Anyone else due in June "06

[Daniele'sTwins]

Sherry...I am home still and resting! I haven't even taken a shower yet (but I did brush my teeth). I had my groceries delivered this morning even! I am so glad you spent the day in bed. I am really trying to do that. Like Lisa said I am really active and it is hard for me but I need to protect and cook my babies!

Missy...I am sorry to hear about your grandmother. I was also soooo close to my grandmother, she lived right across the street my whole life. When I found out I was pregnant I cried because she wouldn't be here. Instead of crying anymore I just think of the impact she had on my life and I hope to do the same for my children and grandchildren someday. That really helps me.

I have noticed that my diet isn't as good as it could be. Do any of you feel this way? I eat a lot of ice cream, cheeseburgers, chocolate, etc. So today I had Special K instead of Coco Krispies and strawberries for a mid morning snack. For lunch I had a bowl of soup and just now I had an egg salad sandwich ( i haven't had one of those since second grade but a pregnant friend of mine suggested it and it sounded good). Well now I want chocolate of some sort! I am trying not to go downstairs. I really want to start limiting the junkfood. What do you guys think?

Okay now the water situation. I drink poland spring bottles. The water is actually good in RI but I still prefer the bottled water. How many bottles should I be drinking a day? Each bottle is .5 L (1PT,0.9FL OZ) LOL...I am sorry but I cannot figure it out! LOL

So who do you think will be next??? I am hoping we can wait until AT LEAST 32 weeks for the next person though. I am hoping for 36 weeks myself. That puts me at mid May, unless of course the babies would be too little then I will wait until 38 weeks! I want (like everyone) big healthy babies!

[qbanmom5]

I have been drinking water almost non stop since reading Jill's post yesterday. I told DH and it seemed to sink in finally and he is telling me to take it easy (NOW?) I guess a bit late is better than too late.

My cervix has also not been checked unless they do it during the u/s and don't tell me anything. I have an appt tomorrow and I will ask about it.

It's getting close girls. Kind of scary and exciting at the same time.

Steph: I love your poem. You have some talent there, girl.

Sheriba: where are you? I am going to start to panic every time someone is MIA...

Talk to you all later, Ters

[vthompson]

Well ladies, my doctor called today to give me the results of my sugar test...not good. My level was at 140, she said normal is between 65-135. So, I have to have the 3 hour test. Plus, my blood count was low so now I have to take iron pills. After I got off the phone, I just started to cry for some reason. I just felt like I have really been trying to do everything I can and eating as well as I can so how can this be happening. I just felt very frustrated. So, I decided, even though I only have 2 days left to take at work I am just going to take the day off tomorrow, go have the test and go home and rest. I feel overly emotional and overwhelmed. Well, I need to do some things at work so I will talk to you ladies later.

Valerie

p.s. I too, do not know what I would be doing without all of you! You are my saving graces!

[megzmom]

Danielle-I am so with you on the eating thing. Because I was so sick the first 4 months the food I ate was all good. Then watch out the 5th month and I balance out my fruit in the morning with Ice cream every night. My food likes are so strange-at the same time. I can eat cottage cheese with pickles and wash down with strawberry milk. All my favorites right now. Then an hour later have cheese and later ICE CREAM. I drink alot of milk but I really like my dairy products. Not so good on the water. I am usually at 16-32oz a day.

I feel the same way about reality check with Jill's delivery. Sometimes I feel invinsible. I am not having as horrible as all of you - yet. I still have major discomforts and hate that I can do the same stuff. Run out of energy too quickly but I still couldn't imagine myself delivering right now but Jill made it come close to home.

I also didn't think about anyone else going soon either but Danielle mentioned it and I really pray that we fair better than April board. I pray we all hold them in at least 34 weeks!!!!!!!!!!!!

[EBTwinz]

Oh, Valerie, I am so sorry!!! I will be thinking of you tomorrow!! Think happy, positive thoughts, YOU WILL PASS THIS TEST!! :) I think it's a good idea that you are taking off work tomorrow. Just take it easy and try not to stress too much. Oh, and bring a favorite book or magazine so you won't get bored during the test.

~Lisa

[newmomx2]

Yep you read right - I have had nearly 100 oz of water today - and the scary thing is I am only peeing once an hour obviously my body is finding a use for all the water - so ladies drink up !!!:spitwater

Valerie - I read that the GD test has a really high false positive so chances are really good you do the 3 hour test and everything is fine - just think positive and you will do great !

I still laughed the second time I read the poem I am going to send to my mom - it is just to funny:rotflmbo:

Well tonight is our 3rd labor and delivery class - 6 couples with twins in my class but I have not been able to confide a thing to them - but you guys I tell all :) Hubby works till 6pm and has to meet me there so I am gettting my neighbor to drop me off on her way to work so I don't have to park and walk the 1/2 mile (the hospital parking is really bad) then I will just go home with DH so he better not forget to come !

WORK -UGH what a crazy day - I manage 6 people, 1 is on a performance plan and I will probably have to fire him before I go on maternity - not a good situation - I am hiring a new person so have been interviewing like crazy and in between training a contractor to do part of my job while I am out so things don't break - YIKES I figure once I am done the transition I can mentally check out

My boss has been awesome about everything and even mentioned today that he still wants to promote me when I can come back - :yippee: of course I didn't mention that I might want to cut my hours back - I think I will wait for the promotion and 20% raise first then ask - that would mean same pay less hours

Well everyone have a great night and relax and drink water...

BTW no more babies until mid May - For now we just all adore Jill's little ones - looking forward to pictures

[AndreaR]

mommyof4at26 - I am so sorry to hear about your SIL. I think it's much harder dealing with these things while we're pg (w/ twins). Just like Heather and everyone else already said, we're here for you. I totally empathize with the feeling uncomfortable all day, and it makes me want to cry, too. When I feel myself losing it, I try to go to bed, no matter what time it is.

Danielle - it sounds like you are finally resting! Good for you. I'm sure Sherry is very proud (does anyone else feel like Sherry is kind of the "mother hen" of the board? ;) Thanks Sherry for caring so much and keeping us in line). About your diet, I feel the same way a lot of the time. I try to limit my unhealthy snacks (cookies and ice cream) to one or two per day, and I try to make sure that every other time I eat, I'm eating some protein and some vitamins (fruit and veggies). It sounds like you had a good day today. Egg salad is good! How about chocolate milk to satisfy your chocolate cravings? Also, Stoneyfield Farms makes a non-fat chocolate yogurt. I'm not a huge chocolate person, so I cannot personally vouch for it, but my mom and DH both say it's great. I eat a LOT of yogurt (2-3 per day). Regarding your water intake, I can't do the math for you either. hee hee. Actually, I don't know how much water we're supposed to be drinking in one day. I just try to drink as much as I possibly can. I know it's probably not enough, though.

Sherry - GOOD FOR YOU for sleeping in. That was your body (your babies) telling you that you needed it! I can't remember who mentioned that they felt like their belly got bigger when they slept for a long time, but I have noticed the same thing.

Valerie - so sorry about your glucose/iron test results. Don't feel like it's something you've done. Your body is going through A LOT, and there are plenty of women in the same boat as you. Hopefully you will ace the 3 hour test tomorrow. I think it's great that you are taking the whole day off tomorrow. You deserve it.

Numbness - I haven't had too much problem with this in my legs. When I get up in the morning, my feet are very tingly - to the point of hurting - but it goes away quickly when I get up. I'm having more of an issue with my hands being swollen. In the morning, it hurts just to make a fist, not even a tight fist. I feel like I have to get the blood pumping to them. Even now, if I make a tight fist my fingers hurt, especially in the joints. Anyone? Anyone?

Someone posted about being itchy all over and I forgot to respond. My skin has been terribly dry and itchy this pg / this winter. I would be so itchy I would cry. It's taken me a couple of months to find out what works (for me). In the shower, I use Aveeno Skin Relief Body Wash and then the Aveeno Bath & Shower Oil (this makes the tub VERY slippery). Twice a day I cover myself head to toe with either Aveeno lotion or Eucerin. The only problem area I have is the middle of my back, because I can't reach it. Sometimes DH will help, but he's usually gone before I even get up in the morning.

Well, I haven't checked my registry all day, so I think I'll mosey over the BRU site...

AndreaR

[qbanmom5]

Valerie: I am sorry about your test. I am sure tomorrows will be fine. I have read that GD happens to lots of pregnant women, so don't feel that it is something that you have done. You are a great mommy! Just don't worry.

Everyone else: Stay strong and positive. My prayers are with all of you and esp. with Jill.:throb:

Love to talk more, but gotta run. Does anyone else get horrible cramps in their legs/calves in the middle of the night. UGH!

Ters

[vthompson]

Thanks ladies for all the support! That is why I love all of you!! Well, I kind of chickened out about taking the whole day off tomorrow. I told them about the test and then kind of lied and said I had to meet with the doctor later in the afternoon but would come to the office in between. That way, I can go home early. They finally got me what I needed to start working at home in the afternoons starting Monday. They want to touch base with me and make sure I have everything I need before Monday. I figured I could go to work if it meant I got to come home starting the following week. I am so relieved for this new arrangement! Now Lisa, you need to start your part time hours, too!

Ters - Leg cramps at night - Check!

Andrea R - I have noticed that my hands are very swollen in the morning. In fact, I used to sleep with my wedding ring on. Now I take it off and wait until after I get ready for work to put it on. For whatever reason, the swelling goes away after I shower and get dressed.

Sherry - AndreaR is right, you are like the board's mom! You are so supportive and informative! We truly appreciate you!!

Newmomx2 - Good job on the water!! I am very proud of you!! That is great about the work promotion! I don't blame you for waiting to tell them you want to cut your hours. You better be taking it easy, though. It sounds like you were very busy today at work. We do not need anymore worries!!

Valerie

[mommyof4at26]

i dont know what i did but i feel like i pulled a muscle in my right top back part of my leg. i have had a heating pad on all day,when i take it off and get up topee it hurts

[TMoT]

Hi, all! Sorry to start this post on a "nagging" note, but first thing is first.... [WARNING: Preaching starts HERE!]

...Okay. Now here is something I want everyone to think seriously about as far as our water consumption is concerned (I know what you're thinking! "Here she goes AGAIN!!"): IF you become dehydrated -- which we are all far more susceptible to now that we have double+ the blood supply, all that amniotic fluid to accommodate AND _TWO_ growing baby-bodies in our tummies which need liquid "lubricant" to develop -- your body becomes physically distressed. When your body is in distress, it will go into "panic" mode and start evacuating "life-threatening" drains on its water-supply -- read: "Babies" -- unfortunately! :-( I don't want to freak anyone out, but this is just how serious this matter of drinking water is! If you become dehydrated, your body will start the contractions and LABOR in order to "kick" those babies "out" because they have become a "health hazard" to you personally -- which is something we ABSOLUTELY DO NOT WANT, of course. I can't make it any more succint/blunt/painfully frank than this. Bottom Line: We all MUST BE drinking upwards of a gallon of water each day -- nothing less! Whew. Okay. No more lecturing. Sorry!

Valerie, it will be okay!!!!!! :'-))) You're doing the right thing by taking off tomorrow and giving yourself a well-deserved break!!!!! With the blood sugar, please try to remember that the worst case scenario is that you'll have to watch your diet (even more!) and start insulin treatment -- but it's only temporary and the high blood-sugar will pass after the babies are born! (TERESA, cross-check me on this, please?!?) ...Don't be discouraged! You all will be FINE!!!! :throb: In the meantime, sugar is such a tricky thing! You think you are doing the right thing diet-wise, but there are sneaky ways it gets into your blood without you suspecting it. PLEASE check out the gd site here to get some "best practices"/prevention tips:

http://www.plus-size-pregnancy.org/gd/gd_prevention.htm

Most of all, Valerie, please try to STAY POSITIVE!!! I know it's hard, poor thing, but we are all here for you and you are going to do just great!! :aww:

Missy, that is so SWEET about your Grandma... :'-) My grandma died when my ds#2 was only 9 months old (that's over four years ago), but I _still_ think about and "talk" to her... She was such a lovely woman with the warmest laugh. I think just about everyone in our family has named a child after her, and I suspect we will too! Rose. It's beautiful anyway, but just that much more so because of who she is/was... :'-)))

Daniele, what restraint you're putting on yourself today! Way to go!!! ...That egg-salad sandwich sounds deelicious RIGHT NOW!!! I eat SO MANY eggs! They're like little protein-bombs that can get you really far with what your daily intake should be for the little ones... 'Course, you still have to be careful with cholesterol/bp/pre-eclampsia, but I think the negative impact of the eggs is minimal compared to their benefit. Maybe you should start substituting those cocoa krispies (?) with a couple of hard-boiled eggs first thing each morning, and start focusing all that energy you have MAINLY on you and those little ones now!!!!!?!!

Btw, I just did the calculation today!!! For .5L bottles, you need to drink almost EIGHT a day to make a gallon (=almost 4 liters to a gallon)!!!!!! Gurgle, gurgle....:spitwater

Heather, you are NOT invisible! I was thinking about you even when you WERE posting, and I thought you were MIA!!! :-) ...GREAT with the dairy products, although I can't say I want you making my lunch these days!! ;-) PLEASE try to take to heart what I wrote above about water. 16-32oz is not nearly enough, and we don't want to learn our lesson about this the hard way...! :-(( I just CARE about you! I repeat: You are NOT invisible!!!!!!! ;-)

Missy, you're amazing! I'm SO GLAD you're drinking all that water!!! I wrote to Jill before that your bladder is like a balloon: The more you drink, the more it expands to accommodate MORE liquid, etc., etc. That explains why you don't have to go potty much -- AND, of course, because your body _needs_ the water too, you're so RIGHT!!! ...About your work, my two cents: FIRE that person right now, and don't think twice about it -- you don't need the stress! (Wow. How draconian of me! Yikes!) ;-) And, get your promotion N-O-W too!!! ;-) Your boss is probably eager to make sure you're going to come back, but make him put his money where his mouth is already (now that he's vulnerable! ;-) and then negotiate your adjusted time when you're back on the job! Less stress for you. ...Am I dreaming? I just think you DESERVE that promotion and raise for all the @#$% you've put up with during this pg!!!!! 8o)

AndreaR: The tingling and swelling is from not getting enough water... (I'm a mina-bird, I know!!) :-( When your body doesn't get enough water, it tends to retain it. Hence the swelling, which causes the tingling, numbness, pain, etc., etc. This is just a sign that you need to start swilling the stuff. And, if that doesn't work, check out the carpal tunnel thread. I'm afraid this is a pretty common phenomenon for pg women -- and didn't Steph or Monica have the same thing??? Be sure you're not doing too much of the wrong movements (CT stuff) and that you're drinking your water. Otherwise, I also just read (as I posted yesterday) that Omega-3 fatty acids/fish oil are also good against CT. More of the _same song_ *chirp, chirp* from me. 8o( So sorry!!!!

Ters, I was having terrible cramps that even kept me awake at night!!! BUT, I started a magnesium supplement a few days ago and now they are GONE -- I swear!!!!! I had this with my other pgs too, but never so bad, and I remembered that my OB had me on a magnesium supplement for them then too... Just please try it. Apparently, magnesium is "known" as a cramp treatment. Let me know and good luck!!!!!!

...Tonight we went and saw/heard an awesome concert of, erm, electronica/jazz/post-rock (I would say...?!). It was in an auditorium with cushy seats and NO SMOKING, so I really enjoyed myself! Plus, the show was excellent!! My butt was numb on the ride home, but that was much better than having to stand the whole time. I can't imagine how you ladies who are in those horribly uncomfortable desk-chairs do it for 8-9 hours a day! :-( "NO hard labor for twin-pg Mommies!!!!!!!!!" "Lazy-Boys for ALL!!!!!" :-)

Everyone, take care of yourselves!!!!!

[TMoT]

Valerie, so sweet what you said about me being the board's "Mom"!! :throb: I don't mind that at all, as long as you all don't mind me nagging...!!(?!) ;-) I'm upset that you caved in about completely taking the day off tomorrow (or, as a real Mom, should I say, "I'm _disappointed_"??!?;-)), but it seems justified. I really hope it doesn't end up being one of those open-ended things you can't get out of tomorrow though (like what seems to happen to poor Daniele so much)!!! Well then, at least, you have the weekend to look forward to!!!!! :-D

mommyof4at26, I feel like Groucho Marx: "Doc, it hurts when I do -this-." "Then DON'T do that!!" ;-) If it hurts when you take the heating pad off, KEEP IT +ON+!!! ;-) Poor thing!! Our legs have to do so much changing to accommodate our expanding bellies/boobs/etc., it's no suprise that you've pulled a muscle somehow! Just (really) keep the heating pad on there and see if it goes away. Take a Tylenol too (my recent mantra)! And, if it doesn't get better in a day or two, call the doc!!!!! x

Beddy-bye time now... Btw, I got one of those pg pillows and I swear that's part of the reason why I slept so well last night/today!!! Move over heating-pad, I've got a NEW best friend...!!! 8o)

G'night Ladies! Sleep soundly!!!

[mmzill]

Valerie - I'll be thinking about you tomorrow with your GD test! I'm sure everything will be fine.

Sherry - thanks for all the advice on water......I think I need to increase my gulping!

There's others I'm leaving out, but I've got to get to bed. Have a good day tomorrow everyone!

~Monica

[teresa67]

Sherry,

glad to see your feeling better and had a great dr appt. I had mine today,
the girls are measuring 3 lb 12 oz and 4 lb. I knew I was feeling heavier, but
they have really grown. My sugar levels are good and I'm hoping after the babies come my body will return back to normal and I won't have to take the insulin anymore. I've had diabetes for 5 years, but never even had to take a pill for it. The placenta makes sugar and pregnancy throws your body out of whack and that's what caused my sugars to rise. It's so very important not to have high sugar levels during pregnancy. I had an ob that let my sugars go uncontrolled for 4 months, telling me my levels were acceptable, it wasn't until I changed ob's that I found out it wasn't alright. There can be heart damage to the babies along with alot of other issues, so it is very, very important if you do develop g/d to have it controlled during the pregnancy.
Talk to you soon, take care.

[TMoT]

WOW, Teresa! SUPER weights!!!! WAY TO GO! :10pound: You are doing SO well!!! Glad to see that all the misery and discipline is paying off in such a BIG way!!! :yippee: Can't believe that about your previous OB! ]-( So glad all three of you are in better hands now.

Keep taking good care of yourselves and thanks for writing!
xox

[megzmom]

Confused...were you all not able to read my posts? I read a couple of messages. Not sure what was going on...

I usually feel like I am talking to myself witht he students...hoping it wasn't going on here :)

[AndreaR]

Role call.....AndreaR....check!

Heather - I'm not sure why you think your posts aren't showing up. I saw a couple from yesterday. I laughed when I read about your cottage cheese/pickles/milk combination, and I think someone else commented on it. Have you posted more and they're not showing up?

Teresa - way to go on those weights! And thanks for the info on GD. Keep up the good work!

Sherry - what kind of pillow did you get? So far I've used two king sized pillows, and I thought they were doing the trick, but if you didn't even wake up to pee, then I want what you got!!

Valerie - Good luck with the glucose test today - you will ace it.

I've been wondering, for those of you who have had leaking boobs, is this your first pregnancy? I'm trying to figure out why it happens to some of us and not others.

Have a great day everyone! Happy St. Patrick's Day!

[swineland]

Good morning! Friday roll call: Steph, check.

Thanks for all that info on the water, Sherry.....I know I am not the BEST water-drinking person these days. One of the hardest things, and I know this is not much of an excuse, but if I'm out doing things (errands, shopping, etc) and I am chugging all this water, I have to stop at some nasty public bathroom like 5 times! So, I tend to only drink the water when I'm home (which thankfully is most of the time) but still......

Also, Sherry, I think Heather said she felt INVINCIBLE.....not invisible. But that was sweet of you to reassure her. :) You ARE our mother hen!

This week feels to me like I've literally shot into my 3rd trimester. My belly is no longer a gushy one, but really stretched, hard and MUCH bigger. The babies are not just noticeable anymore by kicking or punching, they are actually RIGHT THERE. Just sitting here I can reach down and feel one of them...whether it's a head, a butt or something else I have no idea. Last night I was laying on my side on the sofa with my head in DH's lap and I reached down and Evan had nestled himself right at my bikini line....like way down there at the very bottom of my uterus.....it was like "oh, there's a baby!" My husband FREAKED out. He was so blown away at how real it was and that he was, essentially, touching his son. I can only imagine what other cool surprises we have in store for us in the next 2 months.

HAPPY ST. PATRICKS DAY!!

No green beer for us....perhaps green tea? Oh, I know! Guacamole...that's green! and YUMMY!

Have a great day everyone...
Steph

[megzmom]

steph- thanks for the clear up. I always saw my post but when I saw invisible (yes I wrote invincible or I ment to) I thought you all couldn't see my posts. NEVER Mind just another crazy prego moment....

[EBTwinz]

Roll Call... Lisa... Check! :D (green smiley for St. Patty)

Heather: I read all of your posts, too. I was confused at Sherry's post about the invisible comment but after reading what Steph posted, it makes more sense. Sherry: I think you have preggers brain!! :)

Daniele: Junk Food? Check! I have the WORST diet! I want to eat carbs, all the time! I also want to eat french fries for every meal. I eat some sweets, but not a lot. For some reason, it leaves a really bad taste in my mouth and I have to brush my teeth right away. But, carbs or anything fried? Bring it on! Then I get the occassional craving for a tomato. Tomatoes and olive oil.... YUM! With bread... YUMMMY! (Must be the Italian in me)

Water intake: I drink the .5L bottles at work during the day. I think I down about 4 bottles a day. I don't know what that is equivalent to... I usually have another glass or two at home. But, I am peeing all day long! I am ready to buy depends diapers.

Sherry: I agree, you are the mother hen of the bunch! And the personal cheerleader! :yippee:

Teresa: Congrats on the great weights!!!! Woo Hoo!!

Ters: My cervix is checked during the u/s, too. But they never tell me how long it is. I guess no news is good news. However, I did have it checked the two times I went to L&D at the hospital for cramping. They just said, "Long, hard, and closed". Those are my favorite words these days! LOL! As for the leg cramps at night, about one month ago I woke up w/ a charlie horse. It hurt like h*ll!!! That was the only time I had it, but my leg was sore for a couple days.

AndreaR: It was me who posted about itchy skin. I will have to try the Aveeno. I take a bath each night to help w/ the aches and pains, but I just put in bath and body works stuff. Maybe that is causing me to feel itchy. Thanks for the tip!

Steph: My stomach is very hard, too. I can feel little lumps and I wonder if it's their butt or head. I sometimes push a little to see if they move but then I worry about hurting them. My dh had his arm around me this morning in bed and the babies started kicking on cue. He jumped back and was freaked out! It was cute! The babies always kick if I rub my stomach in a certain area. I wonder if they sense the warmth of my hand. Do you ever look at your stomach and wonder how there are TWO in there??? I am amazed at that everyday!!

Well, I am going away for the weekend. My shower is tomorrow! Yeah!!! I checked my registry last night and I am getting some really nice gifts! I kinda got a little emotional about it, b/c everyone is being so nice by buying the twins these presents. I will probably cry at the shower. I will try to post this weekend, but if I don't, don't worry about me. I am just out of town.

Talk to you all later. Have a great weekend, and make sure you all rest!!!!! Don't over do it!!!!

~Lisa

[EBTwinz]

I forgot one thing... Valerie: Good luck today!! Please try to check in so we know how you are doing. I will be thinking of you and sending good, postive thoughts your way! Low sugar.... Low sugar... Low sugar....

I have a question for you all... do any of you ever look at your dh's and get jealous of their waist size? I was looking at my dh's flat tummy was soooo jealous! I think he is a size 34. Oh, what I wouldn't give to be a size 34! And I was a size 29 waist before I was pregnant!!!!

~Lisa

[Tiny Blessings]

Hi everyone...

Stayed home from work again today... just can't shake this cold/cough and feel kinda yucky. Did a meeting by teleconference and then some paperwork then I layed in bed for a while to rest. Ethan is at daycare, so that eases things up around her a bit. Carpenters are still here finishing up the cabinet installation, but I think they are about done. Just found out a bunch of kids at school have been very ill with type A influenza (I think that's what they called it). Ick...that makes me want to stay away even more!

Lisa: carb craving: CHECK! I want pasta at every meal, it seems! Have a great time at your shower tomorrow! And who cares if you cry...it will be sweet!
Glad you got some rest, Sherry....that sleep sounded wonderful! And Teresa, those weights are so awesome! Way to go!
Valerie: good luck at your gd test today....please let us know how everything goes. And screw work...just take the time off. (My new motto...hope it sticks!) LOL

Okay....gotta get some lunch in for these babies...that egg salad sure sounded good...hmmmm...

take care girls..

tina

[megzmom]

Lisa-I was doing the same thing last night with the babies. They respond to my touch but not to anyone elses. Frustrates my dh and dd. Luckily last night they were watching from the side and a karate contest was going on. It was really cool. My stomach was jumping all over the place.

DH-Luickily-unluckily? My husbands belly is the same size as mine and he is getting the stretch marks not me

We too staff picutres and a lady told everyone "I'm going to sit next to Heather so I look thinner." I was soo upset. Got the pictures back today and I am thinner looking at 6mths than she is without kids. haha for her! okay I know that was mean but she started it :) too much time around 4th graders...

Have a great weekend everyone. It might be awhile becaue we are on Spring Break starting Monday. Its in the 80's and nice. I am supposed to be going to Disney with MIL, dh and dd. I told them I will only go if in a wheelchair.

I PROMISE to drink ALOT of water!!!!!! love you ladies~

[vthompson]

:1pound: Hello Everyone! Well, I am finally back from my test and it SUCKED! First of all, you have to fast so I did not eat until 11:45 today. They take your blood and then you drink the stuff, which makes me sick to my stomach, and then they draw 3 times, on the hour. That is 4 times!!! Except, the person could not get blood out of one of my veins so I was actually poked 5 times! Then, after the 2nd one, I started to get nauseated, lightheaded, and my heart was beating uncontrollably. So, I had to lay down in the chair for an hour. I started crying, mostly because I was just overwhelmed, luckily, no one was around at that time! I should get my results early next week. I could not sleep last night, so I did not fall asleep until midnight and then got up around 3:30 and never went back to sleep. I am very crabby!

Lisa - I was laughing at your chant about low sugar!!! It felt good to laugh! Have fun at your shower this weekend! Ours is next weekend and I am so excited! My cervix is also checked at the u/s appts but they never tell me anything, so like you, I assume no news is good news.

Steph - I am jealous that you can feel the babies like that...I can only feel them when they kick. I can't wait to get to the point where you are!

AndreaR - I do not have leaky boobs, yet. I think it may have happened once, but it was just a small spot on my shirt and nothing since.

Teresa - Great weights on the babies!! Keep up the good work!

Sherry - Thank you for the words of encouragement! I truly appreciate them!

Well, I need to get back to work so I can get out of here!

Happy St. Patrick's Day everyone! This is my favorite holiday!!

Valerie

[teresa67]

Valerie,

I'm so sorry to hear about what you had to go through on your blood sugar test. I'm wishing you a good report so you won't have to worry about it anymore.

[Daniele'sTwins]

Valerie...140 Glucose is really not that bad, I am sure that it will be fine after they get your new results! I am sorry you had a little breakdown when you were all alone. This pregnancy is so hard for all of us! Know that we are all going through it with you!

Heather...You are having some strange cravings! LOL I hope you are writing them down somewhere to share it with you little ones someday!

Missy...Congrats on the promotion when you get back to work! How long are you planning on taking out when the angels arrive?

AndreaR...Lucky for me (Knock on Wood) I have not had any swelling. I still wear my wedding rings and everything.

Ters...Leg cramping at night...check

Sherry...I am currently drinking about 5 bottles of water a day. I was never a big drinker even before pregnancy because I swear I have the worlds smallest bladder so I never drink a lot so i can avoid going to the bathroom every 15 mins! BUT i am changing that all now! I WILL drink 8 a day from now on! I am also trying not to eat those YUMMY Coco krispies anymore!

Teresa...3.12 and 4.0!! Wahoo!! That is awesome! I would be so proud of my little ones if I were you! You are doing a great job!

Lisa...Tomatoes in olive oil Yummy! (I am Italian too) how bout with some fresh mozzerella too?? I was actually in Italy this summer to visit some family it was amazing! My dad came to the US when he was 12. Have you ever been there?
As for being amazed that there really is two babies in there I feel the same way all the thime! I am STILL in shock! I hope you have a blast at the shower this weekend! I think you will cry when you get to see the friends that you don't see as often anymore.

I am off to the bank and to STOP BY the office just to pay the girls. Tonight I am going out to dinner with my dh and parents. I don't cook on Friday nights...lol I will try to check in later.

[JacobsMom]

Hi Heather,

We went to Disneyworld Jan. 30-Feb 4 and had a blast. Of course being 20 weeks pregnant with the boys, I was VERY limited in what I rode. The day we were at Animal Kingdom, we went ahead and rented one of those motorized scooters. I think we paid about $30-$35, but believe me it was worth EVERY PENNY!!! It even had a nice basket on the front to hold all our stuff. Best of all, we got to go in the handicap entrance for all the attractions and shows. We ended up right in front for the Lion King show and my 8 year old son got picked to come be in one of the musical numbers. It was awesome. It was really easy to manuever and had quite a bit of get up and go. (The one I used at Target the other day was real slow and a lot wider. I had trouble getting through a lot of the clothing racks.)

We live in Houston and this was my only my second trip to Disneyworld. The first was my honeymoon in 1990!!! We will definately be going back when the twins are old enough to enjoy it all and not whine too much. I'm thinking for their 6th birthday/kindergarten graduation gifts. My Son will be 14 1/2 :eek: by then but hopefully he will still want to do things with the family. LOL!

Have a fun spring break whatever you decide to do.

Stacey

[Daniele'sTwins]

Hello Friends...I am so cranky and for no reason and I don't want to be! We are not going out to dinner with my parents anymore because we have a dinner with some Pharm Reps. My DH said he told me about it but he did not! I know I have pregnancy brain but their are just some things I don't forget and dinner that i have to dress up for and put on makeup is not one of them.

Maybe I just need to drink more H2O. I am only on my third bottle of the day! Sherry don't be upset it was because I napped a lot today. I will get 5 more in here before the night is over. Definately at dinner while everyone else drinks their alcholic beverages. This restaurant that we are going to is my favorite so DH thought i would be excited...Dumb A$$. I love it there so much for the sushi I can't eat and my favorite drink (Brazillian Panty Droppers) I can't have either of those. See I told you a I was cranky tonight. Better than crying though right??

OK, I have to go :spitwater :spitwater :spitwater!!!

[Daniele'sTwins]

Craving Alert...Fudgy, chewey, chocolate brownies (with walnuts) and a chocolate ice cream shake. But instead I will have an orange and some more water...UGH :cool:

[newmomx2]

Okay there seems to be an aweful lot of talk about food today - every time I got on to read it made me hungry and I headed for the kitchen. I don't remember who asked about carbs but boy have I been craving them lately!! this coming from someone who had been on the south beach diet and lost 50lbs before the pregnancy !!! Seems like I can eat them right now with out ill effect but I will have to go back to South Beach this summer !!

Danielle - My company is pretty awesome and I get 12 weeks paid maternity leave - I also have 24 days of vacation which I intend to wait to use til after I go back to work - the plan is to take off every Friday til the end of the year. DH works a rotating swing shift and he is home a lot during the week so we don't need day care all of the time :yippee: The bummer is I can't really quit because I make nearly 2x my DH so he is the first to quit and stay home - it tears my heart out to think about it some times... Oh yeah I also get 8 weeks of free day care when I go back to work - it is a special 'back to work program' so the babies can be downstairs and I can breastfeed and visit throughout the day - how awesome !

Valerie - I am so sorry that the Glucose Test was so bad hopefully you went through all of that and everthing will be fine !

Question - does anyone get dizzy, today I notice that all day when I stand up I feel dizzy (like almost want to pass out), I have made sure I am eating and drinking, I don't know what it is from but it is a weird feeling..

Well better go finish a few more emails for work - enjoy the weekend ladies - and no more babies are allowed to enter the world yet...

PS I found a pediatrician today and she said 28 weeks (which I was yesterday is a big milestone) but that 32 is evener bigger because they could breathe on there own if born - she also said that generally once they are over 4lbs without complication you can bring them home from the hospital. My boys are still not allowed til May 15th that is the day I have decided they need to wait to !!

[Daniele'sTwins]

Missy...Wow! Do you realize how lucky you are at your job!! Good for you with all that time off and to have your babies right downstairs while you are at work is a God's gift!

As for being dizzy maybe you just need chocolate. No but kidding aside I do get like that sometimes and once I hit the couch/bed I pass right out.

Hope you feel better.

[newmomx2]

Could be exhaustion I did sleep really well last night - I plan to hit the sack early again...we have our financial planner coming at 7pm and once we are done it is ER on TiVO and bed for me.

Yes I do realize how lucky I am with my job and especially since my boss has been so flexible in letting me work from home since basically early December - that is part of the reason why I will continue to work - if the job sucked and the benefits were lousy I would bail out quicker !

Chocolate does sound good - I am going to start with an orange

[swineland]

Have a great weekend everyone!

DH just popped open an ice cold Miller Lite and I couldn't help myself to a big St. Patty's Day gulp......waaaaaah, it tasted SO good. Especially on a holiday weekend, it's all warm and sunny out. But, I guess I'll go back to my water....I swear I've got to be over a gallon for today. Thank God for pumping, b/c once those babies are out and I can pump, I'm having a huge glass of wine! Gosh, I miss it.

See you all later....

Steph

[JacobsMom]

Hi Ladies,

I bought a new "toy" yesterday that I used today doing my laundry. It is called the Deluxe GOPHER Pick Up & Reaching Tool. It is in the Walgreens ad this week for $9.99. We have an extra large capacity washer and dryer, and it has become almost impossible for me to reach the bottom of the washer, especially to pick up small items like my son's socks, and then those same socks usually end up at the very back of the dryer, and I'd have to practically stand on my head and half climb into the dryer to reach them. You can imagine how much fun that is with this big ol' belly tipping me forward! :rotflmbo: Anyhow, this grabber tool worked great. I figure it will come in real handy after my c-section as well to pick up dropped burp rags, blankets, toys, etc. As an added bonus today, my son thought it was so cool that he actually wanted to play with it, and emptied my whole dryer into the clothes basket using it. I figure I will be getting my money's worth out of this little gadget for at least the next 6 months or so.

[vthompson]

Stacey - That new toy sounds really helpful, especially if your son helped with the laundry!!! I will have to check it out!

Steph - I know what you mean with the drinks. . . today is the one day I wish I could have a drink to good ol' St Pat!!!

Missy - It sounds like you have a great job and boss! How did you find such an amazing company? It seems as though they offer you a ton of benefits! I do find myself getting dizzy, especially after one of my heart racing/shortness of breath episodes.

Daniele - I am sorry you are feeling so crabby!! I would be too, if I had to get dressed up and go out! Hopefully, you will have a little fun!!

Thanks to everyone for your words of encouragement the past few days!! I do not know what I would do without my Internet friends!!!

Valerie

[davoswoman]

Craving Alert...Fudgy, chewey, chocolate brownies (with walnuts) and a chocolate ice cream shake. But instead I will have an orange and some more water...UGH :cool:

Thanks a lot!! Now I want chocolate and don't have any in the house! I am too pooped to go get it either!:crazy:

[davoswoman]

Figured I better check in before someone started worrying!:)

Valerie, you are going to pass the 3 hr with no problem, I bet. 140 isn't that bad and usually when it is borderline like that you end up fine on the 3 hour test.

Missy, I too have a problem with dizziness. I actually told my husband it is making me nervous to drive anymore. I start feeling light headed and almost like I am going to pass out sometimes. I wonder if it is lack of oxygen sometimes from the babies crowding my lungs and my boobs being so big!!!

I am pooped. I went to help a friend clean out a house and think I over did it a bit. I only moved the light stuff but was up and down stairs a lot. I did get a new couch, rocker recliner, end tables, coffee table and lamps that actually all match. I have never had matching furniture in my life!! I was thrilled with the rocker recliner too. I had bought one already and decided not to put it in the nursery because I want to be able to watch tv when I am nursing sometimes. Well now I can put that one in there and have the other in the living room!! Score. Not to mention the couch. I had to move our futon out of the living room because I put the mattress on our bed to make the bed softer for my hips. I only have recliners in the living room now and hate it. I want to lay down on the couch and watch tv (we don't have a tv in the bedroom). Can't wait until tomorrow and I can lay on a couch again!! WooHoo!

I think I will take a nap now though. Not really hurting much, just really tired. I have done good on my water today though.:spitwater

Boy, the girls are active tonight. I think the one on top is doing some kickboxing or something!! It is hard to believe they are taking so much room that I feel them all the way up at my ribs already!

Well, have a good night all!

[vthompson]

Candy - That is great that you got all that fantastic furniture!! I do think you over did it though. You better take it easy for the rest of the weekend! Rest on that new couch!

Well, I am signing off for the evening. I will check in tomorrow!

Valerie

[Dad of twins]

Hello ladies!
I have some bad news! My wife awoke this morning with cramps. Went to the Dr's and they told us to go to the hospital to make sure everything was ok. We had an U/S and everything looked good. Onece we got up to the OB floor she was haveing contractions. They gave her some meds to stop them. Her cervics is closed and mesures good enough. They still want her to stay atleast until tomarrow. She is now off work!! and probabily on bed rest. I came home to sleep with my daughter b/c they won't let her in to she my wife! Well sorry I did not get a chance to read any of the posts. but it is late and I have a long day ahead of me tomarrow. Just wanted to let you ladies know.

Maybe I can get a chance to look at the posts some time soon? Hope you all are feeling well.


Jason

[davoswoman]

Jason,
I am so sorry that your wife is having some complications, but soooo glad she didn't actually go into labor! Take care and we are praying for you both!

[TMoT]

Jason, I SO hope your wife is going to be okay! You all must be very worried -- and I feel for her sleeping there in the hospital all alone without you and your ds! :-( Please pass on our love and moral support to her, and let us know what happens/how everything goes, okay???

Valerie, your story about the GD test BROKE MY HEART! :'-( I'm really feeling for you about this drama, sweet thing. But, you will be okay, I promise!!! As I told you, the worst case is that you'll have to figure out how to give yourself insulin shots (but canadianmom/Connie on the June site said it's not nearly as bad as you'd imagine); and KEEP THINKING, "it's the best thing for the babies"! That is the worst case! As Missy said, though, maybe you'll just breeze through this exam! Well, I'll keep praying for you, and you keep staying positive, okay???? x

Heather, SORRY about my mis-cue with your "invisible"/"invincible" note!! I'm SO GLAD you feel invincible -- as you SHOULD! It's ME who's MIA (in the brain) and not listening! I'm so sorry for confusing you/everyone with my own silliness! :-( :crazy:

Steph, I want to BOX you!!! ;-P I am CRINGING with ENVY (appropriate, since it's st. patty's day!) about your cool beer, warm weather and long weekend! Oh you certainly DESERVE it, though! So, kick back and ENJOY -- for me too!!! :-))) And, btw, when you get that pump working, you're always welcome here (Daniele, too -- and anyone else who wants to visit this part of the globe!), to enjoy some really good wine from The Old World, with yours truly!! ;-))) (Picture us: Pump/boob in one hand; wine glass in the other!! LOL)

Daniele, your sushi/Brazilian Panty Droppers story moved me to tears. :'-( I mean -- sorry! I laughed till I almost cried in sympathy!! ;-) I can't blame you for being CRANKY -- to say the least! Tell ds he's cold-hearted and CRUEL to torment you like that!!! In the meantime, your post made me decide that I'm _going to_ have sushi tomorrow! I'll let you all know how/if it goes down...!! ;-) (I might even have a swig of beer while I'm at it!!) :eek:

Candy, sounds like a bit of the nesting bug over-powered your better judgement today!!! BUT now you'll get to enjoy the fruits of your labor! You deserve it too! Kick those feet up a good long time in each room of the house and savor the comfort you've now so duly earned!!!!!! Wow, you're impressive!!!

Missy/Candy, PLEASE BE SURE YOU'RE EATING RIGHT/ENOUGH/OFTEN!!! First Daniele and now you guys too!! *sweating nervously* Dizziness/almost-fainting are such _typical_ low-sugar symptoms (although the oxygen-supply issue is definitely there too!), you need to be very careful about your food intake to ensure it doesn't happen! And, no wonder, Missy, that you were having "carb" cravings! Low blood sugar comes mainly from not having enough "stored" sugar in your body (=carbs -- but NOT refined sugar!!!). But you have to be careful to "temper" the carbs with protein so you can avoid GD...! Ack! It's all so complicated, it becomes exhausting, I know!!! :-( Anyways, bottom line: Make sure you're eating protein (especially) and a bit of carbs (for low blood-sugar) _every three hours_ during the day, and see if that doesn't help with the dizziness. We REALLY need to be cautious of this dizziness thing because hypoglycemia (_low_ blood sugar) is just as much a risk/indicator for GD as _high_ blood sugar! Please be careful, Ladies!!!!!

Stacey :rotflmbo: the 'grabber' is AWESOME!!! (And I like how you tricked ds into emptying the dryer!) Gotta get me one (two/three?!) of those! But the nearest WalMart is in GERMANY!! Wah. Woe is me!!! Anyway, thanks for the post, clever you!!!!

And now, all of you, STOP TALKING ABOUT FOOD!!! You guys are CRUEL! Okay, but today, I indulged: a REAL tiramisu at the local (very authentic/deeelicious) Italian, AND (get this!) a cup of coffee!!!!!! :-O No wonder it's 5am and I'm still perky! DH and I were actually supposed to go to an all-night movie-marathon (so I napped for FIVE hours this afternoon!), but it ended up being sold out (!) -- so here I am!!! (?!?!) Gotta be up relatively early tomorrow, though, so I hope my caffeine "buzz" wears off VERY soon!!!! ?!?

Have a wonderful weekend, everyone, and please keep us posted on how your wife is doing, Jason!!! :1pound:

[Tiny Blessings]

Jason: my thoughts and prayers are with you, your wife and those little ones. It is great that she actied on the cramps early and that the contractions were stopped. Please keep us informed and pass our positive energy onto your wife for us! :grouphugg

Valerie: sorry about the tough time at your test. I hope that everthing turns out fine with the results. Too bad you have to wait until next week to find out though...I'll keep my fingers crossed that all works out just fine!

Candy, what a great thing that you ended up with all of that great furniture...plop right down on that couch and stay there for the rest of the weekend so you can rest up. ;)

okay., gotta get back to sleep now, just up to check on the baby who also has an awful cold/cough......have fun at those showers ladies....can't wait to hear about them!

Tina

[qbanmom5]

Hi everyone,

Jason: I am praying for your wife and babies. She is lucky to have you and make sure that you are patient and supportive which I am sure you already are.

Valerie: That sucks about your 3 hour ordeal. I still havent' gone in for mine.... Could I be procrastinating.

Whoever asked about the leaky boobs, this is my 4th pregnancy. Wondering if maybe that is why I am leaking and some of you others are not...

I have been feeling really tired since yesterday. No energy, can't even get the kids ready for school. I took a nap yesterday and a nap today and I NEVER NAP. I haven't napped at all this pregnancy. Could it be anemia? I even rescheduled my drs appt. until next wednesday. All they do is measure my belly, weigh me, and schedule me for next month. The peri appts I never miss.

How do I know if they are checking my cervix during u/s? I am curious how they do that through my belly?

My water intake has been bad too.... I am trying to make up for it in the last couple of hours. I'll be peeing all night.

Teresa: great weights on those babies! I want to do that too!

My appetite isn't that great lately though and since I feel so tired I am not cooking just snacking. BAD, I know. Its o.k Sherry I know your gonna lay into me....

Lightheaded and dizzy...check!

The babies are very active. Correction, the girl is very active. The boy is very mellow. Just like the ones I have at home now. My girls are all over the place and my son is very calm. Their kicks are getting sooo hard though. My stomach literally jumps and my clothes move and everything.

I am going back to bed. I had more to say but I forgot. Typical these days. I'll write back tomorrow. Hopefully I will be able to snap out of this funk.

Ta-Ta, ters

[AndreaR]

Jason, I'm praying for you, your wife, the twins & your dd. Keep us posted if you can.

Will right more later. Have major DH venting to do..grrrrrrrrrrr.

AndreaR

[newmomx2]

Jason - I will be praying for you and your wife - it is so good they caught it early ! How many weeks are the babies.

Glad to hear I am not the only one that experiences dizziness...I already passed by GD test - can that change before delivery? I will try to at least eat a spoonful of peanut butter as a filler snack to get that protein - thanks Sherry ! I go for another Level II and doctor's appt next week I will ask about this newest ailment - Wonder what they would say about blonde toe hair (I just finally figured out how to see my feet and mine is blonde too !)

I loved the laundry picker upper gadget - I don't need to worry though my husband has been doing all the laundry since September - I just sort, and fold and put away :clap:

I am planning a relaxing weekend...only thing I need to do is pay some bills and go to home depot to pay for our new bathroom flooring - I can't wait for it to be installed:yippee:

Oh and I will probably check my registry a million times since my shower is next Sunday - my mom already warned me that people are not buying from the registry they are going on there own GRRRRR I will love everything I get but...I registered for items for a reason - we need them, if all I get is clothes that doesn't help with bottles, etc..oh well just means I have a shopping spree in my future.

Everyone take it easy this week - the next few weeks are critical to us all

:spitwater

[LOCOmom]

Well, I have been MIA for a while and will not have time to catch up on all the posts. The day after we received a "negative" on our FFN test, I began going into labor. NOT GOOD! Ended up in the hospital on bedrest as opposed to home bedrest. Went on Magnesium Sulfate and a pill to stop contractions. All was well until a week later when I began to have contractions and back labor yet again. So, on Sunday, March 12, I delivered a beautiful boy vaginally, and a gorgeous girl by C-section. Both are doing well; better than could be expected. So we continue to watch and pray. Will get out of the hospital tomorrow and when I have gained my sanity and the shock has worn off, I will put some pictures up. I hope that you all do better than I did as far as keeping them in. At least I am able to produce a lot of milk that they are feeding them with to help with fattening them up!

Take care of yourselves and will write more soon

Jill,
I am from the April board. I was the first to go on the board there. I had two boys and both are still in the NICU. They are doing well. I will be praying for you and your babies. Know that thinks will be very rocky, but with lots of luck and support, you will all make it through. Hugs to you all!!!!!

[vthompson]

Jason - When I first read the title of your post, I was so afraid that your wife had delivered already. I am so glad that they were able to catch it early and give her meds. All of you are in our thoughts and prayers! Keep us posted!

Ters - I wasn't sure if they were checking my cervix either so I asked the u/s tech. She said they do it at every appt. I would just ask them. She actually told me that you have to drink so much water before you go because it allows them to see the cervix...or something like that!

Missy - Your weekend sounds very relaxing! I feel the same way you do about the registry. Getting all clothes is not going to help all the essentials that we need. Not that I am being ungrateful for the gifts, but just overwhelmed at how much to buy!! I will also be checking my registry a million times this weekend!!

Sherry - You and DH always have the most interesting plans! We just do not have those kinds of opportunities here in Ohio...you are lucky!!

So DH is finishing the painting of the nursery today. I just heard him swear, so I do not think things are going well. I think I will stay clear of that area!!

Talk to you soon!

Valerie

[vthompson]

I just realized I made it to double digits!! Yeah!!!!!!! :yippee:

Kim - Your boys are adorable! It looks as though they are doing really well!! It is comforting for all of us to hear such great success stories! Thanks for posting!

Valerie

[Tiny Blessings]

Jill,
I am from the April board. I was the first to go on the board there. I had two boys and both are still in the NICU. They are doing well. I will be praying for you and your babies. Know that thinks will be very rocky, but with lots of luck and support, you will all make it through. Hugs to you all!!!!!


Kim,
thanks for writing. I looked at your site and your babies are both SO BEAUTIFUL!! :throb: I realize the hard journey, as I had a NICU baby myself and readily recognize the rollercoaster ups and downs that you describe on your site. Your blog is terrific. It brought back alot of emotions and memories for me. I am pleased to hear that your boys are doing so well and are gaining weight. My prayers are with you all.....I am sure you will all be home together soon.

tina

[Tadpoles' Mum]

No change with Georgina which is good news, she is still having to stay on a tilted bed and can hadly move at all but .......29 weeks now so things are looking good - 34 is the main goal, but 32 would also be good.

Jill - I have pm'd you - BIG CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!

[AndreaR]

Kim - thanks for sharing your experience with us. Connor and Logan are beautiful, and I will keep you all in my prayers.

Valerie - congrats on getting to double digits. It's a good feeling, isn't it? My DH was painting our nursery today too. :-)

I was very upset at DH this morning, but it's subsided. Suffice is to say, I am a control freak, and it was bothering the heck out of me that I couldn't do anything while he worked on the girls' room. He's finished now, and it came out great. He was painting the bottom half of the room, and a friend of mine is going to wallpaper the upper half. I can't wait to see the finished product!

I hope everyone is enjoying their weekend, resting and cooking babies. I can't wait to hear about the showers.

Hang on Georgina - only 5 more weeks!

Good night,
AndreaR

[AndreaR]

Ters - My peri checks my cervix via vaginal u/s.

[Tiny Blessings]

Slow on the board today...makes for easy catching up though! Valerie, congrats on making it to double digits! I make it there on Wed, which is the day of my next Level II...how appropriate! Sure can't wait to hear about how that nursery came out...keep us posted!

Andrea: I feel the same way about not wanting to eat much...I feel better grazing throughout the day rather than eating meals....just too much for my tummy and I feel to bloated afterward. I also don't want to cook anymore....this is made harder having a little one here who needs balanced meals that I just don't have the energy to cook. When I do cook, I make double batches and freeze one so I can just pull it from the freezer later. I've been doing this alot lately, though and my little stockpile has dwindled down to only a few dishes left in the deep freeze. Maybe when I am no longer working I can get some dishes made and frozen again.

Okay...can't wait to hear about Lisa's shower...hope she posts tomorrow!

Tina

[EBTwinz]

Hi all!! It's early Sunday morning. I am still at my parent's house, but I can't sleep.

First of all... Jason, I hope your wife is okay!!! I will be praying for her. Please keep us updated. I was actually starting to get worried because we didn't hear from you in a while. Hang in there!!! :)

Seems like a slow weekend, which is kinda good so I could catch up on the posts. I am glad to hear everyone else is doing well.

Okay, I had my shower yesterday. It was so overwhelming!!! I received a TON of presents!! It took me almost two hours to open everything. I was sweating, nervous, embarrassed... Plus, my adorable 3 yr old neice was so darn excited about the presents, that she would just start ripping them open and I had no idea who they were from. It was funny. I love that little girl to pieces. She was pretending to feel the babies kick in my stomach. One person gave me chocolates and we had to lie to her and say they were vitamins for pregnant people. But, she is way too smart for me, she tried to tell me that she was pregnant so she could eat some! LOL!!!

Anyway, I got a lot of the big gifts. My parents got me the duo glider stroller w/ both car seats. When dh and I first walked in the door, we went through the garage and the boxes were just sitting there. I told my mom that she didn't hide that surprise very well but then she told me it's just for the babies, not really a shower gift. I couldn't believe that she and my dad just bought it for us and still got us a shower gift. My aunt bought the monitor w/ the TV for us. I had a different monitor on my registry ( a lot cheaper!) and was shocked to get that one. I am not sure how we are going to see both babies but I think it's pretty cool. I received a lot of onsies, diapers, wipes, etc. which will definitely come in handy. I am very picky about the clothes but I must say, we got some cute outfits!! It's funny to be at a twin shower b/c you get two of everything! I also had a lot of gift bags just filled w/ necessities, like medicine spoons, birping cloths, bibs, safety items, etc.

My dh's favorite gift... A Penn State book for kids. He loved it! It was so cute! (We both met/graduated from Penn State).

Anyway, I had a wonderful shower!!!!!! I was sooooo appreciative of all the gifts. I can't wait until you all have your showers, too!!!! It's so much fun. But, it can be very overwhelming!!

WEll, my family is starting to get up so it's time for me to play w/ my neices. THe other one is 9 months old and the cutest thing in the world!!

I will check in tomorrow. Have a great day everyone!!!
~Lisa

[Dad of twins]

Hello ladies!
First I want to thank you all for the prayers that you sent for my family. The wife is home now! She was in the early stages of labor. She is on med to stop contractions. We will be 28 weeks tues. It was funny b/c she said that she had been feeling fine and then this. She is now off work. She will go crazy:crazy: . Her cervics did not open at all so that is good. She has to hold on for another 4 weeks before they would even want to do anything. See those boys are already a pain in the ***!

Ters: My wife now is leaking like crazy. She was sitting thereat the table and had two big wet spots on her shirt.

I don't have much time so I just want to thank you all again for the suport! I will write more if I can find the time. You ladies take care and be safe!

Jason

[TMoT]

Kim, CONGRATS on your two beautiful baby boys! I hope everything progresses in the right direction and we send you many warm, loving thoughts across the miles!!!

Jill, I know you have your hands full, too, so I just want to let you know we're all still thinking about you and keeping your precious little ones in our prayers. When you have a moment, how are they doing? And, any decisions on names??? :throb:

Jason, ditto about the prayers! ...Glad to have good news from you and dw now! She's going to go crazy, but I'm sure you know how to help her cope! Boys ARE trouble-makers, believe me! I LOVE my two to pieces, though! They are SO awesome!!!!! :-)))

Georgina -- WAY TO GO!!! *sigh* (Breathing is becoming easier!) You are doing such a fantastic job and we are all rooting for you!!!!!

Val, congrats on double-digits!! :2pounds: Keep cookin' and keep 'em in there!!!!! And, btw, you're right about us being "lucky" for entertainment here...! Last night, we saw another really special performance (I wrote about it below), but we still had to drive an hour in each direction to get there!! (?!?)

AndreaR, so glad things seem to be working out with the nursery -- and Val too (?!)! Keep us posted and PLEASE put up some pics for us when it's finished!!!!!

Missy, GD _can_ change as far as I know. Just keep away from refined sugars (to be sure), and make sure you're eating protein every three hours -- from morning till night -- for the dizziness!!!!! And try laying down on your left-hand side (for better circulation) if you feel short of breath!!

Tina, I was very touched about what you wrote to Kim. You have been through so much already with an NICU baby. :'-) As always, I am in awe of your strength, courage, and that extra fortitude you have for this pg! All you ladies impress me more and more every day!!! :'-) I also understand TOTALLY about the "square meal" for the babies/family and a "snack" for Mommy (Ters too!)! I just don't have the appetite (or the room!) sometimes for a "real" meal -- but then I eat AGAIN within an hour or two! Actually, I think that's okay to do -- that "grazing" thing... Also, I nearly wept about your dwindling stock of frozen food! :-( (It's like Old Mother Hubbard!!!) You have done such an incredible job till now with those "double" batches, plus working, plus...!!!! I think maybe it's time for dh to try his hand at stews, soups and (why not?!) TV dinners!?! I know how impossible it is to compromise for your child's meal, and sometimes that's a blessing because you eat BETTER than you would otherwise. Otoh, Mommy needs a break!!!!! ...Please hang in there, sweet thing!!!! :-)

Ters, I'm not going to come down on you for not eating! ;-) I TOTALLY understand how you feel and go through those doldrums now and then too. :-( Just, if you're snacking, please make sure you do it every three hours and get some PROTEIN in there -- for you and the babies! Otherwise (and even with that!), the dizziness is really gonna get you! Also -- LAY DOWN for Pete's sake!!!! I'm GLAD you're taking those naps -- you really need it!!!! Even being really careful of what/how much/when we eat, we've got a lot of strain on our circulation/lungs/tummy right now, and I notice that I just NEED to lay down to "get air" more and more these days! You probably already know this, but be sure to lay on your LEFT-hand side -- for your circulation! *parroting again -- sorry!* ...In the meantime, are you on an iron supplement too? My doc took me off (it interacts with my reflux medicine), but I just started again, and I _know_ low-iron can cause listlessness, etc. Please check into that if you need to. And, of course, EAT FISH (for the "funk")! And, of course, DRINK YOUR WATER!!! ;-) :throb:

Lisa, you made out like a bandit at your shower!!! The stroller/car-seats from your Mom and Dad were a MAJOR SCORE alone, eh?! I'm so happy for you!!!! And, it sounds like the shower itself (and your "pg" niece!) was a lot of fun for you/ds! I'm so glad! :-) Well, enjoy the rest of your day with your family and be sure to take it a bit easy when you get home!!!!!

Speaking of which, I totally OVERDID it yesterday at Ikea, Baby2000 (our "local" BRU-type shop) and MaxiToys (TRU-type shop)!! Today is ds#1's SEVENTH bday, so the last trip was the MOST important (!), but we spent much more time in the other two places!!! Good news is that we know what we're going to buy to bring our house "up to speed" for the Babies (just have to actually buy, transport, build, MOVE and install everything now!--?!). Bad news is that I'm FREAKING OUT at all the stuff -- more and more it seems! -- we're going to need for the Babies themselves! :eek: Well, you all are pulling everything together, so I suppose we will manage too! Unfortunately, baby showers are NOT a custom in Europe (!) :-(( !! Fortunately, baby "lists" ARE -- but people only "order" AFTER the babies are born!!! Lord, help us!!!!! *sigh*

We took in another really NICE electronica performance last night (sorry, Val!)! And, during the concert, Baby Boy gave me the HARDEST punch EVER!!! Ters, like you, Baby Girl is the MOST active, so I was really surprised when Baby Boy gave me such a punch! He must've really been enjoying the show (low, deep bass and pretty "tinkling" music sounds), and I thought "he's REALLY his daddy's baby"!!! :-)) Btw, I enjoyed it very much too -- lovely music, cushy seats (again!) and no smoking...!!! :-)

Quiet Sunday planned till the boys come home -- cake and ice cream, hooray! -- from their father's. I'll check in with you all tomorrow, and enjoy the rest of your weekend!!

[vthompson]

Well ladies (and Jason :) ), it was an exciting night at the Thompson household. All day I was feeling pressure low down and a burning sensation, as if I had a urinary tract infection. I got worse as the night went on so I called the doc around 8:30pm. She said that it sounded like a UTI to her but I would need to give a urine sample so she told me to go to the ER. The ER sent me up to Labor and Delivery. My urine checked out fine so they monitored me and the babies and found that I was having very mild contractions, the nurse called it uterine irritability. I immediately started to cry when they told me that, just scared I guess. They gave me a shot of terb something. It made me jittery and shaky. However, it worked wonders and my uterus quieted down. They released me and told me I am to stay off my feet completely today and to call my doctor on Monday to follow up. I was so terrified! However, on a lighter note, the nurse had to sit on my bed the entire time and hold the heart monitors onto my stomach because after about a minute or so, Corey would "swim" away and she would have to go find him again. It was pretty funny!!!

Sorry, for such a long post! However, I had to share my story with you guys!! I will let you know what the doctor saids on Monday. The nurse mentioned the possibility for bedrest or partial bedrest. We will see what the doc saids!

Lisa - It sounds as though you had a fantastic shower! I was laughing about your niece!! I can't wait for mine next week!

Sherry - Happy Birthday to your son!!! I wish we could all come to Europe and give you a shower! I can imagine how overwhelmed you feel with everything you have to buy. Do you have some stuff left over from your sons?

Jason - We are all so glad that everyone is doing well! Tell your wife to hang in there.

Andrea R - I can't wait to see pictures of the room!! My DH finished yesterday, I really like it! The color is bright and baby like! Nothing fancy, though. We just painted all the walls the same color and steam cleaned the carpets. Well, I didn't, but my DH did!

Tadpole's Mum - We are so glad to hear that Georgina is still hanging in there! She is an amazing woman! Make sure you keep us updated!!!

I forgot to tell all of you what else happened yesterday. We registered at Baby Depot for our bedding and car seats. Well, my BIL went to buy the car seats and was told they were out of stock. Then, I friend of mine went to buy the bedding and was told the same thing. I started to freak out! That is not something you should let happen to a pg woman 1 week before her shower!! Well, needless to say, I have great friends and family because both of them called to other stores and drove almost an hour to another store to buy both items!!! I couldn't believe it!!

Ok, I think I have wrote WAY more then enough!

Valerie

[AndreaR]

Valerie - YIKES, I don't blame you one bit for crying. This is such a crucial stage and the thought of anything straying from "the plan" would upset anyone. It sounds like the medication worked well. Take it EASY, EASY, EASY. There is no harm done in "under-doing" it (as opposed to overdoing it). We will be praying for you. That is so nice of your friends/family to get you what you really need/want, even if it means driving far to do it.

Jason - Thanks for the update. So glad your wife is home and doing better. You are a great husband and father. Keep up the good work! Also, please relay my message above (under-doing it) to your DW.

Sherry - I agree with Valerie - we should all come to Belgium (I think that's where you are?), and throw you a HUGE shower. You mentioned something about a new house, are you moving soon? Maybe I misread.... Enjoy your son's birthday party. Enjoy the cake & ice cream!

I am going to my niece's 1st birthday party this afternoon. No cake & ice cream, though. Today is St. Joseph's Day, and we are Italian-American. For dessert my sister is buying zeppoli (which you can only get around here on St. Josephs' Day) and other Italian pastry. And since Francesca is only 1, she won't miss the birthday cake!

Lisa - it sounds like you had a wonderful day yesterday, and very generous friends and family. I was laughing when I read about the chocolate "vitamins."

I keep checking my registry, and nothing has changed in quite some time. Only three things have been purchased. Luckily, it's the infant car seats and the dual Snap 'n Go stroller. I am not worried that people aren't buying us presents; I am worried the shower invitations have not been sent yet. I know my sisters are throwing me a shower, but they won't tell me when. I'm afraid that if it's too late, I won't be in any condition to attend, never mind participate. Is that wrong?? When I read that it took Lisa two hours to open presents, I started thinking, "I haven't been able to do ANYTHING for two hours" .....except sleep, of course. DH already promised to go the shower with me; I guess he'll have to do all the work.

Have a great Sunday everyone!

AndreaR

ps. Still praying for Jill and her babies. Hopefully we'll hear something soon.

[JacobsMom]

I loved the laundry picker upper gadget - I don't need to worry though my husband has been doing all the laundry since September - I just sort, and fold and put away :clap:


I don't like for my hubby to wash my clothes. LOL! He doesn't do it right. He does wash his own, but I do mine and Jacob's. I use 3 different detergents depending on the color and content of the load. Anyhow, since he has been doing ALL of the cooking, dish washing, AND cleaning, I figure the least I can do is wash my own clothes. He does carry the basket to and from the garage for me though. (BTW: I HATE having my washer/dryer in the garage!!! My next house will HAVE to have a spacious laundry room!!)

[vthompson]

Sherri, I forgot to add this to my last post and I thought you would be proud of me...when the nurse checked my urine, you went on and on about how great my water intake must be!! I immediately thought of you! :spitwater

Andrea R - I would think that if anything is coming off the registry, the invites must have went out. Especially, since you got some bigger things. Have you tried telling them that if it is scheduled late, you may not be able to attend? I do not think you are wrong for feeling this way. The worst thing would be to not even be able to attend your own shower to show your gratitude. I understand where you are coming from! My shower is next weekend, and things have come off of the registry very slowly, so try not to worry!!

Valerie

[JacobsMom]

I'm in a weird mood today. I'm frustrated about not being able to plan out the next two/three months with any certainty. We have so much going on and so much we would like to do, but I can't commit to anything because I have no idea when or if I might get put on bedrest, or if I might go into pre-mature labor, or even deliver anytime in the next 12 weeks. My hubby is going away for the weekend March 30-April 2. I'm praying nothing happens while he is gone because he will be 4 hours away and it's a secluded retreat and he is not supposed to have any communication with anyone outside of the camp for the entire 4 days. I can page him or send him a text message, but he will only be able to check them at night, and he will be 4 hours away!! My hope is since it is a Christian event, that God won't let anything happen to me while he is away.

My neice is coming the next week April 5-9 to help me "Clean Sweep" my house. I have barely begun to get my house ready for the twins to come home. I will have passed the 28 weeks mark by the time she comes so I am hoping that my doctor won't change her mind and put me on bedrest as a precaution. So far she has said as long as I'm not having any complications I can keep doing whatever I feel up to doing. I am just so overwhelmed at all that needs to be done. We have started on my son's room so we can get all his toys and stuff out of the living room, but we are waiting on his new bunkbeds to come in to finish up in there and they won't be in until next Monday. Then we can get the baby stuff out of the attic (swing/bouncer/pack & play) and make room there to put the stuff up that is currently in what will be the nursery. My husband and I are BOTH major packrats, as is my son - the three of us have overflowed our 4 bedroom house. It's embarrassing really, but I literally have no where to put these babies right now!

I can't travel anymore so I won't be able to be with any of my extended family for Easter. My inlaws can't come here because she is going on a mission trip to Bolivia April 7-14 and will be too exhausted to make the 6 1/2 hour trip to Houston the next day. There is a Veggie Tales concert taking place April 21 that I would love to take my son to, but I'm hesitant to buy tickets not knowing whether or not we will be able to go. My friend is supposed to be throwing me a shower on April 23. Again, I hope I am able to attend. But I haven't even had a chance to get with her in the past two weeks to get the invitations done or anything. I am assuming she is still planning to do it. I really need to let my out-of-town relatives know well in advance so they can try to make arrangements to come.

My DS is in Cub Scouts and my hubby is in charge of planning the Spring campout. I keep telling him he needs to get that thing planned now, and that the latest weekend I am willing for him to be gone is April 28-30. I just don't get it that he doesn't seem to understand that I could go into labor anytime in April or May. My doctor had said she won't even try to stop my labor after 34 weeks and that's May 11. Why doesn't he have this sense of urgency that I have?

My son is in a musical at church on May 6 and a school play on May 11. He was crying the other day when I said something about possibly being on bedrest then. I promised him I would be at his performances, even if I had to come in a wheelchair, unless I was in the hospital. That just made him cry harder because he knew that would be too early for the babies and he would be so worried about me and the babies he wouldn't be able to do the plays!!! Oh good grief!!

Oh and he is also playing baseball through April 29 and I'm trying my best to make all of his games. His last day of school is May 25th and I am hoping I will not have delivered by then. They also give out awards that day, and since he most likely will not be attending that school next year I really want to be there to take pictures of him and all his friends he has been in private school with for the past 4 years! It breaks my heart to think about him not being able to return there next year, but my hubby says with the twins coming he just doesn't see how we can possible swing it financially. One more week will be June 1 and 37 weeks. We haven't actually scheduled a c-section yet, but if I make it that far, that sounds like a good date to me. I would prefer to avoid ANY type of labor!! LOL! It was NOT a good experience with Jacob, to put it mildly! Let me just say that I will NEVER consent to Pitocin again as long as I live!!!

Sorry this is so long, but I really don't have anybody to talk to here that can relate. My hubby just tells me to not worry about it and we will deal with whatever happens when it happens. MEN!!!! I'm a mama...I have to worry about these things! LOL!

On the possitive side, I have been very blessed to have had a completely uncomplicated pregnancy to this point. In fact, until I found this message board, I didn't have a clue about anything I needed to worry about!!! LOL! I feel good, the babies are healthy and active and BIG, I get tired a lot but I am able to rest when I need to. For all I know, I could continue on to a full term 38 week pregnancy with no complications at all. I could bring my babies home in two-three days, fat and actively nursing. That would be a dream come true. And absolutely an answer to prayer. It's just this whole "not knowing" that is driving me crazy!!! I feel like everything is up in the air until these babies come!

Well anyhow, thanks for letting me vent!! I hope each of you are doing well today and have a great week. I actually don't have a doctor appointment this week! YEAH!

Oh one other thing: I found out about several Parents of Multiple groups in the Houston area. I found them just in time for their SPRING SALES. I hit one sale last weekend and was able to find some preemie clothes for practically nothing. I also bought two complete matching sets of Winnie the Pooh crib bedding for $20!! I went to another sale yesterday (drove almost 20 miles to get there at 7am) and found the Nurse EZ twins pillow for $15. It was still in the original packaging. It looks like it was never even used. The other two groups are having their sales the next two Saturdays. One is only a couple of miles from my house so I may look into joining their group.

[Jillmami]

Sorry, but I haven't had a chance to really read any responses. I'm either visiting the little ones, pumping every 2-3 hours, sleeping, eating, or driving to/from the hospital.

All is going remarkably well so far. Our son, Noah Andrew, is off his IV and never had to really use any oxygen. He has the breathing issues from time to time and they put him on oxygen for a bit for that. Just typical preemie issues. He was born with a swollen head from being lodged so far down for so many weeks. That went away the first day. He has been on breastmilk for a while and they continuously up that.

Our daughter, TJ (in memory of my sister Julie and my brother Todd) Alicia, is also doing well. Had a blood transfusion and is now able to feed on my breastmilk and is so much more relaxed. Just today she found her thumb to start sucking on to appease herself.

Noah was 2pounds 3 ounces and TJ was 1 pound 12 ounces. She is our little fighter.

Here is the pregnancy website we had going on throughout the pregnancy. On the 'HOMEPAGE' there is a separate website with a few pictures from early on. We will update it every few days. The password is "miraclemiles".
http://babycrowd.com/jr/online/jillmami/welcome.html

WARNING: there are a few lovely shots of me all doped up from my bedrest the day before I delivered. Unlike many of you, I had the stretchmarks. I would get them all again though as it was way worth it. Noah's head looks a little funny but that was from his position. My dh will put more recent pictures on this evening.

Sorry for the ramble and I hope to get caught up sometime in the next few days. :woa:

below the ticker is a picture of Noah and his daddy.

[newmomx2]

First - Jill thanks for the sharing the pictures - it is great to hear that everyone is doing great ! I will keep praying that they gain weight quickly so they can come home :yippee:

Jason glad to hear that your DW is doing better and is back home - it is rough to be on bed rest ( I was for 6 weeks mid 2nd trimester) but it is well worth it.

Lisa - It was exciting to hear about your shower.

Mine is next Sunday but I have to say that I am so sad right now it is hard to get excited. My Uncle died yesterday mid day - and my parents called last night to tell me...he was diagnosed in early Jan (same week my grandma died) as having unspecified lung disease - basically his lungs were deteriorating and with no known cause it could not be stopped - he was in the process of getting tests completed so he could get a lung transplant when he got the flu 10 days ago - he ended up in the hospital and 1 week ago sedated on a ventilater - his lungs collapsed yesterday morning and he passed away - he was only about 62...I am so worried about my Dad (we are very close) and he is so upset, I don't even ask him much because he can't even talk about...to make matters worse my other uncle (the third brother) came to visit his brother in the hospital last week and when he got home was rushed to the hospital..he is not sure he can come to the funeral he may have to be admitted to the hospital himself (not sure exactly what is wrong with him) This makes me so scared about how my Dad's health is handling all of this especially since his father also died in his 60's - he must be so scared.
All of this of course is less than 1 week since my great Aunt passed away (and my DH's great aunt is also on life support)

Sorry for the gloomy tale - just needed to get that out...needless to say I am not going to the funeral - even though I want to, I know that a full mass with an hour commute each way would be to much for me and that my Dad needs to grieve and not worry about me..this will be another emotional week

On the positive side I am having a u/s on Wed and then go to see the Doctor on Thursday...Maybe I will have some cool u/s pictures to show my Dad and cheer him up...I have been practicing my labor breathing to keep me calm.

Gotta go - I think I really need to lay down and relax

[qbanmom5]

Hi Gals, Glad everything is o.k with your wife, Jason and with you Valerie. My fatigue has improved and no, not on iron supplements yet. But guess what? My oldest daughter (age 9) had picture day on Friday and on the way to school I noticed that she had some little bumps on her nose and eyelids. I thought it strange but with new bed sheets I didn't make a big deal. By the next morning, she had them on her forehead and chin. I applied benadryl cream, changed her soap, washed her linens. Well this morning, she had more. DH took her to the Dr. and she has SCARLET FEVER!!!!! I don't think it is harmful to the babies (from what Dr. said) but we could all end up with strep throat. Ironic since Scarlet is a name I have loved from the beginnning of this pregnancy. I don't know if maybe that has contributed to my fatigue and general crappy feeling. I do know today is DH and my 11th anniversary. We went out for mexican food last night and I swear that burrito is still in my stomach undigested. I had to sleep sitting up because I felt like the twins had knives and were taking turns stabbing my chest.

Does anyone have any more info on Scarlet fever? I think it sounds worst than it is? As soon as DH called me from the DR's office I started crying and insisted on talking to "my baby". She was fine but wanted to know what was wrong with me! She only complained of a sore throat once on Friday. She is sooo strong. I am such a horrible mother right now that I didn't even know she had a fever! How bad do I suck??

Anyway, I am going to lay down and drink water. I'll talk to you all later, Ters

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[vthompson]

It seems as though we have had a very emotional day today on the board!

Ters - First of all, do not think you are a terrible mother! You are an amazing woman to be pregnant with the twins and all the complications that go along with that, plus, be a mother and a wife! If your daughter really wasn't complaining of anything more then a sore throat, then why would you even think to check and see if she had a fever? As for scarlet fever, I do not know anything about it. Maybe you could call your ob on Monday to get some advice. I am sure if there was anything to worry about, the doctor that treated your DD would have told you.

Missy - I am sorry to hear about all of the loss and sickness in your life. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. I cannot imagine how stressful all of this must be on you. Hopefully, your u/s pictures will help everyone during this difficult time. Make sure you are trying to take it easy.

Jill - How amazing your babies are!! It sounds like they are both doing really well and that is wonderful. We will continue to keep all of you in our thoughts and prayers. The pictures were also amazing! Keep up the good work you have been doing of taking care of those precious angels!

Jacobsmom - Wow, it sounds as though you have a tremendous amount going on in your life right now. I can completely understand you feeling overwhelmed and out of control right now. All I can say is to try and take it one day at a time and not think so much about the weeks ahead, easier said then done, I know. I think it is a great idea that you have called in your niece to help around the house. That should really help to put your mind at ease. As for everything your son has going on, all you can do right now is wait for each event and see if you are able to go. I know it must be very hard, but if you keep thinking about how much there is to do, you are going to drive yourself crazy. Hang in there and feel free to vent to us anytime!!

Valerie

[TMoT]

Jill, your pics had tears streaming down my face! They are SO lovely, and you did such a terrific job! Congratulations (again) to you and those two beautiful little bundles!!! I'm so glad TJ can drink now, so she can start fattening up and growing like a weed! So wonderful that Noah has been doing so well from the start too! I ENVY your belly -- are you kidding??! Of course, you would do it all over again! Just something to inspire the rest of us too! You've been simply amazing!!!!! :)

Valerie, I'm so sad for you about that hospital visit! You must've been in a panic too!!! :-(( GREAT that you got those good comments for your water intake! :2pounds: Who knows how much faster/more serious it could have been?!! I am praying for all of you and PLEASE update us as soon as you hear something tomorrow!!! It's definitely ABOUT TIME you get to get OFF your feet and get some R-E-S-T! You're such a trooper!! (And what a super family and DIY-DH you have too!!) :'-)

Missy, :cry: ... It just doesn't seem right. :-((( Even with all that "balance" and yin-yang stuff, it just doesn't seem right... :'-((( In "easier" circumstances than a twin pg, this kind of misery is SO hard to handle... I can't even begin to find the words to give you hope and encouragement now. I just pray for strength and courage during this difficult time -- for you and your whole family, especially your dad. Please take good care of yourselves!!! :throb:

Jacob'sMom, WOW! Your schedule is intimidating! Don't apologize for venting!!!!! You've sure got a lot on your plate coming up, but (as long as you stay calm...?!?) I'm sure everything will be FINE! *inhale* *exhale* It will be _fine_...!!!!!

Ters, my little one had scarlet fever last year (and you KNOW how much I love the name too -- but I'm still trying to convince DH about Raquel, seriously!!), and it came/went without a lot of drama, fortunately. With the language barriers and all (PLUS, he was at his father's house when it came on and was diagnosed), I didn't really get to witness and understand the entire scenario. But, it passed rather quickly (3-4 days, max) and without any horrible (thank God!) consequences at all. Rest easy. And -- although I really understand the feeling! -- please try NOT to feel guilty about how hard it is being a good mommy right now! With my bedrest, etc., I passed through that phase (eventually), and feel me and my boys are kinda in a "new" phase of our family "growth." They've had to be more independent. I've had to learn to rely on other people (!), and I think it's all been for the best -- especially, since it kind of eases the transition for when those little ones come and REALLY need all of our attention.... Still, I TOTALLY understand where you're coming from! You're still a GREAT MOM, though, and I'm sure your whole family feels and knows that! Don't despair!!!!!

AndreaR, you are ALL, of course, WELCOME to come to Belgium any time!!! Just get those babies out BIG and HEALTHY and then we'll make major plans!!! :-DDD The zeppoli sounds delicious! We're not Italian, but Belgians are _very_ Catholic. In fact, Maxi/ds#1's middle name is Jozef -- it was his great grandpa's name too! -- since he decided to come on this day! As an extra bonus, it's also my dad's bday!!!! Happy Birthday, Grandpa!!! Tells you a LOT about how special/considerate/sweet my Big Boy is...!!! ;-))

Btw, any word from Sheriba, Steph, et al. these days??! It's been SO LONG since Sheri posted....!!! :-((

Please be sure to check in tomorrow _everyone_!!!!! Momma's getting worried!!! ;-)

[teresa67]

Jill,

Congratulations on the babies!!! Wow little did we know when you posted a few weeks ago about enjoying being pregnant that you would have them so soon. Keep me posted on their progress. Jeanette/JReynolds had her babies at 30 weeks and they are doing really well, Laura/Dustymack had her at 28 weeks and they are doing wonderfully now.



Sending you positive thoughts and prayers for your precious little ones.

[qbanmom5]

Missy: So sorry to hear about your uncle. I skimmed your post cause I was upset about the scarlet fever and I am sorry I didn't mention it sooner. It must be very hard for you right now with the way our emotions are and this devastating event to boot. My prayers are with you and your family.

Jill: Your babies are sooo beautiful! They will be gaining weight and going home in no time, you'll see. They are simply beautiful and so are you.

One more day and I am in double digits! Love, Ters

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[AndreaR]

Jill - thanks for taking time to post and for sharing the pictures. TJ and Noah are beautiful and seem to be making great strides in just a few days. Hopefully they'll be home with you soon. In the meantime, the prayers continue.

JacobsMom - I am so glad that you posted because it's good to get that stuff out of your system. It is so hard to have any since of security in the future when things can change at any moment. I think we all feel overwhelmed right now and the "not knowing" is the hardest part. My advice (to take or leave) is to plan whatever you want to plan. Don't be afraid to make arrangements. Just know that plans may change and you have to accept whatever comes your way. I think having events to look forward to will help the time pass. If you refuse to commit to anything because you are uncertain of the future, you'll continue to feel frustrated. Hopefully you will continue to have a great pregnancy, and you will be able to do all of the things you'd like to do over the next two months. I hope that makes sense, and I hope you feel better.

Missy - I am so sorry to hear about everything you've had to go through with your uncles/aunt/father. It must be emotionally draining for you. It sounds like you are dealing with all of it quite well, considering "your condition." I will keep you and your family in my prayers. Good luck with your appointments this week.

Ters - sorry to hear about your DD and scarlet fever. It does sound awful, but from what I know (not much), it seems to be a type of strep throat. I googled "scarlet fever pregnancy" and found this page:
http://health.ivillage.com/gyno/gynoreprohealth/0,,6d0j,00.html
It seems like you and the babies are in no real danger. Hopefully your daughter is on the mend soon! You are not a horrible mother - you are a great mother who has raised a strong daughter. She didn't complain at all about the infection! Happy Anniversary to you and your DH. And I love the name Scarlet....

AndreaR

[newmomx2]

Your kind thoughts and a good night's sleep have made me feel 100% better - I am starting a new week and trying to leave some of the gloom and doom behind me...

Goal today is to drink water till I float, finalize some projects at work and feet up all day :crazy:

Hope everyone has a good week - I will check back in later

[allyf8903]

i havent been on since 3-8. been a while. my doc appointment went good on the 9th. failed the sugar test. had to go back 3-16 passed with no problem. what ever anyone does dont eat cocoa pebbles before you go. :crazy: but now i have to back again on 3-30 for another u/s. babies weighed 2 1/2 lbs a piece on 3-9. we got some 3d pics of my girls. baby A was more into taking pics. Baby B was very high in my uterus and was getting squished my the top of my uterus and membrane on the other side of her face. but did get one of her and 3 of baby A. but all lokked great my back was killing me after u/s though. laying too long on my back.

Do need help with a name though.... i am looking for the italian name for Jenny or equivalent. can someone help me? we are trying to name our babies after my deceased grandma and my hubbys grandmother (she is alive) can someone please help us. i have looked online and getting a few different answers or some site have no answers. can someone please help.

Allison
Adrianna 8-9-03
Identical g/g due 6-2-06

[vthompson]

Just wanted to make sure I checked in today. I start my 4 hours in the office and 4 hours at home today so I am happy for that. I talked to my doctor's nurse. She is going to talk to the doctor to find out what she wants to do about my little visit to the hospital on Saturday. Sorry I don't have time to reply to anyone, but I need to get a few things done here before I leave. I will check back later!!

Valerie

[mmzill]

Hey everyone ~

Haven't posted since last week, and man there's alot going on!! I'm so glad Jason that your wife is home and is ok! And Valerie that it was just a scare - everyone needs to rest!!! I thought I had a couple contractions yesterday also, but laid down and they subsided. We've got to keep cooking babies!

Jill, your little ones are so precious! I'm so glad that they are doing so well!

Missy - sorry for all the added stress to your life lately. It's hard enough being prego, much less with other things going on! But I"m sure you can handle it! Sounds like you are a strong woman.

Lisa, glad your shower went well. (I'm really picky with stuff too, so I know how you feel, you are thankful for everything, but may not dress your kid in the clothes :crazy: )

Everyone is talking about being so tired and emotional - I'm wondering if that is common around 26-28 wks? I am actually feeling some better with a little more energy now and not as emotional, so maybe it's a "stage" that we are all going through.


I hope everyone has a good day! Get lots of rest!
~Monica

[Dad of twins]

Hello ladies!

Jill: It is awsome to see such fighters. You will be trying to chase them down in no time. They grow so fast.

Valerie:My wife and you have the same thing going on. She is on the same meds. A old time nurse told my wife to drink 100% grape juice. The purple stuff. There is a chemical in it that acts as a utrian relaxer. It will help stop them. She is already sick of grape juice. I guess I won't be drinking that after the babies are born. The Dr. said that she has to hold them in another 5 weeks. That would put at around 32-33 weeks!

All of you woman are getting around the stage where you can start having contractions. Don't wait! Go and get them checked out! The longer they stay in your belly the better off they will be.

You ladies are great! Some people thought it was funny that I was talking to you on the net but I would want it any other way. You girls are my friends and you help eachother get through the times when you need other people. Just to hear other peoples experiences and what they have gone through helps alot!
I know I left some peole out but I don't get much time on here anymore. So all of you take care and keep feeling good.

Jason& Sondra
Boy's 28weeks tomarrow!!

[teresa67]

Ally,

Genevieve
Jenna
Jenica
Jenelle
Jenae


Those aren't Italian, I couldn't find one for that origin.

[swineland]

Monday morning, Steph, check!

Hey everyone.....sorry I didn't check in all weekend for "roll call", but DH and I were busy and if he had seen me on the twins board AGAIN, he would've died! Actually, he's very happy that I have this as an additional outlet and a source of support in my life, but I'm on it ALL the time :)

Valerie: Kudos to your family for being so sweet and persistent in finding your registry gifts! They obviously love you very much and probably would have driven even FURTHER if they had to. Are you expecting your glucose test results today or tomorrow?? I have my test scheduled for tomorrow morning, though my dr. said not to worry about fasting or anything. He said just be normal and eat a small breakfast. Seems like everyone else had to fast and/or not eat sweets 2-3 days beforehand. And I had to laugh when you said your DH was swearing in the nursery.... When my DH is doing a project, which is ALL the time, and I hear any of that....well, I know to stay the heck away from there!

Dizziness/lightheadedness: no check, thankfully.

Candy: Congrats on all your new *matching* furniture! That is so fun. I love when we get new stuff and buying furniture for the nursery has been fun for us.

Jason: Whew! A little scare you had, eh?? I am so glad to hear that your wife is home now and resting, with no further complications. You'll have to wait on her hand and foot, although you sound like such a sweetheart, I bet you already do that! Tell her we all said hi and to take it easy!

Sherry: Tempting me with a trip to Brussels and a bottle of wine is not a good idea at this point :crazy: haha. I never did make it there in all my European travels whilst single, but maybe one day I will. I am a flight attendant, so the flights are free.....I'll be there tomorrow! Just kidding. I know what you mean about overdoing it at IKEA. We do not have one in Florida, so when I went out to Phoenix last month I went to that one armed with a list. I spent 3 hours walking around and almost passed out when we left...I was wiped! I ended up shipping back 2 huge boxes filled with stuff. DH and I LOVE that place. Also, happy birthday to your son! Guess what? Yesterday was MY 31st birthday! Give your son a good "pisces" hug for me!

Ters: You don't nap? I don't understand. :crazy: No comprende. Just kidding, I know you have your hands full and a nap isn't always possible for you, but I think it's really important! I take a nap almost every day....it really helps with the BH contrax and just taking the pressure off of everything. Cleaning can wait, if you get a few minutes, take even a small "rest". Of course, now with worrying about Scarlet Fever, you probably CAN'T sleep. Sounds like everything will be okay though....from what others have posted. I don't know much about it, but I'll be thinking about you! AND, Happy Anniversary to you and yours......boy, March 19th is a BIG day for some of us!

Missy: How very sorry I am to hear of your uncle's passing. Words cannot really do much in a time of sorrow like this, but just know we are all thinking about you. I hope your dear dad finds strength to deal with his loss too.....sending long distance hugs :aww:

Lisa: What a wonderful shower you had! Sounds like you got so many nice things....lucky girl. I also had a shower, though it was held in Maryland and was hosted by some friends of my MIL. I, of course, wasn't there but she said it was very special and that we got many nice gifts. I checked the registry and I'm thinking lots of people went on their own to buy gifts, which is fine, but I agree with Missy when she says that she'd rather have the registry stuff. I don't want to sound selfish or bratty, but I'd rather have, say, the bottle sterilizer as opposed to matching Polo outfits for the boys. MIL's friends are all kind of, well...rich. I think we'll be getting fancy stuff, as opposed to practical stuff. But, it's all good and we appreciate all of their generosity. (Even though what I just said didn't sound like it!)

And finally, Jill: I am so filled with hope and warm thoughts by seeing your photos and hearing your stories. The last one you put underneath your ticker of Noah grasping your DH's finger....it's the most precious thing ever. I just sat and stared. For me (27 weeks today), it was really amazing to come to the realization that my boys, essentially, look like your babies. That what is inside me is equivalent to what I'm seeing in your photos. It made me come to a new level of "love realization" for my unborn children. I feel more like a mom now, after seeing your photos, than I did before. Thanks so much for sharing and I'll be thinking of you and your new family every day.

We had a nice weekend.....layed in the sun for awhile yesterday, saw "Failure to Launch" (really cute!) and grilled out for dinner. Saturday we worked in the yard, did a little shopping and had our anniversary/my birthday dinner Saturday night at a local steakhouse.

I'm feeling pretty good, except I can't stand or walk for too long before getting absolutely pooped out. Yesterday, after breakfast, I said "hey, lets go for a walk around the lake". Sounded good while I was sitting down. The minute I stood up and we started walking, I was like "forget it"...let's go home.

Whew! I"m all typed out!
Great day, ladies...
Steph

[allyf8903]

teresa i saw those thanks for the names. i guess i am going to have to buy a baby name book. what a waste of $$$$ but oh well i had one with my daughter but my father spilt coffee all over it while remodeling the bathroom and i had to throw away. that was well over a year ago. if i only thought i was going to use it again!!!! if anyone can help me it would be greatly appreciated. i think its something along the lines of Giovanna....???????

Thanks again. i will keep looking.

Allison
Adrianna 8-9-03
Ident g/g 6-2-06

[teresa67]

Ally.....that is a beautiful name. Don't worry you'll find the right name.

http://www.babynamenetwork.com/baby_names/origin.cfm

you don't have to buy a baby name book if you don't want to spend the money, the internet is full of baby name websites. Here's one that has italian baby names

[Tiny Blessings]

Hello everyone....working from home this afternoon...what a nice treat this is to be doing this now! (although I must admit a nap sounds pretty tempting, too) LOL

Lisa: glad to hear the shower was such a success...HOORAY!

Jason: so relieved to hear that Sondra is home now. Thank god you guys acted so quickly on the contractions and everything is back under control again.

Ters: you are NOT A BAD MOTHER!!! I think being pregnant makes us want to be super mom even more than usual...I cry if my son gets a diaper rash, thinking I wasn\t taking good enough care of him! I know why you feel the way you do, but you did not make her sick and her symptoms seem pretty mild..don't get down on yourself...you are a great mom!

Steph...glad to hear from you again and glad that all is going well.

Missy....my condolences on your losses. I wish I had the words to comfort you during such a difficult time....one loss is difficult enough, never mind three. I am so very sorry. Vent to us anytime....we are here to support each other in all aspects of our lives, not just for the preggo stuff!

Sherry: despite all of the associated work, all of that baby shopping sounds fun. just don't overdo it!

Val: your hospital scare must have been so frightening....I am so glad that everything is okay now. Take it easy and keep us posted on what the doctor says today! And drink your grapejuice!

Andrea: will there be any younger children at your upcoming shower? I had my neices "help" me with opening a few gifts with my shower from DS and they loved it. Just a suggestion. I know people want to see you open the gift they got, but it does take a very long time and it is tiring. Good luck!

Jacob's mom: it can be frustrating to have things up in the air, but just take things one day at a time. We can't go through the next months not making any plans at all waiting for a just in case scenario that may not even happen. I suggest making those plans knowing that if something comes up you may need to change them. Maybe that will help you feel a bit more in control over the next few months...

Jill, Noah and TJ....wow. Words escape me. You are such a lucky woman and your children are such fighters. I can see and sense their inner strength and determination. they are meant for wonderful things in this world despite a difficult start....How very proud you must be! Keep up your own strength and get some rest now while you can. when my son was in the nicu I never wanted to leave...my husband had to literally drag me away to eat. After weeks of this, the doctor came out, took my hand and said gently, "you will never again have such wonderful and qualified babysitters in all your life. Go get a meal and some sleep so you can be strong and healthy for your beautiful son." Those words will never leave me....may they bring you some strength and comfort and help you to keep things in perspective that it is just as important for them that you are taking care of YOU. My love and prayers to you all.....

Tina

[vthompson]

Well, I called my doctor today and she had me come in. I have officially been put on bed rest until further notice. She said that although my contractions were mild on Saturday, it is too critical of a time to push it. Also, I do have GD. I have to meet with a dietician (sp?) who will create a diet for me and teach me how to test my blood sugar each day. This has been a completely overwhelming day! On my way home, I just started to cry and cry. I have tried so hard to do everything right, especially eating and resting. Now, I am just totally terrified about keeping these babies in. The doctor said that I can go to my shower on Saturday, but I have to stay seated the entire time. I just keep thinking about how overwhelming it will be when we bring the gifts home and I can't move around and arrange things like I want. But, I have to do what is best for the babies. The good news is that the doctor said both babies are doing really well, very active and great heartbeats.

Lisa - Where are you today? You usually check in by now!

Steph - I was getting worried about you! I am so glad that you checked in today! It sounds like you and DH had a nice celebration on Saturday! I feel the same way you do about the registry, and then I always feel like a brat. So don't worry, you are not alone!!

Allison - I love all the names that Teresa mentioned! They are really pretty! Hopefully the site she posted will help you make your decision!

Jason - Thanks for the tip on the grape juice! I will be sending DH to the store. It does sound like your wife and I are in the same boat. Tell her to hang in there!

Monica - I was also getting worried about you! I am glad that you posted! How is everything going with the new house?

Well, I really need to take a nap so I will check back later!!

Valerie

[Daniele'sTwins]

Hi everyone...I just wanted to check in because I haven't written in a few days. I had an exhausting weekend and I lounged all day so far but now I am headed to the shower and to the office to help DH for 3 hours. I will try to write tonight.

[EBTwinz]

Hi! Just checking in. I just got home from my weekend at my parents house. It was a long drive. We left at 10am and got in around 4:30pm. We stopped at Penn STate on our way for lunch and to get the boys some PSU clothes. I am exhausted! I will write more either later tonight or tomorrow morning. I want to respond to everyone's posts, I am just too tired right now.

Valerie: I am soooo sorry to hear about the GD and bedrest. I will check in w/ you tomorrow but I will be thinking of you!!! :) Take it easy, okay??

~Lisa

[TMoT]

Glad Monica and Steph checked in. Quiet out there today... I'm honestly very tired myself for some reason, even though I took a LONG nap during the day. Just took all my vitamins hoping for a boost, but it's getting so close to bedtime, I might just give up on having any energy for today at all! :-(

Ally, so nice to hear from you! As you might know, Gianna, Giovanna, etc. are derivatives of the name "John" (Gianni/Giovanni, in Italian). Otoh, to my knowledge, "Jennifer" is a _very_ English (=Gaelic?) name, and I don't think it exists in other languages... If you can find out its origin, that might help... One site says "Jennifer" is _Welsh_ in origin, meaning "white spirit," "white wave," or "white cheeked"; and gives these as variations/equivalents: Jenna, Jenny, Jenni, Jennie, Jennylynn, Jenavieva, Vieva, Genavieve. I know there is no "j" in Italian, though, so you'd probably be best with a name starting with "Gi" or "Ge"... Personally, Vieva ("wave"?) sounds quite pretty, as well as Genevieva ("white wave"?? Love this one!) -- like Teresa posted.... "Jenny" alone must mean "white" then. You could do a literal translation, for example, then and call her "Bianca." That's a very pretty, feminine and classical Italian name... Dunno! Just some ideas...!!! (?!) Btw, there are MANY great baby-name resources online (oops! Teresa said that too!)!! I don't know if it's worth investing (?!) in a book... Could always check the library too, of course... (?!!) ;-) Either way, BEST of LUCK!!!! :-)))

Steph, happy LATE birthday and sorry we didn't know about it before-hand! Wow. So MANY March 19 babies!! :-) I'll give my ds that hug, and here's one for you too! *HUG* Btw, you're welcome here whenever the temptation takes you, Steph! Don't have to wait till bday 32, but Spring IS a lovely time of year in Europe -- as you know, I guess!!! ;-)))

And Ters, I meant to wish you and DH a Happy Anniversary yesterday too, but just ran out of brain-power there! Sorry!! I hope it was lovely and that the scarlet fever is working itself out of the family! *HUG* to you too!!! :-)

...In the meantime, DH and I just had a mega pow-wow about the Ikea purchases we're going to make, so I'm still up even though I had been heading for bed...! :-(

I'm not going to refresh to see the new posts though -- sorry! But, I'll check in again tomorrow and hope/pray that any news coming down the line in the meantime is ALL GOOD!!! :-)

Nighty-night all!

[TMoT]

I couldn't resist looking at the other posts when I submitted mine after all, and I'm so glad to have news from you, Valerie!! I'm upset for you that you have GD, but so relieved that they caught it, that you can manage it now and that the babies are doing so well! Please DON'T BE DISCOURAGED! :throb: I can totally understand how dismayed you must feel, but GD is _such_ a hard thing to manage/avoid! Don't worry though. You and the babies are going to be _fine_!! Imagine what the downside could've been if this had gone on without you finding out about it NOW...!!! :-( Just trying to see the bright side... :'-) And... You're probably going to feel frustrated in the coming weeks/days (that's natural!), but the bed-rest is obviously something you and those babies really need right now! Try to really relax and enjoy it. :) You have really earned the peace and rest that is now yours for the taking -- and you _deserve_ it!

I will say a special prayer for you and your babies tonight, Valerie, and we'll be waiting to hear from you tomorrow if you have a chance. Also, till you see your dietician (sp?!), here are some online tips about gd you can already read up on, if you feel like it... (It says "gd prevention," but she gives some very good pg diet, etc. pointers as well...)

http://www.plus-size-pregnancy.org/gd/gd_prevention.htm

Much love and warm thoughts to you and your babies,

[sheriba]

Hi all!
Miss me? Sorry I haven’t been around. All I have to say is be ready for ANYTHING to happen! Remember 2 Friday’s ago (3/10) when I told you that at my biweekly check up and sonogram every thing was ok. My blood pressure was a bit up from 2 wks prior and my doctor told me to start monitoring it daily. Well………..On Saturday night it spiked to over 180/98 after 3 different readings (2 at home and one at a pharmacy) so we went to an ER and it read 217/110!

You guessed it; they admitted me to L&D right then. After 17 hrs of trying to lower my blood pressure, they decided for safety sake to do the emergency c-section. The funny thing is we were not at our hospital but at one very close to our home which caused confusion and my doctor didn’t perform the surgery. Oh well….so much for my organization and plans!

The wonderful thing is that this hospital is 9 minutes away vs 30-50 minutes to my OBGYN and the hospital we were to deliver at.

The result:
Corissa Alice - weighed 2lbs.6 ounces- she is 13 inches long – arrived at 4:38pm on 3/12/06 (now she weighs 2lbs 7 oz)
Enoch Lee - weighed 2lbs.4 ounces - he is 14 inches long – arrived at 4:38pm on 3/12/06 (now he weighs 2lbs 6 oz)

The twins are now a week old and have had their ups and downs which is expected in 27 week premature babies but they are doing well. The good news is that they were pretty big for 27 wks 2 days so we are very hopeful all will continue in a positive manner. They say that they will be in NICU for 2-3 months and be released when they pass all 5 requirements (I don’t know them yet).

Of course I am still tired and they finally got my blood pressure under control w/drugs. They know it was just due to being pregnant that I had such high blood pressure (but it is not normal for it to go so high so fast) and shortly I should be off the medication (anytime from 2 days to 2 months).

Moral of the story, anything can happen ladies and gent and it is just the beginning of the ‘gray’ zone we will all experience with twins. The black & white days are over now!

I didn’t read any entries. I am still very tired after pumping every 3 hrs, going to the hospital to see them and resting from the c-section. I just got home late Friday night too.

I am happy to answer any questions you guys might have – I am sure there are some good questions!!

Take care of yourselves and babies – know that there are a lot of little ones born at 23 wks and we were well past that, thank god.

Sheri mother of Enoch & Corissa who are 1 wk and 1 day old! :clap:

[teresa67]

Congratulations Sheriba on your babies.

Wishing you positive thought and prayers for them.

[vthompson]

Sheriba - Congratulations!!! It sounds like everything is going well and that is wonderful!! The names are beautiful. Try to keep us updated and make sure you rest yourself!

Sheri - Thank you so much for your kind words and encouragement! You truly made me feel better! And don't worry, I will be checking in several times a day to try and pass the time!!!

Lisa - Make sure you post during the day to help me pass my time!!! Thank you for your words of encouragement! I am glad that you posted because I was getting worried about you...you know I am your stalker (ha, ha).

Daniele - I was also worried about you so I am very glad you posted today!!

Valerie

[allyf8903]

thank u teresa and TmoT i will check out web site! i knew someonw on this board would be able to help me.

sheriba- congrats on babies!

talk later!

ally
Adrianna 8-9-03
Ident g/g 6-2-06

[qbanmom5]

Hi guys!

Sheriba! I am so glad to hear from you and that you and the babies are o.k. The names are beautiful and I can't wait to see pictures. God bless your family (even more).

Valerie: Sorry about the GD. You sound like such an awesome mom already that I am sure you will have that under control in no time! Drink lots of that grape juice too to keep your uterus settled. I am sorry that you are on bedrest, but just relax and enjoy having others do for you.

Others: Glad you are all well and checking in. I had my GD test today so we'll see how it turns out. The scarlet fever is waning, but we definitely decided we want to name our girl Scarlet. Now the boys name...... Any suggestions? Sorry, but not Rhett... Dh ruled it out already.

Talk to you later, Ters

P.S. Double Digits!!!

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[AndreaR]

Sheri! What a surprise! I'm glad to hear that you are all doing okay. You sound like you got through it very calmly. Your names are terrific - I love them. Take care of yourself, so you can take care of those darling babies. They sound so strong already. Congratulations!!

Valerie - I'm so sorry to hear about the g/d and the bedrest. Two big bummers. But like Sherry said, better to know about the issues and be able to do something to prevent things from getting worse. Do you have to take insulin injections or any oral medication, or is it just monitoring your diet right now? I'm thinking of you and hope you are keeping your spirits up. Thank goodness for this board - we'll all be here for you. I'm no diabetes expert, but you may want to be careful about the grape juice. I know that any juice elevates your blood sugar like a rocket.

Allison - I agree with Teresa, don't buy a baby name book. There are so many websites. I love the name Jenny. My Italian grandmother had a good friend (also Italian) named Gemma (soft g). I have always loved that name, too.

Ters - Glad to hear that DD is feeling better. What kind of boys name are you thinking of? Good luck with the g/d results and congrats on double digits!

Tina - thanks for the advice on contracting my gift opening to my nieces. Between DH and me, we have 8 nieces. I won't have to lift a finger at my shower!

Steph - Happy Birthday/Anniversary!

It seems like so many of us are tired all the time, me included. After hearing from Jill and Sheri, it makes me a little nervous that maybe we're doing too much? Let's all make a pact to rest more! Keep these babies in!

Also, I have something to add to the checklist: Linea Negra - check! Just the past few days I've noticed a brown line from my pubic bone up past my belly button. Anyone else??

AndreaR

[newmomx2]

Wow more babies arriving already ! Sheri I know you said you didn't read the other posts but Jill also had her babies so definitely keep posting you can find lots of support here. I love the names and the weights sounded great.

Did you feel any different when your blood pressure spiked (i.e. headache or something)?

Valerie - chin up, I was on bed rest early and while it is not fun it will be well worth it in the end - hey you get to talk and feel the babies all day..you can also become a soap opera expert !! And you have done everything right - these are things you can't prevent...

I am hoping tomorrow is my last day in the office - although I am very nervous about going in and would love an excuse - I have meetings from 8:30 - 4pm fortunately many are at my desk so I plan to keep my feet up and drink lots of water...:spitwater U/S Wed and Doctor on Thurs - I think I will plead for a note to be at home 100%, I will talk to my boss tomorrow and hope is okay otherwise I will gladly take disability - I just know that going to the office is to much for me right now..

Well I am heading to bed very early tonight....take care ladies and in case I did not mention it lately - you are all great friends;)

[Tiny Blessings]

Congratulations Sheri on the birth of your two beautiful babies:throb: ...the names are great. My prayers are with you and your newly expanded family...please keep us posted when you have time.

Val...sorry about the GD. You are already a great mom for taking such good care of yourself and you will handle all of this with ease, too. There is nothing you could have done to avoid this, so don't keep thinking that way! Enjoy as much as you can the rest...make a scrapbook, write letters to your babies, and keep a laptop nearby so you can chat with us online! :)

Good night everyone....

Tina

[mmzill]

Sheri - Congrats!!!!!! It sounds like your little ones are doing really well! I really like their names. Keep us posted. Can't wait to see pics.

Valerie - Don't be discouraged! We don't have that much further to go. Taking care of the little ones is so important right now, and I know you are doing your best. Twin pregnancy is so overwhelming, I know you are doing everything you can to keep them cooking. Some things are just out of our control. You are doing GREAT!!!!

Great to hear from everyone else. I hope all the Dr's apts and u/s's go well tomorrow. And someone has a Blood sugar test - good luck on that too!

Heading to bed.
~Monica

[JacobsMom]

Thanks for the encouraging words and for letting me rant. I'm feeling better today, especially since I got some good news from the doctor's office today. I passed my 1 hour glucose tolerence test with flying colors! :yippee: I was at 118 and she said anything under 140 is good. My peri was concerned about it because my babies are measuring a little large. I am sooooo relieved that I don't have to go back for the 3 hour test. I am the biggest baby when it comes to needles. My iron is a little low, so I will be taking iron pills twice a day. She told me to get Feosol. I can handle that.

[swineland]

Congratulations Sheri! A rough start, yes, but it sounds like those little miracles are doing well under the circumstances. How lucky they are to have you as their mom.....take good care of yourself and keep us posted!

Valerie: Boy, things certainly DO take a turn at any moment, eh? One day everything is fine, now it's bedrest and G/D. BUT, that's all okay b/c you still have the oven on and the timer hasn't gone off yet! Keep that door closed, girl!
Seriously, I hope the bedrest isn't too uncomfortable for you and I'm sure you and your dietician will lick the G/D thing in no time. Stay well.

Well, I've got my glucose test this morning (thank you, Monica, for remembering!) and my doctor told me to eat a light breakfast. Seems weird, considering so many of you were told to fast, but I'm starving so I'm going full steam ahead with a bowl of Raisin Nut Bran. Speaking of which, since so many of us seem to eat cereal a lot (and at all different hours!), what kind do YOU eat?? Something fun or something healthy?? Just curious :)

I'll check in later......hugs to all!
:grouphugg

Steph

[vthompson]

I just wanted to let everyone know how much I appreciate all your encouraging words! You all have a way of making me feel so much better about everything! You are truly great friends!!

Jacobsmom - That is great about your sugar test!! As for the iron, I have to take feosol each day, too. My doctor warned that it can cause constipation...fun!!

Newmomx2 - I really hope you are able to stop working. Keep us posted after your appt!

Andrea R - Linea negra - Check!

Ters - Congrats on your double digits!! I just noticed you have a tummy picture on your ticker. You look great!!!

Well, I look forward to reading new posts!! I will check back later.

Valerie

[AndreaR]

Good morning!

Steph - When I went for my glucose test, I was told not to fast either. They just said don't eat anything after you drink the stuff. Good luck today!

I'm working from home today, so I'll be able to keep you company, Valerie!

Need to eat some more breakfast. I'm starving. But Steph, I'm not a huge cereal person. But I think I'm the only one on the board!

AndreaR

[vthompson]

Steph - I was laughing out loud at your talk about the oven and timer!! That is a really cute way to look at it! Good luck at your GD test today. It does seem like every doctor is different, some say fast, some say light breakfast, and others say to eat normal. As for cereal, I eat it at bedtime as a snack sometimes. I like fruity pebbles and cherrios with a little sugar on top...I am sure that will stop after I meet with the dietician :sigh:

Valerie

[AndreaR]

Ladies (and gent)...

I just made an appointment with a prospective pediatrician. He was recommended to me both by a colleague who takes her four month old to him, as well as by my OB.

I don't really know what questions to ask. Do you have any ideas?

THANKS!!

AndreaR

[Daniele'sTwins]

Sheriba...CONGRATULATIONS on your two little bundles! I love the names! I am so glad that they are well over 2lbs a piece. I will pray for their continued sucess! God Bless your angels!

ok, I have so much to catch up on!

Candy...congrats on the new furniture. When my house looks good I feel good.

Jason...I am so happy to hear that your wife is home and doing well, and we all know that you are taking very good care of her!

Sherry...I will bring the recipe for the Brazillian Panty Droppers when I come out for my visit...lol

Ters...Frogetting what I wanted to say...CHECK And as for the scarlett fever I am glad it will not harm you and is going away. You DEFINATELY have to name the girl Scarlett now! For the boys name do you want another "s" name? Sebastian? I like that.

Kim...Thanks for posting about your boys! They are so adorable! They look like they are doing so well. You are in my prayers.

Georgina...You are amazing! With your strength I truly think you can handle anything!

Lisa...Glad to hear that you had an awesome shower. Isn't it so nice to be in a room with a bunch of women who you love all at once!?

JacobsMom...I feel like I could relate to your situation. I was so upset when my aunt (godmother) planned my cousins shower for late May. Ia m so close to her and I know I probably wont be able to go. Either I will be having hte babies or I will have just had them and I still wouldn't go. BUT I am saying yes to everything, weddings, showers, etc and then if something comes up I am sure everyone will understand.

Jill...I am so glad to hear everything is going well with you and the babies too! I love the pics too.

Missy...I am sorry to hear that you have all this negative stuff going on around you. I am sorry to hear your uncle died. Please know that we are here for you to vent. I know this time must be so hard for you right now.

Alison...I am glad your back. Any thoguhts on the name yet? I also Like Giovanna, for short they could call her Gia or Giana (pronounced...Johna) But that is a name from John not Jenny.

Steph...have to say I am a little jealous of the whole sun thing yo uhave going on there...lol

Valerie...I am so sorry that you have GD! But I am so glad that you found out early so now you can watch it. And Bed rest too! UGH! I again feel like I am doing too much even though I am practically not doing anything. I am glad that your doc put you off your feet now you have to fight for those babies! They need you to rest.

I have a doctors appointment today (no U/S) and I am so glad because I feel like baby a is even lower these days!

I have been also having these Terrible dreams about having the babies (b/g when my twins are b/b) and I wake up from a night sleep and they are dead! It is horrible!

I have a question too...do any of you often forget to take your vitamins? I never used to but now with this pregnancy brain I forget and then I forget if I did or not right after I think I took them! Follow Me??? I think i may have to get one of those containers with the days of the week!

[sheriba]

Thanks all for the good wishes and positive messages on their names. My family is being werd about his name of Enoch. It is a family name on my husbands side and well....they want us to spell it like Enick so he could be called Nick if he hates the full name of Enoch.....anyway, nice to hear you all like them.
Have a great day and going to the NICU now.......and pumping first!! :)

I will check in later in the week.

Also CONGRATS to Jill too. I had no clue anyone else had their babies yet!! Thanks for the heads up on that one.

All, be safe, calm and happy during your final months.

Sheri

[vthompson]

Sheriba - Don't worry about what other people say about the names! They are your babies! It sounds like you are in really good spirits...keep it up!

Daniele - Your dreams sound terrible!! Try not to think about them too much! I do the same thing with my vitamins, there are days I cannot remember if I took it or not. It can be very aggravating!

AndreaR - When we met with the pediatrician, I asked the following questions: What is your procedure for afer hours emergencies? How easy is it to get same day appts? Will you visit the babies in the hospital? Do you have experience with twins as patients? How would you handle a possible developmental delay? How long do you plan on being in practice? I hope these help!

Valerie

[EBTwinz]

Hi everyone. I am going to try and respond to everyone.

Candy: That is wonderful about the new furniture. Just be careful and don’t over do it!

Ters: When I have my u/s, they tell me they are looking at my cervix. She puts the wand thing pretty low and presses hard. They never tell me the measurements, so I am just assuming that it’s okay. My appetite isn’t the greatest, either. I feel hungry but can’t eat a lot.

Missy: Dizziness? Check! Well, I only get dizzy if I stand up too quickly. Plus, I sometimes feel like I am going to fall over, like my equilibrium is off balance. Have fun at your shower this weekend. A lot of people didn’t buy off my registry, but I still got a lot of great gifts. I actually had to delete items from my registry because people just bought the same thing, only at a different store.

Kim: Your babies are gorgeous! I admit, I read the April board to see how everyone is doing and I have been following your stories about your boys. I am so glad to see that they are progressing well and I will keep you in my prayers.

Valerie: I am so jealous that you started the nursery! We are doing ours this weekend. My parents are coming down to help and so are my in-laws. We figured we should have all the grandparents help us so no one is left out. And that is great news about your car seats and bedding! I noticed that family and friends have been very generous during this pregnancy. I think they may feel bad that I am having twins and feel like they have to buy all of this stuff. I am not complaining! LOL! How are you feeling today? And when is your appt w/ the dietician?

AndreaR: Don’t worry, you will get a ton of presents at your shower!!! And I am not going to lie, it is very exhausting!! It took me forever to open the gifts, but some people gave me huge gift bags filled w/ goodies and they were all individually wrapped. My niece was tearing into the presents, but it still took forever. Just take a break, if you need it. It’s all worth it when it’s over!

Tina: Your story touched me, too. I didn’t know you had a NICU baby. You are a very strong woman!!!

Rae: Glad to hear Georgina is doing well.

Jason: I am glad to hear your wife is feeling better. Keep us posted!

Sherry: I agree, we should all come over to Belgium to throw you a shower and to drink some wine!!

Jacobsmom: I feel the same way, I am frustrated that I can’t make plans for the next couple months. My DH is making plans all the time and I yell at him. I worry that he will leave me alone w/ the babies (which I know won’t happen) but he just has no clue! I wish I could predict the future, but I can’t. All I know is to take it easy these next two months and prepare for the babies.

Jill: Your babies are beautiful!!! Please keep us posted. I hope you are feeling well!

Missy: I am so sorry to hear about your uncle. I will keep your family in my prayers.

Ters: You definitely have to name the baby Scarlett, now!!!

Monica: Tired and emotional? Check! It must be the stage of the pregnancy. Plus, even though we are all 26-28 weeks, we are measuring almost full term. I am so afraid to see what I am going to look like next month.

Steph: Happy Birthday! Glad to hear you had a great weekend. I get really pooped, too. I can’t wait to have energy again! As for cereal, I eat it all the time!!!!! I love just about anything w/ sugar in it!! I feel like a little kid, eating my pebbles or Captain Crunch (the peanut butter is the best!) but I try to eat Cheerios w/ bananas or krispies. Now I am hungry for cereal! LOL! My dh loves cereal, too, so when we buy groceries we each pick out two boxes, each. The sad thing is we go through all of that in one week.

Ally: I agree, don’t buy a baby book. You can find tons of websites w/ baby names. Good luck and let us know what you decided. I love Italian names. My mom’s family is 100% Italian, so we have some cool names in the family. If I had two girls, I was going to name one Josephina (after my grandma).

Sheri: Wow!! Congratulations!!!! The babies are great weights! Please keep us updated and I will keep you and your family in my prayers!!! Take care!!!!

Daniele: I had those dreams, too! They are so scary! I wonder if it’s just our nerves or worrying that something will happen to the babies.

Okay, I just tried to respond to everyone. I am sorry if I missed anyone but my post is getting too long. Nothing new w/ me. Just tired from my weekend. I have a baby in my right rib cage all the time. I try to move him, but he won’t budge. I have a level II tomorrow and then a routine check up on Thursday. I will keep you posted. Oh, one thing I wanted to write about, at my shower, some of the older relatives said I looked fat. I know that they meant b/c I am pregnant, but I hate when people say you look fat. They are used to seeing me skinny and now I look like a puff ball. My face is getting really full. I noticed my fingers and ankles are starting to swell, anyone else have that?

Okay, enough typing for now. Talk to you all soon,
Lisa

[Daniele'sTwins]

Sheriba...Do NOT listen to what people say about the names. My family and close friends seem to like the names I picked out but sometimes people just look at me weird. I actually have come to enjoy that...GOOD! I feel like saying so then I know the name wont get too popular and then they have so many kids with the same name in the class...lol (Nico and Luca and I think they are beautiful Italian boy names so there!)

Lisa...my husband (very nicely) pointed out that my arms were getting "bigger". I like the fact that he is so honest with me. I have noticed other places as well but who cares right! We are havign two for the price of one over here! Yesterday I noticed that my face is getting "full"...lol It didn't help that I was wearing a turtleneck! That is right Steph no sun here! LOL

Getting a lot done today! All checkbooks are caught up! Yay for me.

[AndreaR]

Sheriba - Thanks so much for posting and letting us know that you are all doing well. I've been praying for you and the babies. I really like your names, and I think it's wonderful that you are carrying on a traditional name. Spell it however you want, and call him whatever you want. Try not to let others' opinions get to you. I know it's hard....

Danielle - Those dreams must be terrifying. Try not to let them bother you too much. They are only dreams afterall. I know it's normal to have really weird dreams while we're pregnant. I have crazy sex dreams, because we've been "shut off" for so long. And I have problems remembering to take my vitamins, too. I usually take them right before bed, but sometimes I'm a zombie by then. My OB told me no to worry if I skipped a day here or there. It sound like you are doing a good job at taking it easy lately. Good for you!

Valerie - Thanks for the questions; I will definitely use them. I googled some more, too. We have an appointment 4/4.

Lisa - Sorry some of your relatives called you fat. I'm sure you look beautiful. As we approach the end of our pregancies, let's face it: we are going to be gigantic. It was really bothering me for quite a while (I gained 50 pounds in the first 20 weeks! Thankfully, it's slowed down), but knowing that my babies are healthy and growing is really all that is important. I've just come to this acceptance last week. Our entire bodies need to support these babies, not just our bellies. I bet most people tell you how wonderful and beautiful you look, and that's because it's the truth!

AndreaR

[AndreaR]

ps. Daniele, I love the names Nico & Luca....

[EBTwinz]

Sheriba: I agree, DO NOT listen to what anyone says about the names. They are YOUR babies!!! I am having the same problems w/ my in-laws. I am naming one of the babies Brady. My MIL hates that name and lets me know it often. I don't care. I love the name! When I worked in a day care in college, there was this little boy w/ brown hair and big brown eyes. His name was Brady and he reminded me of what my dh would have looked like at that age. From then, I wanted to name my kid Brady. (Plus, I am IN LOVE w/ Tom Brady QB from the Patriots!) But, anyway, your names are gorgeous and special. :)

Daniele: I love your names, too! I love Italian names. I just couldn't find any names for the boys. Girls names are so much easier.

AndreaR: Thank you so much for the encouraging words! I know all of us probably feel pretty big right now. But, you are right, we need to gain weight in other places, too. I once heard the saying, "You can't build a house w/out a foundation" which refers to a woman's butt getting bigger during pregnancy. I think it's true!!!

~Lisa

[TMoT]

Sheri, FINALLY some word from you!!!!!!!! :-) I've been worried about you for weeks, literally! I'm SO glad (and relieved) that your little bundles have made it safely into the world and that Mommy is okay. So glad they caught that bp spike, too, and that you and the babies are on your way out of danger. All for the best, as difficult as it may be now. You must feel great at least being able to see their lovely little faces and because they're SO big! Well done! ...How is your c-section healing?? How is your energy level and the bp now??? You are doing such a great job with the pumping and everything too! Way to go! We are all rooting for you and praying for those beautiful little ones!!!!! :throb:

Names: Enoch and Corissa are awesome! So are Nico and Luca!! I'm ALL FOR unique names (I insist on "Xander" for my Alexander, over "Alex," nothing personal)! ...Scarlet has always been one of my choices, Ters! At least if you get to name your daughter that, I will feel some vicarious (but true) joy!!! It's so beautiful, imho!!! Now about your little Boy.... Hmmm!!! I'm going to confide in the gang that we're leaning towards Darius for our boy and I'm still working on Raquel for his sister. We'll see how it goes... And, btw, I really like Sebastian too, Daniele (goes well with my Maximillian and Alexander, but DH didn't agree):-( !! Does everyone else dislike Sylvester as much as my dh does too? I really like that one! (Max, Xan and Sly -- so cool!) DH can only think of the Cat and Rocky, of course. No imagination, I swear!!!!! 8o)

Valerie, STOP EATING CEREAL unless it is some of that (gross) muesli -- almost the only kind I'll eat now -- or granola or something!!!!!!!!! (Lisa, if you want to be careful about GD, you should stop with all that sugar too, but I don't want to nag!!!) :-p Even though you haven't seen the (mystery spelling) dietician yet, you should already be being cautious -- for you and (especially) the babies' sake! Also: NO added SUGAR AT ALL!!!!! That's a no-brainer, though. I'm sure you got that message right away! Please check out that site I told you about -- I'm so worried for you/your babies! *sweat, sweat*

Lisa -- while I'm at it, sorry! If you're eating so much cereal, those energy "crashes" shouldn't be a surprise. :-(( It's not so terrible usually, but with a twin pg, you REALLY need to be careful about keeping your blood sugar level _constant_ and NOT allowing it to spike up or down!! You know how sugar does that to us under "normal" conditions... Well, it's only multiplied now -- being pg AND being _twin_ pg, especially! And all this spells potential TROUBLE for gestational diabetes. ...Okay. I'm not going to say any more on this topic, and sorry if I'm lecturing. I just REALLY want you (ALL) to be _careful_... :throb:

TIPS ON AVOIDING GD:
http://www.plus-size-pregnancy.org/gd/gd_prevention.htm

Steph, good luck on your GD test! My doc said I could eat a "normal" breakfast as long as i didn't have anything with refined sugar (i.e. most boxed cereals!). Whew. The thought alone of fasting for that long would make me seriously anxious. Let us know how it goes!!! :-)

JacobsMom, CONGRATS on the great GD test! One good thing in this deluge of stress! How are you doing these days???

Getting "FAT": I never really notice my pg fat until I see the pictures afterwards...! At the moment, I consider it my "job" to pack on these pounds, so to @#$% with those people who DARE to call me "fat" (though I don't think anyone has done that so far -- at least not to my face)!!!!!!! In Dutch they say "rond en gezond" -- "round and healthy"....! That's a bit more gentle and sweet, don't you think?! And just what we want to be right now!!! ;-) (Btw, I also don't fret about the added weight because I KNOW how great b/f is for taking it all off -- and quickly too!!!) :-)

AndreaR: Maybe I'm too late with this, but one of the things I'm always concerned about with my pediatrician is how flexible s/he is with natural/homeopathic treatments for babies/children and whether s/he tends to use antibiotics as a "blanket" treatment for child ailments. In general, I like to keep antibiotics as a last-resort when my little ones are sick, so I'll be _sure_ it will work when it really needs too. Years of experience, good references from other parents, and then (more touchy-feely things) like how gentle s/he is with children, ability to "communicate" with kiddies, perceptiveness, etc. -- these are all really important "intangible" things to me....

Missy, I hope you get to stop working! These weeks are SO critical -- as we can all now see!!! And you, especially, deserve some real emotional and physical "time off," imho. I really hope your u/s and dr visits give you some good comfort about the babies and that you'll then get to get the rest and relaxation (??!) you really need. :throb:

Ters, CONGRATS on your double-digits!!!!! :-D

Monica, so nice to hear from you. How are you holding up these days???

Daniele, good luck on your appt today! Let us know how things are going!!! x

All: Maybe we should start formulating that June due-date "reunion" in Belgium down the road...?!! Just a thought/something to look forward to for "later on" (is there actually LIFE after twin-birth?!)...!!

Hugs to everyone!

[vthompson]

So, my dad is off from work this week. He had a surgery a month ago but has made a very quick recovery. He is insisting on bringing me lunch today. He is so cute, he called me earlier to see what I wanted. I decided on bean with bacon soup from Campbell's. He refuses to just make the soup in the can so he is bringing all kinds of ingredients to add to it! I just thought that was cute!

Weight Issues - I just cannot believe some people! I have had older people in our families call me chubby. Why do they think that is something a pregnant woman wants to hear? I just don't understand! I think we are all beautiful because we are carrying twins!! Remember what Jason always saids about how attractive he sees pregnant women!! I also have my level II tomorrow!

For those of you on bed rest, I was supposed to see my regular ob in 2 weeks. She wants to see me next week instead after the bed rest situation. I was just wondering if I will see her weekly now because of the bed rest or does she just want to see me because the bed rest is a new development? Just curious...

Valerie

[AndreaR]

rond en gezond - I LOVE IT!!

[Jillmami]

Sheri- CONGRATS to you as well with the birth of your two angels. Great weights! I hear you re: the names. We named our daughter TJ (The T stands for Todd, my brother and the J stands for Julie, my sister.) Both of them passed away in a car accident in '93. My family keeps asking what the T and J stand for. HELLO! They want to know if we are spelling out the Tee and Jay or if they have different names like Tessa Jane or something. I'm like, "NO, it's just TJ." They go on about what if she doesn't like it! Lots of kids don't like their names. I don't understand why people have to question things like that. Stick to your guns - I love the name and the spelling.

Hoping that all continues to go well with your babies. Let me know if you have any questions regarding NICU time, etc.

Take care everyone and get your rest! I'm off to the hospital to see my little ones. They are both doing well and gaining weight a bit at a time.

[Tiny Blessings]

Tuesday roll call: check!

Val: how nice of your dad to bring you lunch...enjoy the pampering! My level II is tomorrow, too. I am praying that each baby is well over 2 pounds and for more 3-d pics like last time! I LOVE Level II days desite four hours in the car....(plus it means DH and I get to go out for a real lunch at a real restaurant...yummy!)

Cereal: I like Raisin Bran (the kind with the oat clusters). Yum! I sometimes eat Frosted Mini Wheats, too.

Lisa: love the "foundation" analogy. My foundation seems to be growing at a horribly scary rate...guess it acts as some type of counterbalance for that big belly! LOL

Steph: good luck with your glucose test today!

I feel that the baby that was transverse has flipped downward like his brother. The last two days I feel like they have dropped really low into my pelvis. I feel such pressure when I stand or walk now. Anyone else feel this, too? I was worried that they were "assuming the position", but will ask about it at my level II tomorrow. Hoping to hear those magical words about my cervix being long, hard and closed!

Getting so tired now...after lunch I am so ready to crash. Skipped swim class last night even though it makes me feel good afterward..just couldn't get there and opted to lounge on the couch. Naughty, naughty!

Talk to you later....might miss tomorrow's post as will be traveling for the Level II most of the day. Take good care everyone!

Tina

[EBTwinz]

Sherry: I know, I know... I am bad w/ the cereal. When I had m/s, that was all I could eat w/out throwing up. I guess it's just a habit, now. Sometimes that is all I will eat for dinner, but I make sure it's a healtier cereal. For some reason, sugary cereal is the only "sweets" I eat. I have the occassional candy bar or cake if it's a special occassion, but it always leaves a bad taste in my mouth. However, I can eat vanilla ice cream all day! But, it's like milk to me! I promise, I will start to limit my cereal intake. I already passed my GD test. Is there still a possibility of having it?? Just wondering.

Valerie: That is so sweet of your dad! Aren't dad's the best? I wish I had my parents around me all the time. As for your appt, she may just want to see you since you are on bed rest. However, you may have to start going in once a week. I think it's a good thing. If you are on bedrest, it's important to see your doc more often.

Daniele: Good luck today! I must have missed that you posted you are going to the doc today. Let us know how it went!!!

~Lisa

[AndreaR]

Sherry - thanks for the advice on the pediatrician. It's not too late - we don't go for the consultation until April 4. I agree with you about the antibiotics, too.

Jill - so great to hear that the babies are growing. Keep up the good work, and we will keep you all in our prayers.

Tina - sometimes I feel a lot of pressure, but not every day. It will be good for you to see them on u/s tomorrow. Good luck!

[vthompson]

Tina - I think that if you were tired, they you should have skipped the water class. It is important to do what your body tells you! As for the pressure, I do feel that when I get up, but be careful because it was really bad on Saturday and that is when I ended up with the contractions. Not to scare you, but I had no idea going in.

Jill - It was great to hear from you! It sounds like things are still going well! We can't wait for the next update and some more pictures!

Sherry - I have been trying real hard since the news of GD to limit my sugar intake. I did have some cheerios last night, but that was the only sugary thing I had all day. I was just so craving it!! I know I shouldn't have...

Valerie

[swineland]

Hello all!

Yay for me :yippee: I passed my G/D test with a 121! Glad that's over with....I would not have wanted to do the 3 hour test after Valerie's experience.

The appt went good: boys :throb: beats are 152 and 158 and I'm measuring 33 weeks! I weighed in at 187 (started at 161), so I'm roughly 26 pounds into it. He did check my cervix and did that little test to see if my contrax are real or BH. Everything looked great there....long and closed (our favorite words!). I haven't had my cervix checked yet by hand during the pregnancy and it hurt! I mean, not a big deal, but I prefer the ultrasound wand.

Met DH for lunch at Chick Fil A (they have caffiene free diet coke:dude: )

Tina, I did the EXACT same thing last night. Skipped my swim class (for the first time!) b/c I was so exhausted I couldn't get off the couch. Glad to know I wasn't the only one!

Lisa, Don't worry about the cereal consumption in your house. I go to the grocery store every week (if not 2 or 3x a week) and I ALWAYS get 2 boxes of cereal EACH for my husband and I. He eats honey graham Life and I pledge allegiance to Raisin Nut Bran. One of the Cheerios cereals, I think it's the berry one, has 100% folic acid. So, while you should stay away from really sugary cereals like Sherry said, I think some are okay too! Cap'N Crunch is my all time favorite "kid" cereal and I would eat it all the time before I got pregnant....I'm trying to be good now though!

Baby names: Hearing all of your stories just reiterates why DH and I have told NO ONE ( well, except you guys!) what names we've chosen. I cannot stand to hear people's negative opinions on names and I think it is incredibly rude! I mean, eventually we'll tell everyone and they'll think what they want, but by then we'll already be so used to calling them by those names that it won't matter. Not like we'll still be at the stage where we might change our minds.

So, the house is a mess, again. I just cleaned it on Saturday and I feel like it's already a disaster again. There is cat/dog hair everywhere and I swear I don't know what I'm going to do when my little boys come home. I swiffer the hardwood floor every day and try to vaccuum as much as possible.....it's hard to keep up though!

Well, I'm off...I have another very important appointment at 2:30 with my sofa, a blanket and my cat. :sleepy:

Talk soon!
Steph
(and I'm loving the June 06 reunion trip to Brussels idea!)

[qbanmom5]

Hi all!

Guess what! DS woke up with the sandpaper rash all over his face too. Never complained of a sore throat, but he is running a fever. UGH! I called the doctor but they want us to take him in just to confirm that it is scarlet fever also (duh). And they said it wasn't contagious! I called my o.b. just now and they are getting a message to him....

Sheri: Enoch is a gorgeous name. I knew a baseball player in college named Enoch and spelled just like that. He was very sweet and very cute. It's a great name.

Daniele: I have been having strange dreams like that too. Not necessarily that they are dead but like all of a sudden one or both is gone. Missing, and it is a natural part of my dream it seems cause I am not like freaking out or anything. Very strange.

Lisa: Don't worry about the fat comments. I have been stressing too because my shower is scheduled for when I am 32 weeks and most of these people going are my dad's friends or old friends of mine from high school when I was 110 pounds. I feel very insecure about what they are going to think but then I tell myself "Who Cares". It's my babies health that matters right now and any excess weight I will deal with later. Let them try to create and produce two healthy babies at one pop. I get really urked when people act as if it should be like a singleton pregnancy. I swear if 1 person tells me " I only gained x amount when I was pregnant with so and so" I will let them have it.

Sherry: I hope DH gets convinced about Raquel. DD always gets compliments on her name. Some people try to call her Rachel (also pretty), but she proudly corrects them. I always liked it because it is not too common, and it is a strong female name. SHe is living up to it too cause boy is she tough!

Valerie: Chin up, sweetie. Maybe the grape juice isn't great cause of the sugar, but I will look online for maybe some sort of grape extract? Maybe raisins? or red wine? Just joking about those 2 of course but I will look into it and let you know.

I took so long writing this that the o.b. called back. He is prescribing me an antibiotic to start taking. I don't know but I took antibiotics while pregnant with DD #1 (I think it was the 1st trimester) and her baby teeth came out stained. Luckily, those were replaced by pretty white ones. Does anyone know what antibiotics could do at this stage of the game? If the o.b. prescribed them I am sure they are safe, but I don't want to jeopardize anything.

About the boy name.... I think I have scoured all the S names and don't like any. Sorry Sherry but I am with your DH on Sylvester. And as for Sebastian, I can't get past the little lobster from the little Mermaid. I am pretty much
open to any names, I'd just like them to sound cute together. BTW, DH likes Rex (sounds like a dog to me, but kind of sounds cute with Scarlett). What do you all think?

Talk to you all later, I am feeling feverish... I know I am a drama queen and milking this for all its worth! Ters

[TMoT]

Ters, I've heard about the antibiotics thing with the "-cycline" family, but didn't know it could pass to unborn babies! Your ob sure knows what s/he's doing though. Don't worry! Just please be careful!!! ...DH just told me he doesn't want to name our daughter Raquel! :'-( I'm so disappointed, but I'm going to keep working on him!!!!! ...Rex is cool == "king." I really like it!!! (Btw, everyone says the same thing about "Max" sounding like a dog's name too; but otoh, that's now quickly becoming a very popular name around here! At least _we_ were first!!! ;-))

Steph, CONGRATS on the GD test!!! Whew! ~Please keep watching your sugar though (_everyone_!), as the risk doesn't just "go away." They usually check for it in the late-20s Week/s because that's when it first really shows up, but no one's out of the woods on the basis of one test's outcome... For you and your babies' sake, it's still best to be cautious -- and great that that's what you're doing, Steph, Val, Lisa, et al.!!! :clap:

Poor thing too, Steph. Forget about the house! You need a break!!! Less swifting and more couch/kitty/blankie-dates!!!! 8o)

Tina, can't wait to hear about your u/s! Take it easy on the road and be sure you're drinking enough you-know-what (for that pressure -- yikes!)!! ;-) Also watch for the sugar-content in your cereal. Some is okay, but "frosted" anything....??!? Hmmm. ;-) :throb:

Till tomorrow, Ladies!

[teresa67]

Lisa,

I wish I could tell you it will get better, but it's not until after the babies are born. My belly is huge and I get the wide eyed looks and even comments.

When they ask when are you due and I say 7 weeks, they are like OMG, then I say I'm having twins. They get that response if I'm in a good mood. If I'm in a bad mood, I have to keep myself from giving them the bird with both hands, which I feel like I'm entitled since I am carrying twins of course:)

[EBTwinz]

Steph: Sorry, I forgot to say Congrats on passing the GD test! I wish I was at home right now w/ my cat. :)

[teresa67]

Lisa,

I honestly have to say I feel for you. It's bad enough to be feeling like your 9 months pregnant for 5 months, then for him to be acting like that. I would be very upset too. I am a total baby when it comes to being pregnant. I cried last night because I felt like I couldn't breathe and my tummy felt so heavy and my feet were swollen, etc, etc. I don't have any sympathy for husbands right now. None what so ever. I know I should, like Sherri has for her husband, but I'm a mean sort of person when it comes to personal suffering. I think our husbands should be catering to us right now, we have this overwhelming, awesome job of growing two brand new babies and we need all the emotional, physcial support they can give us. I'm not saying mine does, but I believe he should be LOL. I've been married for 20 years, so I know how much of a pain in the a$$ I can be before I need to be "good".

[vthompson]

Lisa - I don't blame you at all for being annoyed with people. I just do not understand why people say that kind of stuff. I think we are all experiencing it, if it is any consolation. Could you maybe stay home tomorrow to catch up on some rest? Just a thought...When does your part time hours start?

Ters - I was laughing about red wine! Don't I wish!! I am sorry your other child is sick, too! Hopefullly it will pass quickly. As for the antibiotics, if your ob prescribed it, then I am sure it is safe.

Steph - I am with you on the names...I am glad that we are not telling people now. I just can't believe some of the stories on here about what people are saying about name choices. I can't believe how rude poeple are.

Valerie

[vthompson]

Steph - I forgot to say congrats on passing your GD test!!!

Lisa - I posted before I read your message about your DH and I didn't want you to think I ignored your post. I would be so incredibly angry with my DH if I were you so I do not blame you at all! I would say something to him otherwise, it is just another stress that you don't need right now. His only priority right now should be you and those babies. Sorry, I am mad at him, too!! :)

Valerie

[qbanmom5]

Hi again!

I've been pretty good about my water today, and I sent DH to pick up the antibiotics. Ugh.

Lisa: I am so sorry your husband is acting like a shmuck (spelling?) I can relate, DH went through one of those periods too right before my son was born. I was livid and can understand how you must be feeling. Try not to put too much meaning to it, and I am sure it is his whacked way of handling the increasing stress/ pressure. Not to excuse it at all, cause his pressure can't compare to your pressure. And those rude people making hugh comments, I am sure don't help. Just know that the huger you are the bigger those beautiful babies are and the healthier they are.

Steph: Congrats on the GD test. When did you take it? I did mine yesterday and am wondering when I will hear the results. I am really frightened because I eat more sugar and carbs than anyone I know. At least I gave up coke and have replaced it with water:spitwater.

Gotta go, Ters

So are Rex and Scarlett cute together?

[TMoT]

Lisa, shall I come over and smack your dh around a bit for you??! ;-) 'Course I dont mean it, but I WOULD do it, if that would make you feel better!!!!! ;-) (Jason, plug your ears!) Men can be such imbicilic, juvenile MORONS -- and just when we need them to act like grown, mature adults! Like you're not feeling INSECURE enough as it is!! Maybe he just needs a good "talking to" from you: Tell him how much you need him "to be there" --emotionally and physically -- for you now. I'm sure he's dealing with the 'big life change,' as you said, in his own way. But, now is a time that the two of you need to stick together, and he has to put you (as a unit) ahead of his own (childish, imho) insecurities. You can justifiably "call him" on this one now, if you ask me... Sorry if I'm being impertinent, but I've been in a similar situation myself in the past, and I really sympathize with your suffering. He NEEDS to put your (and the babies') needs ahead of his own right now. And, you can tell him I said so!! (And send your address if you don't think I'm serious! ;-)) :throb: Hang in there!!!!!

Ters, STOP ALL THAT SUGAR/CARB consumption!!!!! Okay. I realize you have three good pgs under your belt, but GD is so much more likely with twins -- I'm just sweating for you!!! Well, I pray that the results are good, of course, and I suppose you'll know soon, so pleease keep us posted! Btw, I LOVE Rex and Scarlet(t)... Personally like one "t" better -- like the color (and the fever!! ;-)) -- but either way, the name/s is/are BEAUTIFUL!!!

[broncos lover]

For those of you that don't know, Babies R Us gives twins discounts when you buy 2 of the same item. You have to ask for it when you check out. They don't broadcast it. I got 10% off each item purchased (2 mattresses, 2 cribs, 2 swings, 2 bouncers, 2 carseats). It saved us a ton of money. Target and Walmart do not offer this for twins. Only BRU and Baby Depot. You have to be pushy about it b/c some of the clerks don't know about it, so they have to get their managers to come give you the discount. And discount can't go towards clothes, bottles and other small items, just the big purchases.

[AndreaR]

Lisa - Sorry to hear you are having such a bad day. I think you should take tomorrow off and take care of you (and the babies). You are doing an incredible thing, growing two people inside of you. Don't apologize for venting - that's why we are here! And if all else fails, I say go ahead and give the double bird to whomever deserves it!!

Ters - I like Rex & Scarlett. But it doesn't matter what I (or anyone else thinks). If you and DH like those names, then go for it! Sorry to hear that your son is sick AND you have to take antibiotics. I'm sure it will be fine, it's just one more thing to deal with. I hope the household is feeling better soon.

Steph - congrats on passing the GD test. Ignore the dust bunnies...

Have a nice night, ladies.

AndreaR

ps. Have we heard from the other Andrea lately??

[AndreaR]

For those of you that don't know, Babies R Us gives twins discounts when you buy 2 of the same item. You have to ask for it when you check out. They don't broadcast it.

Thanks for the tip!

[mmzill]

Hey everyone~

Well, at the last moment I decided to go with my dh to D.C. (a 5 hr drive) He has a meeting here tomorrow and Thursday. I'm going to go to BRU and the mall - yeah!!! I can't wait! We don't have any "good" stores in the town we live in, so I'm excited to get some sheets and other items that we really need!

Lisa - sorry about not nice people calling you huge. I had someone call me chubby today! I was like "that's NOT nice!" I know they don't mean to be MEAN, but when we already feel gigantic on our own, we don't need others confirming our own fears! They just don't get it! The last time I was at the dr I measured 36 cm.....and then i had 10 wks to go, I don't know how I'm going to make it, but I'm sure that each of us has thought that. Also about DH - they can be so immature! I think they just don't know how to handle the stress - so they go do stupid stuff like drink..grrrrrr.

Glad all the GD tests are going well. From what I've read, it's not just sugary foods that make your bp go up, it's also refined carbs, or empy carbs....like white potatoes, white bread, pasta (it's better to stick with whole grains and such) I think it's all in moderation, just don't overdue it on anything and be sure to get your fruits and vegies........Anyways - just one more thing for us all to worry about....sorry.

About dreams - not had any bad dreams lately, but I understand that they are very common during pregnancy.

Antibiotics - my dr had me take ammoxicillian for a sinus infection during the 9th month of my pregnancy with my dd, her teeth are white.

Questions to ask your pediatritian - one thing that I am concerned about is immunizations. With my dd we decided to wait until she was 6 mos to start them, and I'm thankful that we did. That way I know her and if she reacts adversly, I would know. We may wait a little longer with the boys. I'm not agains immunizations like I know some are, but I just wanted to wait a little longer. Sometimes they give the first immunization at the hospital, I just think the babies are way too little with no immune system yet to fight off an immunizaiton that early.

Well since I'm not at home, I may not post much until Thurs or Friday, so don't get too alarmed if I don't post.

I hope every u/s goes well this week.
~Monica

[qbanmom5]

Hi,

It's me with another dumb question. I assume all you east coast buds are sleeping, but maybe you can get back to me in the morning. Here is my question. When I had my son (8 years ago) we decided that we did not want to have him circumcised. The reason was simple, DH said that he isn't and he has never had a problem. Also, I didn't want to picture my baby going through that pain. I learned in some Psychology class that if the dad's aren't circumcised then lots of people choose to not circumcise the sons in order to avoid any differences or whatever. To this day, my son has never compared his private to his father; he's never seen it so its a non-issue. Also, I have struggled to get him to wash it right and pull back the skin. Luckily he has never had an infection, but I still worry about whether he is washing it right and pulling back the skin, etc. He is soooo private, he hasn't let me bathe him since he was like 5 and even then he would insist on washing his private himself. His dad taught him early on what to do, but I am not sure if he is doing it all that often. My cousin had to be circumcised at age 21 because the skin was so attached it was painful or something. Anyway, I have regretted the decision. Not a huge deal, again since he hasn't had an infection or anything even close. But should I opt to circumcise this baby and have him be "different" or not circumcise him and torture myself about him washing it right forever. Like I said earlier, I am a drama queen, but I would really like to hear all of your views and opinions/experiences. Last I heard, they don't use anesthesia and although the procedure is supposed to be fast and simple, its gotta hurt. I feel bad enough getting them immunized....

Also, can I have a show of hands on who is breastfeeding again? I definitely want to try. I started out with all my kids but only lasted between 1-3 weeks.
Should I spring the $50 for the ez 2 nurse pillow or do you all think regular pillows will work? When I first found out I was having twins I was set on pumping and having DH and the kids help me feed them out of bottles. One of you brilliant gals (wish I could remember who though) said that it would be double the trouble pumping, washing, sterilizing, feeding, etc. Vs. just letting nature take its course.

Let me know what you guys think. Thanks for your encouragement and support with the names. I have a feeling you guys would even be encouraging if I chose Fred and Ethel though, that's how wonderful you all are. I wish we could really plan a face to face meeting some day....I've never been to Europe... Love, Ters

[teresa67]

Ters,

I did the same thing as you with my son, I didn't get him circumsized because his dad wasn't. I always regretted it. Before I found out I was having girls, I knew if I had another boy I'd have him circumsized this time.

[JacobsMom]

I have been waking up really nauseous every morning for the last week or so. I haven't thrown up yet, but I really feel like I might. I can't eat anything until at least 10:30 or so. I never had any morning sickness at all with my DS 8 years ago, and I have only thrown up 4 times with the twins. Each one of those times were days that I got up and immediately started rushing around trying to get myself and Jacob out the door for school because we were either going on a field trip that day or I was subbing at his school. I'm wondering if it's just stress related. This round of nausea seems to have started the week we started back to school from spring break. I think I need to sleep in more often!

I am getting together with my friend tomorrow who is throwing my shower, so we will be putting together my invitation list, picking out invitaions, and finalizing plans (I hope). I already have all of the big things I need - stroller, car seats, swing, bouncer, pack & play, cribs, bedding set, etc. I registered for a lot of diapers and wipes, a few different styles of bottles, and misc. baby toys and all. My neice's neighbor had a baby a few weeks ago and her church threw her a Diaper Derby shower. That was all the guests were asked to bring. I thought that was a pretty good idea.

My oldest neice, Jaime, is the one who is coming to help me get my house organized. She has baby fever!! Not only am I, her favorite aunt, (she was born when I was 8 so she has always been more like a little sister to me) pregnant with twins, but her youngest sister is expecting her 2nd baby the end of September. Her son Bradly will be 2 in July. It's really weird to be having babies at the same time as your neice who was born your senior year of high school!!!!! :crazy: She is 21, I am 39. By baby fever, I do NOT mean Jaime is wanting one of her own. She likes to shop and is going crazy trying NOT to buy things for the babies. :rotflmbo: She called me the other day and told me about a dept. store that has just changed owners, and they have all their fall and winter baby clothes for $2.98 and $4.98. She got me two christmas outfits for the boys, and another matching outfit that they can wear for Thanksgiving. My total was $17.03 for the 4 outfits and the receipt said I had saved $96 off the original retail prices!!! :clap:

Well, I need to go. I've been up late the last two nights and need to get to bed, I have to throw a load of laundry in so my hubby will have pants for work tomorrow.

Take care everybody.

Stacey

[mommyof4at26]

hi gals, yesterday i had my ob appt and my doc checked my cervix long and hard and closed,he said even though my due date is june 29 i have a appt setup for a c section on june 15th unless something comes up before than, i have another us next week so i am excited,ive gained 25-30lbs since the beggining. so i have 1 question i go back in 2 weeks and then every week after that, and i get a non stress test every week till i deliver what is a non stress test??????

[TMoT]

Stacey, NICE work by your niece for the clothes! WOW! It must be wonderful to have her "there" -- all that enthusiasm! You can really use it now (and later on too)!! ...Don't know about the nausea. I've been having that after I eat sometimes (more and more frequently lately though) -- and especially when I take my vitamins... :-P *blech* I've _never_ been "good" about vitamins, but now it's even worse! I think the acid/reflux thing doesn't help us right now either -- so maybe it could be that. Also, like with "traditional" m/s, you might just be "hungry" when you wake up in the morning -- which is a surprising, but real, cause of nausea...!! :-( You might try getting some crackers or (even better) _ginger_ cookies in you _before_ you get out of bed, and see if that doesn't help a bit. Otherwise, I'm afraid it's "welcome to morning sickness" for you!!! :-((( In a twin pg, this can happen at any time... Your blood-sugar is okay, right? Do you check your bp regularly (for toxemia/pre-eclampsia)?? Please tell your ob about the nausea at your next visit, just in case, and make sure you rule out the worst... ;-) And please keep us posted! :throb:

Ters, neither of my two sons is circumsized, and I've had a mixed experience... So far, I don't have any regrets though. That might yet be to come...? I've taught them how to clean "down there," but I'm a bit concerned about ds#2 because his foreskin is tighter than his brothers, and that could spell trouble down the road. (DS#1 had a kidney reflux at birth, so his peep got a LOT of attention from Day One, so the skin was always more "stretchy" than his brother's...) For Baby Boy, I haven't even considered getting him circumsized. What I've learned from the first two is that it's just up to us -- while they're still young -- to clean/stretch the foreskin so it's loose enough for them to do it later on themselves. I'm afraid with my ds#2 it might be a bit too late (=painful?!) to "school" him in this area now, but you got me thinking.... Btw, dh had to be circumsized when he was older, too, but he has no real recollection of it (maybe he's in denial?!). He wouldn't even considered letting his son be circumsized though..... (??!!)

Ters, I'm definitely going to breast-feed! I think it'll be that much easier/cleaner/healthier for the babies, too! I've had a wonderful experience with b/f with both of my previous pgs, though, so I wouldn't even think of bottle-feeding! (?!) Otoh, I'm sure it's going to mean pumping, etc., too -- to have enough for TWO, plus "extra" -- so I'm not expecting it to be easy. I just wouldn't trade the experience for -anything-!!! ...About the pillow, one woman on the b/f thread said she found two "normal" pillows best for tandem feeding. So, when the babies fall asleep, you can just "slide" them out from under you and let them keep sleeping... Just an experience I found interesting. I have the "normal" b/f (pg) pillow, and I already have the feeling that that will be enough for two -- especially when they're still little. After that, well, we moms are inventive enough to roll with it and figure something out as the need "evolves"....

Monica, thanks about the immunization tip! I'm definitely going to think about that... There were a couple of shots (vitamin a? d?) I passed up on when ds#2 was born in Atlanta and that they don't even give new-borns normally in Europe. I had to sign a release to NOT give him those shots, though, which went something along the lines of "I hereby agree that the risk of vaginal birth is... death." Go figure! One of the more philosophical highlights of ds#2's birth, I would say!!! (?!!)

Lisa, just saw your post! So glad things are looking better today (doesn't it always go like that??!), and that dh is doing so much for you...! As block-headed as they can sometimes be, men can also have their moments of insight, can't they?! Well, I'm happy for you anyway!!! ...Sorry you had to work -- it really does sound like you're just TIRED, poor thing! :-( ...Good luck at your LII and let us know how it goes! xxx

Well, take care all and nice hearing from everyone!

[vthompson]

Hello Everyone! Well, I had my level II today, and everything looks good. My cervix, despite the contractions, is long and closed. I should have asked when I was there, but I wonder what caused the contractions if the babies are not ready to be born. Corey is 2lb 4 oz and Kayley is 2lbs even. Corey was kicking Kayley in the head, poor girl!! I have my dietician appt on Friday and my DH bought all my supplies today to check my sugars. I am very interested in how all this goes. I am definitely not one for pain and such. The dietician will show me how to use everything on Friday, good thing for her or I would be lost. It looks like I have to check my sugars 4 times a day. What a life change!

Lisa - I am glad that you feeling better today and that your DH helped out last night!

Monica - Have fun shopping, but don't over do it!!

Ters - I am really not sure what to tell you about the circumcision. My DH is circumcised so we are having our son circumcised. However, I do not have much experience in this area since this is my first pg.

Stacey - I would definitely try to force yourself to eat something when you first wake up to see if that helps. I really hope you are not experiencing morning sickness.

Mommyof4at26 - I have had 2 non stress tests done in the past week. Basically, they hook up heartbeat monitors to each baby, plus a monitor to see if you are contracting. You hold this devices in your hands and when you feel each baby move, you click the button for that baby. At least that is what they did for me. I hope this helps!

Ok, I am really tired today so I am going to nap. Talk to you soon!

Valerie

[swineland]

Roll call...Steph, check.

Not going to write too much today.....I'm tired and a bit grumpy. :mad: Just having some issues with DH and my inlaws. I'm too tired to even go into it....maybe later.

Just wanted everyone to know I was alive and kicking today.

Going to nap.....

Hope you are all having a great day....:)

Steph

[Daniele'sTwins]

Valerie...How was the level II today? That was so cute about your dad bringing you soup!

Jill...Thanks so much for checking in! I love how you are keeping us informed on your two miracle babies!

Lisa...I love your analogy on the "foundation" of a house. My husband has pointed out that my arms are getting bigger (very nicely) and I wanted to say my arms! HAve you seen my A$$ lately!? We are ALL big right now but honestly we are having two at once if someone else wants to have two they have to be fat for twice as long as us!!! Think of it that way, they re just jealous that we get two done in one shot and then we will be thinner then we started (because after they are born we wont have time to even eat...lol). As for your DH I am so glad that the silent treatment is working for you. I can NEVER do the silent treatment but my mom always tells me to do it and this last argument I had with DH it has worked WONDERS! It is hard to do but worth it! Good luck at the level II today! I don't have mine until next Wednesday night and my Mom is going to come with me to that one.

Tina...I too get pressure when I stand and walk. It is so weird isn't it! By the way how was your level II yesterday?

Steph...Congrats on the passing of the GD test!

Ters & Sherry...One of my favorite students ever was named Raquel. She was such a sweet, smart and beautiful girl! She had long brown hair and big brown eyes! She moved towards the end of the year last year to Florida and when she did she cried BUT SO DID I!!! I just loved her so I do love that name too now.

Ters...I know what you mean about taking ANY meds during pregnancy but in your case I would definately take what the doctor tells you. They know so much better than us. I also like the name Rex but if you like that I just wanted to pass the name Dax by you. I went to elementary school with a guy by that name I always thought it was so cool and different. For the circumcision...i ma going to do it but my DH had it done. I think you have already answered your own question though, you said that you have always regretted that you didn't with you ds, so why would you do it to the new baby? I say just get it done, they will never remember the pain.
I am breastfeeding my babies, I may also pump at times so that my DH can bond with them too. I bought the twin breastfeeding pillow that you are talking about but I also have two separate boppy pillows too. I guess I will try them both out.
Oh yeah...Can't breath good (especially at night time) ...CHECK

Natalie...Thanks for letting us know about the twin discount.

Stacey...I am so sorry you wake up sick. I hope this IS just stress and it passes soon..

Monica...I am so glad you brought up the immunization thing!!! I am so nervous about that lately. I know lisa was thinking the same thing as me with the whole autism thing!!! My own OBGYN's son have autism. I am so curious what the studies are showing. What should we stay away from?

Mommyof4@26...As for the NST I am having one at 32 weeks so I have a little bit of time yet. I guess someone has already answered your question but I hear it is no big deal but can tell a lot which is good for us and the babies.

Well, I am off to take a little nap. I was going to do some paperwork for the business but reading all these posts, taking notes and responding to them really takes up a lot of time and energy these days...lol

OH WAIT...BTW...A pharm rep that comes into my DH's office gave him a book to give me from his wife. They have triplets and I guess that his wife told Paul to tell me that if i only read one book this whole pregnancy it should be this one. Then when I was talking to my friend yesterday she told me that her friend told her about this book too and said it was a MUST READ for anyone having a baby....Healthy Sleep Habbits, Happy Child by, Marc Weissbluth, M.D. I am on page 24 so far.

[qbanmom5]

Hi,

Just saw my o.b. today. Everything looks and sounds good. My GD test came back and I passed!! The heartbeats were 141 and 142. I gained 9 pounds since the last visit 5 weeks ago but Dr. said not to worry its because of the twins. I felt really bad though, I know I am eating too much junk. Gotta stop. Anyhow, the dr. said that the next 6-8 weeks are critical and I should get into a cocoon until then. He specifically said no sex, no vaccuming, no laundry, and even to avoid errands. Another dumb question though and I was too embarrassed to ask: Is it no sex as in no penetration? Or no sex as in no orgasm? Just wondering if anyone knows.

Talk to you later, Ters

[EBTwinz]

Just got back from my level II. Baby A is 2lb, 13 oz heartbeat 148, Baby B is 3lb, 1oz heartbeat 146. I can't believe how big they are! I guess there is a slight margin of error on the u/s so they could be smaller, but I am just happy they are that big. Now the new thing is Baby A had a tiny bit of fluid in it's kidney. The doc didn't go into detail since I see the OB tomorrow but he made it seem like it was okay. I just get so nervous when they tell me they found something. I just want normal, healthy babies! Oh, and Baby B's one femur was a tiny bit smaller than the other one. But, they never saw that before in any other u/s. I think it's an error, b/c they were moving around so much she had a hard time measuring them. So I am not worried about it. Baby A is head first and B is breech, under my rib cage. I knew he was up there b/c I can feel him. A was kicking B in the face! We even have a pic of it! Too cute!!

Well, I am going to lay down. I didn't get a chance to read anyone's posts b/c I am really tired. I will check in later! HOpe everyone had great appts today!!!

Lisa

[Daniele'sTwins]

HI Ters...I would think he meant penetration. I am sitting here laughing though thinking of how embarrasing that would be to have asked the doctor...lol

Congrats on the GD test!

[Daniele'sTwins]

HI lisa...WOW those are some BIG babies! I would love to hear that they are 3 lbs already!!! I hope mine are that big on Wednesday!

As for the kidney thing, I wouldn't worry because they would have told you right away if there was something to worry about. Yay for another great u/s!!!:yippee:

[vthompson]

Lisa - WOW, those are some great weights!!! I was happy that mine were 2 lbs each, I wish now that they were almost 3!! It sounds like everything went really well!! I wouldn't worry about the femur or kidney. If they thought you should worry, they would have told you.

Ters - Congrats on your great appt and your GD results!!! I think I may be the only one on the board that didn't pass :sigh: I am glad that the doctor said to stop doing all those things. Now, make sure you listen!!

Daniele - Thanks for asking about my level II, I posted below yours around 12 or so. Overall, everything went really well!! I am very happy, especially with the contractions/bed rest!

Ok, I know I posted about this a long time ago, but I need some more advice. We registered for the Medela Pump in Style Advanced breastpump. At BRU it is $320 or so, every expensive. However, we figured we would register for it anyway and see what happens. It does not look like we are going to get it so now we have some decisions to make. I have been doing some research and the Ameda Purely Yours pump is almost identical to Medela but is cheaper. Then I started to think, should you even buy a pump before the babies are born or wait until after they come? I really need some advice about what others are doing and from moms that have pumped before. Despite what is said about nipple confusion, I do plan on either pumping exclusively or doing both (pumping and breastfeeding) so that DH can feed the babies, too. Any advice/thoughts would be greatly appreciated!!

Talk to you soon!
Valerie

[qbanmom5]

Val: I have only breastfed for up to 3 weeks for each of my kids, so I am by no means an expert. Having said that, I will give my two bits anyway. I read from someone on this board that it is good to have your pump before the babies are born so that you can take it to the hospital and they can show you how to use it best. This is important, since I have 3 kids and still can't say I know how to use the electric pumps. I would rely on the manual ones which usually expressed as much as I needed in a short amount of time, but that depends on a lot of things. With my last daughter, I had the double Medela electric pump and used it a couple of times. It was loud, I felt strange hooked up to that thing, and it didn't work any faster than my manual one. I felt like it had less suction or something and I think I was doing something wrong. I think if I had been taught how to use it most effectively, it would have worked better. With twins this time, I definitely want to get another double electric one (I gave away the last one:crazy: ) I just really want to learn the ins and outs first so I am hoping to have it in time to take to the hospital.

See ya later, Ters

[qbanmom5]

Val: Oh yeah, I wanted to exclusively pump, then was told that it would double the amount of time required (pumping, washing, sterilizing, feeding) vs. just feeding. I also am sure that we will have to pump as well as feed in order to have extras for Dh or when we need to step out or whatever. Anyway, my plan is: to get them on the same feeding schedule as soon as possible (wish me luck) and pump in between feedings. That way, when DH gets home or I need a break, I have bottles of breast milk which he can feed them. I used Avent bottles with my youngest and it worked really well for alternating breast and bottle. I have also seen some Playtex one which really seems llike a real nipple and functions in a similar way (milk comes out of several small openings vs. 1 hole iin the middle). I would like to try those too. At first, though, they say we should stay away from bottles so I don't know I will have to play it by ear.

T

[newmomx2]

I didn't really get to read all the posts but wanted to give a quick update. I had my level II today with a new Doctor only 5 minutes from our house - and they have a 3d/4d equipment as well.

Both babies are head down Baby As head is down in my pelvis - no wonder I feel pelvic pain sometimes... Baby A was 2lbs 13 oz (exactly 1 lb more than 4 weeks ago at 25 weeks - so ladies these babies are gaining 1/4 lb per week !) Baby B was 2lbs 15oz. Everyone looked good absolutely no problems - they did not check my cervix they said the Doctor would do this... I am to come back in 4 weeks (I would be 33 weeks) and have another Level II and Biophysical profile...

Now I don't know who asked about nausea but I have it really bad for the last 2 days including intestinal cramping and the dreaded diarrhea (sorry TMI)... it is weird to be so nauseaus and hungry at the same time...I really hope it is just from going into the office yesteday and getting worn out...I go to the doctor tomorrow so you can bet I am going to ask what this means...I don't have menstrual cramps or contractions - at least nothing that I detect as that - just feel like SH**, I took a nap this afternoon which helped a little..

Anyway at the Doctor appointment tomorrow I am going to find out if I can get a note to work 100% from home...I know that I can't do this anymore...working from home I can probably do for another few weeks - since I can prop up my feet sneak away for naps etc..

Breastfeeding - I am not getting a pump until I am sure I can breastfeed - I plan to rent one from the hospital and then if it is going well rent one from BRU - they rent the Medela pump...

Well gotta go (literally)..

[TMoT]

Missy, awww! I had terrible diarrhea during the last two months of pg with ds#2, and I only realize now that it was because I was taking "alfalfa supplements" (??!) -- something my mid-wife then told me was very good for the health of the placenta... It was just too much of a "good thing," and was giving me serious diarrhea!!! ...Well. Have a look-see: In the absence of other "symptoms," this could be related to what you're eating/drinking -- especially juices, fruit and (of course) hi-fiber breads, cereal, etc.... Just a thought. (And, God, I pray it's not a flu-bug or something! Yikes!!!) Actually, I think you just really need a BREAK. I hope that 100% work from home plan comes through...!!!! xx

Pumps: The only "mechanized" pump I ever used was one I rented from the pharmacy here (you buy your own "attachments" and they furnish the machine -- very cheaply)... Even with all that convenience, my favorite pump EVER is still the Avent "petal-soft" (or some such). It's manual, but then, pumping-b/f is such an organic experience anyway, it kinda makes sense. Plus, the Avent line (and I saw recently that they also have a small, "mechanized" pump too) is not expensive at all. Might be a good compromise till you're more comfortable/certain about what you want to do as far as b/f, pumping, etc. goes....

One other note on pumping: The best/easiest time to do it is when you're nursing from the other boob (then, your milk has "let down" and is the tastiest, richest, healthiest you/dh can give Baby -- even from a bottle!)... ;-) GOOD LUCK on us ever having "one free boob" though!!! :rotflmbo:

GREAT NEWS on all those LII/ob visits!! Super BIG Babies -- Missy, Lisa, Valerie, Ters!!! :5pound: I'm SO happy for (and would it be strange to say "proud of"??!?) you all! And, so relieved that Ters didn't tip the scale on the blood-sugar content!!! ;-) Whew!! ;-) Well, T, this gives you a "second chance" now to try to cut down on that "junk"...!!! Blood-sugar can still get pretty nasty later on, as you know, when those babies start putting on more weight and even faster...!!!! :eek:

Daniele/Ters, I told dh last night that I still want to name Baby Girl "Raquel"...! I'm letting it stew for the moment, but I'm kinda getting weary of all my wonderful name-ideas being rejected. :-( I told him I'm going to call her that till _he_ comes up with something _better_ (and good luck)!!! ;-p

Steph, hope everything is okay!! :-)

Ters/ALL, I think the doc meant "penetration" too! The rest of what s/he said is RIGHT ON THE MONEY also -- about cocooning for the next 6-8 weeks!!!! I hope EVERYONE pays attention to that advice!!!!! :aok:

Had a nice day today -- spent a couple hours working in our courtyard, planting, repotting and tossing (dead) house/terrace plants. I'm sure I overdid it, but it was lovely -- and the weather was "permitting" (hardly to be taken for granted)!!! ...DH and I also caught another TERRIFIC movie at that film festival I told everyone about: "Adam's Apple." GO check it out if you happen to see it playing somewhere close-by!!! The audience applauded for a LONG time after it was finished (me and dh too), because it was truly a wonderful movie! :-)

On that note, it's beddy-bye time now. Everyone take care of yourselves and sleep _peacefully_!! xxx

[qbanmom5]

Hi,

I agree the avent manual pump was the one I liked best. Not too many parts and very effective.

Sherry: Is your ticker working? I thought we were due on the same day or thereabouts but now I see yours says 24 weeks is that right?

T-

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[mmzill]

Hey everyone -

Congrats on the great u/s!!!!! That is wonderful!

About circumsicion - my dh and I were just talking about that on our trip over to D.C. He is, and so I think we will to the boys also. But I won't do it if they do not get some kind of numbing agent or something. I hate the idea of it being done, but think we might regret it otherwise.

Manual/Electric pump - with my dd, we started with a manual pump. It worked well, but took a long time to pump both sides. Val - we bought the Ameda electric pump because of the price difference and it works great. Granted that when you are hooked up to an electic pump you do feel sort of like a cow, but the pump worked great anyways - you do have to learn to relax and let your milk come down though, so it takes a little work. I want to encourage everyone to try to breastfeed! Not to be preachy, and I know it simply doesn't work for some, but - it's such a good thing for the babies!!! I did have a good experience with my dd, she was a very good nurser, so I can't complain any. Some people say it can be hard and painful - but that should be temporary. I wish everyone good luck with it!

Nausea - I've been feeling that lately. I think it's because my stomach is getting flattened though. I think it's as big as a pancake.

Well I did get some shopping done today! :) It was fun. My dh was able to go this afternoon to BRU and we got some really cute clothes, blankets, sheets and some other items. It was fun!

Well, it's getting late. I hope everyone has a good day tomorrow.
~Monica

[TMoT]

Monica, congrats on the nice finds at BRU! Sure wish we had one of those here! Hope you got a nice rest in after that long trip!

Ters, I'm cheating! Well, my ob advanced my due-date to June 27 because it's twins, but I still put my ticker on for 40 weeks (which is actually July 11, I think)!! So, if you haven't done the same (I don't think so, because I remember you mentioning "double-digits" and I saw I was still 14 days from then), then our tickers won't read the same. Wah.... :'-((( :throb: Well, we'll see how the actual delivery dates come out! :) xox

[Daniele'sTwins]

Thursday Morning...Daniele...Check

Well, I guess I am the first one here this morning. I have a hard time staying in bed after DH leaves for work but I am going to write this and then wobble back to the bed when I am done. My back and legs are KILLING me this morning.

Valerie...I also registered for the medela pump and nobody has bought it yet. I figure I will probably get some gift certificates for BRU so I will put it towards that.

Missy...I am sorry you are not feeling well. I hope you can work from home too. And great weights for the babies! I think that is my favorite thing to read about in these posts! When the babies get bigger it just makes me feel so much MORE secure that all our babies will be so big and healthy at birth! And the babies that are already born are growing and growing!!

Sherry...good call on telling your DH that you are going to just call her Raquel until he finds a better name. At first my DH did not know if he loved the name "Luca" so whenever I knew a friend or something that did I would ask them what they thought about the name in front of him. After so many people loved it, it grew on him so much and then one day he called me from work to tell me that he found a name that he liked and when I asked him what it was he said "LUCA" . Be persistant! Plus he found out there was a St. Luke that was a doctor that travelled around helping people so that closed the deal;.

Well, I am off to heat up my legs with the heating pad! I will be back in a little while, I am going to try to spend the entire day in bed reading with breaks to eat and to chat with my internet friends!

[allyf8903]

thought i would drop a line to tell everyone good morning. how is everyone feeling today? im feeling fine. babies were very active last night ans this morning. i will be the big 30 weeks this saturday! only 6-8 more weeks left. numbness in my hands and heartburn were so bad last night that i was up most of the night. anyone else suffering from the numbness and hurting in the hands? mine is real bad! any suggestions? i have been drinking h2o so much that i could float and keeping away from salt and sugar. any other suggestions? i cant type to much on computer b/c my hands hurt so bad especially at night. talk 2 u all soon.

Allison
Adrianna 8-9-03
Ident girls 6-2-03

[EBTwinz]

Good Morning everyone. I had a busy morning so far. Two crisis calls! Lucky me! I am feeling very tired this week. Anyone else feel like this? I fell asleep at 7:30 on Tuesday and last night I fell asleep at 6:30pm on the couch. I did wake up for about an hour to watch American Idol and Lost, but fell asleep again. I just feel like I need to sleep all the time!

Congrats to everyone on your appts. Sounds like our babies are really growing!!

Valerie: Your babies are great weights! You are two weeks behind me so I am sure your's will be the same as mine in two weeks. Don't worry! You are doing a great job! As for the pump, my SIL just gave me her medela pump over the weekend. She just stopped b/f my niece, so she doesn't need it anymore. I am going to buy new attachments for the pump. I am very lucky that she let me borrow it. That saves me a ton of money! I actually had a weird dream last night that I was pumping. It seemed so real.

Steph: I hope you are feeling better today. If you need to vent, just let loose. We are here for you!! :)

Daniele: thanks for the tip on that book. I will have to check it out. From what you read, is it helpful? I am so jealous that you get to rest today. I wish I was at home. I have an OB appt at 1pm so I may just go home after that instead of dragging my big preggo butt back to work. Plus, I have to get the Rhogam shot today. Lucky me. I know my butt will be sore after that shot. Last time I had one, it felt like someone punched me. I hate it! Plus, it makes me nauseous.

Ters: About the sex question, I am not sure what to tell you. I think Sherry posted a while ago that an orgasm can trigger contractions. But, I may be wrong. But I don't blame you for not asking the doctor, I would feel weird, too! LOL!

Missy: Good luck at the doctor's. I hope you can work from home. I am going to ask my doc to cut my hours today. I just can't stand being here anymore. It's way too much for me! Also, your babies are great weights. I think our's weigh about the same.

Monica: Sounds like you had a good shopping trip. I just love going to BRU now, it's like my new favorite store! Have fun on your trip!!

Sherry: I am so jealous of you. You always have fun things to do over there. I can't wait for our reunion trip to Europe! LOL!!

Allison: I have the numbness, too. It's a pain, isn't it? My hands hurt so bad when I wake up in the morning. I am not sure what to tell you about how to relieve the symptoms. I will ask my doc today about it and let you know.

Okay, I have a lot of work to do before I leave. I will post after my OB appt.
Hope you all are feeling well and have a great day!!!

~Lisa

[vthompson]

Hello Everyone! Thanks for all the info/suggestions on the breast pumps. I think I may just get the one that I can find cheaper, between the Medela and the Ameda. Lisa, you are lucky someone is giving you one. That is great!

Lisa - It sounds to me like you need to definitely either cut your hours or stop working. I think it is just becoming too much for your body to handle. Keep us posted on what the doctor saids!

Allison - I definitely have heartburn, especially at night. I find that Tums helps for a little bit. Usually, by the time I have to go the bathroom at night, the Tums wears off and I eat another one and then go back to sleep. I do not have the numbness though, only when my hands/arms fall asleep from laying on them too long.

Daniele - I am glad that you are resting today. It sounds as though you really need it!

Monica - That is great that you got some shopping done! It is so exciting to begin to buy things for the babies.

Sherry - Should you be doing all that yard work? I am worried about you! Thanks for the tip about pumping one breast while the other breast is in use! That is a good idea.

Missy - I really hope your tummy problems get better. You better get some rest in case it is the flu!!

Ok, so I have been debating about posting this because I sound like such a brat, but I need some advice. My aunt told me she wanted to buy us the glider for the nursery and that money was no object. I told her that we registered for one at BRU. I assumed she was going to buy that one or something similar to it. Well, she called me this week and said she found one that she really liked at this furniture store. She described it to me as having a black rod iron frame instead of wood. Since I can't leave the house, I had my mom go look at it. She said it is definitely black with a brown cushion and is not as comfortable as the one we registered for. Well, I feel like such a brat, but everything in the room is wood, the cribs and the dresser. I just don't think the black is going to look good. I know I should be appreciative, but I am kind of irritated that she would just pick one out that she liked. She hasn't seen anything for the room, paint, decor, furniture, etc. Please, do not think I am terrible for saying these things. I just really had our heart set on the chair from BRU. Well, my DH and I figured we would just accept it and then return it. I called the store and they said if it was paid for with a credit card, you do not get cash back so now I am scared. I didn't want to tell her we don't like it, I am a baby when it comes to those things. What should we do?

Ok, Sorry for such a long post...

Valerie

[newmomx2]

Well since I posted yesterday - I ended up in the ER/Triage... my diarrhea was not getting better and I was doing everything I could to keep water in me - I talked to the on call Doc who wanted me to go get checked - what an ordeal - the place was packed last night - we got there around 8ish and didn't get home til 12:30 my poor DH had to get up for work at 4am - he was cursing at me last night by the time we left he was just so tired and frustrated...but anyway apparently there is a nasty virus going around and lucky me I probably got it when I was at work on Tuesday...(Sheri, I know you can sympathize given all the flu you had at your house lately). But you would all be proud - I was not dehydrated they applauded me for keeping up the fluid intake YEAH :spitwater and the babies were monitored for 1 hour and they did great and no contractions in sight..

So this morning I got up and went to see my regular OB and she said I should not be going into the office any more WAHOO !!! She also said I am doing great and passed my GD test with flying colors, BP is still low at 124 / 70 and I only gained 2lbs since last month (of course that is probably because I lost 5 yesterday hehe - only 28 lbs in total); she said that she does not see any reason I will not make it to 34 / 36 weeks. Her plan is to let me have them vaginal since they are both still head down - she said if I don't go into labor by 38 weeks they will induce. I now start going every other week for the next 2 weeks and then weekly after that - I feel like I am in the home stretch !!

I was feeling really dizzy from not eating much yesterday - she recommended I try some vitamin water - YUMMY !

Lisa I am keeping my fingers crossed your doc reduces your hours - I think you and I are only 1 day apart and our babies are almost the exact same size :clap:

Take care everyone - I need to try to eat and work the rest of the afternoon - my parents are passing through later today to pick up there dog - they are at my Uncle's funeral today :(

[vthompson]

Missy - What an ordeal last night!! Well, at least everyone is doing well! That is great about work!! I bet you are excited! Make sure you take it easy until you get over this virus.

Valerie

[Tiny Blessings]

Ok, I know I posted about this a long time ago, but I need some more advice. We registered for the Medela Pump in Style Advanced breastpump. At BRU it is $320 or so, every expensive. However, we figured we would register for it anyway and see what happens. It does not look like we are going to get it so now we have some decisions to make. I have been doing some research and the Ameda Purely Yours pump is almost identical to Medela but is cheaper. Then I started to think, should you even buy a pump before the babies are born or wait until after they come? I really need some advice about what others are doing and from moms that have pumped before. Despite what is said about nipple confusion, I do plan on either pumping exclusively or doing both (pumping and breastfeeding) so that DH can feed the babies, too. Any advice/thoughts would be greatly appreciated!!

Talk to you soon!
Valerie

Val....if you are sure you are going to breastfeed, definitely get it before the babies are born. There are a few good reasons for doing so: God willing, we are all going to have fat, healthy babies that are full term and don't need a nicu stay. But, in case the babies do need a nicu stay, you can use your own portable equip. no matter where you are rather than relying on hospital equip. Secondly, bring it to the hospital when you go to have the babes or have DH bring it the next day so the nurse or lactation consultant can instruct you on assembly and positioning on your own equipment. Thirdly, you may be too tired to run out and buy a pump after the babies are actually here...there is so much hub bub and flurry of activity, there isn't time to pee never mind go out or order on line your breast pump. And for whatever it's worth, the Medela pump is the best one out there in my opinion...
Good luck with your decision making....
Tina

[qbanmom5]

Hi everyone!

Val: That sucks about the black glider. I am not sure what I would do, maybe you could exchange it at the same furniture store for a wooden one you like better? Did she pay by credit card for sure? Does it match somewhere else in the home (like living room) and you could still get the BRU one for the nursery? Worst case scenario, could you spray paint the iron a more neutral color and put a big throw over it? Just some suggestions. You could always tell her it doesn't match and ask that she exchange it for a wooden one. I don't think I am that forward, but it is definitely an option if you feel comfortable with it. I have assertiveness issues, so I am a lost case.

Sherry: Had to crack up about the extra boob. Good idea if I can't get them on the same schedule which probably won't happen right away anyway. I just hope I can remember who had the boob and who gets the bottle so the same one isn't getting just the boob or just the bottle. I am confusing myself. Makes sense about the ticker. I thought I was losing it.

Good luck to all of you and talk to you later. Btw, just went to get my hair cut (another salon and hairdresser) and as soon as I came in she said "Are you in your 9th month?" Thought that was kind of rude but once I said I was pregnant with twins everyone in the place thought it was the neatest thing.

Ta-ta, T-

[Daniele'sTwins]

ok Valerie..I have to say that as much as I don't like controversy or hurting other peoples feelings I would DEFINATELY tell my aunt that as much as I LOVE the glider she picked out it does not match the nursery. Those things cost a lot of money and it just wouldn't even be worth her spending so she should listen to you. Tell her the truth that you really love the one from BRU or blame it on your husband! LOL

Missy...I am so glad you are home and out of work! Yay for keeping up with your fluids too. I just have to say I know all docs are different but yesterday I was over my friends house who is schedualed for her section in two weeks and we were talking about when we get sick what makes us feel better...Well she mentioned when she would get nauseas the only thing that would make her feel better was Vitamin water but when she told her doc he told her to stop drinking it! He said that not enough studies have been done on it and he didn't want her to drink it. Just thought I would pass that along.

[swineland]

Steph, check.

Hi everyone!

I have been in bed all day today (except for when I went to Arby's to get lunch and a milkshake:crazy: ). I slept HORRIBLY last night and here is my new complaint:

My ribcage hurts like hell. I feel like I've been in a car accident....like it's all bruised or something. I know it's got to be b/c my uterus and the boys are getting so big that they are pushing up on my diaphragm and it's invading some space there, but still...I do not like it one bit! Aside from the pain in my hips some nights, this is the most uncomfortable I've been so far. And b/c I can't sleep on my back, it feels like my ribcages get crushed when I sleep on my side....help! Anyone else having this problem????

I am also having the worst time trying to put my damn underwear on in the morning...I have to basically lasso it around my foot and ankle and somehow bend over far enough to get them up and on! I can't lean forward for anything anymore.....

Sniff, sniff..poor me. I'm just really "feeling it" the last couple days and am really dreading the next 2 months. I took 2 tylenol last night AND a half a Unisom and I still woke up in pain and miserable. My husband has been sleeping in the guest room for months now, and thank goodness for that b/c I need every bit of this king size bed. My tossing and turning is insane and I'm always flinging a leg over to his side.

Of course, as my luck would have it, my in-laws are coming on April 7th for TEN NIGHTS! Which means DH will be back in "my" bed (haha) and I just am already so stressed about sleeping. They (inlaws) don't know any better that a ten-day visit is just WAY too long. However, DH wants them to come and so I really didn't get much support with my wishes. They are coming for 10 days and then the following weekend is my shower. MIL is flying BACK down for another 5 days....so FIFTEEN days total in April she will be here. My FIL had the nerve to ask if she could just stay here the week between when they leave to go home and when she flies back down....I said no. So, DH got all pissy that he had to get in the middle and tell his dad that no, she would have to go back with him and fly back 4 days later. See, he works all day, what does he care that his mom is here all the time? His attitude is more, well, it doesn't bother me, you're the one who has a problem with it. Well, they are not my parents, so I don't feel like it's my place to say anything. I was rather hoping he would speak to them about it on my behalf....but he won't. He doesn't want to get in the middle of anything or insult them. ARGH!!!!

Thanks for letting me vent, everyone. Sorry for the long post.

I guess I just need to let it go and realize that they are coming and they will probably always come for that long and there is nothing I can do about it.

I could use that trip to Europe right about now! And some bubbly!!

Steph

[swineland]

Oh Lisa! I feel SO bad about what you just wrote....you poor thing. I would be wound up like a TOP if DH acted like that. C'mon everyone...gather 'round....

:grouphugg

What's up with the DH's acting like a$$holes lately??? And why do we keep referring to them as "dear" husbands? I'm going to start calling mine "JAH" for "jacka$$ husband". Join me!

I truly feel for you, Lisa, and I can understand how alone you feel. I can totally empathize, as I've been feeling the exact same way the last couple of days. You feel like the ONE person who is SUPPOSED to be there for you, isn't. I would just say to him when he get's home "I'm disappointed and you let me down....shame on you". Really hit it home with how you feel. OR, do the silent treatment like someone else mentioned. I can't do the ST, JAH will follow me around until I talk to him.

Hang in there little girl......this too shall pass.

Steph

[Daniele'sTwins]

ok...I feel horrible here for both of my good friends Lisa AND Steph!!! Where do I begin!!! I have my masters in counseling this shouldn't be a problem but when you deal with a friend and/or can relate it is much harder.

First of all Lisa...I would be flipping a lid...actually I would walk right into that bar and let everyone around him know what he just did! Shock him! My husband also has a hard time with answeringhis phone at times so I told him unless he is meeting with the GOd Damn POPE he better answer his phone.

As for Steph..I can so relate to you too! When my in laws come they have to stay for a long period of time in my house and it is very uncomfortable. I would hate to entertain when I feel like this. I want to walk around with no bra, and if I am not planning on leaving the house I would rather not even shower! Now, you can't do that if the in laws are there can you! I feel so bad but I can say it will only get worse for you and I when the babies come and THEN they want to come over and stay. Then they will probably tell us what to do, how to do it, and our mil's will probably want to sit in the room while we breastfeed!...UGH

I feel horrible for the two of you. I am so glad you vented but when I read your posts I felt like calling you! I want to show up at the bar with you Lisa!!!

[Daniele'sTwins]

Steph...when I am upset I read it as DH...Damn Husband

[Daniele'sTwins]

Steph is right Lisa...I just tried the silent treatment for the first time this past weekend and I got a wonderful reaction from it. BUT is there anywhere you could go so when he comes home you aren't home so he gets all kind of worried and scared because that is where he expects you to be? And if you do that don't answer your phone. (by the way this is not the couselor in me just strictly pi$$ed off pregnant friend if you haven't noticed). But my first choice is still to show up at that bar and SHOCK him...ALSO if he has all this money to go to the bar every night then take the credit card and buy yourself somethign really expensive...WOW I am terrible tonight! I must really love you!!!:throb: :throb:

[newmomx2]

I love it because certainly it is more applicable these days to DH:yippee:

I have my last child birth class today -my neighbor is dropping me off because I don't want to have to park and walk 15 minutes to calls DH urum JAH is supposed to come after work but...he informed me that he is tired from not getting to bed til 1am and then getting up at 4am and working til 6pm with an hour commute - okay that does suck but HELLO I have not been sleeping in weeks - I was the one puking and caring 30 extra pounds - it would be a tiny sacrifice to suffer one night - anyway he said he would at least pick me up after class at 9pm - how generous what else would I do walk...

Lisa - your hubby is definitely in the JAH category these past 2 days - I don't blame you for being mad


Oh well vent away ladies that is why we are all here....

Lisa - that sucks about the office but hooray for the reduced schedule :clap:

[vthompson]

Lisa - I am sooo sorry that you have to put up with this kind of treatment right now! I think we should all go the bar and bring Sherry so she can beat him up. You have every right to be furious and to feel hurt and lonely. I don't understand what the heck he does for a living that he can go to the bar mid-late afternoon lately. I am just so worried about all this unnecessary stress on you and it makes me very angry at him. I would definitely show up at the bar and go out and buy yourself something expensive! If he doesn't seem to care about all the money he is spending, why should you? On a more positive note, I am glad that they are cutting your hours. You deserve it! I also like Daniele's idea about being gone when he gets home. Even if you just go to the mall or something. Let him worry for once! As for moving everyday at work, tell them that they need to provide you with someone to move your things. You cannot be moving from place to place everyday.

Steph - Could you try to play the doctor/pg card and let your inlaws know that you are restricted to resting most of the day? That way, you won't be expected to entertain them the whole time they are here.

Oh ladies, I wish there was more I could do/say to make you feel better. These are the times I wish we lived near each other so we could get together and just hug and cry!!

Valerie

[Daniele'sTwins]

Valerie, I am so with you on Living close by to each other! At first I loved that we are from all over the world...BUT now I wish we lived so close together and we could all go out for dinner and Shirley Temples once a week. These Damn husbands have been horrible lately (sorry Jason) what is up with them! I know we are hormonal but it really is not us right now!!!

[swineland]

Daniele, Valerie, Missy....

Thank you SO much for responding to so quickly to both Lisa and I. It sure makes me feel better and I bet it does for Lisa too. I am also with you on the not being home when DH gets there idea. It's so spiteful, but who the he!! cares. It will drive the point home like no one's bidness.

As for the inlaws, I have already told them that they are on their own and that they, including JAH, will be fending for themselves. I'm not cooking, I'm not cleaning and if they want a clean bathroom and fresh sheets when they arrive, JAH will have to do it. (He sleeps in there now and I'm not cleaning 2 bathrooms and washing 2 sets of sheets/making 2 beds). Danielle, your comment about going bra-less around the house is EXACTLY my point. My MIL is always saying when they come on these extended visits...."You just do what you want to do, you don't need to entertain us and you can just pretend we're not here". Well, that's a LOT easier said than done....when I want to get up in the morning and drag my pregnant self out to get some cereal, I now know I have to get my bra on and somehow cover up my nightgown so I'm "presentable". Then, as SOON as I open my bedroom door and head out into the kitchen and if one of them sees me, it's "Well, hello! Good morning!"....like I"m UP for the day. I just wish I could get in there under the radar. I know I should be thankful that these people love us and want to see us, but I think it's really intrusive to spend that long in someones house. My parents would NEVER stay that long.....

Anyway, go knock his block off, Lisa.

Steph

[qbanmom5]

Lisa: I know its no time to laugh, but I had to laugh out loud imagining a group of pregnant, fuming women storming into a bar. That would get his attention and boy do I have a mind to do it. I agree with the others that you should go hide out somewhere and buy yourself something really nice and expensive. Screw JAH! He is really pissing me off and I am sorry, I am normally not that outspoken! I wouldn't speak to him if I were you. Like Danielle said the silent treatment is pretty effective (if not overused). Go to Barnes and Nobles or the library. Go somewhere and let him worry and stew... About your job, I agree with Val that they are going to have to move your stuff and put it somewhere easily accessible for you and where it won't be moved around. That sucks, but at least you don't have to be there all darn day. Sorry that you are feeling lonely, wish I were closer.

Steph: Totally sucks about the in-laws staying that long. That is a long stay for someone who is as pregnant as you are. My in-laws are promising (threatening) to come out (from Florida) in June and I sure hope they don't think I will be catering to them (as well as my 3 other kids and the twins). They are pretty good about helping out though. I am not worried since they have been saying they are going to come out to visit since 1998 and they still haven't! I don't mind at all since when i do see them I am vacationing in sunny Florida.... Just be as comfortable as you would without them there. It reminds me of I love Lucy when she was trying to get rid of cousin Ernie and tried really hard to make him uncomfortable and he wouldn't leave!

Danielle: I didn't know you have a masters in Counseling! So do I . I think you have mentioned that you are/were a social worker? Or is that someone else? I have been working with foster kids since 1998. Placing them in homes, making sure the homes are appropriate and safe and that all of their needs are being met. I hate the job myself and have been dreaming of nursing school for years... Maybe someday...

Missy: Sorry to hear you weren't feeling well. Hope you are 100% in no time. Good job with the GD results and the good dr. visit.

Where are you Sherry? I miss you...

Ters

[AndreaR]

Hello friends, sounds like it's been a yucky day out there. So sorry, everyone.

Allison - My hands kill in the morning. I can't even bend my fingers a little without pain. I thought it was because I'm not drinking enough water, but I'm really trying. They hurt a little all day, but it's the worst in the morning. This is one sympton that I didn't expect.

Ters - I am not sure about sex vs. orgasm. I kind of have the same question, but I too am embarrassed to ask my doctor. I did read in my multiples book that orgasm can cause contractions and "self-induced" orgasms are more intense, so it recommends refraining from masturbation. Bummer.

Valerie - While it is very thoughtful of your aunt to want to purchase such a large item for you, I think you should really get what you want. I think honesty is the best policy (that it doesn't match). Is there anyway you can get your mom to talk to her (if it's her sister)?

Missy - I'm so sorry that you have been so sick and that you had to deal with the ER. You poor thing. But it's great that you were not dehydrated. What a good mom you are! Also, great results from the OB. That must have been a relief. Good for you for no more work! And I would be really disappointed in DH/JAH for not going to class with you. You had a rough night, too, and you need support right now.

Lisa - You have had such a rough day - I'm sorry. I like Valerie's idea of all of us marching into the bar and confronting you DH/JAH. Can you just picture it!? Seriously, though, this is a trying time for you, even when you don't have scary doctor's visits, and you need lots of support. Do you think you can talk to your husband about how you are feeling? Not tonight, probably, because neither one of you will be in the right frame of mind, but maybe when things have cooled down a little? It's not going to get any easier as time goes on, and cooperation is key! Oh, but I totally support the idea of buying yourself something expensive. and NOT baby-related. Treat yourself. You deserve it.

Steph - that sounds very painful about your ribcage. Luckily, I haven't experienced that yet. But I was laughing so hard about lasso-ing the underwear :rotflmbo: Just this morning I had to do the same thing, and I thought to myself "I wonder if anyone else is having this trouble?" Bending over is flat-out impossible. Of course, I've never been more clumsy in my life, so I drop something and then I just stare at it and hope that someone comes along to pick it up for me.

On a positive note, I had a wonderful shower at work today. They were incredibly generous and bought a whole bunch of stuff off our registry and some clothes. All pink girly stuff, which I totally love. They had a big party with all kinds of food and a huge cake AND make your own sundaes (because every afternoon for the past four months I've said "does anyone want to go get me a hot fudge sundae?")!

I only have four more work days, and then I'm done in the corporate world forever. I can't believe it. It's going to be so nice not to have to get myself to the office anymore (although they have been great about me working from home whenever I want).

Chins up, ladies... you are all remarkable women, doing an unbelievable job. You are all my heroes!

AndreaR

[qbanmom5]

Oh yeah, I love the underwear lassoing too! That was so great. Thanks Andrea for the info. on orgasms. I had no idea that "self-induced" orgasms create stronger contractions. Who needs men anyway! I guess we do or we wouldn't be having these twins.

Lisa: Sounds like I may be the only one with a DH who isn't acting like a JAH, but he got me this foot massager and a shiatsu back massager that you strap on to a chair. Both are very yummy and I recommend you go out and buy both right now! And throw in a couple of extras just for you. Set it up in your bedroom, get some scented candles and other goodies and lock his a## out of the room. Let him cook his own food, clean his own crap, wash his own laundry, and you just rest and relax in your bedroom.

Oh and Linea Negra...Check It just took me a while to see with my tiny mirrors and all.

Anyway, see you later, Ters



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[vthompson]

Lisa - I am glad that you were able to talk to your DH about everything...I am proud of you for being so strong! Make sure you keep on him, though. He needs to know how terrible he made you feel today!

Andrea R - It sounds like your shower was really nice!! I love the idea of the ice cream sundae bar. I thought I would get a shower at work, but now that I am on bed rest, I do not think it is happening. You are lucky to have such great co workers!

Ters - I was cracking up at the image you painted about all of us marching into a bar! That would be really funny! Like you, my DH really has been trying very hard, too. Especially with all the bed rest.

Valerie

[swineland]

Hey Lisa...
Out of curiosity, which diaper bag are you getting?? I am totally torn between Petunia Pickle Bottom and Bumble Bags. There are so many cute ones out there! JAH said I could get one for my birthday (I would've gotten it anyway..haha).

Sleep well, everyone, and thanks again to all for your support.

Love you guys!
Steph

[AndreaR]

Okay, I'm so glad we got onto this topic. Since the day I found out I was pregnant, I have done more research on diaper bags than I have for all of the other baby stuff combined. Handbags are my weakness, and I have been looking for the "perfect" bag. While there are many cute bags out there, my concern is that none of them are big enough to carry two babies worth of stuff. I've read/heard from other moms of twins that backpacks are great, but I am not a backpack person. Yes, I agree that they are practical, but when it comes to accessories, I must throw practicality out the window. Of course, I say all this now, never having a baby before, but..... So I would love to hear what you are looking at Lisa. And, Steph, I love the Petunia Pickle Bottom bags on line, but when I finally saw one in a store, it seemed to be made very cheaply. When I looked inside, the material wasn't very nice and there were all sorts of loose threads. Just my opinion...

I did make a purchase last week, but I'm not convinced it's what I want. I got a Fleurville "Mothership." Here's a link to the picture: http://www.rosenberryrooms.com/155pinkstripe.html It's cute, but it still may be too practical for me. Even my husband said, "do you think it's you?" He also thinks I'm over the edge about this. I keep trying to convince him that I could just buy a really big Louis Vuitton and then I'd be able to use it forever. I heard that Gucci makes a diaper bag, but I don't believe it.

And, more importantly, Lisa, I am so glad that you got a chance to tell your husband how you are feeling. Talking is always good! And the truth is, you could "go" at anytime now - just ask Jill and Sheri - and it's really imporatant that you're able to reach him.

AndreaR

[AndreaR]

Where is Sherry today??

[qbanmom5]

Lisa: I am glad you and DH talked and it sounds like you got him to see your point of view. Sorry I didn't remember who else did social work. Your position sounds really cool though. Now I understand your frustration at having to shuffle your case files around. I have had to use "part timers desks" very often as I am usually working for a non-profit org. that can't afford real offices much less desks so I know its a pain. And you are in no position to be carrying files around!

SHERRY!!!! Hope all is well and you are just resting up from your gardening... It is probably late now where you are but write us as soon as you can!

[TMoT]

Brussels is a good place to hide and NO ONE will guess where you are! Serves 'em right, all the JAHs!!!!! ]-(

*have now re-edited entire post doing global-replace of dh with JAH!!!*

...Sorry, Ladies. I didn't check in yesterday because I've been so POOPED these days. Just did a bit of cocooning and had it out with JAH over the name-issue last night, afterall! (DAM*! Yesterday was a record BAD day, wasn't it??!!!) :-( ...I just kinda broke down because his procrastination over "important issues" really started getting to me and I felt a serious rift between us, which I really don't like. Well... He was hurt by what I said (although he didn't deny anything; I think he felt really bad), and we eventually made up. He promised we'd come up with the Babies' names this weekend(!), so fences are more or less mended -- for the moment. And I feel better -- but tired -- and still pretty weepy. Need to eat some fish today...! ;-)

Btw, Daniele, thank you for your support about this name business! I AM going to stick to my guns, and of course, you will all hear about how it goes!!! ;-)

I haven't read through all the posts yet (wow!), but there was something I meant to mention to you, Lisa: My son (DS#1) had "dilation"/"fluid retention" in his kidneys (one side esp) in utero, as well... Turned out that he had a blockage in his urethra which was causing major reflux into both kidneys, but especially on one side! :-((( He had to have two procedures which eventually "removed" the obstruction (they went through his "peep" which is what I mentioned during our circumcision 'discussion'), and it was a living HELL for me (less for him, I think!), because the first time was when he was only one month old and he had to be AWAKE for all the tests, procedures, everything!!! :'-(( He also had to be on "preventative" antibiotics from Day One (to avoid onset of any kind of kidney infection). Poor thing. In the end, the whole history wasn't finished until he was about 2.5 years old (and had that second procedure!) and the reflux apparently abated. He is now seven, and I was just thinking this week that it would be a good time to have a follow-up check-up for him to make sure everything is still functioning fine.... Life of a Mommy...! *sigh*

...I don't mean to upset you, though. In fact, this is probably an extreme situation. (And, now that I've read your OB post, I see that I'm only adding to the worry, when s/he doesn't think there is any! SO SORRY!!! :-((( Just to emphasize his/her point though...) When we first "discovered" the fluid retention -- like in your own babie's u/s -- the doctor actually said this "condition" is relatively common in little boy babies, and the first time after they come out and take a "real" pee, the condition usually spontaneously "corrects" itself (i.e. the obstacle gets "pushed out" or some such). Just something to watch, and is probably why no one is up in arms about the situation with your little one for the moment. Just thought I'd share my experience of that with you, but I don't mean to make you worry..... :throb:

...Boy! Now that I _HAVE_ read through all the posts (and I don't know WHERE/HOW to start editing this post!), I feel so bad for having been MIA yesterday! Just chalk it up to another JAH-experience though! :'-( Well, Lisa, I am SO GLAD you've made it through that awful ordeal and that you did such a GREAT job of setting things straight with JAH...DH(?)! I think Steph should adopt us all as family members so you all can hop on the next flight to Brussels when your dhs are acting like ja's, to give them their due! (Can't help but agree with Daniele that sometimes going MIA does have its advantages!!!) Well, we'll hold this pocket ace in the back of our minds for future use maybe... ;-) Keep that thought, Ladies!!!

I also think you should ask about at least a _desk_ somewhere in the office, Lisa. What kind of discrimination is that??!!?!! You have to work but don't have the "tools" and this new chick is already re-arranging your office??!? The NERVE! You need to open a can of JAH on your boss/co-workers too maybe?? ;-) lol

...Ters, I just read that you missed me! :'-) I get a little bit closeted when I feel bad, and I (honestly) didn't even think anyone would notice if I didn't post for a day! Actually, I thought everyone would be RELIEVED to not have to scroll past my usual verbal-diarrhea!!! 8o) I'm so touched that you missed me, T -- and that you asked about me too, Andrea! :'-) Thanks so much, gals!!!!! :throb:

:rotflmbo: about JAH and Daniele's "Advice" Column!!!! Man! I could take a page out of your book any day, Daniele!!! And, btw, I'm glad I can count you as a friend when things go badly! Wish I'd checked in with you before my tiff with "D"h...!!! lol

...Steph, I have ribcage pain that keeps me from sleeping at night too, but I think it's because I have some curvature in my upper back and that makes my ribs a bit "crushed" on one side. I'm afraid my little ones aren't big enough yet to actually be hurting my ribs themselves, but this is a pretty common complaint with multiple pgs and big singleton pgs -- though I didn't have it with (10lb) ds#2! I wish I had some advice for you. *weeping inside* Not being able to sleep comfortably (CHECK) is the worst... :'-((( Think Lisa has been suffering from something similar too....??

I CAN'T BELIEVE THAT about your inlaws either, Steph!!!! :-O How INCONSIDERATE -- of _them_ AND your JAH!!!! I'd be FUMING if I were you! You are being a saint, and I pray it won't be as taxing on you as it probably WILL be! Just try not to think about it until the actual MOMENT arrives, dear. And think of installing a small refrigerator in your bedroom so you can just hide out!!!!! *Passing the virtual bubbly and sitting with you on virtual Piazza San Marco* :-)))

Panty Gymnastics / AndreaR/Steph...Tears in my eyes about the daily underwear struggle! I'm not as far along as you both, but in my case THIS would already be something for America's Funniest Videos... or "Stupid People Tricks"!!! :'-D

Hand Numbness: Please check on the Carpal Tunnel thread for insight into this stuff. It's a really common pg phenomenon, apparently! Swelling is the basic cause, so drinking LOTS OF water should help; but if that doesn't I've read that the Omega-3/fish oil/fatty acids can make a difference. *tweet tweet* Same song as always! :-(( Either way, please be sure to discuss it with your ob and take precautionary measures (wristbands, pain-relief, etc.). A consolation (?) is that it usually -- apparently, again -- goes away with childbirth!!!!!

Valerie, thanks for worrying about me and the "yard"-work. Maybe that's why I was so tired yesterday?? Actually, since reading Missy's post (!), I've been having more diarrhea too! :-((( If this is ANOTHER bug, I'm just going to CROAK! Well, I will stick it out, start "crisis management" eating/drinking, and pray for the best...!!! :-(

...Val, make your dh (or your mom?) tell auntie about the glider! ;-) lol You're right to stick to your guns and you are NOT being a baby about this!! The chair should go with the rest of the decor! WHAT is she thinking???! ...'Course, you still have to be diplomatic, but I'm sure you/DH can manage that... ;-)

Missy, SUPER, SUPER, SUPER news!!!!! AWWW! I'm so sad you have that bug, but so proud (!?!) of how well you handled it all!!! Plus, all the fantastic news about your/babies' weight-gain, no GD, getting OFF work :yippee:, them being head-down, _vaginal_ delivery! WOW! Stellar!! Way to go!!! After all your heartache, this is wonderful news that you realllllly deserve!!!!! :-)))))

Ters/Boob "confusion": A friend of mine used to wear a ring on the hand of the boob her baby last nursed from, so she'd never forget to "rotate"... Maybe we need to get two different rings...??!? *arr arr* Any excuse!! In fact, I think I'll try this one out on dh!!!! lol ...Or maybe I'll save it up as the revenge purchase (Daniele) after our next fight...! DO like that foot/back massager idea though, T...! ;-)

Well, you all have made me feel less weepy already! I actually have a smile on my face now!! ...Wasn't expecting that -- nor all those posts! I DO wish we could meet up and/or at least PHONE when things are going rough, but this is already SO GREAT, isn't it!??!

Love and BIG hugs to you all!!!

[vthompson]

Sherri - I really do think you overdid it with the yard work and that is why you felt the way you did yesterday. You are always mothering us, and I think we need to mother you from time to time! No more yard work young lady! I really hope your tummy bug is not coming back. You have had more then enough of that nonsense! I hope you and DH work out the name issue this weekend. I still really like Raquel. What if you name the girl and let him name the boy? Just a thought...

Andrea R - I think the bag you picked out is really cute! I am also not a backpack person. However, I did not put nearly as much thought into the diaper bag thing as most of you. I just went with one from BRU for like $30. I hope it will be good enough.

As for the chair drama, I talked to my mom last night and pleaded my case with her, which she agrees completely. She has agreed to call my aunt and tell her that the chair just does not match the rest of the furniture. I love moms!! I will let you know how it goes. My shower is tomorrow and I am getting pretty excited. I am so glad that the doctor is letting me go, although it will be really weird to stay in the chair and not get up. But, maybe it will be less tiring (lol). I have my dietitian appt today at 3pm. I told my DH to bring me Wendy's for lunch since it will probably be the last time I can eat it (lol).

Talk to you later!

Valerie

[AndreaR]

Sherry - so glad you are okay. One day without you and this place just isn't the same. I ditto what Valerie says, take care of you - no more yard work! Hope you are not getting another stomach bug.... Naming the babies, first of all, I love the name Raquel. I have always been of the opinion that if the husband and wife cannot agree on the name, then the wife gets to name the baby (or in our case, babies). I mean really, haven't you done most of the work in this parenthood so far? And isn't that going to continue for at least the first few months after they are born? Especially if you are breastfeeding? Not that I think that husbands don't do anything, and my husband is the best - really, but he didn't have four uterine surgeries, get shots in his leg/a$$ for months, throw up for five months straight, gain an obscene amount of weight, do I need to go on here?? I know that everyone's situation is different, but you are doing the heavy lifting here. I just think the mother gets more power when it comes to naming a baby. That being said, my DH and I agreed on girls names before we got pregnant, so I didn't have to enforce my opinion, but trust me, I would have if one of these girls was a boy!

Valerie - Hooray about the chair! I even let out a little "oh that's good" outloud when I read your post. Enjoy your shower tomorrow - make sure you stay seated! People will do everything for you. They'll be so thrilled that you are able to be there instead of at home in bed. Good luck at the dietician. Let us know how you make out.

Off for breakfast #2.........

AndreaR

[swineland]

Hey all!

I will be responding with a longer post soon, but wanted to let you know that I feel MUCH better today, having slept through the night (minus potty breaks of course) and I already know I have more energy today. I've got errands to run and stuff to do, so I guess it's good I'm feelin' better :clap:

AndreaR: I also love the Fleurville bags, but haven't seen any that come in backpack style. I am with you on the backpack thing, though. The ONLY reason I am considering one like that is b/c of all the things I've read saying it's so much easier and less frustrating b/c the bag won't fall down around your elbow when trying to deal with 2 babies. HOWEVER, and no offense here to anyone who is, but I am NOT a backpack girl. I like cute shoulder bags and am considering this diaper bag to be MY accessory, not another piece of "gear". So, needless to say, I was nodding my head as I read about how much research you've done on the topic, as I too have done the same. I have seen them ALL! The one thing about the PPB bags that I may not like is that, while I like the asian brocade fabric, I don't know that I'll want to see that EVERY day. It's very specific in it's style and I don't want to get sick of it in 3 months. It just seems REALLY trendy and I know there are lots of PPB knock-offs out there (just saw one at Marshalls for $15!).

Ok, while still keeping the diaper bag topic alive, I want to introduce the "baby carrier" topic! JAH and I have purchased a Baby Bjorn and I know we'll get good use out of it. However, the other day I was doing some "surfing" and found these ADORABLE baby slings. I haven't really been into the sling idea until I saw these and they just look SO comfy for mom and for baby. Since the babies can't use the Bjorn till they're 8 lbs anyway, I thought I'd order one of these....check it out if you have time:
http://www.goo-ga.com/home

Well, now that I've gone on and on about the silly, trivial and superficial aspects of being a well-put-together mom....jeez......

Sherry, so glad you are alive and well! Even the Mother Hen deserves a day of cocooning and resting. I will keep my fingers crossed that you do NOT have another bug.....how awful!!

I gotta run for now, but will post more later.....bye girls!
Steph

[Daniele'sTwins]

Lisa.. I am so glad that you talked it out with your DH but even more glad that you said something in front of the people he brought home (probably so you wouldn't yell at him) I am sorry my advice was so harsh...it was not too counselor like was it!!! I just couldn't help it!!

Steph...I am glad you are feeling better too. A friend of mine always brings it up to me that at least the in laws live far enough away that they are not over everyday! I agree but I AM in your shoes so I can totally relate.

Ters...Yes, I do have my masters in counseling but I stayed teaching second grade. I really liked it so I was waiting to make the switch into counseling.
Linea Nigra...Light check
Pain during the night getting worse...check

AndreaR...That was so nice that work gave you a shower! and ice cream too what more could a girl ask for! By the way Gucci does have a diaper bag ...AND IF YOU GIRLS PROMISE NOT TO JUDGE ME....my dh bought it for me for my birthday. I still haven't shown any of my friends because I am afraid people will think I am a snot! After he gave it to me I went to Target and bought a blue one for $5. How could I possible throw the Gucci bag around? I think I have mentioned before that my DH and I are POLAR opposites.

Sherry...You CANNOT possibly be sick agian can you???? Seriously there is no way!

Valerie...
Wendy's for lunch every chance i get...CHECK ( I get the junior bacon cheeseburgers, biggie frie, and a sprite! Yummy!

[AndreaR]

Steph - my sister uses a sling with her daughter, who just turned one. Both my sister and the baby love the sling. My sister says it's very comfortable. She actually used the Bjorn for about six months and got the sling when Francesca was too big for the Bjorn. We registered for two Bjorns, and I'm hoping that my sister give me her sling when she's done with it! Not to continue to criticize the PPB bags, but I agree with you about the trendy fabric. Also, that fabric seems kind of delicate, like it would stain very fast. I've heard that diaper bags take a lot of abuse, so I tried to pick something that would hold up for a little while, at least. I do agree with the backpack from a practicality standpoint, and I found a really cute one that is both a backpack (with removable straps) and a shoulder bag, but it was way too small. I can't remember the brand. I'll try to look for it and let you know - maybe it won't be too small for you.

Daniele - I don't think anyone here judges anyone else for ANYTHING - that's why I love you gals. Speaking for myself, I couldn't judge you for having a Gucci diaper bag (it would be hypocritical). Remember, the bag is for YOU, not the babies. If you're the kind of person who wears Gucci, then you should have a Gucci diaper bag. But it sounds more like your DH is the Gucci person in your family. He can use the bag, and you can use the one you chose. LOL!

Lisa - thanks for the link to the Stork Sak - those are really nice! I have a feeling that I'm not done with my diaper bag purchase.... Also, my friend bought a Coach diaper bag, but it was so heavy she ended up never using it. Hope your muscle pain is subsiding - sounds like you had a rough night. Take it easy at work!

[vthompson]

Lisa - I am sorry you had such a rough night. I hope your pain starts to subside. Are you on your new hours now? I hope you are so you can go home and rest! I checked out the link you posted and those bags are really cute. I liked the chocolate one in the medium sized bags. They look more like purses.

Daniele - If you like the Gucci bag, then use it!! Don't worry about what other people think! And I agree that no one judges each other here so don't ever worry about telling us stuff! Although, I was the same way with my chair situation so I understand what you mean. You just don't want anyone to think badly. However, I can assure you that no one does!

Steph - Those slings look very comfy! I like all that they come in so many colors. I am glad you are feeling better, but don't over do it today with all your errands.

Andrea R - I was laughing at what you said about naming the babies. You don't always realize all that you went through until you begin to list it like that!

So, I am watching this crazy show on MTV called Parental Control, believe it or not, TLC can get boring after several days. Anyways, parents interview potential dates for their son/daughter. The mom picks 1 and the father picks 1. Then, the current boyfriend/girlfriend sits with the parents and watches their significant other go on the dates. At the end, the teenager chooses which person they want to date. It is really stupid, but it is amazing how some of the people are who go on the dates. God help me if the twins are like some of these teenagers (lol). I highly suggest checking it out if you ever see it on.

Valerie

[EBTwinz]

Just checking in real quick. Today is so busy. It's one thing after another. Boy am I glad I am only here until 1:30!

Daniele: We would NEVER judge you!!! I would LOVE to have a Gucci bag. Carry that baby w/ pride!!! I wish my dh would buy one for me! I think he is getting me the stork sak, since he is feeling guilty about his behavior and the fact that I am carrying two sons for him and doing all the work! I think we all deserve Gucci bags, or Louis Vuitton, or Coach or anything that is expensive. Plus, our dh's should treat us to a weekend to a nice spa resort so we all can hang out and sip mojitos by the pool w/ cucumbers on our eyes! I live near Hershey and they have a great hotel/spa. They offer chocolate wraps and fondue bathes! Maybe you all can come and visit me and we can go to the spa! :)

Valerie: That is so funny that you brought up that show. I watch it every night. I think it's on a 6pm. I used to watch Friend's reruns but they don't air it on our new cable, which sucks since I LOVE Friends! So, now I watch MTV. I agree, you can only watch so much TLC or Discovery channel w/ the baby stuff. But, aren't those teens a trip? They are sooo disrespectful to the parents. I think some of it has to be made up.

Darn, I have another call. Do these people not know it's Friday? That one is going to voice mail and I will deal w/ them later.

~Lisa

[TMoT]

*sigh* Are we all returning to (pg) "normal" now???!?! :-)) I've had a pretty dreadful day as far as "feeling okay" goes. Must've had 2-3 bouts of sudden energy loss (!) and I'm getting SO WORRIED about gd now... :-((( My test is on Monday though, so we will see. ANYTHING to make this feeling go away...! :-(

Andrea, THANKS for the support about baby-naming. I should just memorize your post to spew on/at jah should the need arise...! I tend to get more weepy and "philosphical" when I'm feeling hurt, but I think GUILT _is_ the operative angle here -- and not like I'm/we're making it up anyway! You are so _right_. I will definitely report back later on this... ;-)

Lisa, I'm still a bit miffed at jah too, but I did call the babysitter to be able to join him for more horror flicks tonight (!)... I'm such a push-over, but I really do love the ja, so.... ;-) ...Sorry about your pain last night too! :-( The spinningbabies site recommends using an ICE PACK (!) on your tummy to make baby/babies move away from a spot where you don't want them to be... Might be an idea (for Steph and the ribcage too maybe??)... And...Some replacement! Already calling in sick and LOOK at -you-! How obscene of her! Goes to show: They just can't replace YOU, Lisa!!! :-) (Btw, I'm ALL OVER that Hershey spa *dreaming of a chocolate bath*! Yummm!! You're all welcome here to Belgium for a visit to the -original- Spa, too -- YES! It's a _Belgian_ city, of all things!!!)

Speaking of pain (!), Steph, I thought I might share some of my "fixes" for my own rib discomfort... First of all, the heating pad, of course! :throb: But, also, I found that if I HUG something (like the pg pillow) and really try to stretch my ribcage/chest out (by spreading my should blades in back), that helps. As crazy as this seems, sometimes sleeping _without_ a pillow helps too -- with my head either on my arm or directly on the bed... Also just a thought, just in case...??

Sling: I used a sling with both my boys and it was so nice. I had been wondering about sticking TWO in there (?!), though... Then I got a picture from a friend of a mom of twins (the one who delivered her babies herself on the toilet -- remember?!) with two 9-month-olds, where she's using TWO slings, crossing eachother, with a baby on each hip. And the little ones were smiling like loonies! It was such an awesome pic! :-) ...Otherwise, I had been looking at this "double" Bjorn thingy -- the only one of it's kind, apparently. It's not so beautiful (sorry, D, no Gucci! ;-p), but it can also be turned into TWO separate carriers if/when the need arises... Kinda expensive too...

http://www.doubleblessings.com/Detail.bok?no=250

Actually, Daniele, make it Gucci EVERYTHING, baby!!! :-))) Don't stop at the bag! Get the shoes, wallet, scarf, -whatever- you want -- and ENJOY it!!! You've earned it!!! :-)

Thanks for Mother-Hen-ing me a bit, Ladies. I could/can use it... :'-) Off to eat before we go out. Have a lovely weekend, all, and can't wait to hear about your shower, Valerie (btw, hope the dietician visit went okay, too)! xox

[mmzill]

Hey ladies (and Jason) ~

We are finally home, got in late last night. We had a nice time, but it's good to sleep in your own bed!

I was laughing so hard about the lasso underwear!!!!! I haven't had that problem with my underwear, but my shoes and socks.....I can't for the life of me get them on my feet!

I also love the JAH and DH (not standing for Dear!) Guys are so selfish! I wish I could be, but we don't have a choice, we have to eat right and not drink and are so tired it's no fun to go out anyways. It's not like we have a choice. If we act stupid, it will jepordize our babies. (It just goes to show that men are not cut out to have babies, they couldn't handle all the discomforts and other crap .. . . . . lasso underwear. :) .. . . . .that we have to put up with. They are too much babies themselves.
Ok, enough of my dish on men. I actually have a pretty good husband, and I appreciate him most of the time. He's not a drinker, so I've never had to blast him about being at a bar. But he can still be really selfish! Grrrrrrr!!!

Well, we are going out of town again tomorrow, so I probably won't post until Monday, just in case anyone worries :) It's so nice to have friends on here that understand everything and worry if you don't check in!

I hope everyone else has a good weekend! Off to meet my pillow!
~Monica

[vthompson]

Hello Everyone! Well, I just got back from the dietitian and I feel a lot better. She said that my numbers were so borderline that she would not really consider me as having GD. She said this is more of a preventative measure. She told me that the person she was meeting with after me had sugars in the high 200's, I was not even close to that. Basically, with the contractions, there is a possibility I could be put on meds at some point to stop them and these raise your sugars. If my sugars are under control now, then she said I should do ok with the meds, if they are needed. I felt a lot better after talking with her and she made it clear that it was nothing I did. My body is just not making enough insulin to combat the sugar. The diet changes aren't bad, either. Basically, you can eat what you want, you just have to adjust how much of each thing you eat. They are only concerned with carbs, protein, and fat. The combo they give you for your snacks is actually more food then I ever eat at snacks. Ok, sorry for such a long explanation, but I had to tell my friends how things went! :)

Monica - I am glad that you checked in! I am glad that you had a good mini vacation! I know what you mean, though, about being home in your own bed! I hope you have fun this weekend. Are you going anywhere exciting?

Sherry - I am sure that you are still recovering from your yard work today! I am interested to hear how the talk goes with the DH about names. I checked out the slings, they are really cool. I told my DH about it and he said he heard that the double carrier is really bad for your back because you are carrying 2 babies at once. I guess he looked into them. Just wanted to let you know!!

Well, I am waiting for my FIL who is bringing us fish dinners tonight! Talk to everyone soon!! BTW, we have a bunch of baby stuff to wash so my mom bought some Dreft for us. It was 8.99. I couldn't believe it!! I know I sound cheap, but wow!

Valerie

[qbanmom5]

hi everyone,

I am having a really crappy time right now. Remember my cats problem? I put an ad in the local paper for a good home for 2 of the cats. My favorite one was to stay with us. That is, until DH (JAH) saw her scratching the new furniture and the smell of fresh urine got up his nose. He insisted that she had to go to and I (begrudgingly) agreed. A co-worker of his happened to be looking for a kitty and I thought it would be perfect. I get to see her, hear about her, and know that she will be loved. She came to get her last night and I cried although I knew that it was the best thing for her. The other alternatives --living with strangers or living in our dark garage did not seem fair for such a happy and loving cat.

This morning, the girl called to say that she can't find the cat. She swears she didn't open the door and she fell asleep with her on the bed. I know cats hide, but this is a small apartment and she said she looked everywhere. She had to go to work, so she asked DH to go and try to call her in case she did get out and she is lost or something. DH did and didn't see her anywhere. I am devastated. I am crying as I write this. I feel like I betrayed her and because of me she could be lost or dead. I am angry with DH and wish I would have never agreed to give her away. I really tried to do the best thing for her and I am really praying that she is just hiding somewhere in this girls apartment. If she did get out, I am afraid for her because she has always been an indoor cat and doesn't know danger.

Please pray for her--her name is Blossom. I feel really stupid because I know she is an animal and not a child but I really love her. my heart is broken...
Ters

[vthompson]

Ters - Your post brought tears to my eyes!! I am so sorry this is happening to you! And don't feel stupid! Animals are like our babies. I will definitely pray for Blossom. Hang in there and keep us posted!

Valerie

[AndreaR]

Monica - welcome home! And you're going out of town again?! How do you keep up your stamina? I totally agree about sleeping in your own bed. There's nothing like it.

Ters - I'm so sorry to hear about Blossom. It's not your fault; you are trying to do the right thing for her and for your family. I'll keep you and her in my prayers. I'm sure she'll show up safe & sound.

Valerie - That is great news from the dietician. You must be VERY relieved.

DH & I are headed out for the "early bird special." He wants to be home in time to watch the BC basketball game, and I want to be home early to go to bed! LOL

We haven't heard from the other Andrea in a while - I hope everything is okay!

AndreaR

[swineland]

Oh Ters! I feel so bad for you. First of all, cats can find the CRAZIEST hiding spots. We have 2 cats and I STILL have days where I am looking all over for one of them and swear that they've gotten out and are in trouble. Turns out they are behind the dryer or something stupid. I'm sure that Blossom is just in a real good hiding spot b/c of the new environment, etc. DO NOT beat yourself up over this......you had her best intentions at heart and did what you thought was right.

And as far as you saying that it "sounds stupid" because Blossom is "just an animal", well.....I know I'd rather hang out with my animals more than most of the people I know. (Present company excluded) Your animals are your babies, too!! I would feel the SAME way as you.

Keep us posted and I'll send positive thoughts your way :aww:

Steph

[swineland]

AndreaR: I went to Neiman Marcus today and looked at the PPB bags and you are right! I noticed several loose threads and poor stitching. Plus, this particular bag was $175! It should be made with 24k gold thread for that kind of $$. Anyway, thanks for the opinions on the bags......I definitely think I'm going with something different. I just gotta figure out what!

Have a great evening/weekend everyone!

DH and I are staying in tonight to watch a movie and I'm hitting the sack early.

Stay well!
Steph

[qbanmom5]

Thank you guys for your prayers and positive thoughts. I am really trying to stay positive and think that she is in a good hiding spot. Just last week I was calling her and calling her and she finally came out from underneath our dresser which is only off the ground about 3 inches. She had dust bunnies on her tail. Also, she used to love to hide inside our box spring where she had opened herself up a little hole small enough to get in and out of. I really hope you're right Steph! I will definitely keep you guys posted.

Danielle: Enjoy that Gucci bag, girl. I know how you feel, but just tell yourself you deserve it (which you do). You've got 2 buns in the oven and the bag is for you and your tastes, comforts, etc. I, unlike most of you it seems, am very much a backpack girl. I have never been into shoes, handbags, etc. Sporty, I guess you could say. The only thing I think I will have a problem with is that backpacks are so long and I am not the most organized gal so I will be digging and digging for stuff at the bottom. I'd love to find something with 2 shoulder straps and maybe lots of pockets inside and out so I use the big main pocket for the big items.

Val: Glad you could resolve the glider issue. I have always had a problem with assertiveness, so that would have been hard for me to negotiate. Thats why my baby shower is not until May 6th. Didn't have the character strength I guess to insist that she move it up even more (she already moved it from the 20th to the 6th). I was talking about that very thing last night with DH who told me I should just be appreciative that she is giving me a shower. This is my first shower and he reminded me that neither my mother nor my sister has ever done one for me. (refresher: It's my father's wife whom I have never referred to as my step-mom that is planning and having it for me). I guess he is right.

Sherry: Glad you are doing well. We really feel it when you aren't around. Good luck with the baby naming. I am of course biased, but maybe Raquel could be a middle name? We are still struggling with the boy's name. I haven't told anyone that the girl's name is Scarlett (except you guys) because then I have to hear about "how do you say that in spanish?'" or "what's that I've never heard it before?" My parents as well as DH's are Cuban, and they would love it if we named them Pepe and Juana. just kidding but close.

Lisa: Hope all is well with you and your work and DH.

Jason: Where have you been? You are missing quite a bit. Hope your wife is o.k.

Monica: I envy your stamina and more power to you! You go girl!

Andrea: Thanks for your well wishes and enjoy that early bird special!

Also, just found out that Scarlett Johansen is a twin! She has a twin brother named Hunter which I am afraid would really not go with Rodriguez. As it is Scarlett is a bit of a stretch. We decided to go with the two T's at the end. DH likes it better and I think I do too. Now for her brother.....

Talk to you soon and thanks again for your prayers. I will let you know as soon as I hear about Blossom. Part of me is just hoping she shows up on my doorstep... I have heard of cats finding their way back home. Do you think 4-5 miles is too far?

Sorry if I left anyone out. I am beat.

Love you all, Ters

[newmomx2]

hi everyone,

I am having a really crappy time right now. Remember my cats problem? I put an ad in the local paper for a good home for 2 of the cats. My favorite one was to stay with us. That is, until DH (JAH) saw her scratching the new furniture and the smell of fresh urine got up his nose. He insisted that she had to go to and I (begrudgingly) agreed. A co-worker of his happened to be looking for a kitty and I thought it would be perfect. I get to see her, hear about her, and know that she will be loved. She came to get her last night and I cried although I knew that it was the best thing for her. The other alternatives --living with strangers or living in our dark garage did not seem fair for such a happy and loving cat.

This morning, the girl called to say that she can't find the cat. She swears she didn't open the door and she fell asleep with her on the bed. I know cats hide, but this is a small apartment and she said she looked everywhere. She had to go to work, so she asked DH to go and try to call her in case she did get out and she is lost or something. DH did and didn't see her anywhere. I am devastated. I am crying as I write this. I feel like I betrayed her and because of me she could be lost or dead. I am angry with DH and wish I would have never agreed to give her away. I really tried to do the best thing for her and I am really praying that she is just hiding somewhere in this girls apartment. If she did get out, I am afraid for her because she has always been an indoor cat and doesn't know danger.

Please pray for her--her name is Blossom. I feel really stupid because I know she is an animal and not a child but I really love her. my heart is broken...
Ters

Catching up on posts but had to respond to this one - Ters I am so sorry hopefully the cat is just hiding - I know how much you can love a pet I have a chocolate lab and I would be devastated if something happened to her...in fact one of my fears is having to go into the hospital on bedrest and not having her as a companion -she spends the day curled up on the couch next to me.

Praying for Blossom.....

[TMoT]

It's very late(=EARLY morning) after our big night out at the horror movie marathon...! The showings ended up being quite good and included several one-hour films -- only one of which was a true "horror" (ick!) -- so it wasn't even really bad to sit through. Enough breaks for pee, stretching, room for me to sit more-or-less (more LESS, but okay) comfortably, etc... DH was thrilled that we managed to go, so I am glad he was so happy. (Building up brownie points....) I did enjoy myself too, though, all in all... :-)

Just to tell you how wonderful this man is (can I call him "just awesome" in place of j-a$$ just for the moment?!), he has agreed to take my two boys and two of their friends swimming and for food "out" all day tomorrow, in order to celebrate DS#1's bday a week later... :'-) Sometimes he can be a real JAH/block-head, but he truly (and usually, in fact!) has his moments of being a super, wonderful guy. I guess that's why I'm having these babies with him... :throb: :)

Mostly, though, I just wanted to write to tell you, Ters, that I love that big heart of yours and mine is breaking for you too right now!!!! :-(( All my life, my cats have been some of my very BEST friends, family-members, you name it. I had something similar happen to me when I was living in Russia and had to change apartments and relied on someone else to cat-sit for me. "Pechenia" hit the streets and I never found him again. I was devastated. But I could go on and on about all the beautiful, sweet cats who have been a part of my life ALL my life... :'-) All this to say, I feel your loss, grief, frustration and guilt with the crisis with Blossom. I also feel though, like Steph, that she is still close-by, and just scared. I just pray that she will materialize soon and you'll be relieved. You REALLY were/are doing the best thing for her, it's just hard for her to know that. Aww. I feel bad for both of you!!! :'-( Well, hang in there, my love. Everything will be okay, I promise.

Please keep us posted. And good night to everyone (and a quick WHEW for Valerie and the GD-scare! YIPPEEE, Val!!!!!) :throb:

PS Something totally different and AWESOME that my mom sent me to check out. And I LOVE this song, too (Golden Slumber/Wings). I'm going to remember it for when the babies are born!!! :-)

http://s158645047.onlinehome.us/video_5290_10558.html?sid=5290&aid=10558

[swineland]

Sherry: OMG, I cannot BELIEVE you posted a link to the juggling guy!! It was JUST yesterday that I received the same link and almost fell off my chair when I watched it. DH and I were both amazed! I had never seen anything like it before in my life and for you to have seen it the day after I saw it....what a coincidence!! That guy is truly, truly talented.


Well, that's all...

Keep us posted, Ters......
:xfingers:

Steph

[AndreaR]

Sherry - Thank you very much for posting that link. I'm wide awake w/ a little acid reflux and a headache, and that was such a wonderful distraction! Truly amazing. How nice of your DH to take your boys for the day. As much as we complain about our husbands, I know they are all wonderful men. btw, I cannot believe you are able to go to all-night movie marathons. I'm so impressed!

Ters - I've been thinking about Blossom all night, praying that she comes out of hiding soon.

AndreaR

[EBTwinz]

Ters: I had tears in my eyes when I read your post. I feel so bad for you!!! I agree w/ Steph, cats are very good hiders and little Blossom is just in a new environment. SHe is probably hiding in their house somewhere. She will come around, when she is ready. I remember when I first bought my cat, he hid under my bed for the first week. I had to pry him out just to get him to eat then he would run under the bed again. And I know EXACTLY how you feel regarding your pets. I treat my cat like he's my kid. I don't know what I would do w/out him. I will be saying some prayers for Blossom. I will ask Rylie (my cat) to pray for her too! :) Rylie can send some good cat vibes to her. Hang in there!!! I will be thinking of you!!!!

Valerie: GREAT NEWS about the visit w/ the dietician. I am so happy that it's just borderline. And you can still eat your carbs!! :yippee: Have fun today at your shower. I can't wait to hear about all the goodies you received! It's so much fun to be around your family and friends that love and support you. And not to mention, buy your babies lots of goodies!!!!

Sherry: Your dh definitely wins the good husband of the week award. Mine gets the jack @ss award! LOL! But, what would we do w/out them, right??

Steph: Did you check out the Stork Sak? The brown tote looks like a purse. I am still debating on what I want to buy.

Monica: Take it easy this weekend! And have fun on your trip.

Jason: Where are you??? Starting to worry over here!

Jill and SHeriba: HOpe the little ones are doing well. I am thinking of you and keeping you in my prayers! :throb:

And to everyone else, Daniele, AndreaR, Missy, Allison, Candy, Rachel...: Hope you have a good weekend. Hope I didn't leave anyone out! Where is the other Andrea??

My parents are here this weekend and they are helping to paint the nursery. I am so excited. I will post pics when it's done. Oh, my mom told me she is trying to take 6 weeks off of work to help me when the babies are born. There is nothing like having your mommy here to help! I don't know what I would do w/out her! She lives 4 hours away so I am soooooooo glad she is going to be here that long to help w/ the babies. She is like a machine. So far, she sorted through all the baby clothes and starting washing them. Plus, she is organizing my house. We have only been in here a month and I can't do much, so she pretty much does everything for me. I love her so much! And my Dad is like the handy man. He and my dh are painting right now. I just LOVE my family!!!!!!!!!

Talk to you all soon!!!
:throb: -Lisa

[Dad of twins]

Hello ladies!
Long time no talk. After the wife came home from the hospital, we were only home for a few days when she started throwing up and had the runns. She had contractions along with that stuff. We had to go back into the hospital. They said that she was just dehydrated. The Dr. told her this was like baseball three stirkes and your out. The next time she comes in she is getting shipped to another hospital THREE hours away! Everything seem to be better now except she failed her one hour gd test. Now she has to do the three hour one. Get this she has to fast after 12:00 then get her finger ***** at 8:00 and checked again a4 11:00! All that time without food. She will be ready to kill!!
You ladies make me laugh. It does not bother me when you guy bash! I just think it is funny. I have to be honest, when iI fist got on here I thought DH stood for D*ck Head!! Pretty funny!!

My wife as all the same problems as you ladies. The underwear wrestling! That is funny. All you woman dancing on one foot trying to put them on:D

I am glad that everyone is ok. Sorry I can't respond. I have to play Candy land with the DD.

Take care and good luck.
JASON

[TMoT]

Jason, it is SO good to hear from you -- and I can so much sympathize with your dw right now!!! I hope the docs gave her the stuff to fight the dehydration and that she's REALLY drinking her you-know-what (I don't even dare say it anymore for fear of being lynched by everyone on this thread)!!! ;-) I don't want her to get to that third strike, so please help her to take good care of herself now, although I KNOW you are!!! ...D*ck Head made me laugh louder than anything I've read on this thread so far!!! LOL I guess that simplifies things for us now, right ladies??! We can still use DH with total comfort regardless of the context!!! lol ...I've got my gd test on Monday too, and (after all these recent "crashes"!) I'm really worried about it. Otoh, the urine tests I do every three days or so are always low on blood-sugar, so that actually has me even -more- worried that it might be something else (pre-eclampsia -- which I dread far worse!!)... Well, I will be thinking about your dw. Pack some sandwiches to calm the beast after her tests, and, hopefully you will all be okay!!!!! :-)

Steph, so funny about that link! And wasn't it cool though??!?! There's another really neat one (about the quadruplets) that was posted on the April thread recently, and I so wanted to post it here too, but I can't find it anymore... :-( Gonna keep looking!

Lisa, you are truly blessed with your mom and dad! :-) It's awesome to have family to rely on (esp if/when our dh's are flaking out)!!! I'm so glad and feel a lot calmer for you right now. You really need them there and that's so awesome that they _are_!! :'-)

AndreaR, glad the link provided you some late-night relief too!! ;-) Poor thing!!!!! ...I honestly don't know how I made it through the movie marathon either, but we went in with a "try and see" attitude, and it went SO MUCH better than I expected!!! Probably had a lot to do with the fact that I was being entertained, but -- believe me -- I was having sympathy for Missy, Lisa, Val, et al. about having to SIT in one place for such an extended period of time! As I said, you ladies are my hero-ines!!! ;-)

Well, dh and the boys are at the pool! :-) Just to gloat a little more (sorry, but we have to carpe diem when it happens, right?!), he actually got up, made "brunch," ran to the bakery for a cake, DID THE DISHES (!), and received the guests _before_ he would let me get out of bed...!!!!! Sometimes it's so clear to me (when other times maybe it's less so! ;-)) about why I'm having this man's babies... :'-))) :throb:

Okay, enough of that!!! lol Want to jump in the bath before all the monsters get back! Hope the shower is going well, Valerie, and that we have news of Blossom very soon! Monica, enjoy your next trip, and looking forward to hearing from Sheri, Jill, Andrea, Daniele, et al. very soon too!!! xxx

[teresa67]

Jason.....it does stand for d*ick head, don't let them fool you.

Sherry.....had my appt the day before yesterday and my blood pressure was elavated, and I had been having a headache for 2 days......so it was off to labor and delivery for me. They gave me the first steriod shot, luckily they released me and I went back for the other yesterday. I have a terrible headache now, I'm checking my blood pressure regularly, and its seems alright for now. I'm on bedrest, but let's hope that my b/p takes intact and I can keep cooking awhile longer. Hope you are doing good.

[davoswoman]

hi everyone,

I am having a really crappy time right now. Remember my cats problem? I put an ad in the local paper for a good home for 2 of the cats. My favorite one was to stay with us. That is, until DH (JAH) saw her scratching the new furniture and the smell of fresh urine got up his nose. He insisted that she had to go to and I (begrudgingly) agreed. A co-worker of his happened to be looking for a kitty and I thought it would be perfect. I get to see her, hear about her, and know that she will be loved. She came to get her last night and I cried although I knew that it was the best thing for her. The other alternatives --living with strangers or living in our dark garage did not seem fair for such a happy and loving cat.

This morning, the girl called to say that she can't find the cat. She swears she didn't open the door and she fell asleep with her on the bed. I know cats hide, but this is a small apartment and she said she looked everywhere. She had to go to work, so she asked DH to go and try to call her in case she did get out and she is lost or something. DH did and didn't see her anywhere. I am devastated. I am crying as I write this. I feel like I betrayed her and because of me she could be lost or dead. I am angry with DH and wish I would have never agreed to give her away. I really tried to do the best thing for her and I am really praying that she is just hiding somewhere in this girls apartment. If she did get out, I am afraid for her because she has always been an indoor cat and doesn't know danger.

Please pray for her--her name is Blossom. I feel really stupid because I know she is an animal and not a child but I really love her. my heart is broken...
Ters

Ters,
I totally understand. My kitties are my family. I would be crying too. Heck, we had a couple kittens show up a few weeks ago and HAD to take them to a shelter. I only had them for two days and was bawling when we took them! They are just so precious. Let us know what happens.

Yes, I am still around. Just really tired and not on the computer much lately. My husband switched to the evening shift and it is playing havoc with me too. I could sleep all day if I let myself. I feel like I am in the first trimester all over again with the tiredness.
Other than that all is well. I have my next appt on Tuesday with a sono to find out the size of the twins. Can't wait.

I'm still reading all the posts and trying to catch up. Hope you all have a great weekend!

[LucasMom]

Hi,

Well, I have to be honest...I feel like I know all of you! I have been reading this website for about two months, and have never regsitered. I just didn't figure myself to be the type who was on a thread, never have done it before. My name is Mindy, and I am from Philadelphia. I am due June 3rd with twin boys (Logan and Dylan) and have a three year old son, Lucas. I want to thank you all for being so helpful and honest in your postings. You have gotten me through alot of fears over the last few months and I finally decided to stop being silly and join, so I hope you will welcome me!

So far, this pregnancy has been crazy. I have felt so many of the same things as all of you, many times sitting t the computer, nodding my head in agreement, or tearing up at your stories.

I am still working, by my own choice. I have a great work environment, although I am not used to sitting down, but my boss has recently built me a nice, quiet new office and I use my laptop now, so I am mobile if I feel I need to go home, but my doc has been pushing me for awhile to be on bedrest.

Enough about me right now! A pleasure to meet all of you, and again thank you for being so forthright with your stories and those of you whom have had your beautiful babies already, congrats and they are all beautiful!

Talk soon,

Mindy

[LucasMom]

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[mmzill]

Hey everyon -

Well, i'm at the hotel, my dh had to go meet with some people from his work, and since it's past dd bedtime, I decided to stay here and put her down and catch up on the posts.

Val- so so so glad the dietitian relieved your fears about gd! That is great!!!! I hope that your shower went well today.

Ters - I'm sorry about Blossom. I hope she shows up soon. I've been thinking about you.

Mindy~ Welcome to the board. It's always fun to have new people join us on here! Welcome!!!!!!

Sherry - I'm so glad your dh is being a real DH :) and helping you out so much. That is great. My dh has been so busy with work lately that I don't feel like he's been there much to help with dd, but hopefully this busy spell will go away really soon!!!!! Thankfully my energy level is up some, so I'm not so so tired.

Jason - glad your wife is doing ok. I hope she doesn't have to go back to the hosp!!!!

Lisa - you are so lucky to have your mom come and help! I wish my mommy could come too! She is 8 hrs from us. (Not to be a downer....but.....my stepdad is in the ending stages of pancriatic cancer and is not doing well at all, not sure how much longer he has. Anyways - since he's doing so bad, my mom can't really plan on coming up. She's going to try to come up for about 1 week in May sometime, and hopefully the babies will be here by then, or come when she's here. I hate it for her, she wants to be here so bad, but can't leave her husband either. He's just in so much pain right now, I just wish it would be over for him.) Sorry for the sad note. But, my sister is moving only 4 hrs away!!!! YEAH!!! Currently she's 10 hrs away, so I"m really excited about that!

Well - everyone mentioned the stamina i have.....not really! Just taking it easy, but the hardest part in sitting in the car for so long! This weekend is not for fun :( The company my dh works for elects officers every 4 years, well that election is on Sunday. So I guess he could lose his job.....but we are not concerned, everyone really likes him. He is the Treasurer, or CFO. It's a non-profit org, so it's run a little differenly than other companies. But the current President didn't get re-nominated, so there's been quite a bit of conflict and stuff going on. (Not that any of that is interesting, but anyways, that's what we are doing this weekend.)

Monday I have another u/s - they are going to be looking closely at the difference in sizes between the boys. Hopefully it will be less than 20%. Then a dr's apt on Tuesday.

Sorry for the long post. I guess I'm just board, waiting for my dd to go to sleep. Then I'm going to go hang out with one of the other ladies that's here for the same thing.

Have a good evening and Sunday.
~Monica

[davoswoman]

Hi,

Well, I have to be honest...I feel like I know all of you! I have been reading this website for about two months, and have never regsitered. I just didn't figure myself to be the type who was on a thread, never have done it before. My name is Mindy, and I am from Philadelphia. I am due June 3rd with twin boys (Logan and Dylan) and have a three year old son, Lucas. I want to thank you all for being so helpful and honest in your postings. You have gotten me through alot of fears over the last few months and I finally decided to stop being silly and join, so I hope you will welcome me!

So far, this pregnancy has been crazy. I have felt so many of the same things as all of you, many times sitting t the computer, nodding my head in agreement, or tearing up at your stories.

I am still working, by my own choice. I have a great work environment, although I am not used to sitting down, but my boss has recently built me a nice, quiet new office and I use my laptop now, so I am mobile if I feel I need to go home, but my doc has been pushing me for awhile to be on bedrest.

Enough about me right now! A pleasure to meet all of you, and again thank you for being so forthright with your stories and those of you whom have had your beautiful babies already, congrats and they are all beautiful!

Talk soon,

Mindy


Go away, we don't want you here!!!!! :crazy: Just kidding of course!
Welcome to the twins club! We are glad you finally joined us in posting. I am not as big a poster as some of the ladies. I have trouble keeping up sometimes, but I am glad I found this group. It is so nice to hear that I am not the only one with all the aches and pains and such!

Speaking of, is anyone else having a problem with itchy scalp and dandruff??? It is driving me crazy! I have never had this problem before and am sure it is just from the dry skin from pregnancy, but I don't know what to do. I got T-Gel but found out that may not be good for pg. Can't use scapicin because it has salycilic acid. I am using plain old head and sholders but it doesn't help much! Aaarrggghh. As if we don't have enough complaints!

Anywho. Think I'll turn in early tonight so I can actually make it through the entire church service tomorrow!

Once again, Welcome Mindy! Glad to meet you!

[vthompson]

Hello everyone! Well, the shower was wonderful, but extremely exhausting! I cannot believe all the gifts we got. Everyone was so generous! Now, I am a little overwhelmed with going through it all, especially being on bed rest. But I know it will all come together! The chair drama has ended. My mom told my aunt that the chair she picked out was just not going to match so she went to BRU and bought the one we wanted. I feel kind of guilty now, like I was really being a brat...Lisa, you were right about having the kids help, that really sped the process along. At the end, I started to feel pressure low down so we came right home and I layed on my left side and it went away. Thank God! I do not think I have the energy for a visit to labor and delivery tonight! My DH was amazing at the shower. I couldn't get up so he went around and made sure he talked to everyone. He did not complain even once about being there! Plus, he had to get up and go to work at 6:30am. We was really great today!

Monica - I am so sorry to hear about your step dad. That is a lot for you and your mom to deal with. I will keep your family in my prayers! Keep us posted on your DH's job situation. I am glad that you guys don't have anything to worry about!

Mindy - Welcome! I am so glad you have decided to join us!

Candy - It is so great to hear from you! It has been awhile. It sounds like everything is going well with the babies! That is great!

Teresa - I am very worried about you! Make sure you keep us posted and I hope the bp stays down. What was the steroid shot for?

Sherry - That is so nice that you get a break today from it all! I cannot believe you went to an movie marathon, either! You definitely amaze me with your energy!!

Jason - I really hope your wife does not have to make another visit to the hospital. Tell her to hang in there with the 3 hour test. I had to take it, too. I will not lie, the fasting sucks and I felt very sick. But, now it seems like a distant memory!! Keep us posted!

Lisa - It sounds like you are having a great weekend with your parents! That is great!!

Ok, DH went to pick us up some food, yes I realize it is late to just be eating dinner, but we were both so exhausted after the shower! Check in later!

Valerie

[vthompson]

BTW, Candy, Dandruff - CHECK!!! I have also just been using head and shoulders. It stops the itching most of the time, but my scalp is still pretty flaky...I have not found any solutions, though! Another lovely symptom of pg!!!

Valerie

[vthompson]

Good Morning!! Just checking in for roll call today...Sunday - Valerie - Check!!

I am watching Stepmom on TBS. I love this movie! It is so sad!

Since I was the last to the post, there is not much to respond to. I will check back later!

Valerie

[qbanmom5]

hi everyone,

I would love to have a good report but I don't. She is nowhere inside the girls apartment and I don't know anything of her. I have been too angry and upset to post because I knew it would make me cry but since you all have been so supportive and wonderful, you deserve an update. I have been fighting with JAH since Friday because he thinks things are black and white. I did the best thing for her, It is not my fault she is gone, and that is that. Cry and get over it is his attitude. I have been blaming him for getting new furniture and thus making me get rid of her. I have been blaming the girl I gave her to for being so careless. I have been blaming myself for not standing up to JAH and telling him the cat stays or we all go. But bottom line, it is not making me feel any better to blame anyone. The only comfort I have is that she is soo sweet and really pretty and she may have found a family to take her in. I am still not over it and I don't know when I will be. I wake up all night long thinking I hear her meowing. I have even been seeing shadows of cats walking next to me. I want her back so bad! Every time I hear the dogs bark I run to the door or window hoping that she found her way back home. I really feel like I am going nuts. I regret my decision soo much but I know that won't do any good. i have run through every could of, should of, would of I can imagine and I wish i could take something that will make me feel better. I know all of this crying and grief is not good for the babies, but I can't help it. Thank you guys so much. Knowing that you guys understand and can relate really makes me feel a bit better. Tired of everyone (including my kids) over here telling me its just a cat. I took such good care of her for
5+ years making sure she never went outside, I babied her, slept with her, for this to now happen. It is so unfair. I feel like Natalie Halloways mother must feel. Having taken care of her daughter, bringing her up right, then allowing her to do something which I am sure she really wanted to do only to have her never turn up, not knowing what happened, going to Aruba, grasping at straws, holding out hope. I know it must be worst for her, but it feels similar to me.

i need to go lie down. I will write again later. Thank you all for your prayers.
Ters

[TMoT]

Teresa, what is the story??!??! I have been thinking SO MUCH about you, and now _this_?!!!! :'-( Please write and tell me things have settled down a bit??? ...I've been having my own stress over hypoglycemia fears, and I so wanted to write and seek your counsel... :-( Please UPDATE ME NOW!!! I'm going to quickly check the April/May thread to see if you've posted in the meantime. :throb: :throb:

Ters, my heart bleeds for you, truly. Keep holding on to the thought that Bloosom has found a new home -- it will save you! And, as a matter of fact, I'm SURE she has! Cats are so remarkable and resilient. Plus, if she's as sweet and lovely as you say (and I believe it, after all, because YOU are her Mommy!), she is safe in someone's good care right this minute. I know it doesn't quite salve the wound, but it can give you hope, I pray. It was my only consolation too when I "lost" Pechenia... :-( I am "with you," sweet lady. Try to stay calm and rest -- for the sake of you and those babies. Please?? *hugs and hugs* xxx

Mindy, welcome, Welcome, WELCOME!!!! :) You know how we all care about each other here, so please just feel like you are one of the gang now -- even though you already were! Logan and Dylan are both AWESOME names! Congrats on them and your beautiful boys (x3)!! Queen of the Court! :-)

Valerie, so glad to hear the shower was such a success (and that Auntie got you the glider you want)! Don't feel guilty about acting like a "baby"! What is interior decorating for, anyway!? Sit and glide and ENJOY IT to your heart's content!!! ;-) And, KUDOS to your DH! He and my honey can share DH (in the traditional sense of the 'term') of the Week honors! :-D

Gotta run and check on Teresa! xxx to All!!

[Tiny Blessings]

Hi everyone,....only have a minute to post, but wanted to check in for the weekend. Welcome, Mindy! Glad you decided to jump in...you already know us and we don't yet know you.....I'm sure that will all change. :crazy: Val, glad your shower was so great! :yippee: And Ters, I am soooo sorry about your kitty. :aww: Each time I log in now I read the posts with baited breath hoping no one has had any more babies yet....so glad that another week has passed for all of us and those little ones are staying inside where they belong. Gotta run.....I'lll ceck in later this week! Take good care everyone....

Tina

[LucasMom]

Thank you all for your welcoming messages! I am so torn right now between feeling SO uncomfortable that I want to cry most of the time, and knwoing that I need to hold out for at least 5 more weeks for my little kiddos. I feel selfish wanting it to be over because I know they need to stay in to be healthy...

Oops...Lucas is up from his nap. Write more later.

I know you hav esaid it before, but how do I get my ticker to show up in my box reply all the time? I like to see the countdown, makes it feel like we are moving somewhere!

Thanks,

Mindy

[vthompson]

Mindy - Do not feel guilty about the way you feel...I think we all feel like that. We know that babies need to stay in longer, but are very anxious for all these symptoms to be gone. It is only normal.

Tina - I am the same way when I check the forum now. I always do a quick skim first to make sure everyone is still cooking babies. We did make it through another week! Let's hope everyone is still healthy!

Ters - I am sorry for what you are going through. I cannot imagine how bad you feel and how stressed you are about all of this. Do not let anyone make you feel like you are overreacting. Obviously, this cat meant a lot to you and you have the right to grieve her. I will continue to keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

So, I found a way to go to BRU today with DH. They have wheelchairs so I rode around in one of them. I felt kind of silly at first, but it was so much better then sitting at home and sending DH to get stuff. Not that he can't handle it, but I wanted to be a part of things. We got a bunch of gift cards for the shower and still had some things to buy. We were able to get the Medela breast pump and a bunch of other little things with the gift cards. We only had to spend $30 of our own money. That felt really good!!

For those of you that did pump, did you buy the extra set of bottles and bags to store the milk in? I did not and thought I would just wait and see if I need them after the babies are born. But, I wanted to see what you guys thought.

Valerie

[twinsmakethree]

Hello Everyone !!!

I sure do miss you all and I briefly looked over all the post and saw that everyone is doing well as far as the babes, I am happy to hear that :yippee:

Well I have been in the hospital and its no ones fault but my own, All Praise to God the babies are fine and still cooking!!!:clap:

I had an exam that I had to take and although I knew i was suppose to be on bedrest I figured since i have been feeling better i will just go take the exam and then go straight to the drs appointment i had. Well at the exam I begin to have breathing difficulties, i first didnt think anything of it because i have had a shortness of breath for awhile, but it started getting worst and i had to leave the exam and drive to a friend's house so that she can continue to drive for me. when i got to the drs. she saw my cervis had gotten a little smaller from 1.7 to 1.5 and that i was contracting. She also was concerned that my breathing was so erractic because i had a history of thrombosis before and was placed on Lovenox( I had stopped taking the medicine which she was really upset about0 so I had to be admitted.

I was extremely scared and guilty for taking such as risk. Well when I got there they put me on an IV which stopped my contractions( I presume I was dehydrated because i didnt eat or drink anything at all that day) Once the contractions stopped I felt better, but I still had to take steroid shots for the babies because i am still a risk for preterm labor the dr wanted to be sure the babies lungs and brains will be developed.

As far as my breathing i had to go to nuclear medicine to take some test to make sure that no blood clots were on my lungs. I didnt want to take the test becuase it involved breathing in radio active ingredients and injections of it, so that they can get a picture of all my insides and my breathing pattern. after about an hour or so of debating i was told that it was just a minium amount and it can not harm the babies and that it dissolves from my system in six hours and the rest if any comes out in my urine, i got the test. I am still concerned, but I have been placed on baby monitors to make sure the heart beats are good, and they have been

They did an ultrasound before I left and said the babies were fine. I felt little movement at first, which I was told will happen after the steroid shots until they are well in the system. Today though I have felt alot more activity and Friday I go for my 3d ultra sound and thursday I have another follow up with my peri. So now i understand that bedrest means just that and water:spitwater is an obligation not a suggestion and i have to make myself eat as well ( although now, my Dh and DD are definately making sure I dont do anything foolish again) So I guess I will be in this bed for the rest of the pregnancy I will have to try to think of another way to take my finals.

Please keep us in your thoughts :throb:
And thanks for your concerns

[davoswoman]

Thank you all for your welcoming messages! I am so torn right now between feeling SO uncomfortable that I want to cry most of the time, and knwoing that I need to hold out for at least 5 more weeks for my little kiddos. I feel selfish wanting it to be over because I know they need to stay in to be healthy...

Oops...Lucas is up from his nap. Write more later.

I know you hav esaid it before, but how do I get my ticker to show up in my box reply all the time? I like to see the countdown, makes it feel like we are moving somewhere!

Thanks,

Mindy


I know how you feel. I am hurting so much in my back and pelvic area this morning I can't sleep. I have had this before and it seems to be gas pains or something. The docs office says everything is fine. I am hurting so much that my right hip joint hurts. I have been crying and worrying hubby. I can't even lay down. The pain is constant and not off and on like a contraction would be.
I keep telling myself I only have around ten weeks to go and can do this but it is hard.

[megzmom]

Monday - Heather check. I am back from Spring Break. Didn't have computer access, missed you all very much!

I feel so much better now that I actually got off my feet. My dd was with me the entire time. She did laundry and made lunch most days and she is only 7! I took her to a siblings class and she loved it.

I went to Disney's Epcot and got one of those scooter things. Greatest invention. I stayed all day. Didn't think I could.

Went to my perinatologist and he said babies are 1lb14oz and 2 lbs. He also said I have an iron cervix. My husband loved that. He didn't clear us for sex so I am bumbed. So my scare with TTS is pretty much gone. It went from 17% to 12%. Great news.

I have my school baby shower on Wed. Can't wait. Looked on line and noone has gotten anything from the registry. Kind of scared. I already have so many clothes but not alot else.

I missed so much. I hope everyone is okay. Last time I read we had one mom deliver. I pray that is all and everyone is able to keep those angels in.

[vthompson]

Candy - I am so sorry you are not feeling well today. I really hope you get some relief from the pain. Have you tried taking some tylenol?

Twinsmakesthree - I am so relieved that the babies are doing well and it sounds as though you are much better, too! I understand completely what you mean about the bedrest. I have also been placed on bedrest and lately, I have been feeling really well. It makes it much harder to stay in bed. However, I think that feeling well just means that the bedrest is working and we need to keep at it. Try not to be so hard on yourself. You are doing the best you can and as soon as you started to feel bad, you went right to the hospital. That was the best thing you could have done for you and the babies. Keep us posted.

Lisa - It sounds as though the nursery is on its way!! As for the crib, I would definitely be upset about that. Hopefully, the store will replace it for you. What a pain! I would definitely have your DH put the next one together. It sounds as though he is much more careful! I also love getting goodies for the babies!! We now have pretty much everything we need. I cannot believe how many hats and bibs we got! And not to mention blankets! My DH went and picked up the glider yesterday and put it together. I love it!!! The only thing we are waiting on are the cribs. Then we can put all the bedding on. I can't wait!!

Valerie

[mommyof4at26]

rachel morning check, well i am glad to that noone had there babies yet, i hope you all had agreat weekend, i go for my ultrasound on wendsday, i have had alot of movement its starting to numb me,i am in alot of pain, TERS_ i am so sorry about your cat, i feel the same way about mine exactly a year ago nov 1 of 2005 i had a miscarriage and we got a cat named sophie and since then i have this bond with sophie that noone else does or did when i cry or am in pain sophie comes to cuddle and meows at me like she can feel my pain and makes me feel so good,i dont know what i would do if she got lost,or hurt she is just like one of my children. well i hope you have a better week:aww: Rachel

[mmzill]

Hey everyone~

I'm here and no babies yet, just really tired!!! Got to take it easy from the weekend. Well my dh does still have his job, so that's a good thing. :)

I'm going to get off here and lay down, I just wanted to check in with everyone. Have a good day.
~Monica

[Daniele'sTwins]

Good morning...Daniele...Check

I had a pretty busy weekend again but it was very productive. My cousins came over on Saturday and brought me all the bedding for my nursery. The figured that I would have a lot to open at the shower (almost 100 people) next week and they also know how I am about wanting things done already. Yesterday, DH and I went to church and then went to the mall so I could find shoes to wear to my shower. He really has no idea how much work it is to walk around the mall!!! I only wanted to go into a few stores to look and get, i honestly didn't even care how nice they are I just needed brown shoes. It is hard enought that I am a size 5 and there are not many of those around! Well, my DH loves to shop and he thought that we were there for him apparently. He just "needed" new jeans! If I only told you how many pairs he has! After the mall he wanted to go to Target (MY Favorite) but I said NO WAY! I told him that my feet could not take another step! So we grabbed some ice cream and went home.

Lisa...That spa day sounds so nice! Tomorrow Ia m having a prenatal massage. I am sooo looking forward to that! I am glad your nursery is coming along. I would be upset about the crib too. I am also glad that your momis taking time out of work to help you out! My mom is too. She asked for the entire summer off but I don't think her work is going to let her so she is going to quit!! Boy am I lucky! She could easily find a job anywhere after, she is a nurse.

Sherry...Thanks for the tip on the double baby bjorns but I have to say no way for me! I am going to be done with back pain after these guys are born...lol

Valerie...I am so relieved that the dietitian is not worried about your numbers! You must feel ten times better now! And a good shower to top it off with all you wanted! And money left over for the pump! I did register for some Bags and bottle just in case. As for the steriod shot, they are getting them to help develop the babies lungs so if they are born early they have a better chance of lung/breathing development.

Ters...My heart is breaking for you. I am sure that your kitty is fine but I know the thinking about her every second must be killing you! I will also pray for her safe return.

Jason...I am sorry that your dw was sick again and that she failed the first gd test. I will pray that she passes the next one, I hear that happens a lot. By the way I was laughing so hard at the d!ck head comment!!

Teresa...now I am a little worried about you and your high blood pressure. Please take it easy.

Minday...welcome to our family! You are going to find a lot of comfort being here. It is like group counseling via the internet! We all get a lot emotional at times. I am already grumpy today and I am home all by myself doing nothing with nobody bothering me. God only knows why!!!

Monica...You are so strong right now, I am so sorry that your stepdad is doing so poorly. That is a terrible thing to have to go through. I am praying for you and your family. Please let us know how your u/s goes today.

Candy... dandruff...check. But I have always had a little bit.

Twinsmakethree...I am so glad that you are doing better now! You must have been so scared! PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE stay in bed!!!

Heather...great news from going from 17% to 12%!! You are doing a great job mama!!

Well, I am off to have a big bowl of ceral. I am going to have plain cheerios today ...yuck!

[vthompson]

Daniele - I cannot believe how many people you are having at your shower! You are going to be opening gifts forever :) That is so nice that your cousin brought your bedding. Now you can get it washed and ready! I am proud of you for knowing your limits and saying no to Target! Is this your first prenatal massage? My DH scheduled me one for Friday for our anniversary, which is next Monday. However, now that I am on bed rest I do not know if the doctor is going to let me go. I have an appt on Wed so I will ask her then. Since I will just be going there, laying down, and then coming home, I hope she lets me. I am really looking forward to it!

Monica - I am very glad to hear about DH's job!! Make sure you get some rest today.

Rachel - That is such a sweet story about your cat! Make sure you update us this week after your u/s.

I will check back in later.

Valerie

[Daniele'sTwins]

Well, I am off to the post office, bank, and Target. After that I am going to go play secretary at my DH's office. I will try to get back later but if not I will be back in the morning.

Oh and as for my shower! I know right! I have a big family. There are only a handful from my DH's side. They all live all around the country so they never make anything which is understandable of course. I figure I will get there a little early to greet the guest so I don't have to go table to table. Then I will eat really fast and start opening gifts right away. I have to do it or else we will be there forever!!

By the way I tried on the shoes I bought at the mall to go with my outfit and they look terrible!!! I don't know what I was thinking! Now I have to continue to look AND find some time to return those shoes too.

Have a good day ladies and Jason...and keep on cooking!

[vthompson]

Fwalker - It is great to hear from you! As for the iron pills, I am also taking them. However, I did not get a prescription, my doctor has me taking over the counter pills. From what I read, being anemic can definitely cause fatigue. I also failed my 1 hour test and had to take the 3 hour test. Bring LOTS to read!! The hardest part was the fasting. I felt very sick halfway through and had to lie down. Hopefully, you have a better experience. Make sure you keep us updated on the results.

Daniele - That really sucks about the shoes! I hate shoe shopping. I can never find comfortable shoes that look good! Hopefully, you have some better luck!

Valerie

[TMoT]

Hi, Ladies.

Well, the Name Game is not going well. Dh and I had a knock-down-drag-out over it last night and, well... I _lost_. :'-((( I cried for HOURS, literally -- not only for the personal connection I had already (wrongly??) created between the babies and the names, but also because i felt a bit cheated and disrespected. I mean 24 WEEKS and we still don't have proper names for our babies -- because he keeps dragging his feet, imho -- and I am supposed to just keep waiting... :-( I'm so upset about this. Didn't sleep at all last night, and I am still miffed with dh -- hostility is tactile. He won't apologize though. D*H*!!!!! ]-(

In the meantime, ds#1 was home from school sick again today! :-(( YES. We have yet ANOTHER bug circulating! :'-( That, plus lack of sleep. I could just cry from weariness. :-(( Got out of my GD test, but my u/s couldn't be rescheduled (in a way I was glad, of course!). DH stayed with ds and I went by myself to see "Baby A" and "Baby B" (wah!!). :-( Fortunately, they are doing SUPERB!! :-))) (Silver, Gold, Titanium Lining!) Weighing in at about 1.5lbs each, just "right" for size/weight development, and Baby Girl is actually head-down at the moment (see! She's been listening to Mommy!!). :-) I didn't share a lot of details of the appt with dh (to "punish" him, I guess) :-(, but of course, it was the high-light of an otherwise rather abysmal day. :-(

Otoh, I've been eating CONSTANTLY for the last 24-36 hours, and have had NO MORE sugar-drop/crashes! So, I'm very happy about that. I'm going to try to keep up this persistence, but fear -- with the new cold coming on -- that's going to be another uphill challenge! Please, all, say a prayer for us! I don't know how many more of these winter illnesses me/our family can manage...! :-(

Sorry for spewing (and being so negative). It's just my melancholy mood for the moment, I guess. :-(

...Andrea, so sorry about your debacle with the exam! TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF, Lady!!!! ]-( I've been having these "low-blood-sugar" episodes, which are nothing compared to the stress you (and your body) must be under, and it's been HORRIBLE! Pleeeease, STAY IN BED now, and keep us posted on your situation. Might have to postpone your exams or take them at home?? Wouldn't want to be taking them from the hospital or have your twins on campus, right?!? Sorry. Just being the concerned mom (mother hen) once again!!! :throb:

Heather, welcome back! Glad you enjoyed your Spring Break so much (with so much mobility! ;-)), that the babies are growing so BIG and the ttts scare is moving off the horizon! What great comfort that must be for you! Keep hanging in there!!!

Rachel, so nice that you checked in. Please let us know how your u/s goes on Wed.

Fwalker75, sorry about your gd test and hope the 3-hour goes okay! You are in my thoughts. Glad everything else seems to be coming along okay. Your stamina (working, etc.) still has me dumbfounded! Please be sure to take care of yourself too!!!

Lisa, sorry about your crib. How disheartening (not to say "frustrating," etc.). Hope you get that sorted out soon without a lot of stress.

Candy/Mindy, I'm so sorry to hear about all your pain and discomfort! :-( Candy, have you taken anything (Tylenol?) for it??? I guess you've tried everything else too -- heating pad, pillow between the knees/thighs, "cat" back "curls"??! Poor thing. Just remember you're (neither of you) not alone and we all care about you and those babies!!!!!

Valerie, I loved the image of you at BRU in the wheelchair! YOU GO GIRL!!!

Ters, any more news on Blossom? We are all waiting/hoping to hear...

Teresa, still hoping to hear from you too and hope all is well.

Jill and Sheri, hope you might have a chance to post again with us soon so we can find out how those lovelies of yours are doing! xoxox

Hugs and MAJOR moral support to everyone! xx

[megzmom]

No not me. Praise God. Since I was gone for 9 days, I can not go back and catch up on all the old news. The only babies that I knew were born was Jills g/b. Any updates on them lately? I only read her one post that said doing better than expected, nothing else.

Are there any other babies born? I hope not.

I am really so sorry to hear about the dh acting up. My exhusband was horrible during the preg. Pat, my husband is much better. He yells at me when I don't answer the phone. I believe in keeping "short accounts", not being too mad too long but I am right with you on these issues. Picking the names is so hard to compromise on. I am glad we both were able to pick a name. Don't know what I'd do if we only had a singleton....
As for the bar thing. I would definately go get a pedicure, get some new makeup or perfume (stay away from clothes shopping) and go see a great chick flick, which of course you need to keep the phone off for. Let him get the idea of how horrible it is to feel alone especially if an instance comes up.

I know I missed so much but I really am glad to be back at work. After the week resting I feel so much better... ask me on Friday with a full day at school on my feet. I have decided to cut back to 4 days a week. Next week I will take off a day then the following 2 weeks we only are in school 4 days because of Easter. I think the long weekend will help me and my back.

talk to you all soon....

[swineland]

Hey everyone...Steph, check!

Just peeking in real quick to say hi. I got in a few minutes ago from shopping and lunch with a friend and I am beat! I have GOT to lay down before heading off to my swim class.

I finally went to Motherhood and got 2 new nursing/maternity bras that have no underwire....not as much support as I am used to, but it'll work. In fact, I wore one of them right out of the store! I couldn't stand it anymore. My other bra was literally rubbing me raw under my boobs and at the top of my belly. I am much happier now :)

I'll write more tomorrow...I hope you are all doing well!

Steph

[vthompson]

Heather - I am so glad that you feel rested! Make sure you take it easy this week since you have been off. I am very glad to hear that you are at least cutting down to 4 days a week. Jill has not updated lately. Sheriba also had her babies, but has not posted lately.

Sheri - I am so sorry to hear about all your stress right now. From the names to the sicknesses, things are not going well for you right now. Why can't DH compromise and at least let each of you name one of the babies? Why is it all up to him? Does he know how upset you are about all this? Has he even given any name suggestions? Sorry for so many questions but I am very angry with him. I think it is about time for all of us to come to Germany and kick his a**. I am very glad to hear that the babies are doing well and are at great weights! As for your sugar crashes, if you are interested, I can post the diabetes diet that I am not eating. According to my dietitian, it is meant to even out the amounts of food so that your sugars stay at a more constant level and you still manage to gain weight. It is really pretty easy.

Heather - It sounds like you had a great spring break! That is great about the babies weights and your iron cervix...that made me laugh out loud! The TTS news is also fabulous to hear! It sounds like things are really going well. So far, Jill and Sheriba have delivered but we have not heard from them in awhile.

Valerie

[vthompson]

BTW, Lisa, you usually post first thing in the morning during the week. Is everything ok?

Valerie

[qbanmom5]

You guys wont believe this! Blossom is o.k. and has been living in this girl's wall the entire time!!! I am soooo relieved and overjoyed I didn't even read any posts (I promise I will after I tell you). This morning, Katy (the girl who has Blossom) found cat pee in her bathroom. That, and she said she could hear sounds in her wall but didn't know what it was. Apparently, she (katy) doesn't spend too much time at home, but Blossom has been coming in and out of her wall when she is not home. She tried calling her, but she wouldn't come. She figures she is sad and hurt and probably not very happy there. So, DH is going to pick her up after work!! Isn't that great news? I love you guys and thanks so much. I am sure your prayers (and mine) helped. I can't wait to see her.... I am going to read the posts now. I can breathe again.... Ters

[mmzill]

Hey everyone -

I just thought I'd post what's going on with me. Had an u/s today...the boys were active and kicking with good heartrates. My fluid is borerline high, but the concern is the their weight difference. One was 3 lbs 6 oz, the other 2 lbs 7 oz. - that's a 28% difference :( So, i've got to go see a specialist tomorrow morning at 8:30!!!!!! and he is 2 hrs away!!!!! ugh!

They did a biophysial profile today by u/s and both boys passed with flying colors. That's where they check 5 things....movement, fetal respiration, heartbeat, and a couple other things. So they seem to be doing really well, just one is considerably smaller. So, I don't know what's going to happen tomorrow and for the rest of the week.

Then I came home from the dr. (beware TMI) and when I went pee and wiped there was a huge clump of mucus on the paper, like the size of my thumb! It wasn't pink at all, but that freaked me out too, I called the dr. and she said to rest, and if there are any contractions at all to go straight to L&D, no contractions yet, so hopefully we'll get to the dr tomorrow with no trouble.

Well, i did see that Blossom is ok!!!! Yea!!! Other than that I didn't read the posts. I hope that everyone is good. I"ll try to post again tomorrow or the next day!
~Monica

[EBTwinz]

Sorry, late for roll call today. Now that I am working smaller shifts, I am super busy at work. Maybe that's not a good thing, since it's probably more stress. When I got home from work, dh and I went to Walmart to return some baby products I received as a gift for my shower and then to get some groceries. I ended up buying a lot of Baby Einstein toys. I love that stuff. We didn't have very many toys for the babies.

Anyway, Ters... So glad to hear about Blossom!!! :yippee: I knew you would find her!!!

Monica: I am so sorry that I forgot to respond to your post yesterday. I am glad your dh still has his job. That must have been stressful. And I am sooo sorry to hear about your step-dad. My uncle passed away from pancreatic cancer a few years ago. My heart goes out to your family. I know this must be difficult. Also, please keep us updated on the visit to the specialist. I will be praying for your babies. I am sure they will be fine. Even though there is a difference, they are still good weights. And about the mucus, do you think you lost your mucus plug? Please rest and take it easy. You and I are due around the same time and we still have 5-6 more weeks to go!!!

Andrea: I am sorry to hear about your scare, too! Make sure you get some rest!!!! I will be thinking of you!

Heather: The trip to Epcot sounded fun! Also, have fun at your shower this week. Keep us posted and let us know what you got!

fwalker75: Sorry to hear about the GD test. And make sure you ask your doc about your red blood count. YOu may be getting anemic. Just take it easy and rest!!

Daniele: 100 people? Wow! That is a huge shower. You are sure to get lots of great stuff. That is awesome that your cousins bought the bedding. Isn't family the best??

Valerie: I was laughing when you said you were in the wheelchair at BRU. Too cute! I was at Target the other day and debating on using the motorized cart. I think it would be fun! And thanks for checking on me today. I can always count on my stalker! LOL!!

Sherri: I am so sorry your dh won't agree w/ you on the names. I say, you just name her Raquel and hurry up and sign the birth cert. Then blame it on the drugs. Also, sorry to hear your little guy is sick. I think we need to quarantine your house! Please be careful and take it easy!!

Tina: I forgot to add you in my last post too! How have you been feeling? It sounds like you are busy. Hope everything is okay! :)

Steph: Good news on the nursing bra. I have to buy a new one this week. I bought one at Motherhood, a 34 C (I am usually a B) and it was too tight. I think they run small. I may have to get one w/out the underwire. Mine digs into my skin, too.

Well, my dh is no longer a JAH. Tonight, he gave me a full body massage. It was great!!! I felt sooo relaxed. Then he told me that I deserve it b/c of all the work I am doing being pregnant. So, he is no longer in the dog house.

Well, I am signing off for tonight. Have a good night, everyone! And keep those babies cooking!!!

Lisa

[davoswoman]

Well, I am still here. I am still not feeling great though. I have taken tylenol and it doesn't do much. Never has really worked for me though. I am having a lot of pressure in the pelvic area. I don't think it is contractions as it is more of a constant feeling. I have a sono and doctor visit tomorrow at 11am so hopefully they can reassure me that all is well.

Ters- I am sooooo glad you found your kitty. Hubby and I were cleaning up messes today from our four and I told him we need to get rid of at least a couple but I just can't do it. I love them all even though they drive me crazy sometimes. Maybe it will be easier after the babies are born to let one or two of them go. They have been my "children" for a long time and it is hard.

Sounds like everyone is doing okay otherwise. I too am getting close to some baby showers and getting excited. I am actually going to have three different showers. My sister is throwing one, my infertility group is throwing one and now my Sunday School class is giving me one. I should have everything else I need after all those.

Well, think I'll eat something and then lay down and watch a movie. Hope you all have a good night.

[qbanmom5]

Hi gals, Just wanted to respond to a couple of posts:

Mindy, welcome, we are very happy to have you join our gang.

Sherry: I am praying for your family and your health. LAst thing you need is another illness!! The perfect names will come to you, don't worry. I am in the same boat as you. Now DH and my sister like Rhett and I don't! I don't know how to tell them, but I will. Nothing seems to suit my fancy. Also don't feel bad that you don't have names. We got the cribs, they are not built, no mattresses, no bedding, nada. Oh and my shower is May 6th so tell me DH wont be fumbling at the last minute! I already told him, he can take his sweet time since all I need for now is 1 crib in my bedroom but when I come home from the hospital he better have it all set up and a dresser with washed clothes and blankets. I have had to pick my battles and I am so exhausted after Blossom that I can't even worry about 1 more thing.

Val: Glad that you got a lot of stuff for the shower. Sounds like the nursery is almost complete.

Lisa: Bummer about the cribs. Maybe you could take them back?

Teresa: Take it easy and stay in bed!

Danielle: Sucks about the shoes. I recently had to walk the mall looking for wide shoes for my son (which we never found). Too bad you have to now take those back and get others. I can't believe you are a size 5. I used to be a 7.5 and after this pregnancy, I am now a 9!! GO figure, my boobs haven't grown but my feet have!! I feel like Fiona. Just not fair.

Candy: Dandruff--check!

All others, love you all and keep em cooking!

Cant wait to see Blossom! I am putting her picture on my ticker... I was even considering Scarlett Blossom for a name!

Oh and I forgot to mention (TMI WARNING) the ##$@#% antibiotics gave me a yeast infection! I guess its better than scarlet fever?

Ters

[AndreaR]

Hi Everyone - I'm only part way through today's posts, and I don't know if I'll have the energy to respond, but I JUST HAD TO send big happy hugs to Ters and Blossom. I have been praying for you (and telling everyone I know to pray, too). I am so thrilled that she is okay and that you are getting her back. What wonderful news. :yippee:

[AndreaR]

Okay, I will try to respond to everyone (in no particular order). It's been a busy day!

fwalker75 - nice to hear from you. Sorry you failed your 1 hour g/d test. From what I hear (from Valerie) the 3 hour test is bad. But hopefully you'll pass that - I also hear that the 1 hour test isn't very reliable. Good luck and keep us posted.

Sherry - I can't believe your son is sick again. I'm so sorry. Your family must be setting some kind of record. And about the babies names, I'm sorry there too. Try not to feel too much pressure. Plenty of babies aren't named before they're born. Maybe if you forget about it for a week, you and DH will be able to come to a compromise.

Danielle - Your mom is going to quit her job so she can help you? That is the sweetest thing I've ever heard. Moms are the best. Mine comes back from Florida next week, and I just can't wait to see her (and my dad). Sorry about the shoe situation. I also have shoe troubles, but I am a size 10! And since I've been pregnant, I've really gone up to an 11, but I REFUSE to buy shoes that big. I just jam my feet into the one pair of shoes that still fit. Where am I going to find fashionable shoes in size 11? No offense, but that's transvestite size! I hope you are able to find shoes for your shower - I'm sure you will look beautiful.

Monica - Great news about your husband's job. That must be a huge relief. One less thing to worry about right now.

Mindy - Welcome! I am pretty new, too, but I've just jumped right in. And I don't know what I would have done the past two months without these ladies (and Jason). Thanks for sharing that you feel guilty about wanting the babies to come sooner than they're supposed to. I was feeling the exact same way yesterday (and a little today). I just don't know how I'll make it through the next 9 weeks. It made me feel so much better to hear that someone else is experiencing the same thing. See, isn't this place great?

Valerie - I laughed when I pictured you toolin' around BRU in a wheelchair. I think it's fantastic! And I'm proud of you keeping to your bedrest. It must be so hard.

Lisa - The nursery sounds so nice. Sorry about the crib. Hopefully the store will take it back.

Andrea - I was worried about you. Glad to hear you are okay, but that sounds like quite an ordeal. Please take it easy.

Candy - You poor thing - I can't imagine the pain you're in. I hope the doctor is able to give you more information and perhaps a solution tomorrow. Good luck, and keep us posted.

Heather - Welcome back! It sounds like you had a great trip. But Disney/Epcot sounds exhausting, even in a scooter. And I can't believe you are still working as much as you are. You really do have stamina.

Jason - thanks for posting. Glad you are all okay. Keep taking good care of that lovely wife of yours. Tell her we are thinking about her.

Well, sorry if I forgot anyone. I tried to take notes. I'm pooped. Have a good night.

AndreaR

[AndreaR]

p.s. Monica - good luck at the doctor tomorrow.

[Tiny Blessings]

For those of you that did pump, did you buy the extra set of bottles and bags to store the milk in? I did not and thought I would just wait and see if I need them after the babies are born. But, I wanted to see what you guys thought.

Valerie

I used the little vials from the hospital, but I had a long, long hostipal stint (8 weeks), so I guess I got spoiled by them having the vials there for me to use. (Get as many as you can when you are there!) When I got home, I used the bags. They work just as well ,only when you defrost them in the fridge I would recommend using a cup to set them in. One Step Ahead sells a little plastic container to slide the bags into that keeps them frozen in the bags in little blocks, which is a bit neater in the freezer than the bags all bulged out from the milk. Hope that helps...

Good night everyone...too tired to post much today. This tiredness is really taking hold again, it seems. Another skipped swim class tonight cuz I am just too pooped. On a brighter note: the plumber finally finished installing my new dishwasher...no more dishes in the bathroom leaning over the sink or tub for me! HOORAY! I was about to throw all the darned dishes out in desperation!!! LOL
Tina

[LucasMom]

You are all very sweet! I think I finally had to speak up because I am feeling so frustrated right now. My next appt. is Wed am, and I was in the hospital on Friday afternoon, because I couldn't catch my breath for like three hours. That keeps happening, and I am not sure why. Each time it happens for a long time, where I feel like I am going to pass out, they tell me to come up so they can monitor the babies. The boys are fine, they keep me on the montior for a few hours and do an exam and send me home, but not before a nurse comes in, looks at the monitor and says "oh, you're only 30 weeks, you still have a LONG time to go!" I am sorry, but that is WORSE than hearing "You look huge!". I think 30 weeks is almost done...right? We are almost there! Please don't tell me I have a long time to go. I think peoples sensitivity chips get dismantled when they see pregnant people. If you wouldn't walk up to a perfect stranger who wasn't pregnant and say "My, you sure are fat!", why think that seeing a pregnant woman is a free for all for rude conversation?

I am ranting, but no one else will listen and I know you guys can understand, I have only put on 19 pounds so far and I think besides the fact that my stomach is huge and I feel...shorter (because I am wearing flats, which I never do), that I look pretty *&($ good for being this pregnant with twins! But, my loving grandmother told me the other day that I could have a tummy tuck if I wanted and my dad told me last night that I looked "really huge and uncomfortable!". My DH (JAH) is "afraid" to have sex with me, ...ok I am whining. Lets talk sbout a happier topic. Do you realize in a few days, most of us will be able to honestly answer the question "When are you due" with a very positive "Next month!" Yeah! We rock! We are almost there!

I would love to hear updates from JillMami and Sheriba about how the babies are doing! I hope all is well for everyone. Please excuse the rant..I hope you all have a wonderful evening!

Mindy

[Jillmami]

Things are continuing to progress with TJ and her brother Noah. I actually was able to hold them both at the same time for an hour and a half and they did wonderfully. They are also in the same isolette now which is so cool to see. The nurse actually said that she found TJ with her hand in Noah's diaper.
Um... :rotflmbo: OK. She was whacking the you know what out of him and he just slept right through it without stirring. He definitely cannot multi-task; typical male. Noah continues to not need any assistance however he still has Bradys on a daily basis which is common for preemies. He is up to 2 pounds 5 ounces now and is able to bring himself back from his bradys on his own. As for TJ, she is on room air, still using the nasal canula to get a bit of extra room level oxygen. When someone touches her to change her diaper, take her temp, etc. she makes her O2 stats drop to prove a point - Don't touch me! :mad: It is funny in a way. She even dropped them during a breathing treatment where she was receiving pure oxygen. The therapist had to laugh about that. All in all, we feel truly blessed so far. TJ, starting off at 1 pound 12 ounces is now at 1 pound 15 ounces and we couldn't be happier.
They are still on breast milk and love it. DH had to go buy a deep freezer as my milk has taken over our fridge and reg. freezer. :D Have a ton of pics but need to get them posted on our website first. I'm exhausted and am off to pump.

PLEASE listen to your bodies, relax, enjoy your rest now because it won't last for much longer!
Take care and if you have any questions about anything, please ask.
Jill

[Jillmami]

I have lots of photos in my Kodak Gallery. If you care to see them, until I figure out how to do it otherwise, PM me with your email address and I can forward the slideshow to you.

I'll see if there's any other way to post a link for you to check out from here.

[Daniele'sTwins]

Good Morning...well it is 5:45 and I have been up since 4 becasue I can't sleep. I decided to buy some chocolate lucky charms because i keep hearing everyone talk about them but I just had half a bowl but I don't like them.

I have just come to realize that I am in the denial stage again! I have had my bedding for the cribs in the dryer, cleaned and ready to go since Saturday! I haven't done a load of laundry since! I guess, like the cribs, I am scared to see them ready for the babies! It is so funny because I spend most of my day so excited for my little boys, I want to hold them and kiss them, etc but then there is that little bit in me that is as scared as H3LL! LOL. I am going to wait until I am with someone to put it on. Maybe I will iron the bedskirts today and then tonight whenI come home from the twin meeting (if I go) I will put them on with DH.

Question...When I look at pics of myself it looks like my nose is changing!!! Has this happened to any of you? I have noticed this on other pregnant people before but it is so weird I never thought it would happen to me. I look a little fat in the face too...lol

Fwalker75...Good luck on you 3 hour today...glad your back.

Sherry...Whatever you do, don't get sick again!!!! PLease! You should be put in a glass bubble! I am so excited that you had a great u/s now we have to work on the name situation.

Heather...I cannot believe you are glad to be back at work. Good for you! I don't know how you are doing it!

Well, my DH should be getting up in 8 minutes so I am going to go lay next to him for a little while before he leaves for work. I will be back in a little.

[Daniele'sTwins]

Sorry, I missed a whole page! i WILL READ IT and get back to you in a little while, getting tired again.

[megzmom]

Jill- I am so happy to hear about TJ and Noah. I think about them all day long.
I will PM you. Loved to see pictures. Someone else posted that they see your babies and it makes our babies seem so real. That is exactly how I feel.

Monica-mucus-did they do an internal exam on you? When they did one for me I had more discharge and brownish (dried blood). Please take it easy.


As for my stamina, not sure how long this will last. I was so motivated yesterday and kept hitting the snooze today. My students were awesome yesterday (half asleep :) ) I have been pretty lucky with my mobility though. My back kills afterward but I am using the heating stick on pads and love them.

Just peeked on my registery for my showere tomorrow. I know I am so bad...but only one item was purchased. I am not really too scared but I AM!

I am happy about saying that we are due in a month or two. Sometimes I am amazed and terrified at the same time.

Anyone having dreams about there babies? I have since they told me they had hair. I keep seeing two very big heads with a little bit of yellow hair.

Take care....

[EBTwinz]

Two quick questions and I will post more later...

One: Is anyone having horrible heartburn/acid reflux? Everytime I eat, I feel like throwing up my food. I have been taking tums, but it doesn't help. Any advice??

Two: Is there another stool softener I can use besides Colace? I was going to buy it but it's $20 and I didn't feel like spending that much money on it if I will only use it a couple times. Is the generic form of Colace safe?

Sorry, I didn't get a chance to read over everyone's posts. I will try to respond when I get home from work. I am a little busy bee today!! :)

~Lisa

[megzmom]

Lisa- I am with you. I am now getting heartburn everyday and Tums isn';t doing the job. I have thrown up twice when it was too bad.

[newmomx2]

Sorry I have not written in a few days - our weekend was busy. I spent Saturday relaxing and watching movies because Sunday was my shower - it was a lot of fun but I was absolutely exhausted ! We had to travel 3 hours in total (there and back) plus there was about 50-60 people at the shower so opening presents took forever. DH (Dear Hubby) was awesome he stayed and helped me open - I think he really had a good time (my dad, FIL, BIL, and husbands of my friends were also there..)

We did not get very much from the registry - but got a lot of diapers and clothes ... I need to start to go through it all and figure out what else I need - my SIL is going to come down in 2 weeks and go to Baby's R Us with my list and Gift Cards and get everything else for me :yippee: Meanwhile my hubby's aunt and mom are going to do all the laundrey and clean our bedroom:clap: - I feel like by end of April the room will be ready and I will also have the car seats installed and inspected.

I can't respond to everyone's post but I am happy to hear the TJ and Noah are doing so well ! and that Blossom has been found.

For all the ladies needing the 3 hour GD test good luck - fortunately I did not have to do that - my results were 102...surprising given the sugar cravings as of late.

Best part of the shower is that we got to bring home leftover food - so no cooking for a few days...my next big milestone is Dr appt next week - I find I look forward to each little milestone it is what gets me through..

Take care everyone - I will try to write more later - for now I have to go back to work (the only problem with working from home I am so tempted to go take a nap :)

[vthompson]

Wow! It took me a long time to catch up on all the posts.

Missy - It sounds like you have a very supportive family! That is great that they are all willing to help out.

Lisa - I have been plagued with heartburn for a long time now. I have not actually thrown up from it, usually Tums works. However, it is really bad, I have taken Zantac. It was on the list for safe meds to use during pg. When I was using Colace, I bought the generic brand. My doctor said that generic was fine.

Heather - Don't feel guilty about looking at your registry. I looked at mine everyday! How can you not? I bet most people are getting clothes. That is what I found for one of the shower we had...no one bought off the registry and we got tons of clothes, blankets, and bibs.

Daniele - I think your feelings are completely normal. We want the babies to come but we are scared to death as to how we are going to manage. I think we will all surprise ourselves when they are actually here! As for the nose, I have noticed a change. However, all the pictures I have since I got pregnant have not been developed yet! I will let you know once I get them back.

Jill - It sounds as though the babies are doing great! I am so happy for you. I was laughing about how they have been interacting together. That is so cute!! I pm'd you for pictures. I hope you get the message.

Mindy - Do not let people make you feel like you still have a long way to go because you don't! I agree that people completely loose their ability to keep comments to themselves when it comes to pregnant people. It is very annoying. If you feel good, then you must look good so don't listen to what people say! As for your DH being scared to have sex, I am sure that has nothing to do with you. He is afraid of harming the babies, causing labor, etc. I also experience the shortness of breath. It is VERY annoying and scary! I am glad to hear that the babies are doing great!

Tina - Thanks for the info on the storage bags/containers. Is there any brand you recommend that worked better for you? Just curious...

Andrea R - I was laughing out loud at your comment about transvestite feet!

Monica - It sounds like both babies are doing well, despite the weight issue. Please keep us posted regarding the specialist. I am sure everything is going to be just fine!! Hang in there, you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Ters - I am SO happy to hear about Blossom! That is fantastic and I am sure you feel a ton of relief!! :clap:

Candy - Keep us posted about what the doctor saids. I feel so bad for you!

Ok, I think I may be caught up. I am sorry if I forgot anyone!

Valerie

[Daniele'sTwins]

Jill...I am so proud of you! You are doing a great job with these precious angels! I will PM you with my email address because i really want to see more pics! Kepp up the WONDERFUL work mommy, you are amazing!

Ters...YAY for the great news on Blossom...See prayer really does work!!

Monica...I have to say I am glad you are seeing a specialist. I know it is 2 hours away and a big stresss/pain but they will be able to answer all your questions and they will make you feel so much better! Look at Valerie, she was so upset about the GD but once she saw the dietitian she felt so much better. I know that is a big differece but still going directly to the person who knows best is always BEST.

Candy...I am sorry you are still feeling sick. I have a lot of pelvic pain too but my doc says it is all normal and it is just us streatching.

AndreaR...I was laughing at your tranvestite feet commnet. I guess we have the same problem but on opposite sides of the spectrum...lol

Minday...I DO think 30 weeks is getting very close to the end of our pregnancy! I will feel so good at 30 weeks and then again at 32 when the lungs are developed. You only have 6-8 weeks left and I think this time is just flying by!

Missy...I am glad you had fun at the shower. I am hoping that mine goes well too. I am so worried about being there forever opening gifts. Don't get me wrong I am going to LOVE the gifts but I feel bad for all the people waiting to watch me open the gifts...lol.

Heartburn...yes, I have it but not bad at all. ACTUALLY my husband has been getting it a lot more. Maybe my babies will be baldies!

[megzmom]

heartburn-I heard that heartburn means your baby has hair. I had horrible hb with dd and she came out with lots of hair. I am having it again (not as bad) and the sonogram showed the boys have hair. Who knows about old wives tales :)

[Tiny Blessings]

Hello ladies (and dads)...

Just checking in for the day. I've discovered that this half day work thing is turing out to be more difficult than I envisioned...too much to do in too few hours and everyone wants a piece of me when I am there so that I can't get things done and end up dragging everything home with me. ARGH....Plus my temerperment is changing and I can tell I am much less patient and tolerant of things lately. Hmmmm.... Pregnancy hormones?? Maybe. Or maybe I just need to tak e a chill pill and let some things go.

Val, I used the Medela bags and some of the gerber bags that a friend gave me. The gerber bags work fine, but are a bit thinner than the Medela ones, I thought. A friend also gave me some microwave sterilization bags from Medela for steralizing the breast pump parts...those work great and you can reuse them a few times over to make them more effecient. For those of you who are breastfeeding, the hospital will PROVIDE YOU with the kit (tubes, milk cups/bottles, and breast shields) if you ask for it. Definietly do so...then you will have 2 sets and won't have to wash the same set each time in between feedings (what a pain!).

So happy to hear that Blossom came back...HOORAY! And also glad that Jill wrote...she sounds like she is really holding up well. What a strong woman! I can't wait to see those updated pics!

okay....gotta get some paperwork done. See you later, ladies!

Tina