Anyone else due in June "06

[newmomx2]

Tina - I know what you mean about working part time in the office being harder - at first I thought going in on Tues/Thurs and home Mon/Wed/Fri would be ideal but I found that the days I was in the office I was packed with meetings from 8 - 6 and had to walk around to them all day - nothing got done and I was exhausted...that is why I am back home 100% - the week is more balanced and I just dial in for meetings...plus I can snack/eat all day long:clap:

Question - has anyone gotton the EZ2 nurse pillow - I read it is great for breastfeeding twins? The one I wanted is not available till after April 17th so I am thinking I may just go with a different color...

[davoswoman]

I had my regular ob appointment. Things aren't good. Baby a (Olivia) is only 1lb 13oz and her fluid levels are very low. Baby B (Janet) seems to be fine at 2lbs 9oz and normal fluid level.
I am being sent to the hospital for a level 2 sono and a good chance of being admitted. Please keep us in your prayers. I will let you all know what is going on as soon as I can.

Thanks,

[swineland]

This is from the May board.....

Just a quickie - all still going well - George really happy today, her doctor has said if she can make 2 more weeks he is going to let her start to move a bit, and she can have a shower!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I expect it will be a sitting shower and supervised but who cares? So - u/s on Wednesday, Beautician on Satuday, one of her brothers arrives in France on Sunday for a 2 week visit, and then we're really on the countdown. The hospital are also starting to pull back on the drugs she's been having, she was really in high spirits today.

Melissa - I know Georgina would really empathise with your situation if she was posting - it is so very hard to be in hospital when you have a little one at home. I have found it heartbreaking just watching India visiting her mummy. I agree with the other comments though - I know its hard but try not to cry in front of your little boy - I am sure there have been many times that George has sobbed after we have left but so far she has managed not to cry once while India was there - unfortunately I have not managed to be so strong and neither has my husband! She plays special games with India when we go in - and I try and take in a new sticker book or something that they can do together. India always gets in to bed with her for a special cuddle and George always reads her a story. Also saves little treats like cookies in her bedside drawer for India's visits. She only gets to see her twice a week as the hospital is so far away, but she talks to her at least twice a day on the phone, and everynight when I am reading India's bedtime story we have George on the end of the phone so that she can join in too.
Just a few tips but it has helped us all cope with a horrible situation.

Keep hanging in there all of you.

OK Just one more thing - I need some advice from you! The April mums who have delivered are really having a moan about their mothers helping or not helping etc. I will be going to George's house everyday once she is home to help with her/babies/whatever. I so don't want to become one of the mums that is moaned about, so I need a list of do's and don'ts for 'helping grannies!

Take care

Rae

[Tiny Blessings]

Wanted to share this poem I found on the net for NICU moms of preemies...thought it might be nice for Jill and Sheriba:

Precious Preemies...Teeny Tiny Babies

As I love you through the glass
the hour seem so slow to pass.
I stroke your skin and hold your hand
this isn't exactly what I had planned.
I cast my eyes up to the sky
and say a little prayer
That the Lord will hold you in his arms
and keep you in his care.
So sleep and grow my babies
and dream of clouds of foam.
And I will LOVE YOU through the glass
Until you both come home.

[Tiny Blessings]

Candy....I am so sorry for what is going on....I know it is very scary. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers....from what you mentioned, it sounds like maybe they are concerned about TTTS? I can't remember how far along you are...from my understanding the later TTTS appears the better off the babies are. Please keep us posted on how you and the babies are doing! God Bless...

[Jillmami]

I had my babies at 27 weeks 4 days. Our daughter was 1 pound 12 ounces and our son was 2 pounds 3 ounces. Not as big of a difference as yours are now, but I wanted to let you know that our daughter is just about 2 pounds now after 2 weeks and is doing well. Hang in there and best wishes to you. I know that in our situation, I wanted nothing more than to keep them in as long as possible. I honestly feel that they needed to come out early for a reason.

Stay strong!

[vthompson]

Heather - I have also heard that heartburn = lots of hair on the babies! Most people I know with bad heartburn have had babies with lots of hair. We will all have to wait and see!!

Tina - I think pg hormones are definitely playing a role in your moods. However, if you feel stressed out while at work, that could also be contributing. Make sure you take it easy and try not to cram an entire day's work into a half of day! That poem you posted brought tears to my eyes! That was really nice! Also, thanks for the info on the bags. It sounds like I need to get some. I will definitely try to remember to ask the hospital for the kit so that I have 2. Thanks for the tip!

Missy - I do not have the EZ2 nurse pillow. I just got 2 boppies, but I have heard that the EZ2 pillows are really nice.

Candy - Please keep us updated as soon as you can! I will be thinking about you!

Steph - Thanks for the Georgina update. It sounds as though things are really looking up for her. What a miracle her babies are!

So, I was watching this show on TLC today called Bringing Home Baby. The couple being featured brought home twins and the show focuses on the first 48 hours home. All this mom did was pump and breastfeed! That is it. I swear she did nothing else. I was pretty overwhelmed by that. Not that I was naive to think it would be much different, but to actually see it was a reality check!

What do all of you think about nursing bras as far as wired vs no wire? I was just wondering what is more comfortable. The wire in my bras now is very annoying. However, I am worried about not having enough support.

Valerie

[TMoT]

Just a quick post to say "hi," we're surviving and a special note for Monica, Candy and Ters.

Monica, was that your mucous plug??!! I'm stressed. In normal situations, this means labor is imminent (w/in days, usually??), as you might know from ds??? I'm worried about you and upset for you about the weight issue too. Please keep us posted for developments.:throb:

Candy, same thing. :throb: You are both/all in our prayers and we are anxiously awaiting news from you. Please take good, good, good care of yourselves! xx

Ters, what can I say?! We are all so happy and relieved Blossom made a big re-entry! :-) What a cat!!! ...And now about Rhett!! It's not as bad as you think, I think... (?!) I feel remotely to blame though... :-( Well, just like me and dh here, I guess you'll come up with two names you both really love -- eventually. Just give it a bit more time (I know -- I sound hypocritical, but what else can we do, really!?!)!

THANKS to everyone for your support about the names, illness, etc. We're all okay, for the moment -- amen! Just having a lot of bh tonight, so I want to take it easy. I'll read/write more tomorrow.

You gals really ARE so awesome! Everyone TAKE CARE and check in again tomorrow! x

[EBTwinz]

Thanks to everyone who responded to my questions. I heard that wive's tale abour heartburn and a lot of hair. I have a feeling they will have a lot of hair, anyways. My dh has dark, thick hair (wavy if it's longer) so I am sure they will take after him. I have light brownish-blond thin hair.

Monica: I hope your appt went well today. I have been thinking about you all day. Please give us an update when you get a chance.

Jill: Thanks for the update on your babies. I can't wait to see pics. I will PM you my email address. Thanks for sharing w/ us!!

Daniele: I think my nose is bigger, too. Wider. Plus, it could be that my face is fat and I used to have a skinny face. I have a double chin!!!! UGH! I can't wait to lose this weight. I feel soooo big!!!! And I am feeling overwhelmed, too. When we put up the cribs, I panicked. I sometimes feel depressed b/c I am so worried about the labor. It will be here soon and I just want everything to be okay w/ the babies and with me.

Heather and Tina: I know how you feel regarding the work situation. NOw that I am only there half days, I feel like I am cramming a whole day's work into 5 hours. I think this is almost worse than being there all day. I am so busy from the time I walk through the door. I have been trying to get people to go to my replacement and use me as back up, but they won't listen. They still come to me all the time. It's so annoying. I may ask my doc to take me out of work, completely, at my next appt.

Missy: Sounds like you had a great shower!

Candy: I will be thinking of you! Please keep us updated, if you can. Stay strong and know that we are all praying for you and your babies.

Steph: Thanks for the update on Rae. HOw have you been feeling? You are kind of quiet these past couple days.

Tina: That poem made me cry. It's very beautiful!!

Sherri: I am glad you checked in. I start to worry about you when we haven't heard from you in a while. Have you heard anything about Teresa? I know you two communicate a lot on here and I was reading the May board and saw that she hasn't posted in a while. That is unlike her. I hope she is okay. And make sure you get lots of rest tonight!! Drink you water, too, if you are having BH. :spitwater

Valerie: How is your day going?

Sheriba: How are your babies? Please give us an update when you get a chance. We are thinking of you!

Well, I don't have anything new to post. I don't have a doc appt until next week. I just have been having the horrible heartburn and major ligament pain. I can tell when I am stretching b/c I am in pain at night when I am trying to sleep. Then I wake up w/ a bigger tummy. Plus, the pressure of my stomach makes it more difficult for me to breathe. One of the babies is so high!

Hope you are all feeling okay. Talk to you soon.

:throb: - Lisa

[teresa67]

Sherry,

I got a migrane and my blood pressure was a bit elavated so they admitted me. They gave me 3 different kinds of meds for it, but nothing helped. Dr said I'm either a junkie or the pain was pretty bad. The latter is true. So I asked if I could go home since what they were doing wasn't helping, so I could be comfortable/miserable in my own bed. So I'm home. Hope you are doing well and as all of you other ladies. Hang in there, we are all getting closer.

[2BunzinD.oven]

Hi ladies-

I am from the May boards, I was coming to post about Teresa but I see she beat me to it. I am glad she is ok. Hang in there mamas.

[AndreaR]

Good evening everyone. I'm noticing as we get further along, we have more and more difficult days, and I just want to say again how nice it is to come here for love and support.

Jill - Thanks so much for updating us on TJ and Noah. They seem to be doing great. I would love to see pictures. I will PM you.

Lisa - I get acid reflux bad, but not heartburn. And the TUMS don't work for me. My OB suggested a liquid, and I tried Maalox. It seems to help quite a bit. Also, staying upright helps. Gravity, and all... I agree that the generic form of Colace is fine. And I was laughing so hard when I saw YOU telling SHERRI to drink water because of her bh. My how the tables have turned. She doesn't even listen to her own advice. hee hee hee

MIssy - Your shower sounds wonderful; what a nice family you have. I bet your DH was happy there were other men there. I'll have to put a bug in my sisters' ears about that. I am also thinking of buying the EZ 2 Nurse pillow. I registered for two Boppies, too.

Danielle - nose changing? CHECK! I mean really, when will it end? I actually noticed it on me about six weeks ago. And I've noticed it on other pg women before, but of course for them it was at the very, very end. My nose is definitely wider. I did happen to sneak a peek at a woman who just returned from maternity leave, and her nose looks normal again. So hopefully this will happen to us, too.

Candy - I'll be saying huge prayers for you and your girls, especially Olivia. Good luck at the hospital.

Steph - Thanks for posting with Rae's update on Georgina. I don't know how she has survived this long. God bless her.

Valerie - I read that we shouldn't wear underwire bras while nursing, because they tend to cause blocked milk ducts. I have always worn underwire because I've needed the support, but just recently I bought some that aren't. I got mine at Mimi/Motherhood. It's pretty good for support; not as good as an underwire, but definitely more comfortable and I feel supported enough. The underwires were KILLING me. And I have all these little bumps/skin tags from the chafing.

Teresa - So sorry you are having a tough time. I'm glad you are home, at least, so you can be a little more comfortable. Hang in there.

Monica - I'm thinking of you and hope that your appointment with the specialist went well.

Two more days of work for me....thank God. And I think I'll work from home tomorrow.

AndreaR

[AndreaR]

Has anyone had any issues with their teeth moving? I noticed recently that my bite has changed. When I put my teeth together, the top teeth don't meet the bottoms like they normally do. I also notice that it's easier to floss -as if there is more space in between the teeth.

Sherri - A little while back you mentioned that you got a pg pillow. What kind did you get? I wonder if we can get is here? My DH was away on business last night, so I had the whole bed to myself and I got to use his pillows. I was so comfortable! I actually slept in three hour chunks of time. What a luxury! I'm going to use more pillows tonight, but I thought it might be easier to get a body or a pregnancy pillow. Hope you're feeling better.

Thanks,
AndreaR

[teresa67]

Andrea......yeah your teeth do move around. There's an old saying for every child you lose a tooth. That was due to loss of calcium, the babies suck it right out of your bones, that's why it's important to take your vitamins plus I take tums to supplement for calcium. If it hasn't happened yet, bleeding gums is also another pregnancy sign. I noticed I slept better one night when my husband fell asleep on the couch.......I can't convince him to sleep every night on the couch though.

[mmzill]

Hello Board,

Monica asked me, her jadhsb (jack *** damn husband scum bag), to give you folks a little news. Monica is in the hospital about 2 hours from home. She was admitted today at 30 weeks and the specialist was going to do a amnio reduction. The smaller baby has what is known as "stuck baby" and has very little amniotic fluid and the blood flow to the smaller baby also is not excellent. Therefore, Monica and twins are being continuously monitored until tommorow, at which point the dr. will either perform the amnio reduction of the baby swimming in fluid, or will deliver the babies, or transfer her out of state (if the hospital does not have beds for the babies because of the chance of pre-term labor when doing an amnio reduction). Don't expect Monica to be posting here anytime real soon.

I hope everyone is doing well.

Victor

[teresa67]

Valerie,

The steriod shots are for lung maturity. If the dr thinks you may deliver early, you may want to consider getting them. It's 2 injections, given 24 hours apart. It matures the babies lungs, giving them a better chance of breathing on their own. At my dr's appt I had an elavated blood pressure, she wanted to make sure I had the injections if I had to deliver now.

[TMoT]

Teresa, SO GREAT to hear from you and to know that the babies are still cooking!!! *whew* :throb: :-D I'm sorry you're suffering so much though. :-( Do you have a history of migraines or is this a(NOTHER unwelcome) pg thing??? I hope you are at least more comfortable at home *big sigh* and am SO HAPPY you can still keep in touch with us! MUCH love to you and the girls, and a SUPER-BIG HUG from me to you! :-) xx

JADHSB (lol): THANK YOU SO MUCH for posting about Monica!!!! I pray for all of you that everything will go okay with the amniotic fluid reduction. Monica is such a trooper and we adore her -- and those babies too! Hope everything is also okay for you and ds. You are all in our thoughts and prayers! :throb:

Candy, still waiting (anxiously) to hear about you too. Please let us know and *BIG HUG* to you and Babies!!!! xox

...That WAS funny about Lisa telling me to drink water! :'-) I didn't have the feeling that I had drunk any less yesterday than usual, but -- with all the bottles laying around the house -- I guess I just lost track. Had a bit more busy day than usual too (plumber, visitor -- welcome but no relaxation, and the usual school/household flurry of activity)... I actually felt like I had a decent amount of energy -- and I even SWEPT the house! -- but I guess I paid the price. THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH for thinking about me/us:throb: . It is really touching. :-)

Jill, so good to read your upbeat posts and to see the growth of your beauties! It's amazing what just a couple weeks can do. Each day is that much closer to bringing them home and you probably celebrate it as a victory! How much I admire you -- and those fighter babies too!!! :-)) I'm so glad the babies get to be close together now too. I bet that will help them to really blossom (!).

...That poem Tina posted also made me cry. I _was_ a tiny/incubator twin (for one month) after birth, and I think I'm still really sensitive about that somewhere deep, deep in my subconscious. :'-( You'd never know it from looking at me, right??!!!? 8o)

Tina/Missy: I was worried about the "1/2-day" thing for you guys too... :-( I've experienced the same thing with so-called "reduced" hours!! It usually just means having to do the SAME job but in LESS time!! :-( Maybe you can find a way yourselves to cull-down the workload people give you (just "refuse" projects/work, say "I'm sorry. I can't do that"??), or best of all, work from home... or *dreaming* DON'T work period. ??? Just worried about all that extra, unwanted stress on you... Either way, please hang in there. We care about you all so much.

Felisha, you also sound pretty postive about the 3-hr gd test! I pray your results are good! :-) ...Your dd is a marvel. I would totally let my 7-year-old ds "make" his dinner too. They are so surprisingly grown-up at that age! (There was even a story in Belgian papers recently about a couple who left their 7-yr-old at home ALONE for two weeks and he did SUPER! (?!?) I thought "if this was the US, those parents would be JAILED!" But, whatever...!!) ...You're also lucky about the showers! Enjoy yourself but try to take it easy. And please keep us posted about the gd. x

Valerie, Advent has a really good bag/pumping-nursing system that is inexpensive and works super well. I used it for both of my previous pgs and will probably choose it again for this one.... It's also available at Target, so replacement stuff is easy to find!!!

AndreaR/Pg pillow: I don't remember the brand of the pillow I got, but I think it's pretty standard/something you can find anywhere. I haven't gotten the one specifically for twins -- I couldn't find it! -- but I really think this one will work too ('cause you can use them later for nursing -- just wrap them around you like a donut). Isn't it a miracle?! And DITTO about dh sleeping on the couch!!! As it is, he's nearly falling off the bed, but I still find I sleep better during the day when I can have the whole bed to myself!!!! >:-) (evil me!)

Daniele/Nose-changing: Check!! (Me too!!!) Actually, I just thought it was old-age creeping up on me (you know how your nose/ears keep growing when everything else stops?!)!!! lol I'm glad it's only temporary (??) though... Well, I guess I'll only know for sure after they're born! lol

Steph/George/Rae: Steph, thanks for posting all the good news about Georgina!!! George, what a reason to celebrate! Gee. After all you've been through, it must be FANTASTIC to start seeing the "light" at the end of the tunnel! What a great job you've done!!!! And, Rae, please don't hesitate to be there for George when the babies come!!! My friend (mom of twins)'s mother stayed with her an entire YEAR after the twins came and none of them (two older children especially) would have had it any other way! My only advice via her would be: Focus mainly on ds but "help" Georgina manage the little ones best you can. And, on occasion, take the little ones off G's hands so she can have the chance to spend quality time with ds too. Beyond that, it's a tough adjustment to work through, but you've been so super with G and this situation so far, I'm sure she is already nothing but grateful! You are all amazing!!!!

...Btw all, I'm starting to think this is really going to be my LAST pg, and I'm beginning to wonder about having them shut off the "baby-works" after these two are born... Well, I will be almost *40* then!!! I suppose no one else on this thread is considering something similar -- except maybe you, Teresa? (but what about you, Ters, Andrea, et al.??) -- but I was wondering how you all feel about that.... It's definitely a BIG STEP, and only complicated by the fact that dh is EIGHT years younger than me (and would he WANT to have more babies after this?! He is rather reticent for the moment... Surprise!)... Otoh, would make future contraception a breeze. Whew. And what a relief that would be -- for as long as it would need to last (but btw, my mom had her last baby at 44 -- so there's still definitely a risk for me!!!)! ...Just curious to know everyone's thoughts...

Well, time to go back to sleep in the WHOLE, BIG BED!! Today is a short day of school so I gotta be back on my feet very soon.

Love and hugs to all -- and, gee, I would really like to hear from you, too SHERIBA (?!) sometime soon! And, SO _HAPPY_ _still_ to hear from you, Teresa *whew*!!! xoxoxoxox

[megzmom]

Hi. Ya'll

I lucked out so much with the twins pillow. I went to the twin garage sale held in my area and there was one pillow for $15!!!!!!!!!! So of course I grabbed it. The pattern is ugly but I didn't care.

As for the breastpump, I also lucked out. I bought the mega medela from a coworker for $100. I am going to definately ask the hospital for the attachments. When I had my dd, they gave me the hand pump (don't every use-gave me carpal tunnel which needed surgery). Well the bottles from the hospital are compatible since they are also medela. So I am going to beg and pled for 2 sets just in case. I also got the sterilizing bags from my coworker and she said they worked great. Each bag you can reuse 20 times.

I only sterilized stuff one time with my dd and then just washed from then on. She turned out fine but I am nervous if they are preemie.

Today is my shower and only one item is off my registery...yes I peeked again! I am nervous but still grateful.

I hope everyone is doing good.

Jill- you really amaze me. With all the emotional ups and downs, you still are encouraging us! I've never met you but I sure do pray for you and your family everyday. All of you are my adopted families. I tell dh everynight about you all-he gets a kick out of all discussions.

take care...

[twinsmakethree]

Hello everyone I do not have any updates , I get my 3 d on Friday so then I will be able to update on the babies but they seem to be still doing the happy dance inside of there. I still get alot of pressure but mainly when I sit up for too long


Monica/Candy- I pray that all goes well with the babies, i was glued to the computer waiting for a response about each of you. Please keep your"family" updated as soon as possible!

Valerie- My babies had to get steroid shots my peri said it doesnt just help the lung development but the brain development as well. I was very concerned and probably will be until I see them on the screen again, but if it will better their chances im all for it. One thing though, it burns like hell!!!!

Danielle- I have a changing nose, changing butt, changing breast size I am now pass a double D :crazy: My worst pet peeve right now is my bleeding gums i am a teeth fanatic and anything that happens to my mouth is major too me. Another pet peeve is excess mucous, oh goodness i dont even want todiscuss that!!

Heather- have fun at your baby shower. My friends have brought me so far a changing table, sleigh crib and the double snap n go. i was grateful for that. They already gave it to me so i dont know what will happen at the shower!! My shower isnt until late May though, so we will see

Felisha- im glad the three hour test went well for you. its funny but i loved the liquid I had orange and WANTED MORE!
tERESA- MY dh AND I were just discussing about having more babies. These babies were through IVF, but my counselor was saying I might can begin to have them on my own! So i was telling my husband I might be too old to start nesting every 9 mths ( ill be 32 next month) and he said He will definately be too old( he's closer to the 50 side) so we said maybe one more time of trying for a boy and then no more trying to get pregnant, we'll see i might see you again on another due date board next year!

AndreaR- i posted earlier that i have bleeding gums! Which i hate, i dont think they are moving I will have to check that

Ok I hope i answered every post sorry i forgot anything oh about the bras I posted a link before to a place that sell nursing bra tank tops that are really comfortable I ll post it again for everyone to check out. These are really comfortable and support well! I hate underwire bras and the one maternity/nursing bra I did buy became to small fast

have a great day ladies :throb: :throb:

Andrea

[AndreaR]

Good morning!

Victor - Thank you so much for letting us know about Monica. We will be sending HUGE prayers your way.

Teresa - Thanks for the info on teeth. I will definitely ask my doctors about it at my next appointments (next week).

fwalker75 - I'll keep my fingers crossed that you pass the G/D test. It must be so hard to wait for those results. Also, I have been very anemic in the past due to uterine fibroids (but I've been fine during pg), and I took an OTC iron supplement called Slow-FE. I noticed it working after about a week. And I took generic stool softeners once in a while, but I never really had a problem with constipation (but I do now). Enjoy your shower today. I know what you mean about having a shower in late April. I think mine is April 30 (my sisters are being ridiculous about trying to surprise me), and I feel like it's way too late. Especially when we hear others' experiences (Jill & Sheriba have had their babies, Valerie is on bedrest, Monica is in the hospital....). Hopefully we'll be in good shape to attend. But, I too, am very grateful.

Sherri - About having more babies.... This is my first pg. It took us five years and a lot of work to get pg. Right now, I feel like I'll be satisfied with two, but DH wants to have at least one more. I think mostly he wants to try for a boy. He's been talking about baby #3 since the day we found out the twins were girls. Since I'm nearly 40, I'm very nervous about being a good, energetic mother. I worry that I've been childless for so many years that it's going to be a gigantic shock. It's not that I don't want them, I REALLY DO! I'm just afraid that I might not be a good mother. That I won't have the energy, that I will miss my previous life and the freedom I had, etc. So, I keep telling DH "we'll see." I cannot imagine going through this (pg) again, but if we had a singleton, then maybe it would be easier?? Also, if my fibroids grow back, I might not have the chance to get pg again. So, bottom line, it's basically "we'll see."

Okay, DH was back last night, so I didn't have the bed to myself anymore. I did grab more pillows, which helped a little, but not as great as the night before. I really think it was the combination of pillows and extra room. We have a king-sized bed - how much room should I really need?? I can't ask DH to sleep on the couch. We actually have a lovely guest room, but the bed has been commandeered by our #1 baby, our dog. And he doesn't share the bed AT ALL! LOL I'm going to buy a body pillow and see if that helps.

I'm working from home today, so I'll be back... Have a great day everyone.

AndreaR

[twinsmakethree]

here's the link to the nursing tanks they do replace bras

http://www.motherhoodnursing.com/Product.asp?product_Id=12442005

Andrea

[AndreaR]

Andrea - Thanks for posting the link to the nursing tanks. I've got to ask, though, what bra size are you? I'm regularly a 36D and I've never been able to wear the tank tops that have the built in bra. Now that I'm pregnant, I'm a 40E, so I'm worried that they might not be enough support? Just curious... I'm so sick of these things (the boobs) - I will definitely consider breast reduction after I am finished breastfeeding. AndreaR

[TMoT]

SO QUIET TODAY!!! (?!?) WHERE is everybody -- and are you all doing okay?!?! *worried Mom here*

Andrea(S), about trying for another baby, my MAJOR advice/experience is that the closer they are together in age, the BETTER for them, you and everyone! SERIOUSLY!!!!! So, if you're contemplating it (and a singleton will DEFINITELY be easier than this one -- I promise!!), don't wait!!!!!! ...And, Andrea, DON'T WORRY about "not being a good mom"!!! You are going to be TERRIFIC -- you'll see!!! You ALREADY _are_ a terrific mom!!! :-)

Young vs. Older Moms (and a "joke"): About being 40+ moms (!!) in general, what I saw with my own mother is that she has stayed much younger, much LONGER thanks/due to her being a mother at her age. I have always been really impressed by that -- and now I'm _living it_ myself too (?!)... I'm not sure we're less energetic moms, but we do _think_ more about things as far as our children go. Maybe we're more cautious or something. A comedienne I saw recently said the difference between young moms and older moms is that older moms "sit around discussing whether a child should be spanked or left to his/her own to discover 'discipline.'" Whereas, a mom of 25 can take a swig of her bacardi breezer, a puff on her cigarette and slap her kid in one fell movement....!!! ...Arr arr!! Can't say I'm really in either one of those camps, but what she said still made me laugh pretty hard!!! LOL

Bras: Andrea, I'm a 38D, and I HATE no-support bras. I have been wearing a sports bra for the last six weeks, though, as it is less binding than anything else and it keeps me "all in there"...! (?!) I appreciate that site link, though. I'm pretty happy with this approach now, actually, and I might like having a nursing bra in the same "theme"....

About Breast Reduction, HOWEVER: Please just wait until after pg and b/f about that reduction surgery, Andrea! Breasts (like everything!) really change shape after pg and b/f -- so you might end up with a more "manageable" breast size later -- and, Heaven forbid!, it'd be one of those National Geo(oh-just-TOO)graphic "looks" though...!! lol

Well, hope everyone checks in and that you'll all doing okay.
xxx

[AndreaR]

Sherri - Thanks for the advice on having more kids. I appreciate it. Also, about breast reduction... My boobs were big and saggy BEFORE I got pg. I can only imagine them after b/f!! I'll wait until we make a final decision on more babies before I do anything, though. I don't necessarily mind having big boobs, it's the fact that they're somewhere around my belly button! :rotflmbo:

And it is quiet.......where are you Lisa, Danielle, Valerie, everyone?? I know the weather here in Massachusetts is specatacular today (sunny and 60), so maybe everyone has spring fever and is outdoors.

AndreaR

[mommyof4at26]

so gals today i had another us babya is isaac he is 2.5lbsand baby b is isaiah,he is 2.6 lbs, my cervix is still measuring at a 5 and the are both head down,everything looked good,i feel so blessed to still have the boys cookin, i hope everyone is having a safe and healthy day. :yippee: :spitwater :throb:

[qbanmom5]

Hi everyone,

First of all, thank you Victor for giving us an update (great name, by the way thats my 8 year old son's name). Keep us informed we are praying for you guys.

Candy: Praying for you as well. Everything will turn out all right, you will see. Prayer works!

Danielle: Wide nose..check. Also have noticed plumper lips which is good cause I always wanted botox injections.

Sherry: I think maybe you and I should just surrender to calling them A and B. Yes, I am tying, my tubes after this. This pg was unexpected and the fact that there are 2 is such a blessing but I think if I want to be able to give them all what they need I need to stop now. I think DH may get fixed too since we are so fertile.

I love you all, gotta get Raquel ready for school. Will post a Blossom picture soon. She has been telling us off since she came home. She is skinnier and is shedding like crazy, but she is very happy to be home as we all are.

I love the 7 yr old preparing her own sandwich! You are right Sherry, if the 7 year old who was left alone for 1 week were in the US the parents would be jailed and the child in foster care. I was lazy to wake up this morning and my 9 yr old made her own oatmeal. I thought it was sooo cute. Last time I saw her preparing her own meal she was like 8 and it was also oatmeal. After it came out of the microwave, I realized that what read 1/2 cup water she interpreted as 1/2 tsp. so you can imagine.

TTFN, Ters

[megzmom]

I am so glad that others are having the same dilema. I have a 7 year old daughter (I am so blessed that she is far apart. I got to enjoy all the one on one) then of course the 2 boys. I will be 32 mid May and I never wanted to get preg after 35 (too much worrying). But now I am not so sure.

I am the crazy one that even through the horrible morning sickness and the back ache I am so thankful (didn't think me a dh could have any together) that I am really loving this pg (hated the 1st). I am sure its because I haven't gained much weight (less than 15).

So I am torn between lets wait and see and no way 3 is enough. DH is right with me. He is okay to try one more time. I am also nervous because I have heard of others that had 1, then 2, then 3 at a time. If we decided not to have more than I will have him get fixed, not me. It is much safer and less invasive. Not sure dh knows this :)

bras-I looked at the website and even though I am not overly developed I am now wearing a small D. What size would I get in the tank tops. Being summer in FL, they look comfortable. I hate my arms but I would wear them inside for sure. I usually wear XL shirt prepreg but I have lost so much weight myself that I might actually go down once the boys are delivered. HELP... not sure what to get...I don't want to wait until boys are born but I don't know what to buy....

[teresa67]

My lips are swollen........nose is bigger......I want the next few weeks to fly by.......just when I think ok this is it, I can't go anymore, it seems God gives me strength to go on.

I've been a young mom, having my first at 19, my second at 24 and now I'm going to see what being an older mom is like, I'll be 39 when these are born.
I say always expect good things.

Was Monica's husband serious when he called himself that? I wonder if he was upset? I hope Monica and her babies are doing well, I know that's a scary thing to be going through.

I believe I have settled on names......though I'm not telling my family yet.
Baby A is Hallie and Baby B is Hannah. I've liked the name Hannah for awhile, I've had trouble naming the other, but I really wanted to name her after my little irish grannie, who wasn't even 5 ft tall and about 80 pounds. She was a spit fire of a woman, red hair and freckles in her youth......and beautiful when her hair was white, she was so good hearted and giving, she wouldn't let anyone leave her home without sending food with them or a blanket, she'd give you anything she had, she adored me and I adored her.......her name was Sallie and I thought she wouldn't mind if I changed the first letter and named the baby Hallie.

[qbanmom5]

Hi Gals

Teresa I love the names. I think Grannie would be happy with Hallie.

I added Blossom to the ticker. She was so happy, I couldn't get her to sit still; she kept twirling around and around.

Love you all, don't forget your water :spitwater

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[Daniele'sTwins]

Well her I am and I have to write quick because I have to go to my U/S and breastfeeding class. I can't wait to see how much my babies weigh now!

Last night I had my parents over for dinner and American Idol and when I went upstairs to change into my pj's and came back down my dh and my mom were laughing so hard! My dh was calling me Britney Spears becasue my t-shirt was riding up and showing my belly! He sent me out today to buy some maternity pajamas. I just never bought them seeing that I only wear pajamas in the house and not out in public but he said now it was time...lol

I do want to respond to all of you but I really have to get going ...but i just wanted to quickly say these are my first two babies but I want a ton more! I have always wanted a big family (at least 4 children) but DH says 3!!! If the third is a boy I know I will want to try for a girl and if it is a girl I would want her to have a sister! My dh always says lets see how you feel after these two. But ever since I was a little girl I have always wanted to be a mom, actually even more a grandmother. I want to one day have sunday dinners at my house with tons of kids at my feet just like my grandmother.

I will try to write more later...

Teresa...I love the names Hallie and Hannah. I actually love the name Teresa too but I am having boys!

[TMoT]

Teresa, I LOVE the names and the swollen lips too (Ters)! lol Btw, i don't think Victor was being serious -- at least I don't think so!! (?!!)

Britney Spears (hee hee), I adored your vision of you as a Mommy and Grandma! :-) GO FOR IT! There is nothing more rewarding -- as all these mommies here can attest! :-)))

Ters, SO HAPPY to see Blossom on the ticker and to know everyone is so content and getting "back to normal"!! I still like Scarlett and Rhett! :rotflmbo: But, we'll stick to A and B, if you prefer! ;-)

Heather, of course you are right to be thankful -- every moment! In the end (beginning and middle) this really IS a blessing, after all == TWO in fact! :throb: We have a LOT to be grateful for! As for the future... Well, yeah. We'll just see, I guess... ;-)

mommyof4: GREAT news on the u/s!! They are both so big, and you have chosen beautiful names! So much joy for you that you deserve! Keep plugging away!!!

Andrea, even my ds laughed about your boobs to your belly button! (I laughed out loud and he asked me why...) Of course, he was horrified till he realized it was in jest... Right?? lol ;-)

Till tomorrow, ladies. And like Ters said: drink your h2o!! xxx

[newmomx2]

Still here -

Monica/Victor - my prayers are with you I hope everything goes okay and they can stay in longer...

I think Blossom is our new mascot !!

I love Hallie and Hannah - in fact we were going to use hayley if we had a girl - but alas 2 boys...

All is well here - I actually was so busy working today with my feet propped up I forgot I was pregnant (usually I have constant aches and pains and can't forget), then I stood up and it all came back to me...haha

We have a newborn care class tonight and I am bringing my cabbage patch doll from when I was little - DH is going and I think he might be looking forward to it - he is leaving work early so he can come :clap: I told him he can skip the BF class

Okay now ladies you all keep talking about how big your boobs have gotten - I don't think mine have changed...still wearing the same bra...either the bra has stretched to adapt or I really haven't grown - is that bad, will I still be able to breastfeed..they are very dark and heavier but still 36C....any thoughts on this one...

Well I better run time to eat...I was hardly hungry all day until about an hour ago !

[AndreaR]

Good luck Danielle! You'll probably be too tired to post tonight, but we'll be looking forward to hearing your results. I'm interested in hearing about the b/f class, too. I'm scheduling one soon. About Britney Spears... funny you should mention her. Last night I had a dream that I had to go to L&D to see if it was time for the babies to come, and Britney Spears was there, pg, ready to deliver. I don't even like her, but I saw a commercial for her to be on Will & Grace, so she was in my head right before I went to bed. And today (because I am home alone) my shirt comes nowhere near covering my belly. I keep trying to pull it down, but it's futile.

Missy – enjoy the class tonight. I think it’s great that your DH is looking forward to it. I’m making my DH go to all of the classes, even b/f. My friend said that all of the male partners went to her b/f class, so I’m making mine go. He’s not thrilled. I can’t believe you forgot you were pregnant. It must have been wonderful to be that comfortable. Good for you! About your boobs not getting bigger, I don’t think that’s a problem (consider it a blessing!). I don’t think it will affect your ability to b/f, either.

Sherry (and I’m sorry I keep spelling your name wrong) – I wish I could say it was a joke about my boobs reaching my belly button, but frankly, they’re not that far away.

Ters – love, love, love seeing the picture of Blossom on your ticker – so glad you are together again!

Teresa – Hallie & Hannah are great names, and I love that you’re naming one of your daughters for your Grannie. That is so sweet. Just imagine if she has red hair, too! How are you feeling? How are the headaches?

Valerie, Lisa...are you there?

AndreaR

[teresa67]

Andrea,

I feel lots better, anything beats a migrane where you cant function and take care of yourself.

A red headed child is a possibility......my daughter is a redhead.

[teresa67]

Lisa,

I'm sorry you had such a rough night. Hopefully tonight will be better. I'm having rough nights right now too, your right behind me. We will get through this, even if it is one day at a time. I'm really huge, way bigger than my picture now. My fundal height is 44 weeks and I have 6 weeks to go too. Just have a good cry when it get to be too much, try to rest as much as possible. I hope you have a better night tonight.

[vthompson]

Sorry I didn't check in today! I had a doctor's appt this morning and then DH and I went to the mall, yes, I rode in the wheelchair again! I am getting used to this kind of treatment. Anyways, the doctor said everything looked great, no contractions! :yippee: Which means the bed rest is working. My sugar levels look good so far, too, so the diet must be working. My DH scheduled me a pregnancy massage for Friday and guess what, the doctor is letting me go! As long as I just go there and come home and someone drives me! I am so excited!! Also, we finally stepped into 2006 and bought a digital camera! I am so excited. Now, I can take a belly picture and post it for everyone to see. We bought a Konica Minolta camera. It had pretty good ratings on the Internet. I hope it works well! We opted to not get the insurance on it. I always hate making that decision. It just seems like the times we have bought it, we never used it. (knock on wood!).

Ok, so I know I am being totally crazy, but I started thinking about how lucky DH and I are to have the twins on the way, our marriage is wonderful, we have great families and friends, etc. Basically, things are going really well. DH put together a bunch of the babies' equipment and all their clothes are washed. We are almost ready for them to come home. All of a sudden, I started thinking about how maybe if things were going well, that meant bad things were on the way. Then, I started to have really scary thoughts like something happening to DH or one of the babies, or worse, both. Does anyone else ever have insane thoughts like this? I just realized how scared I am for anything to happen to DH or the twins. What would I do? I am crazy! :crazy:

Ok, there are a TON of posts to respond to so I apologize in advance if I leave anyone out, I am really tired today!

Ters - I love the cat picture, I agree, Blossom should be our mascot!

Teresa - It was so great to hear from you!! We were so worried! I love the names!! I also wondered if Monica's DH was upset and that is why he called himself those names...or was he joking because he knows of the conversations we have had recently...

Rachel - That is great on the appt!! Keep up the good work!

Tina - Thanks for the picture link. Those babies really are growing! I am amazed at your strength! Keep up the good work.

Monica/Victor - Thanks for keeping us updated. Tell Monica she is in all our thoughts and prayers.

Ok, I will check back later!

Valerie

[LucasMom]

Hey everyone,

Just in response to the short shirt situation and also to those of us on the big chested side ( I am a 36 DD), I found these lifesaving shirts at TARGET, about 4 months ago and they still have them now, just in different colors for this season. They are not maternity, they are in the regular section, and are called like seamless stretch vneck tanks. They have ruching down the front and are really stretchy and supportive. Well, I get the size large which still fits even my huge belly totally fine and I wear them under almost everything. It not only covers my belly, but supports it and make me look like I have an actual separation between belly and lower body. They come in all different colors and the best part, the are like 12 dollars! I highly recommend them!

In other news, my doc appt. this morning brought another Fetal Fibronectin test which came back negative, so barring other issues, no babies for at least two weeks! I am up to 21 pounds, and the babies as of the last ultrasound are measuring 32 weeks,which has been consistent throughout the pregnancy. My first son was almost 10 lbs., so they could just be big babies, but they are at 3' 15 and 3' 13, approx, so looking good!

I am glad to hear everyone is still hanging in there. Beautiful weather in Philadelphia today, so I am in a good mood, and am looking forward to the light at the end of the tunnel. Can't wait to meet my little guys, as I am sure you all are feeling!

Hope the shirt info helps!

Have a great night!

Mindy

[vthompson]

Lisa - I must have been posting at the same time as you. I am so sorry you had such a rought night. We are all in this together and we all feel the same way so do not feel bad. All I can say is you are doing a fantastic job! I am sending you hugs! :grouphugg

Valerie

[qbanmom5]

Hi, Posting again! Yeah Blossom for President!!

Lisa: That is sooo terrible about your pain. I have horrible groin pain today. Not sure why but just one of those things.

Missy, don't feel bad about the boobs. I am also still in the same bra. Actually, I went from 34 to 36 just for comforts sake, but I am still a B. Lately though, I have been thinking I need to get some C cups because they are kind of coming out the sides a bit. I mainly wear sports bras though especially for sleeping. And don't worry, it doesn't affect your breastfeeding one bit. I have always had copious amounts of milk come out of these little guys.

Danielle: Funny you mentioned Britney and your pajama woes. DH went to Ross yesterday and brought me some PJ's. I didn't even plan on getting any except maybe for the hospital. I have been sleeping in sweats worn below the belly and shirts which fall above the belly, none of my comfy Tshirts cover the belly anymore.

Last night, DH (who never wears pajamas) was sleeping in his clothes (as usual) and I was hugging him from behind (we take turns hugging each other most nights unless I am hot and tell him I need my space). Anyway, he likes it because the babies kick him in the back. Well I guess we were kind of close and when we separated I had his belt marks on my belly. Not a good feeling, I will insist he take off his belt at least before going to bed. I've bought him tons of pajamas but I can't get him to wear them.

Teresa: Take it easy, get lots of rest.

Candy/Monica: let us know how you're doing as soon as you can. We are praying for you. I hope your husband was joking about the JASBH. It was pretty funny, had me laughing out loud.

Valerie: I was starting to worry. Can't wait to see your picture. Glad to hear that you are feeling so content. Don't worry about those negative thoughts that come into your head. Satan always wants to stick his nose where it doesn't belong. Everything will be perfect so enjoy it. Someone told us at the bank the other day that God must be pleased with us because of this incredible blessing. Don't let negative thoughts get in the way of enjoying it. Right now we are very emotional and we can be laughing hysterically one minute and bawling the next. Take it from me, I know. We are all in this together!

Mindy: I can't believe those awesome weights on those babes! You sure are doing something right! I won't have an u/s until 4/13 but I can't wait to see how much they are weighing. Got any secrets to fattening them up?

Sherry: I don't know what is up with me, no names seem to fit. I was sooo set on Scarlett but now the Rhett is not convincing me to the point where I am even reconsidering Scarlett too! What is wrong with me.

We should get Blossom T-shirts or something. We can wear them when we have our reunion in Brussels!

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[AndreaR]

Lisa - good to hear from you. I'm so sorry about your muscle pain. It sounds terrible. Good for you for taking the day off of work. I hope you have a better night tonight. Hang in there - you're almost there!

Valerie - good to hear from you, too. Great news on the doctor's appointment AND the massage. Don't fret too much about thinking things are "too" good right now. I think that is a natural reaction, even if you weren't pg. But it's not the way the world works, so don't be afraid of the future. It's going to be wonderful!

Mindy - Thank you so much for posting that info about the Target shirts. I like things that are tight, because they do give you a little support. Also, congrats on the great doctor's appointment and the weights of your boys. That is really fantastic!

Ters - I'm totally with you about changing names. Even though we have had names picked out since before I got pg, I can't help but think I'm going to change my mind. And I keep trying to come up with other names.

Good night everyone. I hope you all have a great night's sleep.

Special prayers for Candy, Monica, Jill, Sheriba and all of their babies.

AndreaR

[teresa67]

Sherry,

Hope you are feeling alright today. You've been really busy lately, I think I'm going to have to sit you down and give you a lecture about slowing down a bit. I know we feel 20 lol and could probably run circles around alot of 20 year old, but reality is we are cooking two babies.........a really big deal to our bodies........slow down Sherry.......slow down lol

[Daniele'sTwins]

Hi everyone...I am back from my very eventful night. First of all the boys are doing GREAT! They are both head down. Baby A's head is right on my bladder. They look so cute! Baby A is 2.6lbs and Baby B is 2.8lbs. I am very happy with those weights. She also checked how long my cervix was but didn't tell me and I forgot to ask.

As for the breastfeeding class...it was ok. I didn't really get much out of it because it was all about having one baby and we know that we are VERY different in that category. Once I was there with my mom and saw all the dh's I did kind of feel sad (hormones). When we were all walking in the hospital at one point all the couples were holding hands and I kind of felt left out, so I made friends with the single mom that had nobody at all with her. I told my Dh and he said he wont miss anymore classes. I guess he felt bad but I never even asked him to go to this class! LOL

Lisa...That stinks about the pulled muscle. I really would feel a lot better if you stopped working all together. And as for everyone else working part time, that is worse if you ask me! You are probably still doing the same work but in shorter time!

Oh Yeah and I even told the people in the breastfeeding class tonight about you guys and how we are each others support! :throb: :throb:

[vthompson]

Good Morning Everyone! I swear I don't sleep anymore at night. I was up at 6am today and did not fall asleep until around 11 or 12. I got up 3 times during the night. I am tired, but I just have such a hard time sleeping. It is annoying!

Daniele - I am sorry you didn't get more out of the class. They really should offer a different class for multiples. That is great that DH is going to go with you next time.

Sherry - I agree with Teresa...we may need to yell at you soon! You need to slow down and take it easy.

Andrea R - Thanks for the words of encouragement! I think with the bed rest, I do a lot more thinking and eventually, my mind wanders to the what ifs! It is a lovely trait I have, over thinking!

Ters - That is so funny that your DH sleeps in his clothes. Isn't that really uncomfortable, especially with the belt on? I really liked what you shared about the woman at the bank. That is a really nice way to look at our pgs with twins!

Mindy - Those are some fantastic weights!! You are so close to 4 pounds, WOW!!! Also, great news on the test, now you can breathe a sigh of relief for the next 2 weeks!

I will check back later! It is supposed to be 65 today in Cleveland!

Valerie

[mmzill]

Hey everyone!

Well Victor posted for me last night. Yes he was joking about the JADHSC, he was quite proud of himself for the Srum Bag add on. He's just a goober sometimes. But you got to love him.

I do have Twin to twin transfusion syndrom.

Well, today we had the anmio reduction - basically a amniocentisis, but they take out alot more fluid. They took out 550 cc of fluid from baby A (the big one) It all went well, and I didn't go into preterm labor. That is a very very uncomfortable proceedure!!!!!! I hope non of you have to do it! But we all do what we have to. The fluid level for the little guy is still really low, but they are hoping by morning it will equialize some. The other problem of more concern was the intermeidatly absent diastolic blood flow through the cord (belly button leash as defined by Victor :clap: ) But that was only detected Tuesday morning, and hasn't been detected since. The doppler blood flow it a little high though, so there is still concern and the little one has very little fluid.

Ok - big delay in posting......the dr came in. Well, it looks like I'm in the hosp until these babies are born. Not going home :( The dr said that if the doppler remains elevated then we will deliver Friday, if it gets better then we will will do another reduction and see if that buys us some more time.

At anyrate, we did tour the NICU this evening, and all the babies had the cutest little beds they were in. They actually looked pretty cosy. That really made me feel better. I have reached 30 wks....so that's a really good thing! I'm just trying to stay positive. I have being upset and depressed for very long periods of time.

Today they gave me a steroid shot for the lungs. Those shots do burn like He**!!!

Someone asked about underwire bras vs. non. My suggestion is to have a couple of both. The non ones are great for the early days and are way more comfy, but then I got a couple that had underwire and a little padding, so that I can wear them under tighter shirts and not feel so droopy :) But I definetly didn't wear it all the time.

And about pg pillows - I have a horseshoe shaped one that is GREAT!!!! I love it!!! I got it off the Babycenter.com site.

Heartburn - check!!!!!! But i've said that already. Tums have helped me.

Well, i'm off here. Thankfully there is a wireless network that we can hook up to here at the hosp. :) I'll try to post tomorrow.

Well it is now Thursday morning as the post last night was blocked for some stupid reason by the Hospital's web filter.

~Monica

[mommyof4at26]

i just wanted you to know im praying for you and your family i hope things get better, and your babies are ok

[Daniele'sTwins]

Monica...Great job on staying positive for those babies! They need you to be like that right now! I am so glad you are in the hospital being monitored. I am sorry that you had a couple of painful procedures but it is all SO worth it and I know that you know that! You are amazing! Even if your babies are born on Friday that wont be bad with a great NICU and the steriod shots. You are already over 30 weeks!
I have to thank you for taking the time and posting to us to let us know what is going on with you. I also thank you wdh (Wonderful Dear Husband) for writing tot us to let us know what is going on. We are your family too! I think we should all take the time to show our DH's how to use this website so that if anything comes up they can post something. LOL...Actually I think i will show my mom, you might get more details that way...lol.

The power of prayer ladies! Let's get to it!:grouphugg
Love you all!

[AndreaR]

Morning ladies (and gent)...

Off to my last day of work, but I had to check in to see if there was any news.

Monica - thank you so much for posting. I'm sorry that you are in the hospital, but that's the place to be to get the care you and your babies need. I'm also sorry to hear about all of the painful poking you've had to go thru. You are such a trooper. And so are your babies! I think you have a great attitude given the circumstances. Hang in there. Know that we are all here for you.

Have a good day y'all. Drink that water, elevate those feet!

AndreaR

[swineland]

Hello? Do you all remember me? It's Thursday morning roll call, Steph check!

I am sorry I haven't posted in a few days, but don't worry, all is well. I've just been in more of a "lurking" mode as opposed to a "posting" mode. Been reading all the updates though :)

Monica: My, my how things change so quickly! While I know being in the hospital now until the babies come is not ideal, especially with your little girl at home, it sounds like it's essential at this point. You are a terrific mom already and you'll do what you gotta do for those babies! Stay well and keep cookin'! Please keep us posted when you can....

Teresa: Glad to hear you are okay! You are measuring 44 weeks?? Poor thing, I hope it's not too uncomfortable. (Although I know at this point, we are ALL uncomfortable to a certain extent).

Ters: A long-overdue CONGRATS on finding Blossom! Didn't I tell you that cats are excellent hiders ??? I was so happy to read your post that she had been found. I bet she is a little pissed off at the whole thing....looking back and probably thinking to herself.."What the hell was THAT all about?" hahaha

Lisa: I just had to let you know that my 20-lb "baby", my lovable, sweet and forever-purring kitty is named........RILEY! I almost died when I read your post......

Andrea: I can TOTALLY relate as to the wanting a breast reduction. I JUST the other night mentioned to DH that after the babies are through BF, I am going to look into it. My (.)(.)'s have always been a bit on the large side, 36D, but they're not a "nice" 36D, more like a heavy, kind of droopy 36D. So, now being pregnant, I hate them! They hurt like hell and I just feel so dumpy. Anyway, just wanted to let you know I feel your pain (literally!)

Well, as for me, I am just feeling totally run-down and tired beyond words. I sleep a LOT. Well, I try to. Like Valerie, I am having trouble sleeping again and it's got a lot to do with why I'm so tired during the day. I've also been having terrible pain in my ribcage (which I've mentioned before) and now my breasts are really sore again. I guess it's all part of the game, but I just don't like it!

Have you all started to get the stretch marks yet? Like the deep, purple ones under your belly? I have 3 or 4....I keep putting Palmers stretch mark cream on the area....hopefully that will keep others at bay (but I think I know better).

Well, today is a Level II visit at the peri for us, so I am excited :yippee: Getting kicked ALL over, so we can't wait to see exactly how the boys are positioned. I'll let you all know how it goes.

Mindy: Thanks for the tip on the Target shirts.....they sound perfect!

Danielle: Congrats on a good u/s visit! The weights are really good! As for the bf class, I have mine on Tuesday and I'm going with a good friend of mine who is 32 weeks along with her first child. Neither of us are bringing our DH's, so we'll see how it goes. The four of us however ARE doing the baby care class together....so that should be fun.

Well, I've got to get going......which really just means I'm going to lay back down :crazy:

Stay well everyone!

Steph

[mmzill]

Hey everyone!

Well Victor posted for me last night. Yes he was joking about the JADHSC, he was quite proud of himself for the Srum Bag add on He's just a goober sometimes. :) But you got to love him.

I do have Twin to twin transfusion syndrom.

Well, today we had the anmio reduction - basically a amniocentisis, but they take out alot more fluid. They took out 550 cc of fluid from baby A (the big one) It all went well, and I didn't go into preterm labor - Yay. That is a very very uncomfortable proceedure!!!!!! I hope non of you have to do it! But we all do what we have to. The fluid level for the little guy is still really low, but they are hoping by morning it will equialize some. The other problem of more concern was the intermeidatly absent diastolic blood flow through the cord (belly button leash as defined by Victor :clap: ) But that was only detected Tuesday morning, and hasn't been detected since. The doppler blood flow it a little high though, so there is still concern and the little one has very little fluid.
Ok - big delay in posting......the dr came in. Well, it looks like I'm in the hosp until these babies are born. Not going home :( The dr said that if the doppler remains elevated then we will deliver Friday, if it gets better then we will will do another reduction and see if that buys us some more time.
At anyrate, we did tour the NICU this evening, and all the babies had the cutest little beds they were in. They actually looked pretty cosy :) That really made me feel better. I have reached 30 wks....so that's a really good thing! I'm just trying to stay positive. I have being upset and depressed for very long periods of time.
Today they gave me a steroid shot for the lungs. Those shots do burn like He**!!!
Someone asked about underwire bras vs. non. My suggestion is to have a couple of both. The non ones are great for the early days and are way more comfy, but then I got a couple that had underwire and a little padding, so that I can wear them under tighter shirts and not feel so droopy But I definetly didn't wear it all the time.
And about pg pillows - I have a horseshoe shaped one that is GREAT!!!! I love it!!! I got it off the Babycenter.com site.
Heartburn - check!!!!!! But i've said that already. Tums have helped me.
Well, i'm off here. Thankfully there is a wireless network that we can hook up to here at the hosp. I'll try to post tomorrow.
~Monica

[teresa67]

Monica,

Your right, you do what you have to do. Your doing all this for your babies and you will get through it. Your far enough along that if the babies came they would be alright, have faith in that. I hope you can get a little farther to give them a little bit more time to mature, but if you don't get that far, know you've done a great job and all that you could have done all you can do and that your babies will do good. Best Wishes Girl and sending prayer and positive thoughts your way.

[mmzill]

Oops,
Monica asked me to post, but then was able to, sorry for the double posts!

Just talked to her. The little baby is showing signs of distress, less amniotic fluid,
C-section scheduled for this afternoon.

Misty (Monica's sister)

[vthompson]

Monica - You are in all our thoughts and prayers today!! Just think, the next time you check the board, you will be a mommy of 2 little angels! You are a great mom already for all that you have gone through. We can't wait to see pictures!!

Lisa - I was laughing out loud about your poo!! :rotflmbo: I get severe pain like that when I have to go, too. Actually, the first time I went to labor and delivery, it was intestinal, not contractions. How embarrassing that was!! I really hope your doctor lets you stop work all together. You really deserve it and it is so important now at this stage of pg that we rest as much as possible!

Steph - No more lurking! We worry too much on here about each other! I do have stretch marks. However, since bed rest, I haven't really seen the bottom of my tummy, only the top, so I do not know what the stretch marks have grown into. I should ask DH to bring the full length mirror downstairs. I also use Palmers but I still think it is inevitable for me.

Andrea R - That is so great that today is your last day of work! :clap: Let us know how it goes!!

Ok, this is really TMI, but has anyone been having sex dreams lately? I feel like a 13 year old boy going through puberty! I think it may be because it has been so long. I feel pretty embarrassed by it though! They are very vivid!

Valerie

[megzmom]

Monica- I am praying for you and will continue to do so. I am so happy (selfishly) that you have wireless too. I have been so worried about you.

I was on the border for TTS. Were you before it was confirmed? I thought that after a certain week the risk was nill. Did they say how much your babies are? I am so happy about your NICU. They don't have one at my normal hospital. Unfortunately the special hospital is in the process of opening a their new NICU so I am not sure where I will deliver...

Are you getting another set of steroids for their lungs/brains? I hope it wont hurt as much again if you do.

Take care of yourself!!

[megzmom]

I didn't read Monica's (sister) post until now. MONICA we are all praying for healthy babies and fast recovery. Keep us posted if you can!

Valerie-I am so with you on the too good to be true feeling. I am the same way. I have always been a worry-wart and its magnified now. I didn't truly accept the fact that I was preg... with twins until 3-4 weeks ago. Too afraid to get excited. I also didn't buy any outfits until then either. Now I am really accepted the happiness part and try to shove the worries aside. I guess thats what I meant 2 weeks ago when I felt INVINCIBLE because things were going to smoothly and I was bracing for the bad news.

[EBTwinz]

Sex dreams? Check! LOL! Sometimes I have vivid dreams, too. I guess I am still allowed to have sex (since the doc never told me to stop), but it doesn't happen very often. It feels too awkward and the swollen vagina doesn't help matters. I think it's actually better in my dreams. LOL!

[EBTwinz]

It's like 70 degrees where I live. I am so glad I am only working for one more hour. When I get home, I am sitting on my deck and absorbing the sunlight. It's sooo nice outside! I love this weather! We are so lucky to have our babies in the spring time. I always look at spring as a new beginning. What more could be perfect??

[megzmom]

Its too hot here now. I am in the low 80's and I can;t cooled off. Fl weather is great but we only have 2 temps hot and hotter. I think my internal therm is not working. Maybe I'll go visit you all in the north to cool off :)

Enjoy the deck-becareful...we burn very easy being preg. Trust me, my back is now peeling after I put on sunscreen!

[LucasMom]

Well another Mommy having babies. I look at the April board and some of those ladies are still pregnant. These June babies sure must love us to want to meet us so fast!

Monica-Sending you and your little ones the strongest feelings of love and protection. Funny how quickly you feel like you know eachother on here. My friends at work all know when something happens to one of you guys, and care as much as I do. I know how much you care, and you will be a wonderful and strong mommy. Good Luck and congrats! Can't wait to see the pics of the babies.

everyone else hanging in for today?? I am at work and feeling very ...big in the belly!

Sex dreams...what is sex? I miss it, for sure, but I agree with the swelling and the pain in the crotch area ( must be veins), it seems silly to try even though I was not put on any restrictions.

Hope all is well!

Mindy

[mmzill]

Heather - u/s indicated 15% diff @ 22wks, 20.7% diff @ 26wks, and 28% diff @ 29wks. TTTS can be diagnosed at any time and it can get bad very quickly.

Monica is in a LDR room awaiting prepping for C-section this afternoon. One baby has almost no fluid and that has not improved. Monica is also having contractions on a fairly regular basis - for whatever reason - mental or physical I have no idea. The small baby's heartbeat has decreased some but is still holding steady.

That is it for now. Hopefully the hospital's web filtering nonesense will let this post through.

Babies soon :clap:

Victor

[vthompson]

Victor/Monica - Thank you so much for the update! We are all waiting for the arrival of your babies!!!

Heather - I am glad you can relate to me. It makes me feel less crazy when I hear other people also have crazy thoughts!

Heat Wave - I am jealous of the rest of you! Although it is much warmer today in Cleveland, it is not in the 70's or 80's. It is currently 63. I want to go sit outside but all of our patio furniture is in the garage for the summer so I will have to wait until DH pulls out a chair for me. I put the dog outside and she is having a fantastic time barking like a crazy woman!!

I will check back later!

Valerie

[newmomx2]

Praying for Monica/Victor - looks like you are in good hands in the hospital and yes your babies will be here very soon !!!! Don't forget to tell us the names :yippee:

I just realized that 2 of you live really near me..Lisa I think you said Harrisburg, PA - I am in Newark Delaware and grew up in York and went to college in Lancaster ! - and I think it was Mindy who said that she lived in Philly - I am only 30 minutes from there ( I work in Wilmington - of course right now I work from my recliner...)

Well nothing new with me - I slept pretty good last night....babies are both getting really high and kicking -so I have not been eating much lately..

[Tiny Blessings]

Monica/Victor: my prayers are with you and your beautiful little ones and daughter. Happy birthday babies!

Sooo tired again today...stressful week with too much on my plate at work. Had a 1/2 day at the office with no meetings (Thank God!) and some time to catch up on phone calls and some paperwork. Still light years behind, though. You guys are right....cramming 40 hours worth of work into 20 is not possible and not effective in reducing my stress level. will have to think about that and see what else I can do. Maybe work from home full days a few days and then have office time once or twice a week. We'll see. Guess people are just going to have to deal with not having me there, right? (easier said/written than done/accomplished!!)

A few quick responses: No stretchmarks yet, (I look everyday in fear). I lotion up several times a day to try to prevent/minimize it as I am sure they are coming. And a big check on the bleeding gums....it is soooo gross when I brush my teeth and I spit out tons of red! ICK! My bra size hasn't changed tremendously, but it didnt' last time either and I had TONS of milk...don't worry...that won't affect anything.

Anyone else really slow with the wakling/waddling? I can't seem to get anywhere quickly anymore. Feels like I have concrete shoes sometimes.

Going to take a quick nap before DS comes home from daycare and wants to play with mommy. I put a roast in the crockpot this AM, so dinner is done (thank god), so time to relax sounds great. Take care everyone. I am so worried about all of you girls...

Tina

[qbanmom5]

Monica/Victor: I am praying for you and cheering you on. Tell Monica we love her and we are proud of her. She made it 30 weeks which is a big accomplishment. Keep us posted when you can and I'm sending big hugs to those babies!! I can't wait to hear all abuot it. DH about died when I told him you were having yours today. He knows about jill and Sheriba and I told him about you and Candy. It is more real for him now.


Tina: Take it easy, please. You need to lay back and relax. Drink your water and get lots of rest.

Steph: Glad you are o.k. I was about to sound off the alarm! I love the Blossom/Riley shirts! Where is Sherry today?

Danielle: Sorry you didn't get much from the BF class. It is true that nursing 2 is going to be a whole lot different than nursing 1.

Valerie: Yes Dh sleeping with clothes is an issue. I have tried to break him of it for years and decided its not worth the battles. It was bad when the kids were smaller and wanted to do it too cause I just don't think it is right. He had a rough upbringing and his parents were not available much. He got used to just passing out wherever in whatever he is wearing. He showers in the mornings so at least he is clean and when he wears his nice work clothes he does change out of them but only to put on some other street clothes. Old habits die hard. I still have to peel him off the couch sometimes cause he will fall asleep watching T.v. in the living room. (i have to be honest that lately I don't wake him to come to bed all the time cause I like having the bed to myself).

Strange vivid sex dreams --check. I thought it was because the Dr, Told me I can't have any. Lately though, the swelling and the veins and the yeast infection have all got me really turned off. I can't imagine delivering vaginally at this point, I think they'll get stuck. TMI sorry.

I was checking out the other boards last night and there is a woman expecting her 3rd set of twins. All natural and this is her 2nd identical pair. Not only that, but she carried her other two sets till like 39 weeks and they weighed 7 and 8 pounds. I wrote her for advice...

Ta Ta Ters

[qbanmom5]

Here is the response I got from Siobhan, the woman who is expecting her 3rd set of twins and carried them 39 weeks.

"Anyway, I think there are a couple of key factors that helped me carry two sets of twins to term:
1.) This is the most important: The faith (in God and myself) that I would make it to term! This type of confidence empowers you greatly and it makes it easier to pull through the tougher times during the pregnancy.
2.) Nutrition and weight gain: With my first set I didn't know about Dr. Luke or any other twin researchers, I just listened to my body and ate as healthily as I could. I was always a slender person (I'm 6'1 and usually weigh anywhere from 140-160 lbs.) but I had no problems (physically or emotionally) to gain a large amount of weight for a baby or twins. So, I automatically gained the required weight early on. With my second set I wanted to do exactly the same I did with my first set since the outcome had been so wonderful. I also learned about Dr. Luke and discovered that I had already done what's recommended and continued to do so.
I included lots of protein in my diet (I love whole milk and eggs). I also included lots of carbs (I love bread). For fibers I ate things like oatmeal (with whole milk and cocoa) and whole grain breads. No enriched flour. I'm a meat eater, so I got the required fat and even more protein as well as iron. I'm not big on fast food, so my junk food was very limited (maybe once a week when taking the kids to McDonald's for a treat). A good way of getting all the required items of the food pyramid into one meal is cooking homemade stews. I love gulash as it contains beef, bell peppers, potatoes, tomatoes, onions, carrots and zucchinis. I make rice with that and voila, you have a healthy, hearty meal (just make sure you don't overcook the veggies, I just pre-sautee all veggies lightly and add them to the meat when it's close to done, the potatoes and carrots can be put in a little earlier as they take longer to get done).
3.) Fluid intake. Being dehydrated can cause the uterus to contract, setting off premature labor. I always made sure I drank enough water (mineral water in my case) and other fluids such as fruit and veggie juices. No caffeine and diet drinks whatsoever. So altogether I drink 2 liters of German mineral water and about 5 eight oz. glasses of juice as well as milk on top of everything a day.
4.) Adequate rest: I can't afford to be on bedrest. With my second twin pregnancy, I was briefly put on "semi-bedrest" at home because I had a pulled uterine ligament but it was virtually impossible to spend a lot of time in bed with all my other kids at home with me. So, I had a brace fitted to support my large belly (and my back). IF you can afford to rest, do so as much as possible. Whenever you get a chance sit down with your feet up or lay down on your left side for increased blood-flow to your uterus.
If you can afford it, get a cleaning lady a couple of times a month. My dh ordered me a cleaning team for the first time when I was pregnant with my second set. They came once a week to do the deep cleaning (I still had to do the daily cleaning and chores of a family of 11 at that time). I rested whenever the kids napped or watched a movie (we'd watch something together and nap in the masterbed, etc...)
5.) Emotional support. I was lucky that I had (and still have) a husband who would pitch in and basically take over when he came home from work at night to allow me to rest even more, although I must say that when we were pregnant with our first set, we were playing music together on stages in San Diego 3 times a week up to my 8th month, so there was NO rest at all but late nights for that matter. But I always had the emotional support and involvement of a caring husband which made the pregnancies a lot easier (we have no other outside support since both of our families live in Europe, so it's just me and him and our kids).

So, that's all I can come up with right now....Oh, also: It is very tempting to have your doc offer an early induction but unless it is absolutely medically indicated for the safety of your babies or yourself, don't do it. Let nature take its course. The babies come when they are ready and the entire birth process will be so much easier when you let your body dictate when it's time. Write out a birthplan (as you see your "dream birth") and show it to your doc. Find out what's feasable in your doc's view and in your own view. Don't be afraid to discuss and even argue with your doctor if necessary, only that way you will truly find out his/her stand on things. Read lots and be as informed as possible.
I wish you a wonderful rest of your pregnancy. Hang in there! "

Good advice. Enjoy, Ters

[vthompson]

So things are not going well...I started feeling that same pressure that I felt when I went to L&D and they told me I was contracting. I called the doc and she said to lay down and if it becomes very uncomfortable, go to L&D. She wants to seem me tomorrow morning at 9:15am. They are going to hook me up to the monitors, do a urine sample, and another test. I am wondering if the test is the one that determines if you are going to deliver in the next 2 weeks or not...for those of you that have had that, how do they do it? Does it hurt?

I am just sitting here writing this and crying like a little baby. I am just so frustrated. I was just at the doctor's yesterday and everything was fine. What if I go tomorrow and there is nothing wrong? They are going to think I am crazy. But, on the other hand, what if there is something wrong? I just have so many emotions pouring out of me right now. I wanted to go sit outside for a little bit today and take a shower and put on a nice short sleeve shirt. I just wanted to feel human today after being in bed all day. I realize that this is the least of my worries but I am just so frustrated. Now, I have to lay here and play the stupid waiting game analyzing every little movement trying to decide if it is getting better or if we should go to the hospital.

Sorry for the venting...I realize that there is a lot more going on with some of our other moms on the board that my emotional breakdown really seems childish...

Valerie

[swineland]

Hang in there, Monica! Thanks to Victor and your sister for keeping us so promptly updated.....we surely do appreciate it! She's part of our little June 06 "family", so we are relieved to know she is in good hands. All my warm thoughts and positive vibes coming at ya......:throb: and Happy Birthday boys!

Valerie, you have every right to feel the way you do right now and it has nothing to do with what other moms on the board are going through. Being in a situation such as yours where you are scared and feeling these symptoms, yet not knowing if they are "real" or not....I'd cry too! You already did the right thing by calling your doctor and I'm glad she's getting you in first thing tomorrow. Better to be safe than sorry here......things can change in an instant and if you ignore your symptoms, or feel embarrassed to speak up or go to LDR, you might be putting yourself or the babies at risk! You are doing the only natural motherly thing to do.....worry! And I know you'll be okay.....:aww:

My u/s went very well. The boys weigh in at 2.14 oz and 2.15 oz! They're almost 3 lbs each! We were so excited to see that. My cervix is "very long" as the tech put it and she said all looked perfect :clap:

I'm totally pooped now though.....
I can totally identify with what Tina said about moving slowly. Normally I am a very fast walker and I don't like to be held up by slowpokes (like at the mall, etc) but I am certainly a slowpoke now! And laying on that ultrasound table...holy COW! My DH had to put his arm up under my back as a sort of lumbar pillow. Getting up was NOT fun. My lower back just aches under the pressure.

Well, I'm off for now, but will definitely be checking back in for word on Monica and her precious babies.

See ya!
Steph

[qbanmom5]

Oh Valerie: I feel for you so much right now. You can always turn to us for support and never feel that you don't have reason to. I am sooo sorry that you aren't feeling well and are worried. Drink plenty of water and don't get out of bed and all will be well. You are such a great mom already and your concern for your babies is very obvious. No one can knock you for that. Hopefully, they will find that you are just having BH contractions and nothing more. I don't know much about that test for labor in 2 weeks, but I think it would be a big load off your mind. If it were to show that they are coming sooner than expected, don't worry. You have done such a good job of carrying them that I am sure all will be o.k.and they will be fine. You've been resting, drinking h20, there is nothing more that you can do but relax and keep it up. Elevate your feet, try not to worry, and you will see that everything will turn out the way it is meant to. Try not to cry, twins have a tendency to come early and its nothing that you have done. Everything will be o.k. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Big hugs--Ters

[TMoT]

Monica-- :'-) I hope everything is going well with the babies' arrival!!! You have been so brave and doing everything you gotta do for those beauties! I pray for all the best for all five of you and hope you will give us an update after you've managed to rest and recuperate a bit from it all... All our love across the miles for you and your precious new sons!!! :throb:

Candy, can't wait to have news from you too! I hope you and the babies are managing well and that everything is going okay. Please give us an update when you can too. Till then, much love to all of you too!! xox

Steph, so glad to hear from you. I've been worried -- of course! Glad *whew* that all is okay. Please let us know how the u/s visit goes!! xx

Valerie, so much good news to celebrate! I'm so happy for you about all of it! :-)

Mindy, SO HAPPY to hear about your good results too! Hope you'll be able to "coast" on this high for a while (at least for the next two weeks)!! *whew* Live it up!!!

Lisa, enjoy the weather but be careful! Wouldn't want to add to your night-time stress, poor thing. :-( I hope you're managing to relax -- at whatever cost! You deserve it!!

INVINCIBLE Heather -- ENJOY that elated feeling! You have earned it through all the long nights, worrying times, etc. All the aches, freakish changes, etc., aside, this really is a time to take the opportunity to just revel in the wonderful *gifts* _in multiples_ God has given us! Let yourself go! In fact, we ALL should do this!! Ready, Ladies? One, two, three... AHHHHHHHH! :)

Mindy, you are a trooper! I know I write this all the time, but I am so impressed by your stamina and resilience -- working so long with two babies on the way! You should really be commended!!! :5pound:

AndreaR, ENJOY the END OF WORK!!! :yippee: You've done such a terrific job hanging in there all this time, too! NOW: Kick back, feet (and BOOBS) UP and ENJOY the rest of your pg!!!! :-D Btw, sorry me and ds laughed at your boob "joke"!! If it's any consolation, I've even given up measuring. Like I've said before, I think a full HALF of my pg weight is in my boobs! :-( It's been such a strain on my back and not helping that rib-cage pain (sympathy, Steph!) I've had for a couple months+ now... :-( A good laugh helps at least, though, eh? Hang (ar, ar) in there, you too, Sweetie!! :-)

Missy, you can have mine! Count your blessings, even if you feel jipped, and remember what Ters said about all the milk you'll be able to "generate" anyway... :-) As my buddies mom always told her, "anything more than a mouthful is a waste"...! ;-)

Ters, I'm all-in for the Blossom t-shirts for our Brussels reunion! What a terrific idea!!!!! :-))) ...Sorry about your quandry for the names. It's at least nice to know we're in the same boat. Personally, I think you should stick with Scarlett. It goes so nicely with Raquel and Victor (and what is the third??)... Maximus is also nice for your boy -- did dh give up on that one??! I guess you never bought into it? Well, keep us posted. xx

Teresa, it sounds like things are going more steady for you these days??? I have to confess, I've "found" some trace protein and white bloodcells in my urine (again!), and I'm worried about toxemia/pre-eclampsia... I've gained a lot of weight over all (I'd say closing in on 40lbs, at least!) and my/our age, plus multiples really increases the risk. My bp has been fine at my ob check-ups, but the protein thing has me stressed... Did you have bp issues before they admitted you last week? And how is it going now?? You are such a marvel. I'd love your girls to have red hair like your gramma and ds! What a troop! Can't wait for the pictures -- but that's not to say I want them to come out anytime soon! Please keep taking good care of the three of you. *Hugs*

Daniele, congrats on the u/s -- super weights!! :-D That was so awesome that you bonded with the single-mommy at the b/f class too. Having been there as a single mom, I can definitely say she must have really appreciated your companionship! Your BIG HEART is showing!! :'-D

Okay, well everyone is right. Even dh is complaining that i'm overdoing it... (?!!) I guess it really IS bad. But I DO take a good nap at least once a day, and the most physical exertion I get is walks around the neighborhood (i.e. to/from school to pick up the boys), and up and down our stairs umteen times a day! *sigh* What can I say? I really AM trying to take it easy, but when I have an energy burst, I go with it. As we've all experienced, though, that leaves one feeling depleted... Well, my new scare is the protein I've now found _twice_ in my urine. And, of course, my ob is on vacation! Here's the major BRAIN FART of the day, though: I went to my ob's office thinking I had an appt today and it's NEXT WEEK!!!!!! I _knew_ that, but somehow (pg brain) my synopses got crossed and there I was -- looking like a big, fat, pg fool!!! Good thing the receptionist was understanding -- like she's been there before maybe??? ;-) *whew*

One other thing... Everyone is griping about getting called "chubby," "fat," etc... But _I'm_ TIRED of people telling me I'm "holding"/looking "smaller than they expected," etc....!!!!! ]-( I feel SO HUGE (and, like I said, I'm pushing 40lbs weight-gain now!!), and I want at least a little sympathy from them for all my suffering from this extra load!!!!!! :-( My neighbor said today it might be because I wear black so much (=true), so I'm considering getting a bunch of bright, pastel, floral-print mu-mus for the Spring season to _emphasize_ my condition. Heaven knows, I'll probably really be needing them by then anyway...!!! lol

Well, I promise to be more quiet this weekend. Should eventually get around to going up, up, up the big hill to my hospital (on foot) to take my gd test too... I'll keep you all posted.

Till then, much love to all!!!! xox

[qbanmom5]

Val: One more thing from what I quoted earlier about the mom expecting her 3rd set of twins. She says to expect to carry them full term and that it will help you really go the distance. I totally believe that and can tell you that it has rang true for me twice. My son was born a month early for no apparent reason. I was working the whole time and hated my job. Every day I hoped I would go into labor so I wouldn't have to go to work. It was horrible. When I started feeling contractions, they were mild and an hour apart. I convinced myself that I was in labor, and when I went to the hospital I was 3 cm. People can be 3 cm for weeks before real labor but I convinced them that I couldn't go back home and had to be admitted, etc. I was a real stinker. With my last daughter, I worked up until my due date which was the day I went into labor. I just kept telling myself that I was not ready and she was not ready and it worked out. I am not saying that this is 100% foolproof, but the power of the mind and of suggestion is very strong. Say your prayers, tell your body it is nothing more than practice for the real thing which will happen later, and do not tell yourself this is it. Try it and if nothing else at least you will fell empowered and more in control. Love you, I am rooting for you--Ters

[qbanmom5]

Sherry: You better stop going up and down those stairs!!!! I did not know about the protein in the urine. What does the dr. Say? Can you get someone else to drop off and pick up the kids? I worry about you walking that much. That's what they tell women in labor to do to speed up delivery! Stop, lie down, and don't get up.

My third child is Teresa (like me) but she prefers Terri (like me). In fact she is just like me (physically) her personality is stronger and more of a leader (first born that she is). Dh and I both dropped Maximus at about the same time. It just kind of died down. He is still set on Rhett and now loves Scarlett. I still do like the Scarlett but I don't know. I am just torn. It just seems that Scarlett Rodriguez sounds a little better than Rhett Rodriguez. I have never even seen the movie! Yes, you were the original inspiration for the names but when my sister heard, she loved it and somehow convinced DH that it was perfect. Who knows, maybe it wll grow on me. I have never met a Rhett before...

Love and kisses, Ters
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[TMoT]

Here I am!!!

...Sorry, everyone! I was composing that huge post while everyone else was posting too... :-(

Val, I'm so sorry about your crisis, now. And -- I thought we all made a deal?!! -- NO apologies, PLEEEASE! :'-) It is natural that you're scared, worried, exasperated... Just try your best to relax and remember how much we all care about you here!! Pray and turn that energy into something as positive as you can, and try to rest as much as you can till the appt in the morning. If it turns out to be nothing -- don't feel guilty! You have to do what you feel is right, right now! I am thinking and praying about you. Sleep well and let us know what happens in the morning okay??

Ters, thanks a LOT for posting Siobhan's comments. That was really TERRIFIC and inspiring!!! I've done my best to do all those things, but it's awesome to get more insight from someone who's been there -- 2, going on 3 times!!! WOW! How super!!!!! (Makes me feel better about the weight-gain too!!! ;-))

Tina, I'm with Ters. Please make sure you're resting! You've worked so hard all this time, I wish I could even come and switch places with you for a while to give you a break. We all are worried and care about you! Don't forget that!! ...Btw, I have trouble keeping up with my five-year-old these days... Cement shoes -- a perfect analogy. HOW do you still manage to work! As I keep saying, you're so impressive!!! :-)

Steph, GREAT about the u/s! Two three-pounders! Yipee!!!:yippee:

Okay, time to sleep... Nighty-night, all!

[EBTwinz]

Oh, Valerie, I feel so bad for you right now! I wish I could give you a big hug but instead I will give you a virtual hug. :aww: I know you will be just fine. I am sure you just need to rest. Drink that water and keep your feet elevated. I love what Ters said about mind over matter, you aren't ready to have these babies, yet. So, convince yourself that it's just BH contractions and you are going to be fine. I am sending big hugs and prayers your way. Think positive. You will be fine, I promise!!! Please keep us updated and try not to worry about it. Maybe you should go to L&D tonight to ease your mind about the contractions. Do not feel silly. You have to listen to your body.

Just remember, you are going to be fine. Your babies are healthy and they are going to be fine, too. They are just giving their momma a little scare right now.

Please post again when you get a chance. I will be checking often to see how you are doing.

:throb: - Lisa

[teresa67]

Sherry,

I'm sorry to hear about the protein and white bloodcells. Has your dr told how elavated they were? My blood pressure has always been low, it normally runs 90/50......when I went in and it was 140/70, thats why she had me stay that day and do a 3 hour testing of b/p's. They went down so I was able to go home. I'm now on complete bedrest......I can get up to go to the bathroom and to get something to eat. I'm not being that strict on myself, but I've definitely cut back.....but I have to admit physically I've noticed a big slow down in just a week's time. I've gained quite a bit of weight too.....more than you......I don't even want to type it......I said I wouldn't tell anyone till this pregnancy is over, I'm a big weight gainer during pregnancy and I guess this one isn't any different.
To be honest I feel like these girls could come at any time.....my dr thinks so too......we discussed a c section date and she made sure she mentioned that I might not even go to that.
Just please, please please take it easy. I worry about you and look everyday to see if your alright. :throb:

[vthompson]

I truly do not know what I would do without all of you! I love you all so much! :throb: :throb: You always know what to say to make me feel better. Thank you to everyone for all your support!!

After I posted earlier, I layed down until DH got home, things started to calm down a little. Actually, it was really weird, I told the babies outloud that it was not time to come out yet. I swear, it may have just been coincidental, but after I said that, things started to calm down. I took a shower and we ate dinner. I started to feel it come back so I came in and layed down. Things have again calmed down. I think I am just going to stay in bed the rest of the evening, if anything gets worse, I will go directly to L&D, otherwise, I will wait to see the doctor in the morning.

It is just such a weird feeling. It feels like one of the babies have moved very low down and all of sudden, the pressure feeling comes back. The only reason it alarms me is because this is how it felt when I was contracting and didn't know it. As for now, though, things are quiet, except for my crazy babies moving!! I will keep everyone posted!!

Thanks again! You gals and guys, are the best. Speaking of guys, Jason has not posted in awhile. I hope everyone is ok!

Valerie

[AndreaR]

Hi...I'm home from my last day of work, and I'm exhausted, so I'm just going to post a few things.

Monica - I'm sending you lots of hugs and positive thoughts & prayers. Happy Birthday to the babies! Thanks to Victor and your sister for keeping us in the loop.

Valerie - Do not apologize for sharing your emotions. That's why we're here. You are going through a lot right now. Don't compare yourself to other mothers. Just try to relax and rest (I know, easier said than done). You've done a wonderful job with those babies so far, and when it's their time to come, it's their time to come. Don't worry about calling the doctor; that's what she's there for. Good luck tomorrow. I'll be praying for you. Here is my prayer: "God, please help Valerie and her babies stay together for a few more weeks. And if everything is okay with the babies, please let her go to her massage tomorrow so she can feel better."

Steph - good to hear from you. We get so worried when someone is missing for a few days.

I'll be praying all night long for everyone! :throb: :throb:

AndreaR

[AndreaR]

Valerie - our posts crossed. Glad you are feeling a little better. Stay in bed and watch TV. Britney Spears in on Will & Grace tonight. I think it's your turn to dream about her! LOL

[Daniele'sTwins]

Good Morning Ladies! Jason where have you been? I hope all is well with your wife.

Monica/Victor/Misty...I can't wait to hear news about those little ones!

Valerie...Please don't feel bad for the way you vented! I am so glad that you did. We would all be feeling the same way! Make sure you post what the doc said after this mornings appointment. I will be thinking of you. (Big Hug)

Steph...I still don't have any stretch marks, and I am not looking forward to any.

Valerie...sex dreams...check

Tina...I also have sooo much trouble walking. I shock myself at how hard it is! Not just so much my belly but my inner legs and when I have to go pee forget it! It hurts to walk when I have to pee. Also, How much do you love crock pot cooking!!!??? I absolutely love my crockpot! Coming home and the house smelling so good!

Ters...Thanks for the info from that lady with 3 sets of twins. That is amazing isn't it! The funny thing is they say identical twins aren't hereditary and they happen to very few people but she has 2 sets of those!

Sherry...LOL...I want a mu mu too! This is getting reduiculous.

I have noticed that i am getting a lot more uncomfortable than usual lately. I can't believe I have 9 more weeks left! It hurts to just do about anything.

Oh by the way, I finally put on the bedding for the boys cribs last night. It looks so cute! Luckily DH asked me if I want to put it on and I said yes, God only knows when I would have put it on had he never mentioned it...I did it though, without a tear! Yay for me.

[swineland]

Good morning, everyone.....Steph, check!

Anxiously awaiting word on Monica this morning....I can't stop thinking about it!

For those of you who are going to be using an electric breast pump, are you considering getting one of those "hands-free" devices that you wear?? I saw some online and they look hideous and the photos scare the you -know-what out of me, BUT I think I'm going to get one. I was just thinking of all the extra things I could get done by not having to hold those things up to my chest the whole time. Anyway, here's a link if you don't know what I'm talking about : http://www.breastfeedingworld.com/pumping_bras.htm

Also, I decided to spice things up a bit and change my font color :)

Will check in later.......I have GOT to get some things done today.....no more sleeping!!

Steph

[AndreaR]

Good morning & Happy Friday to all!

I was thinking about Monica and Victor all night, imagining what their night was like with their new babies. I can't wait to hear an update. Until then, the prayers continue!

Stretchmarks.....check! I just noticed the other day that I have a few on my hips. Not on my belly........yet.

Sex Dreams..........check! check! check! I have had them through my whole pregancy.

Waddling.....check! People watch me walk and laugh at me. My husband called me a Weeble the other night.

Tina - I'm worried about your stress level at work. Is there anything you can do? Even though I was working long days, I had slowly decreased my area of responsibility and the stress that went along with it starting a long time ago. I know I was (and still am) very lucky, and everyone's situation is different. But we're getting close here, and I worry about you taking care of yourself. I can't help it. It's the Sherry in me.... hee hee.

Steph!! Great weights. Almost 3 pounds is fantastic! You and DH must be so excited.

Sherry - How do you test the protein in your urine? Is that ketosis? I kind of remember from contemplating the Atkins diet years ago. Have you asked your doctor about it? You're making me nervous... Also, I think it's great that you are carrying your pg weight so beautifully and gracefully. Like I wrote earlier, people laugh when they see me coming. But I totally understand you wanting some sympathy. With what we are all accomplishing, I think we all need lots of hugs, all day long, even if they are verbal hugs. Just the other night, I was complaining to DH about something (I think being uncomfortable), and he asked what could he do. I told him I just wanted him to say "Aw, you poor thing" and rub my back. That works wonders. So I'm sending BIG BIG BIG HUGS FROM BOSTON TO BELGIUM. :throb:

Daniele - Good for you for getting the bedding on the cribs. The room must be almost done now? Can you send pics?? Our girls' room still has a LONG way to go and DH is in a panic. We're waiting for wallpaper to come in, so it can be hung. Also waiting on window treatments. All of our furniture is in, but the store is holding it until we're ready. I was hoping for it to be done by 4/15, but now I'm nervous, too.

Heather - I was laughing at your "internal thermometer" comment. I am warm all the time now. DH came into the bedroom last night (I had the window open) and he said it was too cold and started putting on a sweatshirt. Meanwhile, I'm laying above the covers sweating. I don't know how you do it in Florida!!

It is another beautiful day here. It's supposed to be in the low 70's. I'm going to go to the playground with my sister and her two kids, and we're going to have a picnic lunch. I am so relieved to be done with work and have all this time to myself (to rest and cook babies, don't worry).

Have a great day everyone!

AndreaR

[AndreaR]

Steph - I took a look at the link you posted. Although they do look like quite the "contraption" I agree that it might be helpful. The halter style is on sale for only $20 right now. I never knew about them, but for $20, it might be worth a try? It's not like you'd be wearing it to the beach. I might get one. Thanks for the post! And try not to do too much today. Sleeping is good for babies!!

AndreaR

[Daniele'sTwins]

Steph...I saw those bras at the hospital when I went to my breastfeeding class and it scared me...lol. I think it is worth a try though, you be the guinea pig and if you and AndreaR like it I will get one too.

I am paying bills for my DH's offices and then I am off for a mani/pedi at my cousin's salon so I can get pretty fro my shower on Sunday. Not like anyone will be looking at mt nails/toes!

I weighed myself again this morning and I have gained 30lbs now. I feel like i is sooo much more!

[Daniele'sTwins]

AndreaR...I will try to take some pics this weekend and let you guys see them. Same weather here, we are about 45 mins away from each other. I am wearing flip flops! Yay!

[EBTwinz]

Good morning, everyone! It's another beautiful day again. I have to work 9am-2pm today b/c I have an eye doc appt at 2:15. So, I won't be able to enjoy the afternoon outside. Bummer! I actually feel pretty good today. (knock on wood). I had a good night's sleep and my side pain isn't too bad today. But, I do look huge!!! I have on a pink shirt today and my co-workers joked that I look like a huge Easter Egg. LOL! They are so amazed that I get bigger each day, but they are kind enough to tell me that I am just all belly. Even though I know I am a little bit @ss and face, too! LOL! So, I came up w/ an idea last night. As I was laying on the couch, I got the idea to take the middle cushion off and lay face down. Didn't work too well, but I think we should all invent a new mattress or cushion for pregnant woman so they can lay on their stomach. It would have a hole for your belly. What do you all think?? I think we could be millionaires if it works!!

Well, I have been thinking about Monica and her babies all night/morning. I really hope she is okay. I wish I knew what hospital she is in. I would love to send her flowers or a little care package. Jill and Sheriba too! Maybe we should look into doing something like that for the mom's who have the babies early. What do you all think? I think we need to get the info through PM and not post it, just in case. We have a helping hands committee at work where we send flowers to co-workers for things like illness, hospital stay, births, or deaths in the family. We can have our own Helping Hands committee here, too! Just a thought.

Ters: Thanks for the post from the mom of three sets of twins. Did anyone see the Today show this morning? There was a mom who's best friend was a surrogate for her and was pregnant w/ twins. Well, the mom actually conceived the same day her friend was implanted w/ the eggs and now she is pregnant w/ twins, too. They are due the same day, June 7th. Maybe they should join our message board! So, she is going to have two sets of twins due on the same day! Joan Lundon, the news anchor, gave them advice since she has two sets of twins, too. She said to stock up on things like diapers, formula, etc. b/c you will go through a lot. And she said the first year is the hardest. But, I think we all pretty much expect that. The segment was short so I really didn't get much out of her advice.

Daniele: I am up to 30 lbs, too!

AndreaR: Enjoy the beautiful weather. It sounds like a lot of us live pretty close to each other. Maybe we need to have a Northeast twins reunion, too!

Breastfeeding: Thanks for that link, Steph. I have my SIL's medela pump and I bought the attachments at BRU for like $25. I still haven't had a chance to look at the pump and have no idea how to use it. It should be interesting my first time.

Stretchmarks? Check! Actually, I only have them on my boobs and hips. None on my stomach, yet.

Valerie: I am thinking about you this morning and sending postive vibes to you. Hopefully you are already out of the doc's office and on your way home to enjoy your massage. You deserve it!!!!

I think I have major spring fever. I just want to go on a shopping spree but for regular clothes. No more maternity clothes!!

I had the weirdest dream last night. I wasn't pregnant anymore and had a flat tummy. Then I was worried about my babies, and my mom said they were in her bedroom. For some reason, I was in the home where I grew up (my parents moved when I was in college) and I went into her bedroom and the babies were actually baby dolls. It was soooo bizarre!

Well, enjoy the beautiful day, everyone. Hoping we all stay cooking for at least another 6-9 weeks! For those of you that had your babies, I am thinking of you and praying that you are all okay.

Love to all,
Lisa

[TMoT]

Monica, I'm on pins and needles wondering how you and the boys are doing... *silly me* Hope you, your dh or sister might be able to post soon to let us know how it's going. In the meantime, LOTS of love, hugs and prayers coming your way...!!!!! xxx

Val, nice to hear you sounding like you're doing better. Please let us know how the doctor visit (and the massage, hopefully!) went. We're all thinking/worrying about you!

Lisa, GREAT idea about the Helping Hands! :clap: Count me in -- even for some flowers, or ANYTHING, from The Gang. I guess since it was your idea (lucky you!) you can take the lead. I'm behind you, whatever you come up with...! ;-) ...So glad you slept better last night and that you "rolled" (ar ar) with the Easter Egg comment/compliment so well! :-) It WOULD be great if someone could design a belly-sleeping pg cushion/mattress or something. I SO MISS sleeping on my tummy!! And the spinningbabies.com site says that's actually the BEST way to sleep for the babies' position!!!! (?!) The closest I can manage is "suspending" myself on all-fours in the bathtub -- as long as the water isn't too deep. AHHH. Such a nice feeling!!! ...NEAT about the Today show this morning too. Wow. What amazing women! Wish they'd do a WHOLE PROGRAM on advice for having twins!

AndreaR, I just picked up some urine test-strips from the pharmacy and I use them every couple of days to check blood sugar, ph, protein, etc... My ob has never done this for this pg, but my midwife had me monitor all those things when I was planning a home-birth with ds#2, so I was already "in the habit" kinda... I won't see my ob till Thursday, though, and I guess as long as my bp is stable (Teresa), she'll probably just tell me to take it easy... (Oh. Also, someone on the July thread said taking the test in the morning - which I did - can sometime skew the results. So it might not be as bad as I think -- hopefully!) We'll see...

Teresa, you're so sweet to worry about me, but I'm worried about YOU!!! 8o) I'm a big pg weight-gainer too, but the moment I read that it can be a symptom of toxemia, I got nervous! (Otoh, other sites say you need to have good gain weight early in pg to avoid toxemia in the last trimester, so go figure!) ...I'm SURE you're holding that weight well though! Don't be ashamed! I'm only at 25 weeks, so I bet I'll catch up/surpass you any time now!!! ...Well, when the girls are ready (and you're NOT ;-)), they'll come! Must be really exciting for you these days?? ARE you ready??? :throb:

Daniele, enjoy your mani/pedi and the shower tomorrow!!! I'm sure it'll be exhausting, but such FUN too! Can't wait to hear about it and to see the nursery pics!

Stretchmarks: No check yet, but I'm sure they're coming!!

Sex dreams: Ditto AndreaR! I've been having them for the whole pg! I tell dh about them so at least he feels like I'm less of a "cold fish" than I've been acting like these days...!! ;-) Btw, I try to tell him that this pg is constantly like the feeling you have when you're barfing: You want someone to be "close" by, but you don't want them "crowding" you -- especially in bed when it (YES Heather/AndreaR!) feels like the HEAT is on full-blast - *huff puff huff puff*! Can anyone else relate???!

Well, my dses are off for two weeks of Easter Vacation starting today :yippee: , so an excited feeling of Spring has Sprung is definitely in the air! *sigh* Two weeks of just doing what we want -- and they'll be going to the seaside with their grandparents for a couple of days and to their dad's for a week, in the meantime, so I'll have LOTS of quiet-time on my hands...! We were going to join them for a day at the "beach" (a stretch for what is just the Belgian coastline!), but I'm not sure I can handle the road-trip. So, looks like it'll be a good time for dh and I to get this house in gear for the Little Ones. Well, a bit at a time.... ;-)

Enjoy your weekend, everyone -- and your shower, Daniele! And CONGRATS on no-more-work, AndreaR! :5pound: Must be a GREAT feeling!!! Now... Tina...????!? ;-)

[mmzill]

Hello cool hormone crazed people,

Anthony Victor Zill was born on March 30, 2006 at 4:02pm and weighed 2lbs 15 1/2 oz., and was 16" long. Nathan Andrew Zill was born on March 30, 2006 at 4:03pm and weighed 2lbs 3oz., and was 14 1/2" long. The boys are identical twins.

They were born at Cabell Huntington Hospital in Huntington, WV because this hospital specializes in pre-term births and complicated pregnancies. The twins had what is known as TTTS (Twin to Twin Transfusion Syndrom) where one baby takes more nutrients than the other baby. This can become very serious if not caught in time. In our case, Anthony had a ton of amniotic fluid in his sack while Nathan had almost no amniotic fluid in his sack. Fortunetely, everything is now looking good.

Monica is doing well from her Ceaserean Section and there were no complications. The twins are both doing well also although they will need to be in the NICU (Neonatal Intensive Care Unit) for some period of time. We were told that they will need to weigh at least 4lbs before they can be released. All of their vitals and important functions seem to be doing well. They are now breathing the atmosphere on their own with no need for oxygen supplement.

When the Dr. popped the sack of Anthony, it looked like 5 gallons of fluid came gushing out!!! :rotflmbo: Fluid went everywhere, all down the Dr. pants, all of the floor, made people's booties all wet, and was just a funny site! The nurses even had to throw flotation rings to everyone so that we would all avoid drowning.

Monica is rather loopy right now from being all doped up on pain meds.

Thanks for all your thoughts and prayers,

A proud dad

http://photos.yahoo.com/mmzill Twins First Day

Victor Nathan Zill

[swineland]

CONGRATS!!!! Oh, I am so excited and just immensely overjoyed at the wonderful news from Monica and Victor! THANK YOU so much for posting the wonderful photos.....needless to say, a kleenex or two were on hand. What an amazing sight to see a CSec so close up and to actually feel like we know you guys!

Many happy thoughts and warm hugs to your entire new family.....your boys are PRECIOUS!! :clap:

Steph

[LucasMom]

YEAH!!! Congrats Monica and Victor! They are both soo BEAUTIFUL! They look so sleepy and cute! Mom looks great ! So happy for you that all seems well right now! My :throb: is beating so fast looking at the pics, but each day really makes a difference! You did awesome!

Congrats again!

Mindy

[EBTwinz]

Monica and Victor:

CONGRATULATIONS!!!!


I am sooooo happy for you both! The boys are so precious! I had tears in my eyes when I looked at their pictures.

Monica, you look GREAT!!!! I am so proud of you. I can't wait to hear from you. Please keep us updated.

Sending lots of hugs your way!!!

:throb: -Lisa

[EBTwinz]

Valerie: I am worried about you. Are you okay??????? Please post when you can. I hope you are just getting your massage right now. I am thinking of you!!!

Lisa

[vthompson]

CONGRATULATIONS Monica and Victor!! The babies are gorgeous and Monica, you look wonderful! We have all been waiting for your news and we are so excited that everything is going well!! Please keep us updated! :clap:

Valerie

[vthompson]

Hello Everyone! Lisa, I am sorry that it took me so long to post! I should have known my stalker partner would be worried :)

The doctor hooked up the monitors and thank God, no contractions were detected. She also ran a urine test and did that other test that tells you if you will be delivering in the next 2 weeks...I have no idea how to spell the name of it. She said the results should come back around 4pm today and she will call me. If it comes out positive, they will give me steroid injections for the babies and some other meds. I will post when we find out. The doctor also said that I can go to my massage today as long as I rest while I am at home! YEAH!!! I am so excited. So, DH took the whole day off and is going to drive me there and take me home.

Thank you again to everyone for all your support! I truly love all of you!

Lisa - I think sending flowers is a fantastic idea. I am definitely interested in being a part of it. I also wore a pink shirt today!

Sherry - You definitely need to ask your doctor about the urine tests. My doctor tests my urine at every appointment. I wonder if that is a difference between the United States and Europe. Make sure you take it easy with the boys being on vacation. You really need to get your rest!

Andrea R - It sounds like you have a very nice day planned! I am jealous! It is warm here in Cleveland, 71 degrees, but a large rain storm has moved in. YUCK!

Daniele - I am so glad you got your bedding on. We can't wait to see pictures!

I finally took some belly shots today. I am going to try and put them on my ticker later. I look much bigger in the picture then I thought! Talk to you soon! And, thank you again for everything!

Valerie

[Tiny Blessings]

[QUOTE=swineland][SIZE="3"][FONT="Comic Sans"][COLOR="DeepSkyBlue"]
For those of you who are going to be using an electric breast pump, are you considering getting one of those "hands-free" devices that you wear?? I saw some online and they look hideous and the photos scare the you -know-what out of me, BUT I think I'm going to get one. I was just thinking of all the extra things I could get done by not having to hold those things up to my chest the whole time. Anyway, here's a link if you don't know what I'm talking about : http://www.breastfeedingworld.com/pumping_bras.htm


Steph...Just as an FYI, I never really found that I needed to rely on my hands to hold the pumping bottles up...you can kind of tuck them under your arms/elbows and they work just fine or you can lean forward a bit in the chair and the bottles rest on you lap. (And I am on the smaller chested size compared to many of you and that worked fine for me.) Just thought I'd toss in my experience.... :)

Monica and Victor, congrats and thanks for the link to the photos. I watched the slideshow three times! The boys are so handsome and I am relieved to hear how well they are doing. HOORAY! MOnica, you look terrific girl! And what a sense of humor victor has (that floatation ring comment cracked me up!).

Val: I am sooooo happy that things are fine. What a relief! Hope you enjoyed your massage today! You deserve a stress break after all of that!

Daniele: A big double check on being uncomfortable....I have such a hard time sitting at meetings now. And even being on the couch or in bed I get uncomfortable fast but it takes so much effort to move around or...god forbid...try to roll over in bed. I grunt and groan so much when I try to reposition myself that I have woken DH up! LOL...oh well....

Okay...it hit the 70 degree mark here today! YAHOO! The lake is still covered in ice, but I can see the darkness underneath now so the water should be back soon. This is so early for us here...the ice doens't usually go out of the lake until early to mid may! YIPPEE>..and early spring will cheer my mood! :)

Have a good weekend....stay safe everyone!

tina

[EBTwinz]

Valerie: I am sooooo glad to hear from you. Please keep us updated after you hear from the doc. I will check in later. I gotta run.... Eye appt in 15 mins!

:throb: - Lisa

[AndreaR]

HOORAY!! :throb: CONGRATULATIONS!! :throb: WELCOME TO THE WORLD ANTHONY & NATHAN!!

I'm bawling my eyes out. Monica & Victor - I just couldn't be happier for you. Monica you look so beautiful! It sounds (and looks) like you have two strong boys there. Congratulations!!

I'm back from my picnic w/ my niece and nephew and I'm EXHAUSTED, but I had to check on news from Monica before I took a nap.

Will post again later.

Andrea R

[megzmom]

Monica and Victor- I was also crying. I was in the school library and crying. Told everyone I work with! I feel like my nephews were born...especially since I started out with the same difference as you and also expecting iden twin boys. Loved the pictures. I am sure everyone agrees, but VICTOR is an AAH...awesome, amazing husband. I don't know too many (besides Jason) that would post us the day his sons were born and load pictures for us hormonal ladies :) I speak for all of us, THANK YOU!

Steph/Tina- I agree with Tina, I was able to prop up the pump and not use my hand. Now that was with a single pump. Not sure with a double pump. I also agree that $20 is not an enormous investment, especially if it works.

Work/tired- Okay, besides the fight with my husband over the theme, I haven't really complained but I just feel so physically spent and it is really affecting me emotionally. I haven't cried but two times this preg and I feel like I could cry buckets now.

Yes, I am still working over 40 hrs a week teaching. Everyone I work with is great including my students but physical exhaustion has set in. I haven't made any emergency lesson plans...too tired to work that hard. So I am forced to come to work. Its too much work to make lessons for a sub. I am taking 1 day a week off starting next Friday but I don't think it will make much of a difference. The problem is financial. I make the money and without the pay I don't know what we'd do, but I also am scared because IF "something" did happen then I'd completely blame myself for not quiting early. My disability takes a month to kick in and then its only 70% of my pay. Luckily I am fine for June/July but not April. So I feel completely trapped. I want to stay home (big change from my post on Monday) now or at least not work.

On top of this all my ex inlaws called last night and are coming tomorrow for 9 days to visit my dd. They are staying at a hotel but no rental car! Which in the past means I am the driver. I was fine with it before. I really do like them in small doses but now I can't imagine working all day, then going home and picking them up to "entertain" them. I am hoping they are more independent of me this time and just take dd with them, meaning get a rental car.

Not sure how to tell or suggest that to them. I am definatley not one to that but I just may have to.

I am soooo sorry for unloading today of all days (with the great news of the boys-which has been the highlight of my day!) but I just feel so overwhelmed.:cry: :cry: Luckily dh did do laundry and cook yesterday. :)

take care...

[qbanmom5]

Monica/Victor: Your babies are beautiful. I am sooo relieved to hear that all is well.

Valerie: Sounds like your visit was good. Can't wait to hear the results.

Feeling a little under the weather today, i think my vitamins stopped working or something. I am drained. I have also gained 30 pounds. I am reading this book that says that in order to have 7-8 lb babies we need to gain like 80 lbs. Don't know how that can happen since my stomach is now the size of a walnut and my appetite is gone. I have had a glass of milk and 4 hard boiled eggs today. I know it is lunch time but yuck. Everything sounds gross. I am happy that I have been forcing the water down. Problem is that I hate having to pee all the time. We aren't on the sewer where I live-- we have a septic tank. We just had it pumped last summer and its supposed to last for 5 years. with the way I am flushing, I am sure I will have to pump it again this summer.

Love you all, Ters

[mmzill]

Hey everyone!

Thank you so much for all your prayers over the past few days! It means so much to me to know that you are all so interested in my family's well being!

I finally got a nap and food, so I'm feeling much better. I'm hoping to go see the boys again in a few minutes. I've not been in there since this morning, because I was just too out of it.

I just want you all to know that you can carry your babies term! Don't think otherwise. God designed us to have babies, and I just want to encourage each of you. Don't stress out about it. That only adds stress to your little ones. And if by some reason you do have to deliver early, it will be ok! Yesterday was really hard, and very emotional, but....it's over and we are moving on. Everyone is doing well, so that's good!

Thanks for putting up with my dh's sense of humor. He's a pretty funny guy. I love him lots.

I'm off here. I just wanted to post myself. I's so happy to have wireless internet here at the hosp!

Have a good weekend!
~monica

[newmomx2]

The best news I had all day :yippee: Glad mother and babies are doing well..

I have to take a minute and ask a question - I think I am having Braxton Hicks contractions like all day today - it is the first I have felt this way. My stomach keeps getting really really tight like I can't breath and my stomach will explode, then it eases a bit and I get kicked allot... I have been drinking as much water as possible..is this normal - I don't feel any pain like cramps just pressure when it squeezes...I also can't eat to save my life my stomach is so tight and small..

okay sorry for the rant just worried...

Valerie - glad your appointment went well and I hope you enjoy the massage

[qbanmom5]

Hi Missy, Yes, those are perfectly normal and in fact from what I have read the more you have the easier your labor should be. They are preparing your body to do what it needs to do when the time comes. You just want to make sure that if they become painful (and when you walk or change positions it doesn't stop hurting) or if they become consistent, call your dr. By consistent I mean that when you time from the start of one to the start of the next the time would be exact like every 10 minutes or every 15 minutes, etc. The telltale sign that they are BH contractions is that they aren't really painful, if you move around they get better, and they tend to be sporadic like first 10 minutes apart, then 14 minutes then 8 minutes, etc. Keep drinking your water and lie down. Let your body prepare so that way your labor will be a breeze. Write back if you have more questions. I am not an expert, so if you notice a clear pattern call your Dr. Love, Ters

[AndreaR]

Lisa - I love the "helping hands" idea - count me in! And I also love the pg cushion/pillow idea. You should go on "American Inventor"!

Pink shirt today - CHECK! it was just too beautiful outside not to wear something springy.

Danielle - I'm so jealous of your mani/pedi. I'm in desperate need. ENJOY!

Sherry - I loved the barfing analogy. It's EXACTLY how I feel. I bet you'll miss your boys while they're away. Two weeks is a long time. Make sure you relax a lot. No more gardening!

Valerie - Good news at the doctor, and hopefully more good news this afternoon. I'll be keeping my fingers crossed for good results. I can't wait to hear about your massage.

Heather - Big hugs to you... I don't know how you've lasted this long. It's one thing to work, but it's another to be a teacher. It sounds like your situation doesn't give you a lot of flexibility. I'm sorry. I'll keep you in my prayers. Maybe some of the other gals here will have some suggestions. It sounds like your DH is wonderful, so when you're not working, you can let him pamper you. Sorry about your ex-inlaws, too. Nine days is a long time to be their chauffeur. I know it will be uncomfortable to do, but I really recommend you ask them to rent their own car. Maybe once they see you and how hard it is for you to get around, they'll understand.

Ters - sorry you're having a bad day. Hugs to you, too. Hopefully it's just a one day thing.

Gaining weight/appetite/small stomach - I've already shared how much I've gained this pg, so I'm not putting it in writing again. But it's A LOT. A LOT MORE than anyone else (who has shared). I was worried about toxemia/pre-eclampsia, but my bp has been fine and neither my OB nor Peri are worried (I'm the only one!). My stomach has shrunk, like some others have mentioned, so it's hard to eat a lot at once. But a couple of hours after I eat, I'm still hungry!!! And if I don't eat right away, I get that empty stomach nausea like I did earlier in the pg. Does anyone else feel that way?

On a positive note, while I was at the playground with my niece and nephew (they were active; I watched from a bench), I saw a set of twin girls. They were probably two or so. They were soooo cute, playing with eachother, looking out for one another. I daydreamed that they were my girls in a couple of years. It was just so sweet and it helped me accept all of the discomfort I've been in lately.

Hang in there everyone! Have a great weekend!

AndreaR

[twinsmakethree]

Hi Everyone!!!!


congratulations Monica wow your babies are totally gorgeous and so are you !!! Im so proud of you. The babies look great and healthy, you give me hope :yippee: :yippee: :yippee:


I will post more later I was at the dr,s all day waiting to get one here to find out about Monica and i really am tired i just wanted to post my babies weights for this week they are drum roll please....... Nusaybah is 3 pds 5 oz and Ruwaydah is 3 pounds 4 ozs. I couldnt get the 3d because of their positions but they are looking good. still on bedrest....

ok DH is putting up the crib and I think I will give moral support:crazy:

Andrea

[swineland]

Andrea, great weights on the babies! :yippee:

I just had to post...I've been reading all of your comments about wearing a pink shirt today and I didn't really think anything about it. Then I looked down and realized, I am wearing a pink t-shirt today!! Of course, I live in Orlando, so Spring has already sprung, but I love pink and it's one of the only maternity t-shirts I have. (I have a lot of tank tops)

Anyway, thought that was funny!

Have a great weekend everyone.... :)

We have childbirth class again on Sunday and tomorrow we are going to do our "build a bear" thingy that I mentioned on the board weeks ago.....I'm glad to be doing that. :throb:

Steph

[davoswoman]

Hey everyone.

I have not read the posts. It is going to take forever to get caught up.

Baby Olivia's fluid is low. I was admitted for that and put on an iv. It really didn't help. There is no evidence I am leaking but there is really no other explanation so they are treating it as such and put me on antibiotics, gavie me steroids and put me on bed rest until these babies are born. Thank God they have comptuer access!!

Someone commented on TTTS. My twins have seperate placentas so that is not a factor. Janet's levels are normal. I am having NST's every day and they are both doing fine. Olivia is smaller but the doc says that she is fine and only a week behind. It just seems wors because Janet is a week ahead.

Anyway, I am not looking forward to being in here for weeks on end, but will do whatever I have to for these babies. Hubby is slowly adjusting as well. He comes to see me on his way to work in the afternoon. He is going to be here most of the weekend and they have a couch in my room that makes into a bed so he can stay over sometimes if he wants to. They really try to make this as easy as possible here because they know how stressful it can be.

I miss being at home and my fur babies!!

I will try to catch up over the next few days. Hope you all are doing well.

[vthompson]

Hello Everyone! My test came back negative!! YEAH!!! :clap: So, we should be safe for the next two weeks. The massage was WONDERFUL! I highly suggest it to EVERYONE. This was my first massage ever and although it was much more expensive then I thought, it was wonderful. If DH wouldn't have booked it, I probably wouldn't have because I am always so worried about spending the money. The therapist massaged my face, shoulders, back, legs, arms, hands, fingers. It really was amazing!!

Ok, so although I am not having contractions, I am still getting that pressure down low, especially if I am not on my left side. It feels like Kayley (baby A) is very low down and just wrecking havoc on my pelvic region. It is very uncomfortable. However, when I lay on my left side, it stops. I really hope she is not going to do this much longer. The feeling scares the crap out of me!

Andrea - Those are fantastic weights! I cannot believe how big they are. That is great!

Andrea R - When I went to see the dietitian, she said that it is very important to eat several times during the day. So, if you can only eat a little at each sitting, that is ok, but make sure you are snacking during the day. She has me eating 6 times a day: Breakfast, am snack, lunch, pm snack, dinner, and bedtime snack. Maybe this will help!

Missy - Since I seem to be the queen of pressure lately, all I can say is when I feel it I lay on my left side. My doctor basically said if it does not go away after an hour or if there is a pattern to it, then call. I hope this helps.

Monica - You are such an amazing woman and mother! You are giving all of us words of encouragement, even though you have 2 brand new babies. You are truly an inspiration to us all! Can't wait for more updates!

Ters - I am sorry you are feeling under the weather today. I hope things get better tomorrow. I am proud of you for drinking the water!! There is a pretty bad stomach flu going around, so make sure you keep up the water intake!

Heather - I truly do not know how you are still working. Since the beginning of this pg, I have told people that if I was still teaching in the classroom, I have no idea how I would be doing it. We are all pulling for you. I hope there is some way you can work it out so that things get easier for you and the babies. Hang in there and know that we are all here to listen! I just wish there was more we could do for you! You are doing the very best you can, so if something does happen, you have to promise to not blame yourself. You are a wonderful mom and are doing everything you can to have healthy babies. Always remember that. As for the ex in-laws, I agree...you need to just tell them that you cannot offer rides so they will need to get a rental car. Under the circumstances, I would think they would understand.

Tina - rolling over in bed while grunting and groaning...CHECK!!!

DH is a total sports fanatic and he does these fantasy teams for baseball and football. Tonight, he has to "draft" his team for baseball, weird I know. However, he could be into worse things. He was all paranoid about going, but I can count on one hand how many times he has gone out at night without me since the pregnancy so I told him to go. Of course, he has his cell phone and gave me the number for someone else's phone number, just in case. Anyways, I am home alone tonight so I will probably be bored! I will check back later.

Valerie

[vthompson]

Candy - We must have been posting at the same time. I am so sorry you are on bed rest in the hospital. Hang in there and stay busy! I am on bed rest at home so we can chat during the day! I am so glad to hear that everyone seems to be doing well, though. Keep us updated!

Valerie

[qbanmom5]

Hi!

Candy: Sorry to hear that you are on bedrest in the hospital but am relieved that you are still baking. It may seem tiresome and boring, but it will be worth it.

Val: Good news that your test was negative. Now keep telling them its not their time. Glad its working!

Still tired, will try to nap. Ta ta, Ters

[vthompson]

Ok...I finally uploaded some tummy pictures. To view, go to the following website:

http://photos.yahoo.com/thompsontwins04

I did realize that my nose does look different, as some of you mentioned earlier!

Valerie

p.s. I tried to just put a picture on my ticker, but it said the file size was too big. I hope this works.

[Jillmami]

Monica and family - CONGRATULATIONS!! Wishing you nothing but the best for you and your babies. If you have any questions about anything please ask. So glad that everything went well today.

Not to scare anybody, but my FFN test was negative and the next day I had contractions and the following week I delivered. I do feel that Noah, who was down so low in my uterus, had to come out since his poor head was stuck. However, be careful and listen to your bodies!! You are all doing such a terrific job of taking care of those babies and yourselves. Each passing week/day is a joy to appreciate.

Here's to keeping those babies until their time!

[newmomx2]

First I wanted to thank everyone who gave advice on BH contractions- I ate dinner and a snack last night - got a good night's sleep and I feel much better today - plan is to take it easy...we have new bathroom floor being installed today I am SOOO excited. Then my parents are coming down tomorrow mom is going to help me sort through all the baby gifts so I can take inventory...Dad is going to help DH vacuum the copious amounts of dog hair out of the cars ! then they are going to try to install the car seats in our SUV..I go Thurs to get them inspected...less than 6 days till the next doctor visit - YEAH I get to hear the babies again and confirm everything is still good..:clap:

stomach is so small I eat like a flea - check...best thing I found is milkshakes yum yum and fits in my belly !

Candy so sorry to hear you are bedrest - but it is for a good cause never forget that..

Valerie keep taking it easy I was also experiencing a lot of pelvic pressure from weeks 26 - 28 and then it suddenly alleviated - I think someone migrated North ! So hang in there.

As for the FFN test - my doctor said they won't test me because of twins the test is very inaccurate - kind of echos Jill's experience...let me know what the other Doctor's say..

Well DH is yelling from the back room - he is trying to clean the bathroom and can't find the cleaning supplies - DUH under the sink...oh well at least he is cleaning :yippee:

[vthompson]

FFN Test - My doctor only did it because I was having such a large amount of pressure but not showing contractions at that given moment. However, she did say that even if it comes back negative, it can still happen. However, they do not do any other interventions unless it comes out positive. She told me to still listen to my body and if rest and water do not help the feeling go away, then call.

Valerie

[LucasMom]

So last night the pain in my crotch was so bad that I couldn't sleep at all...the pain, which I thought was maybe those Veins. It usually gets worse when I lay down, but I put a pillow between my legs and in the morning after I am up and around I am ok. Today, no such luck. I am in real pain! Is anyone else experiencing this?

I did the FFN test on Wed., came back negative, but the pressure and pain are so strong, it feels like a head is going to pop out at any second!

Glad to see that Jill and Monica are both doing well. Hope everyone is having a nice weekend so far. It is about 70 and partly sunny in Philly today, so Dh and my dad are working on getting our new deck finished.

My employees threw a suprise shower for me yesterday and blew me away with the gifts. I had no idea! We got a graco double stroller, bathtub full of supplies and about 60 outfits, bottles, diapers, wipes, pacifiers...everything!
So sweet of them! Plus my chef made lots of food and a yummy cake! They got me to tears!

Anyway, does anyone have advice on the pain? I feel silly calling the doc again...but Tylenol not working at all!

Talk soon-

Mindy

[Dad of twins]

Hello ladies!
It has been a long time! I think it is harder to find time to get on here b/c I am always trying to do stuff for the wife. laundry, cleaning and helping her shave her regions:crazy:

Monica! That is so cool to have your babies now! I can't wait till I can have them in my arms.

Well I can't respond to everyone but I am glad that everone is ok. The wife is doing good holding the babies in. Six more weeks before they will let her deliver. I wish my wife had those sex dreams!!!
Just hope that everyone is good. Really miss you ladies.

Jason

[vthompson]

Mindy - I would definitely call your doctor. It is better to be safe then sorry. And don't feel stupid for calling. That is what they are there for!

Jason - Glad to hear things are going well and the babies are still cooking!

Valerie

[Daniele'sTwins]

Hi everyone, I did not have time to read your posts I just wanted to let you know that my sister in law is on her way here from Pennsylvania and I will be entertaining so I don't know if I will have time to write this weekend. My shower is tomorrow and then my sil leaves on Monday morning. I will try to get on before then but if I don't know that I am ok. If I am not, I will have my mom write.

[EBTwinz]

Hi all, I am here too. My best friend is visiting this weekend so I am not going to post until tomorrow night. But, I am okay, too.

Have a good weekend everyone!
Lisa

[AndreaR]

Hi friends...hope you are all enjoying your weekend.

Andrea - Great weights on your babies. Congratulations! Sorry that you are still on bed rest, but it seems to be working.

Candy - So sorry to hear that you are in the hospital. It must be such a bummer, but you & the babies will get the best care there. And thank goodness that you can get on-line!

Valerie - Good news on the FFN being negative. Hopefully it was just a scare and your babies will stay cookin' for many more weeks. Cute belly pics! You look great!

Mindy - I agree with Valerie. If you are in that much pain, call the doctor. Absolutely. It sounds like you had a great shower and made out like a bandit! Good for yoU!

Jason - So nice to hear from you. Thanks for checking in. I hope all continues to go well for you and your wife.

Felisha - CONGRATS on the g/d results. whew! What a relief. I can't believe you cut your hair! It sounds pretty dramatic, but nice! Plus, it will be a lot easier to take care of less hair once the babies come. I've been slowly shortening mine (hoping that DH won't notice). Who's going to have 45 minutes a day to spend on her hair once twins arrive???

Danielle - Enjoy your shower! Can't wait to hear all about it.

Have a good night! I'm off to bed. Yes, at 7pm. DH is watching the Final Four downstairs, so I think I'll watch something girly in bed.

AndreaR

[TMoT]

*sniff sniff* WELCOME Anthony and Nathan! The pictures are so beautiful and so are YOU, Monica! You must be overjoyed, exhausted and relieved! Thank you, Victor, for the announcement post! And, thank YOU, Monica for continuing to give such sweet words of support to all of us too! You are a true marvel!! I haven't read all the rest of the posts (yet), but I hope you will also write to let us know how you're holding up, and I'm SO HAPPY for you that those little troopers are even BREATHING completely on their own! :yippee: Please stay in touch as much as you can, and love, love, love to you, dh, ds and Anthony and Nathan!!!!

Valerie, I'm going to quickly scan the rest of the posts to see if you've written with the test results... brb.... GREAT NEWS!!! *sigh* Now, STAY PUT little babies!!! WONDERFUL tummy pics too! You look super! :-)))

Candy, I'm so sad for you about the hospital stay, but you have such a great attitude. Of course, you just gotta do what you gotta do!! Olivia _and_ Janet are both in my prayers, and it's great that you at least have computer access. Please keep us posted, and much, much love!!!!!!!!

Hi, Jill! Nice to hear from you!!! How are the little ones doing??? Kisses to all three of you!

Mindy, your pain has me worried -- especially after what Jill wrote... Please don't hesitate to call your doc if the situation is really unbearable. You don't have to suffer nor take any risks. Just listen to your body and do what YOU think is right for you and the babies, okay?? xx

Andrea, CONGRATS on those SUUUUUUPER WEIGHTS for Nusaybah and Ruwaydah! You should be SO proud of yourself! You're doing fantastic -- and so are they! WOW!!

Heather, can you please stop working now??!? :-(( I just can't imagine how you can be handling that work and the exhaustion.... :-((( Shall I get on the plane and come rescue you? ...Tell your ex-m/fil they'll have to fend for themselves, poor thing!! I've got a real good relationship with my ex-ils too, but I've already had to change their vacation plans with my dses because it just wouldn't have been convenient/easy for me... I drew the line, and they were suprisingly understanding about it. Can you try something similar with your ils and see what they say???

Ters, PLEASE EAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :'-( Don't think about 80lbs, just think about getting enough food in your tummy for those babies to grow _today_! Have you tried the protein drinks/bars, etc.? If you don't have a lot of appetite, they're a good thing to take because they taste good and you are sure you're at least getting the protein you need for the little ones... I don't want to lecture you, but you really need to take care of yourself and those munchkins! :'-( I KNOW you know that, but I just want to drive it home. Please, please, please promise me you'll do your best to at least have _one_ square meal a day?! I -- all of us -- care so much about you and the two of them, please say you'll do that????? :throb:

AndreaR, thank you for sharing that sweet story about the twin girls! I am so with you about the eating, weight, toxemia, etc. issue. I think we're really going to be okay, though. Keep hanging in there!!!!! xx

Steph, you're in my thoughts with your bear... :'-)

Jason, so nice to hear from you and that dw is keeping those babies in there! If you're not here posting because you're taking care of dw, then we'll forgive you! ;-) Keep doing what you gotta do!!!!!

Felisha, congrats on passing your GD test and WOW about the hair!! I'm in a quandry myself about my coiffe! (!?) I cut and colored it about six weeks ago (made blonde chunks into "burgundy" and dyed the rest black), but now the burgundy has turned PINK (?!!), and the ends are fried, so I'm getting antsy! I admire you! You're going to be even more beautiful and "ready" (mentally, etc.) when those babies come! Thank you for inspiring me too!!!! :-)

Daniele, enjoy your shower and fill us in on all the details! Btw, your HANDS and TOES look lovely!!! ;-)

Well, we had a nice brunch with friends today (they stayed till 5pm!)! DH let me nap during the festivities, though, 'cause (I'm afraid) we have another cold-bug going around and I really needed the rest. Ugh! The weather has been awesome, though, so everyone's spirits are good...

Tonight, dh and I tried going to another music performance, but the smoke was bad, and it was crowded and loud, so we gave up after one hour...! :-( Luckily, the venue was within a walk of our house, so we just picked up and came home. Luckily, too, our baby-sitter is an angel. Whew. Now, here I am though, with a disco-nap under my belt and posting at 4:30am! 8o) All right. I'm going to bed now.

Everyone have a nice Sunday and keep cooking!!
xox

[mmzill]

Hey everyone!

Just spent some time catching up on the posts. Glad everyone is doing well. About pain in the groin/crotch area. I had that really bad, and went to a chiropractor, that seemed to help me out alot. As long as you know it's not labor. :)

The boys are doing really well. It's so hard to actually feel that they are mine, just because of not being able to be with them very much. As soon as I feel better, I'll be in the NICU alot more often though.

I was able to hold Nathan last night, and Anthony today. It's incredible just how tiny they are! When I was holding Nathan, he actually started rooting some and suckled a little on me! That was really neat, then he just settled right down and was so content. He was quite alert and looking at me. It was really great. It's a little harder to hold Anthony, because he has a CPAP on his nose, but Victor and I both held him, and that was really good too. Today, they gave them a little of my breast milk via a tube into their bellies. It's to help get the gastro track working. I'm just so thankful that they are doing so well. I'm trying not to get my hopes up too much, because things could still turn downhill some. Nathan is a little jaundice, and so they will have to watch that closely, but other than that they are doing well.

There are a few new pics on the web site, if you want to check them out. http://photos.yahoo.com/mmzill -

Thanks for the compliments on our little guys! I think they are quite precious myself!

Hope you all have a good rest of the weekend. Everyone take it easy!
~Monica

[TMoT]

http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=5619481843152124341

I found the link I had wanted to post here with the MOST ADORABLE video of laughing quadruplets...! To brighten your day, Ladies and Gent(s)!

Monica, it must be surreal. I am praying for all of you and so happy to hear that the babies can take your milk -- and that Nathan was even rooting! Wow. :'-) Well, thank you for the post and the pics. I'm sure it will become more _real_ with each passing day! I have this every time I get to hold a new baby of mine in my arms -- it's such a shock to really SEE them. And they are just so tiny and marvelous. ...How is darling sister doing??? xox

[vthompson]

Monica - Those pictures were so precious! I agree with Sherry, with each passing day, the babies will seem more and more like yours. I noticed you changed your ticker! It is adorable. Keep up the good work, mommy! When do you get to go home from the hospital? Looking forward to another update!

Sherry - It sounds like you had a pretty busy day yesterday. Do you guys walk a lot to most of your destinations? A couple of your posts mentioned that you walked here or there. We mostly drive here to where we need to go so I was just curious.

Felisha - Congratulations on the GD results!! That is fantastic! Your new hair sounds really nice. Good for you!!

Valerie

[Tiny Blessings]

Hi ladies...

Just checking in quickly. Read up on the posts since Friday. Monica, your boys are so wonderful and you look terrific. congratualtions again and know that we are thinking about all of you.

Candy...so sorry to hear of the hospiatlization. Know that this is what is best for you little ones right now....take care and write to us!

Okay...gotta run as Ethan will be awake soon. Take good care everyone.....

Tina

PS>...my next level two is on Tuesday! :clap: I can't wait!

[mommyof4at26]

congratulations and i hope everything is going well and continues:clap: i hope everyone is having a good weekend:throb: :throb: :spitwater

[qbanmom5]

hi everyone,

Monica: Those are some cute babies!!! They will be just fine, you will see! We are all praying for you all.

Sherry: you will be happy to hear that i am eating--and fish no less. Had some really great cod last night and the leftovers for lunch today. Why is fish good again? I know youve posted it a million times but I have pg brain. ;) Thanks for that video, too. It was a crack up. Oh and congrats on the Double Digits tomorrow (or is it today?)!!!

Very cute pictures Valerie. You look adorable.

I'm getting worried about Teresa--haven't heard from her in a bit. I'll be checking the May board for a post.

I've been giving my kids lessons (using their dolls) on how to hold, change and feed babies. I need all the little helpers I can get! They seem to love it, but I hope the enthusiasm doesn't wane when the real time comes.

I've been reading a really good b/f book. Its for singles, but I guess I can adjust for doubles. Hopefully I can stick to it this time!

Had a horrible nightmare last night. I prayed and prayed that I wouldn't fall back asleep into it. When I woke up, I tried telling DH about it, but couldn't remember what I was so scared about. There were about 20 people (including me and my pets) in this house and there was some stalker/killer/ invisible person that I never saw. All I could remember is that we all kept falling asleep and we'd wake up and agree that this villain had drugged us cause we couldn't remember falling asleep. When I would wake up, I would find that he opened my bird cage (bird was still inside though) and I was freaking out cause the cats could get the bird! DH asked "What was the worst thing that happened in this nightmare?" and all I could remember is the bird cage being left open. But boy was I scared when I woke up. Really funny now, but I guess I prayed so hard for a good dream that the next dream was about me and Ben Affleck. :aok: Needless to say I didn't want to wake up from that one!

Anyway, I would love to hear your wierd and unusual dreams.

Oh,and Jill- Your babies are cuties. Hope all is well and God Bless.

Terri
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[newmomx2]

I only have a second but I thought I would post my weird dream ....

I dreamt my twins were like the movie twins with Arnold S and Danny Devito - how funny - DH thought I was crazy when I told him...:rotflmbo:

Mom and I sorted through all the baby shower loot and I got way to many fleece blankets - HELLO they are being born in May why do I need 20 fleece blankets...oh and onsies out the you know what - I mean lik 30-40 that are 0-3 months - I am going to try to exchange some for the next size up...


Well gotta go very hungry

[vthompson]

Ok, this is the 3rd time I have tried to post...my computer is being uncooperative and keeps closing the page down, when that happens, you loose what you wrote unless you were finished and hit submit.

Felisha - I think it is perfectly normal to feel this way. Seeing all the babies' clothes and equipment makes everything seem so much more real and closer, especially cribs! I think we have all felt this way. Good luck at your appts this week. Make sure you keep us updated!

Ters - I think that is great that you are teaching your children how to care for the babies. My brothers are 10 and 13 years younger then me. I learned how to do all that with them and I thank my mom for that. I feel like it prepared me to have my own children. As for dreams, the only ones I seem to remember lately are the sex ones! I will wait and post about my dreams when they are more appropriate! :)

Sherri - Someone sent me that video clip a few weeks ago and I was laughing out loud. It is really cute!

A few things I noticed for those of you that looked at my tummy pictures. First, my hair was pulled back in a pony tail. It looks like I only have hair on the top of my head. Second, I should have warned you that I look pretty young. I swear I am 27! However, people usually guess 12-17 years old, no joke. Since I got pg, I feel like people stare at me in disgust. It is very annoying, people always assuming you are so young!

Well, I hope everyone is having a good weekend. It is pretty quiet on here the past few days!

Valerie

[JacobsMom]

Hi Ladies,

I have not been able to get to the computer for a few days, but did go back and read over all the posts on the last three pages.

Monica and Victor: Congratulations on your gorgeous baby boys. Thanks so much for sharing your photos with us. They are just beautiful. I love the picture of one of the babies holding his grandad's finger. I wish I had thought to take photos of my dad's hands with Jacob's when I had the chance. He died at the age of 91 on the day that Jacob turned 1 month old. He did get to see my son, his 10th grandchild, three weeks before he died. It breaks my heart that he will never see #11 and #12. Jacob is 8 yrs old now.

My father-in-law is a very large man. He is 6'4" and his hands are huge. I am going to take some photos of each of my babies lying in the palm of his hand. I think they will be awesome. I would also like to take a photo of his hand, my hubby's hand, Jacob's hand, and the twins all together in a circle. I think that will look cool. We literally took hundreds of pictures of Jacob when he was little, and now that we have digital cameras - oh my gosh - I'm sure there will be THOUSANDS of the twins before they are a year old! And after a while, I will probably never know for sure which picture is of which baby. LOL! I'm thinking that whenever I take the kiddos in for portraits that I need to make sure the first born is always on the left and the other on the right. That should make it easier to remember.

My neice is coming in two days to "clean sweep" my house. I looking forward to it but hope I am up to the task. She said to have lots of trash bags on hand - she's going to be brutal!! Yikes! I am a VERY sentimental person and hold on to everything. I have just about every drawing Jacob has done in the last 8 years. We still have ALL his toys, clothes, everything. Every paper he has brought home from school for the last 4 years! My hubby and I have been married 15 years and have never had a garage sale. The three of us have literally overflowed a 4 bedroom house with two attics, and still have stuff in a storage building at his parents house too. There is honestly no where in my house right now to set up cribs or any other baby paraphenalia. And I will be delivering sometime in the next 9 weeks!!! The whole thing is just so everwhelming that I can't even fathom where to begin, so I basically do nothing. So now there is all this stress that these babies could come at any time and we are in no way ready. If we can at least get my bedroom - where we will put the cradles for the first couple of months - cleaned and sanitized, and get Jacob's room organized and get the majority of his toys out of the living room and into his room that would be a tremendous burden off my back. Then we can put all the other baby stuff in the living room - swing, bouncer, pack N play, etc. I really don't need the nursery set up until the end of summer. It is currently our guestroom/craftroom/junkroom, and I do still need the guest bed in there for relatives who are planning to come out over the summer and help out. There is no room for two cribs and a double bed in there. Besides, it's going to take some time to get that room transformed. It will eventually need to be completely emptied out so we can paint it. It is currently PINK and that's not going to work too well with twin BOYS! :crazy:

Well Jaime (my neice) and I are going to be working really hard on Wednesday, Friday, Saturday, and Sunday. On Thursday we are taking a break for me to have my third Level II Sonogram. I will be exactly 29 weeks on that day so I am really looking forward to seeing how the boys are doing and how much weight they have gained in the last three weeks. I am hoping they are almost 3 lbs. I was in on March 13 and they were 2.6 and 2.1 lbs. They were closer in weight than they had been on Feb. 15 so I'm hoping that TTTS isn't going to be an issue.

This will probably make some of you sick, especially those of you who have been complaining about how much weight you have gained. I am actually hoping to have gained weight when I go in for my checkups!! As of last week, I am 3 pounds lighter than I was the week I conceived. I dropped 8 1/2 lbs between September and January. Then gained back 5 1/2 from Jan to March. I understand this is rather common in pregnancies of plus-size women and my doctor doesn't seem concerned about it since the babies are actually measuring a week larger than my gestation date. Clothes wise, this is awesome. I can still wear all but a couple pair of my pants and all of my tops, except that some of them don't look good cause they are too short in the front. I never looked pregnant when I was pregnant with Jacob so I am enjoying looking the part, although everybody says they think I look like I am only carrying one. I just tell them that there is just more room in there for the second baby to hide. My waist is still about the same size, but my belly is definately NOT flabby anymore and I am loving the look and feel of my round hard belly!! LOL! I really want to take some modest belly shots soon, although I'm a little worried about how they will look. I was posing in front of the mirror the other day and positioning my hands just so that it covered side rolls and stretch marks that I wouldn't want showing! So maybe I will go ahead and do them. I really wanted to go to a studio, but we really can't afford that right now. My hubby says he will just take whatever I want with the digital camera and we can edit them and crop them anyway we want to. I just want something more professional and artsy - this is such a special pregnancy and I really want some special portraits with him and with Jacob.
Then it occurred to me Saturday morning - duh....our cousin's husband is a semi-professional photographer who specializes in artsy black and white portraits - helloooooo! I'm betting he would do them for very little or even as a baby gift!!! I will have to give him a call this week.

Well, I'm gonna close now and go to bed. I'm so thankful that I am sleeping very well, although the past few mornings I have woken up all hot and sweaty. Glad to know I'm not the only one.

Take care everybody.

--Stacey

[TMoT]

Stacey, I LOVED your post about the weight "issue"! I feel so happy for you that you are feeling GOOD in your pg body! That is SO awesome! We can use all the self-confidence we can get at this point, right?! Good luck with your niece's visit, but please promise not to overdo it, okay??!! ...Cool idea about the pics too. My dh's _grandpa_ (81 yrs old) also has HUGE hands, and your idea inspired me! He is SO excited about having twins in the family -- this is new for them (but not for _our_ side), he's already said "I can't wait! I can already see it now: One for each knee!" :-))) We'll have to get the hand- and (later) the knee-shots with him and the babies. Thanks for that great idea!!!!!

Val, COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS!!! (Although I'm SURE you do!) Your pg pics are adorable! And you DO look young (but so what?!?!!) _and_ vibrant and full of life! GOOD FOR YOU!!!!!!! Btw, yes -- usually -- we try to do as much walking in the city as we can... We live pretty much in the center of Brussels, so it's sometimes (until recently anyway!!) _easier_ to walk to where we want to go, as opposed to driving, struggling to find parking (or having to pay for it), etc., etc. It also depends on the weather -- which isn't cooperative here much, but anyway... My hospital/ob are in what would normally be considered "the neighborhood" (but NOT for a twin-pg mommy!) and so was that event we went to the other night... Just coincidence (_planning_/luck for the hospital part!), pretty much.....

Ters, STRANGE dreams! Ben A isn't my type, but I'm glad you seemed to have enjoyed that one at least!!! About the stalker, isn't just the feeling of someone "trespassing" rather disturbing anyway? Even if he didn't do much, the idea that he was in your house having "his way" around gives one a sense of having been violated. I understand you feeling bad about it anyway. Wonder if it might be something more abstract though -- like illness or something that you're worried about having "invade" your family...?? Sure know that's been the case around here a LOT lately, as you all know too!!! :-( And, btw, THANKS for noticing about my double-digits!!!! I keep saying "three more months" to myself and that seems encouraging one moment and overwhelming the next. Otoh, it's really all "downhill" from here. Weeeeeeeeeeeeee! :crazy:

Ters, about the fish -- WAY TO GO!!! :yippee: It replenishes nutrients in your brain that have been used to develop the babies' brains/optical/nervous systems. Without those nutrients, people (esp pg women!!) tend to suffer from depression and other physical ailments. It's supposed to be good for joints and circulation as well as mental clarity, etc., etc. But don't we all know that FISH IS "BRAIN FOOD"??!!!? Well, it truly IS! Especially COD (yeah!) and SALMON! So, good for you! And keep doing that! If you're having trouble eating, just try to be as efficient as you can then, and these "greasy" fishes are just the kind of thing you should be getting as much of as possible! :D

Felisha, CONGRATULATIONS on your 29 weeks! What a milestone! Keep everything crossed and keep going!!!! And don't feel bad about the cribs. The moment will come when you (and they) are ready for it -- and you'll be able to walk into that room with all the confidence of a Mom of Twins (which, of course, you ARE -- just have to get used to it, bit by bit)! Anyway, 29 weeks means YOU'RE GETTING THERE! WOW!!!!!

I'm going to check the May posts for Teresa too. I think/hope she must be doing fine though. She's such a trooper and has such a marvelous attitude! :-)))

...Unfortunately, I've had LOTS of bh the past 1.5 days...! I think it's related to the (trace) protein/white bloodcells I detected in my urine last week... I might be working on an infection "down there" of one kind or another, and my uterus feels SO sensitive!!! Drinking (GALLONS -- literally!) of water definitely helps, but I'm drowning here, so I gotta call my OB. Wasn't supposed to see her till Thursday, but I don't really want to wait that long. I'll let you all know what's up when I find out.

Till then, take care everyone! xox

[allyf8903]

been a while. just wondering what everyone has been up to? i have been so tired lately. i went to the docs thursday and they said my babies are about 3lbs 13 oz and 3lbs and 14 oz. does this sound right for babies that have another 5-7 weeks left? my daughter was born 2 weeks early and she was 6lbs and 3 oz. does anyone think my babies are going to be bigger then her. scares me a little. i am 31 weeks. am i just over reacting? please some advise! talk to you all soon.

Allison
Adrianna 8-9-03
Ident twin girls due 6-2-06

[Tiny Blessings]

I am sitting in a meeting and checking the message board...how bad am I???? I have turned myself to the side so noone can see what I am doing. I bet I look busy except for the silly smiles that come across my face every once in a while as I read through everyone's posts. LOL...

Not much to post this AM...just wanted to check in. I probably won't be able to get in again until Wed now as the Level II is tomorrow and we will be traveling all day to get to/from. Take good care everyone!

Tina

[EBTwinz]

Good Morning everyone. Sorry I didn't post much over the weekend. My best friend and her fiance came to visit us from Pittsburgh. My b/f went shopping w/ me on Saturday. I bought coming home outfits from Baby Gap for the boys. They are sooo cute! They are reversible outfits. The top is a button down jacket and then pants to match. One side is baby blue, the other is white w/ baby blue stripes. I thought one could wear the blue jacket w/ striped pants, and visa versa. The material is sooo soft! I just love Baby Gap. Then I exchanged the TV monitor that I received as a shower gift. We couldn't hook it up in the nursery to see both babies so I decided to get the monitor that I wanted and a few other things. And I went to Target to get some travel size items for my overnight bag for the hospital. I want to have it packed and ready to go since you never know when it will be time. So, I think I am pretty much set. Now we just need to finish the nursery. My dh is taking the one crib back today for the replacement. However, now we are starting to wonder if we should just take back both cribs and get a whole new set. The cribs are nice, but they are pine and we didn't realize how easily pine can be scratched. And the wood isn't very smooth in some places. I have no clue what to do.... I just want to have the nursery completed!!

Monica: Thanks for the pics of your little ones. They are too cute!!!! I am sooo proud of you!!! Keep us updated and please let us know if you need anything.

Valerie: You are so cute in your pictures! Is that red hair I see? I am pretty sure my belly is bigger than your belly. I am going to try and post some pics of my shower so you can see how big my belly is, although that was two weeks ago and I am even bigger, now! I am so swollen in my face, arms, and legs. I can't wait for that to go away!!

Jason: Good to hear from you. Keep us posted.

Daniele: Can't wait to hear about your shower!!

Felisha: I panic when I see two cribs, too! We put our double stroller together this morning and I just stared at it. I just can't believe it... TWO BABIES!!!! I just have to laugh about it because if I don't laugh, I will probably cry. But, we are all having twins for a reason. We can do this!!! We are strong women!!!

Ters: Sorry about your bad dream. That must have been scary. I think our hormones play tricks on us in our sleep. I have some pretty strange dreams, too.

Missy: Ditto on the strange dreams. And I noticed that I received a lot of 0-3 onsies, too. I think it is a good idea to exchange some of them for bigger sizes.

Stacey: Please take it easy when your niece helps you out this week. Make sure you are resting and don't feel bad if you need to take a break. These babies are more important! And I love your picture ideas. You will have to share them w/ us when they are done.

Sherry: I am worrying about you. I am glad you are calling the doc about the BH. Please keep us updated! Also, I had a trace of protein in my urine at my last doc visit, but my BP was okay. The nurse told me not to worry about it. Could it mean an infection? Just wondering....

Teresa: I read the May post and want to wish you a HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!

Ally: My babies were 3 lb and 3 lb, 5oz at my 28 week u/s. I read that these next couple weeks they have a growth spurt and by week 33, they will weigh 4 1/2 lbs, so your's are right on target. Be proud of those big babies!! :)

Tina: Take it easy at work today. Hopefully you and I won't be working much longer!!

Sorry if I missed anyone. I only responded to the posts that I could see on the last page. Guess what, I am 30 weeks!!! :yippee: I have my next OB appt on Thursday. Nothing too exciting. I think I just get a regular u/s.

Is anyone feeling sick to their stomach? I know that someone posted a week ago about feeling nauseous, but I can't remember who it is. I feel so sick and have a small appetite. I am sure it's due to not having a lot of room left in there.

Well, I will check in later.
:throb: - lisa

[swineland]

Morning all.....Steph, check!

Had a really nice weekend. Saturday we worked in the yard, did some "housekeeping" and then went to the mall and did our Build-A-Bear. It turned out so nice. We got the cutest little monkey and I had the "stuffer" girl put our ultrasound photos inside and DH and I each picked out a heart to put in it. Needless to say I held it the whole way home and now I've got it sitting in the nursery, waiting to greet it's little brothers in 6-8 weeks! I got a little teary at the store, but overall it just makes me really happy to have it done and move on.

Yesterday was our second prepared childbirth class and we got to (or had to?) see the childbirth video. It wasn't as bad as I thought it might be....just a few seconds of footage of a baby's head coming out of the vagina. What WAS really bad was the next part...the delivery of the placenta. Oh GROSS! It was so funny, everyone in the room took a collective breath and some of us even put our hands over our mouths! Not trying to sound childish, but it really was pretty hideous. Then, we practiced some new breathing exercises and spent about an hour doing different pain management techniques involving massage, the ball, etc. Realistically, I'm just kinda hoping for a C-section.....however, in the rare even that both my boys are head down and ready to go, I don't want to be caught unprepared. Especially if something happens and I am unable to have an epidural (unavailability of dr, fast labor, etc) I want to know these techniques and not be freaking out.

On the way home we stopped at Ross and I got a ten dollar blow up exercise ball. (They have tons in the yoga/workout section) Anyway, it really helps! I came home and did some different poses, including standing with the ball between my lower back and the wall.....it really took a lot of the lower 's-curve' discomfort away from my back. Just an idea for those of you who might want to try it......

Looking forward to hearing how Danielle made out at her shower.....with 100 people in attendance, I'm sure she's got everything she needs!

Tina, good luck at your level II tomorrow......keep us posted!

Lisa, hope you had fun with your best friend this weekend! My BF and her husband are flying in to see us in 3 weeks and I can't wait!

Felisha, 29 weeks, yay! Hey, I noticed you are in Tennessee....did you get any of that bad tornado weather that went through last night? I read about it on CNN.....sounds pretty bad. Hope you are okay!

Stacey, have fun with Operation Clean Sweep! It will make you feel SO SO much better to lighten your load. Dh and I have a garage sale every spring and fall (Neighborhood sale) and we try to keep the clutter down that way. Of course, then we take that money and go buy next year's clutter!

Sherry, take it easy girl. Those BH are normal, but if you are having a lot of them, maybe you should be laying down more often?? Glad you are going to see your OB sooner rather than later....keep us in the loop!

Well, I'm off to clean up this house again and maybe take a brief cat nap :crazy:

Oh, and Monica, thanks so much for your constant updates. I hope my hospital has wireless when it's my turn! How great is that! The boys look really good and so do you......

See you all later...
Steph

[swineland]

Hey Lisa!

I tried to see your photos, but the link just brings me to the "sign up for Shutterfly" page. Here's how I did mine.....click on "share album" and it will ask you for email addresses of who you want to share it with. Put in your own email address and click ok. Shutterfly will then send you an email with a link that goes DIRECTLY to the album....no passwords needed, etc. Copy that URL and then come back here and paste it in to a post. That should work...like I said, that's how I had to do mine on Shutterfly so you all could see.

Steph

[EBTwinz]

Steph: Try the new link. See if that works.

[EBTwinz]

By the way, I forgot to add... I look like I am a lot younger, too. I am 28, but I think I could pass for early 20's. I get the looks from strangers, too!

[swineland]

Good job, girl! It worked. You look great!! The shower pictures are a lot of fun, looks like it was a good time :) DH is a cutie and I bet you both will be terrific parents. It's funny, there is one photo of you holding up the "doggie" bib...I have the exact same one and a matching onesie. I couldn't help myself so I bought it while I was out one day. It's so cute!

Anyway, thanks for sharing and keep cooking!

Also, I am trying to somehow get a hospital bag ready "just in case" and I can't figure out what to put in it! I mean, I know there are lists to refer to, but it's like, ok, I don't have cute nursing pj's yet, I haven't bought the coming home outfits yet, my new nursing bras are currently in use and will be until I go into labor. I guess I could go buy the little travel size toiletries, but other than that, what the heck will be in there? But if I don't get it ready now, I'd be kicking myself if something happened here in the next few weeks. Yikes!

Steph

[vthompson]

Steph - I am having the same problem with the hospital bag. The clothes I want to pack, I currently wear because they are comfy. I did print out a detailed list and went over it with my DH and made sure he knew exactly what I want. I figured if worse comes to worse, he or my mom, could bring up the bag after the babies are born. The thing I struggled with the most was my clothes. They say to bring something that fit you when you were 5 months pregnant. I thought about buying new outfits, but decided against it. I just don't know...What are other people packing as far as clothes for yourself? I am so glad to hear that your Build a Bear went well! It sounds like you had some closure. That is great!

Lisa - You look really good! You are very cute as a pg woman! Try not to be so self conscious about it. You are truly glowing! I do not have red hair, but I was laughing when I read that. My hair is naturally blonde, much like a child's hair color. I have never highlighted/dyed it. It is very straight and thin. Basically, it does not do much at all!! I have had a couple days lately of feeling nauseous. It is really annoying!

Allison - It was great to hear from you. It sounds like your babies' weights are terrific! I would not be worried at all! I found this link on average twins' weights during pregnancy: http://www.twinstuff.com/twinweights.htm
I like to look at it from time to time just to see how they should be growing. But, don't get discouraged if your babies are not the weight on the chart because it is just a reference.

Tina - I was laughing about your meeting! I would be doing the same thing!

Sherry - I am worried about you. Make sure you call your doctor and keep us posted. I agree that maybe you need to do some more resting if the BH are getting worse.

Stacey - I think that is fantastic that you feel so good about yourself during this pregnancy! Keep it up! I thought your idea about the hands was precious! That would be a really neat picture to hang up in your house.

Today is our 2nd anniversary. We went out to dinner on Saturday. We called ahead and when we got to the restaurant, we were seated immediately so I wasn't standing. DH asked me where I wanted to go so I picked Damon's. Not very fancy or romantic at all, but I just really craved their salad and baked potato! For those of you who are not familiar, Damon's is a sports like rest. with ribs, steaks, chicken. It did feel good to put on something other then loungy clothes. Tonight we are just having roast, nothing too crazy.

Ok, I will check back later!

Valerie

[EBTwinz]

Thanks for the compliments. I do need to stop being so self conscious. I just hate gaining weight. Oh well, it's all for a good reason! :)

Valerie: That is so funny that I thought you had red hair. I swear, it looked red in the picture. And I remember you saying you loved St. Patty's day, so I just figured red hair, Irish... LOL! Sounds like you had a wonderful anniversary. I love Damon's! They have the best french dip! YUM!

Steph: I am so glad that you did the build a bear this weekend. That will be something you will cherish for a long time! I think it's such a sweet idea. And your boys will love the bear, too!!

One of my co-workers just adopted a baby from Korea. She just brought him in and he is 18 lbs but only 5 months old! He is sooooooo cute!!!!! He is such a little chunker! I love when their arms and legs are so chubby that it looks like sausage links! But, looking at this baby makes me wonder how in the heck can I do it w/ two of them! We are all in for a lot of work!!!

Oh, I found out that my work was also going to have a surprise shower for me on April 27th. It's going to be a luncheon. They had to tell me b/c they are afraid I may not be working at that time and wanted me to still come in for the shower. Even the doctors are invited. I can't wait!!!

~Lisa

[megzmom]

Steph- which Ross did you go to? I was just telling dh that I want a exercise ball because my back pain is unbearable.

Nursery-I too got pretty overwhelm when I walk into the boys room. It hits me sometimes that in less than 2 months I will have 2 new babies! Anyone scared about how much room the baby stuff is taking up???????? I feel like I have lost my living room. We have the double stroller in the dining room area and the play yard in the connecting living room. The babies' room is wall to wall stuff. Changing table, dresser, swing, rocking chair and 2 cribs.

Crib-pine is soft. If I could suggest anything it would be to definately invest in the plast piece to cover the edges. My daughter was a good morning baby and didnt cry alot. When she stood up she used the edges to teethe off of. Now I have scraps (my cribs don't match).

TMI warning......
Discharge-my discharge slowed down for 2 months and now it has defiately picked up. Gross but it looks like I sneezed down there. Is that normal? I where pads just for the cleanliness. Not much comes out except when wiping.


Thank you-I know last Friday I was in such a foul mood. Workign is definately too hard (yes you may come rescue me. Forgot who said it!) I decided instead of taking Mondays off I will Wed. That way I don't work more than 2 days in a row.

Exin laws came and are actually staying an hour away. I dropped them off and got to visit the beach with dd. It was nice because it was dinner time, not too hot. The EIL borrowed their sister's car and used it to visit yesterday. I feel bad because they aren't visiting dd everyday. Only 2 more days until they leave. For me its good but she has no close family here (all in TX). She adores them and vice versa but I wish they'd stay at the hotel near by like they said and took her out afterschool. I even said she can miss some days of school to visit them (she gets straight As- so I'm not concerned with missing assignments) but they didn't bite.

Okay sorry for the long post.

Oh yeah~ I bought the tank top from Target and my boobs hung out the side. dh liked it but I didn't. I am not sure I got the right one. It was $12.99 and had a bra inside. The XL did fit around my stomach (I am now wearing XXL) but my C/D cup didn't fit in. I didn;t think that I was THAT huge.

Anyone find something cool for summer that can also be used for breastfeeding?

[TMoT]

Hi, All! Just got back from another FOUR HOUR STINT in the ER!!!! :-(( Ugh! DH took me in after work because the bh just were not letting up, and thanks to everyone's input, I wasn't panicked because I just figured it was a UTI or some such. Well, it took them FOREVER (once again!) to give me a thorough check-up and rule out the worse things... (??!) Honestly, I think they just FINALLY managed to get me and the babies hooked up properly to the heart-beat/contraction monitors and then they COMPLETELY FORGOT about me/us!!!! *weeping/lol* _Eventually_ I got a proper urine sample, TWO u/s and a cervix check and the best news of the day: The doc said I had the longest cervical collar he's ever seen :yippee: and the babies have grown a LOT in just the past week! They're still measuring spot-on for their gestational age, but now Baby Boy is 40grams HEAVIER than his sister (and last week she was 20grams heavier)!! Go figure! DH was happy that he at least got to see the babies in action since he missed the last u/s, so that was a real bonus..... For the rest, we'll get the test results back in a couple days, but the doc prescribed me some progesterone (against the contractions) in the meantime. So, I'm relieved! And THANK YOU ALL for all you're support! You are truly super!!! :-)

Val, Happy Anniversary! Glad you enjoyed your night out on Saturday. It IS so nice to actually get OUT sometimes, isn't it?? After my fiasco on Saturday, though, I think that'll be the last for a while for me however... Wow two years! And now TWO BABIES on the way! You two are incredible!!!!!! :clap:

Felisha, so glad you, Sammy and dd are okay! Can't be too comfy sleeping in the bathroom, but I guess it can be fun if you make an adventure of it...! (?!!)

Heather, LOL (SORRY!) about your boobs hanging out the side of your tank-top! :'-) Maybe you can squirrel it away until breast-feeding time!!!?! ;-) Just kidding. It actually stinks that it doesn't fit as well as you'd like. And we indulge so little in ourselves these days too!!! :-(( ...Sorry about your ex-il visit too. Would have been cool if your dd could have spent more time with them. I feel bad for all of you...

Ally, nice to hear from you! Think those weights sound SUPER! Don't worry! You're all doing great!!!!

Lisa, I loved the pics of your shower! You're blooming! It's true that you have no reason to be self-conscious!!! You're cooking two big baby boys in there -- and the bigger the better!!!! :clap:

Okay. Speaking of "big," time for ice cream with dh and pirated LOST episodes...! Boys are at the seaside till Wednesday and we're living it up (especially after that long, unpleasant hospital visit)!! ;-)

Btw, I officially got a housekeeper today!!! :-p ;-) A friend recommended this woman who works for four hours for about 30 bucks, and she's a DREAM!!! I layed down to nurture my bh, and woke up to a clean house!!! :yippee: She's not finished yet (trust me!), but she'll be back tomorrow. I don't know how long/how often we'll be able to afford to have her come, but I think even dh appreciated the miracle she worked on our office. Whew. More "ammo" for me for down the road!!!

Well, time for tv. Check in with everyone again tomorrow and SO GLAD you're all hanging in there!!!

[teresa67]

Sherry,

Thank you for remembering me, so sweet of you:throb:
I hate hearing of your 4 hour hospital stay, but look on the bright side, they didn't keep you and NO BABIES!!!!!!! And Wow great news about the cervix....Yeah for a prize winning cervix.
I find out Thursday how much the babes have grown. I'm fully expecting 5 pounds.....so we will see. Take care of yourself and rest, rest, rest. Now if I could only take my own advice.

Sending you Love and Warm Hugs,

Teresa

[vthompson]

I am so aggravated right now. I filed for short term disability when I was placed on bed rest. Everyone, including my doctor filled out what they had to and the doctor even included a page the described the past few visits and why I ended up on bed rest. Well, I get a letter in the mail today from the insurance company saying that they need more information in order to make a decision. So, I called the insurance company and asked them what else they could possibly need. I explained that the doctor sent appt notes. The lady claims that the only thing they have is the claim form. How the heck does she know that by looking at a computer? She didn't put me on hold or anything. I was so aggravated. Well, it is too late to call my company so I have to wait until tomorrow. I am positive that my company faxed all the paperwork but I am going to call just in case. Then, when the HR guy tells me he did send it, I am going to call the insurance company back and tell them that I was lied to. I am assuming I have to call my doctor and ask her to send more detailed info. It just really aggravates me. The doctor wrote on the paperwork saying that I was confined to home bed rest because of pre term labor. What the heck more do they want? Then there is the other side of things...what if they deny the claim and we do not get any money. What are we going to do? We can't afford to live on one paycheck right now. Sorry for such a long vent...I am just really aggravated and worried about all of this now.

Sherry - I am sorry you had to wait so long in the hospital. However, I am so glad that you went and more importantly, that everyone is doing well! That had to make you feel some relief! Keep us updated on the other test results. I am so proud of you for getting a cleaning lady. That should definitely help you rest more often!

Heather - Lots of discharge - CHECK!!! It really grosses me out sometimes! I am sorry to hear that your DD did not get to spend as much time with the ex inlaws as you would have liked. Hopefully, she will see them before they leave. You are not alone with feeling like the babies' stuff is taking up the house. I also feel that way! They are taking up rooms and closets!

Felisha - I am very glad to hear that you did not experience any damage from the storms.

Lisa - That is so nice that your work is going to throw you a shower! Can't wait to hear what you get!

Valerie

[LucasMom]

Heather-
sounds like the wrong one...sorry, maybe I should have specified more. I am looking online right now for a pic of it...ok, can't get the pic but it is called Merona seamless Rouched tank. It is Vneck, no bra built in, and the straps are more a sleeveless top than a camisole. I swear by these. If you have a real problem finding them, PM me your address and I'll buy you one and send it to you. They are so comfortable!

Mindy

[vthompson]

Felisha - Thank you so much for posting all of that information. It does definitely put my mind at ease. My doctor has been very cooperative so far, so I do not forsee any problems there. I will just call her office tomorrow and explain the situation. Hopefully, they will send the info that the insurance company is looking for. I thought the insurance company would have called, but they told me that it is my resposibility and any costs to get the information is to be paid by me. They have not been the nicest people so far. I just hate the waiting game and not knowing for sure. Thanks again! I do feel better.

Valerie

[JacobsMom]

Early this morning I had the strangest, funny dream. In the dream my hubby and I were visiting a church and for some reason we were on the front row and were being recognized or honored during the service. Then right after we were being introduced by my sister-in-law, my water broke!!! And it just gushed out like the great flood! In my dream I was freaking out and screaming, "No!! The babies can't come yet. I'm not ready. My neice is coming tomorrow to help me get my house clean. I have to be able to help her!!" :rotflmbo: I woke up right after that.

I think I have Victor to thank for inspiring that dream, with his humorous description of them breaking Monica's bag of water before surgery!

This funny event actually happened: Last Friday I was helping my friend who was doing floral centerpieces for her high school reunion. We had picked up 750 carnations and she was carrying them in from the car while I filled buckets of water to put them in. The third bucket I was filling had a hole in it. When I lifted it out of the sink water started pouring out all over the floor and me. I was so surprised that I screamed out, "Oh my gosh!" Well Pamela heard me yell and rushed to the door and all she saw was water all over the floor and my pants soaking wet. She started screaming "Are you OK?" I just started laughing at the expression on her face. And quickly told her there was a hole in the bucket. She of course, thought my water had broke!! :rotflmbo: It was hilarious!

[Daniele'sTwins]

OH My GOsh! I have soooo much to catch up on!

Ters...stomach the size of a walnut...check, and yes I am heting to pee every second now. It hurts so bad to walk to the bathroom when you have to pee!!!

Lisa...I am up for the helping hands too. Your pics are so nice! You look beautiful! And I am in TOTAL agreement with you on your love for babies with sausage arms! I just love when their wrists look like their circulation could be cut off at a moments notice (but not really of course) I just LOVE the rolls!

Heather...I am sending you a hug from teacher to teacher...I cannot believe you are still in the classroom! I could NEVER be doing it right now. Way too much work goes into teaching and you can never just leave your work at work. I feel for you!

Andrea...I am jealous of you baby weights! Just when I though my babies were a good size yours are amazing! I want them to be big so that I can relax a little.

Steph...Thinking of you at Build a Bear...I am so glad you did it.

Candy...my prayers are with you now for Olivia's low fluid and your bedrest. I am sure things will work out.

Valerie...Congrats on your negative test results. I just love your pics too! I am with you on the looking so young thing. Everyone tells me not to wear a ponytail so i don't look like a little girl that got pregnant...lol I am so glad I am still able to wear my wedding rings or else I fear people thinking I am too young and pregnant...lol
Happy 2 year anniversary. My DH and I will have 2 month old babies on our 2 year anniversary...scarey! Also I hope everything works out with the STD (but I don't like the initials ...lol) When it gets approved don't go around saying you have "STD"...lol

Mindy...croth pain...check!!!!!!!!!!! Worse at night when laying down....check!! Taking pants off hurts like a *******...check...getting into an SUV is painful...check!
That was also so nice that your employees threw you a shower!

Felisha...YAY for a negative 3 hour GD test. What a relief!
Now as for the two cribs. I don't know if you read my post the day I got the cribs delievered but it was so traumatic for me! I was sooo excited to get the furniture but when the one crib went in my bedroom I lost it for the rest of the day! I was an emotional wreck! I know it was mostly hormones but hell we am having TWO babies and we have a lot of UNKNOWNS right now! I am sending you a hug.

Monica...your pics make me cry at how happy you and your family look. By the way, you look really good for just having had babies mama! Talk about glowing after pregnancy!

Sherry...ER! UGH, I feel bad that you had to be there for so long but I am soooooo glad that you are okay now and the babies are still cooking.
Thanks for the quad link, I saw it the other day too. It made me feel so good having twins! PLUS if they can all smile at the same time I know it is possible!
Housekeeper...check

Stacey...I have been thinking of getting some belly shots done too. I will have to go soon though so it is still a round belly and not a spaceship yet!

Now as for my weekend...
The shower was great! These babies are all set...very spoiled with the amount of things they received! I had a great time, everyone commented on how they think I am all belly (damn liars) and my cousins said I never stopped smiling the whole time I opened presents. I was really happy...THEN when the shower was over I guess I realized just how tired I was and I cried the whole way home!! When I got home I had terrible stomach cramping (I did not drink nearly enough water during the day) that lasted for a couple of hours. My mom and DH wanted to take me to the ER but I was too tired and I know what they were going to do so I just did it myself ...I layed down and drank lots of water. DONT WORRY LADIES IF IT GOT WORSE i WOULD HAVE GONE TO THE ER.

Tonight, I helped DH in the office again and then we went to dinner...I had cramping again! UGH I don't know what it is or if I am having contractions again. I just kept downing water.

I have the doc today at 1:30...I am going to ask him to do an internal on me again to see what is going on. I also have a 3D u/s scedualed for Friday. Paul, my mom and dad are all coming! That should be so cool!

Well, I have been up since 5 reading these posts and taking notes, now it is 7!! This is like having a part time job lately! I have to keep up! LOL

I will be back in a little while. My mom and cousin are callingout of work today to help me organize all the stuff from my shower and start washing all the clothes...YAY

[megzmom]

Mindy- I could have cried when you said you'd buy me the tank top. Just the thought is so touching! I really feel so loved and supported by everyone here. I will write it down and go on the hunt soon.

Sleep-for the 1st time in weeks I slept through the night! I still woke up like a zombie at 6:00 for work. I think I past out from too much work. I went home and dh gets off early b/c he goes in REAL early. I fell into his arms and cried. Didn't know how I was going to make it for 2 months.

He was so awesome, not cuddling or anything but later on he took out a calendar and our budget and we sat down trying to figure when I could really take off. If I work 4 dyas a week in April then I can probably take off 2-3 weeks in May then come back for the last week to say good bye (unless I deliver).

I am struggling with the STD too. I am so afraid about how long it will actually take. I am also different because I get paid for the summer but depends on my days during the school year. Its really hard to budget when you aren't sure what is coming in for 3 months! My disability will kick in if I admitted for 1 night with no waiting or wait 2 weeks if no hospital.

[vthompson]

Heather - That is so sweet about your DH. I really hope you guys can work something out. I know I keep saying it, but I just cannot imagine teaching right now. I give you so much credit. The STD is really annoying! Like we don't have enough stress being pg, then we have to worry about where the paycheck is going to come from.

Daniele - I was laughing about your comments regarding STD. Now, everytime I type it, I laugh. It sounds like you had a great shower. That is wonderful! I am worried about your cramping. Make sure you ask the doctor about it.

Jacobsmom - I was laughing at your dream and at your story about the water. Your friend must have thought you broke your water!!!

I will check back later.

Valerie

[EBTwinz]

Good morning my favorite friends. Well, I had a rough night's sleep. It was storming most of the night and the winds were so loud. I am terrified of tornadoes (I was in a tornado when I was at Brownie Camp when I was like 7 years old) and whenever it storms, I begin to panic. So, that kept me up. Plus, I had aching legs and then I felt a pressure on my pelvis and was worried that the babies were dropping. But, I think it was how I was laying. And to top it off, at 6:30am, the construction workers were busy banging on the house next to us. After we moved into this new development, they started building the houses right next door to us. Sometimes, it literally sounds like they are banging on our house. But, thankfully it's now and not when the babies are born. So, I think this is going to be a cranky day for me. And to make matters even worse, when I walked into work, the front desk stopped me to tell me that one of our residents called off sick and we need to reschedule his patients for today. However, one mom is really mad that she can't bring her kid in today so of course, I have to work my magic and try to please this woman. Sometimes I really hate the parents of these kids I work with. They are so annoying!!

Okay, enough of me complaining...

Daniele: I am so glad to hear your shower went well. Sounds like you really scored a lot of goodies for the babies! :) I hope you are feeling better. I was really tired after my shower, too. I think it just takes a lot out of us. It actually took me a couple days to feel good again so just make sure you rest these next couple days. I know you said your mom is helping to sort through your gifts today. Please make sure that you don't push yourself too hard. You can just prop your little feet up and have your mom do most of the work.

Sherry.. Sherry... Sherry.... What are we going to do with you???? I am sooo sorry you had to spend all that time in the ER. I hope you are feeling better. Please let this be your wake up call and SLOW DOWN!!!! I will lecture you everyday if I have to!!!! :)

Felisha: So glad to hear you weren't affected by the storms. I know they can be very scary!!

Heather: Thanks for the tip on the pine cribs. Actually, dh and I decided to take the cribs back and purchase new cribs. I was looking over the other crib last night, and it just splinters easily. I don't want to take any chances. So, now I have to go pick out new cribs. I think this time I am getting the Simmons crib. I hear they are one of the best. And I hope you can figure something out w/ work. I would feel better if you could cut your hours or just stop working, altogether. Please don't push yourself too hard!

Valerie: So sorry to hear about the STD... (lol!). Seriously, I hope you can get it figured out. Let us know what you find out from the HR guy.

Well, I better get back to work. The vultures are lurking outside my office to see if I found out what to do w/ this kid. UGH!

~Lisa

[megzmom]

STD-okay everytime I read that my brain reads it to sexually transmitted diseases and not for (oh my gosh forgot what it really stands for!!!!!!!!!!!) leave of abscence.

Lisa-I wouldn't take a chance on a crib that splinters either. I hate it when you have a day off or get a chance to sleep in and the construction workers start soooo early! I am the only house on my block so we have so many houses being built right now. Even though I don't know what sleeping in is these days :(

Pee-hurt to walk before/after pee CHECK!!! The BH seems to kick into gear when I have to pee. Maybe a coincidence (sp)

okay, break over... got to teach :)

[EBTwinz]

Quick question, what does it mean if it looks like the babies dropped? One of my co-workers told me my stomach looks different today, like the babies dropped. And I had a little pressure in my pelvis area when I was sleeping, but now it's gone. If they drop, does it mean that labor is coming??? I need to hold out for at least 6 more weeks to meet my personal goal. Or, does it mean that the babies just changed positions and it's nothing to worry about? I have an appt on Thursday, so I can get checked out. I don't have any contractions or pressure. Maybe my stomach is just getting droopy b/c the babies are growing and there's no where else to go but down. Help, I need advice!!

~Lisa

[teresa67]

Lisa,

I think the babies just changed position. I get told that all the time.....your belly has dropped, your carrying them so low. I don't know what it is except maybe they have turned or they are getting heavy, because I'm not having any contractions.....this whole pregnancy.......and I'm 5 weeks left to make it to my c section, so I wouldn't too much unless you start having contractions. We worry so much about keeping them in and then when we make it past when they are supposed to be born, we worry they won't come out.

[swineland]

Hey everyone!

Well, I just got back from my OB and everything looks good. They said the sugar in my urine was the highest on the chart, but that it's b/c I had about a 10 oz glass of orange juice this morning with my Blueberry Morning cereal! I guess I should have known better than to have OJ on appt. mornings.

Anyway, boys doing good and I've officially gained 30 lbs! I weighed 187 when I went 2 weeks ago, today it was 191! It's crazy how the weight is just exploding on. Also, I asked my doc what is a realistic time frame, now that I'm 29 weeks, to expect to deliver. Given that my pregnancy has been pretty textbook and I am having no problems, if my body takes me all the way to 40 weeks would he allow that?? He said no, if I can get to 36-37 weeks, he'll start an induction. I was so happy to hear that b/c A. I do not need to get big as a house as long as the babies are big enough to be born and B. it means it's only approx. 7 weeks away!!! :clap: Also, my FFN came back negative.

I'm telling you ladies....you gotta get an exercise ball. If you are having back pain, it is SUCH a help.
Heather, I got this one at the Ross at the Loop, the new shopping center near Hunters Creek (JYP and Osceola Parkway). However, I have seem them ALL over the place and I'm sure you could find one at any Target, Walmart, Marshalls, etc. I paid $10.99 for this one and it's made by Ironman....haha. It is the 65" size.

Valerie, I feel your pain with the whole insurance debacle. I HATE, repeat HATE, administrative stuff like that....paperwork, phone calls, etc. If I could have a personal assistant they would be the one doing all that for me......haha. I'm sure you'll get it all resolved, but be persistent and don't worry about being nice. I always like to use the term "unacceptable". Let us know what happens.

Lisa, I have no idea what to tell you about the babies dropping....I don't know a thing about it! Looking forward to reading what others might have to say, though.

Danielle, glad your shower went well and try to take it easy. I understand your thinking about not going to the ER.....I would have done the same thing. Only YOU know your body and if you felt like laying down and drinking water was all you needed, then you were probably right. You'll know when something truly out of the ordinary is going on.

Well, I'm waiting on this guy called "The Grass Man" (no he's not a pot dealer) to come and give us an estimate on lawn care for this summer. We have a typical Florida sized yard, pretty small.....but I just know in the heat and with 2 newborns, it will be nice to have it mowed, edged and taken care of for the first few months. DH is happy about that :)

I'll check in later......
STeph

[EBTwinz]

Teresa: Thanks for the quick response. After I posted, I had at least 5 more people tell me that I dropped. I am not having contractions or feeling any more pressure, so I guess I am okay. However, I did notice the babies are moving more today than the past couple days. Maybe they just needed some more room in there. :)

Steph: That is good news about your appt. Congrats!! :clap: I was laughing at your grass man comment. Too funny!

Only one more hour... YEAH!!! Then it's off to Baby Depot to return some cribs.

[TMoT]

WOW! Busy, busy, busy! Well, I'm going to take Lisa's nagging ;-) to heart and keep this short (should be a record, but we'll see)!!!

Valerie, SORRY about your insurance bs! You are being such a trooper and this is the LAST thing you need! So nice that Felisha can shed some light. Hang in there!

Felisha (posted "over" your post): GREAT weights! And, CONGRATS on the two 3-pounders! It's such a great benchmark, isn't it??! ...I'm just happy my two are closing in on 2-lbs each! You must feel great and proud -- as you SHOULD!!!!! ...Btw, my b/g are sitting in the exact same positions as yours, but my doc says she'll deliver them like that anyway because Baby Boy can flip during labor -- after his sis gives him room, basically... What have you heard/what are your plans???

Mindy, that IS so sweet about you being willing to send the tank-top to Heather! :throb: Of course, our Hard-Labor Mom deserves all the perks she can get! Is there anything I can send you from Belgium, Heather??? Maybe some choc-o-lates???!! ;-) :throb: Otoh, I think I'll just wait until you can ALL come over here so we can sit on the Gran'Place, eat our chocolates and really enjoy them -- with our BABIES!!? -- TOGETHER!!! :-)))) (Imagine the chocolate-smeared faces of the mommies AND babies in this pic!!! ;-))

Stacey: VERY funny "breaking waters" stories! We can really use the laughs at this point, right?!?!

Daniele, I loved the image of you smiling all the way through your shower (!), and then (less!) crying all the way home!! :'-) Doesn't that sum up our pgs in a nutshell??!? I'm sure you WERE exhausted, poor thing! Must have been quite overwhelming (in all ways!) for you!! Glad the babies cleaned up so nicely, too. Will take a big load off of you. You need that. ...Your cramps are worrying me though. Please be sure to have it checked out and let us know what's up.

Steph, WOW super weights! You are breaking the scale all the time, girlie!!! And great about your ffn too. ...Honestly, IF you make it to 36-37 weeks, I don't imagine you'll even need an induction! Hopefully those babies will just come by themselves -- it's so much easier on you and them when it happens on its own. Is there any particular reason why your doc wants to induce anyway??? Just curious...

Lisa, I had the same "dropping" feeling this weekend with the contractions. Like Teresa said, though, the dropping wasn't as disconcerting as the contractions...! Try some of those spinningbabies "techniques" to get him/them up out of your pelvis and see if that helps. Turned out Baby Girl had her BUTT down in my crotch -- ouch! But while they were busy trying to chase down her heartbeat at the hospital, she moved outta there -- whew! IF you start to get contractions, though, then we start worrying... Okay??? ...SO SORRY about the construction next door!!! My neighbors make the same kind of noise and it makes me TERRIBLY grumpy, because I CAN'T SLEEP/NAP!!! True that yours, at least, will be done by the time the babies come! Hooray! Mine -- since they are "artists" doing who-knows-what kind of "art" projects in their courtyard with a high powered SAW and WATER JET -- are NOT going to stop UNLESS I do something about it, of course (which, btw, I PLAN to!! ;-))...!

Teresa, how was your birthday!? Thank you for always checking up on me/us here! You are doing so wonderfully, and I count each week further you go as a victory of my own too (how silly, I know)!!! xox

Okay. About us: For the moment, the contractions seem to be under control... I took the progesterone and slept LIKE A BABY for three hours this afternoon! It was really remarkable! Must have been like Heather's EXHAUSTION sleep (poor Heather!), but "hormonally-induced"... Still, it was like a bomb I couldn't fight! Bang -- OUT! I AM having more tummy problems now, though, which makes me think I was going through YET ANOTHER BUG when all this started!!!!! HOW is it possible??! Ds had something similar at the end of last week, so it just figures... Anyways, the contractions are slowing down (and so am I!), but dh and I were supposed to take in a jazz concert tonight that I was REALLLLLLY looking forward to! :'-( I don't know if we'll make it now though -- although it is in a very cushy, non-smoking auditorium, and the music should be VERY nice/soothing. I will just see how I feel and play it by ear (ar ar).... Kiddies don't come back from the seaside till tomorrow afternoon, so I will still have time to "recuperate," but we'll see....

Till tomorrow then, ladies. Hope you are all feeling good and take care of yourselves! (Didn't set the record, did I?!) :crazy:

[vthompson]

Felisha - That is fantastic about your appt! It sounds like the babies are at great weights! I am really hoping that my babies are at 3 pounds when I go for my next level II. There is something about 3 lbs that makes you feel good! I had no idea you were spelling cervix wrong. How did you spell it?

Lisa - I am so sorry you had such a horrible morning! I hate being woken up by something, especially before the alarm goes off! I am not sure about what dropping means either. Personally, I think the babies just moved because they needed more room. I think eventually, they move into position for birth, but they could stay like that for weeks and weeks, so don't worry!

Steph - I was laughing out loud at your grass man comment! That was too funny! It sounds like your appt also went well. Great job on the weight gain, it sounds like you are doing a fantastic job!

Heather - My doctor told me that if your bladder if full, they find that women contract more and then once they empty it, the contractions calm down. Maybe that is why the BH seems worse when you have to pee.

Is anyone sweating profusely at night? It is really gross. I kick all the blankets off and I still sweat. Today, I took a nap, and when I woke up, my chest and neck were actually wet (sorry TMI). It was disgusting!

So, I called my doctor today and explained to her nurse about the whole STD (and yes, I still laugh when I type that) issue. She said she will look through my chart and send some more info. She made it sound like usually, what they send is fine for other patients. I really hope this is not a sign that they are going to deny my claim!

Valerie

[vthompson]

Sherry - I did not see your post until after I posted. I just want to make sure that you truly listen to your body. If you need to stay in tonight, then make sure you do!!

Valerie

[davoswoman]

Thank you all for your thoughts and prayers. I just wanted to send a quick note to let you all know things are still okay. The babies are moving a lot and their NST's have been good. I am getting ready to head out of the room for one now.
I have another sono on Thursday and Friday and will let you all know how it goes.

[swineland]

Well, stupid me waited too long to eat lunch and now I'm having a major sugar crash....shaking, sweating and shoving anything and everything in my mouth! I just in the last 5 minutes had a tuna fish sandwich, cheese and crackers, cottage cheese, chocolate chip cookies and now jelly beans.....come on, sugar....

Valerie, I TOTALLY know what you mean about the sweating. I have woken up plenty of times with sweat literally dripping between my boobs (once I thought maybe it was some kind of leakage, but no, it's just sweat) Also, my underwear will be wet from the sweat created between my thighs due to side sleeping. I keep the a/c down WAY low and sleep with only a sheet (and I usually am a bundler!). It's the grossest feeling, I know. Can't wait to take a shower and get clean.

Ok, going to get ONE more handful of jelly beans......:aok:

Steph

[teresa67]

Steph.....I hate those drops in sugar. HATEEEEEE THEM. It's a very scary feeling to me, feeling so hot and shakey and bit confused. You should get you some glucose tablets, they have them at Walmart. I have the grape flavored, they are kind of like sweet tarts, keep them with you all the time and eat 2 or 3 when you feel your sugar drop, comes in handy if your not at home. Also you should get some orange juice or other sugary drink, to help bring your sugar back up. You have to be careful because eating too much or getting too much sugar and then you'll be headed in the wrong direction and your sugar will be too high.

[swineland]

Teresa...
Thanks so much for the advice on those glucose tablets...I will definitely get some! You're right...it's a horrible feeling, I've gotten them my whole life.

Steph

[swineland]

I just wanted to share my excitement with my online friends! My husband just called and his boss took him to lunch today and pretty much solidified that he's getting this promotion at work. We sort of knew about it b/c he's basically been doing the new job for about 6 months, but HR was dragging it's feet on adjusting his title, pay, etc. But now it's official! He got a $8-9k annual pay raise, a new title and best of all, he'll be off for 4 weeks when the boys come!!

I was just really excited and my mom isn't home yet for me to tell....so I thought I'd blab it to you :yippee:

Steph

[Dad of twins]

Hello ladies!
It seems know that the wife is off work I have no time anymore. I have been reading your posts and you ladies make me laugh! STD that is way too funny!
Well the wife had a break down. She now has strech marks! On her hips, boobs and now on her belly. I had to comfort her for a long time and tell her that things could be worse!

The wife wanted me to ask if you were still leaking from the breasts alot? She woke up in a puddle the other night. I can't wait till I can see what they look like.

Sorry for not responding to your posts. Have to go!


JASON

[megzmom]

Steph- thanks for the ball tip. I work on Thacker right near the Loop so I will go tomorrow on my day off. That is my #1 complaint. I can deal with all the exhaustion but I feel like someone is literally hitting me in the back (lower) with a bat. I had an internal 3 weeks ago to see if I was dilating but nothing (good news). I was worried because with my dd I had no "contractions" only back labor pain until the pitocin kicked in.

Sherry-thanks for the support. If I could fly and didn't have to pay for 2 tickets-the hips are GROWING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Then I'd be on the 1st plane to Belgium. Love chocolate... not sure about the good kind though, only tasted vending machine type of chocolate. I am so jealous of all the concerts held in your area. Wouldn't like the walking now but how awesome to just take a stroll. I know about the weather though. Too many rain showers in FL-of course except now. We are in a 35 day drought. Good for dh, doesn't have to mow.

Dropping belly-I have gotten that and even noticed that on most days I am very low but yesterday I got high. Think B Benjamin is in my ribs-ouch. Horrible being short 5'1". No where for him to go but in my ribs which makes A Zachary go down in my croch! I know with singletons they said (especially if high) that during the last few weeks, alot of women look lower-drop but I don't think that really applies to us. Not enough room!!!!!!

Love ya ladies (and daddies)...

[vthompson]

Jason - Keep comforting your wife! You are doing a great job. Tell her we are all rooting for her. As for leaking, I have not really leaked like everyone else. I have had a little from time to time, but not much. Hopefully the other ladies will have more info.

Steph - That is FANTASTIC about the promotion!! :clap: Especially that your DH will be off for 4 weeks. That will really help!! Congrats! Watch those sugars. Teresa is right, if you eat too much sugar you will crash in the other direction. That happened to me a few months ago and it scared the living crap out of me!

Candy - Thanks for checking in. I am so glad to hear that things are going well with you and the babies! Keep em cooking! ;)

Valerie

[qbanmom5]

Hi All,

Sweating like a pig at night...check.

Had my first of many non stress tests. I will be going in 2 times a week and I don't know why they are called non stress cause it stressed me out. The nurse could not get 10 minutes worth of heartbeats on each because they kept moving around. Just when she got the monitor on 1, the other would move. Then she would find that one and A would move. Lots of times she had the monitors capturing the same heart. She said that its normally not that tough but they kept moving around. She pressed, poked, pushed, to no end. They kept kicking her back. It was kind of funny but took over an hour. I am kind of sore right now, Ugh! Right now they are both head down still. She says there is plenty of time for that to change. She also said its her experience with my Dr. that he rarely attempts vaginal deliveries with twins and prefers to schedule c-sections.

I don't know if I told you all last time I was there, but they were not able to confirm that A is in fact a girl. Well, they could not tell again today. Somehow it is not letting itself be seen. B was clearly a boy (still).

Hope all is well. I am really craving sour gummy bears and need to work on DH to go get me some. Talk to you all later, Ters

[mmzill]

Hey everyone~

Thank you all for your prayers!

Anthony and Nathan are both doing remarkably well. I kind of feel like it's just a matter of hurry up and wait for them to get big, but I'm so thankful that they are doing so well.

Anthony has been off of his CPAP for 3 or 4 hrs today, and is doing well without it! (CPAP is a device that helps keep his lungs from colapsing completely after each breath, it just makes it a little easier for him to breath) His jaundice levels or biliruben is down, so he no longer needs the bili light that had been shining on him constantly. This evening for the first time I was really able to see his face, (without the CPAP and shade over his eyes) It was so neat to get a good look at him. I held him for about an hour and he just slept away. Yesterday there was a slight concern of some of his blood work, but that seems to have corrected itself, or was just a fluke. He weighed in at 2 lbs 14 oz this evening. They tried again today to start him on 1 cc of breastmilk, but he isn't digesting it real well yet, so they make back off again until tomorrow. He is currently getting nutrients through an IV.

Nathan, even though the smaller of the two, is doing even better than his brother. He has been off the CPAP for a couple days now! He is also up to 5 cc of breastmilk every 3 hrs! And is now boasting a whole 2 lbs 5 oz! He is also off the bili light. I held him for a long time this morning also, and Grandma Walker held him this evening. They are both cuties!.........although they look kind of alien like :)

We were trying to compare them this evening some, and I think they are identical, just Anthony's face is a little more filled out. In order to tell for certain if they are identical it would take having a DNA test done, and that's quite expensive. We are also going to have the placenta (s) looked at and see if we can tell from that. I'm really curious to find out.

Knowing about the placenta will also tell us more about what went wrong with the boys and why they weren't doing so well inside me. I'm just so thankful that they are doing well now, and can grow!

I'm doing well also, was discharged from the hospital on Sunday. I've not had too much pain, so I'm very thankful for that. We are staying at a Ronald McDonald house that is within walking distance to the hospital. It's really quite nice......especially since they have computers here with internet! :)

Well, I hope you are all doing well. My sister posted a few new pics on Saturday, so I you haven't checked out the photo site since then you may want to. Here's the link http://photos.yahoo.com/mmzill

It's getting late, so I'm going to go to bed.

~Monica

This is an email I sent out to all my friends and family. I breezed through the posts. It sounds like you are all doing good. I'm so thankful!

Sweating at night.......CHECK!!!!! I think it gets worse after you deliver. I keep freezing everyone out of the room at night! :)

Well good night to you all. Keep cooking them!

[vthompson]

Monica - I am so happy to hear that things are going so well with the boys! That is wonderful! :clap: I am also glad that you are staying at the Ronal McDonald house near the hospital. I was wondering how you would drive back and forth everyday. Is your daughter staying with you? Keep up the great work!

Felisha - Your website is really nice! You look beautiful in your picture! You definitely have the pg glow! Thanks for sharing it with us.

Ters - Everytime they give me a non stress test, I have the same problems...the babies move too much and they have to constantly change the position of the monitors. It can be very stressful!

Valerie

[newmomx2]

Sweat like a pig at night - Check
Craving ice cream & Milk shakes - Check
Growing out of my maternity clothes - check check..

Sherry - I asked my doctor about delivery and she said that as long as baby A is head down and baby B is the same size or smaller than baby b can also be delivered vaginally regardless of the position - apparently once a is out b can flip head down or even come out breach...that of course is barring no other complications...

Felisha - loved the pictures ! You look awesome

Monica/Victor - so happy to hear that everyone is doing so well and you have a place to stay so close to the hospital - that helps to alleviate a lot of stress.

Not much new with me...still working from home 100% last few days have been busy with conference calls all day and major presentations to compile/write...still working on transitioning lots of items to a contractor and my team...that is a lot of work itself..I will probably continue full time at home as long as possible - physically I have not had any ill affects from it and I probably can't collect disability unless there is an actual problem - which thankful I have been doing well aside from an increase in BH and aches and pains...

Well back to work - talk to you ladies later.

[LucasMom]

Hi! Glad to hear everyone is doing well, and it seems like time is going now. Alot of the May Board moms are going in or getting ready, so we should all be there in no time.

My second crib came yesterday, and my husband took all the baby clothes from Lucas out of storage. I saved alot LESS than I thought I had! I know for the last three years I had eveything very carefully put away, and when we bought our house in Sept., I must have purged alot...I have no idea why...I was pregnant two weeks later! But, needless to say, these guys are going to have alot of 2T-and up clothing, but don't have muc right now. Between the two cribs and the clothing and my power going down for 3 hours last night while DH and DS were at the movies...I was having a panic attack!

I have felt a burst of energy during the day for the past few days but at night I am in so much crotch pain that I cannot sleep. Everything else I can deal with, but that pain is so strong I cry from it and I am not a crier!

I can't wait to meet the boys...my shower is this weekend and I am looking forward to it. Still working full time, and that makes the day move more quickly. Well, Catch up on the individual posts later...have a great day everyone and no babies yet!!!

Mindy

[EBTwinz]

I just lost my post! Ugh, I hate when that happens. Now I have to try and remember what I wrote....

When I woke up today, there was snow on the ground!!! It was in the 70's over the weekend and now today there is snow. Unreal...

We took our cribs back last night and purchased new cribs. I like the new cribs better. They are much better quality and now I am not worried about the splinters.

Monica: I am sooo glad to hear from you! And I am glad to hear that Nathan and Anthony are doing so well! :clap: Please let us know if there is anything that we can do for you. If you want you can PM me your address at the Ronald McDonald house and I can share it w/ whomever through PM. That way, we can send you a care package or anything that you may need. Just let us know and please don't hesitate to ask. We are all here for you!!!

Steph: Congrats on dh's raise! :clap: Just wondering, do you plan on going back to work or staying at home? I decided to stay at home, at least for a year, but may come back to work part time. I just can't imagine putting the boys in daycare at this time. My whole salary would cover the daycare costs and that isn't worth it to me. I would rather be home w/ them.

Felisha: Loved your website. You are beautiful in your pics!!!

Sherry: I am glad you are taking my advice! :) Actually, I would rather you post long messages to us, that way we know you are sitting down and relaxing!

Ters: I haven't had a stress test, yet. Maybe I should ask about it at my doc appt tomorrow. Seems like a lot of you are having the NST. I wonder why I haven't had one, as of yet. Hmm.....

I had a dream that they boys were born and I was breastfeeding them. It was so weird. And my dh was trying to swaddle them and put them to bed, but put them next to my cat. LOL!

Sweat like a pig at night: Check!
Ice cream everyday: Check
Heartburn: CHECK CHECK CHECK!
Tired and achey all day: Check!

Lately I have been feeling like I can't catch my breath. It feels kinda like a panic attack. I wonder if I am starting to have panic attacks again. I hope not, because they suck!!

Well, talk to you all soon,
Lisa

[EBTwinz]

Mindy: We must have been posting at the same time. The past couple nights, I have had horrible crotch pain. I am up every hour and try to change positions and get comfy b/c it hurts so bad! Also, funny you mentioned panic attacks, I swear I am starting to get them again. I hate panic attacks!!!!

[swineland]

Lisa,
I too have been having very noticeable breathing problems in the last couple of weeks. I am not prone to panic/anxiety attacks, but I have had ONE in my life and I think it feels the exact same way. On the way home last night from my breastfeeding class, I thought I might have to pull over. I guess from sitting upright in a chair for 3 hours and then sitting up in the drivers seat of my car, my attempts at getting a decent breath were really not going well. I felt kinda lightheaded and finally ended up reclining my seat back as far as I could while still being able to see the road. (I looked like one of the low-rider 'I'm too cool for you' kids that practically sit in the backseat while they drive!) Anyway, it helped....I was able to get the lung capacity back up and take some decent breaths. Our poor lungs are being sort of crushed and invaded by our sweet little bundles and they say as soon as you deliver, you'll breath a LOT easier (literally and figuratively). Until then, lay down when you feel that panicky feeling and try to stretch as much room as you can in your chest/lung area and take some really good deep breaths.

Breastfeeding class: SCARY! I hate to sound like I'm not equipped to handle it.....but instead of leaving feeling totally 100% ready for the job, I felt as unsure as ever and wondered if I should just pump my little heart out and bottle feed as much as possible. I am not one of those gals who would be comfortable sitting on the sofa with my in-laws while I breastfed both babies. I am worried about constantly having to go in the nursery, shut the door and trying to always look for privacy. I only want my husband and MAYBE my mom.....but I cannot see myself whipping out my milk-makers in front of my father or FIL. So, now I'm thinking more about breastfeeding occasionally and trying to fill up as many storage containers with milk and just bottle feed. OTOH, that is double the work, as someone pointed out, to pump and bottle feed. I'm so confused!! And I feel like I really need to make a committment to something here and not think about it again. They'll be here before I know it and I want to have my act together. :confused:

Signed,
Confused in Orlando (aka Steph)

[EBTwinz]

Sorry for posting again, but I need to vent....

My best friend is getting married July 8th. I am the matron of honor in her wedding. When I first found out I was pregnant, I think she was a little mad at me. But, when she found out that I would probably have them in May, she felt a little relieved. She also made it very clear to me that the babies are not allowed at her wedding, which I understand. The wedding is in Pittsburgh, so I will have to travel w/ the babies. I think they should be okay in July, since they will be over a month old, if not older. My dh is the best man in the wedding, too. I am just keeping the babies at my parent's house which will be a half hour from the wedding and my relatives will watch them during the day.

Okay, here is why I want to vent... I feel like my friends are really leaving me out, lately. They are all around the same age as me, but are still into going out every weekend and getting drunk. Plus, my dh's sister and my best friend have gotten really close, which bugs me since I am the one who introduced them to each other. Now, my b/f just emailed me and said her bach. party will be in early June, even though I told her I can maybe go if it's late June. They are all going to a Dave Matthews concert (which is a tradition for us, we have all gone to the concert with each other the past couple years) and then going out the next night down town Pittsburgh. I know I can't go and they can't plan around me, but I just feel like I am growing apart from everyone. I feel like I matured and everyone else stayed the same. It even felt like that this past weekend when they were at our house. Everyone was still drinking and hanging out while all I could do was talk about the babies, which I am sure annoyed them. I just feel so old and alone, like no one really understands what I am going through. I talk to my SIL, often, who is a couple years older than me and has two little girls. She is my lifesaver! I just feel like I want to be around my family and have little to no friends, now.

Sorry to vent... I just figured some of you would understand where I am coming from....

Lisa

[vthompson]

Lisa - As I was reading your post, I was nodding my head in agreeance! I think we may be in similar situations. I only have one very close friend who has a child and she had a very easy pg. Now, her mom watches her daughter all the time so she still goes out with her DH, which is fine for her, but my DH and I will not be leaving the twins all the time to go out and party. Our lives are completely changing. I have felt this way for a long time, though. I met my DH when I was 19 and we got pretty serious quick. I lost a lot of friends during that time because they wanted to go out and party like rock stars and we would go to dinner or stay in sometimes and rent a movie. Now, I hang out more with my DH's friends and their wives/girlfriends more then I do my own friends. It has been that way for many years now. The only thing I can say is that in the next few years, they will all be in your situation and then they will be coming to you for advice. When we got married, no one was married, as far as my friends go. Now, there is only 1 girl left who is not in a serious relationship of some sort and is struggling with finding friends. Eventually, the tables will turn! Try to hang in there and at least you have your SIL. I am also missing a good friend's bachelorrette party at the beginning of July. You and I can have our own, with our babies :)

Ok, sorry for such a long post, but that situation touches close to home for me.

Steph - I feel the same way about bf. I am so confused as to what to do and how to do it. I also will not be pulling my milk maker out in front of everyone and their mother. I guess, I am just going to try it in the beginning and see how it goes, knowing that I have a really expensive pump to fall back on! :D

Breathing problems - CHECK, CHECK, CHECK!!!!
Crotch Pain - Check!

Valerie

[LucasMom]

Lisa-
In response...I started to get the breathing problems about 1 1/2 months ago and it really freaked me out. I was checked out in L and D and they said the babies were fine, but it still happens every day. It feels like you breathe in and can't turn your breath over at the top of your breath so it's just shallow and doesn't actually fill your lungs or give you relief. It is a scary and horrible feeling, and one of the only reall unpleasant things I have had with this pregnancy. But doc says it's a combo of the babies taking up the room and the fact that we have so much blood coursing through our bodies that it becomes hard to process. I had bad asthma as a child and so it freaks me out but happens daily, so I am kind of used to it at this point. The crotch pain is ridiculous. I went to the hospital this past weekend and was checked by a really mean O/C doctor. She said that baby a was low, but not "that low", and that it was just another joy of twin pregnancy. This is another thing that really makes me sad. During the day, it's not so bad, but at night, it makes me cry to try and sit up from a laying position. I need to change positions every 45 min or so anyway, but it hurts my crotch so bad to move.

One more thing--when I had Lucas a few years ago, I was the first friend to be pregnant. I work in the restaurant business, at the time, in fine dining, and DH is a chef, so our lifestyle was very active. I felt like I was losing my identity when I was pregnant. I felt like I was losing myself, because my friends were still doing their thing and I was a big, tired momma with nothing to talk about except babies, and baby showers and baby stuff. It took me a long while to realize that while no, your friends don't have to do things to accomodate you, there are special ones who will, and the others become, unfortunately until they have children of their own, a very different kind of relationship. I lost some friends when I had Lucas, because they couldn't deal with the Mom Mindy. But that is who I am. I am different now than I was 4 years ago, but I am still ME! And the real, true friends will see that. One day it will be them, and you will still be you. Stay true to you. Being a mom is the strangest and BEST thing that ever happened to me. It forced me to slow down and look at life from Lucas' perspective. Don't get me wrong, I still miss things sometimes, but every night, when I kiss him goodnight when he is asleep, I think about how worth it it is.

Sorry for the long post...just thought it may help to know you aren't alone.

Mindy

[vthompson]

Mindy - I thought the way you analyzed the friends issue was right on target. Your true friends will be there in the end and the others will have a different relationship with you. I completely agree!

Valerie

[EBTwinz]

Steph and Mindy: Thanks for the advice w/ the breathing problems. I actually noticed that mine started when I was in the car w/ dh driving. I thought I was having an anxiety attack b/c of his driving... LOL! But, when I reclined the seat, I could breathe better. I have asthma, too, so I am always worried about not catching my breath. I am glad that I am not alone w/ this symptom.

Valerie and MIndy: Thanks for the responses to my "friend dilemma". I just feel like my life is going in one direction and they can't relate to me, anymore. I know that as soon as they begin to have kids, things will be different. I guess I just have to realize that this is how my life is going to be from now on and I wouldn't change it for the world! My boys will be my new friends... LOL! And Valerie, I am going to take you up on the offer to have our own party w/ our babies. :) I am so glad that I have you all to "talk" to and we all relate to each other. I tried to talk to my dh about my feelings regarding my friends, and he told me that I just need to "suck it up" and stop worrying about the future. He also said that people have babies all the time and still go on w/ their lives, like nothing has changed. Ummm, HELLO, we are having twins!!!! He has no freaking clue how much our lives WILL change!! He thinks that I can still go to the bach party in early June. YEAH RIGHT!! I am not traveling 4 hours from here w/ newborn twins. Maybe I am being irrational or overprotective, but I really don't want the twins to leave the house for the first few months of their lives. I am just seeing too many premature babies being born and I don't want the babies to get sick if they are born too early.

Okay, I have posted way too much today. I am sure you all are tired of my rambling.

~lisa

[teresa67]

Lisa,

I love your attitude and sense of humor about this situation. Yes the babies will be your friends. I'm not for sure if you have a child or not, but I'm guessing no. I wish I could tell you how you are actually going to feel after your babies are born. I'm talking from years ago experience, since my daughter is 19, but I didn't fully understand until she was born how much LOVE you have for your child. I was going through the same thing with friends, and someone told me how it would be different after my baby was born, and I didn't until she was. You love that child more than anyone else in this world, after she was born, all those friends that had hurt me by excluding me.......they didn't even matter anymore, and those that were good friends, they are still my friends today. I'm sorry your friends are hurting your feelings, but you wait till those babies are born:throb:

[vthompson]

So creepy thing...I was checking out another thread on the site and someone actually stole another mom's belly shots and used them as her own. That is so strange. Who does that? Ok, I was just really amazed by that!

Here is the website for that thread in case anyone is interested. http://www.twinsmagazine.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=43172

Valerie

[EBTwinz]

I just checked out that thread. People are so sick. I think I am going to take off my post w/ my pictures. I want to share with you gals/guys, but I don't want some freak stealing my pics and saying that they are me.

Teresa: Thanks for the words of encouragement! These are my first children. I can't wait to feel that bond once they are born!! :throb:

Talk to you all soon....

[megzmom]

Hi all. I took my first day off today and guess what???? dd was sick last night took her to the dr because her temp wouldn't go down. Ends up she has bronchitis. Out of all the yucky coughs she had this was more of a tickle in the throat. Would never have guessed bronchitis. Luckily for the first time it wasn't strep (just had tonsils out end of Feb). Even dr laughed at that.

So my first relaxing day was spent up and down with dr and Rx. Luckily after a bubble bath when we got home, dd started to feel much better. She has no apetitie and is vegging in front of tv so I am still taking it easier. So I have tommorrow off too which dr said she be like new after next dose of antibiotics.

Friends-I completely agree that your "true" friends will really shine through and the other ones will just figure it out when they get pregnant and their life goes through a whirlwind.

Monica-I am so happy about Nathan and Anthony. As for the McDonald house, my students and I collect soda tabs for them. Somehow they turn those into money. I think it is awesome. I give it to another teacher who actually knows where to turn it in at. I haven't used hardly any since getting pg but the students still fill my box up with tabs.

leaking-I think I am the only one who isn't leaking. If I squeeze them (don't anymore) then some tiny drops form but nothing. I had a very easy time bf my dd and my boobs have grown a cup size this pg so I am suprised mine haven't leaked. - not complaining though!

TLC-watched today and they had some twin deliveries. Then the show Taking Home Baby had a family taking home twins. It was really cool but so scary. I, like most of you want to BF the twins. This poor mom didn't move from the chair hardly. All she did was feed and pump while dh and mil cleaned and changed the babies. AGH!!! wasn't scared until know. I hope not to beat myself up if it can't happen but I had such a good experience with dd and its much healthier and CHEAPER than formula, that I really want to make it work!

okay long post... probably won't be on tomorrow. I am at school 8:00 at night getting sub plans ready for tomorrow. Got to go. Legs swelling!

[AndreaR]

Hi all...

I've been very busy this week and haven't had much time to check in, but I just quickly read through the past few pages of posts and it sounds like for the most part, everyone is doing well. Good to hear.

Steph - Congratulations on DH's promotion. You guys must be thrilled. Also, I have the same exact fears of breastfeeding. I haven't taken the class yet, but I'm hoping to in the next few weeks. I am also going to try to get connected to La Leche or a lactation consultant who specializes in twins. I get the feeling that it is VERY different nursing two.

Candy - GREAT to hear that you and the babies are still okay. I pray for you every night. Keep up the good work!

Jason - Sorry about your wife's meltdown. It's so hard; it really is. But, like someone said (I think Felisha), they're our battle scars. They will help remind us forever of this wonderful time. Although it doesn't feel wonderful most days.... And if she really, really hates them, maybe Danielle's husband has some miracle cream for her (and all of us!).

Monica - Thank you so much for giving us an update. I'm so happy to hear that Anthony & Nathan are growing and getting stronger. Your updates always help me imagine the arrival of my girls (and of course, cry). How is your DD doing with all of this? It must be a little tough. I will continue to pray for all of you.

Sweating.....check! It's pretty bad under my boobs, day and night, so I put baby powder underneath at least once a day, and sometimes before I go to bed. In the spirit of sharing TMI, I find that the worst is between my legs. My underwear is so damp that my panty liner usually comes off half-way through the day. At first I thought I was leaking something, but it's definitely sweat. So gross.

Tired and cranky....check, check! I am so uncomfortable by day's end, that I whine to my DH. Last night he offered to carry the girls for these last eight weeks. Very sweet. I just wish I could take him up on the offer!

Out of breath....check! For me, it's usually when I'm slouching, so sitting up straight and leaning back a little usually helps.

NST....I haven't had one yet either, although I thought I was getting one today. Okay, sorry for the long post here....

I had an appt with my Peri on Monday, and he did an U/S. Baby A weighs 3 lbs 3 oz, and Baby B weighs 2 lbs, 13 oz. So they are both 3 oz away from 3 pounds, which was my goal. So that part is good. My cervix is long and closed. Good. Placentas and amniotic fluid are all good. I asked when I would start NSTs and he said maybe next time (in 2 weeks), it depends on how they measure. I guess if he likes what he sees on U/S, then he's not worried about NSTs. So I was really happy (especially since you ladies have mentioned that NSTs are not fun at all). But I forgot to mention to him that it seems like I feel the babies move less. I still feel them move every day, but I used to feel them move all day long. I had an appt with my OB today, and I asked him, and he got a little nervous and wanted me to have an NST. They couldn't fit me in today or anytime this week, so he had me go for another U/S with a specialist. Long story short, the babies are fine and moving around like crazy, but I can't feel them! It was so weird. The u/s tech was holding the wand on my belly and saying, "You can't feel that?" I could see them move, but I couldn't feel most of it. I was supposed to call my OB back this afternoon and discuss the results and schedule an NST for next week. But when I got home I was too exhausted, so I took a two hour nap! I have felt both girls a few times since I've been home. I'm really not that worried, but it was scary when my OB got very serious and especially when he used the term "decreased fetal movement."

Sorry for the long post. It wasn't a very fun day. I've been so busy this week, and I'm really looking forward to sleeping in tomorrow.

Good night y'all.

AndreaR

[AndreaR]

One more funny thing from today's appointment....

After I referred to the babies as girls, the u/s technician said, "are we sure they are both girls?". I almost fell off the table! I screamed (really), "Don't tell me you see a penis!!" But she didn't, she was just asking. It was pretty funny. Not that I would mind having a boy (or even two), but I have gone so over-the-top with pink, girly stuff. I am spending a fortune on their room, and it's all custom, so I can't return it! DH would be thrilled to have a boy. But I'm not sure he'd be thrilled to have to re-do the nursery!

[vthompson]

Felisha - Those are fantastic weights! Great job! It sounds like everything is progressing as it should. My doctor also said that she will not make any decisions regarding vaginal vs. c-section until later and it all depends on how the babies are positioned. As for NST, I have had them because of my contraction issues. I was not actually scheduled to start them until May and then I would get 1 a week. I am not sure what the norm is but it seems like everyone's doctor is different.

Andrea R - The u/s tech always points out that the babies are moving more then I notice. I wonder if they are just starting to run out of room. Congrats to you, too on the great appt! You also have some fantastic weights! Sweaty underwear - CHECK!! It is really gross! I feel wet all the time.

Heather - I am sorry to hear that dd is sick. Hopefully, you will be able to rest more tomorrow. I am also not leaking. I feel a slight bit of wetness once in a great while, but when I look, nothing is there so it cannot be more then a drop and it has only happened a few times. I just hope that I have milk to feed these babies!

Has anyone felt like time has all of sudden started to drag. It felt like things were moving so quickly, and the past few days, I feel like it is never ending. I am sure it has a lot to do with bed rest, but I lost my light at the end of the tunnel :sigh: My hormones seem out of control the past few days and I just feel like crying most of the time. I guess I lost my peppiness!

I will check in tomorrow!

Valerie

[mommyof4at26]

hi all, i just wanted to update everyone, yesterday i went in for my ob vivsit, i have been having alot if irritation and bh,the doc checked my cervix and it was closed,my cervix was soft and she was kinda worried i just was long and hard last week, iam no longer at a 5cm i shrunk, i have also gained 10lbs in a week. im also retaining alot of water, so she had me go to the hospital to have some monitoring done, i was having bhs and e told me pregnant women are suppose tobedrinking a gallon of water a day,and he put me on bedrest till my next ob visit in 1and a half weeks,they gave me a test to see if i would gointiolabor anytime soon,it was negative,also checked my urine for protein said it was ok, so i was so happyto be ok, but now allmy privaleges like shopping and going anywhere except doc appointments are gone, he said no house cleaning,no shopping no driving and no sex,which we stopped at 20 weeks, so thats ok. well remember drink lots of:spitwater :spitwater :spitwater :spitwater

[swineland]

Morning everyone!

Heather, I am sorry to hear about DD's bronchitis, but it sounds like it was a mild case. You be sure to take it easy as you're caring for her.....

Where is Danielle? She usually posts a few times a day. And Sherry??

I feel better about the breastfeeding today.... I guess it just hit me a little harder after that class, but now I am more calm about it.

Last night after my swim class I came home and had a meltdown. I told DH that I was just going to cry for a few minutes and for him to just let me. He kept asking "what's wrong?" (because that's what guys do) and I didn't answer. He asked if I didn't want to tell him and I said yes, so he said "you're stressed out b/c my parents are coming on Friday and you feel overwhelmed". I couldn't believe it! It was EXACTLY how I was feeling. DH was so sweet about it....he came over and held me while I cried and said not to worry and that he would take total care of me while they were here and if something was bothering me he would let them know. I said, I just feel stressed knowing that my privacy is about to be taken away for 10 days....it feels like my little nest is being invaded!! He laughed and said he totally understood. Anyway, I cried a little more and got it all out I think. I feel better today.

Gosh, these boys are like RIGHT under the skin. Does anyone else feel the twins like that?? I put my hand on my belly and it's like, oh there they are...there's a head and there's a head. My belly seems like it's stretched really tight, so I guess that's why I'm feeling them so close to the surface. It's a really cool feeling and I feel so close to them now. Like I'm really a mom! :clap: :throb:

So, for those of you who were interested in buying a Medela breast pump and haven't done so yet (I got mine from my best friend), I have something you may want. Yesterday in the mail I received a coupon from BRU for $20 off the Pump In Style Advanced breast pump (the regular or backpack version). Since I already have mine, I would be more than happy to send this coupon to someone who may want it. It expires on 7/31, so there's plenty of time to use it. If you're interested just let me know....I can drop it in the mail asap.

Well, I decided with my job to go ahead and take advantage of this "voluntary furlough" they are offering. Basically, I am saying bye-bye but I will still have 5 years of recall rights, so if things ever DO get back to normal with Delta and they need flight attendants again, I could get called back. It's a small severance pay and you still get to keep your travel benefits. I just can't imagine trying to finagle my way out of trips after the babies are here, trying to coordinate childcare and worst of all, being gone over the holidays. I always have to work thru the holidays and I refuse to miss my boys first Christmas this year. So, I guess I'll be a SAHM after all! At least for the beginning, maybe after I can find a small part time job locally and still be home at night with the family.

Sorry for the long post! Hope you all are well, alive and kicking! This last month or two that we have is going to be filled with exciting updates, scary times and the need for lots of support. I am so glad to have you guys as part of my support system.....:grouphugg

For now,
Steph

[AndreaR]

Valerie - I TOTALLY feel like time is dragging. When people ask me how much longer and I tell them 9 more weeks (actually, it's 8 weeks from today!), they say, "oh, pretty soon!" And I feel like punching them. Time is ticking so slowly, somedays I just don't know how I'm going to make it. Then I think of all of you.... and I know I will.

Rachel - Sorry to hear you are on bedrest. Hopefully it's only until your next visit, and things will look better when you go back. In the meantime, we can keep you company.

About drinking a gallon of water a day... I know others have posted the same thing, and I try to drink water, I really do. But there is no way I'm drinking enough. It seems like I can't drink water until lunch. Something about it makes me gag in the morning. And then, when I do eat lunch, I'm too full to drink. I try, I really do. Does anyone have any suggestions? Does anyone else feel the same way?

Steph - that is so sweet that your DH was so in tune with your feelings. You must have been relieved when he said it and you didn't have to. It sounds like he's going to do his best to make sure your in-laws' visit is comfortable for you. Congrats on the job decision, too. I think it's good to have a plan. Especially when everything else will be chaos when the boys first arrive.

Well, after two days of rain and SNOW (!), the sun is back. I don't think it's going to be very warm here today, but at least it's sunny. I'm going to take lots of naps today. The past three days have been way too busy for someone who is supposed to be "taking it easy."

Have a great day everyone! I'm sure I'll be on later.

AndreaR

[EBTwinz]

Hello everyone. I have an OB appt today. I am wondering if today is going to be my last day of work. I have felt a little crampy these past couple days but it may be intestinal. AFter I go to the bathroom, I feel better. But, I am starting to feel some pressure down below. Maybe it's b/c the babies dropped. I am going to have my OB check my cervix and make sure I am not going into PTL. It scares me when I hear people say that they were having contractions but didn't even know about it until they were hooked up to the machines. I have been "normal" in the discharge department, so I guess that is good. I will post after my appt.

Heather: So sorry to hear about your daughter. I hope she is feeling better. That stinks that you had a day off work but it wasn't to relax. I hope you are taking it easy and try not to push yourself too hard.

AndreaR: Congrats on the great appt!! :clap: Great weights on the babies, too! It's funny that you mentioned about not feeling the baby move. I said the same thing to my dh last night. On the left side, I can actually see my stomach moving from one baby but I can only feel little kicks from the other baby on the right side. I was worried about him and was shaking him last night to get him to move more. but, it could just be how he is positioned b/c on the u/s, they are always on the go. Also, cute story about the tech's response to you saying they are girls. I always wondered what I would do if one was born a girl. I have all boy stuff! LOL!

Felisha: Congrats on your appt, too! SOunds like everything is going well for you. As for the belly belt, I just bought one at BRU. It was $30. It's right near the breastfeeding supplies at my store. I think it helps.

Valerie: I only feel like time is dragging when I am at home. I guess since I am still working part of the day, the weeks seem to fly by. But when I am sitting at home, I feel like the day just drags and drags. Maybe now that you are on bedrest, you feel like the days are dragging. But enjoy it now! AFter these little ones are here, you won't even remember what day it is!!! :)

mommyof4at26: I am so glad that your test came back negative. Please make sure you get lots of rest and drink your water!!! :) Keep us updated. I will be thinking of you.

Steph: Meltdown? Check! I had one last night. However, I was mad at dh and that is why I cried. He started this new job and is still trying to set up his office. He hasn't had a paycheck all month and the new job is comission only. I am starting to freak out, especially if I am not allowed to work after today. I have insurance through my employer and I can have it for 12 more weeks, but then I am sh*t out of luck! We have a lot of money in reserve right now (that's the good thing about the mortgage business, there are months where you can make a TON of moola), but what happens when that runs out! But, anyway, I am so glad that your dh is understanding about the inlaw situation. Also, I can feel the babies right under my skin, too. It's so cute! I never know if it's their head, back or arms and legs, but I like to rub them gently and then they move a little bit. Then the bumps change positions. I always wonder what they are doing in there. This is a stupid question, but can they see each other?

Well, I better get caught up on my work, just in case I am not here much longer.

I will check in later.
Lisa

[EBTwinz]

Sherry and Daniele: Where are you?????????????

[EBTwinz]

OMG, read this article...

http://www.cnn.com/2006/US/04/05/baby.shower.ap/index.html

[swineland]

Yeah...sick, isn't it? I read that article yesterday. It just AMAZES me how you have to pass all these tests to get a drivers license or sell real estate....but having a baby? Raising a child and putting new life on this planet?? Eh, no controls there....whoever wants to, can. Ridiculous.

Also, I don't know if anyone saw this on CNN.com yesterday also, but there was a video about an Orlando woman who gave birth to quads at 32 weeks and she is a patient at my Maternal Fetal Group! My perinatologist was on the video as he was part of the delivery. It was so funny to see him....he does all my ultrasounds!

Later,
Steph

[EBTwinz]

Steph: I completely agree!!! My dh always says how people should be given permits to have children. First of all, why was there beer at her shower? Some people.... geesh!

[swineland]

Uh oh...well, we're actually going to have beer at my shower! It's at 1pm on a Saturday and it's already practically summer down here....so, I'm throwing the men a bone and providing some Coronas and champagne punch for the gals. Don't worry, though....nobody will beat me with a stick :)

Steph

[EBTwinz]

Uh oh...well, we're actually going to have beer at my shower! It's at 1pm on a Saturday and it's already practically summer down here....so, I'm throwing the men a bone and providing some Coronas and champagne punch for the gals. Don't worry, though....nobody will beat me with a stick :)

Steph

Well, that's different. Especially if it's a shower where men are invited. I can see how you would have coronas and champagne punch. But this other shower just sounded like bad news. People w/ sticks, 5 year olds drinking... Plus I don't think anyone will be bringing a gun to your shower (at least I hope not!!)

Now I am thirsty for a beer! LOL!!

[mommyof4at26]

wow that article was odd, that is sad, well thanksforeveryone who replied tomy message it makes me happy to have found a great support group. Andrea- i can relate to not being able to drink water,add some juice or crystal light, or a lemon or lime, i found it makesit easier for me if i add ice and it gets really cold,before i got pregnant i drank 1 glass of water a week not kidding. but know i drink tons.well have a good day:spitwater :spitwater :spitwater

[qbanmom5]

Hi!

I was wondering the same thing about Sherri and Danielle.... Please check in girls.

Crotch pain at night...check. Just started, the vulvar veins used to hurt while standing but now its like this groin pain at night and when I try to move, it kills. Dont know what that is, its a first for me.

No breast leaking, really. I will occasionally find a drop on the inside of my bra at the end of the day but not all the time. Only if I squeeze does a drop or two come out (I know-- I don't squeeze often).

Time dragging....check. But I just had to reframe my thinking. Having had kids before, I need to enjoy this time of sitting (or laying) on my rear and doing nothing but reading or watching t.v. Trust me girls, when they come, part of us will wish they were back inside.

Friends.....what is that again? I don't have any left. Sorry, I don't mean to trivialize it, but who has time? I have acquaintances that I see socially every now and then, but I have you guys and thats about all I can handle.

Funny story: Yesterday, I got tired of my son asking me to turn on/off his light or fan because he can't reach the pull strings. Somehow the cords shrank or part was lost and I can't reach either so I have to stand on his bottom bunk and reaaaach to grasp at these cords and I usually get the wrong one. I decided to make extensions myself by braiding some yarn. Doesn't look great but it does the job, right? Well, in order to attach them to the cords that are there now I had to get on the top bunk. That part was easy. But I still didn't reach, then I decided I would come down and ask DH for help but I was scared to climb down!! I have never been a chicken, but the thought of swinging one leg over the edge and turning myself around was terrifying. My daughter came up and tried to help but it only scared me more cause I thought the weight would bring the whole thing down. I called DH for help, and he was angry that I had done that and not asked for help. He had to coach me and practically carry me down. My hands and feet were sweating so if he hadn't been holding me I wouldve slipped off. DD and I were cracking up afterward but DH never cracked a smile. He worries about me and gave me a lecture about how he doesn't want to have to worry while he is at work that I will be doing crazy things like that. I have never felt so uncoordinated, out of shape, sloth-like, you name it. Well, I won't be doing that anymore!

Lisa: I can totally relate about the $$ since DH's job (real estate) is commission only too. I have small disability payments coming in, but not enough to live off of! I see lots of saving in my future....

Breastfeeding: I have been reading a book and I soooooo want to breastfeed but like all of you I am afraid of what that will entail. I also am not comfortable bearing my breasts and although I won't have in-laws or family in the house, I have my kids and I feel uncomfortable with them seeing my breasts. Especially my 8 year old son. I don't want to traumatize him or anything nor can I lock myself away for hours on end and neglect them. I too am thinking about pumping and bottle feeding and they can help but it will be more work it seems. We have to remain positive and really try hard girls. The book I am reading is from the 90's so it is a little outdated (I got it at the thrift store) but it really reinforces how natural and important our milk is for the babies vs. man-made formulas. They just cannot reproduce human breast milk, period. Not enough of some things, and too much of others. Also, even though some people say that formula fed infants will sleep for longer periods and will get fuller-it is not true. I quit breastfeeding my kids after 2-3 weeks becuase I thought I would get more rest only to find that they were still feeding every 2-3 hours. Lastly, 2 oz of breastmilk is as filling (because of the nutritional value) as 4 oz of formula. It may seem your baby is eating more because he is taking more formula, but it does not have the same nutritional value. Enough of that, am I trying to convince you or myself? I don't know.

Water... I have days where I do really well and some days I barely get 32 oz in. I don't know why, I go to bed and prepare myself that the next day I will drink my 8 oz an hour, but next thing I know its 11:00 am and I haven't drank any. Then around 6:00 I don't want to drink anymore because I am up peeing all night. The peeing is one of the big deterrents for me. I hate getting up to go to the bathroom. I should buy depends......

I will have a new ticker soon- don't know if it will include a belly shot given the thieves out there. Unreal. Next thing you know, someone will steal blossoms picture and say its their cat! Just kidding. Have a good day and enjoy your resting. I saw that episode on TLC also and it wont be easy girls.

Love, Ters

[newmomx2]

Yesterday I had an awesome day !! I was at home working ... I was on a conference call when my phone beeped - I flipped over and it was a lady (who I didn't know) who heard my name announced on the radio and I needed to call back in 10 minutes - I knew it was legit because I had received a card from that radio station the week before saying I was in the contest and to listen to the radio - I call the 800 number and I won the $500 dollars WAHOO !!!:clap: Money is to be here in 3 - 6 weeks - will have to see who comes first the babies or the money ..

Ladies - you have some great weights and some good appointments...I have been having a lot of BH contractions (just started last Friday) I go to the doctor tomorrow and I am going to ask about this and make sure no PTL in the future.

My Boobs are not leaking yet either...nor have they grown much - I am not too worried.

This morning I went to baby gap to return 2 fleece blankets (since I got sooo many at the shower) I then bought the 2 cutest outfits to bring my boys home in !!!!!:yippee: I got a size that is up to 7lbs I figure if they will not be larger then that !!

Well gotta run...need to get on another conference call - everyone take it easy..

[newmomx2]

Just realized I am 31 weeks today .... YEAH

[TMoT]

I'm alive and they're kicking...!

Was up REALLY LATE last night working on our IKEA shopping list, and I was just too tired to read/post. I'm sorry!!! Today was a busy day with the boys at home, an OB appt, and a nap for last night, so I'm only logging in now....

Dh and I had a bit of a tuffle over the house re-decoration project, as I feared. First, he keeps coming home too late to make the IKEA trip (to buy/order everything we need and arrange for transport since we can't do it ourselves -- just TOO MUCH STUFF); then, he didn't manage to corrale anyone to really come help us with moving this weekend; and, I just don't know what he expects us to do!!!!! :-(((( Not like I can be much help, and it's all HIS friends and family who are supposed to be "helping," so I feel so frustrated and angry with him. Granted, he's got a BIG deadline coming up at work too -- so he's having trouble managing his job demands. But, I told him these babies aren't gonna wait either, and I SO wanted everything to be SETTLED by my 28th week -- which is NEXT WEEK. Ha! FAT chance!

*sigh* I sat down on my bed and flipped on my laptop and I FEEL SO MUCH BETTER just reading everyone's posts -- laughing, nodding, being anxious/excited, etc. It's such a therapy all of it's own. I'm so glad you all are "here"! *whew* (Plus maybe I can vent here a bit and take the "edge" off so I can go talk to dh as a more "normal" person too. He IS such a sweetheart, as I always say, I really don't want to be a DRAGON LADY to him....) :-(((

*sigh again* Well, today I had my first appt in about six weeks with my "normal" OB (WITH dsx2 in tow!)...! I brought my pg "diary" (Valentine's gift from dh, and where I put all my questions for each dr visit), and grilled her for some time... ;-) I had to fill her in on all the stomach bugs, ER visits (she knew about the one on Monday already), protein in the urine, etc. Basically, she calmed my concerns. For anyone who wants to know, protein in our urine, in general, is normal. In pg, it's even a bit more common since your kidneys have so much work to do, they're quite over-taxed. And, in the case of "pre-eclampsia," she said it won't just "happen suddenly," but it'll grow and gradually get stronger until it's really hard to deny. As long as our bp is fine, and we don't show "significant" protein for an ongoing period of time, there isn't a lot to worry about... Whew. (Now if we could just start doing something about these stomach things?!?!!)

About gd/hypoglycemia, doc said even when we have those sugar "crashes," babies don't suffer. They're energy level is "constant" (unless you have gd-related complications, I suppose), so we need to watch our diet -- keep a constant flow of food going -- for our own sake, more than anything....

About the babies: Funny about your post, Missy (and Felisha too), but my doc said basically the same thing today (again)! If baby A is head-down (which she is), she will plan to deliver vaginally, even if baby B is head-up (which he is)!! Lots of "IFs," of course (as far as babies' weight, timing, how quickly things are moving, etc.), but doc is willing to do what she has to to help Baby B out vaginally, if it is at all possible. One of the questions I had, though, was about "prep" for c-section/breech-birth. She said (time permitting) they _do_ hook up an IV and a very low-level epidural (will be the first time in my life!), just in the event that some "manipulating" of Baby B and/or a c-section might be required. I guess, depending on babies' position, this is pretty normal procedure....???

....We had the babies measurements/weights on Monday already :-)), but today's added bonus was that the big boys were there to see their little siblings on the u/s! Max, my oldest, got a really good view of his baby brother's face, and he was touched and delighted to pieces. :'-) Think this really drove home the reality of the babies' existence for him, and he's such a caring and sensitive sweet thing to begin with. :-))) Xander was busy running around the doctor's office in an imaginary fight with a "dragon" or something (!) to really follow what was going on, but this is his third visit with me to the ob, so he was less impressed to begin with.... ;-)

Btw, Missy, you're incredible! And, I guess as long as you're feeling fine you might as well just keep at it! Especially since, like Valerie pointed out, the time really starts to drag if you don't have something keeping you busy, working is definitely a good way to stay "distracted"... GREAT for you!!!!

Water: I can't seem to get enough of it! I don't know how you, Rachel and Ters, can drink so little!!! I'm working on a gallon a day (at least -- I swear!!), and I still wake up parched during the night. I drink all night and all day. I'm sure I would be really HATING THE WORLD if I drank any less too. When I start to feel "down," or "icky," -- it may seem a bit counter-intuitive but -- I reach for a bottle of water. And it always makes me feel better. Can't really tell you any "tricks," though. Just gotta make yourself do it and you'll see the effect (++) for yourself..... ;-)

Lisa, you got so much nice advice about friends/friendship here. Aren't these ladies something??!?

Steph, I think you made a great and brave decision about your job! Comes on the heels of that terrific news about your dh's promotion! What a BREAK!! ...You KNOW you're doing the right thing, of course -- so, even though things might be rough now and then -- RELISH the time/experience you're going to have with those two little ones! It's going to be SUPER!!! ...Imho, being a SAHM is a true luxury -- as I've found in my own case -- but I wouldn't trade it for the WORLD! There are a lot of things we have to go without, materially, but our quality of life is light years ahead of the times when I worked full-time and got to spend so little time with my boys. If you CAN be a SAHM, it's got to be the greatest gift on the planet -- for you and for your babies! So, CONGRATS to you, Steph -- and for dh's promotion too! And, LIVE IT UP!!!!!! :-))) (Btw, still glad you got those flying privileges, of course!) ;-) Oh. And what a *D*H for being so perceptive about his parent's visit....! :-D

b/f: I can write volumes on this lovely (to me) topic, but there is only "trying and seeing for yourself" about how it will go for you... Don't panic though, above all (Steph?), about not having made a decision on the matter before the babies are born! You don't need to put that pressure on yourself -- or them. Even a pretty battle-worn "pro" like me is concerned/confused/anxious about how it's going to go with twins, so I'm just leaving it up to God and Mother Nature to see... Btw, you'll be surprised at how discreet you can be nursing a baby, and (after you have the experience between you and your little ones) how other peoples' opinions/presence/stares (rare tho!) start to matter less and less. You'll come to find that you're more comfortable b/f-ing in some places than in others at different times, and you just have to go with your (and babies') feelings about it. B/f is really ALL ABOUT comfort -- what feels good for you as a mother and what is such an awesome experience for your little ones too -- so please don't stress about it and just take it one step at a time. _Everything_ is more complicated with _two_ babies, of course, but there is plenty of support out there (and right here on this site too) for b/f, and you will learn this (or opt for another alternative) just like you're learning everything else about becoming a mother now: One baby step at a time... ;-)))

Monica, so wonderful to hear from you and your little "aliens"! ;-) It must feel so nice to get to hold them and see/feel their progress. Can't wait for the news on the id/frat thing either. *sigh* You're doing a marvelous job!!! ...And sorry if I kept writing "ds" instead of "dd" -- for some reason I kept wanting to abbreviate "dear sister" instead of "dear daughter," and I'm so used to writing ds in my own case here...!!! 8-( Speaking of which, what does she think of all this -- and the Ronald McDonald house??!? ;-)

Heather, sorry about your sick dd. :-(( I hope you have a better/more relaxing day tomorrow and that she's on the mend very soon! You are such a trooper I can't get over it!!! :-)))

Ters, I could _totally_ see me doing something similar as you with the bedroom lamp fiasco! I've been trying to be more cautious these days, but "resourcefulness" and "motherhood" often tend to get in the way...!!! ;-) DO be careful though, okay? And I promise I will too!!! ...Sorry to find the question of Baby A's gender so funny too!! Can you imagine -- after all the Name Game dilemmas -- if you and dh had to come up with TWO boy's names now??!?! AARRRRRRGHHHHHH!!!! lol Well, keep us posted!!!

Felisha, beautiful pic. Trying now to imagine you with all that hair chopped off!!! ;-)) ...And about NSTs, my doc hasn't said anything either (but I'm a bit behind all of you), so I'm not worrying about it -- especially with a long, closed cervix... ;-)

Congrats to AndreaR and Felisha on your super appointments/weights too! You gals are my heroines! I'm going to shoot for the same weights at 29 weeks. That only gives me two weeks to put on another pound EACH, but they've gained that much since last week already (!), so....!!! ;-))

Crotch pain: no check, for the moment.
Suffocating/breathing difficulty: BIG CHECK! ...Someone on the June thread said she felt "claustrophobic" whenever she was doing anything that was far away from her bed so she could not lie down on her side "and breathe" like she needs to. I can totally relate!
Breast leaking: half-check. ...Had a bit of dripping during the night again the other night, but, other than that, it's pretty quiet...
Time dragging: CHECK. Ergh. And I'm the furthest "behind" on this thread!!! 8-S

Well, I'm worried about Daniele too -- especially since her lasts posts were about all that bad cramping...! :-( I posted as quickly as I could today, though, and I'm sure she'll get in touch with us as fast as she can. I just hope nothing bad is happening to her/babies. Daniele, whether you can read this or not, we're all sending lots of love, support and positive vibes your way right now! Please take good care of yourself!!!!!

Lisa, hope your OB appt goes well and that they let you off work FI-NUH-LEE!!! Please let us know when you find out (if you're not busy posting now while I spew away here)!!!

Candy, please check in again and let us know how the check-ups are going today/tomorrow when you have the chance, okay?? xx

Steph and Mindy enjoy your showers this weekend and don't let anyone club you!! ;-)

Rachel, take it easy and take good care of yourself -- and drink that water!!! ;-))

Okay, enough mother-hen stuff. And maybe enough time has passed now that I can go face dh and be "decent" with him...??!? Har!!! Bye, gals!!!!

[EBTwinz]

Okay, first of all, I just have to address the Blossom picture comment. Ters, I was laughing hysterically when I read what you wrote. I am still laughing. That is tooo cute!! LOL!!! I think that is the funniest thing I have heard (read) all week! LOL!!!!:rotflmbo:

So, my OB appt went well. I gained 3 more lbs in two weeks, I think I have a total wt gain of 35 lbs. No protein in the urine this time. :yippee: My pee was almost clear. I drank so much darn water this morning. Babies are looking good. A is still head down, B is kinda sideways, but head down. The OB thinks I have a good chance of making it to 38 weeks! :eek: I mean, don't get me wrong, that is good to go that long, but all I can think about it crotch pain!!!! 7 more freaking weeks of crotch pain! I asked the OB about work and as long as I have no signs of PTL and am sitting down, then I can still work. (Darn!) Oh, during my u/s, I said the dumbest thing. I asked if the babies can touch each other. My OB just laughed and said that they are side by side and there isn't much room in there. Then I asked if they can see each other. I am such a dork! LOL!! He said they can open their eyes but it's too dark in there to actually see anything. I may shine a flashlight in there tonight so they can get a good look at each other.

Sherry: So glad to hear from you! I was getting worried. I am still worried about Daniele! I hope she is just busy.

Well, I need to lay down. I will check back later. I ate way too much at lunch. Big ole burger from Fuddruckers and then to DQ for some ice cream! YUM!

~Lisa

[vthompson]

Hello Everyone! Had an ob appt today, everything is going well. The NST showed no contractions, YEAH!! Babies were moving around like maniacs! The nurses actually come in and laugh when they look at the read out because they move that much. My mom came with me this time. She has been begging to hear the heartbeats. She was so cute! No appt next week, as long as nothing crazy happens, then the following week I have my level II. I can't wait to find out their weights. That is one of my favorite parts of level II, besides seeing them of course!

Lisa - I am glad everything went well at the ob. I am sorry, though, that you can't stop working all together. Can you just take maternity leave early without doctor's consent?

Sherri - I am so glad to hear from you, I was also getting worried. Sounds like you got all your questions answered and that everything is going well. Fantastic!! Sorry to hear about the DH argument. Keep us updated.

Missy - Congrats on winning the money! That is always a nice surprise!

Ters - I was laughing about someone stealing the cat's picture! That is too funny! I also saw that episode on TLC and the girl did not move from the glider. I think I am just expecting it to be that way. We will all get through it!

Andrea R - I really don't have any suggestions for drinking more water. Personally, I have to have mine really cold, maybe that will help!

Steph - That is great that DH was so supportive of you! I hope the visit turns out to be less stress then you are expecting. I am glad that you are happy with your work decision. I can't imagine how difficult it would be to be a flight attendant with a family.

Rachel - Hang in there with the bed rest. I am usually on like 80 times a day now, so we can talk! :)

Talk to everyone soon!

Valerie

[mmzill]

Thanks for all the congrats! The boys are still doing well, just need to hurry up and grow! They are 1 week old today. Anthony is on 6 cc of Breastmilk and Nathan is almost up to 9!! Yeah!!!!

Lisa I had to laugh about the flashlight comment. I can see myself doing something like that to help brighten their world! I can't wait until the boys can actually meet each other, so far with all the cords and such we haven't been able to get them very close to one another.

Sounds like all the visits are going well. I hope you can all make it till 37/38 wks! That would be great......even if you are miserable. They do so much better. I wouldn't wish this NICU stuff on anyone!

I actually read through all the recent posts, and it's good to hear how everyone is doing. Keep your chins' up!

Have a good evening!
~Monica

[vthompson]

Monica - I noticed on your ticker that the boys are 1 week old! Congrats! Very glad to hear that they are both doing so well! We love to get your updates.

BTW, Lisa, I have the same questions about the twins. Like, can they see each other, touch each other. I just wonder if they realize that there is another person in there or not.

Valerie

[TMoT]

Lisa and Valerie, :rotflmbo: about the "flash-light" idea!!! I even told my dses about this and they really got a kick out of it!!!!! Only speaking as a twin now (and nothing scientific), I _definitely_ think these babies are as aware of eachother's presence as they are of _ours_, their Mommies'... :throb: You can see it in the u/s when one gets kicked by the other, and the second shoves the first's leg off her, or whatever... PLUS, there's that second (=third!) heartbeat. Didn't someone post yesterday about the babies having the same heartbeat at one point during the monitoring?? Did you know that even two BIG people who hug/hold eachother start to actually have the same heartbeat too??! "Hearts beating in time" is more than just a nice line in a love-song... ;-) And, it applies to twins as well, of course!!! There's also (actually scientific) medical proof about how much better twins do in nicu when they're kept together -- and especially, when they get as much contact from Mom, Dad, etc. ("kangaroo care") as possible too. There MUST BE something to this, right???

Well, as of now, these babies can hear, feel and SEE everything! They sense light/dark (the idea that their eyes are open sometimes and that they're actully LOOKING always freaked me out in pg!!), and they respond to sounds, of course! So, if you hold that flashlight in there -- they might not really like it! but -- they'll get the same kind of impression we do when we put a flashlight over our hands and can see all the red (blood), etc.... In fact, they almost definitely won't like it (think of how you'd feel if someone shines a light in your face when you're trying to sleep!), but it's still a funny idea!!!!!

...Has your doc shown you, on the u/s, the thin membrane separating the babies inside the womb? L, I don't know if your boys are identical or not, but do they have separate sacks?? If they have separate sacks, you know that, even when they're "touching" they're technically not touching. But what is the real difference anyway? It's kinda like dh putting his leg over you in bed while he has the blankets on and you don't... You still feel it, and sometimes you don't mind it, but (especially now) sometimes you fling it off you in frustration. Either way, you're still definitely certain that he (dh) is "there," and I'm sure it's the same for these babies... Do you get what I'm saying???

Anyway, I think it'll all be even more clear when they're out. But, in the meantime, isn't it kinda neat to think about how very, very "close" (literally and figuratively) these two little ones in our bellies are? As my mom always said about twins after they come out: "First they were womb-mates, and now they're bosom buddies"...! And it's going to -- God willing! -- be this way for they're WHOLE lives! :throb: :throb: :)

Okay, a quick morning nap before my mil comes over and any crises break out with the dses. Check in with you ladies later!

PS CONGRATS on the $500 Missy! WOW! We could all use a good rainfall like that now! At least YOU got one! How super!!!!!! :-))) x

[swineland]

Do you think we should put an APB out on Danielle???

Where are you, Danielle?

:confused:

[vthompson]

I am very worried about Danielle, too. I was thinking about it last night that we haven't heard from her in awhile. I really hope everything is ok. I think we should put out an APB...

Also, we have not gotten any updates lately from Sheriba or Jill and their babies, unless I missed something. I hope all is well!!

Valerie

[EBTwinz]

I am worried about Daniele too!! What scares me is when she said she felt cramping after her shower on Sunday. Does anyone remember the last time she posted? I think it was either Sunday or Monday. This is really unlike her to go this long. Daniele: If you are reading this, please drop us a quick hello so we know you are okay. We are all worried!!!!

Also, Sheriba and Jill, if you can, please give us an update. You are in our prayers. Please let us know if you need anything. We are all here for you.

Nothing new with me today. Just working, as usual. I forgot to tell you that the cramping I felt was intestinal and I am having BH. I am suppose to monitor my BH and if they exceed so many in an hour or become painful, then I have to go to L&D. About work, the doc told me that I can work as long as I want to. I am not allowed to push myself and I need to take off if I am not feeling well. I decided to only work 4 1/2 hours now instead of 5. If it gets to be too much, then I will cut back. I feel silly quitting if I still feel okay. I would only be quitting b/c I don't want to be here anymore. I was talking to the doctor that I work with and he said that I could come back, part time, when I am ready. I would also be coming back to a new position, maybe even become a therapist to children with autism and help with social skills. I am really excited about that!!! I really miss the patient contact. right now, I do most of my work over the phone.

Well, I only have one hour left so I better get cracking!

Missy: Congrats on the money!!!!

~Lisa

[Daniele'sTwins]

IM HERE!!!!

I am so sorry to not get to you in a couple of days. Since my shower I have been sooo physically and emotionally exhausted that I haven't written. Also my good friend had her baby on Wednesday so I was there all day. Yesterday I literally felt like I was sleepwalking around my house all day! I haven't been that tired in so long. I don't know how anyone is working anymore.

i went to the docs on Tuesday and they did a FFN test on me. That came back negative, which is good but as we have learned from others it means nothing when pregnant with twins. I am already measuring at 35 weeks and my DH says that he can see strechmarks coming ( I can't for what it is worth) he told me not to worry because he will take me to his office on the way home from having the babies to laser them! LOL He is lucky I love him! So I asked the doc to book my section already, he said he would but not until 39 weeks!!!!!! Why are all these docs soooo different! It is really bothering me! I thought it was dangerous to keep twins after 38 weeks! Plus I really don't want them in there that long! I am hoping for 36 weeks or is that too early?
My doctor also sent me to my neurologist to make sure I could have a spinal for the section. Tahnk goodness he said yes! If not they would have put me "OUT" and my DH wouldn't even be allowed in the room AND everyone would get to see and hold my babies before me!!!

Felisha...I have to say I am jealous of those weights! I though my boys were big but I see that they are not! I hope my boys get over 3 lbs soon! Also, your pic is beautiful by the way! Pretty Mommy!

Steph...Great news on DH's raise and 4 WEEKS!!! Wow that is amazing! It looks like I am also going to be a SAHM so we can have each other.
As for the breastfeeding class I left there more nervous too! I think it is because of all the one baby stuff! I felt like yelling..."HELLO, two babies over here HELP ME!"
Oh...and the boys being right under your skin I feel the same thing! I keep thinking that this placenta must be sooo thin...lol I love to cuddle them from here even! Do you still have the pump coupon? If so Ia m interested. Let me know and I will pm you.

Monica...I can't thank you enough for thinking of us and giving us all these updates! I know you know how much we appreciate hearing from you like we are part of your family!

Lisa...Ice cream every day ...check
Can't breath...check
As for feeling left out with your friends I can totally realte to you. I know you have gotten plenty of advice while I was not here but I wanted to add a little bit myself. Have you felt more territorial during this pregnancy? I know Ihave with friends and DH. It hurts so much to be left out. Like when my friends plan vacations that I know I can't go to. And I also have a Bacholortte party on June 10th that I definately can't go to. I know the feeling.

AndreaR...you have big babies too! I am going to have another milkshake today to catch up! My boys need to grow! As for the water, I have to disagree with the girls here. I like my water at room temp. I find it so much easier to drink. Especially because I have trouble breathing, I feel like I can't breath when I am drinking water too cold. Let me know if that helps.

Rachel...Sorry to hear that you are in the hospital. Just rest, drink lots of water and think of these cuties coming soon!

Missy...I can't believe you won the $500 that is sooo cool! Congrats!

Well girls and Jason, I am off to shower and then visit my friend at the hospital again to see her new baby girl! She named her Lily. I love that name. THEN tonight I am going for my 3D u/s at 6:00. I will post the results! Wahoo!

Thanks for missing me!

[Daniele'sTwins]

okay, I figured out my message board problem. When i do get on to check the posts I read and take notes so it takes me so long I sometimes just say, "Ok, I will write later" because I don't want to be rude and not respond to what you have said. BUT from now on I will post about me and then go back and read so that you know I am ok.

[Jillmami]

I agree with Monica - take the misery and run with it. NICU is not a fun place to be.

All is well. As you may remember, our son Noah was never on any oxygen support and his sister TJ has been on a nasal canula since birth. She is now free of that as of Thursday morning!! The only thing they each have, besides the little monitor wires is the nasal feeding tube. :clap: They both continue to thrive as they co-bed. (Monica, just wait until they are together, it's awesome to watch how they interact with each other.) They were also moved to a step up nursery where the nurse:baby ratio is 1:3-4 instead of 1:2. They actually assign the nurse who is on transport duty to our babies since they do not require a lot of intervention. *Fingers/toes crossed, prayers in line that this continues.

TJ began at 1 pound 12 ounces and is now up to 2 pounds 5 ounces. Her brother began at 2 pounds 3 ounces, dropped below 2 pounds and is now at 2 pounds 7 ounces. It is amazing to see their transformation. Noah had to go on meds to close his valve which kept him from breastmilk for a few days. Starting back on milk will take him a week or so to catch back up regarding weight gain. It's all a matter of time and baby steps.

Like Monica, I read the posts and that's about all I have time for between driving to the hospital, pumping, eating, and sleeping. We are 30 min. from the hospital so we do not qualify for any lodging. It's not too bad. We are members of a multiples group who bring us snack packs, clothes, gas cards, and meals. If you have one in your area, look into it. They are wonderful where we are here in northern CA.

Well, I'm off. I update our Kodakgallery weekly. I have changed the password so if you are interested in viewing the pictures, here is the info:
http://www.kodakgallery.com/milestwins
If you need a password, it's the same as our pregnancyblog: miraclemiles
Let me know if that does not work or if you need any other info!

Thank you again for the support and prayers!
Jill, Kevin, TJ, and Noah

[newmomx2]

It is cloudy and rainy here and my mood is the same - I don't know whey I was just at the Doctor and everything is fine..although like Lisa I am starting to have BH contractions which worried the doc so they checked my cervix and I think did and ffn test...no one mentioned how painful it is to get your cervix checked - OW...but she send I am closed and long so that is good and then she looked at something under the microscope and said you are fine (do you think what she looked at under the microscope as the ffn results?)

Heartbeats were good to !! So like I said not sure why I feel so blah..given that everything was okay she did say like Lisa if I start to have more than 4 BH in an hour or they become painful off to L&D for me...she okayed me to keep working from home 40 hours per week but she said that under no circumstances am I to go to the office and we will reassess everything in 2 weeks when I go back..

Danielle glad all is well...I know what you mean by tired - I get done with 8 hours of conference calls and feel like I could pass out...somehow this weekend I need to get my butt upstairs to pay bills, file etc, I have breastfeeding class on Sat and my in-laws are coming Sun..ugh I just want to sleep..DH is working 80 hours per week and only has off Fridays...so I am bummed to not have him around..he is in the shower now and we are hoping to spend some time together later after my meetings.

Okay done with my post I rambled and complained enough for one day.

[Daniele'sTwins]

Jill...I am so happy to hear that TJ is off the nasal canula! That is some great news! And they are both gaining weight! Now as for those pics!!!! THEY ARE SOOOO PERFECT! What beautiful babies! I love looking at them in the bed together! We are all so blessed aren't we! Keep up the great work mommy!

Missy... I hear you on missing time with DH. Mine leaves by 7am in the morning and a lot of times doesn't get home until after 8, sometimes 9! He says this will get a lot better when the boys are born...I hope so!

[megzmom]

Haven't read posts from last 2 days. I will after school...

Just need reassurance.

Found out that my sonogram with the spec 2 weeks ago showed abnormalties with Baby A's kidneys. Possible Kidney reflux. The sono showed extra fluid. I am not overly stressed out but concerned plus upset that the peri never mentioned it when we were there. My ob just assumed we knew.

I have gained less than I though which is crazy because I eat cookies and ice cream everyday! I am 28 weeks and measuring 35weeks.

Otherwise things are going good. Still concerned with dd's fever keeps coming back with headaches.

I'll post later...

[Daniele'sTwins]

Hi Heather...I am here for you! I am sorry that your peri did not mention such important information but maybe he/she didn't because it is really nothing. Sometimes when people are in the medical field they are like that. I notice that they don't get overly concerned. In some cases this is good but we have a right to know everything as the mommy!

As for your DD, poor thing! You both need lots of TLC today!

Thinking of you!

[vthompson]

Heather - I agree with Daniele, maybe the peri didn't tell you because there is nothing to worry about. If there was, I am sure the peri would have told you. I am sorry to hear about your dd. I think you two need some rest and relaxation this weekend!

Missy - We are having the same weather here, gloomy and rainy. I am sure that has something to do with your mood. Plus, you just want to rest and you can't, that makes anyone annoyed. Hopefully, you will find some time this weekend to relax. I am glad to hear that all went well at your appt.

Jill - Thanks for updating us! We were starting to get worried. I LOVE your pictures! It is amazing to see how much they change from week to week. Most of all, I loved to see both babies together. That was precious! It sounds like both babies are doing really well. :clap:

Daniele - You were about to get in trouble by all of us!! We were worried. No more MIA's...I am glad to hear that everything is ok. I am so glad that you are able to stay awake for a c-section. That is great news! I also hate the way every doctor is so different! All I can say is hang in there, maybe the doctor will let you deliver before 39 weeks. If not, we will be here to support you!!

Lisa - Make sure you are listening to your body and continue to cut your hours back as needed! I am worried about you!

Valerie

[Tiny Blessings]

Hi ladies...

Wanted to check in. It's been almost a week! It has been a busy week on the board, but I have been checking in and reading posts as I can but haven't had time/energy to post back. Glad to see that overall, everyone is doing well and keeping those babies in. There was too much to respond to everyone's posts, so forgive me for that. I must try to do better with writing more often.

Had our level II on Tuesday. Everything looks good...Heartrates were 136 and 149, fluid levels were good and both boys scored 8 out of 8 possible points. Both are now exhibiting the practice breathing movements, which is a good sign. Baby A weighs in at 2 lbs 90z (69th percentile) and Baby B at 2 lbs 10oz (71st percentile). We got a few more 3-d pics and this time got one of Baby B's face which he had been hiding every other time. How sweet they are! :throb:

Crazy work week...tried to stay home and work one day but ended up getting called in and worked all day. Yuck. I can relate to those who wrote about having a hard time getting the water in. I have never been a drinker and getting four of those .5 liter water bottles into me a day is all I can ever handle. My doc said it was okay given the other liquid like milk servings. I hope he's right...

Great news ladies on the promotion, the SAHM status, and the unexpected $500 windfall.....HOORAY! :clap:

Tina

[EBTwinz]

HI all, I gotta make this quick b/c I am at dh's new office and they are hooking up the phones, but I wanted to respond to Heather. At my last level II, the peri told me that there was a little bit of fluid in one of the kidneys. But, made it seem like it's not a big deal. I researched it online and it happens in over 50% of u/s at this point in the pregnancy since the babies are now going to the bathroom. I talked to my OB about it and he told me that it's not a concern and was mad that the peri even mentioned it to me b/c it just made me worry about nothing. So, I hope that is a little reassuring. I dread the level II's b/c every time I have gone, they "found" something little that they feel the need they have to tell me but it's "nothing to worry about". Hang in there and talk to your OB about your concerns. I am sure it's just one of those things that happens and will end up not being a big deal. I think Sherry said that her son has something similar when he was born. Maybe she can shed some light on this.

Daniele: So glad to hear from you!!! I will save the scolding for later.

Jill: Glad to hear the babies are doing well. I will have to check out those pics.

Lisa

[vthompson]

I just got fantastic news. The disability insurance company called and they approved my benefits!!! :yippee: They are mailing out a check today. YEAH!!! I feel so relieved now! Just wanted to share my news!

Jill - I am happy that you posted. I was thinking about you today and trying to remember the last time you posted. I was getting ready to post asking if anyone remembered hearing from you. It sounds like the babies are doing great! Make sure you are trying to take it easy at work. Don't overdo it!

I have a question for everyone. I was wondering if anyone gave thought as to what they are going to do with the babies after delivery at night. Are you going to keep the babies in your hospital room at night or send them to the nursery? So many people keep telling me to send them to the nursery so I can get some rest but I just don't know if I feel comfortable with that. Our hospital has pull out couches so DH is going to stay over so there would be 2 of us. I was just wondering what other people's thoughts were.

Valerie

[swineland]

Yay, Daniele is alive! :clap: Yeah, no more of this MIA bidness......
I most certainly do still have the Medela coupon and I'd be happy to send it. You can PM me (I've never done that before!) or email me, whichever is easier for you. My email is swineland@earthlink.net.

So, it took me 3 hours, but I cleaned the entire house spotless! As you all know, the in-laws arrive today and I'm just dreading it. I'm trying as hard as I can to change my perspective and look at things differently, but all I can picture is their crap all over the house and how they leave the tops of the cereal boxes open and not rolled down. :mad: Anyway, part of me thinks "let it go, Steph". The other part of me says "uh, no...this is YOUR house and you have a right to be anal about things...not to mention being 8 mos. preggers with twins!".

Anywho, I stopped by Wendy's to grab some lunch and they have these new sandwiches called Frescata's....they have turkey, ham or roast beef I think. Anyway, I got the black forest ham with swiss and it comes on this yummy sourdough roll with lettuce, tomato and some kind of sweet tasting mayo stuff...it was DELISH! It was nice to see a healthier option instead of a hamburger. (Of course when it came time for me to decide between the Baked Lays chips or the fries, I got the fries! :crazy: )

Well, I have GOT to go lay down.....the time is ticking and tonight my world gets turned upside down. Better sleep while I can!

I'm glad that everyone has checked in and is doing okay, relatively speaking. Jill, your photos are amazing and I thank you for posting them. I know I speak for everyone when I say that I LOVE seeing those babies and hope they continue to do better each and every day.

I'll write more later....
Oh, and rest assured you'll be hearing me complain to you guys for the next 10 days while THEY are here. :)

Steph

[newmomx2]

My Doctor said that the chances are they will have to spend the first night in the NICU even if it is just for observation they take this precaution 9 times out of 10 with twins...so not sure I have the choice to have them in the room - if I did I would want them brought for breastfeeding but will have them put back so I can rest - I figure the quicker I get my strength back the better especially since there will be no rest for the weary once I am home..

just my 2 cents.
WAHOO on the disability - that is better than winning 500 dollars:yippee: :yippee:

[megzmom]

Lisa - thank you so much for your advice and info. I really am not worried. everyone else thanks for the encouragement

Glucose/Iron-good news, passed the glucose screening yesterday. Need more iron but that isn't new for me.

Jill-thanks for the update! I love hearing about "our" June babies. I totally agree with you about getting involved int eh local twins group if you have one. Some mentioned not wanting to sell and such. The more experienced mothers do any fund raising. The newbies are the ones that are really helped in this. Plus when they do get to playing age, its great to have others that have the same parenting dilemas and it adds extra eyes to keep track of the double troubles. I have only been to one meeting (newmemebers and a garage sale) and really love the people. There was only support-like here-not pressure/commitment. Most of the funds are based on yearly twin dues $30 in my area and any trinkits you buy.

My area also does meals and snacks for bedrest or new moms. Even better, they have a blood donation list in case any children need some or you can donate on a families behalf which reduces the hospital fee (like a credit)

okay long post... very long day. I might be able to stay home starting May without disability pay because I still have my summer $ coming. I am torn because I LOVE my students and have seen them this far. I really want to do their last report card but of course my babies are 1st.

Thanks again for the support with dd illness and Baby A (Zachary's) kidney issue.

[megzmom]

Just pondering and forgot to post (prego brain!)

My dd was born with soft but long nails. If the babies have nails too, how come they don't scratch open our placenta. Strange I am sorry. Had a crazy dream about them coming out by digging.

okay hopefully didn't scare anyone jsut was thiniing....hhhmmmm....

[teresa67]

Heather you made me giggle. Their little fingernails are so soft I don't think they can do any damage to the sac they are in. I'm dreaming those weird dreams too.

[vthompson]

Heather - I was laughing about the nails and your digging dream! I am glad to hear that you should be able to quit working in May. As for the students, you could always come back and visit them, but at least you won't be under all the pressure/stress of the everyday tasks that come along with teaching. Congrats on passing the glucose screening. Believe me, it is a royal pain to be testing your sugar 4 times a day! I am happy to hear when you guys pass your tests!

Steph - You feel free to post anytime during the next 10 days. I don't blame you! I hope you did not overdo it by all that cleaning today. Make sure you listen to your body while the inlaws are here. Rest when you need to!!

Talk to you gals and guys tomorrow!

Valerie

[Jillmami]

It's funny you mentioned about fingernails. I had to 'trim' my sons today. He slept right through it. About half of his nails were so long they were hanging off on the ends so I had to trim them. I tried to use scissor/clippers then opted for just biting them off since they are so soft they come right off. Weird how fast they grow once they are out of the womb!

Continued prayers and best wishes for you all and your families!

[Tiny Blessings]

I have a question for everyone. I was wondering if anyone gave thought as to what they are going to do with the babies after delivery at night. Are you going to keep the babies in your hospital room at night or send them to the nursery? So many people keep telling me to send them to the nursery so I can get some rest but I just don't know if I feel comfortable with that. Our hospital has pull out couches so DH is going to stay over so there would be 2 of us. I was just wondering what other people's thoughts were.

Valerie


Hi Val...this is a good thing to be thinking about. I caution that it might depend on your birthing situation, how the delivery goes and whether your babies need extra care or not. that is great about the couch for DH, too. My hospital doesn't have that. Both options have their obvious advantages...you will be tired and need to rest but there is also a feeling of excitement and elation once the baby arrives...euphoric is the word that comes to mind...so it is hard to sleep anyway.

I plan to keep the babies with me in my room assuming they do not need a nicu placement or specialized care. With my son, I did this the first night and it was great. The nurses wake you up more than the baby anyway! LOL My son was my first and I was paranoid about baby swapping and him getting mixed up with someone else's baby so my DH's charge was: once that baby popped out, he was to go anywhere they took that baby no matter WHAT was happening with me. He kept his promise and stayed right by the baby's side until I was able to get to the nursery and be with him,too. Anyway, I was so excited that he had finally arrived I wanted him in my room with me that night and it felt good to look over at him sleeping in his tiny isolette right beside me at arms reach. Now I feel the same way and will want to have them beside me in my room. My delivery was vaginal and not a C section, so I don't know if that would make a difference, but I think that it could. I don't feel that having him in my room negatively impacted my rest. Besides, when my son was transferred the next night to a NICU, I ended up in the NICU most of the night sitting beside him so I could be close, so in my case it wouldn't have allowed me any more rest.

Just my two cents...either way, don't lock yourself into a decision now. Know your options and go with how you are feeling physically and emotionally when they arrive. They will have excellent care in the nursery if you need to get some rest!

Tina

[swineland]

Good morning everyone!

Lisa, I too slept like crap last night. I didn't even go to bed until like 11 (which is HIGHLY unusual for me) and I was still up tossing, turning, peeing, etc. That's after a Tylenol PM as well. My groin area hurts and my back is, of course, always killing me. I guess I'm going to go lay back down and see if I can recoup a couple of hours....but believe me, I understand the bad night's sleep!

I have a baby shower to attend today at 4 for a friend and I guess I better go wrap the present (baby papasan chair, which we also registered for). They are so cute!

I'll write more later....
Steph

[EBTwinz]

Oh, I forgot one thing, is anyone getting really tired of telling strangers that they aren't due for another two months? This past week, everywhere I went, someone asked me "when are you due?" as if they are surprised to see me out in public and not in the delivery room. One woman asked if I was due yesterday. (Ha ha...very funny.) I know I am gettting big, but I didn't realize I look full term or ready to pop. Maybe I am just getting used to my size. I guess the fact that I waddle everywhere I go doesn't help matters. People probably think I am in a ton of pain (which I am). I am just getting annoyed of telling people that I don't even know that I am having twins, no they don't run in my family, yes they were conceived naturally, they are boys, no they probably aren't identical... I am just going to make up a t-shirt that says all this stuff so people will leave me alone! I guess I should enjoy the attention, but I am tired of people staring at me. I am getting self-conscious!!! (did I spell that right?)

[EBTwinz]

Steph: Just saw your post. Although I do not wish this pain upon anyone, I am glad to know that I am not alone. Also, I think I have the same papasan chairs you mentioned. Are they a neutral color, w/ a little bunny hanging from the top? I received two of them as a shower gift. I love them! I want one for myself!!! LOL!

[vthompson]

Hello Everyone! It must have been the night of really bad sleep...I didn't fall asleep until 1am, which is upsurd (sp?) for me! Then, every time I rolled over I got up to go the bathroom and the crotch pain was terrible! Plus, I have some new weird thing going on...my legs, feet, and hands are REALLY itchy lately. Not all the time, but when they start to itch, they don't stop! It is sooo annoying! I do not have a rash or anything, did not change laundry soap, so I do not know what the problem is. Ok, enough complaining!

Tina - You always have such good advice, especially having a child already. Thanks!! I think I will just play it by ear and see how I feel. I was just curious as to what other people were doing.

Lisa and Steph - Sounds like we all had a lovely night! We just have to keep chugging along, it will be here before we know it!!

I will check in later...

Valerie

[TMoT]

Hi, Ladies!
Daniele, Tina, Jill - GREAT to hear from you all!!!!! Jill, TJ and Noah look so wonderful! :'-) You are doing such a tremendous job and I admire you so much!!! Keep it going, girl! All our love and support is behind you!!

Daniele, I understand you needed a break. I get the same feeling some times. Just glad that you're doing okay. :-))

Tina, I admire you as much as always! I don't know how you do it, but I just think you're amazing!!! :-))

Heather, I did have kidney reflux with ds#1. I'll try to find my post to Lisa about it, fyr, but it is quite a common occurance in baby boys which tends to correct itself "spontaneously" after birth (and they go pee for the first time?)... You just have to watch to see if he outgrows it, otherwise, the docs will let you know what you have to do. In the meantime, don't worry a lot about it. All will be okay. :-) ...And, CONGRATS on the good gd test!!!

Valerie, congrats about the disability! :clap: *PARTY TIME!* :clap: What a relief that must be. I'm happy for you! ...About the babies in the room, I'm totally with Tina! Especially that first night. You might feel exhausted and all that, but the excitement of their presence, and getting to oogle and ogle at them all night is such a rare experience -- you just gotta treasure it! :-)) Besides, they're usually just as exhausted from it all as you are (esp in the case of a vaginal delivery), they'll probably sleep more than you will!!!! :-)

Steph, good luck with the inlaws! I'm amazed at how well you cleaned and prepped everything. Just be sure to draw the line when you have to -- YOU ARE NOT THIER MAID! And, tell them so, if you need to!!! ;-) We'll all be rooting for you and sending you support vibes...

Lisa, sorry about your suffering! I can't even think of anything else you might try that you haven't (except a heating pad)... Do you sleep with a pillow between your knees/thighs, though? I get extremely achey (in my pelvis/hips) during the night if I don't have that support. Gosh. Wish there was something I -knew- would help. That spinningbabies site does have some strange laying positions you can try to get them out of your crotch area, and apparently it works. But it's up to you if you want to try...!!! (We won't laugh -- I promise!) Either way, you're right though! You're almost there! Just keep holding on!!!!

Missy, congrats to you too on the good appt, but you hang in there too with the bh! As always, please make sure you're drinking enough you-know-what!!! Btw, I always drink my water room-temp (or warmer) and I find it goes down a LOT easier this way. Just me though, I guess..... (?!) Also: Fish??? Well, Omega-3 at least. It really does help to kick the blues, I swear! :throb:

Heather/Jill, I always bit my babies' nails off too. Their little nail beds are so hard to find, it's just safer to use your mouth (!!), as silly as it seems. We can tell so much more that way and don't risk cutting them, poor darlings... :-)

Well, for me, today's big accomplishments were: Trimming the boys' hair and re-coloring my burgundy "highlights"!!! I had an old box of fire-engine red hair-dye in the cupboard, so I used that on my hair-ends (the burgundy had basically gone "pink"!), and we'll see how long it lasts... I'll probably end up with another shade of pink soon, though, and then I'll just dye it all back to black I guess... In the meantime, it'll be anyone's guess what all of our hair-color will be when the twins arrive! How funny!!

Boys are off to their father's now for a week. :-(( I sure am going to miss them, even though I feel like a Mom-in-absentia even when they are here, sometimes. I just spend so much time sleeping or laying in my bed when I can... But they are marvelous. They are my two little lights, and I can't believe I'll be having two _more_ soon! :'-) It overwhelms me when I think about it. :-)))

Well, dh made dinner plans with some friends for tonight, so I gotta get running... Dinner is okay, but I think they're expecting us to come socialize for the rest of the evening too, and i KNOW I'm just not up to that. Wah...

Meantime, we were supposed to be doing that Big Move I mentioned this weekend, remember? Well, it basically fizzled out. We managed the IKEA trip yesterday (finally!), but didn't have enough time to get everything decided on, organized and paid for by the time the store closed, so we have to go back...!!! At the same time, dh didn't manage to coordinate enough people to help with the move anyway, so the point would have been moot regardless of the Ikea debacle. *sigh* Oh well. I'm just not going to stress about it. All in due time... (?!!)

So, hope you're enjoying your weekends, everyone. We're on our way now. Take care!!!

[allyf8903]

been a while since i was on. but getting to the 4-6 week point. have had enough. anyone else to this point yet? i can cry at the drop of a pin. i cant move and i am tired all the time. i am actually ready to loose faith in what the next few weeks are going to bring my way. i am 32 weeks today. i am always out of breath and my bathroom is either upstairs or in the basement. i have to do the stairs always. i am so damn tired i just cant stand it. i really dont know how much more of this i can take. im crying now actually :( does anyone else feel the same way. i drink so much water that i could float away, my feet, legs and hands are so swollen that i dont even remember what they looked like b/f i got pregnant. they really only began to swell just within the last week, but still like i need that! i hate having people help me and do my laundry, clean and cook. i hate that but i have had to adjust to that. i guess now i am really to feel bad for myself. any suggestions from anyone to get out of this rut and get through the next 4-6 weeks? i cant sleep and everything gives me heartburn. help! i am so down in the dumps! i know this will pass but any suggestions on how to cope until they are born? thanks in advance.

Allison
Adrianna 8-9-03
Ident twin girls due 6-2-06

[allyf8903]

sorry to vent like noone else here is goin through the same thing but i am just tired i guess. sorry everyone...

Allison

[TMoT]

Hi, Allison. Unfortunately (?), I'm not yet in your shoes, but I'm sorry you're doing so badly. You sure are CLOSE though. Maybe that doesn't give you much comfort, but doesn't it put things a bit in perspective???? 4-6 weeks out of 40 is really VERY LITTLE LEFT TO GO!!! You could say you're 90% THERE! :clap: And, you're doing all the right things, so just please hang on a bit longer!

For the "dumps," I keep telling everyone to eat their fish (!), but no one else seems to take me seriously, so I don't know if you will either to be honest...? Omega-3 (found in salmon, cod, flaxseed, etc. -- just google it) is proven to fight depression and -- more recently -- carpal tunnel (those swollen hands/feet?) and other things we suffer during pg. In addition, your babies are "robbing" you of this fatty acid to develop their own brains, optical nerves and nervous systems, and the only way to replenish it for your _own_ brain is to consume it by eating the things I mentioned above... Getting enough fish/"brain food" is also proven to fight "blahs" in general, and post-partum depression, bi-polar disorder, and other "conditions," in specific.

Not saying it's a panacea (or that it works at the drop of a hat). No. You actually have to integrate it (including supplement form) into your diet. BUT, I think you might find the results are positive pretty quickly, if you can just try to stuff a piece of salmon into that walnut-sized tummy of yours right now...? It's SO GOOD for _you_ and for the babies (think about it developing their BRAINS, for goodness' sake!). Well, just a thought....

For the rest, please -- as hard as it is, I realize -- try to stay as positive as you can. You've come so far already. You are doing a SUPER job! :clap: And, if it's any consolation, we've only got two bathrooms on four floors, so I'm ALWAYS doing the stairs too!! I say it's my only form of exercise these days, but I'm still 4 weeks behind you! :'-(

Well hang in there best you can! Not much further to go. Just keep cookin' and let everyone else do the work -- NO GUILT!! You deserve one long break till those babies come! ...GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!

[teresa67]

Sherry,

Everyday I take 2 Expecta capsules, it's an omega 3 supplement from a non fish source. I don't really care for fish, so I don't eat it much, and I don't like burping on fish oil...blech, so I take 2 of those a day because I'm having twins and feel that it is soooooo important to give them that supplement, for eye and brain development. We sound like a info commercial LOL. Sherry you should pop over to the may thread, were having babies!!!!! Just brings it into perpective how close we are getting. My c section is scheduled for May 1st, but as I was leaving doc told me she thought I'd have April babies, meaning I wouldn't make it to that date. I think if your pregnant with twins you really shouldn't even think you'll make 40 weeks at all. I don't see how you do stairs to go to the bathroom. Its really getting hard to get out of bed and make it to the bathroom now, due to heaviness and can't get my legs to move because of pain. I'm measuring 47 1/2 fundal height, I know with twins some dr's don't even measure, but I think mine does just for fun, we have a good laugh about it after she does it each week. I am so belly heavy now Sherry, I really can't get around anymore. Today we went into a store and I had my husband push me in a wheelchair, and I swore I would not do that, but I just wanted to go do something. It seemed to really hit me maybe a week ago, until then I was going everyday. You take care and will talk to you soon. Hugs to you, and take it easy.

[AndreaR]

Allison,

So sorry to hear you are feeling so yucky. I think it's normal. I think that besides Teresa, you may be one of the furthest along here. I am 30 weeks today, and I feel a little like you do, but not all the time. I do imagine that within the next seven weeks (my c-sections is scheduled for June 1) that things are going to get worse and worse. I know that almost all pregnant women feel like you do at the very end. In our situation, we are as big now as a full term singleton pregnancy! And we have weeks to go and continue to get bigger!! I would take Teresa's suggestion and visit the May board (if you don't already). You will probably find that the women there are feeling just like you, and you can hear the wonderful stories of the births that have already taken place.

It sounds like you have a pretty good support system, if you have someone to help with cooking/cleaning and I think the makes a big difference. Try to rest as much as you can (I know - it's hard to get comfortable enough to rest). Maybe spend some special time with Adrianna to help occupy your mind? I'm not sure where you live, but here in Massachusetts, we've had a few nice sunny days here and there. Can you get outside at all? Sunshine helps a lot when you're feeling down. And if you're feeling cooped up because you're too big to walk around, perhaps you can get someone to wheel you around a mall, or even a museum? Just some suggestions...

I know what you really need is lots of hugs and someone to rub your back. I ask my nieces and nephews to rub my back whenever I see them. They love to do it, and even those little hands feel good. Maybe that could be a job for Adrianna?

I'm sending you virtual hugs. :throb: HANG IN THERE! You are doing great, and you are so close. YOU CAN DO IT! YOU ARE GREAT!:throb:

AndreaR

[vthompson]

Allison - I am so sorry that you are having such a hard time and feeling so blue lately. You are so close to the end, not much longer to go so try and hang in there, even though I know it is hard. It sounds like maybe you do need to get out for a little, that should help. I liked the idea of the mall or museum and using a wheelchair. I am currently on bed rest, and just today, I really needed to get out so my DH and I went to the mall and rented a wheelchair and he wheeled me around. I really feel so much better now, as if I can get through another week. I highly suggest it. As for the house chores, the best thing you can do is try and give up control and let other people help you. It will get easier with each passing day. I am sending you lots of hugs and encouragement! :grouphugg

Sherry - Sorry to hear that you did not get to do the move this weekend, but at least the process has been started!! What all are you getting?

Talk to everyone soon. It is pretty slow this weekend.

Valerie

[TMoT]

Teresa, thank you so much for making me feel like less of a freak for harping on this stuff all the time... ;-) I have the supplements which come from fish, and you're right, it's pretty gross to burp up fish taste when you have't eaten fish recently (or even if you HAVE -- ick)!!! I only started eating fish again with this pg for the sake of the babies, but I really don't mind it at all. Don't you think it makes a difference as far as personal "outlook" goes? Especially when I'm feeling weepy, etc., I know it's a "fish" day... ;-)

Made me laugh with your 47.5 week measurement, and you and doc getting a chuckle over that! My doc hasn't measured my fundal height this entire pg! Still kinda curious, though, to know what it would be (NOT)! ...Just can't believe you're basically ELEVEN MONTHS PREGNANT!!!!!!! WOW! :clap: :rotflmbo:

Remember that I'm only at 28 weeks now, too, T. I can still "do" the stairs okay, but frankly, I'm getting worried about having to pick the boys up from school (on foot) after Easter break is over... :-( That one mile walk really takes it all out of me, although I'm sure it's good for me at the same time.... (?!)

Those girls are so big now, I wouldn't be surprised if they come in April either... How do you feel about that though? Sounds like you'd be ready/relieved...?! Well, we'll just leave it to God and Mother Nature, and I'm sure everything will go smoothly. I'm getting SO EXCITED for you -- even though it must be tough hanging in there. Glad dh "took" you to the store. I suppose you really needed that... Well, try not to become too much of a mole. The outside "sights and sounds" are really good for you, I'm sure. Like that Omega-3, smart cookie! :throb:

Keep taking good care of yourselves, Teresa, and a big, warm hug for the three of you from me!!! xox
PS On my way to the May thread now. How exciting!!! :-)

[teresa67]

Sherry,

That's great you can still walk a mile. My doctor told me back then when I was still in the 20 weeks, everything in moderation. Your body will tell you when to slow down, well actually it hits you like a ton of bricks I think, then every week you can tell you get a little bit slower. I have days I have more energy than others, but I usually pay for it the next day being extra tired. I've just decided to rest and take it easy for the sake of my babies. I want them to cook as long as possible or until May 1st. Oh yeah.......and I LOOK 11 MONTHS PREGNANT!!!!!!! Seriously I do, I'm not joking LOL. You take care of yourself and those 2 little ones you got cooking......and for goodness sake take it easy, now I get to worry about you walking that mile.:throb:

[megzmom]

Heather -check. Didn't do too much this weekend. Just wanted to check in.

Actually I want to see my ticker too. Can never remember what week I am on. I get two emails every weekend and they are a week off of each other. Too confusing.

[Daniele'sTwins]

UGH! I aM SOOO MAD RIGHT NOW! i JUST POSTED THE LONGEST POST AND NOW i LOST IT!!!!! I COULD HONESTLY CRY RIGHT NOW!

[Daniele'sTwins]

I honestly just responded to everyone, posted all that I did thins weekend (which was way too much) and let you know about my 3D u/s that I had on Friday! When I tried to post pics from the 3D it lost my whole post! UGGGGGGHHH! I should just go back to bed!

[Daniele'sTwins]

http://www.babycrowd.com/jr/online/mallaritwins/

If you want to see my 3D pics...I have to update my picks on there too. I took some belly shots last night that I need to add, the ones there are from several weeks ago now.

Felisha...I wrote you a long one but bottom line was, I hope you are getting rest today!

And I bought the Boppy "WEDGE" for pregnant bellies this weekend and I really like it. Just a tip as our bellys keep growing

[EBTwinz]

Just checking in. Still in a ton of pain. Didn't do much this weekend. We finished the nursery so I will have to post pics. I called off work. I feel like my ribs are broken and I can't get a decent night's sleep. I am going to lay down w/ the heating pad and take some extra strength tylenol. I will check in later.

~Lisa

[Daniele'sTwins]

I just realized that I have a doc appointment at 10! I completely forgot about it! I feel like calling to say that I am too tired to come in to listen to heartbeats but I know I can't.

[Daniele'sTwins]

hope you feel better Lisa!

[swineland]

Hey everyone!

Lisa, so sorry to hear that you feel so yucky right now. Take it easy today and get horizontal! That rib pain is a constant of mine and it's always worse when I'm sitting straight up.

Daniele, how frustrating about your post! I know how long it must have taken you, especially since you are always so sweet about replying to everyone. Rest assured though, we just want to know you're alive and well.....so don't worry about individual responses.

Felisha, glad you dodged another bullet in the way of "extreme" weather! I thought of you again when the second round of storms hit before the weekend. Here's sending some Florida sunshine your way! ALso, congrats on 30 weeks! I, too, am 30 weeks today....yay! :clap:

Well, the in-laws are here and I"m trying to deal with it. MIL keeps telling me how exciting this all is and how wonderful it's going to be and she literally tells me this 5 times a day. I want to say "well, yes it's exciting, but right now I feel like crap and it's not going to be this fairy tale wonderworld when they're born.....it will be pumping, b'feeding and more pumping and diaper changing. Let's save the "oh, what fun!" comments for afterward." I KNOW that sounds harsh and maybe a little bratty, but it's how I feel. I was complaining yesterday about something, my back hurting or my rib pain or something, and she says "I know, but it's all worth it....it really is". I wanted to reach across and smack her. Not to mention I've already had to push her chair in 5 times b/c when she gets up from either the bar stool at the counter or the dining room chair, she leaves the chair totally pushed out. It's all trivial, I know, but I'm feeling extra sensitive these days. My skin feels like it's SO stretched, I can't imagine getting any bigger, though I know I will.

Well, I'm going to go lay back down and "hibernate" some more.
Hey, one quick question:
Is anyone noticing now that the babies are getting pretty far along and are actually "moving" more than just kicking how uncomfortable it is? The kicking is cute and fun.....I like that part. The actually flipping and whole body moving is the strangest and uncomfortable feeling for me. It's not painful in the sense of "ouch", but it's an uncomfortable pressure that almost takes my breath away. Just wondered if anyone else is feeling that.

I'll check back in later!
Steph

[allyf8903]

Good Morning ladies. Thought I would drop a line and tell you that I am doing ok. I thank you all for the support. I guess I have just had enough. Went out to dinner with my hubby and his family yesturday to celebrate his grandfathers 80th birthday and his grandmothers 78th birthday and their 56 wedding anniversary yesturday. Dinner went great except the first thing out of the waitresses mouth was "When r u due?" When I said another 4-6 weeks she didnt really have much to say. Her eyes got big and quickly asked what everyone would like to drink and left. Didnt think all that funny yesturday but today i can laugh about it! Eventhough I couldnt put my head over the table I had to put the napkin over my belly and bring the fork to my mouth. (dont know if that makes sense but i couldnt bend over toward the plate.) My legs are really swollen though. My ankles were the size of softballs by the time dinner ended. that will probably be the last time i go out to dinner until the babies r born.

But anyways. I jealous that so many people have a date for their c-sections. I asked my doc Thursday when I went to doc and he told me that there is no set date right now and that is how he wantes it. Atleast if I had that I would have a date to look forward to. I have had some mild contractions. He told me that every 10 minutes continuous for an hour just go to the hospital. My babies are both head down and baby A is right in the center. Before dinner, my hubby and Adrianna went to shop for a gift b/f dinner and it felt like A was sitting inbetween my legs. I kept telling my hubby that is was almost like A dropped down right down into my pelvis.

Cant sleep at night anymore either ladies and i can tell u that it doesnt get any easier the further you get. When I get up, even from sitting in the daytime too long, i feel like I am 80 years old. (Eventhough my hubbys grandfather and grandmother walk better than I do right now.) I have never been jealous of an 80 year old in my life! :)

Daniele your babies are so cute. I have many 3d sono pics of Baby A b/c she has been face up and 1 of Baby B b/c she is face down. the first 3d pic she turned just enough and we were able to get a quick pic. Nothing for her after that.

But i must call it an entry. lOngest that i have ever posted. Adrianna wants to get on computer now and i have hogged it. talk to you all soon

jhnnnnnmaaaaaaAAASSSSSDSDSS (that was Adrianna saying goodmorning to you all!):crazy:

Allison
Adrianna 8-9-03
Ident g/g 6-2-06

[LucasMom]

Good Morning! Glad to hear that everyone is still um...cooking, although I know we are all getting mighty uncomfortable. I had a baby shower thrown by my wonderful best friend this weekend, and was so overwhelmed by how much STUFF we got!

Danielle- Your babies look so cute and chubby! I loved the 3-d, it made them seem so real!

I am sorry I don't post to each response, but I am usually at work and trying to post in between doing other things. I wish people would stop asking me when I am going to stop working (family and co workers) because at this point I am just trying to make the time go faster.

Teresa- I hope your days go fast, I know you are so uncomfortable. I feel 20 months pregnant, and most people say I look "small for twins", whatever that means! I walked into target yesterday and these three women were sitting on a bench talking, and when I walked by the one woman said "Jesus!! look at her" I wanted to turn around and punch her, and I am a non violent person! Keep your mouth shut, people, we ladies don't want to hear it anymore!

I hope you guys had a nice weekend, and just think, April is almost half over already. We will be at the "safe" mark in no time and then we can all plan a jog-a-thon and run the babies out! What do you think?:) Just an idea!

My doctor, actually my midwife, because Doc is on Vacation, told me they would not induce me until 41 WEEKS!! She says if there is no medical reason, the babies will come out when they are ready. We'll see about that! I'll ask the Doc when he gets back, but are you kidding me? I have a medical reason...I am turning from a human into a COW...is that a reason?

Ha ha...I guess you have to laugh, otherwise you'd just cry from the pain right?

Have a lovely day ladies, and If I get pics from the shower I'll post.

Mindy

[AndreaR]

Mindy - yikes - I can't even imagine going to 41 weeks. It will be interesting to see if your doctor has a different opinion. But your babies will come when they are ready. I can't believe the comment those people at Target made. I bet you look beautiful - keep up the great work.

Steph - it sounds like you are surviving the in-laws' visit okay, even if they're getting on your nerves. I'm glad you feel comfortable enough to go "hibernate" and take time for yourself. I know what you mean about you MIL saying how wonderful everything is going to be when the babies arrive. It must seem like she doesn't (or won't) have sympathy for you when all hell breaks loose. But, on the flip side, I think it's better to hear positive stuff rather than the negative. There have been so many people telling me how awful it's going to be when the babies come: I'm not going to get any sleep, I'm going to be a breastfeeding machine, I'm not going to ever leave the house, my life is over... really. Why the heck to do they think I want to hear that?

Danielle - your 3D pics are so cool. I love those chubby cheeks!! I've been wondering about that wedge pillow - does it help? Does it go under your belly?? To me that doesn't make sense. It seems like it would squish your belly. I hope your doctor's appointment went well. And I know what you mean about being too tired to go.

I'm feeling too tired to do ANYTHING, these days. I don't know how some of you are still working. And Sherry - I CANNOT BELIEVE YOU CAN WALK A MILE!! I can't walk to the end of the driveway to get the mail without getting winded. Please be careful.

Felisha - I'm glad everything turned out okay and that you're home again with the babies still inside. That must have been so scary - especially with the tornadoes!! It sounds like your friends are wonderful and generous. That is great. And you have another shower to go!

Our weekend was nice, pretty quiet. I stayed in bed all day Saturday, so we could go out to dinner with some friends on Saturday night. It was really nice to be out and about, but by the end I was so uncomfortable, I just wanted to lay down in my bed. We were in Boston, and the restaurant was next to a very popular bar/nightclub. We sat by the window and watched the line for the club grow and grow. There must have been 100 people! There were six of us, and none of us could remember having the desire to stand in a line that long - and it was FREEZING outside, and the girls on line were dressed in tank tops. Oh, I felt soooo old and fat. Yesterday, our friend came to hang the wallpaper in the girls' room. It looks so beautiful. That is step two of five... Hopefully everything will be done next week, but it might be the week after. DH is in a panic.

Have a great day everyone - YOU ARE ALL DOING SO WELL! We just have a few more weeks to go! When I think I'm not going to make it seven more weeks, I think back to the day I found out I was pregnant. It seems like a lifetime ago. So, relatively speaking, I'm almost there.

AndreaR

ps. Ters, where are you???