough pain with the epidural without having to go the extra mile to say you did it naturally. That is just my 2 cents but I support anyone with a different view from mine. It is just not the way I would want things ever again.

Which leads me to another point. I talked to my friend yesterday. She is also a patient of this crappy dr. of mine and she is scheduled to have a c-section next thursday. She went in for her last check up (with the nurse of course) and she explained that she was feeling a pain (like tearing she described it) under her right breast. Her other friend had a bad experience with the placenta tearing away from the uterus so she was concerned. THe nurse was also concerned and told her to go to the hospital (same hospital we are both to deliver at). She said she waited in a L&D room with 3 other women and their families with their gowns on for hours. She even said that a woman who had just delivered was brought into their room to wait because their rooms were all full!!! So, she was hooked to monitors, all was well. She asked for an ultrasound because she wanted to know the condition of the placenta and what was going on. She was told that after hours (it was 7:00 pm) there is no tech to do u/s and there is no anesthesiologist!!! They all go home!!!! The doctor never came to see her (even though they told her he was there) and told the nurse to tell her to contact her primary care dr. to rule out gall stones. No urinalysis, no u/s, nothing. What is this based on? What if I go into labor at night, she asked. They replied that they stop her labor and she has to wait until the morning to do her c-section. Now she wants a c-section, but what about me? What if I start dilating at night and there is no anesthesiologist!! Will they just give me a shot and make me wait until the next day too? What can I do about this? Its not just the dr. now its the hospital too???

Enough of that, you all have a good weekend. I am going to call the hospital and confirm what she told me. Then I am going to think of plan B.

Love, Ters
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[qbanmom5]

I just called the hospital. There is an anesthesiologist "on call" but not "in house" at night. She said with a twin delivery it is high risk (duh) and she can't imagine that it will go on at night since they don't have the staff. They will end up stopping my labor and giving me a c-section in the morning if my cervix is dilated. If cervix is closed, I go home and he gives me an appt. to come in. If both are still head down, he will induce me and let me try to do it naturally as long as it is daytime (she thinks or he may just section me she says it depends on him). I imagine if they are not born by sundown he will do a c-section. It sounds like a total nightmare. All of my labors so far have been at night with the babies born in the morning. Its a race against the clock. What a nightmare! UUUGGGHHHH! I don't think i have ever heard of anything so ludicrous in my life. I thought I had seen it all having 3 kids with 3 different doctors in 3 different hospitals (in 2 different states) but this is a first for me!

Ters

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[qbanmom5]

Last post, promise...

Rae: So glad to hear about Georgina. What a trooper she is! SHe has definitely proven to be an incredible mom! Kudos to her!

Valerie: I am glad you aren't stressing. They will be perfect babies I am sure. Remember also that some people (usually small ones) have small babies. My mom is like 5' tall andmy dad is like 5'7" so my sis and I were each just 6 pounds. My singletons were 7 pounds cause I am a little bigger (5'4") and DH is 6'2. Twins are usually a bit smaller since there are 2 in there so I would be happy with 6 pounders in the end. My son was born early and was 5 lb 15 oz and no NICU or anything. I wouldn't worry about it cause the weights are right on with the chart. So, keep eating and keep cooking.

Everyone get plenty of rest. This is crunch time. I think for me from now to 34 weeks its bed and water and little else. My poor kids are going to live off sandwiches and cereal cause I can't stand at the stove preparing meals. I don't want these babies to stay in the hospital. It must kill Jill and Monica to not be able to bring them home and I just pray that they will be home soon. I really want to take it easy and try to avoid that if at all possible. It is all up to God and His plan though so I have really been praying.

Get lots of rest and talk to you later, Ters

[Tiny Blessings]

Hi all...just getting caught up on everyone's posts.

Ters: My local hospital is a small, rural hospital and they, too, don't have full time anesthiaologists, so I am familiar with this scenario. Is there another hospital around that you could call to see if they staff full timers? This is something I have had to think about and plan for, too. We have opted to travel to the other hosptial (the next closest is a one hour drive, with the even better hospital with the best NICU in the state 1 hour 30 minutes away). A gamble? Yes. But One I personally may need to take depending on the week and positioning of the babies. Another thing to think about: can you get adminitted to the local hospital and then transferred by ambulance to the other? Mine does do that...you might want to check on that option, too. I am so sorry to hear that all of this is going on...it is just another stressor that you don't need right now. But better to know now and have thought about some other options than to find out when you are already in labor. Good for you...

Andrea: I have only had one other child. I did not get an epi...(the idea scares me and still does and I think it looks so painful! I;m a big fraidy-cat!LOL). I did get meds for the contraction pain...I think they called it an interthecal...that was administered through my IV. I got Newbain....Oh, sweet, glorious Newbain. I loved it and it took the edge off my pain so I was able relax and was not experiencing any level of significant pain with the contractions. For me, this worked fine and it is what I would choose again ( I already told my OB to make sure he had plenty on hand for me!LOL) Remember that everyone reacts differently with drugs and each person's experiences are going to be a bit different. By the way, I do NOT have a high pain tolerance...I'm a big wimp when it comes to pain. Keep an open mind about the different pain management options and don't rule out anything at this point.

Mindy: glad to hear you are okay....please keep us posted!

Val: Your babies weights sound like they are right on...maybe you should go ahead and call your OB or the doc on call at the hospital and ease your mind. My guess is he/she is going to tell you that things are fine.


Heather: you and I have the exact same due dates....I am starting to really feel that I won't work much more than the next two weeks. What about you? This is really starting to exhaust me beyond words. I am worried about you being in the classroom...it is mentally and physically so demanding. What does your doctor say?

Okay..gotta run. will post more tomorrow if I can...

Tina

[PaulaP]

Hi everyone. My name is Paula and I am 31 wks with twin boys. At 27 weeks, 2 days, I was hospitalized with a dialating cervix and contractions. They stopped them and I stayed until 28 weeks. Drs. sent me home on bedrest, so as of Wed., I have been on our couch for three weeks- watching a lot of TV, reading some, and staying on the internet a lot. I was reading some of your posts and found them very reassuring. I too can get very paranoid about the boys' movements, back pain, the babys' size, my size.... well, the list could go on forever. I would love to have others to chat with about all of these things, seeing that I'm down until the boys decide to make their way into this world. All of you seem very nice and compassionate and I look forward to having others to talk to.

[mmzill]

Hey everyone ~

Well, our boys were moved on Friday to the local hospital here in Parkersburg. They are doing well. We are just waiting on them to grow! They will probably be there 2 to 4 wks. Tomorrow we are going to start trying to breastfeed them.....we'll see how that goes.

At their last weigh in - Anthony was 3 lbs 8 oz, and Nathan was 2 lbs 12 oz. They are both doing well digesting their food, it is still being given through a tube.

It is so nice to be home! The hospital is only 5 min or so from home, so that is great!

I've posted a few new pictures from this past week. Here's the link: http://photos.yahoo.com/mmzill

It sounds like you all are doing well. I'm healing well from the C-section, I think I scared a few of you...sorry about that. I just had a great vaginal delivery with my dd. After the section I was up walking the next morning, I didn't take that many pain meds, by the middle of the next week I was off even Tylenol. Just when compairing, I would prefer vaginal, but the section wasn't that awful, for me it was just not as easy as the other.

I had my daughter without and epidural and I felt the contractions were bearable, but the epidual is there for your comfort. If you are afraid of the pain - there's a good chance that you will struggle with relaxing enough to let yourself dialate, so the epidural is there to help you do just that. It's not like you have to prove you're a woman by going all natural! Having a baby - any way it comes is proof enough!!!!!!!! My husband is now calling my stretch marks and scar my battle wounds. :) It actually makes me feel better about them.

I hope you all have a good weekend - for what is left of it. Keep them cooking!

[TMoT]

Mindy, on pins and needles for you (and Rachel!) now...! Please take good care of yourselves and let us know how the appt went tonight! :throb:

Ters, I'm DISTRAUGHT for you! And angry too!!!!! I was also wondering if you can't call Dr.#2 and try to speak to HIM directly about your (dire) situation -- to see if he'll make an acception and take you on as his patient at this "late date"...??? Tina also had some good suggestions about the hospital. Perhaps you can try those and see???

Monica, TERRIFIC news about Anthony and Nathan coming closer to home (slowly but surely! :-)), and about their eating getting better and better! Can't wait till you manage to b/f with them -- I guess you feel the same way!! Please keep us posted and thank you for checking in and sharing those beautiful pics!!!!! :-)))

PaulaP, welcome aboard and CONGRATULATIONS on your twins!!! Sorry about the bedrest, but that's what we're all here for!! :grouphugg

Andrea, SUPER questions!!! My two cents (for what it's worth...)! ;-)

Epidural: For my own experience (and, yes, everyone is different!!), I haven't ever had an epidural and I never felt like I needed one... I also don't like the idea of them -- but I'll definitely be having one if both babies aren't head-down for delivery this time around... :-( I really haven't ever given my 'pain threshold' a lot of thought (does that mean that it's "high"??), but with both my previous pgs, I did a LOT of classes on yoga, deep-breathing, relaxation and natural "pain management" approaches... Both deliveries went VERY quickly though (3-4 hours end-to-end both times!), and -- to be honest -- I was able to keep really cool and breathe my way "through" the 10-20 super-duper-hard contractions I DID have each time (i.e. there were FEW but they were VERY hard/effective)... Esp for ds#1, I had my own kind of "doula" with me (she's actually a physiotherapist I've written about before), who coached me and dh all the way through the delivery, and she was INCREDIBLE. I just listened to the midwives, then her, and breathed my way all the way through a very quick and quiet delivery. Go figure! Then, when it was done, I even got up on my own two feet and WALKED OUT of the delivery room back to my and baby's sleeping room...!!!

I don't think this is your typical (esp 1st time) baby delivery scenario though! ;-) Ds#2 progressed along the same lines (quiet/quick) to begin with, but then he got stuck in the birth canal and things went a little bit wacky till I finally pushed him out! He was BLUE head-to-toe, but got resuscitated quickly, and then everything was okay. Unfortunately, I didn't have my "coach" for that delivery (otherwise, I am POSITIVE things would have turned out differently -- for one, I would not have stayed on my BACK for the pushing, for goodness' sake!), and it had been a very emotional/difficult pg for me (spliting up with my ex in the process :(), so there were "extenuating circumstances"...

However. I did have both my boys totally naturally, and I would not exchange that experience for the world. I guess I am a bit of a "freak" that way (and each person -- even each pg! -- is different, so we will have to see how this one goes too!), but I personally consider childbirth such a rare, miraculous and beautiful event that I really WANT to feel every bit of it -- the pain too. (?!!) That's kinda my "take" on Life itself, though, so -- like I said -- I suppose I'm a bit of a "freak" as far as that goes...! ;-)

Infant Potty Training: Having said that, I'm also going to try to do the Infant Potty Training thing too!!! :crazy: I asked/wrote about this in my earliest posts, and I feel kinda freakish about it again, but I think there are so many compelling reasons to try it (besides that my best-friend has now done it twice and will do it with her son who'll be born next month too!), I really want to give it a "go"!!! Besides the environmental, babies' health (clean bums, etc.), and general "waste" issues related to diapers (ick!!!), one of the most interesting reasons to try this out, for me, is for the COST-SAVINGS!!!!! I've "been there" with having to "supply" two little ones with diapers each month and that can run into the hundreds of dollars, literally! So -- as long as I have the time, energy and support to try the IPT approach -- I'm definitely going to do it!!!! And, btw, I think there are even people on this site (or other similar sites?) who are "successfully" potty training their infants right this very minute. Why not us too? (At least, that's what I'm thinking...!!!) ;-)

Immunizations: I hadn't thought about this so much till Monica/Jill/Daniele (I think) were discussing it recently. There IS reason to be concerned about the effects of some innoculations, though, so I am definitely going to do my research and maybe just delay having the babies get certain shots until later on. We will see on this one....

Infant Sign Language: While we are at it (?!), I wanted to mention (again) that I'm also going to try "signing" with the twins... Twins tend to develop their own language anyway, so I thought I'd maybe make it easier for them -- and ME! -- to be able to communicate from relatively early on... It seems like a pretty simple (and natural) thing to do, and my boys are keen on the idea as well, so we're going to go for it. Pretty excited about this actually!!! ;-)

...Well, okay that's enough for "topical" stuff... Just also wanted to say that we made BIG progress on The Move today!!! At the last minute (I mean 11pm at night!) tonight, two of dh's buddies showed up and started packing and moving stuff around our house!!!!!!! (They were supposed to come around eight, but it IS Saturday night, afterall!) So, we've been awake until the wee hours (I'm NOT going to say what time it is here now!), but they managed to empty the office (=future day nursery), and move everything into the new office/library and family "rec room"!!!!!! They even moved the piano already!!!! All that's left for tomorrow is getting dh's record collection into the basement, unpacking everything (books, mainly), re-connecting electronics, etc., and getting the (gigantic) sofa upstairs into the "nursery"!!!!! Oh. And dh (and co.) still has/ve a few more ikea tables and bookshelves to assemble, sconces to hang and the like. BUT, it's so much more "complete" than I would have dreamed of, I think I'll sleep on Cloud Nine tonight (for what's left of the "night")!!!!! :yippee:

Val, I definitely promise to take pictures of it all when everything is more settled! Too bad (like Stacey!) I didn't think to do the Before/After thing, though! Would have been pretty dramatic!!! Anyways, it is still all very exciting (and makes me feel more _relaxed_ at the same time!!!)! *sigh*

So, it's VERY LATE now (=early morning), and I gotta get to bed. Just had some "overflowing energy" (does anyone else ever get this? A kind of "jitteryness" so you can't fall asleep even if you're tired???), so I wanted to read/post -- of course!! :crazy: I'm really ready for the pillow NOW though, so I'll check out here!

Enjoy your Sunday, Ladies (and Jason), and I'll try to check in again tomorrow after our Big Move Day. xoxox till then...

PS Where are Lisa, Steph and Daniele??!?!?!?!?!?!? :-(

[swineland]

Just posting real quick to let you all know I am alive and hanging in there! I have a housefull of people, had my baby shower yesterday and have been on the go-go-go. Having a nice time, but can't wait to sleep all next week. My feet are swollen and I think one of the babies might have "dropped". Intense pressure on my urethra, pelvic floor area....whenever he kicks, I feel it WAY down there.

Anyway, thanks all for thinking of me and wondering where I am! Nice to be thought of :) I will most certainly write more and fill you all in once my company leaves.

Miss you all...

Steph

[newmomx2]

I was really busy the last few days - but today is a quieter day - going to try to pay/organize bills. My mom and a friend were here yesterday and helped to finish washing baby laundry - almost ready !

I tried to read all the posts but there are so many to keep up with.

Felisha - glad to hear your trip to the ER turned out okay.

Mindy - take it easy...keep those babies in as long as possible

Andrea - I just realized we are due on the exact same day !

To the 2 new comers - WELCOME

Well I am keeping this short so that I can get a few things done and then take a nap:clap:

I am still working from home 40 hours a week and plan to try to keep that up until I go into labor ... keeps my mind occupied and the days go by quicker..

Oh and fluid retention has begun ! Inevitable if you ask me I drink 120 oz of water a day....

Take care everyone ...

[vthompson]

Has anyone else been having a problem with this site? Lately, it seems to take forever to load and sometimes I have to click off the Internet and start over to get it to come up. Very annoying! Ok, enough about that...

Missy - I cannot believe you are still working 40 hours! But, at least you get to do it from home. That is nice that you had help this weekend with the babies' stuff.

Steph - I am glad that you checked in today. Can't wait to hear about the shower. Make sure you get plenty of rest this week to make up for this weekend.

Sherry - Do not feel freakish about anything! Everything that you talked about is about personal choice. If you think you can do it then go for it!

Felisha - I just saw my peri on Friday and I thought he would want to see me every 2 weeks now, but he told me he will see me in 3 weeks, I am 31 weeks. I am also going to ask my doctor about it. It seems as though we should be going more often now.

Monica - Congrats on the boys getting moved!! You are just one more step closer to them coming home. As always, I loved looking at the updated pictures! They are so precious. Don't worry about the c-section stuff. I personally like to know about people's true experiences so that I can prepare myself.

Paula - Welcome! Sorry about the bedrest, I am also on bedrest. Some days are easier then others, however, I find this board a huge sense of comfort!!

Tina - I was laughing out loud about telling the doctor to have plenty of Newbain on hand!!!

Ters - Thanks for bringing up the fact about shorter people and smaller babies. I am only 5'0 and DH is 5'9. I am for sure considered short. I am so sorry that you have to deal with all this doctor/hospital crap...and that is exactly what it is, crap. I guess I took for granted living in a bigger city and how hospitals are run that I never thought it was different in other areas. I agree with maybe finding another hospital, even if it is farther away. I just cannot believe that being a high risk pg wouldn't cause the hospital to treat your situation differently. The whole idea of stopping contractions until the morning is the craziest thing I have ever heard. I really hope you can find something better. I also agree with calling that new doctor and personally pleading your case to see what he saids. I just find this whole thing ridiculous. If you need, we can all come to you and meet with the doctor (lol). Maybe a train of VERY pg women will scare the doctor into taking you on (lol).

Valerie

[mommyof4at26]

:spitwater :spitwater :spitwater hello all i am doing good,yesterday i had my baby shower got so much am so excited, i have done really good this weekend listening to my body,so i have been drinking alot:spitwater :spitwater have a good sunday

[TMoT]

Move-in is DONE! Whew. I am tired, VERRRY grumpy and irritable (have felt nauseated and "itchy"/icky ALL DAY), so I don't want to take long... Just wanted to let you all know that the big part of our reorganization is accomplished (!!), and only unpacking stuff and a few finishing touches are still left to go... I promise to take pictures when it's all ready. (Having said that, it could be weeks before those last steps are actually done though!!!) Anyway. I feel stressed-out and really need to chill. Sure hope I'll be able to!!!

Can't wait for more details about Steph and Rachel's showers, and so glad you're taking care of yourself, Rachel! Glad you checked in too, Missy and Valerie.

Enjoy the rest of your weekend! xox

[EBTwinz]

Hi all! I am here. Thanks for thinking of me. I had a busy weekend, too. Had another shower yesterday, parents were in town, and today is Dh's birthday. I will post later tonight when I have more time. The inlaws just stopped by.

~Lisa

[PaulaP]

Thanks for all of your welcomes and kind words. I was just wondering if anyone else has days when the babies do not move as much as others? Mine are still moving some, just not as much as they had been. My dh says I'm paranoid, but I would like to hear some of your experiences. I go back to the dr. Wed. so I guess that I will be ok until then.

[vthompson]

Paula - I also have days where it seems like the babies move more then others and like you, I get really paranoid! I try to make sure I feel them at least a couple times a day before I completely freak out. I also think that the bigger they get, the less room they have to move.

Lisa - I am glad that you checked in, I was getting worried about you!

Sherry - That is great that most of the move is done! Try not to be stressed about everything else. The organization and unpacking will come with time.

Rachel - I hope you got lots of great gifts for you shower. Can't wait to hear about it!

Talk to everyone later!

Valerie

[twinsmakethree]

Hi everyone I cant "talk" long I am feeling alot of pressure right now i think I was sitting to long and the baby is right there I have to keep my legs open so as to feel some relief let alone both of them are constantly kicking but I am happy to feel them move!

Hope everyone is enjoying their Sunday i have been watching basketball all day with DH:throb: He made pizza and we have been pigging out all day while dd watch her kung fu movies.

Sherry- Glad to see you got alot accomplished btw I am a yogi too I brought yoga for pregnancy but I couldnt do it because dr. said it wouldnt be good I use to practice tai chi but I became laxed in it im hoping the breathing techniques i learned will help with labor. Its exciting to know someone who will attempt to infant potty train please keep us posted during your training.

Felicia- my peri still sees me every two weeks she wont begin every week until 35 weeks. Its ok because every other week i get my level 2 anyway so its like seeing someone every week

Paula- welcome to the board

ok Im sorry if I missed anyone I haveto go to the bath room and then lie down Im seriously thinking about getting a bed pan these trips to the bathroom are becoming really hectic! But i dont think anyone will empty it for me:crazy:

[twinsmakethree]

Oh Monica Great news :clap: :clap: :clap:

The boys look gorgeous! How is your daughter through all of this?

[JacobsMom]

Hi! Stacey here checking in from Houston.

I have been so busy I haven't been able to read posts from yesterday and today yet. I will go back and catch up as soon as I have a chance.

I spent about 5 hours Saturday following two Cub Scouts around at Scout Fair. This is a huge event held in a conference center. Hundreds of area Cub Scout Packs and Boy Scout Troops had booths set up with games and activites for the kids to do. It was really way too much walking for me! At least most of it was inside in the air conditioning! The other little boy was the son of my friend who threw my shower today and she needed to stay home and clean her house and get everything ready. Her husband broke his ankle last week so he definately couldn't take him. I think I overdid it just a little. Thank goodness my MIL was with me and would watch the boys so I could sit down and take breaks off and on. It was a lot of fun, but had not originally planned to attend. My hubby ended up stuck on-call for his job this weekend. The plan was for me and MIL to take them from 11:30-2:00 and my hubby come take over so we could leave and he'd stay til the end at 5:30. Well he was so exhausted from being up over half the night working calls, and then got tied up on a couple during the day that he wasn't able to make it. I decided to go ahead and tough it out. After all, we were only two miles from my hospital! LOL! It wasn't too bad really. We met some family members for dinner at Olive Garden afterward and I was exhausted by the time I got home.

We had my shower today. It was so wonderful. My MIL and sister-in-law and many of my best girlfriends were there. These are some of the most wonderful Christian ladies I know, and before we opened gifts, they surrounded me and read scripture and prayed for me and the babies and my husband and Jacob too. I was so touched by all the things they said. I feel so blessed to have such good friends. Many of them have been praying for these boys since day one. (Any some of them have been praying for us for years, that we would be blessed with more children.) My health and the boys' health are truly a testament to God's faithfulness. I feel that He has truly annointed these children for a specific purpose in this world and I can't wait to see the plans that He has for them unfold during their precious lives. Ok, enough of my sermon. I also got some really nice gifts!

The first gift I got today was a new blouse to wear. I had found this top I wanted before Easter, but it wasn't on sale. I had stopped in the store Friday night to look at it again, but it still wasn't on sale and I just couldn't justify paying $36 for a top that I might wear 5 or 6 more times before the boys come. I commented to my MIL last night that I wasn't sure what I was going to wear to the shower, that I didn't have anything really cute. She said she'd buy me that top today. We went by there after breakfast to get it and it was 40% off!! :yippee: I do so love a bargain! I bought some capri pants to go with it that were on sale too. Here is my photo from today:

http://i53.photobucket.com/albums/g62/JacobsMom97/100_1007.jpg

Here is one of me with my mother-in-law Brynda and sister-in-law Aveina. She is married to my husband's younger brother:

http://i53.photobucket.com/albums/g62/JacobsMom97/100_1134.jpg

Anyhow, I got lots of great stuff today. A LOT of diapers which I will probably need most of all. The Baby Trend Snap and Go double stroller from my MIL. My SIL gave me the Fisher Price Ocean Wonders Aquarium Bouncer that Jacob and I fell in love with last November. We got lots of cute outfits - none of them identical which I thought was hilarious. People took me at my word that I wasn't going to dress them alike! LOL! I had already broken down and bought a bunch of matching outfits myself so I really did NOT need any more. We got lots of little things like bowls, spoons, bottles, teethers, dishwasher basket, baby wash, dreft detergent, bibs, etc. My friend Suzanne had already given me two afghans she had knitted before she knew I was having a shower. She also bought each of the boys a plush Winnie the Pooh lovie/blanket. They are so cute. I got quite a few matching sets of bassinet and cradle sheets. The babies will be in them for the first few months before moving to cribs when they are older. I also got a couple of picture frames and a "pre-made" baby themed scrapbook that I can just add my photos to. I also got a Target gift card that I will use to buy a few more things I know I will need.

Well, I will close now. Sorry this is so long, I get really long-winded when I'm excited.

Hope everyone is doing well and still cooking. Take care!

Stacey

[Tiny Blessings]

Hi all...
Just checking in. My week of spring vacation is over (wahhhh) and I am getting ready to head off to work for a morning of marathon meetings. The rest of the week looks better, though, so I guess I'll suck it up and muddle through. Thanks to my 79 year old grandmother (who has 100 times the energy level I do, by the way), my house is sparkling again and I feel so good about that. We got all of Ethan's baby items cleaned up as they had been in the basement and freshened everything up so I feel SO much more ready for the babies now. She said she would come back in a few weeks to help me some more if I wanted her to. Hooray!

Missy, was it you who mentioned working full time from home? I think I may move in that direction now, too. I am just too tired now and want to be at home. I don't even want to go to the grocery store as it exhausts me! I may have to go into the office once or twice a week to pick up and drop off items, but I think I am going to try it that way for awhile.

Sherry: How interesting that you brought up the infant sign language. I did some infant sign language with my son, Ethan. It was so great! Although he was too young to talk, he could sign to us basic signs for eat, milk, juice, more, up, swing, flower, etc. I will definitely do it with the twins, too. It reduced the frustration level during his preverbal stage as he could show us what he wanted. And it doesn't really take any special training as baby signs are simple and you can use what comes naturally for a sign given the American Sign Language signs are often too complex for an infant given the finger positioning. Many places offer infant signing classes, but there was nothing around here so I bought a book I saw on Oprah and went from there.

Okay...gotta grab my Ensure and water and get to those meetings. I'll try to check in later. By the way, my granite countertops are being put in today (after 2 weeks of extra delay in getting the exact granite I wanted and slabs that looked they way I wanted). I can't wait to see how it all looks together! :)

Take it easy, girls!

Tina

[mommyof4at26]

checking in, i have a level 2 this morning and my ob this afternoon, so sherry and val i promise to write about my shower tonight ok?hope you all have a good day,:spitwater :clap:

[Domnicksmom+2]

Hi All,

Big time lurker here that has finally decided to post. My name is Jennifer and I am currently 30w 4 days pregnant with fraternal girl/girl twins. I have two boys already named Dominic and Nicholas who are 4 and almost 3 who can't wait to meet there baby sisters.

I have been really reluctant to post due to a problem with baby b who is going to be named Gabriella. At our 13 week us we discovered that she had an encephalocele which is an opening in the back of the skull and as the brain develops it can grow inot that opening causing brain damage. At our 15 week us we discovered that she had polycystic kidneys and were pretty much told that she would not make it past birth due to no fluid and no lung development. Well here I am at 30 weeks and the encephalocele is pretty much gone and she is still above 5ml for her fluid so the dr's are convinced that she has to have some small kidney function. She is quite the fighter and my husband and I feel more positive about her outcome each day. Our main goal right now is to get her to birth with the proper lung development and then tackle her other problems from there. Her sister Sophia ( baby a) I think has played a big part of it and is in there routing her on..LOL.

So that is my story.... it is so nice to come on here and read about you all and know that everything I am going through is normal as far as all of the aches and pains. Other than the problem with Gabriella my pregnancy has been pretty uneventful. I have started having alot more contractions in the past week and seem to be losing a bit of my mucas plug. I also had a dr's appointment on Thursday of last week and I was 50% effaced but closed tight. My dr said that is very common at 30 weeks with twins.

Tina, I see that you live in Maine. I grew up in Farmington and my family is still there. They are about 1 1/2 hours from Portland and Maine medical so I have been curious as to where you live. What hospital will you be delivering at??

Sherry, I just have to say that I so enjoy your posts. I love how you reply to everyone and how you are always encouraging them to drink there water....btw everytime I read a post from you I go and get myself water.

Ok I think I have alked enough.... I look forward to posting with you all for a short time before these babies get here..... won't be long now.

Jennifer

[AndreaR]

Hi all -

I haven't posted in a few days, so I'm not quite caught up yet. Just wanted to say hello, especially to the newer people. Welcome - this is a wonderful place for information, support, laughs & hugs.

I have been busy the past few days and very tired, but other than that all is well.

I will try to post more later. Have a good day everyone.

AndreaR

[Starry_Eyes]

Thanks for the welcome everyone. I have been reading the posts daily, but been to busy to post, but it seems as if everyone on here has been busy as well. Feels like the excitement is starting. Had my 3rd u/s on Friday and Baby A (Skylar) is weighing in at 3 pounds 9 ounces, Baby B (Trevur) is at 3 pounds 14 ounces. Hopefully that is up to par with being at 32 weeks. Not real sure about that though since my last twins were so small (They were born at 32 weeks weighing in at 3 pounds 14 ounces and 1 pound 15 ounces), but since they are bigger or the same as my last set of twins, it is all very promising to me. I feel as if I have dropped too. Babies seem to be kicking closer to my leg than anything and alot of my body functions seem to be changing (more bm's and more frequent urination), I just hope that the little ones can hold out a little longer so they can be big enough and strong enough to come home with me when I am released.

I just want to say a big thank you to everyone on this board. I have gotten more information from you than from any book or internet site. You guys are great!!!

[vthompson]

Starry_Eyes - Your weights seem on target to me, especially based on what other people have been posting for their weights.

AndreaR - Thanks for checking in! Every day that goes by and someone doesn't post, I get nervous!!

Jennifer - You have such an amazing outlook on everything! It is this positive attitude that is going to help you through everything. It sounds as though things are already better then you had expected. I truly believe in the power of positive thinking so keep it up!!

Rachel - Make sure you post about your appts, too!

Tina - I really hope that you are able to work from home. At least you can put your feet up and relax. I cannot remember what you do. Are you a school administrator or do I have you mixed up with someone else? It sounds as though you had a very nice visit with your grandmother!! I was laughing at how she has more energy then you do. That was cute!

Stacey - It sounds as though you have some wonderful friends and family! I loved that shirt that you wore for the shower. It looked very nice on you. I think the premade scrapbook is a great idea. Someone made me one for my shower so all I have to do is add pictures. I figured we won't have time to scrapbook once the babies are born so at least we have somewhere to put pictures! It sounds as though you had a very busy weekend. Try and get some rest today!

Felisha - I have definitely had nausea lately. It gets really bad at times. I haven't thrown up yet, but sometimes it feels like I might. Can't wait to hear about your shower and all your appts!!

Andrea - I was laughing out loud about the bed pan! It does seem easier!! Homemade pizza sounds really yummy!!

Well, not much going on here. Bed rest seems to be dragging as each week passes. I have doctor appts now once a week so at least I have something to look forward to. I also noticed that I have been getting more emotional the closer we get. Laying around all day and thinking is not always a good thing! You think of all the what ifs and then get worried about stupid things. I am at 31 weeks, so if I go to 37, I have 6 weeks to go. The countdown keeps me going each week.

I am getting very anxious about not having our cribs yet. I just want everything completed before the babies get here. My parents are buying the cribs for us and they are waiting for a tax check to come to pay for them. It is so incredibly nice of them to be doing this that I feel really bad even bringing it up right now. However, I guess since I have lost control of so many things in my life, I just want everything in the babies' room finished, which is really stupid in the realm of everyday life. Ok, I feel bad now so I will stop complaining.

I am sure I will check in later as usual!

Valerie

[megzmom]

Tina- Thanks for the encouragement. I think there is one other person due on June 29th too. I have hit the brick wall working. I rarely sleep anymore except every 3-4th day because of pure exhaustion.

I am still teaching and it is getting soooooooo hard. Its amazing how fast downhill I went. My last day scheduled is next Friday the 5th. I fell like the babies dropped alittle because now I have pain in my legs and butt. On Thur the ob check my cervix and said the baby was way high up. So I am not so worried about going into labor.

Kicking, and punching. I am not sure the direction of most of your babies but Zach is head down and Ben is breech/transverse. When Ben moves it is so painful because not only is he stretching me in my ribs and sideways but he must move Zach because I feel him in my groin! Sometimes being short really stinks! I think if I was taller than they'd have more room to stretch.

Sorry-no more complaining from me....

Great news, mil found/bought a house this weekend. So when she moves up in mid may its only for 3 weeks until her condo is ready!!!!!!!! Yeah. Glad that she is coming to take care of the kids but also relieved that I won't have to share my house for too long. She is overly kind and is like the energizer bunny-she never stops cleaning. Wonder what my house looks like when I get hom????

[Daniele'sTwins]

Hi Guys...I just wanted to let you know I was in the hospital again Saturday night until 3 am again but this time they couldn't stop the contractions so they had to give me a shot of trebultaline. I wasn't dialating, thank God. Well they sent me home with a perscription on it too. I had contractions again yesterday so I took one at 2:00 and another one last night at 9:30. i have the doctors today in an hour. I will let you know how it goes.

[PaulaP]

Again, thanks for all the welcomes. It is so nice to have a site to come to where everyone is so nice and actually responds to your messages.
Valerie, I was just wondering why you're on bedrest and how long you've been there? I' ve been down for a total of four weeks and I am sometimes ready to go crazy. However, I have wonderful family support. They are really spoiling me. Anyway, did your dr. give you the ok to sit up at all? I go to the bathroom constantly because of drinking so much water. I am so afraid of sitting up too much but my sides are getting numb. Any suggestions of how to deal with this? How do you pass the time? Also, if anyone else can offer any advice, I would greatly appreciate it.

-Paula

[vthompson]

Paula - I was put on bed rest at 26 weeks so it has been 5 weeks so far. I started to feel a lot of pressure down low. I thought it was a bladder infection. It was a Saturday night and the pressure kept getting worse so I called the on call doctor. She said she thought it was a bladder infection but to know for sure I needed to give an urine sample so I would have to go to the ER. She didn't want me to wait until Monday. Well, the ER sent me up to labor and delivery who did a sample and everything was fine. They hooked me up to all the monitors and found that I was contracting. I got a shot of tebuterline (sp?) and things calmed down so they sent me home. I saw my ob that Monday and she said she did not want to take any chances so she put me on bed rest. I am allowed to go to the bathroom and shower. Basically, I am not allowed to be on my feet for any length of time. I can sit up or even change rooms and sit on a chair in the living room. I just try to keep my feet up. My DH and I will go to the mall once in awhile and he pushes me around in a wheelchair so that I can get out for a little bit. The doctor said this was ok, especially since I have not had many contractions since the hospital visit. Is your bed rest very strict? Can you get up or do you have to stay laying down in bed? As for my sides, they do go numb. I have a body pillow so I will switch from my left to right side on the pillow, that helps a little bit. The longer I am on bed rest, the worse it gets and the worse I get emotionally. I find that after working hours, I cannot stand the thought of being alone if my DH has to run to the store or something. I just dread it. Lately, I cry about everything which makes me feel crazy. I usually spend a lot of time on the Internet emailing and checking the forum and posting. I also read and watch TV. If it is really nice out, I will go sit outside and read. I started a scrapbook for the babies that I work on from time to time. I will also play Tetris online on the computer. I hope some of this helps. Just try and hang in there. As each week passes, we are one more week closer to the end!

Daniele - I am very anxious to hear what the doctor saids. I am glad that the shot worked. Keep us posted.

Heather - I am so glad that you are almost done working. As we have all said, we just cannot imagine how you are doing it. That is great about the MIL. I hope she keeps your home really clean when she watches the twins! That would really help out!

Ok, sorry for such a long post!!

Valerie

[mommyof4at26]

everything is ok right now the boys didnt get measured today next week they just were checking on fluids,im still on bedrest and dilated at a half a cm.i have a nst again friday ill keep you up to date :spitwater

[TMoT]

Jennifer, I am SO GLAD you posted, and was _really_ touched by what you wrote! :'-) You have been through a living-hell it seems, and how amazing that things are looking up so dramatically for little Gabriella! :-) So sweet what you said about Sophia in there rooting her on too. Being a frat g/g twin, I can somehow identify with this situation. Goes deep. My sister and I are not as close as identical twins I've known (although we have also had our "ESP moments"!), but, as I sometimes remind her, I've never known the world without her, and that's a really special thing!!! :'-) Well, I only hope and pray for the very best for Gabriella and all the rest of you (WoW! Four under-fives!!!)! So glad you posted (again), and please keep in touch!!!!! (Btw, reading your post now, I've started drinking my water too!!! lol It's been a busy two days and I haven't had as much as I should!) ;-)

Daniele, I've been thinking a lot about you. I truly hope you are okay. Please keep taking good care of yourself and let us know how you are doing and how the appt goes, okay? :throb:

Rachel? Are you doing okay too? Waiting to hear. :throb:

Heather, I can't imagine how hard it must be for you right now. You are truly incredible -- NOT 'downhill'!!! :-) Well, 5/5 isn't that much longer. I am rooting for you REALLY HARD till then. :throb: :clap: Great news about your MIL and her house too! I can totally agree with her being "close" but "not too close"...!!! ;-) ...Btw, my twins have often been in the same position as yours too, but when Baby A (on the left/bottom) goes "transverse," it almost makes my tummy explode! :-O I had an episode like this the other night, and I literally lifted her/them OUT of my pelvis, back up to my abdomen, to get over the pain! Aaargh!!!

Tina, hope you get to work from home too. I joked about becoming a hermit for the next ten weeks, but honestly, I do prefer being at home than ANYWHERE ELSE too. Already, everything for me is such a struggle, I just can't imagine working on top of this too!!!! :-( Just do what feels right and good for you now. You know well what you need for you and those babies, and I sure hope you'll get the break SOON that you definitely deserve!!! ...Oh. And thanks for the note about infant signing! The more I hear about it, the more encouraged I am to go for it! Plus it seems like fun too, right?!?! ;-)

Paula, Valerie mentioned Tetris... :-) I play Online Poker too (for play money)!!! It's a lot of fun and makes time fly! Earlier, dh joked about me paying for the twins' college fund this way, but I don't dare to play with real money! There was also a period I joked about naming the twins 'Ace' and 'Spade' (!) but now we know one of them is a _girl_ -- hee hee! And, btw all, we STILL don't have names for the babies! Otoh, dh won't let me tell anyone about the ideas I have for them either...????! :crazy: Bets, anyone, on when these babies will finally have names -- or on who'll be the last to come up with names. Thought I was doing okay till Ters came up with William. Now I'm getting truly desperate though!!!! ;-)

Starry-Eyes, those are really good weights! The site I read says 3.75lbs at 32wks for a singleton, so that is right in there!! ...For Skylar and Trevur (awesome names too!), it'd be great for them to go longer, of course, but you must be excited that they're already that much bigger than your other two at this point! So... Hooray!!!!!!!! Keep up the good work, Mommy!!!

Valerie, you have been such a trooper! Your posts always make me smile too, and I feel bad that you might be getting down from being on bedrest -- although that's so easy to understand! :'-( Will you pleeease promise me that you'll eat some (salmon/cod) fish or flaxseed or some such Omega-3 source when you're feeling especially down (or even long before, to avoid it happening)????? I've been reverting to my 1st trimester irritability and short-temperedness these last couple of days, so I really loaded up on the fish/supplements today. I can really tell the difference in my outlook when I've gone too long without replenishing my "fatty acids." And RIGHT NOW (=the third trimester) these babies' brains are growing at a phenomenally quick rate, so they are depleting, depleting, depleting our own brains' reserves of the stuff, which just spells trouble (grumpiness, moodiness, even depression) for us. Just a word to the wise, and also because I care about you/s...! ;-)

Lisa, glad that you checked in. Take a breather and bring us up to speed when you feel up to it, okay?! xx

Stacey, sounds like you cleaned up with the shower! And what nice friends you have! :-) ...MIL is sweet to have gotten you that beautiful blouse and you look lovely in your pics!!!

Andrea -- we don't even have an oven, so I was drooling about your home-made pizza and vegging-out Sunday. :-) I got so desperate recently, I "McGyvered" my own system (a pan, cake-cooler, tea-strainer and cookie sheet!) for "baking" a pizza on the stove! :rotflmbo:

AndreaR, I'm with Valerie. So glad you checked in. Keep taking care of yourself and write when you can/feel like it! xx

Felisha, I've been nauseated lately too. :-( In my case, I think it's related to the acid-reflux I get after I eat. But, in your case, I suppose you might be getting closer and closer to The Big Day. Well, hang in there and take good care of yourselves! x

...Still getting those "last few items" wrapped up for the house reorganization, but already enjoying the sofa in the "day nursery" right now. :-D OH! And we got a ride home from ds#2's school today!!!!! By chance, it was from the dad of a little boy in ds#2's class (his "best friend" actually) who also has kids at ds#1's school too. I wonder if this might be an arrangement we can make a little more permanent soon....? :-)) We will see... ;-)

Anyway. Time for Quiet Time with DH. Hope everyone else is doing okay (Steph? Ters?)... Please check in when you have a chance, Ladies, and take care!

[newmomx2]

Well I went to the doctor today and my BP is starting to rise - 142/70, he said this is still okay but we have to start watching it closely and if it goes any higher I am on full bed rest left side only ! I told him I am still working from home 40 hours and keep my feet up most of the day - he said I am okay to keep doing this for now. I was not scheduled to go back for 2 weeks but he wants to see me next Monday - he said with twins and the BP he doesn't want to miss a week (makes me feel good about the care I have). I will be 34 weeks on Thursday and he said if I go into labor they will not stop it - that the babies would have to be in the NICU but that they would do well and in 6 months they would catch up to a baby born full term.

Lisa - I am so with you right now - our due dates are really close and I to have started to swell but I am going to try so hard to may it to May 15 which would be 36 1/2 weeks...only 3 weeks from now - we will see if my body can handle it.

Stacey - your pictures were great - LOVED the shirt.

Tina - I am on the one working from home 40 hours and quite frankly I don't mind keeps my mind busy all day and helps the time pass especially since DH is working 12 hour days right now...I stay connected via conference calls and emails all day ! So by 5pm I am sick of the computer - probably why my posts are short.

Danielle - I am thinking of you and wishing you well hope the Terb keeps those babies in for another few weeks - 32 & 34 weeks are 2 big milestones...after that every day is just a blessing...

Megzmom - hang in there you are almost done working - I know what you mean about hitting a brick wall for me that occurred the middle of last week, my body is just feeling physically taxed - which is starting to affect me emotionally - back to crying at the drop of a hat !

Well I think I am going to go lay down for a little bit before DH comes home

Hope everyone has a safe, uneventful night of cooking those babies.

[TMoT]

Missy, just saw your post and it made me short of breath! Phew. ...There are a few things you can do for bp, of course, and all of them are well-known: lower/eliminate salt intake, cut cholesterol, exercise (oops!), etc. You can check some sites for other pointers on this, but I suppose you're doing all the right things. 34 weeks would be fine, but hopefully you can make it even further! Take good care of yourself. You're in my prayers!!! xox

Lisa and Rachel, so glad you posted too! Lisa, I think we should all make an agreement with each other that, in the next few weeks, we'll be more forgiving about posts which just say:

CHECK. I'm here.
I'm surviving.
I'm thinking about you all and keeping up on the posts, but too tired to write.
I'm feeling like crap because...
And, I think I'm getting close because...

and that's it!!! What do you (all) think?!?! ;-)

I LOVE responding to everyone's posts, but I can see it's only going to get harder and harder in the next weeks, and I'm sure that applies to ALL OF US! So, nothing personal I supppose, if everyone's posts start to get shorter as time goes by... ;-)))

Well, just a post to say that, really! And glad you, L & R, posted! Take care!!!

[qbanmom5]

HI, Just checking in...It's Ters.

Thank you all for the advice. There is another hospital about equi-distant from where i live but my doctor does not deliver there. Do you all think I can go there and pretend I was in the area when I just went into labor? Will they transport me to the other hospital I wonder? I don't want to put the babies in danger, but I am thinking about it. Maybe if its nighttime I could go there and tell them I know the other hospital has no "staff" for night-time labors? Or am I stuck with the crappy hospital because of the crappy doctor?

Anyway, seems were in the same boat Danielle with the the terb pills. I find I still get contractions but not as many and not as close together.

Sherry: DH says he doesn't like Will after all. I am going to strangle him. He likes Rhett. What a nightmare~! I don't even want to stress over it anymore. I feel like there is soooo much out of my control right now that i want to throw in the towel and not even try. I am just thinking of myself as a human incubator and literally want to lay around and wait to pop. I don't want to make decisions, I don't want to do anything. I think I am depressed, maybe I need fish.

Anyway, so long for now, Ters

[sgarrett]

Hi I am new to this site and will be 30 weeks this Wednesday with twins. We are having one boy and one girl and are very exctied. The past few of weeks I have not been able to sleep at all. My doc Okayed me taking Tylenol PM, but I feel guilty taking every night. Anyone have any other suggestions for getting to sleep? I can get comfortable and I am extremely tired I just do not fall asleep. It is making me CRAZY!

Thanks,
Staci G

[LucasMom]

Hey everyone!

Lisa- You look adorable! I like your kitchen too! My husband is a chef and I am a food person also, and it looks like you have lots of space. Do I sound like a home stalker?

Ters-I am so sorry about the doc situation. I feel so helpless with doctors sometimes, that I want to pull my hair out. I don't know the rules for sure, but you could probably go to any hospital and say you were nearby and in labor, and they'd take you, but make sure it's on your insurance plan first, so you don't get charged like crazy if they don't participate.

welcome to all the new people. You never feel new for long around here. everyone is very welcoming.

Stacey- You look glowing and happy, and so does your family! Glad you got to feel extra pretty on your special day.

When I was in the hospital with contractions this weekend, they just did the steroid shots that night, and I had to go back again the next night for a second round. No Terb was given. I am, or was on Friday 1 cm dialated and 60 % effaced, so the doc thinks things are...moving along. I have a BioProfile on Wednesday and NST and then see the doc that afternoon, so interested to see if things have progressed. At this point, I want to hold out another 2 weeks for safety, but I know what you mean when you say I miss them. I want to meet the little guys already!

I also feel like a turtle stuck on it's back at night!

Sorry I stink at responding to everyone, I forget things really easily right now!

Doc at hospital ( whom I was so glad was NOT delivering me, she had the gentleness of a pair of scissors!) was like, you really shouldn't be working, and not walking around, and no sex, and all I did was nod my head...ok. Still working full time, still walking around, although not so pretty lately!, and as for sex, well, I can think about it right! It would be like climbing a mountain right now! HA!

Thinking of all of you as we go into these last few weeks. We are doing great, almost there!

Hubby has the info on how to post if and when things happen, so you'll all know!
Sorry for the long post!

Mindy

[qbanmom5]

Hi guys!

I got tired of feeling sorry for myself and called the insurance again letting them know that I hadn't had any luck with the doctors they told me to call. They gave me a couple more numbers and I found one that said I could switch any time even with twins (the other said it was too late). Only thing is I have to call in the morning to talk to the main girl in charge. They use the same peri that I have been seeing so I wouldn't have to switch. Also, they use yet another hospital in my area. This is a small hospital, but much less busy than the other two. It looks promising, so I will call in the morning. Wish me luck, Ters

p.S. how do I get my ticker on here as a signature or do I have to copy and paste every time?

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[qbanmom5]

hi Lisa, just saw your pictures, and you look great. I have a couple more weeks to go to catch up to you so you might be a smidge bigger (but not by much). I love your cat, it is beautiful! Also, you already have sooo many clothes! That is great! Your house looks beautiful. Thanks for sharing with us!
Ters